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Editors Note Can’t Miss Holiday TV Classics One night during the holiday season, while I was doing my writerly thing, a cacophony of silly giggles rang out from the living room. When I got up to see what was causing my two impossible-to-impress tweenagers and their father to all be laughing at the same time, a smile spread across my face. The three of them were bunched up together under a blanket watching “A Charlie Brown Christmas.” Of course, as soon as the infectious “Snoopy’s Theme” played (by Schroeder on his tiny piano), the two boys leapt up and pranced around the room, striking poses and looking just as goofy as the Peanuts characters dancing on the TV. The boys laughed so hard they fell on the floor, and I couldn’t help but feel good that something other than a video game (which I limit as much as possible) had drawn them in and entertained them. Later, I marveled how those holiday specials that I grew up with (some from the 1960s) still resonated with my techno-speak kids, even though the animation was nothing like what they were growing up with. There was no 3-D Santa sleigh taking you on a roller coaster ride through the skies or sparkling CGI Christmas worlds filled with thousands of elves in those classic shows. They were clean fun, simple animation (or Claymation) with good storylines and catchy tunes that earned a place in our hearts and in our rituals for the holidays. Besides “A Charlie Brown Christmas,” some of my other favorites included “Rudolf the Red- Nosed Reindeer,” “The Year Without a Santa Claus” and “Santa Claus Is Coming to Town.” Of course, I also fell in love with several live-action movies such as “It’s a Wonderful Life,” “Miracle on 34th Street” and the Emmy-winning special “The House Without a Christmas Tree”—all which filled me with joy and the holiday spirit every time I saw them. In the past, I had quietly checked the dates that the specials were playing and turned them on for a little seasonal cheer. But now, I realized that, just like when I was a child, these classics were part of family holiday rituals. And it was time I made them part of my family’s holiday ritual. So this year, I’ll be checking the airdates (or renting them through Netflix), making some hot cocoa and planning a fun, family night where we can all prance around the house like goofy cartoon characters at Christmastime. Why don’t you join us?Geodie Baxter Padgett Executive Editor4 parentguide.com

Holiday 2012 CONTENTS Departments FeaturesMoney Talks: Dave Ramsey gives 4 Editor’s Note financial advice on how to save up for 8 Annual Holiday Wish Guideyour next car. 22 Holiday Book Guide 26 Giving BackA Dad’s Life: Kurt Goerke shows us 24 20 Terrible Gifts for Kids, how Christmas is really for the dog inall of us. Teen and AdultsTeachable Moment: Susan Bartell 34 Short History of Holiday shares what she’s grateful for at thisspecial time of year. Music, from Hymns to Rock n’ RollFamily Life: Traci McGrath offersholiday traditions from parentsinvolved with Simplicity Parenting.INSIDE Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 5

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Holiday Wish GuideBabies and Toddlers GiftsStylish Pacifier Pods Personalized Baby GiftsKeep pacifiers clean and easily accessible Baby Be Hip offers dozens of baby itemswith the new Pacifier Pod from Kalencom. with preppy monograms and trendyIt makes a great stocking stuffer. A Velcro personalized designs. Their bucket giftstrap secures the pod to diaper bags or sets include matching burp clothes, towelsstrollers and comes in a variety of trendy or blankets. Prices range from $44-$250patterns. The Pacifier Pod is available for online at www.babybehip.com.$10 from www.kalencom.com. Turtle Tunes for Baby Marquis by Waterford This cute, plush turtle comes with Baby's 1st Christmas 2012 a brightly-colored musical shell that Ornament babies can touch to play different musical notes. It encourages vision Commemorate baby’s first Christmas with development, audio awareness and this beautiful ornament that combines comes with three musical modes. It's artisan craftsmanship with the radiance available at Target, Amazon and Toys of fine crystal. The three-and-a-half- R Us for $29.99. inch ornament will make a stunning and sentimental addition to any tree. $29.95 Visit8 parentguide.com macys.com to see all Waterford’s ornaments.

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter PadgettKids GiftsWarming, Snuggle Mate Elf MagicThe Warming Ewe is a snuggly Featuring adorable stuffed elves forbedmate for kids that can warm up children, complete with a magical worldchilly nights. This little lamb comes with and lore, Elf Magic delivers fun to childrena removable insert that can be quickly at the holidays. $29.95 for a 10-inch plushmicrowaved before bed. It's available Elf Magic Elf straight from the North Pole.for $29.95 from www.gardeners.com. For ages 3 and older. Visit Elf-Magic.com to learn more and purchase.Koosh Ball Launchers Personalized Coloring BooksGuard the galaxy with these oh-so-fun Kooshball launchers. The Koosh Galaxy Solar Recon The personalized coloring book,($26.99) features glow-in-the-dark blasting “My Very Own Name,” teachespower and super cool lights and sound. The children letter recognition and howKoosh Star Scout (12.99) launches quickly to spell their name. It also includesand is easy for kids to use. Ages 4 and older personalized mazes and puzzlesfor both. Visit HasbroToyShop.com or check and can be purchased for $9.95 atyour local toy retailer. www.iseeme.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 9

Holiday Wish GuideMore Kids Gifts Teres Kids Comfy Bubble Blowing Clothes R/C Vehicles Teres Kids clothing is so soft The Road Rippers Preschool that 10-year-old Maria says Bubble Driver Ice Cream Truck she’d sleep in them! Kids love and Street Sweeper combine how they feel against their remote-controlled action with skin, and there are no labels bubble-blowing fun. Just push to irritate young necks. Plus, the button and watch bubbles the clothes are well made, with fly. Available at toy stores and doubled stitching that is quite www.amazon.com for $15.99. secure. They wash fabulously and do not wrinkle. Prices vary by style. Visit tereskids.com.Laurie Berkner For the Little ChefChristmas Album The parent-child cookbook, Baking AroundAward-winning children’s recording the World, teaches about different cultures,artist (and downright cool Indie rocker), languages and international treats through kid-Laurie Berkner, has her first Christmas friendly recipes the whole family can enjoy. Thealbum “A Laurie Berkner Christmas.” cookbook, complete with baking cups and a kid-Filled with holiday carols and favorites, size whisk, retails for $25 at select Bed, Bath andthe whole family will be singing along. Beyond stores and www.handstandkids.com.$15 CD or $9.99 digital download. Visitlaurieberkner.com to buy.10 parentguide.com

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter PadgettCrayola Digital Light DesignerThis new product from Crayola allows kids to createan at home light show with glowing creations thatcan move in 'animation' mode. Using a large stylus,kids can create and save up to 50 still images on thedome. Recommended for ages 6 and up, the DigitalLight Designer can be purchased in stores for $49.99. Crayola Marker Airbrush Kids can create spray art on paper, fabrics and windows using their favorite markers with the Marker Airbrush from Crayola. Along with the Airbrush Sprayer, it includes eight washable markers, four fabric markers, 20 sheets of paper and four stencil sheets. It's recommend for ages 6 and up and is available in stores for $24.99.Kid Fashion with a Cause Fun Flying RingsKids for Kids is a fashion company that Twice as fast as a frisbee and softerfeatures colorful artwork made by kids in need to catch, Sprint Rings from Aerobiearound the world from different organizations offer a fun outdoor activity. The highthat support underprivileged and orphaned performance rings are a compact,children. The company donates a share of lightweight version of the Pro Ring,its profits to these organizations. Children's which holds the Guinness Worldt-shirts and bodysuits are available for $20 at Record for farthest throw. Sprint ringswww.kidsforkids.com. can be purchased at Clearwater Disc Golf Store in Clearwater, Fla., for $6.95 and Pro Rings for $9.95, and also at www.amazon.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 11

Holiday Wish Guide ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter PadgettMore Kids Gifts Teaching Tech Vehicles Kids can discover how their favorite vehicles work with Worx Toys' helicopters, race cars and trucks. Through a transparent exterior kids can see the parts inside and watch them light up when using codes from the included interactive guide book that teaches how real life vehicles work. Toys are available in toy stores and www.amazon.com for $29.99 and up. Chuggington Play Set This new train set is the first designed to let kids build out and up too. It also lets kids build a spiral that's over 2 ft tall. Based on the popular Chugginton characters, TOMY's Chuggington Die-Cast Railway “Wilson's Wild Ride Deluxe Action Play” set is available at Toys R Us for $59.99. Stylish Kitchen Aprons for Kids Peking Handicraft has unveiled a line of brightly colored aprons for children. Let the kids help in the kitchen and don’t worry about them spilling or wiping their hands on their clothes. They stay clean and fashionable with these soft, comfortable aprons. $20 Available at www.pkhc.com.12 parentguide.com

