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In Our Hearts We thought of you today. But that is nothing new. We thought about you yesterday. And days before that too. We think of you in silence. We often speak your name. Now all we have are memories And your picture in a frame. Your memory is our keepsake. With which we’ll never part. God has you in his keeping. We have you in our heart. -Unknown- NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 51

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HENRIETTATRGIBYUATEWBYAH BOTWE Then I heard a voice from heaven saying unto me “blessed are the dead who died in the Lord from now on, yes says the spirit, they will rest from labour for their deeds follow them” Rev 14:13 God looked around his garden and found an empty place. He then looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face and lifted you to rest and whispered, “peace be thine”. It broke our heart to lose you, but you did not go alone as part of me went with you the day God called you home. Agya Kwabena as I affectionately called him as a father was every bit of a protector I needed. As a friend, he provided a listening ear whenever I For all of us you gave your best, now it is time for you to needed one and gave advice when necessary. The rest. You left us beautiful memories. encouragement and words of wisdom my father gave me when I was young proved very useful even in my Your love is still our guide and though we cannot see old age. I could not have asked for a better parent and you, I know you will always be by our side. grandfather for my children. You were a blessing unto us and for that, we say thank you. Rest well Agya Kwabena. Obrempong da yie! Our family will never be the same because nobody can Your memories live on! be compared to your selfless acts and non-judgmental Damirefa Due! character, despite your many shortcomings. As I was with you during your last moments in your wonderful journey on earth, I realized my time with you was not enough, but I am grateful I will be able to properly lay you to rest. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 53

TRIBUTE BY EMMANUEL AGYEKUM YEBOAH & AMA NIMAKOAA YEBOAH “For we know that when this tent we live in-our body here on earth is formed down, God will have a house in heaven for us to live in, a house he Himself has made which will last forever” D2Cor 5:1eath they say is inevitable, but one does not come to terms with it. Our hearts are deeply broken by you leaving us suddenly. You may be gone but we know your spirit will always be with us and continue to live on. As grandchildren, we fondly called you grandpa and we looked on you as your face lit up whenever we called. He could never keep a frown and always had a way of making us laugh. He was more than a grandfather to us. We remember as kids, because we enjoyed traveling, we mostly spent our holidays in and around Tafo and he made sure to visit us and ask us to accompany him to his various appointments. These and many more memories will be cherished forever. Grandpa was a man of faith and inspired us all to be God-fearing. Not only did he give us great genes and handsome features he also imbibed in us virtues of fruitfulness, love, kindness, and forgiveness. Today, we stand here to give this tribute in the memory of our grandfather who was an extraordinary man and was committed to each one. For this, we want to say thank you for blessing us with individuals we look up to as parents. Nana Amankrado, Rest well! You will forever be in our hearts! 54 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

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TRIBUTE BY BY REV. IRENE NKANSAH “God took the strength of a mountain and the majesty of a tree.” The warmth of a summer sun, the calm of a quiet sea. The generous soul of nature and the comforting arm of right. The wisdom of the ages and the power of the eagle’s flight, The joy of a morning in spring and the faith of a mustard seed, The patience of eternity and the depth of a family need, Then God combined these qualities, When there was nothing more to add, He knew His masterpiece was complete, And so, He called Nit...... “dad” ana Okyereh Adjabeng Botwe, I affectionately called you ‘Kwabena’. No words would suffice as I try to piece them together in celebrating who you were, have been, and will be in my life. For me, you have been my bedrock and anchor, all rolled into one, and my memories of you will forever be etched on my heart. You have been a loving father to me. In fact, you have been more than a father. You effortlessly bonded with me in a way I only could flow along.So many memories, where do I start from and how do I end? Your loving kindness! Yes, your very humane presence is one that will dwell in the pores of my skin forever. You showered your children with unrivalled love in a way that is so unique. I remember clearly your incessant visits to me while I slept as a child. You would turn me from time to time in the night and your objective was 56 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

a master stroke; to ensure that I do not develop any especially issues on Easter. These are moments I would ailment due to sleeping in a particular posture for too relish forever. long a time. Looking back at this, I am humbled having to know Dad, one of your many distinguished qualities I admired how it goes as I raised children of my own. Dad, you and upheld was your virtue of being so dedicated to practically fed me. Everything was for Nana Yaa. You duty. You exhibited sheer tenacity when discharging your provided us with everything we needed in life. In you, responsibilities. This attitude was one that I especially I found a balance which you brought into my life. Your sought to emulate in my various fields of endeavour. At a provision of food items, protection, and guidance to time, we called you “Kwadaso “because of how you were each one of us in almost the same measure is what has always on the farm when you came to pension. knit us together as a family up to this time. ‘Kwabena’ one gift you bestowed on us was the desire I wish to assure you, dad, that I will never let you down. to have us educated to any level we desired to attain. These are words I often told you. I do maintain same and You never relented in this endeavor; the financial together with your children, will uphold the virtue you commitment, the counseling, and the myriad of ways by instilled in us. which you saw us through in academics is one thing my siblings and I will forever cherish. Dad, heaven must be a happy place, for they have you! Nana, you were a man of few words but with so many class acts. I remember when I bore a baby and you We mourn your leaving us, but we are comforted because would visit with lots of foodstuff in a pick-up and would you are in a better place, holding our prayers and love in a say that, you only wanted to see to it that, I would look beautiful hollowed place in your heart. revitalized for my husband and the baby. You provided all that a nursing daughter would need. Agya papa, do rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord. I vividly recall that anytime we were home, you would Amen make sure that even in lights out there were enough changeable lamps in every room and corridor and for NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 57 that, we used to call you a man of torch lights. Your generosity was one of its kind. You were so generous that, you had no restraint in giving to anyone who needed your resource. This was a virtue that you expertly distilled through the years and even in your old age; you exhibited this trait by giving your grandchildren lots of gifts. Dad, you ushered us into a life of sharing. We shared everything. One thing which I cherished most is sharing the word of God. You shared your biblical insight with me after seeking my opinion on some topical issues,

TRIBUTE BY DR. THEOPHILUS NKANSAH Asew, Grandpa, Da, you were all of these to me! The news of your passing came to me as a shock! I still cannot take it in as a stark reality. But for how long can I remain in this state of denial. I came into your family as far back as my secondary school days. You accepted me as a son, and you became a father to me. I stayed on until you gladly accepted me as a son-in-law, still remaining a father to me. You were undeniably very much involved in every I remember vividly the last time I saw and spoke with step of my development. You were very instrumental you when you were on admission at the New Tafo in setting me on a career path that has contributed to government hospital. I remember telling you all would making me what I am today. During rough and slippery be well. Little did I know that was my last time of seeing times in my marriage, you were always there to provide you! objective and unbiased pieces of advice, sharing your own experiences with me to encourage me. Asew, you have done your bit! You have served Okyeman! You have served Tafoman! You have left behind a great You always amazed me with your deep humility and legacy for generations to come! respect in the way you related to me. You were always there to provide guidance on traditional issues when I Rest well, asew! Rest well, Grandpa! Rest well, Dada! lost my mum, and my dad. You were there for us during Rest well, Nana! those dark and difficult moments of our lives, and for this, my family and I will forever remain grateful to you. We are separated physically, but you will forever remain in our hearts! Grandpa, Dada, Asew, Nana, memories of me sitting close to you and engaging in a father-son conversation Da Yie, Nana! flood my mind as I type these lines, and my eyes are suffused with tears! No, it cannot be true that you are gone for good! Truly,man’s life on earth is but a shadow! We are here today, and tomorrow we are gone! 58 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TRIBUTE BY DERRICK KOFI NKANSAH In time,there is a forever; In spirit,there is a forever but the body of man has no knowledge of a forever. The very strong aged shall pass, the very weak aged shall go on. The strong youth shall pass, the weak youth too same. Death knows no differential. If death could differentiate, grandpa’s body would not have been laid in state for viewing. If death had a protocol list, I am sure your seat would be among the kings and kinsmen. Grandpa was a man with a good heart; a father by nature and a good leader by all standards. He touched many lives; some around him and others far off. A very selfless man who had all his eyes on satisfying others. He was a wonderful grandfather to add to it. I remember how you would make sure there is enough bread available whenever you had information that I was going to be home. I have not forgotten how you used to make available all the cocoa breakfast products CRIG has ever produced.You would sit at your usual position and ask that I sit with you to take our hot cocoa drinks. Then your question would always follow, “Kofi, na adwuma mu te sɛn?”, “ɛyɛ aa, wo hwehwɛ wo sewaa mo?”. I would gladly answer these questions and then the conversation would continue to diverse topics. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 59

