Đừng ép con Khôn sớm

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L\u00fac ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 con \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o nh\u01b0ng khi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c sinh \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 hai, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u1ecb th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 r\u1ed1i tung. \u0110\u1ee9a l\u1edbn tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh, c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f3c su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y, ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec n\u00ean ch\u1ecb t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i. \u201cD\u00f9 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft v\u00ec sao \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf kh\u00f3c nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn l\u00e0m t\u00f4i m\u1ec7t b\u1edf h\u01a1i tai r\u1ed3i n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf.\u201d Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con l\u00e0 do c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 y\u1ebfu \u1edbt ho\u1eb7c tinh th\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i con hay b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng b\u1edfi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c. D\u1eabu v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u1edf ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do nh\u01b0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi hay c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c th\u00ec s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i sau n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0103n u\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed d\u00f9ng c\u1ea3 thu\u1ed1c b\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe; ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i ra, h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, b\u1ebfp n\u00fac\u2026 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1t sinh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng l\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ngay. Xu th\u1ebf cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u khi vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh cho ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd m\u1edf s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec7n n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef c\u00e1i. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00ean mua cho con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng suy x\u00e9t tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tranh th\u1ee7 v\u1eeba ch\u01a1i v\u1eeba d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 n\u1ebfu b\u00e9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y vui. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m theo suy ngh\u0129 http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 51","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 h\u00e3y ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eebng ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng n\u00f3ng v\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 l\u00fd ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec tham v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. 4. T\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n \u0110i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. D\u00f9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00f9y theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ri\u00eang. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu coi cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng giao l\u01b0u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec b\u00e9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n khi cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng qua \u00e1nh m\u1eaft nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Khi nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecfi ngay: \u201cV\u1eady ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ra sao?\u201d M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, th\u00f4ng d\u1ee5ng cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 b\u00e9 n\u00e0o. M\u1ed7i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y theo t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng. Trong c\u00e1c s\u00e1ch hay t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i con th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 \u201cnh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc\u2026\u201d, \u201cph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb\u2026\u201d v\u00e0 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc nu\u00f4i con nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb xung quanh nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 \u00e9p m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 52","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho con \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh tin l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong quan ni\u1ec7m nu\u00f4i con v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i thu\u1ed9c tu\u00fdp ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn n\u00ean khi c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, ch\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecf qua suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho con th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau n\u00e0y c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ecb n\u00ean t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c ph\u00f3 th\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i con cho m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. Cho tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u than th\u1edf r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i con th\u1eadt v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng v\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. L\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u1ecb g\u00e1i \u1edf g\u1ea7n gi\u00fap s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng khi chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 xa x\u00f4i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, c\u00f4 b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m. Ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi con c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00ean. Tuy th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi con nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn. Ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 con m\u00ecnh \u0111ang h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed1t th\u00ec d\u00e0nh cho con t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 b\u1edd b\u1ebfn nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00ec v\u00f4 c\u1edb tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn l\u00ean tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp trong \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129 t\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh xung quanh m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn, v\u00ec th\u1ebf r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 53","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm tr\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111i. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 54","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 2. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i th\u1ecfa th\u00edch cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac 5 tu\u1ed5i \u201cC\u1ee9 b\u1eaft b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111i \u0111\u00e3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef kia, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec\u2026\u201d - c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf n\u1ed7i lo v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0, chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n \u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ed1n sai l\u1ea7m cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c e-mail c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u1eadu con trai b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1ee1i. Ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc g\u00ec cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u00e9 l\u00ean 3 tu\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 38 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i giao con cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen \u1edf m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. C\u1eadu con trai r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 v\u1eabn cho con \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc \u1edf trung t\u00e2m nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh hay b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con. Sau h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef n\u00e0o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean v\u00ec ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft con \u00f4n l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc n\u00ean c\u0169ng cho qua, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng ph\u00eda c\u00f4ng ty gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c khuy\u00ean ch\u1ecb h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 d\u1ecb t\u1eadt tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. T\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u lo l\u1eafng. Theo l\u1eddi ch\u1ecb, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eef nh\u01b0ng con trai ch\u1ecb r\u1ea5t th\u00edch s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec7n, th\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng v\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 55","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Ch\u1ecb \u0111ang r\u1ea5t lo kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i cho con ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n b\u1ec7nh hay b\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 H\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. Khi t\u00f4i nu\u00f4i con trai l\u1edbn Kyeong-mo c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1eed sai. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n kh\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb s\u1ebd l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i l\u1edbn cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Theo \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ed1n l\u1ed7i cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. 1. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i khi b\u1eaft \u00e9p con v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n Tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t trung t\u00e2m gia s\u01b0 d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e1ch tranh tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y. Sau khi xem qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 xem qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a? Con t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i s\u00f5i, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch l\u00e0u l\u00e0u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?\u201d Trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nghi ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi quay qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 cho tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i. D\u00f9 th\u1ef1c h\u01b0 ra sao, s\u1ee9c lan truy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Theo \u0111\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ea1i, m\u1ea9u qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o \u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem r\u1ea5t cao v\u00ec doanh nghi\u1ec7p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0ng \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm. Khi c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m gia s\u01b0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1edf ra, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft con \u0111i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do nh\u01b0 l\u00e0: so v\u1edbi h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n, gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 \u1edf trung t\u00e2m gia s\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 56","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm v\u00e0 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t cho tr\u1ebb \u0111i h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u00e0m theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m so v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: Chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u00ec ai \u0111\u00e2y? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n cho tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a \u0111i n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t an c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9? \u201cC\u1ee9 b\u1eaft b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111i \u0111\u00e3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef kia, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec\u2026\u201d \u2013 suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf n\u1ed7i lo v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0, chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n \u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u1edbi 99 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ph\u1ee5 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, t\u1ea1o g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tinh th\u1ea7n, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng v\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 sau. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 l\u00fd do r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00ec sao ph\u1ea3i \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t xem chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 v\u00ec ai. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho con hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u con mu\u1ed1n hay kh\u00f4ng. 2. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 thi c\u1eed, th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9 sao ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc nu\u00f4i con T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen l\u01b0u gi\u1eef \u0111\u0129a DVD c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng phim t\u00f4i th\u00edch v\u00e0 m\u1edf l\u00ean xem l\u1ea1i m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. Trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 b\u1ed9 phim Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft sau nh\u1eefng ph\u00e2n \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 phim t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 Guido tr\u1ea3i qua c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 v\u1ee3 Dora xinh \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u1eadu con trai Joshua 5 tu\u1ed5i. Qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ee9c qu\u1ed1c x\u00e3 c\u1ee7a Hitler \u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m tan v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd. Guido v\u00e0 Joshua l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 57","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Do Th\u00e1i n\u00ean b\u1ecb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung, c\u00f2n c\u00f4 v\u1ee3 Dora d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mang d\u00f2ng m\u00e1u d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u0111u\u1ed5i theo ch\u1ed3ng con v\u00e0 l\u00ean chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung trong n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb th\u1ea3m s\u00e1t. Nh\u01b0ng Guido kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n Joshua b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt gh\u00ea r\u1ee3n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y n\u00ean v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ea1i, Guido \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft c\u1eadu con trai b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng. Guido b\u01b0\u1edbc ra xung phong l\u00e0m th\u00f4ng d\u1ecbch cho vi\u00ean gi\u00e1m th\u1ecb tr\u1ea1i, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. V\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng, vi\u00ean gi\u00e1m th\u1ecb th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o nh\u1eefng lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 kh\u1eaft khe \u1edf tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o s\u1ebd b\u1eafn ch\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai b\u1ecf tr\u1ed1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111e d\u1ecda n\u00e0y qua mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a Guido \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. \u201cC\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i di\u1ec5n ra li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u1ea1t 1.000 \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cao nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe t\u0103ng\u2026\u201d Nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0 Joshua b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf d\u00f9 \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1eaft l\u00e0m t\u00f9 binh \u1edf tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung v\u1eabn tin t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Trong m\u1eaft Joshua, tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c l\u1ea5m lem v\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3i, c\u00e1i r\u00e9t m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1 do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng vai l\u00ednh\u201d chi\u1ebfm gi\u1eef v\u00e0 \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a b\u00ed m\u1eadt. V\u00e0 m\u1ed7i khi Joshua l\u1edd m\u1edd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u1edf tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung th\u00ec \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 Guido l\u1ea1i th\u00ec th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng \u201ct\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i th\u00fa v\u1ecb th\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 g\u1ea1t \u0111i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y, Guido b\u1ea3o con su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ed1n d\u01b0\u1edbi g\u1ea7m gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i khi \u0111i lao d\u1ecbch v\u1ec1, \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i l\u00f4i m\u1ea9u b\u00e1nh m\u00ec kh\u00f4 gi\u1ea5u trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra d\u00fai cho Joshua. V\u00e0o ng\u00e0y n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0110\u1ee9c b\u1ea1i tr\u1eadn, d\u00f9 b\u1ecb l\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng Guido v\u1eabn nh\u00e1y m\u1eaft h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi con khi nh\u1eadn ra Joshua \u0111ang ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u1ea5y. Guido b\u01b0\u1edbc theo nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00ednh v\u1edbi http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 58","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda Joshua m\u00e0 n\u00f3i. \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i. N\u1ebfu qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay th\u00ec con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn xe t\u0103ng.\u201d L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1, Guido kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 n\u1ed7i kinh ho\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft trong l\u00f2ng c\u1eadu con trai nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1edd b\u1ed1 m\u00e0 Joshua c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u201ctr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i\u201d v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y qu\u00e2n \u0110\u1ee9c r\u00fat lui kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i khi tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t, tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft Joshua, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe t\u0103ng to l\u1edbn xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 xe t\u0103ng c\u1ee7a qu\u00e2n M\u1ef9 truy \u0111u\u1ed5i qu\u00e2n \u0110\u1ee9c. Joshua b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u1edf hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea3m s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi Do Th\u00e1i nh\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1. N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Guido \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn l\u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ee9ng b\u00ean trong h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u2013 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng, Joshua \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 cho c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3i r\u00e9t th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi v\u00ec v\u1edbi Joshua, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 b\u00e0y ra m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi trong m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e1c \u0111i theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ea1o ra. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i ng\u00e3 xu\u1ed1ng, Joshua v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u1edf trong \u0111\u00f3. Trong m\u1eaft Joshua, hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea3m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 b\u1eafn nhau th\u00fa v\u1ecb gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi xem b\u1ed9 phim n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u1eafc m\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con \u0111i n\u1eefa, t\u1ea1i sao Joshua v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a Joshua ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 Guido ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai kh\u00e1c. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn, b\u1edfi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn than th\u1edf r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 59","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.\u201d D\u0129 nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho con. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho b\u00e9 \u0103n, cho b\u00e9 m\u1eb7c, d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean b\u00e9 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh t\u00edch l\u0169y nh\u1eefng tri th\u1ee9c n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 cho con m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i, \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y. Vi\u1ec7c \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 hay g\u00e2y chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea5y l\u00fd do r\u1eb1ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec\u201d \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean do khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m. S\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec\u201d \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qu\u00ean nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc mang tr\u00ean m\u00ecnh danh x\u01b0ng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng suy ngh\u0129 theo ki\u1ec3u \u201cd\u00f9 sao th\u00ec b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u1edbn\u201d l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. 3. Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1m th\u1ecb c\u1ee7a con Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n t\u1eadp trung sang ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. B\u1edfi v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y g\u1eb7p c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u, t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i. Trong khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, b\u00e9 g\u00e1i v\u1eeba v\u1edbi tay \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y ghi ch\u00fa tr\u00ean b\u00e0n l\u00e0m http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 60","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafng ngay: \u201cNg\u1ed3i im. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u1eady!\u201d Ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf \u1ea5y th\u00f4i c\u0169ng cho t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u00f5, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. T\u1eeb l\u00fac con g\u00e1i l\u00ean 4 tu\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc piano, \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ba n\u0103m v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e9 b\u1ecb b\u1eaft h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh sau khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc xong ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb. \u201cCon c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d \u201cN\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t n\u00ean chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con th\u00f4i.\u201d \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m hay m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n cao. H\u1ecd nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ngay c\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp thu nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. V\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 con c\u00e1i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo \u00fd cha m\u1eb9, cho n\u00ean t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i, h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1m th\u1ecb\u201d v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201ctr\u1ebb con th\u00ec bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u1ee9\u201d. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con c\u00e1i qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 \u201cCon c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn trung t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, \u201cH\u00f4m nay ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y\u201d, \u201cTuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3u n\u00e0y c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft cho m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a hai \u0111\u1ee9a con, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadt m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u00e2n h\u1eadn khi nh\u1eadn ra con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u00e2u ch\u1ee9. Cho n\u00ean d\u00f9 c\u1ef1c nh\u1ecdc v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn l\u00e0m th\u00eam ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n cho con \u0103n h\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 61","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb9. Khi g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1ea1y \u00f9a v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o. \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d, \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u1ebft\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 l\u00e0m cho con \u0111i\u201d\u2026 M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u1edbn l\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 bom n\u1ed5 ch\u1eadm. Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Bertrand A. W. Russel c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cNh\u1eefng l\u00fd lu\u1eadn gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng qu\u00e1 xem th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb.\u201d C\u00e2u nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau m\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mang m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. Cho n\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t hay thay con gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ee3p l\u1ef1c\u201d thay v\u00ec \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft\u201d. Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea3o con \u201cL\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf!\u201d th\u00ec h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi: \u201cN\u1ebfu con l\u00e0m v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng?\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng b\u00e9 t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. 4. Khoe v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i. Theo l\u1eddi ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i, d\u00f9 b\u00e9 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 2 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y ch\u1eef nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft b\u1ea3ng ch\u1eef c\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n cho con xem c\u00e1c th\u1ebb t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh th\u00ec b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecdc theo ngay. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi chen ngang: \u201cB\u00e1c s\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 h\u00e3y ki\u1ec3m tra IQ cho b\u00e9 \u0111i \u1ea1.