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Holiday Wish GuideMerry, Merry for the KidsParentGuide’s picks for the best toys for school age, tweens and teens.529 College Savings Plan “The Princess Bride” 25th AnniversaryIf you haven’t started saving for college,now’s a good time before they get any older. One of the best loved movies of allA 529 plan is tax free. For those looking for time, this enchanting, but fracturedinformation, the College Savings Plans Network fairy tale from 20th Century Fox(CSPN) collegesavings.org offers great tools celebrates its 25th anniversary withand resources to help families make informed a special edition that’s just perfectdecisions about 529 plans. Check them out today. for tweens, teens and mom and dad. Visit walmart.com or toysrus.Eco-Friendly com to buy.Glass WaterBottlesPURE glass water bottlesfeature an impact resistantprotective outer coating that isBPA free and FDA approved aswell as a cool shape. A greenalternative to plastic, thebottles are dishwasher safeand cost $19.95 plus shippingat www.pureglassbottle.com. Water-Powered Alarm Clock Cool Toothbrush Meant to resemble a small splash of water, this Clean up your teeth and the little alarm clock runs on ordinary tap water. It environment with the world's doesn't require batteries or electricity and comes first compostable toothbrush in a variety of colors. It retails for $26 online at and travel case. The brushes use www.bedolwhatsnext.com. soft bristles, come in a variety of colors and are available for $4.5514 parentguide.com from www.worldcentric.org.

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter PadgettBeach Cruiser BikesEnjoy a lovely sunset ride on your beach cruiser or a breathtakingsunrise in the cool morning air. To get your beach cruiser bike, checkout beachbikes.com for top quality cruising bikes priced from $150. Oka b. Eco-Chic Shoes These stylish ballet slippers look so fancy, but feel so soft like Crocs. It’s hard to believe they’re eco-friendly—made of recycled materials. They’re versatile, too, looking elegant yet functional. Wear them with dresses, skirts, or even jeans. Priced at less than $70. Go to oka-b.com. Yoga for Beginners with Props (from Gaiam Living) Everything you need to get started with yoga. The Beginners kit includes a yoga mat (with alignment marks for hands and feet), yoga bricks for positioning, D-ring yoga strap for stretching and a beginners yoga DVD. The two full-length yoga DVDs contain so much information on positioning, meditation and props, you’ll feel inspired and motivated to continue your journey learning new techniques and poses. $29.98 at gaiam.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 15

Holiday Wish Guide Merry, Merry for the Kids ParentGuide’s picks for the best toys for school age, tweens and teens. Socks for Nature Lovers Made from organic or recycled fibers, these ultra-soft Sierra Club socks make a green stocking stuffer for guys or gals. A portion of the proceeds go to support the eco-friendly mission of Sierra Club, and for every three pairs purchased, Parker Leg wear will donate one pair to a Sierra Club mission outdoors. Socks range from $4 for kids and $6-$8 for adults, and can be purchased at www.parkerlegwear.com. Minecraft There isn’t a video game like it, and most parents will approve of this creative game that involves mining and building houses, cities and worlds. Players place blocks to build anything they want. But at night, take shelter as the zombies, creepers and spiders make their moves. Available for computers or X-box. $26.95 Visit minecraft.net to learn more or purchase. Music in your Mouth™ “I Got a Feeling” performed by Black Eyed Peas and “Just the Way You Are” sung by Bruno Mars are just two of the songs played by Arm & Hammer’s Tooth Tunes toothbrush. Sagen, an 11-year-old, says these toothbrushes are fun because music plays in your mouth and she can dance and brush, so kids brush longer. But really it’s because the toothbrush tells kids when to quit. Go to spinbrush.com/toothtunes to check them out.16 parentguide.com

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter Padgett HAPPY HOLIDAYS, HONEY ParentGuide’s picks for the best gifts for moms and dads. Sterling Silver Diamond Infinity Rings (His and Hers) Re-commit your love with these personalized “Today, Tomorrow, and Always” rings. The Bradford Exchange presents these two complimentary rings with a beautiful forever love sentiment. These rings celebrate a love that knows no end. These inspiring rings are available for $149.00 each at www.bradfordexchange.com.Kindle Fire HD 8.9”Kindle Fire HD 8.9” offers extreme HDentertainment bar none to any other tablet.Compare for yourself at Amazon.com. Thisnewest of the Kindle Fire family offers stunningHD display, Dolby Audio, Dual – Band Dual-Antenna Wi-Fi, and front facing HD camera.Plus, so much more. Available in 16 or 32 GBand starting at $299.00 for this impressivetablet. Pre-order from Amazon beforescheduled release on November 20, 2012. Sally Hansen Salon Gel Polish Starter Kit This kit includes everything you need to get started on a professional looking manicure. The gel polish starter kit includes 1 LED Lamp, 1 gel base coat, 1 gel nail color, 1 gel top coat, 10 nail cleanser pads, acetone remover, cuticle stick, file and buffer and instruction sheet. It’s a fast, easy, economical and long-lasting solution to expensive manicures. $27.99 at Target.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 17

Holiday Wish Guide HAPPY HOLIDAYS, HONEY ParentGuide’s picks for the best gifts for moms and dads. Christmas at the Biltmore, Ashville, NC Experience an old-fashioned Christmas Wonderland at the Biltmore. Three-night accommodations include Estate daytime admissions, Biltmore House audio guide, valet parking at the Inn, and complimentary estate shuttle service. Packages start at $1926.00 with a daily buffet breakfast and Christmas Eve and Christmas Day dinner. Reserve early. 866-336-1245 or www.biltmore.com Pointelle Knit Sweater (from Gaiam Living) Luxurious and cozy at the same time, this “Eco Style” sweater with flowing open shawl provides pure comfort. Wear it with your favorite jeans, yoga pants or business casual. You can’t go wrong with this wardrobe classic. $134 Visit gaiam.com to select your color and buy. T-Shirt of the Month Sign-up your guy for the Busted Tees Shirt of the Month Club. As a reminder of how special he is, he’ll receive a new shirt each and every month. These unique super cool t-shirts are screen printed on soft high-quality cotton and feel incredibly comfortable. Three, six, and twelve-month subscriptions available. Three-month packages start at $50.00. www.bustedtees.com18 parentguide.com

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter PadgettWearEver Pure Living Sleep Better with BackJoyMost folks would say not to giveanything that reminds mom about Relieve back pain and improve posturework as a gift. But with the Pure with a pillow that self adjusts to anyLiving line of cookware from WearEver, sleeping position. The Posture Sleepmom’s life just got easier. The ceramic pillow from BackJoy has the samecoating is toxic-free and chemical-free, comfort of down, is hypoallergenic anddishwasher safe, durable and super- even reduces snoring. Great for kids toeasy to clean. $24.99 Available at grandpa, the pillow is available for $89.99WalMart and amazon.com. at www.backjoy.com.Good for You Soap Charge Your Phone on the GoNature's Gate vegetable based Bar Soapmakes a great stocking stuffer for the The PowerBar 4200 is a handygreen-minded. With seven Natural Moisture gadget for charging smart phonesBoosters to hydrate and soften skin, it's and iPods on the go, when aavailable in Aloe Vera, Oatmeal, Tea Tree, power outlet isn't available. ItHerbal and Pomegranate Sunflower for holds enough power to charge$3.79 at www.shopnatures-gate.com. your device twice and boasts it’s the lightest, slimmest charger on the market. Available for $79.99 from www.fatcatgear.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 19

Holiday Wish Guide HAPPY HOLIDAYS, HONEY ParentGuide’s picks for the best gifts for moms and dads. LES EXCLUSIF Collection (body lotion from Chanel) This subtle yet unforgettable fragrance is soft and light enough to wear alone and perfect to layer your skin with Channel’s LES EXCLUSIF Collection. This luxurious lotion drenches the skin with pure luxury. Priced at $130.00 and available at all finer department stores everywhere or at www.chanel.com.Tree of Life Yoga Set(from Gaiam Living)Peace, love and joy is what I feel whenyou lay on this mat.  The Tree of Life Matis non-skid, light weight and yet stableenough to carry you in all your yoga poses.The embroidered tote bag is so roomy thatit's large enough to carry your mat, towel,clothes and of course the beautiful stainlesssteel water bottle that comes with the set. The water bottle is BPA-free and 100%recyclable.  $56.00 at gaiam.com. Gourmet Station, Fine Dining Delivered Show them that you care throughout the year. These meal club certificates make each month an international celebration with a different meal of the month selection. Visit www.gourmetstation.com. An exquisite four-course dinner for two “Dinner of the Month” starts at $299.00.20 parentguide.com

