Sunrise: 9th June, 1932 – Sunset: 7th Sept. 2022
BURIAL, MEMORIAL & THANKSGIVING SERVICE FOR THE LATE DATE: 25th November 2022 TIME: 8:30AM VENUE: The Cathedral Church of the Most Holy Trinity, High Street, Accra
Officiating Clergy 1. Rt. Rev’d Dr. Daniel S. M. Torto Diocesan Bishop of Accra 2. Most Rev’d Dr. Robert G. A. Okine Former Archbishop of CPWA 3. Most Rev’d Dr. Justice O. Akrofi Former Archbishop of CPWA 4 Rt. Rev’d Dr. Victor R. Atta-Baffoe Bishop of Cape Coast Diocese 5. Rt. Rev’d Alexander K. Asmah Bishop of Sekondi Diocese 6. Rt. Rev’d Felix O. Annancy Bishop of Koforidua Diocese 7. Rt. Rev’d Dr. George K. Neequaye Suffragan Bishop ( Accra Diocese) 8. Very Rev’d Samuel L. Lamptey Dean of the Cathedral 9. Very Rev’d Dr. Emmanuel I. K. Addo Archdeacon of Accra North 10. Very Rev’d Seth J. A. Sackey Rtd 11. Ven. Dr. Joseph L. Lamptey Archdeacon of Accra East 12. Ven. Samuel Hansen-Addy Archdeacon of Tema 13. Rev’d Canon Samuel O. Ankrah Parish Priest, Holy Family - Adentan 14. Rev’d Canon Bernard T. Antwi Parish Priest, St. Luke - Kwashieman 15. Rev’d Canon Victor L. A. Acquaye Parish Priest, St. Mary - Accra 16. Rev’d Canon Dr. Patrick Okaijah- Bortier Parish Priest - St. Andrew - Abossey-Okai 17. Rev’d Canon Ebenezer Jones-Okai Diocesan Secretary 18. Rev’d Canon Andrew N. A. Torgbor Anglican Minister - Accra Ridge Church 19. Rev’d Canon Vincent VNNA Attoh Parish Priest, St. Stephen - Tema 20. Rev’d Canon (ADP) Selwyn S. A. Okai Chaplain General, Prison Service 21. Rev’d Canon Daniel N. A. Quaye Precentor of the Cathedral 22. Rev’d Canon William Hutton-Mensah Chaplain, Christ Anglican Church- Legon 23. Rev’d Canon Noah A. Mensah Rtd 24. Rev’d Canon Robert J. A. Nyann Rtd 25. Rev’d Fr. Ransford E. Titus-Glover Priest Assisting, HTC 26. Rev’d Fr. Ernest N. Wuaboh Parish Priest, St. Andrew - Alogboshie 27. Rev’d Fr. Thomas Wilson Jacobs Priest Assisting, HTC 28. Rev’d Dr. Gloria N. D. Addico Priest Assisting, HTC
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 1 Order of Service At the Organ Master of the Music Hymn Supplementary 19 Mr. Joel Badger Organist Biography Mr. David Lawson Organist Hymn Supplementary 40 Mr. Benjamin Sawyer Organist Sermon Mr. Seth Aryee Organist Offertory Hymns A&M 400, A&M 184,A&M Mr. Nathaniel Amfo-Tetteh 228, Supplementary 3 Blessing of Offertory Verger Mr. Jonathan Dzarflo Otoo PART 3 - THANKSGIVING SERVICE Hymn A&M 623 PART 1 - PRE-BURIAL SERVICE Prayer Processional Hymn A&M 265 Hymn MHB 975 Prayer Absolution Hymn A&M 686 Dead March from Saul Lesson 2 Corintinthians 15:51- end Recessional Hymn MHB 674 File Past Hymns HTC Choir Tributes PART 4 - AT THE GRAVESIDE File Past Hymns HTC Choir Processional Hymn A&M 609 Closing of Coffin A&M 399 Sentences Hymn A&M 401 PART 2 - BURIAL SERVICE Committal Hymn A&M 196 Laying of Wreaths Prayer Vote of Thanks Psalm 121 Hymn A&M 19 Lesson John 14:1-6 Benediction
2 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 3 Biography OF THE LATE PETER WILLIAM EKOW BERNASKO “His absence is like the sky spread He was the 4th of 11 children, known as Accounting and Auditing. over everything”. coming after, Sister Bertha +OHP Upon completion of his training, he (Order Of The Holy Paraclete), Mrs. returned to his duty post in Cape C. S. Lewis. Nancy Hughton, and Colonel Frank Coast and was elevated to the rank George Bernasko. Who are all now of Senior Administrator. “Those we love never truly leave us, deceased. there are things that death cannot He met his wife, Mercy Phyllis, a touch.” Jack Thorne He star ted his elementar y education nurse, in Cape Coast. In his tribute at Government Boys School, Cape to her at her funeral in July 2013, he The late Peter William Ekow Bernasko Coast, and then proceeded to described their romantic meeting was born on the 9th of June Mfantsipim School where he took in the following words: 1932 in Anachin, in Cape Coast to the Cambridge School Certificate Francis George Bernasko, a District Exam and passed with distinction. Commissioner of Education, and While in Mfantsipim, he was a long- an Honorary Member of the British distance runner for the school and Empire (MBE), and Sophia Rosetta represented the school in long jump Odoukua Bernasko, an accomplished events, utilizing his good height Organist, and a teacher at Wesleyan and reach to great advantage. Girls’ School and Training Home (now After his School Cert Examination, Wesley Girls’ High school). he decided to start work to support his parents in raising his younger siblings. He therefore joined the Methodist Education Unit, Cape Coast as an administrator. His hard work and diligence were recognized early, and shortly after starting work, he was sent to the head office in Accra to be trained in Bookkeeping now
4 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO “I met Awo, as I fondly called her in perfect wife and proposed to her. with the London School of Cape Coast. I was then a bachelor Our relationship deepened as Accounting and successfully staying in my father’s house at time went by. After one year of passed them. He then proceeded courtship, I decided to introduce to take advanced courses in those Trom. She was a nurse at Saltpond her to my father. On the said day disciplines. He also took courses Government Hospital and regularly I got into a new suit and a new in Company Law and Practice. visited a colleague nurse who had pair of shoes, while hired a room on the ground floor of she wore a simple He joined the Civil my father’s house. She would come and lovely kente there to give money to a young lady attire, my father Service and worked then living with a colleague nurse, was taken in by her to be sent home to her parents. and blessed the for several years at After a while, they passed by to relationship. We got exchange pleasantries whenever married on the 23rd Registrar General’s she came to visit. I immediately of December 1961 at knew she was my choice of a the Methodist church Department, Accra, in Cape Coast.” as a Company Inspector, a position which took him around the whole country inspecting They thereafter operations and relocated to Accra. auditing the books They were blessed of registered with 2 biological companies in Ghana, children Francis to ensure compliance George Bernasko with the Companies and Sophia Rosetta Act, 1962. Bernasko Essah. In recognition of his deep sense of He also adopted integrity, discipline, and professionalism, Mildred, a grand he was appointed to the seat of government, which was then at niece of his wife Castle Osu, where he worked in the department of intelligence Mercy. and security then known as the Special Services Division. In Accra, he first worked at the Anglican Education Unit, Accra, He worked with distinction and in as a Principal Administrator. 1974 was selected to undertake a Having identified Accounting course in the United Kingdom on and Auditing as his interest and forte, he undertook Professional Accounting and Auditing examinations by correspondence