I will never forget the very advice you gave to me before TRIBUTE BY I started working. I still have that advice very close at heart grandpa. A man of a few words yet very powerful ABNENKAANSSAAFHOA ones that transform lives. Kwabena was how I affectionately called you. Your way of This man was very brainy too. How you still marked WAEC showing love was in a different form. Grandpa would not papers in Geography even at old age was wonderful. talk much. Grandpa would come to Kumasi and arrive with I doubt there is a man who can totally replace your a bag full of plantain chips. He would give everyone one and absence. We may have to replace you with many others give me about 10 and say “Abena wo deɛ menim sɛ wo pɛ to be able to close this gap created by your absence. paa nti na metɔ berɛɛ wo” I knew you were not well. I knew you were getting You would visit Tafo and if you do not look for him in the weak as the days went by, but I also knew and believed morning,he would walk to you and say,“Eii My wife so as you that, you would fight through like you always did. I woke up, would you not come and look for your husband?”. never thought you would leave this way. I just want to believe that, love a powerful tool like always is what Akora, your death came as a shock because we all knew you could defeat your strong will to leave. I am sure you are to be a very strong man. Even after grandma’s death, you there with grandma still having your trivial quarrels and were our stronghold. Even though you were also bereaved, taking breakfast together. Oman, I now get home in Tafo and there is no draught game ongoing. I get home and No one asks me about bringing “atadwe”. I get home and there is no maize and ground nut ready for me. There is No one to tell me about the new biscuit in town. You are missed and will forever be missed. Death may know no differential, the body of man may know no forever. For we are spiritual men living in mortal bodies, and if this is so, then we shall cheat death and beat time by meeting in the forever as a family again. Till we meet again grandpa. Damirifa Due!!! 60 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

you found a way of consoling us while it was TRIBUTE BY supposed to be the other way round. Thank you for the good counsel and the love shown SAMUEL AKOTO NKANSAH towards us. The love of which you showed me would always ask me if I was Akora,our historian and herbalist.If one needed will always be the love I will show to satisfied and even go to the a massage, Grandpa would give you the perfect others as you taught me. You taught extent of mixing milo for me to ointment for it. Grandpa never gave something me lots of things including how enjoy. Grandpaa may the good to an individual; he would buy everything in to relate to people. The patience Lord bless you. bulk and share so that everyone in the house in which you use to solve issues is got a part of it. Whenever I needed answers what I remember most. You always Your love for draught (dame) to questions concerning Tafo, I would call and told me to keep quiet when angry was so great that we could not grandpa would take his time to give me all the because words spoken cannot be even understand. Who will call details I needed. taken back. me to play dame? Although I am not so good with it you always Grandpa, on our last meeting, you promised You always made sure everyone found a way to make me learn me that you would be coming to Kumasi until around you was satisfied and happy. the game. You made me love grandma’s funeral, but…(sighs). We had plans, I Grandpaa I never thought I will ever the game so much. Your stories already I laid your bed awaiting your arrival had come to Tafo and you would not be about the olden days were so started preparing your soup. Little did I know there. You always made my stay in much appreciated, mostly the that, you would not get to eat or sleep on that Tafo a happy one. You would say, ones about Tafo. well laid bed. “Papa de3 waakye na wop3 b3gye k)t) bi na b3 di”. After supper you Grandpa, sometimes I feel Grandpa, we believe you are in a better place no one knows me, no one and so we will cry less and rejoice that you are understands me, no one loves with your maker. me but not you. You were always there for me. You cared, I love you Kwabena. you appreciated the little good Damirifa Due Grandpa, in me. Da yie Amankrado Aww Grandpa I will forever be You’ll forever live in our hearts.Death may know grateful, I will forever love you, no differential, the body of man may know no I will forever remember you. forever. For we are spiritual men living in mortal bodies, and if this is so, then we shall cheat GRANDPAA NYAME NFA WO KRA death and beat time by meeting in the forever NSIE YIE. as a family again. DA YIE ME NANA PAPABI. Till we meet again grandpa NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 61 Damirifa Due!!!

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TRIBUTE TO THE BEST FATHER EVER BY EVELYN AKWETEA-FOLI Odo yewu, Odo, Odo, Odo, Odo yewu. Today, I mourn the passing of my wonderful father and yet Nyame ne do no di adansi se Odo yewu celebrate his life. TOdo,Odo,Odo,Odo yewu A life dedicated to his family, his town, and humanity. his is a song Dad thought my elder sister and I when I was about 6 years old. He was Daa, I never knew I would be writing your tribute few weeks a little under the weather and was resting after that of Mum. You were made a chief whilst we were at home and took the opportunity to spend still young, and we had to most often stay without you but quality time with us. your time with us was so different. Thank God you were transferred from Tafo and so we were together once again. A Family Head, eldest of ten children, a Husband, an Uncle, a Father, a Teacher, an Examiner, a Director of In our early years it was a delight to go to the farm with Education, a Farmer, the right-hand man to Osabarima, Dad, he loved cooking, so you would be satisfied with fresh a Chief and my Dad, Nana Agyabeng Okyereh Botwe. food before going back home (Akaw, Mpehuu, Sawsaw, plantain, and sometimes fufu when he got bush meat, Daddy, a man of many facets but he delivered all his domo {mushroom from palm trees} and others). I spent responsibilities so well to the admiration of many. some holidays with him alone on his farms just to attend to his cocoa. We slept in mud houses, with no light, no radio, and no TV but very enjoyable because communication was excellent. Daddy never spoke to me with harsh words, yet, his calm nature, patience, tolerance, and understanding did not compromise his sense of discipline I generously benefitted from. He always assured us, that he had nothing to give as a teacher, but he would sacrifice everything to finance our education to whatever level we wanted to. He was my favorite counsellor and my motivation to attain higher heights in education. Grandpa as the children call him, always had something in his cloth for us whenever he went out. Even at my age, he was still doing it anytime I visited. It could be roasted corn, NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 63