ProductReviews I Geodie Baxter Padgett HAPPY HOLIDAYS, FAMILY ParentGuide’s picks for the best gifts for the whole family.Sponsor a Wild PlaceGive a unique gift and preserve America's wild legacyby sponsoring a wild place through Sierra Club. Chooseto support one of many Wild Places including the ArcticNational Wildlife Refuge, the Everglades, the GrandCanyon and more. Sponsorship levels range from $25-$100, include a cute plush toy and can be purchasedat www.sierraclub.org.Wilderness Calendar Christmas Classics on DVDThe Sierra Club's Wilderness calendar has been and Blu-Raya perennial favorite for more than thirty years,with more than 8 million copies sold. The spiral- The holidays just aren'tbound 2013 calendar features vivid images complete without watchingof flora and fauna throughout the American those favorite TV specialswilderness. Calenders can be purchased at like “Rudolph the Red-bookstores and Amazon for $12.95. Nosed Reindeer,” “Frosty the Snowman,” “Santa Claus is Comin' to Town” and “Frosty Returns.” The Christmas Collection box set contains all those iconic favorites and is available wherever DVDs ($29.93 ) or blu-rays ($44.95) are sold. Greek Yogurt Bars Keep your energy up during this very busy time of year with Rickland Orchard’s Greek Yogurt Bars. With seven grams of protein and five grams of fiber, these bars will give you a great pick-me-up so you can enjoy the holidays. $1.79 a bar. Available at Sam’s Clubs, Costco or ricklandorchards.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 21

Holiday B GBoookoRkeviewsuIiGdeodeieBaxterPadgett The Thankful Book As we bask in the joy of the holiday season, it’s always important to remember to be thankful. New York Times bestselling author, Todd Parr, captures that thankfulness in his new book. Colorful and fun, each page is filled with something a child (and adult) can be thankful for. A great way to teach gratitude! $9.99 Visit lb-kids.com or toddparr.com to purchase. Julie Andrews’ Treasury for All Seasons With paintings as illustrations, this beautiful collection of poetry and song lyrics for young and older takes you through the seasons. Compiled by famed actress and writer Julie Andrews and her daughter, Emma Walton Hamilton, this collection is perfect for families to enjoy and share. List price $19.99 Check amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com to learn more or purchase. Nighttime Ninja Late at night when all is quiet, a ninja sneaks through the house! This creative book features gorgeous illustrations from master paper cutter Ed Young. It’s a visual treat, with minimal text (very ninja like). List price $16.99 Check amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com for purchasing. The Night Santa Got Lost: How NORAD Saved Christmas Every Christmas Eve, thousands of children turn on the computer to the see where Santa is, courtesy of North American Aerospace Defense Command (NORAD). They follow his track and plan their Christmas Eve accordingly. In this story, a blizzard knocks Santa off track, and only NORAD can help him find his way. List price $14.95 To buy, check barnesandnoble.com or amazon.com. Feelings Books From Ruby’s Studio and “The Feelings Show” comes several books on feelings and how kids can express them in a healthy way. From “Sally Simon Simmons’ Super Frustrating Day” to “A Little Book About Feelings” and the “My Feelings” personalized activity book, parents can equip their kids to handle emotions more effectively. $12.95 Visit RubysStudio.com for more info.22 parentguide.com

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Holiday featured article20 Terrible Gifts for Kids, Teens and Adults By Rachael MoshmanEver get one of those gifts?I received a goat for Christmas when I was seven. It was a live goat, which my friendrecently pointed out is way better than a dead goat. I didn’t live on a farm and had neverexpressed interest in owning a goat.Obviously, my family doesn’t have a knack for gift giving. My grandmother gave my 11-year-old daughter a used purse last year. It was filthy and had old cough drops and tissues stillinside. Clearly, I know a thing or two about bad gifts!Here are some items to avoid.Kids Tweens & TeensSchool supplies Items for kidsYou might be able to get away with some cute Stacy Gohman, a scientist in California hoping tocharacter pencils or stickers as a stocking stuffer, start a family in the New Year, says, “I received abut even that is pushing it. Do you want someone book about how to make hair bows and barrettesto give you office supplies as a gift? Kids don’t with ribbons. It was for elementary girls. I waswant items related to their work (school) as a 17.” Just because they enjoyed an activity asgift either. a child doesn’t mean they are still into it as a teen—or that they are willing to admit it.Fruit ClothingFood is a necessity. Children shouldn’t be givennecessities as gifts. That takes the magic out of it! Teens are very opinionated about what they wear. It is very rare that an adult will get it right.Socks and underwear Take them shopping or give gift cards so theyIt doesn’t matter how cute the designs are, can pick out their own clothes.children are not going to be excited to get socksor underwear. In fact, unwrapping them in public Personal hygiene itemscould be downright embarrassing for the child. Tweens and teens are very sensitive. A gift of deodorant or body spray could be interpreted asGeneric versions of toys they saying they stink.really want Self-help booksI loved Barbie dolls, but frequently receivedgeneric versions with hair that immediately fell Again, this could lead to hurt feelings. My friendout. If you can’t afford what they really want, Stephanie Davis, a professor and mom of two,consider a gift card or cash they can put toward had a grandma who gave her a book called “Chipping Away the Teen Attitude” when she wasbuying it themselves. in high school.Animals CDsPuppies, kittens and guinea pigs are adorable, butyou want to be certain the child is committed to It’s unlikely you’ll pick something they want tocaring for a new pet once the novelty wears off. listen to, plus they download all of their music.24 parentguide.com

ParentGuideFeaturedArticleI Rachael MoshmanMen WomenCologne from the dollar store Cleaning suppliesActually, stay away from anything from the It doesn’t matter if she’s a neatdollar store! freak, she doesn’t want cleaning supplies.Ties Weight loss itemsIf he regularly wears ties, he probably has more Donna Hedgecock, a Florida high schoolthan enough. If he doesn’t typically wear them, teacher and mother to two girls, says the worsthe’s not going to start just because you gave gift she ever received was a Weight Watchershim one featuring Yoda or Santa Claus surfing. cookbook. She wasn’t on a diet.male stereotype gifts Home furnishingsNot all men enjoy grilling, hunting, fishing, golfor football. If you aren’t certain that he enjoys No matter how thoughtful, it may not matchthe activity, don’t give a gift that has anything her décor or tastes. I don’t invite my aunt toto do with it. my home because she’ll see the three-foot tall giraffe statue she gave me is missing.Sports paraphernalia PerfumeIf you aren’t 100 percent certain of his favoriteteam, don’t buy anything with a sports logo. Most women only wear one scent, so if youMen take their team pride very seriously! don’t know it, skip perfume. Also, strong scents give some women migraines.Pajamas Holiday sweatersDo men actually wear pajamas? Let him pickout what is comfortable to sleep in himself. She’ll say she loves it and might even put it on immediately. She’s lying to spare your feelings. No one wants one of these, even if you spent hours knitting it yourself. If you’re going to a “worst gift” party, any of the items I mentioned will make you a strong contender. Otherwise, steer clear of them! If you’re really stuck on an appropriate gift, consider making a charitable donation in the recipient’s name to a cause that matters to them. Rachael Moshman is a freelance writer and blogger. She did not keep the goat. Find her at www.rachaelmoshman.com. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 25