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 5 National Security and Intelligence After retiring he worked in the Organ in the Anglican Church of with a specialization in Aviation finance and audit departments Ghana. He first learned to play Security, under the sponsorship of of several companies including the organ under her tutelage the British Government. Upon his Japan Motors, dealers in Nissan and developed his dexterity on return to Ghana, he was appointed vehicles, Sabel Company the keyboard. He also played the Head of Security and Intelligence Limited, a company engaged in violin. He was a musician par at the Kotoka International Airport. the importation of heavy-duty excellence. He had a good singing He also imparted his knowledge equipment, Nitra Industries, and voice. During the period 1943-1961, and skill by lecturing senior civil Aikens Electrical Engineering he was a chorister at the Christ and public servants at GIMPA on and Consultancy, a company Church, Cape Coast, and in 1962, national security and intelligence. that undertook several when he relocated to Accra, he Government projects, among joined the Cathedral Church of the others. He was a member of the Most Holy Trinity as a chorister- Board of Directors of several soloist. He had a voice capable of companies. singing almost all parts. He soon became Master of the Music of the He readily assisted his friends Cathedral, a position established and associates who contacted in the diocesan constitutions. He him to overlook their finances readily assisted other parishes at and prepare tax returns for the organ when the need arose. their companies. Most of these he did pro bono. He was part of the Cathedral choir which regularly performed to the Peter was also business Nation on national television- oriented. He ran a fleet of Ghana Broadcasting Corporation, commercial vehicles at a time. (then the only TV station). He also cultivated rice and corn, on large tracts of farmlands at Uncle Peter as he was popularly Asutuare in the Eastern region, called, did not compromise on the produce of which he sold timeliness to all events, church, or to commercial off-takers. He social. He was almost always the invested most of the income in first person present at events, bonds and stocks, on which he including funerals. kept a keen and steely eye. He remained in the Cathedral He was best known for his choir until he could no longer musical career. Inspired by climb the rather steep staircase the musical proficiency of his to the choir gallery even with the mother who was celebrated as aid of a walking stick. the first female to play the Pipe
6 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO He was a member of the District In 1992, He was awarded the Accra, Rt. Reverend Daniel Sylvanus Grand Lodge Ghana (Freemasons Bishop’s Badge of Honour in Mensah Torto, with the Golden Society). In 1995, he was installed recognition of his enormous Cathedral badge of honor, which as the District Grand Director of contribution to the church and the is the highest award of honor in Music of the Lodge. In later years Church’s music in general. He was the Diocese, in appreciation and he was unable to participate in also honored as a representative recognition of his contribution to society’s meetings due to the of the Cathedral Church on the the Anglican church. The citation exigencies of his health. Board of the Association of read as follows: Anglican Church Choirs at Ho, in Despite his quiet disposition, 2001. he was a very social person, and affable too. He enjoyed Upon his retirement as Master entertaining friends and family at of Music, the title of Past Master home and also attending social of Music of the Cathedral events. Church of the Most Holy Trinity was conferred on him. In an Being a strong advocate of family accompanying Citation he was cohesion, he encouraged the described in the following words: family (Bernasko, Laing & Grant) to have reunion parties on the “Your initiative, high sense of duty, first of January every year which exceptional skill, and performance was labeled “On The Oneth”. were ingredients that culminated in your appointment as Master He did not hesitate to assist his of music in 1998. Under your siblings and relations as well as distinguished leadership, you non-family members, whenever have consciously displayed a the need arose. He was a firm, sense of magnanimity, maturity, fair, and respected counselor and integrity, and loyalty to the church elder of the family. He was very as its Master of Music.” well respected by many. He was a sincere and genuine Christian These words encapsulate the too. person Peter William Bernasko. In His later years he was installed On the 9th of June 2022, at his Head of Family under the title 90th birthday thanksgiving mass Kona Abusuapanyin Peter Ekow held at the Cathedral, he was Bernasko, a position he guarded again honored by the Bishop of jealously.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 7 “In recognition of your He also left behind 2 Great Grand We thank God for gifting him to us. outstanding and exemplary Children-Twins, Jayden & Justin He served his family, church, and service to the Cathedral Church, Padilla. humanity with love, kindness, and your brilliance, your affability distinction. After a long fruitful life, in your duty, your gentility in On the night of 6th September Peter, and Mercy are now reunited. person, valiant commitment 2022, Peter was taken ill and Uncle, Brother, Dada, Granda, Great- to the service of the Lord our admitted to the Accra Medical grandpa, you have played your part Savior Jesus Christ, The Cathedral Center, Ring Road. He passed away on this earth, now may the Lord Church of the Most Holy Trinity, the next day, 7th September 2022. grant you eternal rest. Accra, confers on you the Golden Cathedral Badge of honor. Congratulations.” He had his share of earthly grief and pain. In 1992, his son Francis George Bernasko, then working at the Bank of Ghana, passed away suddenly at the age of 29. Then in May 2013, after 52 years of blissful marriage, Mercy his wife was also called to glory, at the age of 79. Some of his younger siblings, Archibald, Dorothy, and Victoria, also passed away in his lifetime. He is survived by three of his brothers Emmanuel, Ted, and Alex Kwesi. He left behind 6 grandchildren. Peter William Bernasko, Dr. Frank George Bernasko, Dr. Lillie Padilla, Robert Richard Essah, Dr. Annette Korantema Essah & Edmund Benjamin Essah Jnr.
8 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO EULOGY BY Child JUSTICE ROSETTA SOPHIA BERNASKO ESSAH Dearest Da, this is the Mama always saying “Ah3n ara yin” umpteenth attempt at meaning “this is all of us”. Then in writing a tribute to you, 2013, we tearfully watched mama and I hope I am successful sink and fade away. Her death this time. As you would shattered you because she was expect, I am grief-stricken your soul mate. You had been and distressed by your married for 52 years at the time death. of her death. You loved each other Not that I expected you to live deeply. Your human presumption Death is the end of dying. The day forever, but I never imagined, on of seniority in age in the order of a believer dies, dying is done with the night of 6th September 2022, death was seriously rebutted by forever. The saints who are with when we took you to the hospital the circumstances of their deaths. God now will never die again. because you were feeling some By your passing away before me, discomfort, that you would not the order has been restored. But …Death is the beginning of our best return home. You had lived four the sunshine of our happy home days.” score years and ten, on this earth, has been clouded forever. two score, more than allotted in CHARLES SPURGEON (1834-1892) the Bible. However, it is not the Without any equivocation, I knew I numbers that matter to me, but was always your special daughter. the broken bond of love, friendship, I recall you carrying me shoulder and respect. high upon your 6 feet 3 inches, frame and tickling me to make me Da, we were always a happy, tightly laugh… at such times I thought I knitted quadrangle, You, Mama, could touch the stars. Other times it Papa Edzii, and me. Papa passed was to get me as close as possible away suddenly at the age of 29 to the basketball net to enable years in 1992. That broke a link in me to drop in a ball so you would the family chain and shook the applaud me. You taught me to ride foundation of our union. We tried the bicycle and would let me beat to mend the break and cherish you in competitions. each other more. I recall you and You had several pet names for me. As a child, it was simply “Sweet.”
