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["th\u1eddi gian hai m\u1eb9 con \u1edf b\u00ean nhau. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nho nh\u1ecf \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00ean s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n \u1edf Greg, nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m t\u00f4i vui l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 b\u00e0y s\u00e1ch v\u1edf v\u00e0 \u00e1o kho\u00e1c d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u00e0n nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd la \u1ea7m la to\u00e1ng l\u00ean r\u1ed3i. Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea3o n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean khi c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y theo sau n\u00f3 m\u00e0 nh\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed3, th\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 tin l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nay tr\u1edf \u0111i n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7. V\u00e0o b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i th\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u1eebng gi\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i \u0103n u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. L\u1ea7n duy nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 coi kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n n\u1eefa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u1eb7t quanh nh\u00e0, v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0 x\u1eed tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o n\u00f3 l\u1ea5y qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o s\u1ea1ch ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t, d\u1ee1 gi\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ea5t \u0111i, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 chi\u00ean tr\u1ee9ng v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng. (t\u00f4i r\u00e1ng gi\u1eef cho mi\u1ec7ng m\u00ecnh ng\u1eadm l\u1ea1i khi c\u00f3 tr\u1ee9ng r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n.) T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i m\u1ea1nh mi\u1ec7ng, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd h\u00e0nh vi c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi n\u00f3. *** Heather l\u00e0 con nu\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ngay t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i. L\u1edbn l\u00ean b\u00e9 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u00e9 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui s\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f2n b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u00e9 h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y r\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 mang ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i nh\u01b0\u1eddng bao. Cho t\u1edbi khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u00e9, b\u1eaft b\u00e9 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u201cngoan\u201d, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f4 b\u00e9 m\u00e0 b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed9 ra hay kh\u00f4ng.","M\u1ed1i lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i th\u00fac t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 cho Heather bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u2013 d\u00f9 cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, d\u1ed7i h\u1eddn, hay th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd t\u00f4i mu\u1ed9n gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3n b\u00e9 n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o, \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd m\u1eb9 l\u00e2u qu\u00e1 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 b\u1ef1c l\u1eafm nh\u1ec9\u201d (thay v\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n con \u0111\u00e3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1edd m\u1eb9, c\u01b0ng\u201d) L\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o b\u00e9 \u201cM\u1eb9 c\u00e1 l\u00e0 con mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf cho b\u1ea1n con bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y tr\u1ec5 h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi con!\u201d (thay v\u00ec l\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u201cC\u01b0ng \u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u00fd t\u1ee9 chu \u0111\u00e1o b\u1eb1ng con.\u201d) T\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n cho b\u00e9. T\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t b\u1eefa t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u00e9, \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e0y m\u1eb9 \u0111ang th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9t r\u00fat v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh\u201d. V\u00e0 khi b\u00e9 h\u1ecfi m\u01b0\u1ee3n t\u00f4i chi\u1ebfc kh\u0103n qu\u00e0ng m\u1edbi, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u00e9 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cho m\u01b0\u1ee3n. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 khen ng\u1ee3i b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111i. Thay v\u00ec li\u00ean t\u1ee5c su\u00fdt xoa vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i sung s\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c (\u201cB\u1ea3n thu ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd\u201d) v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng n\u1ecd, v\u00e0o \u201cl\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean\u201d Heather th\u00e0nh thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef. Heather \u0111ang t\u1eafm d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00f2i sen c\u00f2n t\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111ang r\u1eeda b\u00e1t \u0111\u0129a. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea5m v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eaft v\u00f2i n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u00f9ng \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i b\u00e9 h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp v\u00e0 th\u00e9t l\u00ean h\u1ebft c\u1ee1. \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng v\u1eb7n v\u00f2i n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3ng m\u00e0. Con \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1eafm n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea1nh ng\u1eaft!!\u201d N\u1ebfu b\u00e9 c\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u00e0m th\u1ebf c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, ch\u1eafc t\u00f4i s\u1ed1c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1t b\u00e9, \u201cHeather, con \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 hay c\u01b0 x\u1eed theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3!\u201d Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i, \u201cM\u1eb9 nghe th\u1ea5y coi b\u1ed9 con \u0111ang t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn! \u0110\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ghi ch\u00fa trong b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt r\u00f5 l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n sau tr\u1edf \u0111i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf v\u00f2i n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3ng g\u00ec h\u1ebft trong khi con \u0111ang t\u1eafm!\u201d T\u00f4i d\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng Heather s\u1ebd c\u00f2n \u201cb\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh\u201d nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa trong","t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh nghe th\u1ea5y; nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e9 l\u00e0 b\u00e9 v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u201cni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d. T\u00e1i b\u00fat: B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i nghe ai \u0111\u00f3 khoe v\u1edbi t\u00f4i con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u00fat nghi ng\u1edd. *** H\u00f4m qua t\u00f4i \u1edf s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi hai c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1n l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i nghe m\u00ecnh g\u1ecdi Kate, (\u0111\u1ee9a l\u1edbn, 8 tu\u1ed5i): \u201cCoi ch\u1eebng Wendy \u0111\u00f3\u201d... \u201cD\u1eaft em khi em \u0111i tr\u00ean v\u1ec9a h\u00e8\u201d... \u201cPh\u1ea3i \u1edf s\u00e1t b\u00ean em nghe ch\u01b0a.\u201d T\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang qu\u1eb3ng Kate v\u00e0o vai tr\u00f2 C\u00f4 Ch\u1ecb C\u1ea3 Tr\u00e1ch Nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0o ch\u00e1u, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111ang \u0111\u1eb7t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00e1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi Wendy (5 tu\u1ed5i) nh\u01b0 con n\u00edt qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch l\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng sinh th\u00eam con n\u1eefa, cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi Wendy theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. D\u00f9 g\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf x\u00edu m\u00e0. C\u00e0ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n Kate gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u1eafm. B\u1ea5y nay ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111i b\u1ed9 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi Wendy t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n cho em nghe n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra, v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i Wendy, Kate \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho m\u00ecnh, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u1ef1 r\u00f3t s\u1eefa, trong khi Wendy th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1eeb t\u1eeb b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec hai c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n. Wendy c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf l\u00ean t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n \u2013 c\u00e1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u00e9, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho Kate. V\u00e0 Kate c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn xem ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c em hay kh\u00f4ng \u2013 tr\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ea7n ch\u00e1u gi\u00fap. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f4i","khi t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n xem Kate l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00edt b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00e3 t\u1eeb l\u00e2u l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. *** Th\u1eadt may m\u1eafn cho Neil l\u00e0 tu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tham d\u1ef1 nh\u00f3m h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o. Ngay s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 khi v\u1eeba v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u00ec t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i t\u1eeb h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m s\u00e1t b\u00ean. Gi\u1ecdng b\u00e0 run run b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y Neil ng\u1eaft ba b\u00f4ng tulip \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i h\u1ecdc. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 d\u1eb1n n\u00e9n, trong b\u1ee5ng ngh\u0129 \u201cL\u1ea1i n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i!\u201d. Th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ng\u1eaft hoa ng\u1eaft hi\u1ebfc g\u00ec c\u1ea3, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i ki\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh x\u1eed l\u00fac n\u00f3 th\u00e1o tung c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 treo t\u01b0\u1eddng ra (sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh r\u1eddi trong ph\u00f2ng n\u00f3); v\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i c\u00e1ch khi n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea3y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp (\u0110\u1ebfn ch\u1eebng t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi cho c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 cho bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc sinh n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1ea3y l\u1edbp c\u1ea3). D\u1ea1o n\u00e0y n\u00f3 hay n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed em trai n\u00f3 c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u201cM\u1eb9, anh Neil l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i n\u1eefa \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb9!\u201d T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a x\u1eed l\u00fd th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00e1i th\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a Neil. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1, ho\u1eb7c di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1eeba l\u1ecdc, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ednh trung th\u1ef1c v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u Neil th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i sinh ra \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed1n v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, may l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i d\u1ef1 bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2, b\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eb7t Neil v\u00e0o vai tr\u00f2 \u201cd\u1ed1i tr\u00e1\u201d l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Khi n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0103n tr\u01b0a, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng r\u00e0o ch\u1eb7t n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: (\u201cPh\u1ea3i con \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eaft tr\u1ed9m hoa kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m? L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eebng h\u00f2ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i m\u1eb9.\u201d) m\u00e0 \u0111i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o \u201cNeil, b\u00e0 Osgood b\u1ea3o con ng\u1eaft hoa tulip c\u1ee7a b\u00e0.\u201d","\u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con. Con ng\u1eaft h\u1ed3i n\u00e0o!\u201d \u201cNeil, b\u00e0 \u1ea5y tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y con ng\u1eaft r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. B\u00e0 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf c\u1eeda s\u1ed5.\u201d \u201cM\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. B\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u00f3!\u201d \u201cNeil, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ai n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i ai kh\u00f4ng. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i. V\u00ec l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 con \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u1eaft ba b\u00f4ng hoa c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u1ea5y. Gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 xem l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y.\u201d Neil \u00f2a kh\u00f3c. \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 v\u00e0i b\u00f4ng hoa \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o.\u201d T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201c\u00d4. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n con \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra... th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i th\u1eadt \u2013 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi con ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i.\u201d N\u00f3 c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3c n\u1ee9c n\u1edf h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i b\u1ebf n\u00f3 v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o: \u201cNeil, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y con h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u00e0 Osgood r\u1ea5t t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. Gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y?\u201d Neil l\u1ea1i \u00f2a kh\u00f3c to. \u201cCon s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u00e0 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 con xin l\u1ed7i!\u201d \u201cCon c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft... M\u1eb9 gi\u00fap con \u0111i.\u201d Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea3o ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u th\u01b0 ng\u1eafn v\u00e0 Neil vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng ch\u1eef in (ch\u00e1u m\u1edbi h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp m\u1ed9t). T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201cCon ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u01b0a?\u201d N\u00f3 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. \u201cCon c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c mua cho b\u00e0 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u00ecnh hoa tulip \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 hoa b\u1ecb ng\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3?\u201d N\u00f3 to\u00e9t ra c\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e1c. \u201cTh\u1eadt h\u1ea3 m\u1eb9?