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Tampa Bay Area Florida Orchestra Pops: Holiday Pops In the annual holiday celebration, Stuart Malina leadsBusch Gardens Christmas Town the orchestra and master chorale of Tampa Bay inBusch Gardens if offering a new holiday attraction this performing in beloved Christmas carols and otheryear which includes 80 miles of lights, holiday shows and holiday favorites. Call (813) 229-7827.tons of blown in snow. Date: Dec. 21-22 at 8 p.m. and Dec. 23 at 7:30 p.m.Visit www.buschgardens.com. Price: $15-$45Date: Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday evening through Ferguson Hall at David A. Stratz Jr. Center for theDec. 23. Performing ArtsPrice: General Admission is $39.99 for adults, $14.99 1010 N MacInnes Place, Tampafor children.Advance online tickets are $24.99, $9.99for children. Discount tickets also are available through Free Pancakes at IhopPublix, Fantastic Sam's, Chick-fil-A, Coca-Cola sold at Ihop restaurantsWalmart and for AAA members. In honor of National Pancake Day, Ihop is offeringBusch Gardens free pancakes. The fundraiser aims to raise $3 million10165 N McKinley Dr, Tampa to kick off Children's Miracle Network Hospital's 30th anniversary.Downtown Tampa Holiday Parade Date: Feb. 5.The parade steps off at Morgan Street and Kennedy Price: FreeBoulevard, travels west on Kennedy Boulevard to Ashley IhopDrive, then turns north to end at Ashley Drive and Cass All participating Ihop locations.Street. It includes floats, marching bands, dance troopsand a special appearance by Santa Claus. Historic Holiday Spirit ParadeVisit www.friendsoftamparec.org. Snow flurries cover Seventh Avenue for this night ofDate: Dec. 1 at 11 a.m. horse drawn carriages, marching bands and holidayPrice: Free music. Call (813) 748-0069.Parade start point Date: Dec. 15 at 8 p.m.Morgan Street and Kennedy Boulevard, Tampa Price: Free Snow on Seventh StreetDunedin Holiday Parade Seventh Avenue between 15th and 17th Streets,The parade will feature festive floats, bands and Tampaentertainers as well as the arrival of Santa Claus. After theparade, attendees may stay and enjoy an Old-fashioned Holiday Lights in the GardenChristmas with live music performances, carriage rides, Visit the Florida Botanical Gardens' annual Holidaychildren’s activities and snow. Light festival. More than 500,000 lights will illuminateVisit www.dunedingov.com. the thousands of plants and trees that already make theDate: Dec. 11, 4 p.m. to 9 p.m. gardens shine year-round. Home-grown entertainersPrice: Free will perform nightly.Dunedin Public Library Visit www.flbg.org.223 Douglas Ave., Dunedin Date: Daily through Jan. 1, 5:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Price: Suggested donation $2.Dunedin Holiday Boat Parade Florida Botanical GardensDecorated boats will leave Marker 1 Marina and travel 12520 Ulmerton Road, Largosouth down the Intercoastal Waterway to the DunedinMarina. Santa will ride on the last boat and light the city'slargest tree in Edgewater Park upon his arrival.Visit www.dunedingov.com.Date: Dec 1 at 6 p.m.Price: FreeDunedin Marina51 Main St., Dunedin www.parentguide.com

Tampa Bay Area Largo’s Holiday Stroll Pinellas Park Holiday Parade The annual holiday events boasts more than a million The 40th annual Pinellas Park Holiday parade features lights and the bluesy music of the Steve Arvey Horn bands, floats, soldiers, dancers and equestrian groups. Band. Shelters throughout the park will feature a Visit www.celebratepinellaspark.com. different holiday story, and activity or craft for all ages. Date: Dec 8 at 6 p.m. The official holiday tree lighting will take place at 7 Price: Free p.m., in the center of the park. Limited on-site parking Parade route will be offered, along with free shuttles from Largo Park Blvd. and 58th St., Pinellas Park High and the Pinellas County School Board. Visit www.LargoEvents.com. Rockapella Date: Dec. 4, 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. A special holiday performance by the a capella group Price: Free with an R&B sound. Call (813) 274-8982. Largo Central Park Date: Dec. 20 at 7 p.m. 225 Central Park Drive, Largo Price: $29 Madeira Beach Festival of Lights Holiday Boat Parade Tampa Theatre Decorated boats meet next to City Hall and travel 711 Franklin St., Tampa through the Intracoastal Waterway and canals to the John's Pass Bridge. Safety Harbor Holiday Parade Visit www.madeirabeachfl.gov. The annual parade down Main Street, includes Shriner Date: Dec. 7 at 6:30 p.m. clowns, car clubs, walking units, high school marching Price: Free bands and a special appearance by Santa and Mrs. Claus. Madeira Beach City Hall Visit www.safetyharborevents.com. 300 Municipal Drive, Madeira Beach Date: Dec. 15 at 1 p.m. Miracle on Cleveland Street with Snow Price: Free Clearwater's Cleveland Street district will be dressed Parade route with snow for snow activities, visits with Santa and Main Street and Second Avenue N, Safety Harbor more holiday entertainment. Visit http://BlastFridayClearwater.com. Scott's Fall Corn Maize Date: Dec. 7 at 5:30 p.m. Journey through a seven acre corn maize where you will Price: Free find pictures, clues and games that make learning fun. 400 block of Cleveland Street Also on site is the living tree maze and children's activities, Osceola Avenue and Cleveland Street, Clearwater a 60-foot super slide and the \"jumping pillow\" bounce Moscow Ballet: The Great Russian Nutcracker house without walls. There are no water fountains so be This 20th anniversary production features new sure to bring water or money to purchase it. choreography called “Dove of Peace,” by Stanislov Visit www.longandscottfarms.com. Vlasov, a Christmas tree that grows to seven stories Date: Through Dec.16, every Saturday from 10 a.m. to 5 tall, falling snow and Troika sleigh escorted by Russian p.m., and Sunday from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. folk, and 200 hand-sewn costumes designed by Arthur Price: $11, $9 ages 3-16, 2 and younger free Oliver. Long and Scott Farms Visit www.themahaffey.com. 26216 County Road 448A, Mt. Dora Date: Dec. 28 and 29 at 7:30 p.m. Price: $32.50 - $190 Snowfest and Santa Parade Mahaffey Theater The annual Santa parade begins at Central Avenue and 400 First St. S, St. Petersburg Fifth Street. After the parade, 65 tons of snow will be blown in for activities including toboggan rides, make-www.parentguide.com and-take crafts, climbing wall, reindeer races, visits with Santa, a giant greeting card display and kiddie land (for ages 3-5). Call (727) 893-7441 for more information. Date: Dec. 1 at 11 a.m. Price: $5 wristband, $5 skating. North Straub Park Fifth Avenue NE and Bayshore Drive, St. Petersburg

Tampa Bay AreaSnow Place Like Tarpon Wild WonderlandSnow will be falling on Tarpon Avenue for this party with The Lowry Park Zoo closes at 5 p.m. and reopens at 6:30real reindeer, holiday hay rides, shopping, vendors, music, p.m. for the annual evening holiday festival. The zoo willfood and a mailbox for letters to Santa Claus. Call (727) 934- feature penguins, live reindeer, visits with Santa, the9255. Arctic Freeze Ice slide, games, inflatables and more.Date: Dec. 7 at 4 p.m. Visit www.lowryparkzoo.com.Price: Free Date: Dec. 8 and Dec. 14 – 30 at 6:30 p.m.Tarpon Avenue Price:$13, $11 ages 3-11, 2 and younger free.Alt US 19 and near N Ring Ave., Tarpon Springs Lowry Park Zoo 1101 W Sligh Ave., TampaTampa Bay Jingle Bell Run/Walk Weeki Wachee River Lighted Christmas Boat ParadeFamily-friendly event featuring a 5K or 1-mile route, a The parade, open to all boat owners, starts at the Weekiholiday costume contest, kids' activities and Santa chase, Wachee Marina and travels past Rogers Park to thefood, entertainment, beer and mimosas, and all participants Bayport Pier. Call (352) 596-2852.receive an official long-sleeve Jingle Bell T-shirt, goodie bag Date: Dec. 8 at 6:30 p.m.and jingle bells. Call (813) 968-7000. Price: FreeDate: Dec. 15 at 9 a.m.. Check in begins at 7:30 a.m. Rogers ParkPrice: Pre-event cost is $25 for adults and $15 for kids. Day- 7244 Shoal Line Blvd., Weeki Wacheeof cost is $35 for adults and $20 for kids.Hillsborough Community College SarasotaDale Mabry Campus4001 W. Tampa Bay Blvd., Tampa Christmas Eve Candlelight Service Celebrate Christmas Eve in beautiful downtownTampa's Downtown on Ice Sarasota's Selby Five Points Park with a traditionalEven in the Sunshine State you can enjoy an outdoor ice candlelight service and live music.skating rink this holiday season. Each 90 minute session Visit www.communityaffair.com.includes skate rental. Date: Dec. 24, 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m.Visit www.friendsoftamparec.org Price: FreeDate: Daily through Jan. 5. Selby Five Points ParkPrice: $10 1331 First St., SarasotaCurtis Dixon Park Christmas at Grace Lights Display600 N. Ashley Drive, Tampa Over 1/2 Million Christmas Lights, decorating 300 blinking Christmas trees and motorizedTarpon Springs Christmas Parade displays, will be set to music created by theThe annual parade includes Shriners clowns and members world's largest theatre pipe organ in a church.on a wide variety of vehicles, floats and community The event also includes Hayrides, a Snow slide, Kidsmarching units. After the parade, the fun moves to Craig Interactive Juggling shows, Christmas songs Karaoke,Park for candy cane hunts and pictures with Santa and his and Silent Movies on chosen nights.elves. Call (727) 937-6109. Visit www.gracebaptistchurch.com.Date: Dec. 15 at 10 a.m. Date: Dec. 7 – Dec. 26, 6 p.m. to 10 p.m.Price: Free Price: FreeParade Intersection Grace Baptist ChurchS. Pinellas Avenue and Mears Boulevard, Tarpon Springs 8000 Bee Ridge Rd., SarasotaTrans-Siberian Orchestra www.parentguide.comThe progressive rock opera heroes are bringing theirChristmas show to Tampa. The group will perform it'srockin' original holidays songs, storytelling and light show.Visit www.tampabaytimesforum.com.Date: Dec 15 at 3 p.m. and 8 p.m.Price: $30 - $68Tampa Bay Times Forum401 Channelside Drive, Tampa