\u201d http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 62","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Tr\u00ean khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m \u201ctrong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p b\u00e1c s\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u00e9 n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. \u201cTh\u01b0a ch\u1ecb, ki\u1ec3m tra IQ kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ki\u1ec3m tra IQ c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i, ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u00e9 th\u00ec may ra m\u1edbi c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d T\u00f4i ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ho\u00e0i nghi l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. Tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. B\u00e9 c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5p xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u00e1nh m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9: h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u00e9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh b\u00e9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i. B\u00e9 v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i, v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh n\u00ean c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00ean m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ra ngo\u00e0i. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f2n c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa. V\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh ki\u1ec3m tra th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 \u0111anh l\u1ea1i, c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau g\u00ec b\u00e9 c\u0169ng n\u00f3i \u201cch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft\u201d ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n ch\u1eb3ng \u0103n nh\u1eadp g\u00ec v\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. 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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n mu\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i sinh con trai. \u0110\u1ebfn khi b\u00e9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng minh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 63","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm mi\u1ec7ng b\u1ea3o con m\u00ecnh s\u00e1ng d\u1ea1 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edbt khen con h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb n\u0103m l\u1edbp Ba, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m trong nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i thu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nhanh nh\u1eefng \u00fd ch\u00ednh khi \u00f4n thi h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o v\u00ec t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi n\u00ean m\u1edbi thi t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Sau m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 \u00e9p m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao nh\u1ea5t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng do g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhanh so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 d\u1ea7n th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n b\u1edfi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i ki\u1ec3m tra n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 g\u00ec? Trong t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m \u0110\u1ea5t l\u00e0nh (The Good Earth) c\u1ee7a n\u1eef ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft gia ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Pearl S. Buck c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh, \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sinh \u0111\u1ee9a con trai \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng e r\u1eb1ng tr\u1eddi cao \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ecb v\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd n\u00ean h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea5u con d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1o. M\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng d\u00e0nh cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i lo ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u1edf \u00dac c\u0169ng v\u1eady. H\u1ecd th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng khi con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhanh h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u1ea5u nh\u1eb9m chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. B\u1edfi h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i mang g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a \u00dac c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chung tri\u1ebft l\u00fd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea1i Trung t\u00e2m Th\u00f4ng tin Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c N\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu \u1edf Sydney, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u1eadp trung gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00fap c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ebb loi hay b\u1ecb c\u00f4 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 64","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng minh d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng minh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u201cnh\u1ea5n ngay n\u00fat d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i\u201d. V\u00ec bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u ngay t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc cha m\u1eb9 cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng minh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac chu\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i. Cho n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 khoe khoang \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 che gi\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn h\u01a1n sao? http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 65","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tin tuy\u1ec7 t \u0111\u1ed1 i v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, t\u00f4i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd xem c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb c\u00e3i nhau v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. L\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng h\u00e9t l\u00ean: \u201cTh\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c gi\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 n\u00ean m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! IQ c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 l\u00e0 bao nhi\u00eau h\u1ea3?\u201d Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00e1i sau n\u00e0y ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c h\u01b0 c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y nh\u00e9. B\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a Binet, m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1905. Ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 Ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u Binet x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra nh\u1eb1m t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 qu\u00e1 k\u00e9m, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc. Sau khi gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1i d\u1ea1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 thua k\u00e9m tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ebb con h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, Binet \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 sau. Ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 (IQ) = Tu\u1ed5i tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 (MA = Mental Age)\/ Tu\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf (CA = Chronological Age) x 100 Tu\u1ed5i tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o theo b\u00e0i tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00f2n tu\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u00ecnh qu\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u0111a s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb. Theo c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u00ecnh qu\u00e2n th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 tr\u00ean 100, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1edbi 100. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 66","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u1ed1n d\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tr\u1ebb thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m tra s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong bi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9 m\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00f9y theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ l\u00e0 130 th\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3m xu\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n 120. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ki\u1ec3m tra h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3 s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 \u1edf m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho con ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3. D\u00f9 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u1eady r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 dao \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng trong bi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9 m\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00f9y theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng, theo \u0111\u00f3, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sau khi ki\u1ec3m tra n\u1ebfu v\u01b0\u1ee3t 100 th\u00ec tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ tr\u00ean 100, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng xem nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con s\u1ed1, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u1eafc m\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng \u201cV\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay sao?\u201d Khi ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 ba kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 IQ ph\u00e2n t\u00edch (Analytical), IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh (Practical) v\u00e0 IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o (Creative). Ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ec9 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 67","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch m\u1edbi m\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ngo\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi hai kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u2013 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tri th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. V\u00ec v\u1eady tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ed1t c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng r\u00f5 n\u00e9t v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u1edf b\u00e9 g\u00e1i c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng cao h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi b\u00e9 trai. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb th\u00edch \u1ee9ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc l\u1ef1c t\u1ed1t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt theo khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi m\u1ebb. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. Cho n\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i trong khi IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i k\u00e9m v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Con trai l\u1edbn Kyeong-mo c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 ti\u00eau bi\u1ec3u. Ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o cao nh\u01b0ng IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i h\u01a1i k\u00e9m. Ch\u00e1u th\u00edch m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u r\u1ed3i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt theo c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c giao l\u01b0u v\u00e0 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Theo Piaget \u2013 h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u1edbi m\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu v\u1eady th\u00ec ba lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y th\u1eed \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 IQ ph\u00e2n t\u00edch cao nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i thi\u1ebfu IQ th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 IQ s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u2013 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng tri th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng theo c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u1ea3 http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 68","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0169ng k\u00e9m \u0111i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u1edbi c\u0169ng y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, c\u1ea7n xem x\u00e9t c\u1ea3 ba y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 IQ n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang IQ ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng qua s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, c\u00f2n hai lo\u1ea1i IQ kia th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a hai ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ n\u00e0y d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang bi\u1ebft hi\u1ec7n nay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Cho n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o n\u1ebfu IQ c\u1ee7a con cao hay lo l\u1eafng khi IQ c\u1ee7a con th\u1ea5p. Nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ cao m\u00e0 nh\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ebb gi\u1ecfi giang h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 l\u00fd c\u1ea7n nhanh ch\u00f3ng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 IQ. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat ch\u00fang ta tin v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ th\u00ec con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 69","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm B\u00ed m\u1ead t b\u1ea5 t ng\u1edd b\u00ean trong n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7 a tr\u1ebb M\u1ea5y n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi nh\u1edd c\u1eady t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd nh\u1edd t\u00f4i ki\u1ec3m tra n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 trai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. \u00dd \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t s\u00f3ng c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ki\u1ec3m tra. Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o \u1edf c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 quan \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c r\u1ed3i. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00f4n xao kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edbt c\u0169ng th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p th\u1eed xem sao. G\u1eb7p b\u00e9, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cHow are you?\u201d Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cFine, thank you.\u201d S\u1eb5n d\u1ecbp, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t th\u00eam m\u1ea5y lo\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi theo h\u01b0\u1edbng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1. D\u00f9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u1ec5, ch\u1ec9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 m\u1ea5y t\u1eeb nh\u01b0ng b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u0103n nh\u00f3. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, d\u00f9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp sau c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 ph\u1ea1m vi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Khi xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1eddi gian qua, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u1eb1m trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Th\u1ea5y con ngoan ngo\u00e3n nghe theo nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u00e9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. T\u1eeb sau khi con \u0111\u1ea1t tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb em kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i loan tin tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 lo ng\u1ea1i v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. L\u00f2ng vui s\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb thay b\u1eb1ng g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i. G\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c, b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u01b0a h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c, b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y e ng\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 70","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. C\u00f3 kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00ec b\u1ecb b\u1eaft h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 s\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c Internet. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u00ecn chung c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef k\u00e9m. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, c\u00e1c b\u00e9 n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quen trao \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau. Tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng thu n\u1ea1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng th\u00ec n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u1edf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c. \u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu ng\u1eebng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng. 100% s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ngay khi ng\u1eebng k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3, kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng tin trong b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, c\u00e1c kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u g\u1ea5p m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. T\u1eeb khi ra \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac 1 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh gi\u1ea3m nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 t\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng 4 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c gi\u1ea3m d\u00f9 \u00edt h\u01a1n. Kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00f4 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea7n kinh ch\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u1edbn th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? N\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t k\u00edch th\u00edch m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed l\u00fd th\u00f4ng tin nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u00f4ng qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u1ea7n kinh c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0ng s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t sinh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u2013 m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng tin nhanh v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. L\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ef1c \u0111oan, n\u1ebfu xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 th\u00ec s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o \u0111\u00e3 l\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edbt ph\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y quan tr\u1ecdng. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 c\u1eaft http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 71","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm gi\u1ea3m hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu k\u00edch th\u00edch nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ph\u00eda th\u00ec s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh kh\u1edbp th\u1ea7n kinh ch\u1ec9 \u0111i theo h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m c\u00e1c kh\u1edbp \u1edf c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c, khi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. Theo \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u201cnu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i \u1edf con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u1ea1i. \u201cN\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u00fang khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n th\u01a1 \u1ea5u th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i b\u1ecb mai m\u1ed9t.\u201d Th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 4-5 tu\u1ed5i, quan ni\u1ec7m ng\u00e0y nay s\u1edbm h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc 3 tu\u1ed5i. V\u00ec v\u1eady l\u00fd lu\u1eadn tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng k\u00edch kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c. Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd s\u1edbm t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p trong vi\u1ec7c mau ch\u00f3ng d\u1ea1y ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb, ti\u1ebfng Anh, To\u00e1n cho con trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 l\u00fd lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ean chu\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 sau: Nh\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t trong hai con chu\u1ed9t \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, con chu\u1ed9t c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, ki\u1ec3m tra b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a hai con v\u1eadt th\u00ec th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9 d\u00e0y l\u1edbp v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a con chu\u1ed9t \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i d\u00e0y h\u01a1n v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a con th\u1ee9 hai. N\u00e3o ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch. V\u00ec v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo logic n\u00e0y cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a chu\u1ed9t. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi chu\u1ed9t th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u00edch th\u00edch mang t\u00ednh ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c nghi\u1ec7m tr\u00ean chu\u1ed9t, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e2u http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 72","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm thu\u1eabn trong logic c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Theo Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Seo Yoo Heon \u2013 chuy\u00ean gia trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef hay con s\u1ed1 ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi n\u00e3o ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n sau 6 tu\u1ed5i. B\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u00fac \u1ea5y, ph\u1ea7n n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp thu tri th\u1ee9c to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, v\u1eadt l\u00fd m\u1edbi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, cha m\u1eb9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfng Anh, To\u00e1n v\u00e0 Ng\u1eef v\u0103n hay kh\u00f4ng. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1eady th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc 6 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, \u0111\u1ebfn kho\u1ea3ng 3 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn ri\u00eang l\u1ebb n\u00e0o. Do v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. L\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi cho tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 cho b\u00e9 xem nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ho\u1eb7c s\u00e1ch tranh \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cho b\u00e9 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. Trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u01b0u ti\u00ean gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi s\u1edbm h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 tin. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4m tr\u1ebb, giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb mau ch\u00f3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a th\u00f9y n\u00e3o. Sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng 5 tu\u1ed5i, th\u00f9y tr\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ed1t n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c suy ngh\u0129, http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 73","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm thay v\u00ec b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng tri th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129. Tr\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng phong ph\u00fa n\u00ean n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111a d\u1ea1ng th\u00ec n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c suy ngh\u0129 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00eam. Tuy nhi\u00ean trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0, so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 b\u00fat trong tay th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp theo ki\u1ec3u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng ch\u1eebng n\u0103m h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp Ba. N\u0103ng l\u1ef1c suy ngh\u0129 mang t\u00ednh tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, n\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng l\u00fd lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng n\u0103m 10 tu\u1ed5i. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c ba t\u1eeb trong t\u00ean m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. 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Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u201ch\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i\u201d \u0111ang lan r\u1ed9ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n nay l\u1ea1i \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0: tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i, d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u. 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Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean c\u0169ng v\u1eady, ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ednh thi\u00ean t\u00e0i. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 75","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u00e0i\u201d l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho \u0111\u1ee9a con th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng xem nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec? L\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i b\u1edfi t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ph\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u0103ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y c\u00f2n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u. Tu\u1ed5i \u1ea5u th\u01a1, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u1edf kho\u1ea3ng 3-5 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 duy nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong ph\u00fa. Tr\u1ebb quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean cho ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 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Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p c\u00e1nh bay xa l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb \u00e9p h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ed3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh con v\u1eb9t thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o. M\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eefa \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ea1nh tranh, b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. X\u00e9t \u1edf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh l\u00fd lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, tr\u00ed n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. \u1ea2nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ghi nh\u1edb, sau \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng mau ch\u00f3ng nguy k\u1ecbch \u1edf m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n. Theo \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf tr\u00ed n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 76","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ghi nh\u1edb, m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c b\u1ecb x\u00e2m h\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 3-5 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f3c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u0103n m\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3c theo, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc khi g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tu\u00e2n theo quy t\u1eafc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng \u201cn\u1ebfu \u0111i ti\u1ebfp s\u1ebd g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh quy t\u1eafc b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quy t\u1eafc h\u00f3a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00f4ng qua t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ed7 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c v\u00e0 nghe theo s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa v\u1eddi v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tu\u00e2n theo t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u00e8n giao th\u00f4ng khi c\u00f3 c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady. Trong khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft d\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u00ec tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng. Khi xem x\u00e9t \u1edf l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cvi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc\u201d c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n, d\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng. T\u00ednh ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb g\u00e2y n\u00ean nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00f4 l\u1eadp\u201d th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ph\u00e1t sinh \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 c\u1edb d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t hay g\u00e2y chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh. Ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y r\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 x\u1ea3 s\u00fang b\u1eeba b\u00e3i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean kia \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0 v\u1eeba ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00f3. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 77","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm M\u1ed9t ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean H\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc n\u0103m th\u1ee9 n\u0103m \u1edf l\u1edbp t\u00e0i n\u0103ng t\u1ea1i Singapore: \u201cCh\u00e1u ngh\u0129 sao khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc sinh chi\u1ebfm v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc?\u201d Ngay t\u1ee9c th\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u00e9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cCh\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa. Ch\u00e1u ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00f4i.\u201d \u01af\u1edbc m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tuy\u1ec3n th\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao. Ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1 m\u1edbi h\u1ecfi: \u201cV\u00ec sao ch\u00e1u \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 th\u00e0nh v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean?\u201d C\u00f4 b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n cho bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7u l\u00f4ng t\u1eeb l\u00fac 6 tu\u1ed5i, k\u00fd \u1ee9c vui v\u1ebb khi ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7u l\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u00e0m k\u0129 s\u01b0 m\u1ed7i l\u00fac \u00f4ng r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn trung t\u00e2m th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7u l\u00f4ng. V\u1eeba \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i v\u1eeba ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn Jeong-mo. Th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n con trai Jeong-mo c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. T\u00f4i mong r\u1eb1ng Jeong-mo c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u00edch m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c hay kh\u00f4ng. D\u00f9 con kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc danh ti\u1ebfng nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con v\u1eeba l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eeba ph\u00e1t huy n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mong g\u00ec th\u00eam n\u1eefa. V\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u1eafng nghe c\u00e1c con, c\u1ed1 x\u1eed s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng theo d\u00f5i ni\u1ec1m mong mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho con nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a con. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, con t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1edbi b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i n\u0103ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u00e0 con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 78","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Bi\u1ebf t \u0111\u00e2u con c\u1ee7 a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eef ng \\\"b\u00f4ng hoa n\u1edf mu\u1ed9 n\\\" C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01a1i thua k\u00e9m c\u00e1c b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 c\u0169ng ch\u1eadm \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ngay c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng hay kh\u00f4ng. R\u1ed3i c\u1ea3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng, \u0103n n\u00f3i, b\u00e9 c\u0169ng ch\u1eadm h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f9ng tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn 2-3 n\u0103m. Khi v\u00e0o ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u00f3m nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u01b0 t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 qu\u00e1 l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c. K\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 b\u00e9 thi r\u1edbt v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc. T\u00f4i k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc k\u00e9m nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi Einstein. Ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, Einstein thi\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec3m nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4n nh\u01b0 ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc, th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed7 trong k\u1ef3 thi v\u00e0o \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc B\u00e1ch Khoa Li\u00ean bang Th\u1ee5y S\u0129. Sau \u0111\u00f3 Einstein nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea5p 2-3 c\u00f4ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a t\u1ec9nh Aarau, ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t c\u00e1c m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc, nh\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u00f4ng t\u1eebng mong mu\u1ed1n. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, Einstein \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i n\u0103ng thi\u00ean ph\u00fa ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian qua r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 n\u0103m 33 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn gi\u1ea3i Nobel V\u1eadt l\u00fd v\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng quang \u0111i\u1ec7n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho ng\u00e0nh v\u1eadt l\u00fd l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 Einstein l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t hay kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u0129 nh\u00e2n trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng n\u1edf mu\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng ai ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi. Roentgen \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t minh ra tia X c\u00f2n b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c th\u00f4i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m do k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 79","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Sau \u0111\u00f3 Roentgen tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfp ph\u1ea7n dang d\u1edf nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh r\u1edbt. R\u1ed3i \u00f4ng v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt C\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p Zurich, Th\u1ee5y S\u0129 (Federal Polytechnic Institute, nay l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng ETH Zurich) v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 35 tu\u1ed5i, \u00f4ng m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi khoa h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. N\u0103m 52 tu\u1ed5i, Roentgen tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t minh ra tia X. Churchill, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u01b0\u1edbc Anh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 thi\u1ebfu c\u00e2n l\u00fac ra \u0111\u1eddi. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, Churchill c\u00f2n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ch\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec7m nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc k\u00e9m nh\u1ea5t\u201d. \u00d4ng theo h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng Harrow, ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng l\u1eadp c\u00f3 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed l\u00e2u \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh t\u00edch th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t. Trong k\u1ef3 thi v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u00ean t\u1edd b\u00e0i l\u00e0m m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfng Latinh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft m\u1ef1c l\u1ea5m lem m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean b\u00e0i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng v\u1ecb hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cN\u1ebfu l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0i Randolph (nh\u00e0 qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd 7 \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia, \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u1ee9c B\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng B\u1ed9 T\u00e0i ch\u00ednh) th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3\u201d v\u00e0 v\u1eabn cho ph\u00e9p Churchill nh\u1eadp h\u1ecdc. V\u1ec1 sau, Churchill v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng S\u0129 quan l\u1ee5c qu\u00e2n v\u00e0 ch\u1ecdn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00e2n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng v\u1eabn qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00ed sinh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn ba l\u1ea7n khi thi v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00e1c l\u1eadp n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho ng\u00e0nh vi sinh v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u s\u1ef1 l\u00ean men \u2013 Pasteur c\u0169ng t\u1eebng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u00d4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed nh\u00e2n \u1edf \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Dijon v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1ee9 15 trong s\u1ed1 20 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc. Pasteur to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc sau cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Duma. \u00d4ng l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u say m\u00ea vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a Pasteur c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p, \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a Duma. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 hai http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 80","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm n\u0103m sau, t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Pasteur b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n qua nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 axit tactric (d\u00f9ng l\u00e0m b\u1ed9t n\u1edf). Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf tr\u00ean tuy thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi nh\u01b0ng khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i n\u0103ng cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c nhau. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m \u201ctr\u1ebb thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng\u201d khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng? R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m chung gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac nh\u1ecf, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1eebng n\u1edf. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p r\u1ea5t khoa h\u1ecdc: h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201cLate Bloomer\u201d (b\u00f4ng hoa n\u1edf mu\u1ed9n), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. B\u1ed9 n\u00e3o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t b\u00ed \u1ea9n n\u00ean ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 ra th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 \u1ea5y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng qua v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c hay th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 quan c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c hay th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c, tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n suy lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c b\u1ecb \u1ea9n gi\u1ea5u cho n\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ra sao. Ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng Pasteur, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 20 tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn tin t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat nghi ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecda s\u0129 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 ti\u00ean phong trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c vi sinh v\u1eadt http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 81","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm h\u1ecdc? Ngay c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Pasteur c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n t\u1ea1o ra cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed n\u00e3o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ti\u00eau bi\u1ebfn ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec tr\u00ed n\u00e3o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y k\u00edch th\u00edch h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu Edison hay Einstein l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ra sao? Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Einstein, \u00f4ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 theo nh\u1eefng quy chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i th\u00ec v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a Einstein, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eebng \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf h\u1ecdc. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e2u n\u00f3i sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Einstein: \u201cGi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 s\u1eeda \u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n trong th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c.\u201d Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Edison c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i \u1edf \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh n\u1ecd t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u: \u201cN\u1ebfu Edison \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, li\u1ec7u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e1t minh h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng. Ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 Edison c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t minh cho \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng thi\u00ean b\u1ea9m, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. M\u1eb9 Edison \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh khi \u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng khi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf Edison b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 ph\u00e1t minh v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ecbch s\u1eed nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i l\u01b0u danh. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 82","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec tr\u00ed \u00f3c \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Tuy nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o con s\u1ed1 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea l\u00e0, nh\u1eefng \u201cb\u00f4ng hoa n\u1edf mu\u1ed9n\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201cthi\u00ean t\u00e0i\u201d. Theo \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng l\u00fan s\u00e2u v\u00e0o h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i th\u00ec nh\u1eefng Einstein th\u1ee9 hai s\u1edf h\u1eefu ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng v\u00f4 t\u1eadn s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. \u0110a s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c trung b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t an v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c nh\u00f3m nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y ng\u1ea7m \u0111e d\u1ecda ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cVi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eaft khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu h\u01a1n.\u201d V\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u1ecb so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y theo gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ec7nh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i khi trong l\u00f2ng d\u1eady l\u00ean n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 con m\u00ecnh thua k\u00e9m v\u00e0 b\u1eaft con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201cb\u00f4ng hoa n\u1edf mu\u1ed9n\u201d. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 83","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 3. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u00e0o th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau tr\u1ebb em tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nguy h\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta. C\u00e1c v\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111ang d\u1ea1y con nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Th\u1eddi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tr\u00fa ng\u1ee5 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng trang s\u00e1ch. N\u0103m h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp B\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i \u0111au \u1ed1m li\u00ean mi\u00ean n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbp B\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tung t\u0103ng ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y vui v\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec \u0111au \u1ed1m n\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 con g\u00e1i bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 mua cho t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec7n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n n\u1eefa, b\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean t\u00f4i. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, c\u1ea5p ba nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, th\u1eddi gian h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u01b0u t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1eed ph\u00e1c h\u1ecda m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi mai sau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qua s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh l\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng\u201d (a way of life), ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 khi va ch\u1ea1m v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00edch nghi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 gi\u1eef g\u00ecn tri th\u1ee9c trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 t\u00edch l\u0169y m\u1ecdi tri th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u00edch hay sao? http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 84","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Nh\u00ecn \u1edf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n v\u00e0 ra s\u1ee9c nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh, s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang v\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. S\u1edf d\u0129 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 b\u1edfi th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 21 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00e3 qua, th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i m\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u00e0ng cao l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd mau ch\u00f3ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. V\u00e0o th\u1eadp ni\u00ean 1960, Peter F. Drucker, b\u1eadc th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean tri th\u1ee9c. Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Tinh hoa qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a Drucker (The essential Drucker), \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cTri th\u1ee9c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00f4ng qua th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p, c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111ang v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ranh gi\u1edbi l\u1ecbch s\u1eed l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh. Trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb kinh doanh, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n tri th\u1ee9c ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi lao \u0111\u1ed9ng tri th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng d\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i m\u00e1y m\u00f3c, thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb lao \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i trang b\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf. Ng\u00e0y nay, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t, xin nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf m\u1ee9c trung b\u00ecnh trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.\u201d M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0o th\u1ea3i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 v\u0169 kh\u00ed gi\u00fap ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 85","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm V\u0169 kh\u00ed m\u00e0 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb trao cho \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u00e9p c\u00e1c con trang b\u1ecb th\u1ee9 v\u0169 kh\u00ed x\u01b0a c\u0169 \u0111\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9? Hay l\u00e0 qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111ang t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7m v\u0169 kh\u00ed l\u00ean c\u0169ng s\u1ee3? Cho \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xem tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch h\u01a1n chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u1ea1i t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0, qua nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft hai \u0111\u1ee9a con trai y\u00eau qu\u00fd Kyeong- mo v\u00e0 Jeong-mo s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ra sao, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ba lo\u1ea1i v\u0169 kh\u00ed nh\u01b0 sau, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch nhanh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i r\u1ed9ng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. H\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1 (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch) l\u00e0 M\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n v\u1eabn l\u00e0 t\u00f4i. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 Chu \u0110\u1ea1i Quan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u00e0i Loan \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0 v\u00e0 ra \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i c\u1eaft b\u1ecf ch\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec t\u1ebf b\u00e0o ung th\u01b0 t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng theo l\u1eddi c\u1eadu b\u00e9, c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u1eabn b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y em nh\u01b0 \u201cm\u1ed9t t\u00ean \u00e1c ma\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu bu\u00f4ng tha. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, em \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i th\u01a1: Beethoven c\u00f3 hai tai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ebfc C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hai m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec1u m\u00f9 D\u00f9 sao th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n V\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t Hai m\u1eaft Helen Keller3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai ch\u00e2n http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 86","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm D\u00f9 sao th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n V\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p. Khi m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n, th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cd\u00f9 sao th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n\u201d, n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i ch\u01b0a l\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ecdc b\u00e0i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n (good self-image) quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e0ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00e0ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trao cho, d\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n h\u01a1n th\u00ec h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh to l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cm\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d n\u00ean h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh m\u00e0 d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i b\u1edfi h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec sao ch\u1ee9, \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9 g\u00ec\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00ean cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 Chu \u0110\u1ea1i Quan, ngay c\u1ea3 khi chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0 qu\u00e1i \u00e1c, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf hy v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u201cbad self-image\u201d v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd khi \u0111\u00f3, em s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea7y tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd khi \u0111\u00f3, em s\u1ebd k\u00eau la \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft thay v\u00ec th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd ch\u00ed chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng hi\u00ean ngang cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac qua \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c khi b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa th\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a em \u201cch\u00e1u c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd\u201d \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7ng \u0111i. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 87","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u01b0\u1ee3t ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc. Khi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i \u1ea5y, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00ec khi h\u1ecdc l\u00ean cao, \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o. Khi l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n v\u00ec tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1edbi kh\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00e0i v\u1edf qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1eb7c t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt mang t\u00ean \u201ch\u1ecdc t\u1eadp\u201d l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 s\u1ebd cao \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 khi g\u1eb7p b\u00e0i to\u00e1n qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cm\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cao ng\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u201cm\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3\u201d s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e3o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0i to\u00e1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 l\u1eddi khi n\u00f3i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp Ba c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ l\u00e0 136. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i cho bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a. Khi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m v\u00e0o m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed9, trong khi n\u1ebfu gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u1ebd ra b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f3c khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u nguy hi\u1ec3m. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft, ngay t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e1ng n\u1ed5i. V\u00e0o k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 88","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft con m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y vi\u1ebft ba b\u00e0i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed7i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 sao b\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecdc \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 50 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch trong su\u1ed1t k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9. Nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i nhanh ch\u00f3ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong th\u1eddi gian qua. Bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Qua m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i, d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf l\u1eddi: \u201cB\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i th\u00ec m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n nghe m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, ch\u1ee9 ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i th\u00ec m\u1eb9 ch\u1eb3ng th\u00e8m nghe g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d C\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. N\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi: \u201cSao ch\u00e1u th\u00f4ng minh th\u1ebf?\u201d C\u00f4 b\u00e9 b\u00e8n h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i: \u201cC\u00f4 \u01a1i, ch\u00e1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh sao? Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y.\u201d Trong gi\u00e2y l\u00e1t, t\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t r\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh khi th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p theo ki\u1ec3u tr\u1ebb con. M\u1ed9t ch\u00fat y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng tr\u00f4i qua. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i cho\u00e1ng v\u00e1ng: \u201cTr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec vui h\u1ebft! M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1t b\u1ef1c!\u201d Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 quanh m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb b\u1ea9m sinh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00ecn m\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. Tr\u1ebb th\u1eed \u0111\u01b0a l\u00ean mi\u1ec7ng, \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean tr\u00ean n\u00f3, th\u1eed \u0111\u00e1nh r\u01a1i, v\u1eeba \u0111i theo v\u1eeba quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1eed n\u00e9m ra xa, vi\u1ec7c th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 ho\u1eb7c b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ea7n k\u1ef3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9ng tay \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 89","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm Nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y ganh t\u1ef5 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. \u201cCh\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u ra\u201d, \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u1ea5y c\u1ee9 hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i m\u1ed7i khi \u0111i loanh quanh c\u00f9ng hai c\u1eadu con trai. Trong khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t nho\u00e0i th\u00ec ch\u00fang v\u1eabn ch\u01a1i r\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1ec9nh. T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cN\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o d\u00e0nh cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y m\u1ecfi m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.\u201d Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00ean c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u00e9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u00f4i \u0111ang k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb. V\u1edbi b\u00e9, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u1eadt ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00f4 b\u00e9, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do c\u00f4 b\u00e9 qu\u00e1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9. V\u1edbi c\u00f4 b\u00e9, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c v\u00ec m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft l\u00e0m v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u1ea3y sinh \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0o m\u00f2n t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00e0 sinh ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. V\u1ed1n d\u0129 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb \u00e9p h\u1ecdc n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Li\u1ec7u b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec vui th\u00fa? Nh\u00ecn c\u00f4 b\u00e9, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 Richard Phillips Feynman, nh\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn gi\u1ea3i Nobel v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 h\u1ecdc l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1eed. Thu\u1edf nh\u1ecf, b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a Feynman \u0111\u01b0a \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho \u00f4ng t\u00ean c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i chim. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y t\u00ean nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft t\u00ean th\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. Thay v\u00ec b\u1eaft Feynman h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb \u201ck\u00fd sinh\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng con quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea3nh chim r\u1ec9a l\u00f4ng, ch\u1ec9 cho con bi\u1ebft http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 90","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm t\u1eadp t\u00ednh r\u1ec9a l\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0103n c\u00e1c sinh v\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean trong b\u1ed9 l\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho con nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee9 tri th\u1ee9c b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ti\u1ebfp thu trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n duy nh\u1ea5t. Feynman \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp trong ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00fa ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u00e0o. Sau n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n s\u1ef1 h\u1ee9ng kh\u1edfi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i cho con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 H\u00e0n Qu\u1ed1c l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng cho c\u00e1c con th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i th\u00fa v\u1ecb? N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i \u00e9p con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n gh\u00e9t vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf? T\u00f4i ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do, kh\u00f4ng th\u00fac \u00e9p, th\u00ec c\u00f4 b\u00e9 trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u00e9p tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu qu\u00fd v\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, t\u00f4i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n v\u1edbi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi b\u00e0 b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu th\u00ec b\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o Kyeong-mo \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i l\u1eb7ng im. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u1ea5n qu\u00fdt vui v\u1ebb m\u1ed7i khi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, gi\u1edd ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean tr\u00ean s\u00f4 pha v\u1edbi v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u201cH\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 Kyeong-mo b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t.\u201d D\u00f9 bi\u1ebft n\u1ea1n b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 trong m\u01a1 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 con trai m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. \u201cKyeong-mo \u00e0, n\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 nghe c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec n\u00e0o.\u201d http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 91","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, Kyeong-mo m\u1edbi ch\u1ecbu tu\u00f4n ra m\u1ed9t th\u00f4i m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i. Sau khi tan tr\u01b0\u1eddng, Kyeong-mo \u0111ang ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn con ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m. Kyeong-mo kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec n\u00ean c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eaft hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea1m nhau. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi: \u201cM\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i th\u00e1 g\u00ec?\u201d, \u201cT\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y g\u1eb7p tao\u201d r\u1ed3i n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y c\u1ed5 Kyeong-mo. Con trai t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kia sao l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1m l\u1eeda ch\u00e2m v\u00e0o ng\u00f2i n\u1ed5. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft do c\u00f3 d\u1ef1 t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edbc hay v\u00ec Kyeong-mo ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1eadt h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 Kyeong-mo v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng y\u00eau qu\u00fd. Ch\u1ec9 nghe con k\u1ec3 th\u00f4i m\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng ng\u1ef1c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eadp th\u00ecnh th\u1ecbch. D\u00f9 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 may m\u1eafn r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng khi ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0111au nh\u00f3i. \u201cKyeong-mo c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 bu\u1ed3n l\u1eafm \u0111\u00e2y. Con kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o ch\u1ee9?\u201d Ki\u1ec3m tra th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con trai th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i v\u1ebft tr\u1ea7y x\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb9, t\u00f4i th\u1edf ph\u00e0o nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m. Ch\u1ee3t nh\u1edb ra h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y Kyeong-mo h\u1ecdc th\u00eam \u1edf trung t\u00e2m nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y th\u00ec h\u1ecdc th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng g\u00ec n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 con \u1edf nh\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i th\u00ec Kyeong- mo l\u1ea1i l\u1eb3ng l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean. \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam r\u1ed3i.\u201d \u201cH\u00f4m nay kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d Kyeong-mo ch\u1ec9 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u1ea7y qu\u1eady. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi n\u00e0o, con trai t\u00f4i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y s\u00e1ch v\u1edf b\u1ecf v\u00e0o c\u1eb7p. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p cho con v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n can ng\u0103n nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 im l\u1eb7ng. \u0110\u01b0a con \u0111i h\u1ecdc xong trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i d\u1eady l\u00ean bao suy ngh\u0129. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng Kyeong-mo h\u1ecdc, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp t\u00ecm g\u1eb7p cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kia \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Kyeong-mo m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu con v\u00ec s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y m\u00e0 e s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn d\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 92","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i trung t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc th\u00eam c\u1ee7a Kyeong-mo, \u0111\u1ee3i con tan h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi ngay: \u201cKyeong-mo \u00e0, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m sao?\u201d Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Nghe c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con, t\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec. \u201cM\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee3i con m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Con s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec.\u201d N\u00f3i r\u1ed3i Kyeong-mo v\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng. N\u0103m \u1ea5y Kyeong-mo \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp B\u1ed1n, \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t an v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, Kyeong-mo gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ed1m ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh v\u1ec1 ki\u1ec3u d\u00e1ng nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft n\u1ee9t tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o l\u00f2 nung th\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 sau c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. T\u00f4i m\u1edf c\u1eeda, b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng Kyeong-mo. Con trai t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 \u0111ang ch\u0103m ch\u00fa vi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u201cCon vi\u1ebft g\u00ec th\u1ebf?\u201d \u201c\u01afm, con vi\u1ebft b\u1ea3ng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. Gi\u1edd con vi\u1ebft xong h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a m\u1eb9 xem m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n.