roasted plantain, biscuits, doughnut, fruits, or anything his nine children work with Cocoa Research Institute of Ghana he believes will be difficult to find in Accra. This gesture (CRIG) where he was known, although some of us wanted to. did not end in Tafo. Anytime he visited, you should expect Dad is synonymous with honesty. He would truthfully account a car full of goodies and foodstuff. His arms were always to you to the last pesewa on anything you put in his care. open when I needed a hug. His heart understood when I needed a friend, his gentle eyes were stern when I needed Akora, I enjoyed taking you to see your doctors, both at Korle Bu a lesson, and knowing that he was always an arm stretch and SSNIT hospitals because we had a lot of time for ourselves away gave me strength when I faced trials. and caught up on missed opportunities. Daddy never bought things in singles. He always had The last four days I spent with daddy before his demise will in mind to give some out to others. Can you believe he forever live with me. Daddy did not show any sign of leaving. bought a bed sheet in Tafo and called me to come for it? He walked to the hospital by himself. Dad ate all his food that Our home is in darkness because Daa is not around. Dad fateful morning and we prayed together. could have about 10 lamps of different shapes and sizes at a time just to lighten the house when the lights are off and Just 15 minutes out of his sight and he was gone. sometimes give one to each of us. Daddy, it’s so difficult to come to terms with this reality. I knew As far as I am concerned, Daa was the ideal father, the most you would go someday but not this soon especially when we intelligent and wise man on earth. He could host different were planning Mum’s farewell. I wish you had stayed longer families the whole day just to settle disputes and family so I could enjoy you some more, but God knows best and has issues. He helped me handle my children’s homework on called you home to rest. Yes, I will mourn, but for a season, a number of subjects. A month after his demise Monica I’m told, yet I will celebrate your life forever. Not a day passes brought home a Twi assignment I could not handle, she without you coming to mind. I miss you so much and you will said ‘’mummy call grandpa ee”. He spoke with wisdom forever be missed. and no matter how angry you were, you would always leave his presence sober. Dad gave me a reason to marry Rest well, Daddy! when I felt I would be ok without it. Dad held no grudges Rest well, my friend! and easily forgave and never wanted to hurt a fly. Rest well, my Sweetheart! Grandpa was so caring beyond imagination. He called every week to check on my family and I miss this very much. Tell him you are not well, and he will wake you up from bed the following morning with his presence. He did not have much, but he wanted to give us the world. Daddy will do anything for us except ask his friends to help us. He knew many influential people but will never ask for help for his children or himself.With just a phone call daddy could get us any school of our choice or a good place of work but he believed we should earn it,the reason none of 64 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TR(INBUATNEATAOGYMEYBFEANTGHBEORT-INW-LEA)W BY JAMES AKWETEA-FOLI Though I had no pet name for you like your to me, the next is lessons in culture and tradition. Akan wife, the love you exhibited from the very folklore & pronunciations, geography lectures, farming first day of my introduction was very deep. techniques, etc. You instantly thought me of the cultural antecedents linking Ewes to the Akans. Then When my dad passed on ten years ago, you led a on our wedding day when the officiating minister asked, powerful delegation of family members and elders “who is giving this lady to this man?” Your response was “I fromTafo in a hired tro-tro to attend the funeral.A similar am giving my daughter to James -my beloved son” trend followed when we held the final funeral rites of my mother. These gestures surprised my family and for That response blew my family and I away for a very a very long time, we took a cue and also went to such long time. My late Dad always referred to that response functions in hired vehicles rather than using individual whenever I paid him a visit and he inquired of you. means of transportation. Though walking has been a bit difficult in these last years of your stay here, you “Beloved” has been my second name to you. Anytime attended all functions without reservations. I visit or vice versa, James my beloved is the name that follows. After the pleasantries, ensuring food is served Nana, the little I know of you in the past two and a half or so decades that I met you is that you made your home our home. You were constantly and consistently concerned about the academic performance of your granddaughters, our work-related issues, my siblings and their spouses, and the extended family as a whole. I sincerely enjoyed your company and tutelage in culture,history,and conflict resolutions.I will sorely miss you but believe so strongly that you are in the bosom of the Almighty God and resting with him. Fare thee well Nana Agyebeng… Xede Nyiue as my folks would say… Damifra Due, Nana… Grand Paa Da yie…. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 65

TRIBUTE TO GRANDPA BY JAYLYN AKWETEA-FOLI “How can the dead be truly dead when they still live in Grandpa was selfless. I do not recall a day when we travelled to Tafo and no one came to see Grandpa. Ithe souls of those who are left behind? – Carson McCullers He always had time to attend to the needs of his t is shocking how we were all mourning the passing of townspeople. Even during Grandma’s one-week Grandma in January, planning and creating committees celebration, when Grandpa needed time alone to mourn towards her funeral, not knowing that it would be the his wife, he still had people coming to visit and he had last time we would be seeing you again. Fast forward, time to sit with them and listen to them. He was also in March, I heard the sad news that Grandpa had kicked very generous in giving my sister and I gifts such as fruits, the bucket. bread, snacks, money, “aburo ne nkatie”, just to name a few. He always got my sister and I sorted whenever we Grandpa, as I remember him, was a family man. He was came to visit. always joyous when we came together in our numbers as a family to celebrate one event or another. I remember during One trait of Grandpa I really admired was his wisdom. one of the family all-night prayer meetings, after the service, He was so wise and intelligent, probably the “King he admonished all of us to make time and come for family Solomon of his day”. It is no wonder that he rose in the gatherings. He really made time to be with the family. ranks of academia: he was a teacher, then became a head teacher, an examiner of WASSCE where he marked Grandpa was also a man who loved tradition. He never Geography papers, and soon became a Chief Examiner. missed a durbar or a festival or a funeral. Aside him being Even in his old age, he was consulted regarding the a sub-chief, the passion with which he spoke narrating marking of scripts. He did not easily forget, and even at folklore, made it so interesting to listen to that I always age 90, he had a sharp memory. I am sure it is the reason anticipated hearing a story from him whenever we travelled why many, if not all his grandchildren are excelling in to Tafo. Grandpa would always make sure we practiced their academics and their various fields of study; they “amammere” (the Ghanaian way of receiving visitors as he definitely inherited it from him. We will forever miss you called it) whenever we came to visit him. I personally never Grandpa. struggled back in basic school while doing Twi Oral Tradition, because I knew my Grandpa “got my back” and it was part of Odupon bi atutu. Nana ako akuraa. Rest in peace, the reasons why I excelled in the language. Grandpa! Da yie, Chief Examiner! Damirefa Due, Nana! 66 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TDREIABRUTESETTGORMAYNDFATHER BY ELAINE AKWETEA-FOLI Time passes in a twinkling of an eye, that the rest of the household was confused. How we could It will be time to say goodbye look at the various maps of different parts of the world and God’s plan is taking these days, discuss the mineral and population aspects of the maps and Now I will leave without a trace, eventually you would doze off, leaving me to wonder about To go home to a better place, this fascinating world. I came and did what was left to do, Now I know my time is through, Nana was really an academic, who used to advise us about God will come back and save you too. studying. Grandpa also used to teach us about our heritage, where we come from, and tell us native stories like that of - Katheryn Foley Ananse.I remember how grandpa could give us a lot of fruits, vegetables, bread and other goodies whenever we visited. LMy lovely Grandpa, eaving us without saying goodbye was How I used to go about bragging that my grandfather was a unlike you. Moving on without telling us chief. My chief is gone. My mighty warrior has left me. Even where you were going was something I recently when we visited him and grandma (of blessed did not know about you. Was it not just last memory) during Christmas last year, grandpa bought us September we were all happy celebrating ‘alansa’ because he knew how my mum and I loved that fruit your 90th birthday in grand style? and how we consumed them a lot. I have a lot of questions to ask, but I cannot. I also dare not question God because he I remember vividly the priest prayed that you lived long created you and he knew what time you had to return to while we all screamed a resounding amen. Not even him. Thank you so much for making a great impact in my life. a year later and you have moved on to eternity. I had not gotten over grandma’s death and yours came with Thank you for making me a better person. another blow, a different pain on its own. To say I miss you is an understatement. Grandpa, rest in peace. Nana Botwe Damrifa Due Grandpa, I remember the time when you were living Due! Due!! Due!!! with us during my final year in high school. I remember how you and I could talk about Geography so much so NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 67

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A TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF MY FATHER BY ERIC ASARE BOTWE Nana Agyebeng Okyereh Botwe who be so soft.Daa was so furious and rewarded my curiosity was known as Daa to me was a man of with the flogging of my life. I went straight to bed with many exceptional parts. He was a father my very sore body afterwards. everyone would have been excited to have; full of love for all and sundry and Another time,I was on our porch with Daa and we saw a yet he would not hold back on discipline once deserved. snake on one of the trees.The interesting thing is instead of trying to kill it, we called others who were far away One of the childhood memories I cannot forget of my for help. By the time they came, the snake was nowhere Dad,happenedwhilewelivedonthecampusoftheOfori to be found and I was of the impression that it must have Panin Senior Secondary School. Daa was a geography entered our house. Folks, I was on tenterhooks, thinking teacher at the time. One day, upon my return from that a snake could appear from any part of the house. school, Daa had bought some very soft and beautiful Daa found my state of fear amusing as he went to bed. I leather seats. While Maa was getting lunch ready and then went to bed a bit more relieved knowing that Daa my siblings were changing out of their school uniforms, would not have gone to sleep knowing there was a my curiosity got the better of me and I took a blade and snake in the house. ripped the seat apart wondering how the leather could Daa had mastery over Geography as a course of study 70 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE irrespective of the aspect; Human Geography,Mapwork, among others. He could teach it at whatever level of education. It did not matter whether it was for the O’levels, A’levels, or at the University level. Daa would find time to teach you, find you suitable course material, and simplify the course content so that it was easy for his students to pass the examinations. It was no surprise that Geography was one of my favourite subjects as a student. Daa did not only teach Geography. He was also an examiner with the West African Examination Council (WAEC).He rose through all the various levels to become a Chief Examiner. His questions were not only tricky but were also very demanding in answering. Daa