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 9 Then it became ‘Sweetie dear.’ As Preparatory School, which was you would let us accompany you I grew into adulthood, you called then a privately managed Parent/ on your work trips to various parts me by the name your mother was Teacher school, where the fees of the country. I particularly loved called by you and your siblings, “My were comparatively higher than the train rides to Kumasi. And Dear’ or “Maa Dear.” You even used most primary schools at the time. looked forward to visits to your to whistle my name. After Mama You would drive us to school every Aunt, Auntie Rosemond Mancell’s passed away you started calling morning, pick us up at closing time School, Mancell Vocational School, me Mmaa meaning ‘My Mother’ or which was 1:30 pm, take us home where she would shower me with Maa and that continued until you and then return to work at the several gifts and pretty clothes. joined her. Registrar General’s Department, Then, were visits to the Kumasi in the center of Accra. The sacrifice Zoo, the museum, and several You always wanted the best for us. and road risk were lost on us at the places of historic interest. Our visits You decided to send us to Achimota time. But now it means so much to to Mampong Ashanti, where you me. had spent part of your childhood, with your father, then an Education We spent most weekends in Cape Officer, in charge of the Area, are Coast. As you drove us there you still etched in my memory. would narrate to us the history of the people of various towns along As children, the choice of Secondary the route, such as the militant Kromantse, people of Anomabo, The sacrifice Egyaa No. 1, and Egyaa No. 2. We and road knew all the Castles and Forts along the route by name and the risk was lost significance of each in the history on us at the of Ghana. We also learnt about time. But now the colonial days and the fight for it means so independence. After a while, we much to me. could recite the history to you by rote. At a very early age, we knew the distance from Accra to Cape Coast was 90 miles. We knew how many minutes it took you to cover a mile, (you drove slowly and carefully). We also knew how to read and understand, the inscriptions on the concrete milestone pillars fixed along the roadside. When our school term permitted,
10 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO schools we would attend after was our preference. After much you but even more from your elder Class Six when we would sit the resistance and complaints from us, sister, Sister Bertha, +OHP (Order Common Entrance Examination, you succumbed and allowed us to of the Holy Paraclete), who would was not a subject of any debate or take the bus. reprimand us severely if we failed discussion. It was Adisadel College to attend church, no matter the for Papa, and Wesley Girls High At home you were very strict reason we gave, or if we appeared School for me, end of story. Thank and principled, everything had to be attracted to “the ways of the you Dada for the choices. I recall to be done in the proper way, world”. I have grown to appreciate how you chose to drive us to school order, and manner. You were also this in laying the foundation of my and back at the beginning and end a disciplinarian, but thankfully I Christian life. of every term, rather than put us never received any cane whips on the State Transport Bus which from you. The glare and stare of It was always such a joy listening to your eyes were sufficient for me you practice your hymns, anthems, to know when I was treading the and tunes on the organ at home. wrong path. I would sit beside you and sing or hum along. You encouraged You taught us to know our God and me to learn to play the piano to pray often. You would wake up because your mother after whom at 4 am every morning to meditate I was named was an accomplished and pray. Your relationship with God pianist. You had marginal success was a personal one I know. Non- in that area of endeavor with me. intrusive and quiet but very deep. Papa rather played the organ very You taught us how to meditate well, following in your footsteps. and pray silently. And encouraged us to learn by heart several psalms, You were a very social person. bible verses, and prayers, which You loved to hold get-togethers we could draw on in difficult times. at home at the least opportunity I have truly benefited from these. and to attend social events. You belonged to several social and Attending morning and evening religious clubs and groups and church services at the Cathedral attended and participated in so Church of the Most Holy Trinity many functions of these groups. every Sunday was Compulsory for It was such an exciting feeling to the whole house. During Easter join you to attend some of these vacation, we spent several hours outings, much against mama’s in the church participating in all wishes, because she thought the services. The insistence on I should rather spend the time regular church attendance and learning home keeping. Even in prayerfulness were not only from your old age, you did not miss any
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 11 opportunity to host guests on your the United Kingdom, you thought birthday or any similar occasion. that was the right time and did everything in your power, to Family was very important to minimize the effect of my absence you and you made sure to bond on my home and children. with all your family members no matter how distant. Several family You took a keen interest in members also lived with us at one my career path and choices, point or another. You extended encouraging me and helping me your kindness and generosity to navigate the way with the benefit people you hardly knew well, so of your experiences, and wisdom. long as they requested same of you or you thought they needed it. You were a firm foundation, through all the storms of my life, a Dad, you were my confidante. In steady hand to hold on to in times adulthood, I could tell you things of trouble. Most of what I am today I could not tell anyone else and is all because of you. You were one know it would be safe with you. of my greatest blessings. Mama was the other. I relied on your counsel for a lot of decisions I took. You would listen And you were so caring too, Dada. quietly, never gave a hasty answer, Even in my adult years, when I but when you finally did, I knew it was unwell, you would sit quietly was well thought out. You lived and unobtrusively by me for hours the words of James in James 1:19, praying silently for my recovery. “ so then my beloved brethren let I am glad I reciprocated your love every man be swift to hear, slow by remaining at your bedside in to speak.” the hospital night after night and going to work in the morning from I recall how you thought it was not a the hospital whenever you had to good idea for me to leave my young be detained there. marriage and toddlers, to pursue a USAID, fully funded, two-year Dad, you were a good person too. master’s program at George-town You were loved by many people University, USA. I was very upset who encountered you, and since with your advice. I nonetheless, your demise, I have heard such turned down the offer. But when a complimentary things said of you, few years thereafter, I was offered that make me so proud to be your a Chevening Scholarship to pursue daughter. Among Anglicans, you a one-year master’s program in were an institution. Among the
12 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO Clergy you have received very high wonder if you were seeing your like you is that I got the awe and commendations. Just see the huge end then. the joy, the tender moments, and number of clergy, made up of the now get the tears at the end. Bishop of Accra, the Past Primates Your family and friends present and Archbishops of CPWA, the were so happy to see you too. Even though you are gone, I still suffragan Bishop, and hosts of talk to you in my mind, and my clergy who attended your 90th Elliptically, Dada, you were a great heart still longs for you, but I know birthday thanksgiving mass. The man. You gained the respect of you are at peace. Bishop of Accra, Right Reverend intelligent men and the love of Dr. Daniel Sylvanus Torto, on behalf several others. You filled your I watched helplessly as you tried of the Diocese and the Cathedral, niche and accomplished your task. to grapple with the illnesses and honored you with the Golden You left the world better than you debilities that come with old age. Badge of Honor, which you insisted found it, you looked for the best in Your inability to walk without you would not take off your neck, others and gave the best you had. aid, which prevented you from even at the end of the day, and attending church services and when you did take it off after much The price I pay for having a father other social events disturbed you. persuasion, you kept it under your pillow, inspecting it repeatedly each day. Among the choristers, you were a legend. They honored you with a great citation on more than one occasion. They were so delighted to see you on your 90th birthday, and even more ecstatic when you moved your hands, in choir- conducting mode, as you had done in the past. The whole church also went into an uproar of excitement at your display. You kept singing the choir’s anthem, ‘With Heart and Voice’ for many weeks thereafter. When we got home after the mass, you were so pleased with the event that you referred to the clergy and your choristers as “angelic hosts”. As I think of those words now, I