Sarasota Polk CountyFire & Starlight New Year's Eve Party Carols in the ParkBring the kids to this family-friendly New Year's Eve party The annual Christmas arts & craft show is expectingwith a focus on outdoor fun. The museum's Mangrove over 20,000 attendees for a Community Christmas TreeLights display will dazzle the family after first making a stop lighting, musical performances, food vendors and more.at the bonfires to toast marshmallows. There will be games Visit www.mywinterhaven.com.and crafts as well. All under the stars which are best seen Date: Dec. 1-2, 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.from the long footbridge across Little Sarasota Bay. Visit Price: Freewww.historicspanishpoint.org. Central Park Winter HavenDate: Dec. 31, 6 p.m. to 10 p.m. 5th St SW, Winter HavenPrice: FreeHistoric Spanish Point Christmas Notes337 N. Tamiami Trail, Osprey The Polk County Parks & Recreation presents Christmas Notes at Homeland Heritage Park. There will be liveHolidays Around the Ranch music, kids activities and more!Pictures with Santa Claus, the Harvest Methodist Church Visit www.parksandrec.polk-county.net.Choir will sing carols for the lighting of the tree, outdoor Date: Dec.15, 5 p.m. to 8 p.m.skating on the acrylic rink, a DVD made with Dance Heads Price: FreeFlorida, sugar cookie decorating, the \"Choo Choo Express,\" Homeland Heritage Parkchildren can stop to make a “button wreath,” street 249 Church Avenue, Homelandvendors, stage performances by many local dance andmusic studios. Cirque du NoelVisit www.lwrcac.com. The Lakeland Center Youkey Theatre will be holding aDate: Dec. 14, 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. holiday performance with trapeze performers, jugglers,Price: Free gymnastic clowns and Santa.Lakewood Ranch's Main street Visit www.thelakelandcenter.com.8131 Lakewood Main St., Bradenton Date: Dec. 12, 7:30p.m. - 9:30 p.m. Price: $40Lights in Bloom The Lakeland CenterStroll through the Gardens and view life-size garden- 701 West Lime Street, Lakelandthemed holiday lights brought to you by Lights in Bloomoriginator Bob McComb, also known as Mr. Illuminator. Jingle Bell Rock PartyEach night, guests will enjoy live holiday music and dance The Polk County Parks & Recreation presents the Jingleand food. Bell Rock Party at the Wabash Community Center. BringVisit www.selby.org. the kids for activities including arts & crafts, treats andDate: Dec. 15 – Dec 27, 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. refreshments, and a visit from Santa! Call (863) 284-4223.Price: Members $13, non-members $17, kids 11 and under Date: Dec.9, 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.free Price: FreeMarie Selby Botanical Gardens Wabash Community Center900 S. Palm Ave., Sarasota 1230 Southern Avenue  LakelandSnowfest Sarasota Legoland Christmas BricktackularSnowing for 10 Scheduled Days, Experience Tubing, See a 30-foot tall Christmas tree made of 270,000 bricks,Giant Snow Slides, Bounce Houses, Caroling, Ice Skating, a Santa scavenger hunt, meet and greets with SantaChristmas Trees and Free Christmas Shows with “Santa's and the Lego toy soldier, entertainment and festiveExtravaganza” on Stage Each and Every Day. Visit with decorations. Visit Legoland.com.Santa, See the 20ft Snow Globe and DJ Grinch, Meet Date: Saturday and Sunday through Dec. 25.Rudolph and Frosty, Enjoy the Jellybean Jugglers, Caroling, Price: Included with park admission of $75, $65 seniorsHoliday Ice Shows, All In ONE Amazing Festival. and ages 3-12.Visit www.snowfestsarasota.com. LegolandDate: Dec. 14 – Dec. 23, Monday – Friday 5 p.m. to 10 p.m., One Legloland Way, Winter HavenSaturday – Sunday 12 p.m. to 10 p.m.Price: FreeSarasota County Fairgrounds3000 Ringling Blvd., Sarasota

Polk County Coon Hollo Christmas Activities will include a 100 foot ice slide down ourMoscow Ballet's Great Russian Nutcracker hillside, Horse drawn \"Florida Style\" sleigh rides,The Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker will be Christmas classic movies under the stars, nativityperforming at the Lakeland Center Youkey Theatre. hayride, pictures on Santa's lap, and more! BringVisit www.lakelandcenter.com. your blankets and lawn chairs and come celebrateDate: Dec. 27 at 7:30 p.m. Christmas in the country! Call (352) 591-0441.Price: $32.50 to $68 Price: $3 to $5 per activityThe Lakeland Center Date: Dec. 14 to 16, 6 p.m. to 10 p.m.701 West Lime Street, Lakeland Coon Hollo Corn Maize 22480 N Hwy 441, MicanopySuessified Christmas CarolCome see a whimsical reinvention of Dickens' most Homestead Holidaysbeloved Christmas story in wacky rhymed couplets. Stroll through the 1856 restored plantation homeVisit www.hainescitytheater.com. decked out in an array of traditional greenery andDate: Every Saturday at 2 p.m. and Sunday at 7 p.m. Victorian finery. Decorated holidays trees in almostthrough Dec. 16. every room! Docents in Victorian costume!Price: $10 Visit www.hailehomestead.org.Haines City Community Theatre Date: Dec 2, 12 p.m. to 4 p.m.801 Ledwith Ave., Haines City Price: $10 donation, under 12 free Historic Haile HomesteadOcala 8500 SW Archer Rd., GainesvilleA Charles Dickens Christmas: The Urban Family Plaza Ice PalaceChristmas Collection Skate into the season at the Plaza Ice Palace, whichChildren and adults will marvel over the beautiful will be open from 4–10pm on weekdays and 10am–collection of colorful trees, nutcrackers, and countless 10pm on weekends.decorations that the Urban family has collected over Call (352) 393-7527.the years. Call (352) 291- 4455. Date: Daily through Jan.6.Date: Dec. 15 at 1 p.m. Price: Dec. 3 - 5: free, Dec. 6-Jan 13: $10/hr with skatePrice: Free rental, $7/hr with personal skatesAppleton Museum of Art Bo Diddley Community Plaza4333 E. Silver Springs Blvd., Ocala 111 E. University Ave., GainesvilleCandlelight Visits From ParentGuide’sA rare opportunity to experience the 1856 original Family to your Family,plantation house decorated for the holidays and wishing you the very best,stunningly illuminated by the glow of candles and and remember the reasonsoft lights, much as it may have looked when the Haile for the season!family still lived there.Visit www.hailehomestead.org.Date: Dec. 7, 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.Price: $10 donation, under 12 freeHistoric Haile Homestead8500 SW Archer Rd., Gainesville www.parentguide.com

GIVING BACK by Lauren Lieberman Inspirational Stories of Those in Tampa Bay Who Go the Extra Mile for OthersTampa Bay’s Child Philanthropist,Zach Bonner Zach Bonner, from Tampa, Fla., may be the world’s without water and electricity. Bonner wanted to helpyoungest philanthropist. He started a foundation at age his neighbors, and began collecting water and supplies6 to help homeless youth, walked across the country for those in need, using a little a red wagon. A yearat age 12 to raise awareness, and now, at age 14 has a later, he started his non-profit organization.movie made out about his work. Every year, Bonner organizes a “24 hour” event, The movie “Little Red Wagon,” debuted in Tampa where he along with other local youth simulate beingNov. 9 at various theaters, including AMC Veterans homeless for 24 hours, including spending the night in24. The screenplay was written by Patrick Sheane a cardboard box. He also has organized annual holidayDuncan (“Mr. Holland’s Opus”), and directed by David parties for homeless youth and foster kids, victims ofAnspaugh (“Rudy,” “Hoosiers”). The cast includes natural disasters, and domestic violence shelters.Chandler Canterbury as Bonner and Anna Gunn as his On Bonner’s blog, he gives credit to his mom formother, Laurie. supporting his desire to help. “When I heard that people “Some kids like to play baseball and some kids needed food and water, it was a natural thought processlike to play football. But I like to do community to want to help. My Mom is whom I give credit. Whenservice work,” Bonner says on his Web site, I told her I wanted to help, she didn’t shoot me down.littleredwagonfaoundation.com. She didn’t tell me all the doubts that she had about Bonner has filled over 4,000 backpacks for how successful I would be. She simply said, ‘Okay,’ ”homeless youth around the country, with food and Bonner writes.personal hygiene kits, along with candy or a small toy. For more information about Zach BonnerHe wants the kids to know he cares about their “kid”needs as well as their basic needs. and “The Little Red Wagon Foundation” visit: Bonner started his work at age 6, after Hurricane www.littleredwagonfoundation.com. To view aCharley tore through the state in 2004, leaving many trailer of the movie based on Bonner, visit: www.32 parentguide.com ittleredwagonfoundation.com.