had very simple tips and short notes for his students Daa’s lobbying skills were exceptional. It is astonishing to pass their exams. The Council always invited him to that he did not end up as a politician. He would also set past questions, invigilate, mark scripts and actively ensure that the schools he led had all they needed participate in activities that had to do with Geography to excel. He would readily go to see the Minister of exams. Education in Accra just to get the necessary resources for his students and teachers. His dynamism as Headmaster Our passion as Daa’s children for administrative was greatly admired by all. excellence can be traced to his examples. He would be early to rise and the last to sleep having carried out Our Daddy of many parts was a great Agriculturist. all his duties as expected. He only carried work home He harvested different fruits, palm nuts, cash crops, when necessary and made sure it was completed by firewood, and other plants for medicinal purposes as morning. As an assistant Headmaster who later became he was a firm believer in herbal medicine rather than the Headmaster and then a Director of Education, he Western medicine. The produce of these farms was not had a penchant for disciplining, directing, and guiding only for our benefit. They were also a source of support all those who were in his care. for low-income families. The values of hard work and generosity were learnt as we assisted in tending to these farms and sharing the produce with others, especially those who needed them the most. As a Christian, Daa played a leading role in the development of the African Methodist Episcopal (AME) Zion Church in Akyem Tafo. He often fraternised with members of other branches of the Church. Daa did not mind that most of us in his household were members of the Methodist Church, Ghana. He was satisfied with the fact that we were growing up as true Christians. He was fully supportive of our development in the Methodist Church, Ghana and never questioned our investment in the Church. Nana Botwe occupied the halls of tradition especially that of Tafo for about 45 years as the Amankrado. He effortlessly and passionately discharged his obligations as a royal. Without a shadow of doubt, Nana Botwe was abreast with the traditional roles associated with the stool; from the pouring of libation, gathering firewood for the Ohum Festival, running around the periphery of Tafo during Ohum, going to Agyepremso and then to participating in grand durbars. Nana Botwe could NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 71

recite various chronicles and testaments on traditions Grandpa always played a leading and active role in and customs. Nana Botwe became an institution in his various family events, especially in marriage ceremonies own right and among many other things, he could also and funerals. He would admirably ensure that the delineate the boundaries of towns without reference to programme is always a success. Once I informed Grandpa any maps or topographical sheets. that I was interested in marrying Afia Serwah, Grandpa as the connoisseur in customary matters, looked into Daa was a great cook.The meals could be continental or her background; right from Kyebi, to Anyinase and then local; or even light to heavy. He could cook by himself or Tafo. He visited her parents, fraternised with the family assisted by others in order to also provide meals which and formed relationships which were the basis of strong will be enjoyed by the village folk. When we went to bonds needed for a new marriage. the farm, we went without any food from home. The three meals of the day were usually cooked right from Grandpa as the head of our home was such an the farm. We would harvest the plantain and other impeccable father that I had the best example to look foodstuffs we wanted and catch fish from the river. The up to in running my home. One thing Grandpa clearly food available was enough to take care of many homes believed in was eating any food that was served once and families and not only to feed us while at the farm. it was done by his wife. He was not fussy with food. In He promoted the preparation of local delicacies like: other words, once grandpa was concerned, every meal εto, Akaw, Mpihuu, Sawsaw, Nkyekyerewa, Mpanpa served to him was sumptuous and had to be enjoyed. (Kotorokgo) baked or toasted plaintain, Cocoyam, Yam Grandpa showed so much love towards me and the or Sweet Potato or brobe members of my household that we always looked forward to enjoying his company. Daa was a known sports enthusiast. He enjoyed participating in various sporting disciplines and indoor games such as hockey, draughts, playing of cards, and oware, among others. He also encouraged us to participate in any discipline we were interested in. Daa was a good sport; Never would he insult or raise his voice against an opponent or his teammates; character traits I exhibit as a skillful tennis player. He was also such a peaceful man; Particularly on playing draughts, Daa who eventually became known as Grandpa to many of us, at his advanced age of 91 years was a champion and could rub shoulders with his contemporaries like Agya Boadi and relatively younger minds like Rev. Kwesi Kyere and Daniel Achana just to mention a few. It was always such a spectacle witnessing them play. 72 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

Grandpa was such a force to reckon with among his Grandpa during Christmas or some other occasion extended family. If leadership was personified, that would string together all these interesting words full of would definitely be grandpa. He managed to play warmth just to shower endless blessings on Afia and I in various leading roles among the Asene, Botwe, Okyere appreciation of the performance of what is our duty and and Allied Families. He provided great wisdom and would send us messages such as these; was committed to bringing all and sundry together to achieve the family’s cause while remaining united and ‘‘Congrats. You have done good, very commendable, benefitting from Grandpa’s rich cultural background. and great work. God GIVES you His mercy & Grace, His Blessing in all your endeavours in JESUS NAME. Grandpa I have really missed receiving text or WhatsApp Thank you & Maame Afia for caring so much for us. messages from you. Grandpa used to have this teacher Happy Christmas to you & your family. Perfect Peace who expressed himself in flowery language and so & PROSPERITY in JESUS NAME. I was very very happy sometimes to be funny, Grandpa would use similar yesterday. I salute you, Good morning. THANK YOU’’. words in sending messages. I really used to look forward to receiving messages from Grandpa since it ‘‘God BLESS you, make you & your families excel in all would cause me to smile or laugh anytime, I read them. your endeavours, give you perfect peace, Good health, wisdom & LONG life. Thank you for the great honour & exhibition of deep LOVE to me. I appreciate so much your concern for me, your mother & anyone related to us. I love you. Grace & Mercy from our Great God be upon you in JESUS NAME. Cheers!!! THANK YOU.’’ ‘‘Felicitous appreciation & gratitude from Mr. Duah’s children, wife & family for our support on his week celebration. Thanks. The burial & funeral will take place on 21st November, 2020 at Old Tafo.” ‘‘Beautiful. You deserve more “wishes of grandeur “ God give you grace and protect you from all perils and dangers in JESUS NAME’’. I would miss receiving all these birthday and success wishes such as these, filled with many blessings and appellations meant to encourage and wish the children well; NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 73

‘‘HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY. GOD BLESS YOU RICHLY IN JESUS NAME. WITH YOUR TRUTH, SINCERITY & LOVE, “BEING YOUR BROTHER’S KEEPER” GOD WILL KEEP YOU, PROTECT YOU & MAKE YOU SUCCEED IN ALL YOUR ENDEAVOURS IN JESUS NAME. AFENHYIA PA AFE NKO MEGU WO MFE SO. OMA WO MFE BEBIREE, OHA NE AKYIRE, A AHOODEN WO MU NA ASOMDWOE NSO WO MU. ONYAME NHYIRA WO NE WO YERE (BOAFO PA NO) NE WO MMA. WO ADWUMA NKO SO FROM FROM. HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY HURAAAAAH! ASARE KONTIMAAKO OTUO BEFOM ASARE. WO TI NKWA OOOOO! GOOD MORNING, HAVE A GOOD DAY.’’ ‘‘Nana Afua Agyebeng, Katakyie, okofo, Nana Hemaa, oberempon a okura nkonim, akwaaba Onyame ahy3 wo Ahenkye deda. You will come out successfully with excellent grades in the name of Jesus. Be of good cheer. God bless you. Good night.’’ Once Grandpa became aware that I have almost arrived in Tafo, he would apprise me of the status on food at home; ‘‘Your fufu is almost ready, waiting for your instructions to complete. Stew for Amissah’s ampesie is prepared, inform us when you start from Kibi’’. He would also update me of his schedule once he arrived in Accra inviting me for consultations; 74 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

