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Feature Talking TrashMdm Azreen and her three children, Zain, Noor Alya, and Noor Iman, are frolicking in the sand on a Saturdaymorning. They are busy creating a giant hole – perhaps to lie in – on their family day out at the beach.Upon closer inspection however, the four of them are furiously digging and tugging at what looks to be adiscarded fishing net buried deep within. As more and more of the net’s tendrils unravel, a game of tug-o-war ensues with the nylon monster.Although living in Pasir Ris, the Abdul Hafiz family is at East Coast Park today to rid the area of rubbish withTrash Hero, a non-profit organisation whose beginnings can be traced back to a few volunteers cleaningthe beaches of Koh Lipe, Thailand’s southern-most island, in December 2013. Five years forward, Trash Herohas inspired 52 community-initiated chapters in nine countries around the world with the motto “We clean,We educate, We change”. Since July last year, the local chapter, led by Ms Stella Cochrane, has been rallyingvolunteers from all over Singapore to attend clean ups around the island, including Coney Island and PasirRis Beach.Trouble in our backyard More often than not, the trash left behind by recreational fishermen and barbeque pit users gets blown away and ends up in the sea.According to Ms Cochrane, each location in Singapore has its own Take out containers, straws, drink bags, plastic bottles are the mostunique issues. Pasir Ris suffers from the fact that it is located at the common finds; at their last clean of Pasir Ris beach, they took awayStraits of Johor. Rubbish washes in with the tides, gets tangled in the 60kg of rubbish in just an hour.vegetation, and is washed down the streams from all over the islandwhich eventually empties out at Pasir Ris beach. Coney Island has a Coastal trash can also cause river mouths to ‘suffocate’. Whendifferent trash profile with more fishing nets and large items like oil clogged, they allow bacteria and disease-carrying insects to flourishdrums or industrial plastic containers found on its beaches. – something that our tropical environment is prone to. Trash Hero SG is one of several organisations in Singapore coordinating clean ups. Others like the International Coastal Cleanup and Ban Plastic Bags also organise similar efforts. For a small country like Singapore, the frequency of such clean ups inevitably questions the state of cleanliness and level of responsibility of Singaporeans. Perhaps we should take a look at the type of rubbish that’s washing up on our shores, 80% of it isn’t from Singapore but from the vast oceans that we share with the world. I do think that Singapore is becoming increasingly responsible about waste management. This being said, Singaporeans do add to the problem and one of the biggest things we can do to change on an individual level is to reduce our reliance on single-use plastic. Stella Cochrane12 vibes

Being the change Feature Rising above plasticsDeeply passionate about the ocean, Cheap, durable, strong and light. With attributes like these, it is noMdm Azreen’s eldest daughter, Alya, wonder plastic is so prevalent in our everyday lives. But at whatshudders at the mention of plastic. cost does that short-term convenience bring? Mdm Azreen saysThe 9-year-old began feeling that while being zero waste is difficult, it is something we should bestrongly about plastic pollution striving for. In their household, the family has taken steps to reduceafter watching a video of their ecological footprint.researchers extracting a strawlodged in a sea turtle’s nose. Plastic straws, now replaced with metal ones, were the first to go. They bring their own tumblers out to store drinks bought at movieAccording to Greenpeace theaters, or when Mdm Azreen fancies a cuppa from StarbucksInternational, one million or the local teh tarik shop. Homemade citrus enzymes – a zestyseabirds (like albatrosses) and concoction of vinegar, sugar, and fruit peels – have replaced100,000 marine mammals are killed chemical agents as their multipurpose cleaner.annually from plastic in our oceans. Humansaren’t spared, too. Studies have discovered that plastics are getting The throwaway culture of packaging has also contributedinto our food chain via favourite seafood like oysters, mackerel, significantly to the world’s exploding waste problem. One of theanchovies, and mussels. Chew on this: Those who regularly consume biggest culprits? Toys. From wires, foam, to the dreaded plastic, theseafood are estimated to ingest up to 11,000 pieces of microplastics three children are conscious of how much rubbish is generated froma year. their playthings and have compromised on buying fewer.The Abdul Hafizes are trash heroes in their own rights. Over the Even when going for their independent cleanlast four years, they have taken it upon themselves to clear rubbish ups, the family no longer brings trashwhenever they see it. Tongs are stowed away in their car so they bags. Alya, who leads her family onare always ready for impromptu clean ups – most often at Pasir Ris these activities, says it only adds tobeach – where they stay a walking distance from. Occasionally, they more plastic waste. “Looking at thejoin organisations like Trash Hero to tackle larger hazards like bricks, rubbish we pick up, there’s alwaysbarrels, and glass which are not only unsightly, but also dangerous things we can find to put themto beach goers. into like plastic bags or containers. If we can’t find one, we’ll put at a“When you come to Pasir Ris beach at low tide, my goodness, you corner and later find a receptacledon’t even want to step in beyond the water line,” says Mdm Azreen. to dump it in.” Beach Clean-up @ Pasir Ris beach vibes 13