The Garbage-Men, Local High-Schoolers Making Music Out of Trash The Garbage-Men are a band of five high school boys from Sarasota, Fla., that play music on instruments they make from trash and recycled materials. The group donates all profits from gigs and CD sales to charity. “The cool thing about our band isn’t just the music, but the message behind the music—which is that you can reuse things like garbage that you would usually throw out to create things,” said Jack Berry, Garbage-Men guitarist and front man. Berry, 16, said the idea for the band started when he wanted to make a guitar in eighth grade. “I didn’t have any wood or a saw, so I made it from materials I could find lying around the house,” he said. He went on to add a bottle-cap pickup, a bridge made from lipstick bottles, toothpick frets and a shoelace strap. “I took it to school to show my friend Ollie, and he had the idea to start a band using instruments like the guitar I made,” he said. In 2010, the Garbage-Men were formed. In addition to Berry, the band consists of: Ollie Gray, drums; Evan Tucker, bass;Austin Siegel, chromatic percussion; Harrison Paparatto, saxophone, trombone and violin. The group likes to play instrumental versions of 60s songs and has created more than 15 instruments to use at shows. Some of the instruments include an electric violin made from a cereal box, a mailbox snare drum and a PVC pipe flute. The group sells CDs at performances and donates all proceeds to Heiffer International. Barry said the band has raised more than $3,000. The group chose to support the organization because of the way it works. “It kind of goes with our message. The way the charity works is they give an animal to a family in a poor areaor country where they need animals. The family can use it for fur, milk or eggs. When the animal has a baby,they give the baby to another family in the community. So, when you donate one animal, you eventually helpthe whole community,” Barry said. The group performs throughout the Gulf Coast and played in Times Square this past July and were featuredon CNN. They have also performed at MOSI in Tampa, Fla., the Orlando Science Center and the Atlanta FoxTheater for the TV show, “America’s Got Talent.” For more information about the Garbage-Men, visit their Web site: www.thegarbagemen.com, or e-mail: [email protected]. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 33

Operation Kenya Kids, Largo CoupleReaches Out to Africa couple who owns the school have three boxes of pens from the Bic company in children of their own. There’s nine of Clearwater, Fla., that she said were “too When Carolyn Middleton Sullivan, them, and they all live in one room,” heavy to lift.”a retired social worker from Largo, Fla., Sullivan said. It was then the Sullivan’s knewtook a safari vacation to Kenya, she She shared the story of one of the they could do more, and Operationdidn’t plan on finding a new family in a children adopted by the school, Fallian, Kenya Kids was formed in June 2011.remote village. 7, who was orphaned by HIV/AIDS. The couple now supports nine Kenyan Through several trips to the village of “She is a very smart little girl and a schools, with over 2,000 students inMajiwa, Sullivan “fell in love” with the hard, hard worker. But, she never smiles, attendance by collecting “wish list”people she describes as “dignified, kind never talks to many people, she just items from school administrators ofand generous,” despite having so little. keeps to herself,” she said. what children need the most. In a village with no running water But, Sullivan grew close to the Boxes of textbooks, new shoes,or electricity, mud huts are the norm. girl during her last visit and has since school supplies and hygiene products fillChildren take bathes in streams or “adopted” her, by sending letters, the Sullivan’s’ living room and garage.puddles of water, and often have to write pictures, cards, clothes and shoes and But, she has to wait to ship thetheir lessons with sticks in the sand. becoming her “American mama.” She supplies until she can afford the shipping Sullivan said the area has been hit said Judy and Charles Oyugi, Fallian’s costs.hard by HIV/AIDS and most of the caretakers and owners of the school she “I sent a box of textbooks over and itchildren are orphaned by the disease, attends, say it has changed Fallian’s was $150,” Sullivan said.and are often carriers of it themselves. personality. During Sullivan’s last trip to With no organized system of “They tell me her entire personality Kenya she was able to meet many ofadoption or social services available, the has changed. She’s showing all her the students she helped. She said thevillage is left to rely on itself. new things to her friends, she’s smiling children lined up around the school to “There’s a cultural responsibility in and more outgoing. It has taken her shake her hand, and some went back toKenya to take a child in. If you have it, personality and turned it around, because the end of the line to shake it twice.you share your food and what you have, now she feels special,” Sullivan said. “I told them if you work hard inwith kids and the elderly,” Sullivan said. Sullivan said it was people like Fallian school, I’ll work hard too, to send you She explained many of the schools that inspired her to start the organization, the things you need,” she said.in Kenya open their doors to children along with a man named John that she met who have nowhere else to go. outside a curio shop, who asked her if she “A school I stayed with on Lake had any ballpoint pens. For more information on OperationVictoria adopted six children, and the “He pulled out his wallet and showed Kenya Kids, visit us pictures of his sons. He said my boys go to school, but they have nothing to www.operationkenyakids.org. write with,” Sullivan said. Sullivan gave the man the few pens she had on her, and promised to send a box of pens when she returned home. And she did, she received two34 parentguide.com

Brown Bag Lunches of Pinellas,GIVING BACKLocal MboymLaFureeneLdiesbeHrmoamn elessMaria Johannesen, 38, wanted to do something to help Point Neighborhood Family Center in Clearwater, Fla.on July Fourth, last year. In honor of the holiday, she The group served brown bag lunches to low-incomeposted on her Facebook page that she wanted to create children during the day.250 brown bag lunches for the homeless and asked her To celebrate Thanksgiving this year, the group willfriends for help. be holding a dinner banquet, Nov.17, at the Unitarian “I felt like the way the economy was going, Universalist Church of Clearwater. Johannesen invitedeveryone was losing their spirit. And they forgot about 100 children in foster care and from the Pinellasthe community and that we have to help each other,” County Sheriff Youth Ranch. The organization alsoJohannesen said. invited 30 low-income elderly for the holiday. Besides, Through the Facebook event, Johannesen gathered a Thanksgiving dinner spread with all the trimmings,over 30 volunteers. They filled brown paper bags with guests will be entertained by local artists.peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, a granola bar, The Largo mother of three works as a behavioralapplesauce, a bottle of water and an “angel note.” assistant while attending college for a degree in special The group was granted permission from the education. She said she lives paycheck-to-paycheck,Salvation Army of St. Petersburg to use their soup and helping out doesn’t take tons of time or money.kitchen as long as they agreed to feed everyone who “Most of my volunteers are everyday people. Manywalked through the door. are single moms, and if they can do it, anyone can,” They agreed, and fed almost 500 meals that day, Johannesen said.doubling her goal of 250. She said the brown bag lunches cost about $2 to “A few months after that we decided to do it again, make and the group accepts monetary donations as welland that time I was able to feed over 2,000. And since as lunch items.then it has just grown. We served over 7,000 within the “Even if it’s just $5 or a jar of peanut butter, it canyear,” Johannesen said. make a difference,” she said. The group became a non-profit in January 2012, and usually does four events a year, including anannual Fourth of July event. This year, the group For more information on Brown Bag Lunches ofstarted a summer lunch program to serve the High Pinellas, visit their Web site www.brownbaglunchesofpinellas.org. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 35

ParentGuide's®Top Family Rides of 2013Cars to fit your budget and your style! Ready to rev it up for the next year, which is just around the corner? Well, regardless if you’re in the market for a new vehicle or just an auto aficionado eager to see what’s happening in the world of cars, you’ll want to take a look at ParentGuide’s picks for the top autos for 2013-2014. With The Family In Mind Toyota Sienna A perennial family favorite, this year’s Toyota Sienna van boasts gas mileage of 17 mpg in the city to 23 mpg on the highway. The Sienna engine is a 3.5 liter V6, and the 2013 edition features a blind- spot warning as well as three-zone climate control and easy-clean fabric—something every parent appreciates. Fits seven to eight passengers. Price ranges from $24,655 - $41,325. Nissan Quest New additions for this year’s Nissan Quest van include standard AroundView Monitor added to the LE models and a DVD entertainment system which is now available on the SV model (it remains standard on LE and still available on SL models). Quest offers a 3.5 liter V6 engine with a variable transmission and up to 19 mpg in the city and 25 mpg on the highway. Price ranges from $25,990 - $42,640. Hyundai Santa Fe With its first makeover since 2007, the new Hyundai Santa Fe is actually two SUVS, with the smaller, five-seater version now known as the Santa Fe Sport. The new Sport features a 2.4 liter engine with gas mileage ranging from 21 to 29 mpg, a sleek design and a lighter weight than previous Santa Fe models. The new Grande Santa Fe offers three rows of seating with a 3.3 liter V6 engine and should be in showrooms this January. Pricing for the Sport model starts around $24,000. Chevy Traverse Seating up to eight, the Chevy Traverse offers a 3.6 liter V6 engine, and with some transmission tweaks made for this year’s edition, also boasts good gas mileage—17 mpg city and 24 mpg highway. Changes also include some styling features such as a grille that resembles the new Impala, squared tail lights and chrome-accented license plate housing. Suggested pricing at $30,510. Chrysler Town & Country Another family favorite, the Town & Country van is not only spacious but has a 3.8 liter V6 engine with 283 horsepower gets 17 to 25 mpg in the city and highway respectively. It’s a four-door, seven-passenger van with three styles to choose from: Touring, Touring L and Limited. Pricing starts at $29,995.