\u201d","Ngay sau khi Neil \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ra c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng b\u00e1n hoa. Neil ch\u1ecdn ra m\u1ed9t b\u00ecnh b\u1ed1n b\u00f4ng hoa tulip v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111em b\u00ecnh hoa v\u00e0 t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y t\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7t \u1edf c\u1eeda nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 Osgood. Sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 rung chu\u00f4ng r\u1ed3i ch\u1ea1y t\u1ecdt v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u1eaft hoa c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m n\u1eefa, v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 ch\u00e1u c\u00f2n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi t\u00f4i h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 khi ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng (t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf) t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p ch\u00e1u v\u00e0o c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1eadt v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. *** M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, khi bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o chuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 s\u1eafp k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. \u00d4ng b\u1ea3o \u201cT\u00f4i nh\u1edb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng hay \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean ba t\u00f4i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho \u00f4ng nghe t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ba lu\u00f4n l\u1eafng nghe t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam t\u00fac. R\u1ed3i ba t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201cCon trai \u00e0, con c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u trong m\u00e2y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e2n con c\u1eafm r\u1ec5 d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t\u201d. Do b\u1edfi b\u1ee9c tranh m\u00e0 ba v\u1ebd ra cho t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i \u2013 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u2013 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u1ed1n kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh... t\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 ai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c lo\u1ea1i kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3.\u201d M\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u im l\u1eb7ng, tr\u1ea7m t\u01b0 th\u1ea3 xu\u1ed1ng khi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb t\u1eeb, c\u00f9ng nhau, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 to l\u00ean cho nhau nghe: \u201cKhi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf x\u00edu b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i t\u00f4i t\u1eebng lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00e0n tay kh\u00e9o tuy\u1ec7t. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i x\u00e2u kim ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1o cu\u1ed3n len b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i cho b\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u00e0 l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201c\u0110\u00f4i tay v\u00e0ng\u201d. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nha s\u0129.\u201d \u201cN\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i run l\u1eafm. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng run b\u1eafn khi t\u1ed5 tr\u01b0\u1edfng gh\u00e9 v\u00e0o l\u1edbp t\u00f4i d\u1ef1 gi\u1edd. Sau \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 ra cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t hay hai \u0111i\u1ec3m thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i th\u1ea7y lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i th\u00eam \u201cTh\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 em, Ellen \u00e0. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 em bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh.\u201d T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi th\u1ea7y kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean","t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i mang theo n\u00f3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap t\u00f4i tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.\u201d \u201cKhi t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, cha m\u1eb9 mua cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1ea1p m\u1ed9t b\u00e1nh. Trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 ng\u00e3 xo\u00e0nh xo\u1ea1ch. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111i c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a n\u1ee3 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2u; nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea1p xe v\u00e0 gi\u1eef th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i th\u1eadt xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi \u2013 nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xe m\u1ed9t b\u00e1nh th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i g\u00ec v\u1edbi m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p c\u1ea3.\u201d T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 phi l\u00fd. \u0110\u1ea1p xe m\u1ed9t b\u00e1nh th\u00ec li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef? Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Th\u1ea5m tho\u00e1t \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n 30 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. T\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nghe ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i: \u2018B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xe m\u1ed9t b\u00e1nh th\u00ec s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng g\u1eb7p r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i g\u00ec v\u1edbi m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p c\u1ea3.\u2019 T\u00f4i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 t\u00f4i.\u201d H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb. Khi bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o k\u1ebft th\u00fac, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i im nh\u00ecn nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u, th\u1ea5y tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u qu\u00e1 ch\u1eebng. R\u1ed3i \u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, \u201cKh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p uy l\u1ef1c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb!\u201d","7 \u2013 PH\u1ed0I H\u1ee2P T\u1ea4T C\u1ea2 NH\u1eeeNG K\u1ef8 N\u0102NG NHI\u1ec0U PH\u1ee4 HUYNH b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng quy tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i: \u201c\u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u1edbi nhau \u2013 x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7, l\u1eddi khen, gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thay th\u1ebf tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. \u0110\u1ec3 minh h\u1ecda cho s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n \u00fd v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh hai ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y (d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed1n Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng cha m\u1eb9\/Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng con c\u00e1i ). Trong m\u1ed7i k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 Susie 7 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3ng vai \u201cN\u00e0ng C\u00f4ng Ch\u00faa\u201d. Khi b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u201cB\u00e0 \u1ea5y c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch g\u00ec kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa?\u201d N\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa \u2013 ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh 1 M\u1eb8: M\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01a1i!... Ch\u00e0o con, Susie!... Con kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o m\u1eb9 \u00e0? ( Susie \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00f4 m\u00e0u, ph\u1edbt l\u1edd m\u1eb9 ). M\u1eb8: ( b\u1ecf gi\u1ecf x\u00e1ch xu\u1ed1ng) \u1ed0, m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 m\u1eb9 s\u1eafp chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb xong cho kh\u00e1ch t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i nay r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 b\u00e1nh m\u00ec nh\u1ecf, tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y v\u00e0 ( \u0111ung \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00fai gi\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con g\u00e1i, c\u1ed1 d\u1ee5 l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ) m\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean cho Susie \u0111\u00e2y. SUSIE: ( gi\u1eadt l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u00fai ) M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 g\u00ec cho con v\u1eady? ( l\u00f4i t\u1eebng m\u00f3n m\u1ed9t ra ) S\u00e1p","m\u00e0u?... T\u1ed1t... h\u1ed9p b\u00fat ch\u00ec... ( b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh ) m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi! M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con gh\u00e9t m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi m\u00e0. Sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mua cho con cu\u1ed1n m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf? M\u1eb8: ( t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 ) C\u00f4 n\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e0, ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i nh\u1eefng hai c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm mua cho con nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng n\u00e0o c\u00f3 quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf. C\u1ea3 si\u00eau th\u1ecb c\u0169ng h\u1ebft s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf, r\u1ed3i c\u1ea3 c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng ph\u1ea9m c\u0169ng h\u1ebft lu\u00f4n. SUSIE: Sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed v\u00e0o c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u1edf g\u1ea7n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng? M\u1eb8: M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. SUSIE: \u1ee8 \u1eeb, m\u1eb9 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. Con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi. M\u1eb8: Susie, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng v\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i \u0111i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 mua m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 nh\u1ecf. H\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. SUSIE: Con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u00f4i. M\u1eb8: ( th\u1edf d\u00e0i) Tr\u1eddi \u01a1i, con h\u01b0 qu\u00e1! Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 \u00fd c\u1ee7a con sao? SUSIE: ( chuy\u1ec3n qua d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng ) Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf l\u00e0 m\u00e0u y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con. M\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi th\u1ea5y m\u00e0 gh\u00ea. \u0110i m\u00e0 m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111i m\u1eb9. M\u1eb8: \u1eea... \u0111\u1ec3 sau m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111i. SUSIE: Th\u00f4-\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. ( tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i t\u00f4 m\u00e0u ) M\u1eb9? M\u1eb8: G\u00ec? SUSIE: Con mu\u1ed1n Betsy qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00eam nay. M\u1eb8: Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n t\u1edbi. Con bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch \u0103n t\u1ed1i m\u00e0. SUSIE: Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7 \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00eam nay. Con \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y","r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb9: Th\u00ec con g\u1ecdi l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. SUSIE: M\u1eb9 \u00e1c qu\u00e1! M\u1eb8: M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con n\u00edt qu\u1ea9n ch\u00e2n khi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch. Con c\u00f3 nh\u1edb hai \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng? SUSIE: T\u1ee5i con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e2u. M\u1eb8: ( l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng ) C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng! SUSIE: M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau con! ( b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c ) M\u1eb8: ( \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ) N\u00e0o Susie, con bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 r\u00f5 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau con m\u00e0. ( \u00e2u y\u1ebfm n\u1ef1ng c\u1eb1m b\u00e9 ) \u0110i nh\u00e9. Ai l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o? SUSIE: \u0110i m\u00e0 m\u1eb9, l\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111i? T\u1ee5i con s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t ngoan cho m\u1eb9 coi. M\u1eb8: ( x\u00ecu xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng ) H\u1eeb... ( l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ) Susie, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u. T\u1ea1i sao con lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m kh\u00f3 cho m\u1eb9 v\u1eady? Khi m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d! SUSIE: ( qu\u1eb3ng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch t\u00f4 m\u00e0u xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n ). Con gh\u00e9t m\u1eb9! M\u1eb8: ( Nh\u0103n nh\u00f3 ) Con qu\u1eb3ng s\u00e1ch t\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o v\u1eady? Nh\u1eb7t l\u00ean. SUSIE: Kh\u00f4ng. M\u1eb8: Nh\u1eb7t l\u00ean ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c! SUSIE: ( h\u00e9t h\u1ebft c\u1ee1 bu\u1ed3ng ph\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 n\u00e9m t\u1eebng c\u00e2y b\u00fat m\u00e0u s\u00e1p xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n ) Kh\u00f4ng! Kh\u00f4ng! Kh\u00f4ng! Kh\u00f4ng! M\u1eb8: Sao con d\u00e1m qu\u1eb3ng b\u00fat m\u00e0u s\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3! SUSIE: ( qu\u1eb3ng th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y b\u00fat m\u00e0u s\u00e1p n\u1eefa ) Con qu\u1eb3ng n\u1ebfu con mu\u1ed1n.","M\u1eb8: ( \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0o c\u00e1nh tay Susie ) Tao \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o m\u00e0y th\u00f4i r\u1ed3i m\u00e0, \u0111\u1ed3 h\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1n! SUSIE: ( r\u1ed1ng l\u00ean ) M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1nh con! M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1nh con! M\u1eb8: M\u00e0y l\u00e0m g\u00e3y b\u00fat m\u00e0u s\u00e1p tao v\u1eeba m\u1edbi mua cho m\u00e0y. SUSIE: ( kh\u00f3c \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng ) Coi n\u00e0y! M\u1eb9 l\u00e0m l\u1eb1n tay con. M\u1eb8: ( r\u1ea5t \u0111au kh\u1ed5, xoa c\u00e1nh tay Susie ) \u00d4i m\u1eb9 xin l\u1ed7i, c\u01b0ng. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ebft x\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf th\u00f4i. Ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 do m\u00f3ng tay c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. S\u1ebd kh\u1ecfi mau th\u00f4i. SUSIE: M\u1eb9 l\u00e0m con \u0111au ! M\u1eb8: Con bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd m\u00e0. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m con \u0111au... con bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y g\u1ecdi Betsy qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00eam nay. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 l\u00e0m con d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? SUSIE: ( v\u1eabn kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c ). \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac l\u00e2m v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh d\u1ea7u s\u00f4i l\u1eeda b\u1ecfng, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u1eefa. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh ti\u1ebfp theo b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u1ea5y v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y b\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con g\u00e1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00e1c \u0111i. N\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ch\u00faa - Ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh 2 M\u1eb8: M\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01a1i!... Ch\u00e0o con, Susie!... M\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con \u0111ang b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n t\u00f4 m\u00e0u qu\u00e1 nh\u1ec9. SUSIE: ( kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn l\u00ean ) D\u1ea1. M\u1eb8: ( b\u1ecf gi\u1ecf x\u00e1ch xu\u1ed1ng ) N\u00e8, t\u1ed1i nay m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3n kh\u00e1ch t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. Ti\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 khi ra ngo\u00e0i mua \u0111\u1ed3 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 mua m\u1ea5y m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho con lu\u00f4n.","SUSIE: ( gi\u1eadt l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u00fai ) M\u1eb9 mua g\u00ec cho con v\u1eady? ( l\u00f4i t\u1eebng m\u00f3n m\u1ed9t ra ) S\u00e1p m\u00e0u?... Hay \u0111\u00f3... h\u1ed9p b\u00fat ch\u00ec... ( n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn ) m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi! M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con gh\u00e9t m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi m\u00e0. Sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mua cho con cu\u1ed1n m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf? M\u1eb8: Con ngh\u0129 t\u1ea1i sao m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mua n\u00e0o? SUSIE: ( ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb ) V\u00ec c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1n quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9? M\u1eb8: ( khen Susie ) Con \u0111o\u00e1n ra r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3. SUSIE: Th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9. M\u1eb8: Susie, khi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 mua m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n nghe l\u00e0: \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9... c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 b\u00fat m\u00e0u s\u00e1p... c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ef1ng b\u00fat ch\u00ec... c\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 mua cho con quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00e0u con th\u00edch. SUSIE: ( mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng ) C\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1eb9... nh\u01b0ng con v\u1eabn ngh\u0129 m\u00e0u xanh da tr\u1eddi th\u1ea5y m\u00e0 gh\u00ea. M\u1eb8: Ph\u1ea3i con \u1ea1, khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e0u s\u1eafc th\u00ec con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gu r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng! SUSIE: D\u1ea1... con \u0111ang t\u00f4 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u00f4ng hoa to\u00e0n m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf... M\u1eb9, \u0111\u00eam nay Betsy qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9? M\u1eb8: ( xem x\u00e9t l\u1eddi th\u1ec9nh c\u1ea7u) T\u1ed1i nay ba v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c th\u00ec hay bi\u1ebft m\u1ea5y. Ng\u00e0y mai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Hay l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y tu\u1ea7n sau? SUSIE: Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00eam nay. Con \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb8: ( d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t ) M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft v\u1eady Susie, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y mai ho\u1eb7c th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi. T\u00f9y con ch\u1ecdn.","SUSIE: ( m\u00f4i run run b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ebfu ) M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau con. M\u1eb8: ( k\u00e9o gh\u1ebf ng\u1ed3i s\u00e1t v\u00e0o b\u00e9 ) N\u00e0o Susie, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang c\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem h\u00f4m n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con t\u1edbi ng\u1ee7 chung. SUSIE: \u0110\u00eam t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u00eam nay. M\u1eb8: ( c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft ) Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ea3 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con l\u1eabn nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. SUSIE: Con kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9! M\u1eb9 \u00e1c v\u1edbi con l\u1eafm ( qu\u1eb3ng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch t\u00f4 m\u00e0u xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c \u00f2a ). M\u1eb8: H\u1eebm, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch th\u1ebf. S\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u1eb3ng! ( nh\u1eb7t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch t\u1eeb d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u00e0n l\u00ean, ph\u1ee7i b\u1ee5i cho n\u00f3 ). Susie, khi con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u00e3y b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi cho m\u1eb9 nghe. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u201cM\u1eb9, con t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn!... Con b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh!... Con \u0111ang hy v\u1ecdng Betsy s\u1ebd qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00eam nay.\u201d SUSIE: ( \u1ea4m \u1ee9c ) T\u1ee5i con \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m b\u00e1nh s\u00f4-c\u00f4-la v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 xem tivi! M\u1eb8: V\u1eady \u00e0. SUSIE: Betsy s\u1ebd mang t\u00fai ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec7m xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t n\u1eb1m k\u1ebf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y. M\u1eb8: C\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i r\u1ed3i! SUSIE: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady! Su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ee5i con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi nhau. M\u1eb8: \u0110\u00e3 d\u1ef1 t\u00ednh g\u00ec r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch th\u00ec bu\u1ed3n l\u1eafm. SUSIE: \u0110\u00fang \u0111\u00f3 m\u1eb9! V\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i nay nhe m\u1eb9. L\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111i","m\u00e0, m\u1eb9... l\u00e0m \u01a1n \u0111i... \u0111i? M\u1eb8: M\u1eb9 \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec t\u1ed1i nay thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n cho m\u1eb9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n qu\u00e1 ch\u1eebng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ( \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean ) Susie, gi\u1edd m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o b\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e2y. SUSIE: Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 m\u1eb9... M\u1eb8: ( v\u1eeba \u0111i v\u1eeba n\u00f3i ) V\u00e0 trong khi m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn l\u00e0m b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 con \u0111ang th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o. SUSIE: Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0 m\u1eb9... M\u1eb8: ( n\u00f3i t\u1eeb trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp ra ) Ngay khi con quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xong con mu\u1ed1n Betsy qua nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0o h\u00f4m n\u00e0o th\u00ec cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft! SUSIE: ( Ra b\u00e0n g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n ) Ch\u00e0o Betsy. B\u1ed3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1i nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e2u... ba m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh s\u1eafp c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch t\u1edbi r\u1ed3i. B\u1ed3 s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai hay th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y tu\u1ea7n sau nha. Trong ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh th\u1ee9 hai, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t Susie kh\u1ecfi vai tr\u00f2 \u201cN\u00e0ng C\u00f4ng Ch\u00faa\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi sao n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 ra ki\u1ec3u ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta? Nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9n chu \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u1eefng v\u1edf k\u1ecbch cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt m\u00e0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb d\u00ednh l\u00edu t\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n t\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn m\u1edbi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sai l\u1ea7m qu\u00e1 xa n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb; ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh x\u1eed thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch tuy\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng","ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u1ecfi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. M\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 qu\u00e0ng v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng vai tr\u00f2 ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0: \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t, cha m\u1eb9 x\u1ea5u, cha m\u1eb9 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, cha m\u1eb9 nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Quy tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng ho\u1eb7c th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u00e1i tim, tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Khi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng mong ch\u1edd c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u2013 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2013 h\u00e3y t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ed9ng hai. R\u1ed0T CU\u1ed8C L\u00c0 QUY\u1ec2N S\u00c1CH N\u00c0Y N\u00d3I V\u1ec0 C\u00c1I G\u00cc? CH\u1ec8 B\u1eb0NG \u0110\u1eccC QUY\u1ec2N S\u00c1CH N\u00c0Y, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea5p th\u1ee5; c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf; c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu c\u0169 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111i. V\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ea3 b\u1ee9c tranh l\u1edbn. V\u00ec v\u1eady m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y r\u00e0 so\u00e1t l\u1ea1i xem nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c n\u00e0y r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi nhau sao cho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba hay t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o l\u1eabn nhau. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a nhau. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0","kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i, hay \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 chu k\u1ef3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 \u0111\u00e3 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 t\u1eeb th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y sang th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd truy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng di s\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c nhau cho con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u2013 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 (ch\u1ed3ng) c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. L\u1edcI B\u1ea0T HAI M\u01af\u01a0I N\u0102M SAU QU\u00dd \u0110\u1ed8C GI\u1ea2 TH\u00c2N M\u1ebeN, Khi quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1980, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea7u mong cho m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Kh\u1ed5 s\u00e1ch th\u1eddi \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eeba in m\u1edbi t\u00e1i b\u1ea3n. Liberated Parents\/Liberated Children l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c kh\u1eafp \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 h\u1eefu \u00edch? Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh hai ph\u1ea7n (di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i theo sau l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng) ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y","tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3 khi bu\u1ed5i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1edd ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u2013 h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c, n\u00f4n n\u00f3ng k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 h\u1ecd vui m\u1eebng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ra sao. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea5y, c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1n th\u00ednh gi\u1ea3, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00eau v\u00ed d\u1ee5 minh h\u1ecda cho t\u1eebng nguy\u00ean l\u00fd, v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eb1m thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c h\u1ecd. Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cth\u1ea5m\u201d t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng trang s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y? H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5m. V\u1edbi s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kinh ng\u1ea1c. Nh\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u00e1i b\u1ea3n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00eam n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o \u1edf New York Times tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 How to talk so kids will listen...(N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u201ctop ten sellers\u201d trong h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng. PBS [1] s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh 6 t\u1eadp d\u1ef1a theo t\u1eebng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0 kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9p th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 su\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1eeb M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 Canada m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 l\u00e3nh th\u1ed5 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f4 t\u1ea3, c\u00f3 khi r\u1ea5t chi ti\u1ebft, quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c b\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed kh\u00e1c x\u01b0a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u2013 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ph\u1ee5 huynh \u1edf kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, d\u00f9 thu\u1ed9c nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i l\u00f9ng t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i kh\u00e1c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen th\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u201cKhi t\u00f4i nh\u1edb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i hay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen c\u0169.\u201d H\u1ecd c\u0169ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap th\u00eam. \u201cT\u00f4i","mu\u1ed1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y?\u201d Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i chung trong ph\u00f2ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn t\u1eebng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau m\u00e0y m\u00f2 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1ea5t, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn m\u00e0 con c\u00e1i lu\u00f4n \u201cb\u00e0y\u201d ra cho ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u00f3m c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nung n\u1ea5u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o do-it- yourself (h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m l\u1ea5y) m\u00e0 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 theo d\u00f5i, t\u1eebng-b\u01b0\u1edbc-m\u1ed9t, th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng nhau, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap c\u1ee7a hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o. \u201cK\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch qu\u00e1n tri\u1ec7t\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c th\u00e0nh nh\u00f3m, \u0111\u1eb7t mua t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng chuy\u00ean gia y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) . Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc, m\u1ee5c s\u01b0, linh m\u1ee5c, gi\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edfng (Do Th\u00e1i Gi\u00e1o). Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u2013 nh\u1eefng trung t\u00e2m gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u1eefng trung t\u00e2m cai nghi\u1ec7n ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, tr\u1ea1i c\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea1m ph\u00e1p v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c H\u01b0\u1edbng \u0110\u1ea1o Sinh, nh\u00e0 t\u00f9 li\u00ean bang, tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ebfc, gi\u00e1o tr\u00ecnh Head Start, nh\u1eefng c\u0103n c\u1ee9 qu\u00e2n s\u1ef1 \u1edf M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng tr\u00ean 150.000 nh\u00f3m tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh audio v\u00e0 video c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u1ea9n thi\u1ebft t\u1eeb","nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 quan d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i: \u201cPh\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea5p thi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean th\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) ?\u201d M\u1ed9t c\u00fa \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i H\u1ecdc Wisconsin Cooperative Extension. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i! M\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hay bi\u1ebft! V\u00e0 trong quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c v\u1edbi \u1ee6y Ban Wisconsin nh\u1eb1m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n S\u1ef1 L\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng Tr\u1ebb em, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t g\u00f3i tr\u1ee3 c\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a li\u00ean bang \u0111\u1ec3 so\u1ea1n th\u1ea3o m\u1ed9t c\u1ea9m nang hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 l\u0129nh ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o nh\u00f3m v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ea9m nang n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho h\u01a1n 7.000 ph\u1ee5 huynh thu\u1ed9c 13 h\u1ea1t. G\u1eb7p ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a d\u1ef1 \u00e1n v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 nh\u00e2n r\u1ed9ng ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c bang kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem c\u1ea9m nang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 tham gia c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Sau khi b\u1edbt s\u1ed1c v\u00ec s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u201cqu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt\u201d n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u1ea9m nang hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n. V\u1eady l\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay, trong ng\u00e0y k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eabn gi\u1eef y nguy\u00ean n\u1ed7i rung \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y hai m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ai, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 c\u00f3 uy l\u1ef1c l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 d\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i n\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Li\u1ec7u How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c ki\u1ec3m tra g\u1eaft gao c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian? R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec hai th\u1eadp ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua. Bi\u1ebft bao ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 khoa h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt g\u00e2y lo ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra, to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 b\u1ee9c","tranh gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n, ly d\u1ecb, cha m\u1eb9 k\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh phi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea3 cha l\u1eabn m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m, nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb. Li\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 c\u00f2n theo k\u1ecbp v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nhanh h\u01a1n, kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y nay nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7? Khi \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean ni\u00ean k\u1ef7 m\u1edbi, c\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean l\u00fd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u1eabn th\u00edch h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. B\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1eabn b\u1ecb stress v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft, v\u1eabn b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i chu to\u00e0n s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh; h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u00e9p m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed1i l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a 48 gi\u1edd trong 24 gi\u1edd; h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 gi\u00f9m cho, v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa l\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed5 bom oanh k\u00edch xu\u1ed1ng con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t ng\u1ed3n ng\u1ed9n: tivi ch\u1ec9 cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3; vi t\u00ednh cung c\u1ea5p cho ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, ch\u00f3ng v\u00e1nh, ch\u1edbp nho\u00e1ng; video game g\u00e2y t\u00ea li\u1ec7t ch\u00fang v\u00e0o b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c; phim \u1ea3nh k\u00edch th\u00edch ch\u00fang nh\u1eefng v\u1ee5 gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u0111\u1eadm m\u00e0u s\u1eafc b\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f9a v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed. Do v\u1eady, th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y nay c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lung lay v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00ec lo s\u1ee3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng trong ph\u1ea1m vi nh\u1eefng trang s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u1eadu thu\u1eabn v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u2013 nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng t\u00edch t\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i; nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eb1m gi\u1eef cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau v\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed9c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u0103ng uy l\u1ef1c cho cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u2013 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd.","Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m l\u1ea7n t\u00e1i b\u1ea3n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi qu\u00fd v\u1ecb nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua \u2013 nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn trong cu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 n\u00e0y, qu\u00fd v\u1ecb s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i, b\u1ed5 sung ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng gi\u00fap qu\u00fd v\u1ecb th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t tr\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a qu\u00fd v\u1ecb. \u2013 Adele Faber Elaine Mazlish NH\u1eeeNG L\u00c1 TH\u01af CH\u00daNG T\u00d4I LU\u00d4N H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3, tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 th\u01b0 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i: h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc trong How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ra sao. *** Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 cho t\u00f4i c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e1o ri\u1ebft t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng con trai 9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c cha n\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ly d\u1ecb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) V\u00ed d\u1ee5 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t: Tommy tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 n\u00f3, c\u1ee9 \u1ec9u x\u00ecu ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00ec b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201ck\u1ebb b\u1ea5t t\u00e0i\u201d. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng h\u1ebft ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u201cch\u1ed3ng\u201d c\u0169 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi Tommy r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u201ck\u1ebb b\u1ea5t t\u00e0i\u201d. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ed2, v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn l\u1eafm nh\u1ec9. Ch\u1ea3 ai th\u00edch b\u1ecb ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng bao gi\u1edd. Ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 con \u0111ang \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec b\u1ed1 c\u1ee9","n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p con.\u201d Theo d\u00f5i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a Tommy th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 ra c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh x\u1ea5u t\u1ec7 \u0111i. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin m\u00e0 t\u00f4i m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. *** T\u00f4i mua quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 4 \u0111\u00f4 la t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch c\u0169 v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u1eebng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 \u201cM\u00f4 t\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y\u201d. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i m\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn su\u00fdt t\u00e9 kh\u1ecfi gh\u1ebf. Con trai t\u00f4i, Alex (4 tu\u1ed5i) l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee9ng c\u1ed5 (cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i hay g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00f2\u201d), s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y cho t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. R\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201cGi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2\u201d, \u201cGi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1\u201d c\u0169ng gi\u00fap t\u00f4i: b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o t\u00f4i tham d\u1ef1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh sinh ho\u1ea1t chung t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a Alex, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi n\u00f3, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o nh\u00f3m ca h\u00e1t hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nh\u00f3m g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu Alex ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n hay b\u1ea5t an, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho n\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i im. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u1ecd ngu\u1eady, quay qua quay l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ea1y quanh, \u0111i x\u00e0 qu\u1ea7n. C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea3i g\u1ecdi t\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, \u201cAlex, ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng... Alex, ng\u01b0ng ngay!... Alex!!!\u201d T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 b\u1ecb qu\u00e0ng v\u00e0o vai tr\u00f2 \u201cK\u1ebb g\u00e2y r\u1ed1i\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, sau khi tan tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 xem n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch g\u00ec v\u00e0 th\u00edch g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3. H\u00f3a ra l\u00e0 n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t m\u1ec7t v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u00e1t b\u00e0i \u201c Old McDonald \u201d v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nghe \u0111i nghe l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5y c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t kho\u00e1i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o n\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ea1y h\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc sinh khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ea1y quanh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1 r\u1ed1i l\u1edbp. T\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3o n\u00f3 l\u1eadp danh","s\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u00ec, b\u1ea5t th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i m\u1eb9, con s\u1ebd qu\u1eady t\u01b0ng \u1edf s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i sau gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc!\u201d T\u00f4i nu\u1ed1t \u1ef1c n\u01b0\u1edbc mi\u1ebfng \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y hay \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf \u0111i, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n n\u1eefa. C\u00e0ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi n\u00e0y v\u1edbi con trai, th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1edf n\u00f3. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u1edbi v\u1eeba b\u01b0\u1edbc ra v\u1eady. *** Chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eed cu\u1ed1n How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi v\u1edbi th\u1eb1ng con trai 6 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Sau khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch, m\u01b0\u1ee3n b\u0103ng video \u1edf v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng M\u1edf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Michigan g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1edf con trai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u00f5 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi n\u00f3. (N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c hay n\u00f3i \u201cCon gh\u00e9t m\u1eb9. Con \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d sang \u201cM\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con.\u201d) Sau khi k\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nghe v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch, h\u1ecd b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft t\u1eeb v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng M\u1edf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Michigan \u2013 b\u0103ng video v\u00e0 s\u00e1ch b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u2013 v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t kh\u00f3a s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n cho m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp g\u1ed3m 12 ph\u1ee5 huynh (c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i!). Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng M\u1edf c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Michigan \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb t\u00f4i m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc cho c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. T\u00f4i d\u1ea1y lo\u1ea1t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ea7n k\u1ef3 theo chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 tham d\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u h\u01a1n m\u1edbi qu\u00e1n tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd ch\u1ecbu r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nhanh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc (\u0111\u00f2n roi, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t) \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con h\u1ecd thay","\u0111\u1ed5i, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m tr\u00f2n b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c ra sao, h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u0103ng h\u00e1i v\u1edbi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y con trai m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 hay c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n. T\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) , th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9u gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con trai t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m. T\u00f4i tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u00fap ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba con em m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ki\u1ec3u thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. *** T\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y quy\u1ec3n How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) trong th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n ch\u1ed7 t\u00f4i \u1edf \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch r\u00e1ch n\u00e1t nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y. Th\u1eadt ra \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea7m n\u00f3 l\u00ean ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec th\u1ea5y n\u1ed9i dung c\u00f3 v\u1ebb hay hay. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i 10 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. D\u1ea1o g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y n\u00f3 \u0111ang h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc th\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 hay t\u1eeb tivi, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 hay n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i ki\u1ec3u, \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mua th\u1ee9 g\u00ec ngon m\u00e0 \u0103n\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cSao m\u1eb9 mua cho con cu\u1ed9n video game d\u1edf \u1eb9c v\u1eady? C\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 d\u00e0nh cho con n\u00edt m\u00e0.\u201d Nh\u1edd quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 hay ph\u1ea3i r\u00e1ng v\u1eaft \u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eefa. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed7i khi n\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201cl\u1eafm m\u1ed3m\u201d l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1eb7n n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ngay. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o, \u201cLisa, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n ho\u1eb7c","kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, con c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c.\u201d L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1eady, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1ea5y khi n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ef1c t\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i g\u00ec n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u201cnh\u00ecn n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i\u201d l\u00e0 n\u00f3 d\u1eebng ngay v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u01b0 x\u1eed cho v\u0103n minh. *** Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u00e0m th\u1ee9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb sau khi ph\u00e1t minh ra m\u00e1y r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n v\u00e0 l\u00f2 vi s\u00f3ng! Ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi s\u00e1ng nay t\u00f4i v\u1eeba v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba d\u1eb7n Julie (4 tu\u1ed5i) h\u00e3y h\u00edt th\u1edf m\u00e1y Nebulizer [2] tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc (do b\u00e9 b\u1ecb hen suy\u1ec5n). Con b\u00e9 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea5y b\u00fap b\u00ea Barbie c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ra ch\u01a1i. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e9t to\u00e1ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 gi\u1eadt con b\u00fap b\u00ea \u0111i r\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 con b\u00e9 s\u1ebd gi\u00e3y gi\u1ee5a kh\u00f3c la khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i \u0111i\u00ean ti\u1ebft, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i l\u00e0m tr\u1ec5. Thay v\u00ec \u1ee9ng x\u1eed nh\u01b0 c\u0169, t\u00f4i h\u00edt m\u1ed9t h\u01a1i th\u1eadt s\u00e2u v\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cM\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u00fap b\u00ea Barbie qu\u00e1, m\u1eb9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u00fap b\u00ea c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con. V\u1eady con s\u1ebd b\u1eadt m\u00e1y Nebulizer l\u00ean hay con ngh\u0129 Barbie s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n b\u1eadt l\u00ean?