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 13 The fact that you had to be assisted Today, your labours have ended, is my refuge, so I will keep my face to do things you could otherwise and your toils have abated. You always towards the sunshine, and do easily yourself, traumatized have escaped the torments of the shadows will fall behind me. I you. But you suffered it all silently illness. Your body lies at peace, will stride the rest of the journey, and stoically. ready to make its final journey to in confidence, walking in power, the sphere of the beyond. Though miracles, and favor because I know When you could no longer play the your song has ended, the melody who I am. organ because of the inflexibility still lingers on, and the mention of your fingers, you and I would of your name would forever Till we all meet again, fare thee sing together several hymns from strike chords of the tunes of your well. the Anglican hymn book as well life, and that is a monumental as the Methodist hymn book. legacy of who you were and Nyame nfa wonsie You also sang along when we what you did on earth. Unlike played recordings done for you yesterday, you won’t fade away by Venerable Tello Nelson and from our memories. You will Mr. Joel Badger. We both enjoyed never be forgotten. I miss you so those moments. Even on the much. I miss your soft voice and Sunday before you passed away your pleasant and handsome on Wednesday, you sang along face. Your towering and majestic as Junior, your grandson, played personality. I miss sitting with you hymns for you. and chatting. Now all I see is an empty chair and an empty bed. As you lay on your hospital bed on your last visit from which you Adieu, Dada! I salute you. Go on never returned home, I put my shining even into the heavens hand in yours and assured you that for earth bears testimony of you would get well and we would your good works in life. I know return home soon. You simply you are a good spirit, My Angel, squeezed my hand tightly for a so spread your wings out wide. long moment and then released Please wrap them around me it. That was the last time. Dada, whenever you see me cry. I know I was prepared to do anything, that you, Mama and Papa, will all and everything to keep you alive, be watching over me, you will be so I could have ‘one more dance walking beside me unseen and with you’ But your maker thought unheard but always near. Send otherwise, and you bowed to his them my love. Your lone soldier…. decree. But hey… I will survive, the Lord is on my side, and the God of Jacob
14 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY Brother ensured that whatever he did was with a great deal of Siblings circumspection and finality. These were some of the qualities which Blessed is the one who persevered please God and create an impact we imbibed from him. under trial because when he had stood the test, he receives the crown on the lives of all those he We lost both our parents at an of life which the Lord has promised early age, in their fifties, and encountered, it was indeed a life therefore their sudden and Tto those who love him (James 1: 12) well lived and we will treasure the shocking exit took a temporary hough it is very painful precious gift of grace, strength, toll on our family life. hope and joy which leaves such a to accept the loss of a lasting memory with us. At a time when the eldest sibling was out of the country on military loved one whom we Our beloved brother whom we duties, Brother Yokow took charge affectionately called Brother of the family, and managed its have lived with for such Yokow was much loved by all of affairs to the satisfaction of all. us. He stood tall among his peers In most families the sudden a long time, (one of the with his sterling qualities. He was death of the breadwinner, a quiet gentleman with a calm would have destabilized the longest living family and warm disposition, highly entire family. Brother Yokow disciplined, and with impeccable exhibited exceptional leadership members who clocked integrity. skills and remarkable sense of responsibility in keeping the 90 years) especially family together, especially the two youngest siblings who when he lived a life to were then still schooling. Their education was a priority for the family and there was simply no compromise with their education. With the support of the other siblings, Ted and Alex were able to complete their education to university level.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 15 Our brother was a devout On September 7th, 2022, he was confident of his triumphant and Christian who lived and practiced peacefully called to be with his glorious presence with God. the principles and virtues of maker. It was a life well lived to his faith. It was not the regular please his maker. Brother had Brother, we shall sorely miss you. attendance at Services on stood the test & will receive the Rest in perfect peace. Amen. Sunday which mattered to him crown of life as promised. We are but the importance of giving practical meanings to the life of the Christian. He joined The Cathedral Church of the Most Holy Trinity several decades ago starting off as a chorister, undertaking various assignments for the Church, then elevated as Church organist and finally the Master of Music for which he received several awards for his outstanding performance. He loved music and played the organ to render joyful gratitude and adoration to God. On June 9th, 2022, the family organized a Thanksgiving Mass to celebrate our brothers 90th birthday. At the Church service various sections of the congregation eulogized him as a great musician and showed appreciation for his long and dedicated service to the Church. We had hoped that the good Lord would give him many more years to continue to worship and glorify Him, but God’s plans and purposes are different.
16 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY Nephews & Nieces ‘God saw that he was getting tired; nephews and nieces. His siblings for humanity. He never exhibited a cure was not to be; So he put his called him Brother Yorkow, as did anger or frustration in any situation arms around him and whispered, some nieces and nephews and he but rather reassured, comforted, “Come with me”. With tearful responded with much affection and gave his ultimate support to all eyes, we watched him suffer and anytime any of us called on our his nieces and nephews, be it in our fade away. Although we loved him Uncle Yorkow. This noble attribute education, marriages, careers, and dearly, we could not make him stay. of his is one great lesson we take our lives in general, for which we away from him and for which we are eternally grateful. His devotion Agolden heart has will forever cherish and promise to to faith, honor, and decency, has stopped breathing and emulate. anchored our belief in Christ the hardworking hands are Lord, for indeed Uncle Yorkow was laid to rest. Our Uncle always received and a staunch Christian who served treated us with favor, providing God faithfully. He was very active It is with deep sorrow support to us as far as his human in church activities and for many and sadness that we capabilities could take. A man of decades was the principal organist write this tribute to many parts, he played various for the choir of the Cathedral honour our uncle Peter roles in our respective lives. For Church of the Most Holy Trinity. His Bernasko. Of all the some, he was the father we never life personified his commitment to many blessings, however great or knew, for others, the uncle we the service of God. small, to have had him for an uncle could always turn to for guidance was the greatest of all. and counseling, to all of us he was “Cooorect” was one of his favorite the Ebusuapanyin of the family, responses whenever he agreed or We learned closeness and a position he held reverently to approved of what one is saying. togetherness by observing our ensure that norms and traditions He loved company and in his parents’ affinity with him. We saw of the family were upheld and also latter years whenever we visited, a deep bond of love, devotion, the spiritual pillar on which our he would want us to stay a little and timeless decency in his faith is anchored. longer. ɛre ko sisiara, antsɛrl kuraa. relationships with his siblings which Twɛn kakraa. To wit “why leave so abundantly rubbed off on us, his Most of all, Uncle Yorkow soon? Wait a while” epitomized virtue. His actions and inactions have taught us love
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 17 As the sun sets, may the Lord comfort your surviving daughter - our cousin and all your grandchildren, now and always. Brother Yorkow, Uncle Yorkow, Uncle Peter. May the Almighty keep you safe. Rest in perfect peace till we meet again on resurrection day.