Honda OdysseyThe Honda Odyssey added an important safety feature to the new 2013 edition: a backup camera thatcomes standard on all models. Most other features have carried over from 2012 including its well-planned design and general interior comfort for up to seven or eight passengers. The Odyssey comeswith a 3.5 liter V6 engine, automatic transmission and good gas mileage—18 city, 27 highway. Pricingfor models runs $28,575 to $43,925.Mid-Size RidesFord FusionEPA-rated at as high as 37 mpg on the highway and 24 city, it’s one of the best mid-size cars for gasefficiency and comes with lots of optional features for moms and dads. Additionally, the Fusion isroomier than it looks, handles very well and offers a stylish body and interior. Plus, two models offerengines with Ford’s EcoBoost. But what may be the best feature of this mid-size auto is its affordableprice. It starts at $21,700.Chevy Impala (2014)It’s not even 2013, and Chevy already unveiled its 2014 model in 2012. And no, they didn’t forget 2013,they did refresh the model for that year. But what has reviewers really talking is the redesign for 2014,which is stylish, downright Camaro-like in the front grille and classy on the inside. It also has suiteof safety features including radar to help avoid crashes. If you’re thinking about this mid-size vehicle,waiting for its release, which is projected in early 2013, may be well worth it. Pricing not yet available.Honda AccordA regular bestseller, the 2013 Honda Accord feels roomy and very comfortable. But in addition to itsgeneral comfort are a couple features that now come standard on all models: a rearview camera andautomatic climate controls. But the biggest change is probably the addition of direct injection to its 4cylinder engine and an update to the V6. EPA mileage estimates run 21–27/34–36 mpg for the city andhighway respectively. Pricing starts at $22,470 on up.Toyota AvalonThe Camry, which has been Toyota’s bestselling car for years, has been where the company has pumpedthe bulk of its ad dollars. But this year, the newly redesigned Avalon may steal the Camry’s thunder. Itoffers a very stylish design and athletic performance. It offers the same engine as the Camry, a 3.5 literV6, but adds numerous interior and exterior design tweaks that make it really stand out. ere are threetrim levels with pricing starting at $36,800.

a dad’s LIFE Calm Down, Cocoa!Do you remember the feeling of waking up on presents. In fact, my personal fear was that he would Christmas morning, so excited that you were be so angry that we hadn’t opened last year’s gifts actually in danger of just “popping”? Simply that he would take them all back! exploding right on the spot from sheer exhilaration Well, the other day, I had a moment of great and built-up, pent-up anticipation? Do you remember discovery—an epiphany, if you will. I had just how agonizing it was to wait for your unbearably wakened as I usually do with our dog, Cocoa, leaning slow parents to get up and out to the tree, so that the against me in bed, until I could bear it no longer and carnage could commence? finally got up to let her out to do her business. That’s For at least this one time a year, my sisters and I would when it hit me—that every morning was Christmas truly work together as a unified team to wake them. morning for Cocoa. She was excited to start her day, With great effort, we would finally have them sitting and the great outdoors was the Christmas tree that up in bed. But we all knew that we weren’t even close she was extremely eager to lead me to. But before I to the actual present-opening phase yet. First, Mom could make her dreams come true, I had to first visit had to go out and start the coffee pot for Dad, then the bathroom. Sound familiar? dad had to go into the bathroom and read War and Then we walked out to the living room and toward the Peace cover-to-cover. Finally, after they found their front door, and by now Cocoa was dancing around slippers and put on their robes, Mom would tell my me so much that it was difficult to walk. I slowly put father that the coffee was ready and tell us that Santa on the slip-on shoes that I keep by the front door, had indeed visited. with Cocoa cartwheeling and back flipping next to We weren’t worried that he hadn’t come; our biggest me, but it still wasn’t time to go out. First, I had to fear was that he would arrived already for next year walk to the kitchen to get a plastic bag that we keep by the time our parents finally let us open this year’s and use to collect the little presents that Cocoa leaves38 parentguide.com

A Dad’s Story I By Kurt Goerkeunder the neighbor’s trees. Of course now, Cocoa wasactually levitating from expectation and enthusiasm.But we still have to stop by the front door and get herleash. The final hurdle is getting the front door unlockedand opened before she bursts through it. At this point,especially if there happens to be a squirrel out there, Iactually get to go skiing across the front lawn. (This is aconsidered a rare treat in Florida.)This is why you have to love dogs, because for them,every day is a holiday! I’m pretty sure we could learnsomething from them regarding the phrase, “carpediem”—seize the day. Cats, by the way are just theopposite. They are more like the relative that comesfor Christmas that doesn’t get up with the rest of thefamily to open gifts early; the one who sleeps till noonwith earplugs in their ears. Cats don’t get excited at allin the morning, although in all fairness they do leavelittle presents in a box for their owner almost every day!Kurt Goerke is a father of two, an almost bearable husband, master of Cocoathe dog, professional writer and a Regional Director with the American LungAssociation of Florida. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 39

Short History of Holiday Music, FRroocmkHnym’ nRsoltol by Lauren LiebermanIt’s hard to imagine celebrating the holidays folk song. The song’s popular English translation is without music. Whether it’s dancing to “Frosty known as “Rock of Ages.” the Snowman” with the kids, hearing “Winter Wonderland” while strolling the mall, or singing English settlers brought many of their holiday “Silent Night,” in a candle-lit service—music is a songs to the American colonies during the 1600s. key tradition in how we celebrate the holidays. Some of these included, “We wish You a Merry Christmas,” and “Here We Come a Caroling,” Many of the best loved holiday staples may otherwise known as “The Wassail Song.” be older than we think, according to Zoe Lang, Ph.D., an assistant professor of musicology at the The 1800s ushered in a new wave of holiday University of South Florida. tunes, many of which are still popular today. These songs included, “Joy to the World,” “Away in a “O Come, O Come Emmanuel” is a melody that Manger,” and “Jolly Old St.Nicholas.” “Jingle was originally a hymn and may date all the way Bells” was written during this time and was back to the eighth century—it was used during originally intended as a Thanksgiving song. It’s also Vespers, which was a ceremony performed every one of the few songs from that period composed by day in monasteries,” Lang said. an American, James Lord Pierpont. Other songs have their origins in the church, From the late 1800s to the early 1900s, not such as “O’Come All Ye Faithful,” which originated many new holiday tunes were produced. But, a from an 18th century hymn titled, “Adeste Fidelas.” boom in new holiday music happened again during the 1930s through ‘50s. “Winter Wonderland” and Other well-known tunes hail from Germany, “Santa Claus is Coming to Town” were recorded including “Silent Night,” which became popular in at this time. Gene Autry, the ‘singing cowboy’ English translation. popularized many of the songs we know today. In 1949, he recorded “Rudolph the Red-Nosed “The original, “Still Nacht” was written by Reindeer,” which was a number one hit. He also Austrian composer Franz Gruber in 1818,” Lang said. wrote “Here Comes Santa Claus.” “O Christmas Tree,” is another song with Throughout the 20th century, pop-culture German roots as well as the popular Hanukkah song influenced new holiday music, which was often “Maoz Tzur,” which was adapted from a German secular. Movies, radio, records and TV often40 parentguide.com