\u201d B\u00e9 n\u00f3i \u201cBarbie mu\u1ed1n b\u1eadt\u201d r\u1ed3i b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi m\u00e1y, \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u00fap b\u00ea \u201cb\u1eadt m\u00e1y\u201d, h\u00edt th\u1edf xong c\u1eef tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111i h\u1ecdc. T\u1eebng s\u1ee3i th\u1ea7n kinh ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean Qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng hay h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00e1 tr\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n do nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. *** M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1m con t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0","v\u1eady. T\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1edbi v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec3n How to talk so kids will listen...(N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) , b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u201cs\u1ed1ng\u201d v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u00f3i hay l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 g\u00ec, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh x\u1eed t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u00ec c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n uy l\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o n\u00e0o c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y con trai Jason c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, 14 tu\u1ed5i, h\u1ecfi xin ti\u1ec1n t\u00f4i \u0111i xem phim. H\u00f3a ra n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n coi phim lo\u1ea1i \u201cR\u201d m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc tr\u00ean b\u00e1o v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i phim \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u00fd do n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 tu\u1ed5i. N\u00f3 n\u00f3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i xem v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. T\u00f4i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn cao v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd ng\u1ee1 n\u00f3 17 tu\u1ed5i, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, ai \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf trong nh\u00f3m x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng s\u1ebd k\u00e8m n\u00f3 v\u00e0o. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201cBa bi\u1ebft ba kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n con, nh\u01b0ng ba hy v\u1ecdng con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i. B\u1edfi v\u00ec theo t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ba \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y th\u00ec b\u1ed9 phim n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ba ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n. T\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00ednh d\u00e1ng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau.\u201d \u1eeam, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho n\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 \u0111i th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i trong r\u1ea1p v\u1edbi l\u1eddi t\u00f4i v\u0103ng v\u1eb3ng trong \u0111\u1ea7u. B\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha con ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i cho th\u1ea5y \u00edt nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 duy nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho con h\u1ea7u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ngo\u00e0i kia. *** T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0m...","... thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i. ... thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng. ... thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con. ... v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t, thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i 13 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, Jodie. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1eebng hay xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 l\u1ec7nh gi\u1edbi nghi\u00eam. Cho d\u00f9 th\u1eddi gian ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, con b\u00e9 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n xoay x\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 tr\u1ec5 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 y\u00ean t\u00e2m cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi m\u00e0 trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb \u0111i d\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c thu h\u00fat r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n v\u00e0 chai bia qu\u1eb3ng xu\u1ed1ng b\u00e3i c\u1ecf nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 huynh \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eeda ch\u1eebng b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00ean l\u1ea7u xem tivi ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u1ea7u. M\u1ed9t s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi Jodie xem ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t hoang \u0111\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong v\u00f2ng hai n\u0103m cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00f3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i th\u00ec b\u1ea3o, \u201cNghi\u00eam t\u00fac m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, Jodie \u00e0, con c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n vui ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. C\u00f2n ba m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng lo l\u1eafng. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.\u201d V\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u quy\u1ebft cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ki\u1ec3m tra \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u1edf nh\u00e0. Jodie s\u1ebd c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 gi\u1eefa kho\u1ea3ng 11:30 v\u00e0 n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i ng\u1ee7 s\u1edbm, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 b\u00e1o th\u1ee9c l\u00fac 12 gi\u1edd 15 ph\u00fat \u2013 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 di\u1ec5n bi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. Ngay gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat Jodie v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1eaft b\u00e1o th\u1ee9c \u0111i. C\u1ee9 theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f2n cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t","\u0111\u00eam ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean l\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 reng th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng reng, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u truy t\u00ecm d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng qua. Jodie lo li\u1ec7u ph\u1ea7n th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c \u201cd\u1eadp t\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3\u201d. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch! Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i M\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecbch ch\u00fang t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mong ch\u1edd ai \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. *** T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t \u00edt l\u1eddi khen m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1eedi m\u1eafng. Sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi trong ma t\u00fay v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u00f4i \u0111i t\u00ecm li\u1ec7u ph\u00e1p kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Chuy\u00ean gia tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho t\u00f4i quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con trai 18 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1edf c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 khen m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con trai t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i con \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c v\u00e0 kinh ho\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00fd ngh\u0129 ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. *** How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) , \u201cKinh Th\u00e1nh\u201d c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 chu k\u1ef3 n\u0103m th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m","x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac x\u1ea5u. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng 4 \u0111\u1ee9a con t\u00f4i (17, 14, 12, 10 tu\u1ed5i) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean t\u00f4i (sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tham d\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng l\u1edbp b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129), \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c, thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. T\u00e1i b\u00fat: T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 khi \u0111\u1ee9a con 17 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1edbi 1 tu\u1ed5i. Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5ng c\u1ee9u r\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i! *** T\u00f4i 40 tu\u1ed5i, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a hai c\u1eadu con trai. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u1edf quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u00e0n ph\u00e1 kinh kh\u1ee7ng b\u1edfi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Cha t\u00f4i hay n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p nhau. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 con, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t cay \u0111\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a cha t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i xoay qua t\u1eadp trung ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y hai th\u1eb1ng con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9u th\u1ea3, l\u00f9i x\u00f9i ra sao. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0ng trong t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng dai d\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd v\u00e0 c\u0103m gh\u00e9t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1edb tr\u00eau r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn, t\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u00e0 chu \u0111\u00e1o, c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i trong h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda. \u1ea4y th\u1ebf m\u00e0 cha t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n v\u1ebd m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, t\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i cha m\u00ecnh. M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y khi \u00f4ng x\u1ec9 v\u1ea3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00f4ng th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. (\u00d4ng b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00ec nghe t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1eady). T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng m\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch cho n\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho n\u00f3.","*** Th\u01b0 t\u1eeb gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea1i m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t hay hai gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean k\u00e9o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i qua m\u1ed9t b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f2n vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. *** T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y 9 n\u0103m, khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 con c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 quen l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9u cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00f3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi l\u0169 h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 l\u1edbp b\u1ea3y v\u00e0 l\u1edbp t\u00e1m m\u00e0 t\u00f4i d\u1ea1y, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi n\u00f3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. Bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cb\u1eaft\u201d h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 trong nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 v\u1edbi Marco, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa h\u1ec1 t\u1ef1 phong c\u1ee7a l\u1edbp, lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0103n zero cho b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd sau gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i gi\u1eef em l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o, \u201cMarco th\u1ea7y c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi em. Em ngh\u0129 coi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap em h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t?\u201d C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 s\u1eefng s\u1edd. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111inh ninh l\u00e0 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb g\u1eedi l\u00ean v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng th\u1ea7y hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Sau m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i im l\u1eb7ng n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o, \u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ebd em n\u00ean ghi ch\u00fa b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng.\u201d Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau Marco kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ghi ch\u00fa b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u01a1 tay ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn trong l\u1edbp. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00e1c th\u1ed1t l\u00ean \u201cTr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t, Marco! C\u1eadu m\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u00e0!\u201d","Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m qua t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, cho m\u01b0\u1ee3n, v\u00e0 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u00dd th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n. *** H\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb ch\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1eddi khen trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu h\u1ecdc sinh b\u1ecb ADD [3] . Trong 9 th\u00e1ng em ch\u1eadt v\u1eadt l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 3 b\u00e0i to\u00e1n. Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a em. T\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i \u201cEm c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft cho t\u1edbi khi t\u00ecm ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang\u201d. Tu\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00f3 em n\u1ed9p h\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 n\u00e0o. Em c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i em mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i b\u00e1o cho m\u1eb9 em bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft ch\u1eef nh\u01b0 g\u00e0 b\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i ch\u00ednh em c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh t\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a em ch\u1ec9 loanh quanh m\u1ee9c n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m. Em t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea1o. T\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau ch\u00fang t\u00f4i khen em kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng nhau m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u1eeb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a em (\u201cEm \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1edb vi\u1ebft \u201ct\u201d sau ch\u1eef \u2018often\u2019, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e2m c\u00e2m [4] ). H\u00f4m nay em ch\u1ea1y \u00f9a v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o em vi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang 19 trong 20 t\u1eeb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m A \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a em v\u1ec1 m\u00f4n ch\u00ednh t\u1ea3. *** T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c [5] t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t l\u1edbn \u1edf Texas. Sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi, h\u1ecdc thuy\u1ebft gia c\u1ed1, c\u1ea5m t\u00fac, c\u00e2u l\u01b0u, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra ch\u01a1i \u2013 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn gi\u1ed1ng nhau: nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 vi\u1ebft trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u00e0","nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n cho nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng khi nh\u1eefng l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111ang c\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u. V\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c mang t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u0103n v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u1eabn nhau. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u1eeb n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i vui m\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u qu\u1ed1c gia kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau. *** M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u1eeb Trung Qu\u1ed1c vi\u1ebft: T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ti\u1ebfng Anh t\u1ea1i Qu\u1ea3ng Ch\u00e2u, Trung Qu\u1ed1c. Trong khi l\u00e0 du h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u1edf New York, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0m ch\u00e2n gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb, gi\u1eef c\u00f4 b\u00e9 Jennifer, 5 tu\u1ed5i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i, b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec1n d\u1ecbu t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u1edbi b\u00e9. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng t\u1ed1i v\u00ec h\u01b0. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, Jennifer l\u1edbn l\u00ean tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp d\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng chan h\u00f2a. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 hay b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t c\u01a1n kh\u00f9ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c ng\u1ea5t. Trong nh\u1eefng tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Trung Qu\u1ed1c v\u1edbi Jennifer, theo \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Tuy nhi\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u1eafm. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 hay kh\u00f3c b\u00f9 lu b\u00f9 loa h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh t\u00f4i. M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Jennifer r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n. \u00d4ng gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho b\u00e0 quy\u1ec3n How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a Jennifer v\u00e0 t\u00f4i h\u0103m h\u1edf \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Jennifer b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1eeb t\u1eeb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. \u201cXing Ying, c\u00f4 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi Jennifer,\u201d cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4","b\u00e9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 Trung Qu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9. T\u00f4i \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u1ecf ra h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u. Gi\u1edd kh\u00e1t khao c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh Trung Qu\u1ed1c kh\u00e1c tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. *** M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb Victoria, \u00dac, vi\u1ebft: T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 hai th\u1eb1ng l\u1edbn l\u1ea7m l\u00ec c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Khi ch\u00fang \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 (\u0111\u1ee9a th\u00ec h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ee9a th\u00ec h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng), t\u00f4i ch\u00e0o c\u00e1c con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u \u201cNghe ti\u1ebfng c\u00e1c con ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 m\u1eebng qu\u00e1\u201d ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ee9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang \u201cH\u00f4m nay con \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d. \u0110\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. *** M\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) \u1edf Montreal, Quebec, vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c vi\u1ebfng th\u0103m trung t\u00e2m \u201cth\u00f4ng gia\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 \u1edf Capetown, Nam Phi. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c trung t\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1ea1i khu v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tham quan c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Trung t\u00e2m th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edf l\u1edbp d\u1ea1y cho c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c t\u1ea7ng l\u1edbp trung l\u01b0u s\u1ed1ng g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eabn nh\u1eefng c\u01b0 d\u00e2n c\u1ee7a khu \u1ed5 chu\u1ed9t Kayelisha, \u1edf ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. \u1ede Kayelisha, nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng c\u0103n nh\u00e0 ch\u1eadt ch\u1ed9i, m\u1ed7i nh\u00e0 ch\u1eebng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i bu\u1ed3ng ng\u1ee7 \u2013 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e1y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng v\u1ec7 sinh. C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 c\u1ee7a trung t\u00e2m \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9ng How to talk so kids will listen... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) l\u00e0m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng.","H\u1ecd d\u1ecbch nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh minh h\u1ecda sang ti\u1ebfng ch\u00e2u Phi cho c\u01b0 d\u00e2n t\u1edbi l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i trong th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eddn t\u01b0\u1edbp v\u00e0 qu\u0103n g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd g\u1eedi quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u2013 \u201c How to talk so kids will learn\u201d (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc) \u2013 cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u1edf Johannesburg. Anh b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y \u0111ang \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n cho gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean d\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc xa th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng d\u00e2n c\u01b0 thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 s\u1ebd vui khi bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea1m vi \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129! Nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 trong ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u00f4i n\u00eau ra trong How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ra c\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh x\u1eed, gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n sau khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft gi\u00e0n gi\u1ee5a t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. B\u00e0 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u00e0 v\u1edbi con trai b\u1ecb h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng Tourette [6] \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn t\u1eeb th\u00f9 h\u1eb1n, v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u01b0\u1edbng run ng\u01b0\u1eddi. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, tr\u1ea7m u\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 lu\u00f4n khen ng\u1ee3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng khi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y l\u1eddi khen ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u1edbi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eebng trang, t\u1eebng c\u00e2u v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang nh\u1eb1m chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n \u0111au tim. Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 sau \u0111\u00e2y: *** Trong nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 \u0111ang l\u00e2m v\u00e0o Th\u1ebf Chi\u1ebfn th\u1ee9 III v\u1eady. Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i (7 tu\u1ed5i) b\u1ecb ADHD. Khi b\u00e9 c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c th\u00ec ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.","Nh\u01b0ng khi thu\u1ed1c tan, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t (t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con b\u1ecb ADHD \u0111\u00e3 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u201ch\u1eafc \u00e1m\u201d). Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb ADHD \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u00e0, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f3\u201d. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u theo c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi n\u00e0y khi ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 gi\u1eef \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho ch\u00e1u tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. *** C\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc. Con trai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, 8 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ecb ch\u1ea9n \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00e0 m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ADHD. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u phen \u0111i\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Liberated Parents\/Liberated Children (Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng cha m\u1eb9 \/ Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng con c\u00e1i) v\u00e0 How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) v\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u00ecnh c\u1edd c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u00e0nh vi \u2013 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con trai t\u00f4i. Trong khi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u1ea1i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1eabn nhau. Theo \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 t\u1eeb t\u1eeb gi\u00fap ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb con trai m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn n\u1ed3ng nhi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t! T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi \u1edf m\u1ee9c s\u01a1 khai, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb b\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn nay t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i trung t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u tr\u00ean b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n d\u00e2n c\u01b0 r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn.","C\u1ea3m \u01a1n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed chia s\u1ebb t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Xin c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y gi\u00fap cho \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 c\u0169ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. *** L\u00fac con trai t\u00f4i, Peter, m\u1edbi 6 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 b\u1ecb ch\u1ee9ng suy gi\u1ea3m th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c. B\u00e1c s\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 6 th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00e1u \u0111eo b\u0103ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec Peter s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng b\u00ean m\u1eaft ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. B\u00e1c s\u0129 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo b\u0103ng k\u00ednh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 4 gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3i c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft Peter th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ngh\u1ecbu v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 th\u00e1o b\u0103ng k\u00ednh ra khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean l\u00ean. N\u00f3 than th\u1edf l\u00e0 b\u0103ng k\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 b\u1ecb nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u1ea5y m\u1eaft n\u00f3 b\u1ecb m\u1edd h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u201cr\u1ea5t \u0111au\u201d. T\u00f4i c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u v\u00e0 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, sau n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c s\u00e1u ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201cCoi \u0111\u00f3, Peter, m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111eo k\u00ednh nh\u01b0 con 4 ti\u1ebfng li\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft xem n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sao cho n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n\u201d. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i th\u1ebf v\u00ec t\u1ed9i nghi\u1ec7p ch\u00e1u ch\u1ee9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady khi t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. \u0110eo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 20 ph\u00fat t\u00f4i b\u1ecb nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u kinh kh\u1ee7ng. T\u00f4i b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1edf c\u1eeda t\u1ee7, l\u1ea5y qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t, th\u1ea3 con m\u00e8o ra ngo\u00e0i, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean c\u1ea7u thang c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kinh kh\u1ee7ng. \u0110\u1ebfn h\u1ebft 4 ti\u1ebfng, t\u00f4i \u0111au kh\u1ed5, m\u1ec7t ph\u1edd v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc con m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng Peter v\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nhau. S\u1ef1 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0","th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00e1u c\u1ea7n. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf \u0111i, ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111eo b\u0103ng k\u00ednh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y 4 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc. Th\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo b\u0103ng k\u00ednh n\u1eefa. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi n\u00f3i mi\u1ec7ng kh\u00f4ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 khi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed5 sung \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cnh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb\u201d. *** T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh nh\u00f3m How to talk so kids will listen ... (N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe...) c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m r\u1ed3i. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1976, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129. N\u0103m \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u0103m con trai t\u00f4i, Alan, m\u1edbi sinh. Gi\u1edd ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 22 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n. C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n th\u1ea7n kinh do di truy\u1ec1n b\u00ean d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd t\u00f4i. Nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y, m\u00e0 ti\u00ean l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a Alan kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eadt b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00ean xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 xe l\u1eeda cao t\u1ed1c trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. Khi t\u00f4i tham d\u1ef1 nh\u00f3m n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 con b\u1ecb thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap cho t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1 hy v\u1ecdng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap Alan ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u, ng\u0103n ch\u00e1u kh\u1ecfi s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5 v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n kinh nghi\u1ec7m 17 n\u0103m t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y. Anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a Alan c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y, khi\u1ebfn cho ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi t\u1eadt b\u1ec7nh. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng gi\u00fap t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 l\u1edbn cho","gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. V\u00c2NG, NH\u01afNG... NG\u1ed8 NH\u1ee0... TH\u1ebe C\u00d2N...? KH\u00d4NG PH\u1ea2I T\u1ea4T C\u1ea2 nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng vui v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c \u0111i nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. H\u1ecd c\u1ed1 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i than th\u1edf \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng.\u201d Khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd n\u00eau ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 nghe t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec sai v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n h\u1ea3o h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i: V\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eb1ng con tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 c\u1eaft t\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111i d\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 T\u1ea1 \u01a0n b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec n\u00f3 h\u00e3y \u0103n l\u1ec5 T\u1ea1 \u01a0n \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng n\u00f3. T\u00f9y n\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn. V\u00e0 ch\u00e1u n\u00f3 n\u00f3i li\u1ec1n, \u201cT\u1ed1t, con \u0103n trong ph\u00f2ng con\u201d v\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ecb s\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u201cC\u00e1i g\u00ec?! Con d\u00e1m l\u00e0m th\u1ebf v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 \u00e0! C\u00f2n c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u1eefa?\u201d N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 quay l\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i kh\u1ecfi. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i teen. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra cho tr\u1ebb \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng: \u201c C\u1ea3 hai l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3","v\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a m\u1ed1i \u0111e d\u1ecda? Li\u1ec7u con n\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang d\u00f9ng k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf, l\u00f4i k\u00e9o n\u00f3? T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ea7n to\u00e1t l\u00ean n\u1ed9i dung ph\u1ee5 l\u00e0 \u201cM\u1eb9 \u1edf b\u00ean ph\u00eda con. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m (ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m) h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ra l\u1ec7nh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c con, m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.