18 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY HELENA & JOE AMARTEY NIECE AND NEPHEW (UNITED KINGDOM) Do not weep for me I have not gone I am the memory that dwells in the hearts of those who knew me I am the shadow that dances on the edge of your vision I am just around the corner Therefore, the wise weep not But rejoice at the transformation of my Being
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 19 It was with great sadness that we the trunks of our Grandparents safe all learned that our beloved Uncle Peter these years and was willing to patiently had passed away on 7 September tell (and retell) us what he knew of our 2022, but we find some comfort in family history when asked. Uncle’s the knowledge that Uncle’s was a life warmth whenever we visited was well lived in which he was well loved. immediate, time would fly by when we There is never a good time to lose a were together and despite us living in loved one, yet we celebrate the fact aburokyire, we always felt that bond that Uncle was blessed with 90 years of that makes us family and it felt like no life and was able to recently see so many time had passed at all since we had dear ones who gathered to celebrate his last seen him. special 90th birthday with him. Uncle has now been called to Glory and Uncle was a senior brother to our late whilst mourning our loss we feel sure mother, Mrs. Dorothy Amartey. He was that he would wish us to celebrate his number four and she was number nine life. among the siblings. Uncle and our Mum were not only siblings but also good Rest well Uncle, you have fought the friends. We all grew to adore our Uncle as good fight, you have finished the race, our mother did. you have kept the faith. Perhaps our most enduring memory of You have left a legacy of love and will Uncle, aside from his quiet dignity, calm never be forgotten. presence, and ready smile, is his love and pride in his family – this was so evident whenever he spoke about them and the fact that their photos had pride of place in his home. Uncle made sure that he kept
20 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY Nephews & Nieces ANTWI FAMILY Precious in the sight of the Lord is the that always asked Aunty Mercy “Mm)fra no ahw3 h)n a”. We cherish every single Udeath of His Saints (Psalm 116:15) moment we shared with you. You were ncle Peter, how do we sum up always a good listener. in writing the wonderful life you lived and how awesome an uncle We have so many fond memories of you, you were to us and the family. but all of them cannot be written in this If we could choose another big tribute. If we were asked to describe you uncle and husband for our aunty in just a sentence, we would say; you were Mercy (of blessed memory), it a person who loved God and all things would still be you. One could related to Him and did not give cause to hardly differentiate us from your biological anyone to despise you. children when we came to spend holidays or weekends with you at your home. You On your eightieth birthday, we were there shared everything you had equally with us to support you. Our darling sister, Sophia and your biological children. said, “This is the day I was waiting for to give strong testimony to your hearing”. You never got tired of paying us visits at Abossey Okai with Aunty Mercy after We thank God for providing you with good Sunday church service. health and blessings to reach the age of 90 years. You were our role model and mentor. We knew you as a disciplinarian uncle who Rest well Uncle till we meet at the beautiful does not speak much. shore. We miss your sweet and deep voice that Da yie, we called “Akonta B)hw3”. The same voice W) dzogbann Dee furabi
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 21 TRIBUTE BY Son-in Law ING. EDMUND BENJAMIN ESSAH Imet him formally for the I was overwhelmed. That was first time in late 1986. By the beginning of the love and that time, Sophia and I had respect I had for Dada. The bond been seeing each other for between Sophia and Dada was about 2 years. Little tit bits insurmountable and you could not of information reaching me love one without loving the other. was that Sophia was having So, I ended up having to love both difficulty in answering the Father and Daughter. “National Science & Math Quiz” type questions being asked of her Dada smiled all the time, tender, when the issue concerning the quiet and loving. Through all the “boyfriend” reached her parents. changing scenes of life, even in his moments of pain and sorrow, We were at our wits end concerning occasioned by the death of his our future then this shared idea son Papa Edzi and wife, Mama, he was conceived. managed to smile, philosophical smiles. I took a taxi to Nitra Industries in North Kaneshie where Dada was Rest in the bosom of the Lord, Dada. then the General Manager. Upon reaching there, I asked to see Mr. And may your quiet, gentle smile Bernasko. Shaking like a leaf as a radiate the heavens. 2nd year KNUST student wishing to marry would feel, I was ushered May you rest in perfect peace. into the office of Mr. Bernasko. He lifted his head up from his books, looked up at me without any form of recognition, Then, He smiled….
22 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY Grandchildren Granda, writing this tribute At a very early age, he encouraged to you jolts me to the me to develop my singing reality that you are no capabilities and was always proud more. You were so much when he heard me sing solo at the a part of our lives and Christ Church Choir, Legon. our upbringing. I recall how delighted he was to see We lived with Granda me when I visited home in Ghana for the most part of in the summer of 2021. We spent our childhood days, alternating several hours chatting about my between our home and his. We can life and work abroad. He gave me say confidently that who we are invaluable pieces of advice on how today is a result of the training from to maintain and sustain a lasting our parents and grandparents. marriage while combining it with a busy work schedule and taking Our spiritual growth and well-being May the road rise up to meet you were of paramount concern to him. He shared his passion for the word May the winds be always at your back of God with us and ensured that each day started with our morning May the sunshine warm upon your devotion. At such devotions, we face shared the lessons we had learned from the reading in the Bible and May the rain fall soft upon your fields how to apply it to our daily lives. Till we meet again Granda, till we My career as a teacher at the meet again university is solely attributable to him. He encouraged me early in May God hold you in the palm of his my life to develop self-confidence hands. by taking part-time teaching roles during the period between completion of SHS and entry into the university.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 23 care of my twin boys. I recall For whether we live, we live unto After I learnt how to drive, i became with sadness how his eyes the Lord; his personal chauffeur on Sundays welled up with tears when I And whether we die, we die unto to take him to and from church went to bid him farewell on the Lord: at the Holy Trinity Cathedral. Not the last day of my vacation in Whether we live therefore, or die, withstanding my skill and confidence Ghana. We are the Lord’s.” in driving, he always felt he was a better driver and will direct the He had so many positive ARomans 14:8 driving from the passenger seat. He attributes. In our view as life well lived is a precious would insist that I drove no more children, he was a whole gift of hope, strength, than 40mph with the saying “it is institution. Granda was a and grace from someone better to be safe than sorry”. The humble, generous, and loving who has made my world a cars behind us, however, did not man. We worshipped him, and brighter and better place think same and would always honk we looked up to him. He was filled with joy. their horns angrily at us because firm and strict in his ways. we were driving very slowly. Granda was loving and Nonetheless, we always reached Granda, you were the only caring . Growing up, my our destination safely. one who insisted on calling us siblings and I were so fond of him by our local names. Now that that we always wanted to visit him. I will miss you calling me Amponsaa, you’re gone, we’d miss being a name that no one else calls me by. called Afua Karle, Amponsah, I remember how he encouraged Koorantema, and Agyei. A void me to play the piano and took me Today, I read this tribute in memory of enormous magnitude has through several lessons. of you for a life well lived. You were been created in our lives by always there for everybody, and your absence. My academic performance was I know you would not want us to of great importance to him and be sad about your passing on but You were dear to me and I will he always made a point to ask rather be happy and move on with always remember you. You are about it.He always had a word of our lives knowing you are not gone gone but not forgotten. You encouragement to urge me on to but now our guardian angel always would always have a special pursue greater heights. watching over us. I wish heaven had place in my heart. a visiting time; I would have come as often as I can to see how you are Fare thee well Granda faring. Till we meet again, You were not only my Granda but my mentor and advisor. I will forever Goodbye Granda. cherish memories of you. Dr. Lillie (Efua Karle) Farewell Granda I love you Bobby (Amponsah)
