Trẻ Cứng Đầu Phải Làm Sao

["kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7 (t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1edf noi c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng), h\u1ecd s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o trong s\u1ed5 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v \u00f3 i s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 thi h\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u00f3 ngay khi v\u1eeba tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. C\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ef1i th\u1ebf l\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh. \u2014*\u25a0 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1eed m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, h\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 nh\u01b0 \u1ecf* nh\u00e0. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. 4. Nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i qui t\u1eafc. Ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 hay \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, h\u00e3y nh\u1eafc cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf noi c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hay th\u1eed xem ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1eeb ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ea1t v\u00ec m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i. tTr\u01b0\u1ee9c khi v\u00e0o si\u00eau th\u1ecb, m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Lucille \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eafc cho con g\u00e1i nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c th\u1eed th\u01b0ong l\u01b0\u1ef1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 xem li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c mua k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ngoan. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc kia m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa v\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng Lucille ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ea1t. Trong c\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp, Lucille \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u00f2i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, qui t\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ngay t\u1eeb ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 b \u1ed1 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c roi v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m \u00f3i do tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7t ra. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b \u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 th\u00eam cho qui t\u1eafc ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0","g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n l\u00e0m cho qui t\u1eafc n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t di b\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch. 5. H\u00e3y ghi nh\u1eadn h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi con b\u1ea1n g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u1edf noi c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 \u00fd hay do ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, th\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 do vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i m\u1eafng con tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u00f2i kh\u00e1c. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c thi nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n ra d\u01b0\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba. Ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 th\u00ea c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ecf ra d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u00ea trong vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng lui v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee9t l\u1edd h\u00e0nh vi khi\u00eau kh\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eb1m d\u1eadp t\u1eaft h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3. CU\u1ed8C S\u00d3NG X\u00c3 H\u1ed8I C\u1ee6A \u0110\u1ee8A TR\u1eba KH\u00d3 B\u1ea2O \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u gh\u00e9t con\u201d. \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ecdn con g\u00e1i trong l\u00f3p con \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u00f2i \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1 sinh nh\u1eadt, tr\u1eeb con!\u201d \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n choi v\u00f3i con c\u1ea3\u201d. \u201cSuzanne \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cho con \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa\u201d. Khi nghe con c\u00e1i n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u0111au x\u00e9 l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, n\u00f3 ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 \u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng hay qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea9y chay, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng qui t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 choi. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng (v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i) nhanh hon nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xung quanh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hon trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i,","c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ho\u1eb7c phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u00f3i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u00f2i kh\u00e1c, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp hay x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd cho con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb s\u1ed7 s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u25baH\u00e3y gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f5* con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m che l\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c li\u00ean quan t\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng, song \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb roi v\u00e0o h\u00e0ng th\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu? Theo m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chuy\u00ean gia, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u201cth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d trong quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n: \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ed5 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c gi\u00fap th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu, h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u00f3p. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ed5 li\u00ean l\u1ea1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f2i c\u00f9ng tham gia m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 choi hay chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 choi gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u00f3p. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb x\u1eed l\u00fd ph\u00e9p t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, trong khi m\u1ed9t tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. T\u01b0ong t\u1ef1, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu hon c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t n\u00e9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hon vi\u1ec7c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. C\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u0169ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111on gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tinh nhanh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111on thu\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. t Paula, 8 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0o hai n\u0103m cu\u1ed1i \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung, kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u0169ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp l\u00e0m t\u1ea1i l\u00f3p, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang, kh\u00f4ng nghe gi\u1ea3ng. \u1eda nh\u00e0, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u0169ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n: c\u00f4 b\u00e9 m\u1ea5t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u. Hon n\u1eefa, Paula c\u00f2n lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c m\u00f2i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 choi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00f4 b\u00e9. \u00dd ngh\u0129 gi\u1ea3n \u0111on n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 lo \u00e2u, kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf v\u00e0 than v\u00e3n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n, r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c gh\u00e9t m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u00f2i b\u1ea1n duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 \u00edt hon hai tu\u1ed5i s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng t\u00f2a nh\u00e0. C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 Paula qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n","trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u00f3p v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp, c\u1ea3 trong l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed. Paula mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n ngo\u00e0i s\u00e2n choi, v\u1eady l\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 t\u00fam tay \u00e1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i choi v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ee5t tay l\u1ea1i v\u00ec b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, nh\u01b0ng Paula v\u1eabn c\u1ed1 n\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c k\u00e9o khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n, cho t\u00f3i khi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o t\u00f3i can thi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch hai tr\u1ebb ra. Hon n\u1eefa, Paula n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Paula r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. 1. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u201ck\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00ea quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. C\u0169ng n\u00ean xem x\u00e9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh khi con b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Con b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o? Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nghe kh\u00f4ng? Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ecf ra hung h\u0103ng hay kh\u00f4ng? Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc hay nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ho\u1eb7c phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef (\u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ed9, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9) d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng \u1edf con b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1eb7c lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdp ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1. 2. N\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft nh\u0169ng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n Sau khi x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. H\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng l\u00f3p, c\u00f9ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng. 3. H\u00e3y x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng \u201ck\u1ef9 n\u0103ng\u201d c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n Tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i con b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ba ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n \u01b0u ti\u00ean c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u1edf vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n hay n\u00f3i n\u0103ng nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. V\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng nh\u1ea5t","\u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 to\u00e0n t\u00e2m v \u00f3i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i nghe nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ca th\u00e1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u00f3t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y hay h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u00f2i gian cho nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i \u201cr\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h \u1ed9i\u201d \u1edf tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con m \u00f2i b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 choi, gi\u00f3i thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt, tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 choi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m (l\u00f3p tr\u01b0\u1edfng)... 4. D\u1ea1y cho con b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u2666 \u0110\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p v\u1eeba h\u1ecdc v\u1eeba choi v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o cho con b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u1eebng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ef1i \u201cC\u1eadu \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng hay th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d hay l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tham gia m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u00f3m \u201cT\u00f3' kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u00f3ng vai m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y. Sau khi tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n, h\u00e3y y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u00f3ng vai m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n choi v\u00f3i con b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c d\u1ecda d\u1eabm \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu ta. C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201c Li\u1ec7u t\u1edb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng c\u1eadu choi tr\u00f2 choi n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng, t\u1eed choi c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d, \u201cT\u1edb kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec t\u00f3* c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 t\u1edb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v \u00f3 i c\u00e1c b \u1ea1n \u201d . \u2014*\u25a0 Khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u1ee9i con, h\u00e3y d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01b0ng, h\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft. C\u0169ng t\u00f9y t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng trong \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh hay tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con b\u1ea1n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed n\u00e0y trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3*i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. H\u00e3y nh\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1eeb so s\u00e1nh tr\u1ebb v\u1ee9i","anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u2666 Bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n H\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 can hay ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eafm v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00ea r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con. M\u1ed7i khi con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c, h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 t\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3. Ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 tr\u00ean b\u1ea3ng li\u1ec7t k\u00ea v\u00f3i c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00f3i quen c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ng\u1ee7 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3. \u2666 Chcri v\u00f3 i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c H\u00e3y khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con b\u1ea1n m\u00f2i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 choi. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap b\u00e9 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u00f2i gian choi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia v\u00e0 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 thu\u00ea m\u1ed9t \u0111\u0129a DVD v\u1ec1 xem v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0103n nh\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 choi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng hay \u0111\u1ea1p xe n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd: n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng x\u1ea5u \u0111i, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng tr\u00f2 choi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ngh\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3i lao \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n nh\u1eb9 hay chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn ngay v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1ec5 g\u1ea7n. \u0110\u01b0ong nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u201cb\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp\u201d c\u00f3 v\u1ebb d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng hon, do v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u201cc\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1\u201d ho\u1eb7c lu\u00f4n \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n, l\u00f4i k\u00e9o con b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed mang t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu chi\u1ebfn hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdp. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb \u201cb\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng hay c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1eadn ra nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cho nh\u1eefng ch\u00e2m ch\u1ecdc t\u1eeb ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. \u2014 *\u25a0 Khi con b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, h \u00e3y duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00f2*i khen","ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au x\u00f3t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 trir\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m \u00ecn h. \u25baH\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a C\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, v\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00f3i. Tr\u1ebb th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch hay chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng duy nh\u1ea5t ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111o b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c choi vui v\u1ebb quan tr\u1ecdng hon vi\u1ec7c choi gi\u1ecfi! C \u00e1 c t i\u00ea u c h \u00ed l\u1ef1 a c h \u1ecd n h o \u1ea1 t \u0111 \u1ed9 n g n g o \u1ea1 i k h \u00f3 a 1. M\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p Ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ed1t. Nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ec7ch trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hon nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o nh\u0169ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn hon. 2. Tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u1ea3 t\u0129nh \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u0169ng tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh nh\u0169ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i l\u00e2u, nh\u0169ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0 th\u1ebf ng\u1ed3i ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u0169ng qui t\u1eafc kh\u00f3 nh\u1edb. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u1ee7 m\u00f4n h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ef1i. 3. Nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4n th\u00ea thao thi \u0111\u1ea5u N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng thi \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c khuy\u00ean l\u00e0","kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y mang l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u00ea l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 kh\u00edch, \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf hay gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. 4. C\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 thao v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng, c\u00e1c m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao tr\u01b0\u1ee3t, c\u00e1c m\u00f4n v\u00f5 ho\u1eb7c leo n\u00fai. Khi tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u cao, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tu\u00e2n theo nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc d\u00e0nh cho c\u1ea3 nh\u00f3m. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00f3m l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed. N h \u0169 n g h o \u1ea1 t \u0111 \u1ed9 n g \u0111 e m l\u1ea1 i h i\u1ec7 u q u \u1ea3 M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u1edfi ch\u00fang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa cho nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed. \u2666 V\u00f5 (karate,judo) V\u00f5 l\u00e0 m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o. C\u00e1c m\u00f4n v\u00f5 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m c\u00e1ch quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, t\u00ednh ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c m\u00f4n v\u00f5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u1ea3 con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con trai \u1edf m\u1ecdi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. Tr\u1ebb t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n theo nh\u00f3m, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u2666 C\u01b0\u1edbi ng\u1ef1a Cho tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt l\u00e0 li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ki\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9ng. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01b0\u1ee1i ng\u1ef1a r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed: \u0111i d\u1ea1o, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng choi tr\u00ean l\u01b0ng ng\u1ef1a. Vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t con v\u1eadt c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp tham gia vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103n nu\u00f4i, ch\u1ea3i chu\u1ed1t v\u00e0 ch\u0103m ch\u00fat cho v\u1eadt nu\u00f4i. \u2666 Boi N\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ecbu m\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb em qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi \u0111\u00f9a th\u1ecfa th\u00edch \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u b\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nhau. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch b\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1t sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh tai n\u1ea1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc b\u01a1i t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm v\u00ec m\u00f4n","b\u01a1i h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. \u2666 \u0110\u1ea1p xe v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t pa-tanh Tr\u1ebb n\u00ean choi tr\u01b0\u1ee3t pa-tanh b\u1eb1ng gi\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1ee3t hay tr\u01b0\u1ee3t pa-tanh b\u1eb1ng v\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1ee3t d\u01b0\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u00f2i l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gian d\u00e0nh cho tr\u00f2 choi n\u00e0y (b\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1ee3t pa-tanh) ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng thu h\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ebfn choi. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1i \u01b0u gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m. \u0110\u1ea1p xe l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb em y\u00eau th\u00edch, tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec5nh d\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p nguy hi\u1ec3m khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y, do v\u1eady, n\u00ean cho tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t qui \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp n\u00e0o (ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t an to\u00e0n). Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1p xe c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay gia \u0111\u00ecnh... \u2666 Nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n th\u00ea thao \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i Nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi chi\u1ebfn thu\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7. Song, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. Ch\u01a1i c\u00e1c m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng. Tuy v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea9y chay, th\u00ec n\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb t\u00f3i m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao hay ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i. \u2666 H\u01b0&ng \u0111\u1ea1o Vi\u1ec7c ch\u01a1i m\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i \u1edf ch\u1ed7 t\u1ea1o ra cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng theo t\u1eebng nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf, th\u01b0\u1eddng do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ch\u1ec9 huy. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u00f4n n\u00e0y duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i x\u00f3a b\u1ecf t\u00ednh h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho tr\u1ebb \u201cra m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh\u201d v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a, v\u00e0 g\u1ecdt gi\u0169a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c. \u2666 N\u1ea5u \u0103n N\u1ea5u \u0103n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3","giao cho tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng mang t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, \u00f3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng mang l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1c quan b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c huy \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb duy tr\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung. Hom n\u1eefa, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 m\u00f3n \u0103n t\u1ef1 tay m\u00ecnh n\u1ea5u v\u00e0 sung s\u01b0\u1edbng khi th\u1ea5y m\u00f3n \u0103n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c. C\u00f3 th\u00ea cho tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e1c l\u00f3p d\u1ea1y n\u1ea5u \u0103n theo t\u1eebng nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u1ed1i \u0111a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh giao nh\u1eefng d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 s\u1eafc nh\u1ecdn hay nguy hi\u1ec3m cho tr\u1ebb, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng t\u00f3i c\u00e1c v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng n\u00e0y. \u2666 Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt C\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0: \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, g\u1ed1m, \u0111\u1ea5t n\u1eb7n, v\u1ebd v\u00e0 trang tr\u00ed... \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u01b0 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 do th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u00f2rng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0ng b\u00e0y, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch l\u00e0m trang tr\u00ed h\u01a1n \u0111i\u00eau kh\u1eafc, c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1c h\u1ecda h ay v\u1ebd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m \u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u00edch. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb th\u1eed s\u1ee9c trong nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u00edch. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cho tr\u1ebb tham gia ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nhanh ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. \u2014*\u25a0 Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o th\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0y sang m\u1ed9t \u0111am m\u00ea ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 sau v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nguy c\u01b0 b\u1ecb c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong nh\u00f3m t\u1ea9y chay. B\u1eedi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1eeb \u0111\u1ef1i ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1eed nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eebng th\u1ea5p, do v\u1eady ch\u00fang d\u1ec5 b\u1ef1c","t\u1ee9c, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 hay n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. V\u1eady h\u00e3y nh\u1ee9 r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 ban \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, song ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng sau m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Tuy v\u1eady, n\u00ean khuy\u00ean con b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u1ee9i m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. Vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y sang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb mau ch\u00e1n v\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1eeb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n hay v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng.","L\u1edcI KHUY\u00caN D\u00c0NH CHO C\u00c1C B\u1eacC PH\u1ee4 HUYNH 1 . T r ir & c h \u1ebf t l\u00e0 t h \u00f3 i q u e n N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201cth\u00f3i quen\u201d. Th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong ti\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng: h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n sau tay l\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebb m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i theo m\u1ed9t qu\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. V\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00f3i h\u1ea1n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u1edf b\u00ean trong. 