‘‘Arriving in Accra today at 1.00pm at Ike’s house. I am seeing my Dr. tomorrow by 9.00am. I am available for any consultations.’’ Now that you are no more, who would I seek counsel from Nana? Your loss is such a tragedy. As soon as Grandpa became aware that I had done something untoward, he would send me a message. On one such occasion, his message read; ‘‘Kofi, I have heard with dismay an incident which involved the exchange of very sharp and harsh words between you and your mum. Please reconcile immediately without allowing anyone to hear about it. Explanations are irrelevant. Cheers!’’ …. Obviously, the Old man had spoken and all I did was to comply; No questions asked. Grandpa, truth be told, this is a very difficult period for us. Your loss has been such a big blow to us, and we are deeply hurt by it. The twi proverb ‘’Odupong kɛseɛ bi atutu’’ (a mighty person has fallen) has never been truer than at present. Indeed, we have lost a gem. We had not even come to terms with Grandma’s death and then without a word your time on this side of life ended. I thought we would have you with us for many more years, to witness the marriages of more of your grandchildren but alas that was not to be. I will hold dear to my heart the memories we had with you and I pray that the good Lord grants you eternal rest in His bosom until the day of our Lord. Daa Due! Grandpa Damirifa Due!! Nana Botwe Due ne Amanehunu yi!!!  NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 75

TRIBUTE IN MEMORY OF NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE BY JUSTICE AFIA SERWAH ASARE-BOTWE and would ask Mr. Botwe for help and would jokingly say, “Help me, and I will give my daughter to your son.” As fate would have it,Eric and I did get together eventually by a convoluted means which will be fodder for another tale some other day. I started by calling him “Nana”, then “Dada” and then when the girls and their cousins came along, “Grandpa”. “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called Grandpa was a man of few words but with keen observation. sons of God”. (Matthew 5:9) English Standard Version Our conversations were not trite, but about the weightier things of Law, History, and Culture. If he had questions on WDear Grandpa,e are in a very sad place. Things the position of the law on some subject, he would ask for have not been the same since clarification. Grandpa had a keen mind. He never lost his Grandma and then, you also left us. memory on anything, whether it was boundaries or events. In fact, we have all lost a veritable colossus of a library and My relationship with Grandpa, I Encyclopedia! was told by my Mum, the late Mrs. Grandpa was an avid “WhatsApper” sending all sorts of messages that he thought would keep us safe. The best part of Charity Asare, started long before we met. The story Grandpa’s messages was his use of the English Language. He wrote classical Queen’s English. is that Grandpa and my Mum were mates in the Post For instance, on the day he wanted to inform us of Dada Graduate Certificate of Education (PGCE) class at the Yeboah’s passing, he wrote, “Alas, my dear brother has passed away.” Or he would end a message with “Cheers” or Cheerio”. University of Cape Coast in 1976 or so. He was a great teacher of Geography, a subject that I loved.We It turns out that Maa used to struggle with calculations could discuss topographical features whilst on a trip with great interest. 76 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE Grandpa had a sense of humour that could crack us up. For instance, he always said that he did not get the import of the idiomatic expression “raining cats and dogs” in reference to a

massive rainfall, especially as cats and dogs are small Grandpa was a responsible man. He did not take his animals. Why not say for instance that “it was raining duties in the family, church or the Palace lightly at all. He elephants and hippopotamuses”? So, between us, was particular about ensuring that we sent our support whenever it rained really hard, I would inform him that whenever such was needed. it rained “elephants and hippopotamuses”! In fact, when Grandma died, he made sure he had procured I was not the only one that Grandpa got on well with. all her bathing and burial items and wrote his tribute well Indeed, he had a great relationship with Dr. Bra Kofi, Bra before the funeral. I think he just gave up after that. Panin James and Dr. Osofo Ike. He loved all our children. In fact, he was such a great in-law that my daughter Grandpa was a person who abhorred discord. He would Nana Afia, named after him got the very special name make sure that such situations were not prolonged. In fact, “Ogom” as an Igbo would call a favoured in-law. The we have lost a stabilizing influence in this family. We pray funny thing is, for years, Grandpa, being one never to to God to grant us the fortitude and grace to survive as a intentionally offend anyone, never asked me why I family. Tafo is not the same with our anchors uprooted. called Nana Afia by that nickname, until he watched a Nigerian film in which someone was called by the name Nana, Dada, Grandpa, you are sorely missed! “Ogom”. My brothers, especially Dr. R.K were his special friends. They could pass by and visit at any time, and they were always welcome. Grandpa, on the other hand, was very easy to please and appreciated every kind gesture, no matter how small. He loved playing draughts. Okyeame Boadi was a constant companion. And when we came to visit for some of the weekends, my bodyguard would join in the competition. Theirs was a special bond. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 77

78 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE TRIBUTE IN MEMORY OF NANA AGYABENG OKYEREH BOTWE BY AMA SAFOA ASARE-BOTWE Abide with me! fast falls the eventide; The darkness deepens; Lord, with me abide! When other helpers fail and comforts flee, Help of the helpless, oh, abide with me. Swift to its close ebbs out life’s little day; Earth’s joys grow dim, its glories pass away; Change and decay in all around I see; O Thou who changest not, abide with me. I need Thy presence every passing hour: What but Thy grace can foil the tempter’s power? Who like Thyself my guide and stay can be? 2Through cloud and sunshine, oh, abide with me. nd March 2022 is a day I will certainly never forget. For me, it started out as a normal Wednesday with classes upon classes. I was sitting in one of these classes, when my phone started vibrating with messages. I remember thinking to myself what group was having such an interactive discussion that they would not let me have Contract Law class in peace. When I checked after class however, none of the messages were from the groups. I opened the first message and it read “Sorry for your loss again.” And

when I asked what again meant, the person replied the different types of rocks to me and how they were that I would soon find out. I began racking my brain formed. I never needed another classroom lesson on to try and figure out what the message meant, then I rocks after that. remembered that Grandpa was ill. As soon as it clicked, I called my mother, all the while silently praying that she Akora! We’ll miss you sorely. Tafo has become mute would deny it, but she did not. Her words to me when without you and Grandma. but we find comfort in the she picked my call were enough confirmation. “Ama, knowledge that you have gone to be with the Lord. don’t cry, you are in class, go out and let’s talk”. My fears Send our warmest regards to Grandma and the rest. were confirmed. Rest well Agya pa. Grandpa was the very example of what a grandfather Rest well, Grandpa. should be, ready with gifts in the form of biscuits, Rest well Nana Botwe. toffees, our favourite fruits, or cash pins in addition to May you rest in the bosom of the Father until we long stories about culture from his past. I am pretty sure meet again. that I inherited my love for culture and history from him. Damrifa due, due ne amanehunu. He would absolutely light up when anyone asked him any questions about culture. There was a time when I had an assignment asking for research into the history of the three Akyem clans. When everyone else was googling their answers, I had a primary source available to me. There was also a time when I was to do a cultural recital in school and when he found out, he personally got me the ahenema I used. It is not possible to talk about Nana Botwe without talking about Geography. He and Geography were as close as two coats of paint. He was indeed a master of anything that pertained to the subject, and he never hesitated to share this abundant knowledge with everyone. I personally recall an experience when we took a family trip to Boti Falls, after visiting the waterfall, we were taking a break in the shade, and our resting spot happened to have a perfect view of some rocks. Without missing a beat, Grandpa started pointing out NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 79

TRIBUTE IN MEMORY OF NANA AGYEBENG OKYERE BOTWE BY AFIA ADJABENG ASARE-BOTWE IneverthoughtIwouldbewritingthistributesosoon really looking forward to the next one where I would after writing Grandma’s. You lived a wonderful and see my aunts, uncles, cousins and all other relations influential life and I am forever grateful that I was coming together to celebrate you and the admirable life named after you, a man with so much wisdom, you lived but I think God had better plans in mind. strength, and discipline, not to forget your love for Geography. You gave great advice, and you had your way of talking to both adults and children, although you were a man I remember once I called because I needed help with of few words. Grandma’s death must have had a great my homework, and you started telling me even more toll on you for you to depart so soon afterwards,but I am than I needed to know. That was when I realised that forever grateful for these years I had with you. you were incomparable in this field. Grandpa, mummy no longer says “Moakɔkyea mo nana You were such a great person to be around. Nana anaa?”, because there’s no nana to greet. Although Agyebeng is what you used to call me, not the usual you were usually reserved, Tafo is unrealistically quiet Ogom. Director, you have done a great job raising without you. I really wish this was all a bad dream I your children, and grandchildren by extension. Daddy could easily wake up from but unfortunately, this is a always said you were never one to use the cane, but reality I would have to accept. The last interaction we no one dared to upset you. Your 90th was the last big had was when I was leaving for school after Grandma’s celebration we had for you, but I was in school. I was one week. If I had known it would be the last time, I would see you, I probably would have stayed a while 80 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE longer or never leave at all. Once again, I thank God for your life, your training and the discipline from which I benefit today. Nana Agyebeng, this name is not regular but one with a legacy which will continue even after your departure. Director, Nana, Dammrifa Due.

TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF GRANDPA BY NANA AKOSUA AFI ASARE-BOTWE It is never the same after a grandfather’s death, and for me, it wasn’t any different. Grandpa was like the glue that held this family together when he was alive. He also had a very kind heart. Let’s not forget the fact that he was wise. There were times when he spoke such wise words which altered my life forever, but unfortunately, his words have been eternally cut short. Now turned into proverbs and entombed in our hearts. I miss the times we spent together Grandpa. The little moments have become treasured memories. You were someone I looked up to, and even in death, you still are. Your death was so unexpected, but God called you so from the dust you must return, who do we question? Nonetheless, the day will come when we will meet again and rejoice in the Lord but until then, Grandpa, bien dormir et au revoir. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 81

How we shall laugh At the trouble Of parting When we meet again! HENRY SCOTT HOLLAND 82 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

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TRIBUTE TO NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE (GRANDPA) BY DR. ISAAC OHENEBA OSEI-AKOTO For if we live, we live to the Lord; and if we die, we die to the Lord. Therefore, whether we live or die, we are the Lord’s. (Romans 14:8) A golden heart stopped beating Hard working hands at rest Soft spoken mouth tight lipped, Hearts are broken to see you go. ATruly, God only takes the best t 1:25 am on the fateful day of March 2, 2022, at a location 10,851km from Accra and a time difference of 7 hours, I woke up from a dream of your demise. After prayers, I called Accra to check on you only to be greeted with wailings and news that you had just breathed your last. What I thought was just a dream was a valedictory visit. Despite your age, it still came as a shock because we spoke a week earlier and there was no indication that death was knocking. No time to say goodbye, you were gone before I could return, and only God knows why. Our hearts still ache in sadness and secret tears still flow, but I am comforted to know that this is not truly goodbye. It is simply ‘see you later”, for we shall surely meet at Jesus’ feet on the final day. Grandpa, to me you were more of a father than an in- law. When I came to you for a list of items required to take your daughter’s hand in marriage, you simply 84 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

said all you needed was the happiness and personal You epitomized “The Father of Love”. Your love for us development of Pat. My family insisted on getting a was authentic, sacrificial, unconditional, and knew carload of items to ‘avoid embarrassment’ but at the no bounds. Your loyalty and dedication to church and ceremony, you rejected all and stuck to your principle, service to God were truly inspiring. evenattheperilofloggerheadswithyourbrotherKwaku Annan. Nana, it is gratifying that I did not disappoint Grandpa you indeed fought the good fight, you have you during your lifetime and I am confident the grace finished the race and you have kept the faith. A crown that has brought us this far will cause us to abound in of righteousness awaits you with the righteous judge. what will make you proud even in death when you look down from your base in Abraham’s bosom. Fare thee well Nana. You will forever remain in our hearts. Rest in Perfect Peace. We will forever remember your gentle spirit, soft calm voice, neatness, simplicity, and generosity.You went out of your way to serve the community and made a lasting impact on so many lives. Your legacy lives on. I have fond memories of the times we shared playing dame (draft) and listening to stories of your days at Wesley college and Legon, and your lessons on Akan culture and traditions. You were a mentor and even in our grief you are here with us all, here with us in the memories we have of you, here with us in the friendships you forged, here with us in the children, grandchildren, and families you helped to create, here with us now as we all are, together as one. May your good virtues live on within and outside the family. We pray your departure serves to unite the entire family to continue your good deeds and help lift and propel the family’s unity, image, and growth. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 85

TRIBUTE BY AMA TUTUWAA OSEI-AKOTO IDear Grandpa, cannot believe I am writing this letter to you. I guess I never thought about what it would be like when you would no longer be here. You have always been such a key part of my life; I never let myself consider what it might be like once you were no longer here with us. Although we are mourning your demise, I choose to remember the good and by doing so, I recognise that you will truly never be gone. Your dedication to our family and your humble path to success are some of your many qualities. I feel incredibly blessed that you were my grandfather. Grandpa, thank you for raising and creating such a strong, dependable family so that we can lean on one another in joyful and difficult times.Thank you for raising my mother to be the best version of herself who then raised me into being the best version of myself. Thank you for being present and giving me an endless supply of memories. Your labour, sacrifices, love, advice and the support you gave our family was unmatched. As a family, we would continue to benefit from the resources you invested into elevating each and everybody. I love you so much and I will miss you every day. But thankfully, this is not the final goodbye. Thankfully, we shared the same faith that this is not the end. I know I will see you again someday. I love you dearly, Ama Tutuwaa 86 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TRIBUTE TO GRANDPA BY ADWOA OHENEWAA OSEI-AKOTO Iloved my grandfather. He just always seemed like such a happy man, especially when my grandmother was around. I always saw him with a smile on his face, and that is what I will forever remember him by. I will remember him by the games we played under the mysterious tree and how he insisted on taking us to his farm. I will remember him by the basket of tea bread he usually organised for us with grandma when our family came to visit. His sweet smiles reflect in every memory I have of him. Picture this:We were all on the front porch when grandma discovered that her chicken laid about 3 eggs. Three miniature eggs, but fresh, nonetheless. Grandma immediately forgot about her initial mission and hurried over to the eggs. She grabbed one, held it to the sky and dashed around screaming, “fresh eggs! fresh eggs!” Grandpa smiled at his wife’s antics before playfully scolding her about how minute and derisory the eggs were. I will forever remember my grandfather as a blithesome, playful and respected gentleman. I miss him loads, but I am glad to say that my grandfather was the happiest man I will ever know. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 87

TRIBUTE BY TRIBUTE BY BRIANY BRIAN MOSEI-AKOTOy grandpa was one of the smartest GOSEI-AKOTOrandpa taught me many things, but men I knew. Our time together my favourite activity together was the usually included history lessons, board games we used to play under and conversations that allowed the orange tree. He would introduce my brother and I to know more my brother and I to his gaming about Ghana, its people and culture and life in general. buddies as his twin grandsons and we would either I remember back in the 3rd grade I had a history project observe their competitive but relaxed game or join in a about the tribes of Ghana and their festivals and unique game of dame, ludu or oware (local board games). identity. We called grandpa and he guided me through the entire assignment. Who needed google when you After a day filled with fun, grandpa would get George had a grandpa like mine? to pluck some fruits including oranges, guavas and Grandpa was a man of many interests and talents and his impressive farm never failed to amaze me. He was well- sugarcane (our personal favourite) from his farm which versed in the seasonal changes and how they affected was a source of pride and joy for him. each plant and would spend time educating my brother and I on this during our numerous farm tours. Grandpa set the best example of fatherly love and He was also fun and when he had energy would throw often left us with pieces of advice I will never forget. the ball for my brother and I to catch. This graduated to On the numerous occasions he came to visit us in Accra, him just watching us play from the veranda or under the he would bring along snacks such as yogurt which I tree as he got older. He showed his love and care for us always looked forward to. Anytime grandpa was about by organising someone to prepare a fruit basket for us to to leave, I knew I was about to be a few cedis richer go home with whenever we visited him. When he came over to Accra, we would spend time together with him because he would always leave us with money. watching tv or playing his favourite board games. I will forever miss his silver-white hair and subtle laugh I was saddened when I heard he had passed on which was because he was a gentleman. Grandpa has set because I was unable to see him one last time. I miss the pace for us boys in the family and we cannot be more him and his hugs so dearly, but I know he is in a better blessed for the example that we had in him. His words of encouragement and advice, I will never forget. Sending place and is looking down on me always. you a big hug grandpa, I love you dearly. Love you forever grandpa, 88 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE Your grandson, Brian.

TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER, ROLE MODEL & HERO NANA AGYABENG OKYERE BOTWE BY LAWRENCE NANA KWASI BOTWE Oh Death, how could you be so cruel to me? Dada, you did not end it during my childhood, but you Death, was Mama not enough for you? continued till death. Within a space of two months, you have succeeded in making me an orphan. Even as old as I am you would never travel or go to old Tafo and come home without bringing me a present no matter WIndeed, I’ve now understood the saying “owuo trimu ye din” how little it was. It taught me the lesson of not having the hen the mirror is broken you no longer see world’s riches before being generous and also, I learned your image. Since that dreadful Wednesday, appreciation from having a Dad that always provided for me. March 2nd, 2022 you departed this world to You are gone but your legacy still remains. I promise to hold join the saints, it has not been the same for on to these life lessons until we meet again. me. You were the mirror at which I looked at my life and now that you are gone my life is so empty that I Apart from being a family man, Dada was a great educationist. feel it in my soul. He taught me the importance of education. He never compromised on his children’s education. My father was the You were just the meaning of a father; a father who is caring only person who could pay your school fees in advance no and has the welfare of his children at heart. Fathers are matter the economic hardship that may be looming around. expected to be the breadwinners and not necessarily the No wonder he has raised mighty men and women. home keepers, but you played both roles perfectly. Why am I saying this? My father and playmate, you stepped in immediately mama left me.You were hiding in your own grief to make sure I was I remember as a child, you would bring us food you cooked fine. We were consoling each other. We were doing well in and ate in the farm. I was happy because I had food to eat, our own small way even though a great vacuum was created but little did I know you were not just giving us food but also in our hearts. teaching us life lessons. As an adult, I realised you created a solid father-son bond, no And so, I ask ‘‘why did you also decide to leave me by wonder I was so glued to you that I am still finding it difficult myself’’? Again, I ask, before you agreed to join your wife to accept the fact that you are no more. and ancestors, did you think of me? Did you think of whom I will watch Chelsea and Barcelona matches with? You would NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 89

always ask us to call you to watch your favourite team or social status. You also taught me to call a spade a Chelsea FC whenever they are playing. spade and not a small spoon even if it will cost me my life. Because of those lessons, my opinions have always Oh dad, I know you are not heartless so why could not been heard among my friends and love ones.I bless God you stay a bit longer for me? for having you as a father. I am who I am today because of your good counsel. Oh death! So how will I cope in Tafo after today? I thought you said you will be there for me when mama You have indeed fought a good fight. May your soul rest left? Was that promise supposed to last only for two peacefully in the arms of your creator. months? Hmmmmmmm! My heart is heavy, but I know God will take care of me. Until we meet again rest well Dada. Dada Nante yie! Dada, how can I forget your words of wisdom, your Kontihene Da yie! fairness and truthfulness? You taught me how I should Due ne amanehunu! respect all manner of people irrespective of their age 90 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TRIBUTE BY CHRISTIANA BOATEMAA BOTWE MDada,y heart bleeds each time I remember that Indeed, he was a peacemaker. He had a great mind that never you are no longer with us, but memories rested; thinking of ways to help others. You were a great of your loving and caring fatherly role husband and father who pushed his children as far as each could continues to linger in my heart forever. go. Papa was also a great family head to his extended family, I miss you, papa. We always think of and an exceptional teacher, an examiner and an educationist. Papa was my real superhero, the first man I loved profoundly. talk about you. I hope that my better half shortly will be like It hurts to remind myself, that you are no more. The days are you- kind, loving, thoughtful, God-fearing and most of all a much longer now. Good moments no longer count anymore, everything is boring without you Dada. I miss you so much. It is person who loves unconditionally. hard to get out of bed every day realising you are no more here. Our lives are definitely not the same as before without you. You were so amazing, an interesting person to be with, full of stories and folklores, so devoted to doing good works, I grew up to see this handsome, humble, God-fearing dad a man of few words, truthful, very humble and used your who loved us so much. Dada was so encouraging and fun to time efficiently. He never bore a grudge and never wanted be with. As kids, he always tried to make us happy by giving to offend anyone no matter the discomfort to himself. us delicacies, he called special but sometimes, I bet you, we will run away because to us, it was old fashioned. When Dada announced a trip to the farm, anyone available would love to be on board because there was always a special farm feast and Daa’s sweet pawpaw smoothie was just a tip of the iceberg of treats to come one’s way. He would always want to know your challenges both at school and in the house, checking your exercise books and reading through your notebooks to correct your mistakes. Dada was so sharp and intelligent. With Dada, you simply could not joke with your education and that is why his family house was called the Education House. I remember while I was a student at CRIG JHS, Dada would correct all the mistakes in my books and some of my teachers found that rather annoying except for Sir Gyimah who is currently the Headmaster of the Ofori Opanin Senior High SchoolN(AONPAASASG)Y. EBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 91

Dada was one not to discriminate. He treated his children Dada I was lucky enough to have you as my father, you and other children alike. He would call intermittently to have given me so much to remember for a lifetime. I check on everybody. He never missed birthdays or other think of all the memories and I cannot keep myself from important occasions and so it was important that his was missing you so badly. Agya, I can write an entire novel never missed as well given that he would always use the about you, but I need not to, because heaven knows no grading system. Dada used to celebrate his birthday a day book can contain the memories we shared. Dada, you after mine; mine was 21st and his was 22nd September. are the bravest Dad any child could ask for. I am grateful Awww!!, who will give me a prayer on my birthday? Oh!! I and pleased to be your daughter for the rest of my life am Adwoa and he was Kwabena. How Sad! and the next life to come. I will miss you always. I have missed going to programmes and places with you. Anyway Dada, the next time I write you a letter, my Who will affectionately call me ‘‘me sewaa’’ (Aunty)? Where father in Heaven, I probably would have prepared your will I find a Dad who would always help in bringing out the favourite; fufu with green soup. LOL! I am kidding; I am best in his children? Who will encourage me to fight ahead? just trying to make you laugh up there. Who will pamper me when I am not well because you always saw us as the babies you have always had? I never You are and will be forever in my heart. saw you as an old man because you were always available when the need arose. Sincerely, Adwoa Boatemaa Dada, there has not been a day you have not been missed. Wo sewaa No matter how many days have passed, your absence leaves me saddened. You were my role model, my one and only inspiration. I will forever try to live my life the way you taught us and continually be the peacemaker that you always called me. Your legacy would still live on. You were not just a father but also my best friend. I lost both at once. How I wish everything was just a bad dream. You taught me to be strong, but you never taught me how to avoid missing someone so badly. 92 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

Remember me Remember me when I am gone away, Gone far away into the silent land; When you can no more hold me by the hand, Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay. Remember me when no more day by day You tell me of our future that you planned: Only remember me; you understand It will be late to counsel then or pray. Yet if you should forget me for a while And afterwards remember, do not grieve: For if the darkness and corruption leave A vestige of the thoughts that once I had, Better by far you should forget and smile Than that you should remember and be sad. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 93

