Seven Character Traits Brochure

We arePartners inEducatingStudentsSeven Character Traits thatPromote Academic Successand Lifelong LearningBedford Central School District, Bedford, New York

Critical FactorsWe are Partners in Educating Students – Seven Parental Support/Consistent InvolvementCharacter Traits that Promote Academic Success  Communication with childand Lifelong Learning  Positive talk about school at homeFunded by BCSD PG&D Grant  Reasonable academic expectationsCreated by M. R. Goodman, E. Lesser, and D. Venditto  Cultivating a love of readingCopyright © September 2013  Attendance at school functions, events and meetings  Open, productive communication with school staff  Monitoring of child’s sleep quality and quantity  Healthy eating habits

Resilience Character Traits and HabitsRecovering from or adjusting to missteps, setbacks or change Research shows that specific character traits and Confidence to try again, belief in oneself, self-reflection, habits contribute to success. These traits and habits are learning from mistakes definable and teachable. They can be developed over time with adult encouragement and through deliberate practice. On the home front On the following pages, you will find definitions of traits Ways children can learn to be resilient and habits that empower students to be successful in  Learn from stories about how others made mistakes and school and in life. Also included are some suggestions to how they picked up the pieces and moved on. help children take ownership of their learning. With  Have the opportunity to discuss missteps and receive parental guidance and practice, these character traits and constructive strategies for growth. “What can we learn habits can become a natural part of children’s lives. from this, and what can we do to make sure it doesn’t happen again?”  Have a “secure attachment” (bond) with a parent/caring adult. (A secure attachment makes a child feel safe and confident to explore the world.)  Learn from parents that asking for help is a sign of strength and that everyone needs help sometimes.  Learn from parents the importance of building a network of friends and family that one can count on. “Mistakes are the portals of discovery.” - James Joyce

Conscientiousness Growth ThinkerBeing thorough, careful and having the desire to do a task well Being open-minded: likes to learn new things, takes academicResponsibility/Accountability - preparation, organization, time risks, loves a challenge, optimistic about the future. “I can be management, study habits, punctuality better. I am going places.” On the home front On the home front Ways children can become more conscientious Ways children can become growth thinkers  Actively participate in conversations with adults about  Learn how to pack a book bag at night with essential materials and set alarm for morning wake up. Follow how a growth thinker has hope for the future, believes similar routines each morning to ensure consistent that almost anything is possible and understands that organization that encourages increasing independence. challenges are both fun and hard work.  Through adult modeling of optimism, learn how to be  Work with parents to set up a system to know where to flexible, positive and open-minded when approaching find school belongings and how to make sure they are a task. put away carefully.  Have the mindset that problems/challenges are the source of creative solutions.  Discuss with parents how to establish a consistent daily routine and schedule time for homework and studying. \"I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it.\" -- Pablo Picasso  Learn to acknowledge that work produced is a reflection of who we are.  Take pride in work presentation. “Learning is not obtained by chance; it must be sought for with ardor and attended to with diligence.” – Abigail Adams

Curiosity Perseverance Having a strong desire to know or learn something Doing something despite difficulty or delay in achieving successBeing inquisitive, innovative, seeking knowledge: a creative Continued effort to achieve something despite difficulties, failure or opposition problem solver On the home front On the home front Ways children can learn to persevere Ways children can become more curious  Listen to parents’ personal stories about their setbacks  Observe parent and sibling curiosity and engage in and facing difficulties; have discussions on how life can experiences that encourage active inquiry. be, and often is, difficult or challenging.  Learn about others who have a love of learning and  Learn from examples of what takes place in the world in recognize what they’ve accomplished through their general, such as when athletes/teams lose a game and passion. then get ready to compete again. It is about trying.  Spend time with others to share those things that are  Observe adults working hard and ethically to reach exciting, intriguing and motivating. goals and learn from those observations.  Embrace opportunities to allow for further exploration.  Commit to setting realistic goals. Recognize that goals  Engage in thought-provoking, open-ended discussions. are often reached one step at a time, and one needs to persevere in the face of challenges.“I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy godmother to “It always seems impossible until it's done.” endow it with the most useful gift, that gift would be ― Nelson Mandela curiosity.”―Eleanor Roosevelt

Mindfulness Self-ManagementBeing aware of the present moment and being responsible for Being responsible for goals, decision making, focusing, one’s own learning and all that it entails. planning, scheduling, active listening, self-advocating, and Self-reflective/Self-aware: “I am responsible for my learning having self-control. and how I go about my learning. This is my job.” On the home front On the home front Ways children can learn to self-manage Ways children can become more mindful  Participate in discussions about the purpose of school  Work with adults at home to set age appropriate goals and learn that maintaining focus will result in attaining and the student’s role in the classroom. Realize that those goals. learning is a student’s job. It can be both fun and sometimes a chore. In either case, it is still a student’s  Work with adults to learn how to make small decisions, job. and increase those decision-making privileges over  Through adult modeling and specific/direct time and with maturity. conversation, learn to modify behavior to fit a variety of different situations.  Learn to self-advocate: speak up when something  Reflect on the day through conversations with parents, needs to be said, an idea needs to be shared, or when self-assess, and share a new learning experience. help is needed. Effective self-advocacy involves being both assertive and polite. “Intelligence is the ability to adapt to change.” – Stephen Hawking  Participate in discussions that require active listening.  Strike a balance between electronic and non-electronic activities.  Learn the value of patience and calm self-control through adult modeling and practice.

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