2 . L u \u00f4 n t h \u1ed1 n g n h \u1ea5 t v \u00e0 k i\u00ea n \u0111 \u1ecbn h Th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 hai t\u1eeb quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb. Vi\u1ec7c th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hon nhi\u1ec1u. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00f3i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb tham gia. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb: y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp kh\u00f4ng? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c hay ch\u1ecbu s\u1ee9c \u00e9p v\u00ec th\u00f2i gian s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 vi ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ecf ra ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh, c\u1ea3 trong th\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1eabn ph\u1ea1t, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd s\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 3 . H \u00e3 y x \u00e1 c \u0111 \u1ecbn h n h \u0169 n g h \u00e0 n h v i \u1ee9 n g x \u1eed c \u1ea7 n u n t i\u00ea n M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea5t ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 theo s\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf, tr\u00e1nh n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u hay m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh. T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ph\u00e2n","bi\u1ec7t nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc c\u01b0 x\u1eed b\u1ea5t di b\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng qui t\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y quan tr\u1ecdng? V\u00ed d\u1ee5, li\u1ec7u vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i \u201cxin vui l\u00f2ng\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cc\u00e1m on\u201d c\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean \u1edf b\u00e0n \u0103n trong 15 ph\u00fat? Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc xem \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111a ph\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. 4 . P h \u1ea3 i r \u1ed7 r \u00e0 n g v \u00e0 c h \u00edn h x \u00e1 c Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb thi\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung ho\u1eb7c d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch d\u00e0i nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 hay y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 s\u1ed1 2 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 s\u1ed1 1. H\u00e3y l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u01b0a ra t\u1eebng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng mi\u1ec7ng k\u00e8m theo m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 vi\u1ebft h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 (s\u1ed5, b\u1ea3ng \u0111en c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh, gi\u1ea5y). Tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, qui t\u1eafc v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. Tr\u00e1nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u d\u01b0\u1edbi d\u1ea1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1edf: \u201cN\u00e0o, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con \u0111i ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a?\u201d C\u00e1c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i mang t\u00ednh m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i mang t\u00ednh tham kh\u1ea3o. 5. S \u1eed d \u1ee5 n g c \u00e1 c h t i \u1ebf p c \u1ead n \u0111 a g i \u00e1 c q u a n L\u00f2i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o cho tr\u1ebb, v\u1eeba ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c hay s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c. S\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t tay l\u00ean vai hay l\u00ean c\u00e1nh tay c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i khi n\u00f3i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u00eam v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 vi\u1ebft h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb l\u01b0u gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng tin theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. 6. D \u1ee5 * \u0111 o \u00e1 n t r i r & c n h \u1eef n g t h a y \u0111 \u1ed5 \u1ec9 t r o n g t h \u00f3 i q u e n Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi th\u00f3i quen l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. Do v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f3i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y: c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eafc tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1eafp t\u00f3i, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i sau n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1ec1m d\u1ebbo h\u01a1n. 7. H \u00e3 y l \u00e0 n g u * ( r i t h \u1ef1 c t \u1ebf , h \u00e3 y t h a y \u0111 \u1ed5 \u1ec9 n h \u0169 n g m o n g \u0111 c r i c \u1ee7 a b\u1ea1n B\u1ec7nh thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n trong h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed","sai l\u1ec7ch hay nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u00f9ng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ef1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn kh\u1ea3 quan hon nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ki\u1ec3m tra c\u1eb7p s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu con trai 12 tu\u1ed5i, trong khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00f3i em trai \u00fat c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng \u0111on gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u0169ng ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o. 8. H \u00e3 y d \u00f9 n g n h \u0169 n g h \u00ec n h t h \u1ee9 c t h \u01b0 \u1edf n g p h \u1ea1 t t \u1ea1 i c h \u1ed7 L\u00f2i khuy\u00ean n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n. Ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, b\u1edfi trong su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 tu\u1ea7n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i khen th\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7 (h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 can hay m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u1ebb choi \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n) d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1edfng cho h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t hon gi\u1eefa gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean nh\u1edd vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng th\u01b0\u1edfng cho tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 can hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed \u0111on gi\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u1edfng ngay t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7 t\u01b0ong \u0111\u01b0ong v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ghi nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1edf ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng mang t\u00ednh \u201ch\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c\u201d hon v\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00f3i nh\u0169ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. T\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ecf quy\u1ec1n \u0111i \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 B\u1ea3y tu\u1ea7n sau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 k\u00e9m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i suy ng\u1eabm l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n ngay t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. Theo quy t\u1eafc chung, tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea1t. \u0110\u00f9ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u201cd\u1ecda n\u1ea1t\u201d trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u00fang \u201cl\u00f2i h\u1ee9a ph\u1ea1t\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nguy co* kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u201ch\u1ee9a\u201d \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec n\u1eefa. Do v\u1eady, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i l\u00f2i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i. 9. T \u1ecf r a k h \u00f4 n g q u a n t \u00e2 m \u0111 \u1ebf n n h \u0169 n g h \u00e0 n h \u0111 \u1ed9 n g k h i\u00ea u k h \u00edc h c \u1ee7 a tr\u1ebb","D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb em bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t kh\u00f9ng l\u00ean. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed hay c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 l\u1ecdi d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 th\u00edch. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng roi v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i b\u1eb1ng \u201cv\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng\u201d. Ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u201c\u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i\u201d \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3 khi\u00eau kh\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. 1 0 . N \u00f3 i n h \u0169 n g c \u00e0 u m a n g t\u00edn h t\u00edc h c \u1ef1 c C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111on gi\u1ea3n. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn t\u00f3i xung \u0111\u1ed9t hay c\u00e3i v\u00e3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khen ng\u1ef1i con b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111on gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0: \u201cHoan h\u00f4, con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 bu\u1ed9c d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d hay \u201cHoan h\u00f4 v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00ean t\u00fai \u0111\u1ee5ng b\u00fat \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n kho\u1ea3ng n\u0103m th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00f3i xua tan \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c! Nh\u0169ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn nh\u0169ng l\u00f2i ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c d\u1ed3n d\u1eadp c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, do v\u1eady, c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ef1i khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u00edch c\u1ef1c! 1 1 . H \u00e3 y t \u1ecf r a \u201c c h \u1ee7 \u0111 \u1ed9 n g 99 Thay v\u00ec c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u \u0111i, h\u00e3y d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Khi th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u1ea1ng nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 leo thang trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t xung \u0111\u1ed9t nh\u1ecf bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t xung \u0111\u1ed9t l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb hay \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho tr\u1ebb qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. 1 2 . H \u00e3 y s \u00e1 n g t\u1ea1 o tr o n g p h u * o n g p h \u1ea3 p d \u1ea1 y tr \u1ebb \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c th\u01b0\u1edfng (ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea1t) m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y sang ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c. \u0110\u00ea kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y t\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec3m cho nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. 1 3 . H \u00e3 y g i\u1eef g \u00ecn s \u1ee9 c k h \u1ecf e b \u1ea3 n th \u00e2 n Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o v\u00e0o qui","c\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. S\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u roi v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Do v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u00f2i n\u00ean d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u00e1nh t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ee9c \u00e9p trong ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ngh\u1ec9 ngoi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t cho con b\u1ea1n v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i hon. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t hon, con b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t hon.","K\u00caTLU\u1eacN S\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ecdp trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00fap b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y n\u1eb1m trong t\u1ea7m tay c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u00f2i d\u00f9 cho \u0111\u00f4i khi trong cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ed1i tung l\u00ean. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3, c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1ea5y, c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t, \u01b0u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng nghi k\u1ef5 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111e n\u1eb9t, d\u1ecda d\u1eabm ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 lo \u00e2u, ho\u00e0i nghi v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft b\u1edfi tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng gi\u00f3i h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea5n an v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh. Quy\u1ec1n uy \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0n c\u00e3i. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cB\u1ed1 (m\u1eb9) d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00ec b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 (m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9) c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 (m\u1eb9) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u con n\u00ean l\u00e0m\u201d ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i. Kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh trong vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c quy\u1ec1n uy \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdp l\u00fd nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb. Mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ee9ng minh cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ecdp v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i tham kh\u1ea3o cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1eed r\u1eb1ng v\u00f3i m\u1ed7i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng.","V\u1ebe T\u00c1C GI\u1ea2 DEANNA CANONGE, b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh vi, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c 17 n\u0103m t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sinh s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1i Ph\u00e1p, hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb ch\u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, r\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec5u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb. TS. MICHEL LECENDREUX, b\u00e1c s\u1ef9 chuy\u00ean Khoa nhi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n nhi t\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n Robert Debr\u00e9 (Paris, Ph\u00e1p), l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 khoa h\u1ecdc nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch R \u00e9 p o n s e s \u00e0 v o s q u e s t\u1ec9o n s s u r V h y p era c tiv it\u00e9, NXB Solar (2003)."]