\u201d L\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra cho con trai v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3? C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i teen \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c \u2013 ki\u1ec3u t\u00f3c, m\u00e0u t\u00f3c, chi\u1ec1u d\u00e0i, qu\u00e1 b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u hay qu\u00e1 s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd... \u2013 \u0111\u1ec1u coi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng ch\u1ecbu r\u1ee7i ro ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0o v\u00f9ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y, th\u00ec h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn: \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng cho th\u1ee3 c\u1eaft t\u00f3c d\u1eddi b\u1edbt m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ba m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1eaft con, th\u00ec con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng trong l\u1ec5 T\u1ea1 \u01a0n.\u201d N\u00f3i th\u1ebf xong l\u00e0 r\u00fat lui g\u1ea5p. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1ebfu ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 cho con m\u00ecnh hai l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u1ea3 hai? B\u00e1c s\u0129 k\u00ea \u0111\u01a1n cho con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u00faa gh\u00e9t u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc g\u1eebng hay v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00e1o, ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o c\u1ea3\u201d r\u1ed3i ng\u1eadm ch\u1eb7t m\u1ed3m l\u1ea1i. Khi tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ti\u1ebfp thu b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n con g\u00e1i m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: \u201cTr\u1eddi, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i ki\u1ec3u con nh\u0103n m\u0169i th\u00ec bi\u1ebft con gh\u00e9t u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.\u201d Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m. N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf h\u00e0m \u00fd: \u201cM\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda m\u00ecnh\u201d, b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n. \u201cN\u00e0y c\u01b0ng, th\u1ebf c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0m con \u0111\u1ee1 gh\u00ea h\u01a1n \u2013 u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y hay n\u01b0\u1edbc g\u1eebng?","Hay con ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee1 h\u01a1n \u2013 d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4i.\u201d R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u1eadn: Con mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1ng nhanh hay ch\u1eadm? Con mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft hay m\u1edf m\u1eaft khi u\u1ed1ng? Con mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00eca to hay th\u00eca nh\u1ecf? Gi\u1eef ng\u00f3n ch\u00e2n hay l\u00e0 gi\u1eef m\u0169i c\u1ee7a con? Trong khi m\u1eb9 h\u00e1t hay trong khi m\u1eb9 im l\u1eb7ng? \u0110\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 cho con u\u1ed1ng hay l\u00e0 con u\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh? C\u00e1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 nu\u1ed1t thu\u1ed1c h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u cho tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i c\u1ee7a thu\u1ed1c xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ee5ng tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u00e0ng hay. V\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 L\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa x\u1ea3y ra khi l\u1ed3ng nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0o quy tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 huynh cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u00e0 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n b\u00e0 c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i xoay ra c\u00e3i nhau to. T\u00f4i tri\u1ec7u t\u1eadp cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb nh\u1edb l\u1eddi b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00fa y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 con ch\u00f3 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb th\u1eeba c\u00e2n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o th\u00ec th\u1eb1ng con gi\u1eefa y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00eau nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 th\u00ec b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng xem tivi m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1i. Hai th\u1eb1ng kia b\u1ea3o v\u1eady l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 c\u00e3i v\u00e3 \u1ecfm t\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 l\u01a1 lu\u00f4n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi con ch\u00f3. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1m con t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.","\u0110\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u00fd hay. To\u00e0n b\u1ed9 quy tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e0i s\u1ed1 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady l\u1eabn nhau. Ngay khi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 cho s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t, b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed s\u1ebd b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed9c li\u1ec1n. Nghi ng\u1edd ph\u00e1t sinh, \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 b\u1ecb gi\u1ebft v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tin c\u1eady b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3. Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u00ednh l\u00e0m sao con ch\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe l\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng m\u1ea1nh kh\u1ecfe c\u1ea3. Ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta g\u00f3p s\u1ee9c l\u1ea1i m\u1edbi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3.\u201d \u201cBa m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00f3 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u1ed1m ho\u1eb7c trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd thay phi\u00ean nhau l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u00e0m v\u00ec nhau.\u201d Nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thay th\u1ebf cho \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n khi h\u1ecd c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd, b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn h\u01a1n. Khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec, th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 do m\u1ed7i c\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a t\u1eeb \u201cnh\u01b0ng \u201d. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u1ee7i b\u1ecf, l\u00e0m nh\u1ecf h\u00f3a, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea9y x\u00f3a \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfn c\u1eed, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf \u0111i t\u1eeb \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d . C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean g\u1ed1c: \u201cTr\u00f4ng con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00ec l\u1ee1 m\u1ea5t bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n Julie. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 con b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh. Ngo\u00e0i ra \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c th\u00f4i. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con m\u00e0.\u201d \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129: \u201cBa kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec h\u1ebft.\u201d C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh: (thay v\u00ec d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d g\u00e2y x\u00f3a b\u1ecf c\u1ea3m","x\u00fac, h\u00e3y n\u00eau to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c) \u201cCon r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec l\u1ee1 m\u1ea5t bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt Julie. Con \u0111ang mong ng\u00f3ng t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fac m\u1eebng sinh nh\u1eadt b\u1ea1n. N\u01a1i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t con mu\u1ed1n \u1edf v\u00e0o h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n s\u1ed1t.\u201d N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y chan h\u00f2a, \u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t con g\u00e1i \u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i con \u0111ang \u01b0\u1edbc ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra c\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3 sao?\u201d C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean g\u1ed1c: \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con gh\u00e9t c\u00e1i \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00f4 gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i nha s\u0129.\u201d \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129: \u201cM\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf con \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.\u201d C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh: (H\u00e3y x\u00f3a \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d \u0111i, thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng \u201cV \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ...\u201d) \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con gh\u00e9t c\u00e1i \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00f4 gi\u1eef tr\u1ebb l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. V \u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i nha s\u0129.\u201d S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t: T\u1eeb \u201cnh\u01b0ng\u201d nghe gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3ng s\u1ea7m v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. \u201c V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u201d m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda v\u00e0 m\u1eddi g\u1ecdi b\u1ea1n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p kh\u1ea3 thi. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ebd trong khi m\u1eb9 \u0111i nha s\u0129, con ch\u01a1i \u1edf nh\u00e0 Gary.\u201d Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ebd con \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u1edf ngo\u00e0i ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ee3i.\u201d M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ea3. Tuy nhi\u00ean b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3 h\u01a1n. C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh nguy\u00ean g\u1ed1c: \u201cHolly, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con bu\u1ed3n v\u1ec1 m\u00e1i t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a con qu\u00e1 \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i con xem, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i \u1ea5y m\u00e0. Trong v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n n\u1eefa con s\u1ebd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra n\u1eefa.\u201d \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f9a. M\u1eb9 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eady.\u201d C\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh: (X\u00f3a \u201c nh\u01b0ng\u201d \u0111i. H\u00e3y thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng \u201c cho d\u00f9 con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u201d) \u201cHolly, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y con bu\u1ed3n v\u1ec1 m\u00e1i t\u00f3c c\u1ee7a con. V \u00e0 cho d\u00f9 con \u0111\u00e3","bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc ra, con v\u1eabn ao \u01b0\u1edbc ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nghe con khi con n\u00f3i con ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n c\u1eaft \u0111i hai ph\u00e2n th\u00f4i.\u201d B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng cho d\u00f9 con \u0111\u00e3 bi \u1ebf t , b\u1ea1n khen ng\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p ch\u00e1u. \u201cT \u1ea1 i sao con...?\u201d \u201cT \u1ea1 i sao con kh\u00f4ng...?\u201d M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 k\u1ebf m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c la m\u1eafng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u00e1c con ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cho cha c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ea3m tr\u00e1ch. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c xa v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean g\u1eedi th\u01b0 nh\u1eafn v\u1ec1 b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng con trai ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 h\u1ea1n n\u1ed9p b\u1ea3n thu ho\u1ea1ch th\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y. R\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ch\u00e1u t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed9p b\u1ea3n b\u00e1o c\u00e1o \u0111\u00fang h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5t th\u1ea7n ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f9ng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i v\u1eady? B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0o b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201c t\u1ea1i sao con th\u1ebf n\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf kia\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi bu\u1ed9c t\u1ed9i. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. \u1ea8n b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng\u201d r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nghe th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0110\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i v\u00ec con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e1c, v\u00f4 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng, hay tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n sao?\u201d Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eb7t ra hai l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm c\u1edb b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa: \u201cB\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1 b\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng... b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda, v.v...\u201d D\u00f9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh n\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 v\u1ec7?","B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n giao v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho con trai ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf cho n\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi \u0111\u01b0a cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ea9u th\u01b0 nh\u1eafn c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00e1i th\u01b0 n\u00e0y ghi l\u00e0 g\u1eedi cho m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ba, nh\u01b0ng con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 g\u00ec ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i thu ho\u1ea1ch, ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu con mu\u1ed1n ai \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u00fd ki\u1ebfn g\u00ec th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.\u201d V\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1ch ly Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u201cc\u00e1ch ly\u201d. Ban d\u1ea7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t l\u00fang t\u00fang v\u00ec nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y 6 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch ly c\u1ea3. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng: c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00e0n s\u00f3ng ng\u1ea7m nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i b\u00e1o tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00e1ch ly nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1o thay th\u1ebf cho roi v\u1ecdt, v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u cho ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3? L\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ly l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111em \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian hay m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m xao nh\u00e3ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00f3 \u2013 kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng game \u2013 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t quy\u1ebft b\u1eaft n\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 (m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat trong m\u1ed7i n\u0103m cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n), \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng bao l\u00e2u s\u1ebd nghi\u1ec7m ra l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e0ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ecdc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng \u00edt c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi n\u00f3. V\u1edbi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, c\u00e1ch ly kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi hay c\u00e1ch t\u00e2n g\u00ec, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u201ch\u01b0\u201d ra \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf g\u00f3c nh\u00e0. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed Billy \u0111\u00e1nh em g\u00e1i n\u00f3 b\u1edfi v\u00ec nh\u1ecf em c\u1ee9 n\u00edu c\u00e1nh tay n\u00f3 trong khi n\u00f3 \u0111ang v\u1ebd v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3, trong c\u01a1n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea9y n\u00f3 t\u1edbi ng\u1ed3i \u201c\u0111\u1ebfm","th\u1eddi gian\u201d tr\u00ean c\u00e1i gh\u1ebf c\u00e1ch ly. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n Billy v\u00ec t\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e1nh em. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra trong \u0111\u1ea7u Billy khi n\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u201cGi\u1edd th\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i. M\u00ecnh c\u1ea5m kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh em n\u1eefa, cho d\u00f9 con b\u00e9 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00ecnh\u201d, hay c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cTh\u1eadt b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng! M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con em ngu ng\u1ed1c th\u00f4i. M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea5m n\u00f3 khi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y.\u201d Ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3 s\u1ebd k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eadt x\u1ea5u xa, m\u00ecnh x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.\u201d Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u01b0 x\u1eed sai kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n b\u1ecb ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn: \u201cBilly, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh em! Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi em b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi l\u00e0 con ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean ra sao khi em c\u1ee9 n\u00edu tay con trong khi con \u0111ang v\u1ebd.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed Billy n\u00f3i em v\u00e0 em v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 n\u00edu tay anh? V\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed Billy \u0111\u00e1nh em l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa? Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb c\u00e1ch ly sao? \u0110\u1ea9y Billy t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u201ct\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t\u201d c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. C\u00e1i Billy c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch ly m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m gi\u00fap n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 g\u00ec con t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi em c\u1ee9 n\u00edu tay con ho\u00e0i. H\u00f4m nay em l\u00e0m con t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh em. Billy, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ee9a con kia. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp ra m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu em ch\u1ecdc ph\u00e1 con m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa khi con \u0111ang v\u1ebd.\u201d M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thay th\u1ebf cho \u0111\u00e1nh em? Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1t \u201cTh\u00f4i \u0111i!\u201d v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t b\u00e9 th\u1eadt to. Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t tay em \u0111i... nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng th\u00f4i.","Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho em m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y b\u00fat s\u00e1p m\u00e0u. Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a cho em ch\u01a1i. Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd khi em ng\u1ee7 tr\u01b0a. Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng th\u00ec Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap. Billy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e1n danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o ch\u00e1u th\u00edch v\u00e0 tra c\u1ee9u khi c\u1ea7n. Billy kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a h\u00e0nh x\u1eed x\u1ea5u t\u1ec7 khi t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u1ed7i t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u1ec1 ch\u1ed3ng (v\u1ee3) v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau kh\u00e1c M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 chia s\u1ebb n\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. V\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y trong quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3\/ b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t g\u00ec cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng? Khi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau ra trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong kh\u00e1n ph\u00f2ng xem h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd: T\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. C\u00e1i c\u00e1ch anh \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn trong quy tr\u00ecnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u1eef quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch trong xe h\u01a1i. Ai kh\u00f4ng l\u00e1i xe th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecdc to l\u00ean v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ea3 bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u1ee5 huynh. Anh \u1ea5y thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i \u201cL\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, mi\u1ec5n con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i\u201d. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o anh \u1ea5y, \u201cN\u00e0y anh, khi ch\u00fang ta quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 con, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang cho ch\u00fang m\u00e0. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c cho","ch\u00fang m\u1eb7c r\u00e1ch r\u01b0\u1edbi hay cho ch\u00fang \u0103n th\u1ee9c \u0103n nhanh. Th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng v\u1eady th\u00f4i, h\u00e0 c\u1edb g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ch\u00fang theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh \u2013 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3? Con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang ta.\u201d T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi anh \u1ea5y cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi hai th\u1eb1ng con c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i, \u201cAnh, em c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n c\u00e1i n\u00e0y v\u1edbi anh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00ec em kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u1ea3. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn anh th\u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c h\u01a1n \u2013 n\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 anh n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u1edbi anh hay n\u1ebfu b\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i th\u1ebf kia?\u201d Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng anh \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi anh \u1ea5y suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 ra. V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t gh\u00e9t khi t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00e0 n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec h\u1ebft. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u0169ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u00ec con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu m\u1eb7c \u00e1o kho\u00e1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Thay v\u00ec tranh lu\u1eadn th\u00ec v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i cho n\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7c th\u01b0\u1eddng hay mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3c . Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00fac kh\u00edch v\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u1eeb m\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u00eam th\u1ea5m \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0. Uy l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vui \u0111\u00f9a Nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i sao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i. \u0110\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ch\u01b0\u01a1ng Khuy\u1ebfn Kh\u00edch S\u1ef1 H\u1ee3p t\u00e1c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tranh lu\u1eadn \u201cthu\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng\u201d v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 n\u00ean bao g\u1ed3m s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i v\u00e0o quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u00e1ch g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn vui v\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00e0i gi\u00e2y. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i \u201ckh\u00f4i h\u00e0i\u201d cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong khi c\u00f2n bao nhi\u00eau vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i trong hai \u0111o\u1ea1n ng\u1eafn m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra ph\u1ee5 huynh r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00f3c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i.","B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o, \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc, khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb h\u00e3y li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u00f4 ngh\u00ea, hay vui \u0111\u00f9a trong h\u1ecd, th\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 vui nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao tinh th\u1ea7n cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m tan ch\u1ea3y s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1ng \u1edf ch\u00fang. *** Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng th\u1eb1ng con 3 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu thay \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 cho n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f2i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u00f4i tr\u00f2ng qu\u1ea7n l\u00f3t l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u00fat v\u1edb v\u00e0o tay n\u00f3. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m sai r\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea5y qu\u1ea7n m\u1eb7c v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u1edb v\u00e0o cho \u0111\u00fang. Sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i \u201cTh\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u00fang.\u201d T\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00fat qu\u1ea7n v\u00e0o tay v\u00e0 x\u1ecf ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o \u00e1o s\u01a1mi. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau. *** \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1eaft con trai t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng con vi tr\u00f9ng \u0111ang l\u1ea9n tr\u1ed1n trong mi\u1ec7ng b\u00e9 \u2013 t\u00ean ch\u00fang l\u00e0 Geraldine v\u00e0 Joe. V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00f9ng s\u1ee5c t\u1eebng ng\u00f5 ng\u00e1ch trong khi ch\u00fang n\u00f3 h\u00e1t \u201cT\u1ee5i m\u00ecnh b\u00e0y ti\u1ec7c trong mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a Benjamin.\u201d V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang n\u00f3 th\u00e9t l\u00ean khi b\u00e9 ch\u00e0 b\u00e0n ch\u1ea3i v\u00e0o ch\u00fang v\u00e0 th\u00e9t l\u00ean n\u1eefa khi b\u00e9 nh\u1ed5 ch\u00fang xu\u1ed1ng c\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang c\u00f2n d\u1ecda v\u1edbi tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. \u201cB\u1ecdn tao s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i cho coi!\u201d *** Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u1edfi ph\u00e1t nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o nh\u1ea5t. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ed5 s\u00fay \u0111\u00e1m con ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed9ng cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u201cm\u1edbi pha tr\u1ed9n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u2013 g\u1ed3m 3 \u0111\u1ee9a con ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i (7, 9, 11 tu\u1ed5i) v\u00e0 2 \u0111\u1ee9a con ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i (10 v\u00e0 13 tu\u1ed5i) \u2013 s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn h\u01a1n. Vi\u1ec7c tranh c\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n chia coi \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1eb7t g\u00ec lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. Gi\u1edd th\u00ec m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y ch\u00fang","t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra m\u1ea5y t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y. Xong ch\u00fang t\u00f4i g\u1ea5p gi\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00fat t\u1eebng t\u1edd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 bong b\u00f3ng m\u00e0u, th\u1ed5i l\u00ean v\u00e0 th\u1ea3y bong b\u00f3ng l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u1ebd b\u1eaft l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3, \u0111\u1eadp ra v\u00e0 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3, l\u00e0m xong th\u00ec tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i l\u1ea5y qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m xong th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u00fac m\u1eebng l\u1eabn nhau v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i nh\u00f3m v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. *** T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u1edf nh\u00e0. M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n do b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb g\u00e2y ra. T\u00f4i l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 b\u00e0i t\u00e2y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 \u1edf hai \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00f3a \u0111i. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed7i th\u1eb1ng con t\u00f4i ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfm xem trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau \u201cn\u00fat\u201d th\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111i. Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch qu\u00e1 tr\u1eddi trong khi \u0111\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng s\u1ed1 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang d\u1ecdn \u0111i xong r\u1ed3i h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c ch\u1ecdn ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 b\u00e0i kh\u00e1c. L\u1ea7n g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t t\u00f4i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch trong hai m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat v\u00e0 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac. *** B\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh: M\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 hai b\u00e9 g\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh tranh gh\u00e9p v\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e3i kh\u1eafp s\u00e0n nh\u00e0. M\u1eb9: \u201cN\u00e0y c\u00e1c con, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 theo k\u1ecbp b\u00e0i h\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng ? M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd b\u1eadt m\u00e1y l\u00ean r\u1ed3i coi c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 nh\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ef1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u00e0i h\u00e1t k\u1ebft th\u00fac kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o.\u201d Ch\u00fang lao v\u00e0o d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p th\u1eadt nhanh v\u00e0 xong vi\u1ec7c trong hai b\u00e0i h\u00e1t r\u01b0\u1ee1i. *** T\u00f4i c\u00f3 4 th\u1eb1ng con trai. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t 50 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i th\u00e9t qu\u00e1t ch\u00fang c\u1ea5t gi\u00e0y \u0111i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang l\u00e0m khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 l\u00e0 th\u00e1o gi\u00e0y th\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i 8 chi\u1ebfc gi\u00e0y.","K\u00edch th\u00edch c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng : T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft ch\u1eef GI\u00c0Y l\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ee5c l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 x\u00e2u d\u00e2y treo l\u00ean l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee5ng tr\u00fang \u0111\u1ea7u. Kevin, 8 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1. M\u1ea3nh gi\u1ea5y qu\u1ebft v\u00e0o t\u00f3c n\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 \u0111i qua c\u1eeda b\u1ebfp. KEVIN: C\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? T\u00d4I: Con \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111i. KEVIN: Gi\u00e0y? C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00d4I: Con ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 g\u00ec? KEVIN: T\u1ee5i con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 gi\u00e0y m\u1edbi h\u00f4m nay? T\u00d4I: Kh\u00f4ng. KEVIN: ( suy ngh\u0129 nhanh) M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n t\u1ee5i con c\u1ea5t gi\u00e0y \u0111i? T\u00d4I: Con \u0111o\u00e1n ra r\u1ed3i. Kevin c\u1ea5t gi\u00e0y! R\u1ed3i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ea9u gi\u1ea5y cho 3 \u0111\u1ee9a v\u1ec1 ti\u1ebfp theo h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t gi\u00e0y \u0111i!!! KEVIN: M\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1ea3ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc r\u1eeda tay \u0111i m\u1eb9. *** L\u0169 con tu\u1ed5i teen c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t gh\u00e9t d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng t\u1eafm. (\u201cM\u1eb9, th\u1ea5y g\u1edbm qu\u00e1 \u00e0!\u201d) T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. Ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m bi\u1ec3n tr\u00ean b\u1ed3n r\u1eeda. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ghi m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1 con c\u00f3c nh\u01b0 sau: T\u00f3m l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed5i c\u1ecd v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng gi\u1ebb Ch\u00e0-ch\u00e0-ch\u00e0 \u2013 \u1ed0, mi\u1ebfng gi\u1ebb!"]