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TRIBUTE BY your most adorable Kaakyire. MGLORIA (KAAKYIRE)any are the days, weeks and months Just like the rock in the middle of the ocean, you have which have passed but I am yet to set remained unmovable and mute to the strong waving my eyes on you. I am still battling to current of my calls. How can the very rock of comfort accept this FALSE TRUTH; that nature has and protection ignore the ceaseless flow of my undried come to tear us apart, that your deep, tears? calm and commanding voice can never be heard again, that neither would your warm and assuring presence be Nana Agyabeng Okyereh Botwe, like Abraham, you felt ever again. All that is left with me is the sweet aroma went into a covenant with your maker to instill Godly of your deeds, beliefs and principles which still fill my virtues and precepts in my siblings and I. Without a breath knowing that, you are now resting in the arms of doubt, these teachings caused us to be proud followers the Almighty God. of Jesus Christ. Like Moses, Nana Botwe took us from our early days of upbringing in Tafo to build a better families Grandpaa! Kingria, Lawrencia and Adepa keep asking me and homes of our own. And like Jesus Christ, though numerous questions but they remain unanswered, which causes my mind to wonder in confusion. They long to know; where you are now? what you are doing now? why you left them?, when they will meeting up with you again? if they will see you again soon? and how they can get to see you again? In fact, the questions are endless, and it saddens me knowing that it would take forever before any of their wishes of spending time with you once more, would come true. Gone are the days when I could call on you severally and each of these times you would hastily grant your listening ears to my endless pleading needs. Once again, I am calling now; I am screaming hard your name; Please answer me. It is not characteristic of you not to answer NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 95

dead now, your rich and enviable deeds comprise a TRIBUTE BY resurrected legacy which we cherish and have passed on to our children and those in our immediate world KINGRIA A. of contact. When the root of a tree begins to decay it spreads death to the branches. Despite Nana Botwe’s GOPPONG-YEBOAHrandpa was a very nice man. He was death, his branches shall continually spread wider and well known for his draught playing broader. skills and was regularly seen playing with his friends. Grandpa promised to Daa Kwabena! You were my hero; the most courageous teach us and was doing so when he and resourceful man I have ever known. II never passed on. As every Grandpa would do, he would questioned your love and care for me because you always give us money to buy whatever we liked made it obvious that I was your special Kaakyire. whenever we saw him. Grandpa was neither an anchor to hold us back nor a Grandpa was fun to be with. He used to play with us sailor to take us there, but he was a guiding light whose all the time.I remember once,Adepa wanted to sit on love showed us the way, as we toiled through the his throne, and he told her that she would vanish if darkened path of life. she sat on it. Because of that, Adepa never sat on it. Nana Botwe was never an inspirer to look up to when Grandpa was lovely. He loved all his children and our hearts bled, neither was he to provide balm to heal grandchildren and we also loved him very much. our wounds but he was the source of the very words encrypted in our hearts to revive our weakened souls. I really miss you Grandpa. Grandma left us and now you’re also gone. Daa Kwabena taught us to speak the truth and led us on the path in search for the truth and to find the true Rest in peace. source of truth. Daa, my heart still talks to you, my heart still yearns for you and through this my soul knows you are at peace. Grandpa, Daa, Director, Nana Botwe, you shall live in my heart forever as no words are enough to describe your true worth. You were my God on earth and I really missed you. Rest in Peace Daa.  96 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE

TRIBUTE BY TRIBUTE BY LAWRENCIA S. ERICLYN A. OPPONG-YEBOAH OOPPONG-YEBOAHn this very sad day, I would like to say some few words about HI really loved my Grandpa. Grandpa. e used to teach us with songs and stories. He would always make sure Grandpa used to tell us stories that we had a lot of Akosua tumtum, before bed every evening guava and Tafo bread when we went whenever we were together. to Tafo, and even when we did not go and someone was coming to Kumasi, he would Grandpa was so loving. Of course, no birthday or send us goodies. Christmas would pass by without Grandpa giving us money to buy biscuits. He would let us sleep on his bed. Grandpa would let us sit on his lap anytime Mummy shouted on us Whenever we went to Tafo Grandpa would entertain when we were in Tafo, and then he would tell her us by telling us folktales and singing folksongs. He not to do that. was so caring and giving that, whenever we told him of something that we had seen on the way to I wish you were still alive Grandpa because I really Tafo that we wanted,he would give Mummy money miss you. But I know you have gone to heaven to be with stern instructions that she should buy it for us. with Grandma. I really miss you Grandpa. Tafo is not nice anymore without you and Grandma. I really wish you were alive at this time. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 97

TRIBUTE BY TRIBUTE BY MARY OFOSUA NANA AWUKU BRAM I KYIDOMHENE OF Y(SISTER)ou were our leader among all our DAWU AKUAPEM & siblings, and I was left in your care FAMILY when our parents and some of our siblings were called by our maker. The world indeed is a stage and all men and women are You were full of life and I never merely players. They have their entrances and their exit thought death was going to lay its icy hands on and one man in his time plays many parts. you anytime soon but who am I to question the will of God? N- William Shakespeare You showed much love and concern to me ana, for the part you played in my life and and this made me rely on you whenever I was that of my family we are grateful. I came troubled. back home to Tafo looking for my Akyem Your death has really taught me that this place is heritage and I found the elder brother I truly not our home. As you join our maker, may always longed for. You welcomed me and the Lord give you the best place in his kingdom. made sure I felt at home. I always looked forward to visiting Nana, nante yie! due, due, due ne amanehunu.  Tafo because of you. You made it your personal quest to teach me everything you knew about our family history and 98 | NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE this journey down memory lane led us to the point where we had to reclaim our family stool, the Kronti or Mankrado stool of Tafo Anwansa Kotoko Kru Kyereku. I cannot forget how you graciously led the family with Opanin Nimaku,Kyeremu,Kwadjo Paper,Owusu Banahene, Kwame Dapaah,Kwaku Anan Ameyaw and myself to victory at court in the early 80’s.This win cemented our family bond like veterans who had been to war and won. It was a great victory indeed and entrenched the position of the Mankrado stool in the family. You further introduced Obaa Panyin Akosua Yeboah alias Bokoo, Nana Amponsah Peasah, Obaa Panyin Ama Akya Nkruma, Obaa Panyin Yaa Hagar, Obaa Panyin Adjoa Fosua Ediya, Opanyin Kwaku Yeboah and Abusuapanyin Adjei

Suddenly a whole new door of family was opened to TRIBUTE BY me and my children and this was your doing. You did not miss an opportunity to support me. You informed ANEPHEWS & NIECESgreat soul serves everyone all the time, a great me about our Tafo heritage events, and we proudly soul never dies. It brings us together again and attended them together. Participating in events again. “Maya Angeku” Hardly do you hear a together also gave me the opportunity to proudly show lot said about our uncle (Nana), but we were off the Tafo side of me during Dawu events. I will miss privileged to have been blessed with a wonderful that greatly. uncle who supersedes all others. You opened your door to my family to the extent that He was a man who embraced all and sundry, ready to offer to date my daughter (Gifty) cannot stop talking about support and assistance not only to his children but extended her Mum and Dad from Tafo. She would say “honestly that gesture to us as well. His God-fearing character was I don’t remember how the Dining Hall in Asamankese evident in the manner he brought up these children of Secondary School looks like, so often my sister Pat which we also had our share. would come and call me, and I would go home to eat”. All she can remember is the love you and your wife What can we say? We have lost a unique uncle, father, a showered on her”. It was her first time away from home pace setter and an industry person who encouraged us to and her parent, and she found a home away from home forge ahead in life and move out of our comfort zone if we in your family. Her experience in your home really left a want to make it in this life; this we appreciated very much. lasting impact on her, and she does not hesitate to say her time with you contributed to who she is today as a He will forever remain in our hearts for his monumental Wife, Mum, and the Senior Information System Analyst and unprecedented lifelong memories we shared with him. of American Tower Corporation, Ghana (ATC Ghana). We would have loved to have you around forever, but that would be against the scriptures because to everything there Thank you, for your encouragement and purpose to is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven. bring me home. It worked. You made me happy to be We strongly believed that you are mainly from time to back home and I will not let your effort be in vain. I will eternity. This is the time to join your maker and so we have forever keep hanging on to the legacy you left me. no questions. I am grateful for the years the Almighty God gave you We are still grateful to your maker because you fought a and I together and I will forever cherish it. Rest well Big good fight. God be with you Nana. Irene, Olivia, Kwaayo, Brother. Darko, Ruben, Kwaku, Sister”, Marfo, Paa Yaw, Oye and Kofi says, until we meet again, REST WELL! You fought a good fight and played your role Rest in perfect peace Nana.   gracefully. I salute you My Elder Brother. NANA AGYEBENG OKYEREH BOTWE | 99

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