premiered many of these songs. Irving Berlin’s “Rather than head for the bomb shelters like“White Christmas” is still the most popular holiday his family and neighbors, this man went to thesong to this day. It made its first appearance in town square, climbed onto a pile of rubble thatthe 1940 movie, “Holiday Inn,” but Bing Crosby had once been the fountain, took out his cello,gave the most well-known rendition of the song in and played Mozart and Beethoven as the city wasthe 1942 movie, “White Christmas.” bombed,” O’Neil said. Social issues influenced holiday music in the The cello player continued to come back every1960s and onward. John Lennon’s “Happy Xmas night and play Christmas carols.(War is Over)” was released in 1971 as a protestsong to the Vietnam War. Peter, Paul and Mary “It was just such a powerful image—a white-recorded the song “Light One Candle,” which haired man silhouetted against the cannon fire,became a popular Chanukah song, even though it playing timeless melodies to both sides of thewasn’t intended as such. conflict amid the rubble and devastation of the city he loves,” O’Neil said. The Trans-Siberian Orchestra song,“‘Christmas Eve/Sarajevo 12/24” was meant Last year, the light classical piece, “Sleighto commemorate the story of a Sarajevo cellist Ride” by composer Leroy Anderson topped theduring the Bosnian War. As a young man, the charts for the second year in a row. The song wascellist is said to have left Sarajevo to play followed by the Eurythmics version of “Winterprofessionally throughout Europe. He returned, Wonderland” and Nat King Cole’s version ofmuch older, during the height of the war to find “The Christmas Song.”his city in ruins. Lauren Lieberman is a mom, writer and editor in Paul O’Neil, lead composer of the group, told the Tampa Bay area.the story in a 2003 interview to Russ Breimeier ofChristianity Today. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 41

money TALKS Featuring Money Advice I Dave RamseySaving for the next car When it comes to saving up for a car, I’d suggest a simple savings or money market account. They both pay next to nothing in terms of interest right now, but at least you’ll know your money is safe and not going down in value. You won’t be worrying about the ups and downs of the stock market or whether or not you can actually get a better car just because some clown on Wall Street flipped a switch.Dear Dave, Did you know that the average car payment in America right now is $487? Even if you hid that money in a cookie jar, you’d have nearly $5,000 in just 10 months. And despite what a lot of people say, you can still get a decent, little, used car for that kind of cash.I finally paid off my old car, and now I’m taking your advice It’s like grandma always said, Kristi. “Save up and pay forand saving up to pay cash for a newer one in the future. it!” If you don’t have the money to pay for something inWhere should I put the money I plan on saving for the next full, then you can’t really afford it.five years? Would a mutual fund be a good idea? -DaveKristiDear Kristi,I love that you’re going to save up and pay cash for yournext car. But the problem with mutual funds is they goup and down in value. I love mutual funds for long-terminvesting, and by this I mean a bare minimum of fiveyears. Still, I wouldn’t recommend them as a method ofsaving for a vehicle purchase. * Dave Ramsey is America’s trusted voice on money and business. He’s authored four New York Times best-selling books: Financial Peace, More Than Enough, The Total Money Makeover and Entre Leadership. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more than 5 million listeners each week on more than 500 radio stations. Follow Dave on Twitter at @DaveRamsey and on the Web at daveramsey.com42 parentguide.com

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Giving Thanks I Dr. Susan Bartell a teachable MOMENT™Giving Thanks this holiday season November—the beginning of the holiday season I do not always find it easy to do all of this, and I’mand the almost-end of the year—is, for me, a month sure that you, too, don’t find it simple to reach theof reflection and appreciation. relationship goals that you set for yourself—whether they are as a mom or a wife, or whether they are To begin, I am grateful for my children—but with chocolate or a messy room. But our aim is tonot only in the ways that you might imagine (of do the best that we can, and to keep trying to docourse, I am thankful for their health and happiness). better. In the process of recognizing that we areEvery single day, my children challenge me to be a not perfect, we must forgive those in our lives forbetter person—to be more patient, to listen more their imperfections so that we can all move forwardattentively, to be empathic about their challenges, together harmoniously.however small they may seem relative to my adultchallenges. My son teaches me that you can play Indeed, I believe that this is the true spirit ofhard, fight hard and then simply move on, holding the holiday season and good reflection for theno grudges. My older daughter is a reminder not to approaching end of another year. Happy holidays topre-judge: even though your bedroom perpetually you and the loved ones in your life.looks like it was hit by a hurricane, you can somehowstill walk out of it looking ultra-fashionable. And, my Dr. Susan Bartell is America’s #1 Family Psychologist. Heryounger daughter offers the important lesson that, latest parenting book is The Top 50 Questions Kids Ask.no matter how hard you work (and she does work You can learn more about her at www.drsusanbartell.comhard), getting enough sleep is just as important…even if your sleep begins at 1:00 a.m. and ends at1:00 p.m.How have your children made you a better person? Of course, I am not just a mother. I am a wife, adaughter, a sister, a friend, an aunt, a psychologist,a writer… and a chocoholic. Each of these roles inmy life challenges me to consider the parts of myselfwith which I am satisfied, and to work on changingthose that do not reflect my best self. Every one ofthe central roles in my life also reminds me aboutthe importance of the hard work that is necessaryin order for me to become better at each of theseimportant relationships (except for my relationshipwith chocolate—it seems to require little work otherthan restraint)! I want to be the best wife, mother,daughter, sister, friend and aunt that I can possiblybe. I want to be sure that I am truly helping the kidsand adults who entrust me with their life struggles,and I want to touch the lives of those who read mybooks and articles. Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 45

family LIFE Simplicity ParentingFamilies Share - Favorite Holiday Traditions Betsy (Texas), shares, “This school year has brought about a change in routine for us, since all three kids are now in elementary school. We’ve been deliberate about still continuing to eat breakfast together, dinner together every night around the table, read books together, pray together, but we have really missed the amountoftimewewerespendingtogetherdoingthings. So my husband and I set out to gather ideas that we thought would be fun to do as a family, and then create an Advent Family challenge calendar. Our rules are that we do them as a family each day, everyone has to participate, and no one can lose it as a part of a consequence. Every morning, one of the kids pulls out the card from the day’s pocket and reads aloud what we’ll do. It might be create an ornament to give away, decorate your bedroom door, make homemade pizza and watch a movie, make ice cream snowman sundaes. We’ve really enjoyed it. It is an intentional way for us to make sure we are connecting, spending time together and having a ton of fun along the way!”This time of year, all of us are looking for a little Samantha (UK), shares, “Our favourite familyinspiration for ways to connect as a family. We want tradition at this time of year relates to celebratingto deepen family relationships and offer that wonder- Advent. My son has a beautiful wooden Advent lorryfilled experience that our children will always carry with that we bought him in France when he was a baby,them.  Perhaps you are looking for some fresh ideas?  with a drawer for each day of Advent, and my daughterSimplicity Parenting readers share here some of their own has an Advent angel/doll, with a pocket for every dayfavorite family traditions! of Advent. So each day, I put either a couple of raisins or a small piece of licorice inside the relevant drawer/46 parentguide.com pocket, together with a small picture of something or someone that relates to the day. This is always really simple and does not involve spending much money or having big outings; it may be a picture of mince pies, to show that we are going to either eat or make some, or a photo of ducks that we often feed at a nearby pond, or of a Christmas tree, to show that we are going to decorate it today, or a photo of a close friend or relative who we will be seeing that day, and so on. Occasionally I splurge on a Christmassy story book or a theatre show as a treat for them, and put a photo of that in there. It is really fun to do, costs very little and brings so much joy— they both rush downstairs every morning to see what is in their Advent lorry/dolly today.”

Simplicity Parenting I Traci McGrathSarah says, “Winter Solstice has always been an important Courtesy ofHoly day in our family. I always give my daughters a festive www.simplicityparenting.comadornment gift on that day—something they can wear to aHanukkah or Christmas celebration. It’s usually somethingI’ve made, but not always. My mother used to help me make‘fancy dresses’ when my daughters were little. Now that theyare older, I might make them a scarf and include a naturalmascara or lipstick…”Danielle (Cape Cod, MA) says, “Our favorite [holidayritual] is our traditional advent reading.  My husband isa commuter, so he usually gets home late. We always put onall the lights inside and out for him. We light our dozens ofcandles and try to have something warm to eat for him. Thehouse smells good and just feels really cozy with everyone intheir jammies waiting for PaPa to get home.  After hugs andkisses, he settles in with us all around him to read the book wehave chosen this year.  With the candles and Christmas lightsit’s pure magic to listen to him reading the chapters. The kidsget sleepy and are ready for prayers. It’s a magical way for aday to end.”Courtesy of www.simplicityparenting.comTraci McGrath lives near Austin, Texas, with her husband and twoboys who love digging in the dirt, collecting bugs, making up gamesand stories, and playing music; together as a family they love beingoutside and camping. You can visit her blog, Educated for Love, or seethe visual daily rhythm charts she makes at A Kid’s Day.Guessing works SOME OF THE TIMEKnowing works ALL OF THE TIME PORT RICHEY Holiday Wish Guide ParentGuide® 47