Program for Winifred J Paynter

In Loving Memory of Winifred Joycelyn Paynter August 29, 1929 – July 24, 2021

Order of Service Evening Light Pentecostal Church 44 Parson’s Road, Pembroke Tuesday, August 3, 2021 at 11:00am Officiating: Pastor Jonathan Lambe Organist: Leroy Francis Welcome ……………………………………………..………………….…Pastor Jonathan Lambe Opening Hymn…………..……………..…….…………….………………….. “You Raise Me Up” Opening Prayer …………………….…..………...………………………Pastor Jonathan Lambe Scripture Reading: Ps. 23 & Eccl. 3:1-8….……..Ashley, Shylo & Destiny Roberts Musical Selection ..............................Elton Richardson “Wind Beneath My Wings” Tributes .......................................................................Ashleigh Paynter & Betty Ann Caesar Poems …………………………………………………………………Kimberley & Kalasia Bowen Musical Selection: “Going up Yonder” ..........Patricia O’Connor & Patrina Paynter Reading of the Obituary ..............................................................Quincy & Patrina Paynter Eulogy……………………………………………………….…………………Pastor Jonathan Lambe Benediction……………………..………………………….………………..Pastor Jonathan Lambe Recessional Hymn: “Marching to Zion”……………………………….…..Clergy & Family Interment Holy Trinity Cemetery, Hamilton Parish

Scriptures Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 Psalm 23 Time for Everything A psalm of David. 3 There is a time for everything, 1 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. and a season for every activity under the 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, heavens: he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. 2 a time to be born and a time to die, He guides me along the right paths a time to plant and a time to uproot, for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,[a] 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; a time to tear down and a time to build, your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, 5 You prepare a table before me a time to mourn and a time to dance, in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; 5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather my cup overflows. them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain 6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all from embracing, the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever. 6 a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, 7 a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, 8 a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.

“You Raise Me Up” When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary When troubles come and my heart burdened be Then, I am still and wait here in the silence Until you come and sit awhile with me You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas I am strong, when I am on your shoulders You raise me up, to more than I can be You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas I am strong, when I am on your shoulders You raise me up, to more than I can be There is no life no life without its hunger Each restless heart beats so imperfectly But when you come and I am filled with wonder Sometimes, I think I glimpse eternity You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas And I am strong, when I am on your shoulders You raise me up, to more than I can be You raise me up, to more than I can be

Momma, Granny, Aunt Winnie... “I’m Free… Don’t grieve for me, for now I am Free.”

Poems... “Losing Our Mother” Mum, it’s been the hardest thing to lose you You meant so much to us But you are in our hearts And that’s where you’ll always be We know that Heaven called you But we wish you could have stayed At least the memories we have of you They will never fade We did not want to lose you But you did not go alone Because a part of us went with you When Heaven called you home Just remember one thing We are not apart You’re with us in our memories And in our broken hearts Mother you closed your eyes and, Let the waters take you home In Loving Memory of Our Mother

Aunt Winnie Written by Great Niece Kimberley M. Bowen So many words to describe her. The love that she had for her family was unconditional Such a loving soul with a heart of gold Aunt Winnie you touched our hearts in so many ways. Too many ways to count. Your smile was angelic… Even when you did not feel like smiling your beautiful smile shone through. Like your spirit… Your light brought happiness to those around you. You spoke whatever was on you mind and it always came through in the sweetest way. Our sweet Aunt Winnie...yes that was you. I smile when I think about our talks. You knew me so well. Even when I denied it, you read me like a book. Those memories I will never forget. Aunt Winnie, God knew He needed another angel on His team and He chose you. Even though we are sad that you are gone, we know that God has a bigger plan for you. So go ahead and soar high our sweet angel. Until that day we meet again. Kimberley M. Bowen