24 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO My Grandfather… I remember how I used to come My Precious Grandfather … to Accra every weekend from Tarkwa during my Housemanship Are you really gone? Are to visit you in your house and you no longer with us? to make sure you were in good health and how You would shed It’s been hard to accept that tears when I had to leave on you are no longer here. Sunday. I always told you I would come back every weekend Would I never hear your soft and I always did. I remember calm voice, hear you laugh, or sit by the many times I called Senior you on your bed? doctors for consultations and even occasionally dragged some You went to be with the Lord too soon. of them from their homes just to ensure you were getting the I will miss your wisdom of many years best possible health care. I tried of experience and your pure love of to keep you alive forever; why an understanding heart. did you have to die? I would miss the many times I tried I am grateful for the times we to braid your hair or kiss you on your spent, and I would miss you cheeks. dearly. I would miss you pronouncing my Dear Granda, my heart bleeds name as “Korrrrantema” with a long each time I remember that you roll of “r” are gone but your loving and caring role in my life would I will miss you calling me ’me nana continue lingering in my heart doctor’(referring to me as my forever. granddaughter the doctor) Rest well, Granda. You were always so proud of every milestone I achieved, however small. My Precious Grandfather. You always believed in me. I love you.- To get the chance to be your DR. ANNETTE granddaughter and to serve you has KORANTEMA indeed been a great blessing.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 25 “Good morning Granda, Please I could only manage the first Granda how is your health, and second verses. He was Please Granda did you sleep so delighted whenever I gave him souvenirs from the school Twell?” and would treasure them and hese were questions I use them. Till his parting day, his bunch of keys were on an asked every morning Mfantsipim keyholder I gifted him. I was always glad when I before going to work. saw how much he cherished it. He always replied He enjoyed listening to Hymns & Classical music so I created with a loud laugh and a playlist just for him which I played every Saturday and would say “Agyei I am Sunday. His favorite hymn was “Abide with me”, a Christian fine, what about you hymn written by a Scottish Anglican Henry Francis yourself?” His cheerful and Lyte. Granda always sang or hummed louder when it infectious smile after asking reached the third stanza: always lifted my spirit for the “I fear no foe, with Thee at hand to bless day Ills have no weight and tears Granda was a great inspiration no bitterness to me. I always wanted to be like him, and this eventually Where is death’s sting? impacted my choice of Senior High School, Mfantsipim. Each Where, grave, thy victory? time I visited him during school vacation; he would ask me about I triumph still if Thou abide the school and compare it with with me. “ his days there. Endless were the stories he would tell about He also liked the hymn “When his Secondary School days in we walk in the light” and his Mfantsipim which I found very interesting. He loved the school and would lead us to sing the school hymn “For all the saints” together, and I was always surprised at his memory of all eight verses of the hymn when
26 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO favorite part was the first line ko whe nyi ay” meaning, “this of the refrain “Trust and obey, woman is a liar.” Evidencing for there is no other way.” He that he could not comprehend would sing that line loudly, and automated responses. I always wondered why he also had a crafty smile on his face While still a student I loved to whenever he sang that line until visit him just before going into I later learned from him that residence because he would while at Mfantsipim, “trust and always top up my pocket money obey” was mischievously sang and provide me with additional by the school boys as “Teacher essentials for school. no dey, so there is no other way….’ And oh he was so observant too. He always noticed when I Granda could not understand had a fresh haircut and would how the internet operated. So comment on whether it suited time without number he will me or not. When he thought it ask me. “ntsi internet no, on nyi did not suit me, he would ask abaze’ to wit “so the internet, if I was sleeping when it was what is it” I would take pains being cut. I would get a lot of to explain it as best as I could, admiration from him if he liked to him. He would sometimes the cut. say he had understood it but will repeat his question another Granda, there are so many time. At times, he would stop reasons why I will miss you, too me at a point in my explanation numerous to recount. and say my explanations were enough and he did not think he You will remain in my heart would ever understand how the forever Granda. You are internet operates. irreplaceable. Whenever he tried to call any Rest in Perfect Peace Granda. of us using his cell phone and got an automated female voice Agyei, response that the number could not be reached at the moment, EDMUND (AGYEI) JNR he would say “ maame yi y3
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 27 The sudden death of our dear grandfather has So strong and certain was your hand brought us to the understanding of what Paul in showing us the way. We grew says in Philippians 1:21 “For me to live is Christ up thinking that every grandfather and to die is gain.” was like you. But we discovered in conclusion that there were O Granddad, we miss you so much. The Emptiness grandfathers, and there were indeed of the space you have left in our lives is so deep. grandfathers. Your rich experience of You left without saying goodbye. For this reason, life and its different cultures filled our we console ourselves that because you lie in the bosom home with exotic music and stories. of the Lord, we shall see you again. Granddad, you were This ensured that we constantly a wonderful living experience. To us your grandchildren, gathered around your feet. As your you were a grandfather, counselor, and pillar of support. grandchildren we loved music. Our ears tingled, our heads stood on, our noses twitched, and our eyes stayed wide open for your thoughtful Hymns and classical music. In paying tribute to our granddad, we sincerely wish to praise the name of our Lord God Almighty for a wonderful granddad. We will remember you always and your memory will bring refreshment to our hearts and strengthen us in times of trouble. Granddad, we say, Rest in perfect peace. We will one day meet you in heaven. NANA PETER & DR. PAPA EDZI
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CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 29 TRIBUTE BY Grandson In-law EDWARDS PADILLA Iwas privileged to meet Granda in the summer of 2021 when we visited Ghana. I remember him to be a calm, handsome and strong old man. He was loved and respected by many, and when I met him, I understood why. Granda was a person who gave everything he had to those he loved. He contributed to his church, charities, and the community. He indeed lived a life of service and dedication to God. He welcomed me into his home cheerfully. He asked about my well-being and that of the children. He also asked how I was enjoying Ghana and how my family was back in the USA. I remember we sat outside on the porch for a while and enjoyed the company of the whole family.