\u201d Nh\u1eefng ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea7y k\u00edn trang gi\u1ea5y c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0: \u201c\u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5c b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, cho n\u00ean con s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3. Qua c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, con s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3 con s\u1ebd b\u00e1o cho c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n.\u201d M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ea3ng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u1ea5y c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y t\u00ednh logic \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. Kyeong-mo xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y t\u1eeb bao gi\u1edd? \u201cSau khi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n, con s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1eefa?\u201d \u201c\u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 con s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 ti\u1ebfp.\u201d http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 93","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm T\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n n\u1eefa khi th\u1ea5y Kyeong-mo th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t. Con t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9i b\u00f3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t. V\u00ec v\u1eady Kyeong-mo \u0111\u00e3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng, trang ph\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb cho nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh trong \u0111\u1ed9i b\u00f3ng nghe v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ai nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n sinh ho\u1ea1t trong \u0111\u1ed9i n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ed9i b\u00f3ng, Kyeong-mo c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 \u1edf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y. H\u1ecfi th\u0103m xong, Kyeong-mo \u0111\u01b0a cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u gi\u1ea5y, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft s\u1ed1 c\u0103n h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 t\u00ean chung c\u01b0, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u1edf c\u0103n h\u1ed9 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. Kyeong-mo b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon hay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ec9?\u201d T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac h\u1ecfi con: \u201cSao con ngh\u0129 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3?\u201d Kyeong-mo tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1eed ngh\u0129 xem, n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m v\u1eady th\u00ec nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1ed1ng con. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.\u201d M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00fac \u1ea5y t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y \u201ccon m\u00ecnh l\u1edbn th\u1eadt r\u1ed3i, r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi\u201d m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a Kyeong-mo. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1edfi t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 nhanh ch\u00f3ng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i n\u1eafm b\u1eaft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh nguy c\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n t\u00edch b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy logic, t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng. Khi nh\u00ecn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Kyeong-mo l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u201cc\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng\u201d c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1eeb khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, Kyeong-mo g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i c\u00fa s\u1ed1c l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 94","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm t\u0129nh. Sau khi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e2m v\u00e0o, con \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft logic. Nh\u00ecn Kyeong-mo nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng con s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i k\u00e9o Kyeong-mo v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xem con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ra sao. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi nghe con h\u1ecfi: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao?\u201d th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u00fd do l\u00e0 g\u00ec, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n con m\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho con\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo logic. B\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u0169 kh\u00ed quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 95","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm M\u1ed7 i \u0111\u1ee9 a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9 t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd c C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n con trai th\u1ee9 hai Jeong-mo c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tham gia m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c thi m\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ra sao th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean Jeong-mo ch\u00eca ra t\u1ea5m gi\u1ea5y khen tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i. \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con gi\u1ecfi ch\u1ee9?\u201d \u201c\u1eea, con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm!\u201d \u201cC\u00f2n g\u00ec n\u1eefa m\u1eb9?\u201d \u201cCon h\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ed3i. V\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f2n g\u00ec n\u1eefa ch\u1ee9?\u201d M\u1eb7t Jeong-mo x\u1ecb xu\u1ed1ng \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen khi con kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, cho \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i t\u00f4i v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho con \u00e1nh m\u1eaft quan t\u00e2m. Khi con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i khen ng\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef \u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00eam, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng xoa \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng con. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u201cJeong-mo n\u00e0y, v\u00ec sao con tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi?\u201d \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 con nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng.\u201d \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng trong cu\u1ed9c thi th\u00ec Jeong-mo c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i. V\u00e0 v\u00ec v\u1eady, con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do Jeong-mo tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd Jeong-mo c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ganh t\u1ef5. Jeong-mo c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 y h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Con xin \u0111i h\u1ecdc piano \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen khi l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 96","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi Jeong-mo, \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng Jeong-mo r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong l\u00f2ng con c\u00f3 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 khi l\u00e0m xong vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, Jeong-mo c\u0169ng mong nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen hay ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m khi Jeong-mo c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Jeong-mo, con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0o ganh \u0111ua v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o s\u1ebd thui ch\u1ed9t theo nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eafng thua. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Jeong-mo. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a Jeong-mo b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi anh trai. Con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng d\u1ed1c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Cho n\u00ean v\u1edbi Jeong-mo, t\u00f4i \u00edt khi b\u1eaft con l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n can ng\u0103n con. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn, l\u00f4i k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 Jeong-mo quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Khi Jeong-mo kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh theo anh trai th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch con gi\u1ecfi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u.\u201d H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00ec l\u1eddi khen, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00ec mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ed1c\u201d d\u00e0i l\u00e2u cho tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng. Sau h\u1ed9i thi m\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt, thay v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng khen ng\u1ee3i con m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, t\u00f4i t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 Jeong-mo v\u00e0 con trai l\u1edbn Kyeong-mo d\u00f9 con kh\u00f4ng tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi. Jeong-mo t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 anh trai. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y Jeong-mo r\u1eb1ng anh trai kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 97","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n, t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n Jeong-mo c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng kh\u1ecfi t\u00e2m l\u00fd ganh \u0111ua v\u1edbi anh m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u0103m v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea1nh tranh m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. C\u00f2n c\u1eadu con trai l\u1edbn Kyeong-mo l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi c\u1eadu \u00fat. Kyeong-mo qu\u00e1 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh n\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt xung quanh. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng hay l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn con vui m\u1eebng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai b\u1ea3o Kyeong-mo h\u00e3y th\u1eed tham gia h\u1ed9i thi m\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd con s\u1ebd l\u1ea9n tr\u00e1nh ngay. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi th\u00ec Kyeong-mo v\u1eabn s\u1ebd v\u1ebd nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c tranh theo \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch v\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n Kyeong-mo v\u1ebd tranh v\u00ec m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a Kyeong-mo ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con ph\u1edbt l\u1edd th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang. Cho n\u00ean, \u201c\u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ed1c\u201d c\u1ea7n cho Kyeong-mo ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a Jeong-mo. \u0110\u1ec3 gieo v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng con trai l\u1edbn \u00fd mu\u1ed1n giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 theo ki\u1ec3u \u201cm\u1eb9 s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1ebfu con l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t\u201d. Kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi Jeong-mo, con trai l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00e1 th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng trong chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u00ean m\u1ed7i khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con tham gia. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u201cone step behind \u2013 theo sau m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d v\u1edbi Jeong-mo th\u00ec t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00f4i k\u00e9o Kyeong-mo b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u201cone step ahead \u2013 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft hai \u0111\u1ee9a con trai c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh em ru\u1ed9t m\u00e0 sao ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf nh\u1ec9?\u201d \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u0129 nhi\u00ean. Ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 anh em sinh \u0111\u00f4i \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh b\u1ea9m sinh c\u0169ng v\u1eady, cho n\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho t\u1eebng b\u00e9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 98","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i gh\u00e9t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u201cph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft con l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o th\u00ec h\u1ee3p l\u00fd?\u201d Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p cho th\u1eafc m\u1eafc n\u00e0y. Ngay b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang b\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em. N\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau tr\u1ebb em tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nguy h\u1ea1i ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea9m sinh v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho con m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. http:\/\/www.taisachhay.com 99","\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p con \\\"kh\u00f4n\\\" s\u1edbm T\u00ecm ph \u01b0\u1ecd \u01a1c npgh\u00f9phh\u00e1\u1ee3pphnh\u1ea5 t cho con m\u00ecnh Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y Kyeong-mo qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn t\u1eebng ch\u00fat, t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t. 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