Obituary Winifred Joycelyn Paynter was born on August 29, 1929, to Juanita Delores ‘Nita’ Bowen & Arnette ‘Picker’ Bowen. Winnie as she was often known by, was the eldest of the three children. She was the only child up until the age of 5 and, then came ‘Connie’ and a few years later ‘Brotha’ arrived. Brother unfortunately predeceased them at the age of 22. Winnie attended The Bandroom and Excelcia Schools while growing up. Winnie entered the workforce cleaning houses and worked at numerous hotels throughout her career. She started off at the Grand Hamilton Hotel which was located at the now City Hall Parking Lot until in burnt down in 1955. Thereafter, she went to the Bermudiana Hotel, The Holiday Inn and Elbow Beach Hotel. Winnie also cleaned houses and often had Butch in tow. While working in the hotel industry, Winnie became a supervisor and managed her own team of house- keeping staff. She had an exceptional work ethic and was no non-sense when managing her team. She was a thorough and immaculate worker who went over and beyond to uphold a high standard. Throughout her working years and into retirement, she maintained relationships with her team who often call to check in on her. Winnie had 4 beautiful children: Vernon ‘Butch’, Juanita ‘Cookie’, Jo-Anne and Donnamae. She loved her children and ruled with an iron fist. She balanced out work and home to ensure her children were well cared for. While growing up Winnie’s children enjoyed playing in the neigbourhood. She ensured our chores were done. In August 1960, Winnie married the love of her life the late Percy Paynter. After several year of mar- riage, Percy succumbed to his terminal illness, but had his loving wife by his side. Through this stressful period, Winnie remained vigilant raising her children and maintained an excellent work ethic. Butchie recalls his mother’s love for fishing. Winnie would get jealous if Butchie caught fish and she did- n’t—she’d make him throw all of his catch back overboard so they would home with no evidence of Buthie outfishing her. He and Winnie went fishing on another occasion and momma’s shoe went over- board, so Butchie had to go fishing for his mom’s shoe amongst all of the seaweed. Butch adopted Win- nie’s love for fishing and carried on the tradition with his own family. Butch recalls him and Cookie’s Sunday School days. He would obey Winnie’s instructions, but little sis- ter refused to go. She’d leave the house dressed in her green plaid dress and get to Sunday School to sit on the outside step. Cookie recalls coming home with frogs in her t-shirt after playing in the canal by Central School (now VSPS). She also recounts the family picnics along the south shore beaches and after along day of swim- ming having to hike up the long hills.

Jo-Anne enjoyed sitting off with Winnie and chatting about the olden days. She recounts how Winnie and Connie enjoyed going out together. She shared one story when Winnie and Connie were dressed up to go out and Nana asked, “ Where are you going?” In reaction to their response, she told them she’ll help them get ready. Nana prepped the baby bottles and bag and told the girls to keep the children warm, which surely put a damper in the sisters’ plans. Donnamae recalls Winnie and her bests friend Mary Williams & Phyllis Tuzo getting together for a good laugh. They’d laugh so hard that Nana used to say, “ Young ladies don’t laugh out like that! That’s street laughing!” Edwina has so many fond memories of her Aunt Winnie. She had a sweet spirit and a smile that would light up a room. Her presence would always be felt. That was the essence of Aunt Winnie. One of her fondest memories of Aunt Winnie was when I was in labor for eighteen hours, and Aunt Winnie was by my side at the Hospital the entire time. She was a pillar of strength there to offer me words of comfort and encouragement. Aunt Winnie would say in her calm and soothing voice. “ It will all be over soon”. Just knowing that Aunt Winnie was by my side was a blessing to me. In later years when I visited Aunt Winnie and she was not in the best of health, but still have that beauti- ful smile on her face at times she would say Dwee I am not feeling well today, I am a bit tired. In return I would reply, Don’t worry Aunt Winnie “Everything is going to be all right.” This was my Mantra for Aunt Winnie when she was not feeling her best. This later became Aunt Winnie’s Mantra when she asked how I doing, and her closing words after we talked was “Everything is going to be all right Dwee.” The first time when Aunt Winnie saw her great great-great-grandchild Se’ouri for the first time she was so happy. I had to put Se’ouri on Aunt Winnie’s lap because he was heavy to lift even at four months. The pure joy on her face was so heart warming. These are memories that I will always cherish of Aunt Winnie. Winnie, known as ‘Nelly Bell’ to her grand-daughter Vernita, was always sharing words of wisdom. The little things made her happy, like sneaking her a hotdog from Birdie’s or enjoying a piece of birthday cake with a lil extra ice-cream. Nelly Bell enjoyed being surrounded by her family with laughter and tasty treats. After Winnie retired, she became comfortable in her home with Cookie and her children. She left no stone unturned when caring for her family. She found various ways to occupy her time by knitting, cooking, reading, word puzzles and playing games on her tablet - playing the slots were her favorite; and keeping things under control. Winnie was the boss. She also enjoyed cleaning—you can literally eat off of the floor! In more recent months, Winnie spent her days at Lefroy House and her health quickly declined. Her family visited her several times a week and Sundays was family day; her children, grands and great- grands would ensure to stop by for a visit. At 4:30am on Saturday, July 24th, Winnie told the nursing as- sistant that she wanted to go to sleep and she closed her eyes and transitioned peacefully. Winnie lived a full life and was surrounded by her loving family. Today we celebrate you Winnie!