30 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO I was also privileged to attend Granda’s 89th Each time I think of Granda, I remember thanksgiving ceremony at Holy Trinity Cathedral. all he did for his family. I remember my It was a wonderful service held in his honor. At wife’s stories about living with him the party that was held afterward, I was honored and her late Grandma. I only wish I had to spend more time with him at the table as well. gotten to spend more time with him before he departed. I thank him for giving me the privilege to call him Granda, and for giving Jayden and Justin a great grandfather. We bid you farewell Granda. You were always dear to our hearts. We thank God for giving you to us. We love you, but God loves you more. Rest in Peace Granda. May he give you perfect peace till we meet again.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 31 TRIBUTE BY Great grandchildren JAYDEN & JUSTIN PADILLA Our great-grandfather was We enjoyed sitting outside with We have fond memories of the a tall, handsome, kind, and him and taking in the fresh breeze. church service we attended in his We spoke about daycare, and he honor. It was a beautiful service, loving person. advised us to be good boys at and we were glad to be a part of it. school. He made us recite some At the end of the service, we went We first met him when we of the poems and songs we were outside and took pictures with him. were 3 years old when we taught in school. Jayden refused came to Ghana during the to sing but rather recited a poem. Great Granda, we will forever summer of 2021. He looked Justin danced while singing” Lord remember your love and generosity. so tall, and we were frightened I lift your name on high”, a song Before our departure from Ghana, by his height. He carried us and that won him an award at school. you gifted us with beautiful colorful asked our names. When we told We were so happy he enjoyed it. African shirts which we wear on him, he immediately gave us new Afterward, we just sat down and special days. names, he said Jayden was Panyin tried to be quiet while enjoying and Justin was Kakra and asked his presence. We miss you! We wanted you to mummy to include these in our be present in our lives for a few names. more years. We wanted you to see us grow up and become good and responsible young men. We even had hopes of you visiting us so that we could take you to Disney World. We had hoped to come back next year and spend some more time with you. We are so sad to think that we will never see you again We know you are in heaven keeping an eye on all of us. We would forever miss you, Great Granda. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
32 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY THE CATHEDRAL CHURCH OF THE MOST HOLY TRINITY, ACCRA All too soon another “Swift to its close ebbs out life’s our Past Master of the Music dedicated and faithful little day. Peter William Bernasko Esq. worker of the Cathedral who, rendered dedicated and Church of the Most Holy Earth’s joys grow dim, its glories meritorious service to the worship Trinity, Accra, and Christian passes away; Change and decay in life of this Cathedral Church for over gentleman has completed all around see; 60 years in the choir gallery. It is a his work on earth and has real sense of loss that we gather been summoned by the Good Lord O thou, who changest not, abide here this morning to thank God for to attend to other heavenly duties with me” his life and to honor his memory. above. Let us therefore proclaim, with F.W. Faber the Hymnist, that: It was with great pain and sadness that we learnt of the demise of
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 33 Peter William Bernasko’s journey We cannot but exalt his brilliance, Mr. Peter William in the Lord’s vineyard can be affability, gentility, and valiant Bernasko’s humility, described as abundant grace. commitment to the service of the Lord as our humble testimony initiative, high His life here in the Cathedral of his life on this earth. A true sense of duty, started in 1962 when he joined Christian gentleman who lived a exceptional skills the parish from Cape Coast as worthy Christian life in service to and performance a Chorister/Soloist and then an his maker and neighbor. over the years Organist. He endeared himself culminated in his to playing the organ and became Mr. Peter William Bernasko appointment as a master through the playing performed his role to perfection the MASTER OF of several chords of melodious and honorably retired after THE MUSIC for the music, with his fingers wandering successfully grooming a crop Cathedral Church in over the keys to produce a great of organists to take over and lovely music. from him. This resulted in the 1998. parish conferring on him the Because of his enormous prestigious and Honorary title of contribution, to the upliftment PAST MASTER OF THE MUSIC as of the Cathedral Choir image and well as the CATHEDRAL GOLDEN massive improvement in church BADGE OF HONOUR during his music life, he was awarded the 90th Birthday celebrations BISHOP’s BADGE OF HONOR in 1992. This is to acknowledge that We, members of the Cathedral Mr. Peter William Bernasko’s work Church of the Most Holy Trinity to the choir and church music have lost a gem by your demise, life has been recognized and yet we pray that as you leave appreciated by the Diocese. us to take up your role in the celestial realm, you will continue Mr. Peter William Bernasko’s to strike the keys and chords (as humility, initiative, high sense an Organist) that resound with of duty, exceptional skills and the great music the heavenly performance over the years choirs sing. culminated in his appointment as the MASTER OF THE MUSIC for the Rest in perfect peace, Master Cathedral Church in 1998. of the Music Mr. Peter William Bernasko Esq. Amen.
34 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY THE CHOIR of the MOST HOLY TRINITY CATHEDRAL CHURCH, Accra Mr. Peter Bernasko joined Peter’s passion for music did not Master of the Music, appointed the Most Holy Trinity stop at singing in the choir. He him as an assistant organist of Cathedral Choir in 1962. He also played the organ and was a the Cathedral Choir. Not only was endowed with a rich master of the intricacies of playing did he discharge his duties as bass voice which caught the pedals. It was indeed a delight an assistant organist in humility the eye of the then Master to watch him play impressively but also displayed a high sense of the Music, Mr. Frank Aja without drawing undue attention of discipline and loyalty to the Torto who subsequently picked Peter to himself. then senior organists of the time out as one of the bass part soloists namely late J.E.K. Appiah, George of the choir alongside the late L.D. Having proven himself as a good Akrofi and to the various Masters Laryea and others. music teacher and organ player, of the Music such as the late Mr. Frank Aja Torto, then the Frank Aja Torto, Ishmael Adams and Albert Nii Teiko Tackie under whom he served and to the Choir as a whole. In 1998, Peter Bernasko was appointed Acting Master of the Music. His was modest, fair and calm in nature but also shared a strict and focused leadership style which enabled him to shepherd the choir to maintain a high standard of discipline. In August 2001, Mr. Peter Bernasko was given recognition and honoured by the Association of Anglican Church Choirs as a representative of the Cathedral choir on the Association’s board at its bi-annual conference at Ho in the Volta Region.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 35 On December 30, 2001, the then Dean of the Cathedral, Very Rev’d Jehoshaphat A. Ocquaye, conferred the title of PAST MASTER OF THE MUSIC OF THE CATHEDRAL CHURCH OF THE MOST HOLY TRINITY, HIGH STREET ACCRA on him. To the Holy Trinity Cathedral Choir, Mr. Peter Bernasko was a tall pillar of integrity and humility. A soft- spoken gentleman who always handled difficult situations with tact and absolute calmness. Though gone, the Cathedral choir will continue to bask in Mr. Peter Bernasko’s positive attitudes which have left valuable indelible marks on the choir’s image. On behalf of the Master of the Music, organists and the entire choir we say well done and we thank the good Lord God for gifting you to the choir in particular and to the Anglican church as a whole. Rest in Peace and may the Almighty grant you space in the Heavenly choir. Yaawͻ odzogbaan.