Obituary Continued…. Winifred Joycelyn Paynter [nee Bowen] leaves to cherish her memory, her beloved children: Vernon ‘Butch’ Paynter [Melva], Juanita ‘Cookie’ Knight, Jo-Anne Dyer [Stephen] and Donnamae Buckley [John] of UK; step-son: Millard ‘Percy’ Paynter [Carol]; special children: Edwina Bowen, Valerie Lightbourne, Linda Pryor [USA], Leonard ‘Doc’ Davis [Marlene] and Durenda Hassell [Andre]; sister: Constance ‘Connie’ Stroman [Walter] of Maryland; special sister: Winifred Grant; sister-in-law: Marie Weller; grandchildren: Charjuan Knight [Natasha] of England, Stefan Knight [Ashley], Ashleigh Paynter, Quincy Paynter [Patrina], Vernita Hollis [Germaine], Rhydell Paynter [Sheena] and Dwayne Paynter [Clifton]; special grandchildren: Tori [Tracey] and Noriette Davis, Betty-Ann Caesar & Deanne Burrows; great-grandchildren: Keizhari Knight, Kashi Davis, Jaquari Paynter, Keishaun Augustus, Shylo & Destiny Knight-Roberts; special grandchildren: Mark Buckley [Victoria], Melissa Buckley-Pridham [Matthew] & Kiara Buckley; nieces: Kimberley & Kalasia Bowen, Gladys Stroman, Sandi Evans [Jeff] & Faith Evans [Cincinnati]; special nieces: Maxine Smith, Rose, Dawn and Sandy Grant; nephews: Vincent ‘PeeWee’ Bowen & Joshua Evans [Cincinnati], Christopher Smith and SeOuri Darrell; Godson: Coulbert Bean; special friends and family: Ethel Richardson, Barbara Robinson, Enith Wilson, Gwen Warner, Phyllis Pearson, Richard Knight [Tammy], Michael Ross, Elton Richardson, Dr. Elizabeth Galloway, Graham Fos- ter and Family, The Bailey, Dale, Jennings & Richardson Families, Dr. Reddy and Dr. Ross, Bermudiana Hotel, Holiday Inn (former Lowes Hotel) and Elbow Beach Staff; special thanks to the staff at Lefroy House; and many more family and friends too numerous to mention. Winifred was predeceased by her parents: Juanita ‘Nita’ & Arnette ‘Picker’ Bowen; loving husband Percy Paynter: step-children: Ronald & Neville Paynter and Tina Thompson; brother: Ashton ‘Brotha’ Bowen; grandchildren: Jermaine Minors and Malcolm ‘Cricket’ Augustus: grandson: Malcolm ‘Quayshaun’ Augustus; God-daughter: Deborah Richardson; special friends and family: Mary Williams, Humphrey Williams, Phyllis Tuzo, Dorothy Robinson and Lottie Smith. Lovingly submitted by The Family

Winnie’s Children...

Winnie beautiful inside and out.

The Grands... “I’m following the path God lead for me, I took His hand when I heard Him call.”



Love is… 1 Cor 13:4-8 4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but re- joices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.8 Love never fails.

Great-grands... “Leave footprints of love and kindness wherever you go.”



Family... “I closed my eyes to rest and I am at peace.” REMEMBER... “I Love You All My Precious Family”

Pallbearers: In & Out of Church Evening Light Pentecostal Church Keishaun Augustus Kashi Davis Stefan Knight Quincy Paynter Rhydell Paynter Christopher Smith Justin Trott Cemetery Holy Trinity Church Keishaun Augustus Kashi Davis Stefan Knight Quincy Paynter Rhydell Paynter Christopher Smith Justin Trott

I Am Close In your thoughts we will touch. In your dreams we will meet. Now our hearts beat as one. I am your shadow. I'll always be close. Hear my voice in the wind. See our dance in a song. Feel my warmth in the sun. Remember, my love, I'll always be close. Do not weep for my loss. Time will pass... Pain will fade... You will laugh, and I'll smile. Live your life, my love. I'll always be close. The family of Winifred Joycelyn Paynter would like to extend a heartfelt thank you for your presence here today and for all of your prayers, visits, phone calls, cards, flowers and all acts of kindness during our time of bereavement. Special thanks to Dr. Ross, Dr. Reddy and the staff at Lefroy House. There will be NO WAKE or visitations after the service. May God Continue to bless you. The Family