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CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 37 TRIBUTE BY JOEL ROBERT BADGER (MASTER of the MUSIC) H ere lies the tall and well- groomed gentleman I Music. He, nevertheless, did have always admired not succumb to indiscipline and silently identified from any angle. More often, as my role model since he would communicate his my teens. disapproval or appreciation to situations with either a My inner desire to brief wild-eyed expression associate with Mr. Peter or a simple reassuring smile Bernasko was realized when instead of words. This rare I joined the Cathedral Choir in attitude made me allude to his 1976 as a tenor singer. This bond regular choice of registering grew even stronger when in only somber Organ Stops when later years I became an organist he played the Pipe organ as of the Cathedral under his interpretation of his instinctive supervision. Together with the calm temperament. late Albert Tackie and Solomon Kotey, my predecessor, who To me, the father-son was also laid to rest few weeks relationship we shared is ago, I received unmeasurable fulfillment of my youthful inspirations and guidance desire to associate with him which helped to prop me up as as a gentleman with rare an organist and also prepared personality worth emulating. me for the present position. I remember I once attempted to asked him why he never Uncle Peter was very affable spoke the Ga language since and gentle in speech even in his dear late Wife was a Ga. His the face of mischief intended intimidating big eyes zipped to provoke and dare his my curious mouth shut and we authority as the Master of the shared a jolly long laugh over the issue. To me, the joy is in
38 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO the fulfillment of playing “His life was gentle, and the the organ in the church elements like my idol did. To me, I So, mix’d in him that Nature might am again truly humbled stand up that like my admirer, Uncle And say to all the world Peter Bernasko, I lead the THIS WAS A MAN” Cathedral choir as he did by And to sum it up with gratitude to the sheer Grace of God. God for sharing your life with us. The man Peter Bernasko. I still hold fresh memories “He Stood tall of his unhidden excitement He walked tall and congratulatory He lived tall words expressed at He died tall” my appointment as the (credit: Amarkai Amarteifio) Master of the Music of the Cathedral. He never Farewell and may the angels hesitated to advise me receive you in Paradise. Adieu. when strong unwelcomed storms hit me in the duty of captaining the vessel of the choir. I hereby humbly extend my thoughts of Mark Antony’s tribute to Brutus in William Shakespeare’s Julius Caesar (Act 5: Scene V: Line 73-75) to say that
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 39 TRIBUTE BY Dr. Samuel Gepi Attee CONSULTANT UROSURGEON, KORLEBU TEACHING HOSPITAL Ihave known Mr. Peter Bernasko I would be noticing other positive myself but facilitated it. From then since I was 13 years old. That qualities about him - he had a deep on, I had become a ‘family doctor’ was over 50 years ago. I call solo bass voice. It was impressive more-or-less, participating in his him Uncle Peter because of a when he took the solo part in the ‘aches and pains as his years piled wide seniority gap. I had joined choir’s many performances at the up. Once I got to know his home, the choir of the Holy Trinity I occasionally passed by to say Cathedral. He was easy to notice time. ‘hello’ and sit for a chat. It was - he is tall, probably the tallest in always difficult peeling me away the choir at the time. He also had Despite the passage of years, I after such a visit… a kind demeanor, a comforting still remember two remarkable trait which the little boy that I ones - ‘the trumpet shall sound’ of He always seemed to love the was appreciated very much then. Handel’s oratorio, the Messiah, and company. The most recent activity ‘honor the Lord with thy substance was the celebration of his 90th ‘. It always left me with memory birthday anniversary at the Holy when he took a solo because of Trinity Cathedral. Even though the beauty of his voice but also I couldn’t participate in all the how meditative it was. It didn’t activities on the day I made sure take very long to know that he he saw and recognized me with his was an organist as well. He was signature happy and excited smile. assistant to the regular organist Annette informed me within a few Mr. Adja Torto of blessed memory. hours of his passing on Wednesday The collective dedication of these 7th September. I had become elders was very inspiring to me at naturally a part of his family. My the time. mind raced back through the years of association and friendship which I was involved years later with him had sadly come to an end. I knew I again, having returned home as a would miss him and the memory of medical doctor from my overseas those years. studies. His wife was unwell, and some assistance was needed for Uncle Peter, Rest in Peace. her care. I didn’t provide the care
40 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY FORMER EMPLOYEE OF AIKINS ELECTRICALS It is an honor to write this tribute to Mr. Peter In addition to his devotion to his work, Uncle Bernasko affectionately called Uncle Bern, Bern always found time for his Maker. Not only a father, friend, and former work colleague was he an astute organist, but he was also a as well as a confidante. In whatever role devout Christian who acknowledged the fact I knew him, he stood apart as someone that God is the Owner of our universe, and as special. humans, we are only custodians. This principle was always on his lips and anyone who I first met Mr. Peter Bernasko when he encountered him would hear him say in Fanti, was made responsible for the Company’s “It is God’s world” Finance department, and also a Board Director of the Company. His abilities and charismatic Uncle, it was a privilege to have you as part personalities were so readily apparent that of my life. You will always be remembered for his first encounter marked the beginning of your role in uplifting the company. You will a longstanding professional friendship and be missed, but never forgotten by those who collaboration. were fortunate enough to have known you. Mr. Peter Bernasko was committed to Fare thee well. improving the company and lot of its staff. He was passionate about enabling the workplace Nantew ye to become better for everyone not only as a professional but also as a father. He was Nyame nfa wokra nsie. endowed with the attribute of innovative thinking. He had a visionary spirit and the Mrs. Regina Insaidoo requisite tenacious patience required to successfully execute his professional career. His integrity and honesty were unquestionable.
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 41 TRIBUTE BY District Grand Lodge of Ghana SCOTTISH CONSTITUTION It is with the deepest sense of He attended meetings regularly until his sorrow that we pay this tribute age and exigences of health prevented to our brother and Past Master him from attending meetings. Peter William Bernasko. Charity Lodge however arranged Wor. Bro Bernasko was initiated visitations to him and we are pleased he into the Ancient Fraternity of appreciated our camaradie. We heard of Freemasons of Scotland by the his demise through a phone call from his Lodge Charity No. 1473 in 1967 and daughter Justice Bernasko Essah. become The Master thereof in 1990. He was already an organist when Our Worshipful Brother attained the ripe he joined the lodge so he provided age of 90; We therefore thank the Great delightful music at all meetings at Architect for the further mercies granted. which he was present from the day of his initiation. As Masons, we believe he has Transitioned to join the Grand Lodge above where the His organ music fame spread and Great Architect of the Universe presides the Scottish District Grand Lodge of forever. Ghana honored him with the rank of District Grand Organist in 1995. Fare thee Well Worshipful Brother P.W.Bernasko (P.M)
42 MR. PETER WILLIAM BERNASKO TRIBUTE BY NurseS/CaregiverS Grandpa was a very humble Grandpa was a God-fearing man walks and take pictures together, and kind person. Caring for who always observed his morning watched television, listened to him as a nurse/ caregiver, devotions. Before I began each radio programs, and engaged in was a very comfortable day’s duties, Grandpa will let us discussions about the issues raised and peaceful experience. say the Lord’s prayer. He constantly on these programs. He always adhered to his advised me on my life choices to medication and exercise ensure I was always on the right We were very good friends. protocols making my work track. Grandpa, my period with you left relatively smooth. an indelible mark on me. I miss you, There was a time I had an Grandpa. opportunity elsewhere and considered changing jobs. Upon You will forever remain in my mind alerting him, he said, “A good name and heart. is better than riches “ and “All that glitters is not gold”. These precious When I heard you had been taken words have now become a part of me. to the hospital, I expected you would recover and return home. He was very loving and caring. Grandpa did his very best to be at Grandpa, your home call was not peace with all his household staff. accidental, as our Lord has a better My well-being and comfort were of plan and place for you. I have great concern to him. indeed lost a caring Grandpa who taught me a lot in life. Grandpa was very particular about his routine exercises and always May the Angels of God receive your wanted to exceed his schedule for humble soul. the day. He shared with me some of his life and work experiences- Till we meet again. He was a keyboardist and a choir leader at church. He often told me Grandpa, “Da yie” about his late wife, how he met her, I love you but God loves you more. and many more. We used to go for Emmanuel Acquah (Nurse)
CELEBRATION OF A LIFE WELL LIVED 43 Good people die, and no one understands or Grandpa was a man of many even cares, but when they die no calamity qualities. He was patient, humble, compassionate, intuitive, and so much can hurt them. Those who live good lives find more. He possessed so much love and peace and rest in death. -Isaiah 57 verses 1,2 self-sacrifice. Ibecame the nurse/caregiver for Mr. Peter He sometimes got upset at me if I William Bernasko on 14th March 2022, and did something wrong and he would he immediately told me I could not take say to me “ya y3 aka”, meaning “we care of him due to my body size and age. are at loggerheads” and that he is no But with the help of his daughter (Mama longer on talking terms with me so I Sophia), he became fully convinced that shouldn’t mention his name. But after taking care of a person is not reliant on a few seconds, we’d start laughing and body size or stature. watching movies together. He loved singing hymns and so did I. We used to sing together a lot. In keeping with his generous nature, he usually gave me money or tips for my upkeep and would tell me to use it for whatever I chose. He would give me advice on how to be a successful person and achieve my aim in life. I am proud to have been an efficient caregiver. His death was a big blow to me. May his soul rest in perfect peace. I will forever remember him. Emmanuel Frimpong(Nurse)
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