Feature It’s all about being socially conscious – what you leave to waste is what you leave for others to clean up.A work in progressWhile it may not be possible to avoid plastic altogether, we can all do clean ups. Or like Alya, you can start simply by picking up litter whenour bit to live greener. It can be as simple as saying “no, thank you” to you see it.the plastic bag at the checkout counter. Other than reducing, reusing,and recycling, refusing is actually one of the best ways to eliminate “It’s a matter of working together, crafting an environment you wanttrash because we can’t throw what we don’t have. to live in and caring where things come from and where they go when you finish using them. The first step in the solution to our trashIf you find yourself wanting to do more, join Trash Hero (you can find problem is being aware – if you are reading this then the hard part isthem on Facebook!) or other similar organisations organising beach over!” says Ms Cochrane. For more information on Trash Hero SG, visit https://www.facebook.com/TrashHeroSingapore/ THE PLASTIC PREDICAMENT CONVENIENCE AT WHAT COST? 80% MOST SAY IT ISN’T SO! COMMONLY of marine litter Over 100,000 seabirds and worldwide is plastic FOUND 1 million sea mammals die 1. Cigarette Butts from plastic every year 2. Plastic Food Wrappers 3. Plastic bottles NOW AND FOREVER CAUSES OF DEATH Plastic Bag : Ingestion 10-20 years to break down Animals mistake trash for food. Eating it obstructs their digestive systems, leading to a slow and Plastic Bottle : 450 years to break down painful death. Fact: Entanglement Plastic does not ever go away. They Animals get trapped in a variety of ocean debris photodegrade and become “plastic dust” including fishing nets, lines, plastic bags, ropes, (microplastic particles) – soaking up and and six-pack drink holders. Most times, they are then releasing toxins into the environment. unable to free themselves from the litter, causing exhaustion, impairment, and eventually death.14 vibes Sources: Greenpeace, Ocean Conservancy, SEE Turtles, and One Green Planet

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Feature “There’s this saying,” tells Smiley deliberately and slowly, “that seven days Scooby without laughter makes one weak.” Did you catch that? If you did, well pun reader, well pun. Together with Scooby, the husband and wife team is part of the Caring Clowns Unit Singapore (CCU) formed in 2004. On a mission to spread warmth and cheer to patients, their families, and staff in KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital, the members spend every last Saturday of the month at the hospital’s paediatric division to clown around in the most meaningful way. Preferring to be known through their monikers, Scooby and Smiley have been volunteering as Caring Clowns since late 2011. Emphasizing that they are not party clowns, the Pasir Ris residents say the group specialises in patient care and therapeutic humour. On top of regular ward visits, they do something special for the staff on Nurses Day too. The group has also been propositioned by other hospitals and non-profit organisations to help dispense happiness the way they know best. Monthly License to be Funny But on typical Saturdays, the group is there for the children at KKH. After spending 30 minutes or so putting on their outfits and smearing on their makeup, they burst out the door as walking rainbows, ready to make their rounds. Multicoloured wigs, costumes, shoes, props, all do their part in exaggerating the personas of the members. The singular and uncompromisable feature of them all though, is the iconic red nose. “The clown nose gives us license to be funny. We get to make mistakes, to stumble. Even when we do something wrong, they think it’s part of the act!”laughs Scooby.12 vibes

Each clown is also the master of his or “When we see a group of people, presumably friends and her own act that can vary from physical family, together, we’d say “Oh it’s a party! Can I join you?” And comedy, storytelling to magic tricks. if they say no, we move on. We have to respect them and not Scooby specialises in balloon sculpting intrude into their privacy.” while Smiley does puppetry. They tell us that with no formal drama training, all Volunteering in a hospital setting has its own notable set of their actions are improvised. protocols. Other than being sensitive during interactions, the caring clowns are not allowed to touch the patients for“Balloons are great ice breakers. I like to make the crab these days,” hygiene reasons. They are not allowed to take any pictures forshares Scooby.“Although I try to make what the children want, it’s privacy issues, and not supposed to call the patients by theirchallenging. They name all sorts of animals but I don’t use more names. According to Smiley, the hospital provides them withthan two balloons at a time because it’s time consuming. I have to counselling should they get emotionally affected.innovate and come up with one-balloon animals and yes, you canmake crabs with just a balloon!” “We show them we care but we can’t get personal with them. We aren’t supposed to show any emotions,” says Smiley. “Is itFor the puppet master, Smiley has six gloved pals she alternates hard? Well it is, but you just need to detach yourself.”using. Favouring her medium because of its ability to relate, shesays the kids respond well and listen to what she says through The Spirit of Givingthem. For the couple who used to go on mission trips, working withDuring ward visits, the group will usually split up and entertain children in need is no stranger to them. Their efforts overseasthe kids individually. But sometimes, they regroup for a song and actually sowed the idea that more can be done within their owndance and get the kids to join in. This simple act of participation, country and wanted to put their clowning skills to use on a moreyou might be surprised to know, can benefit these hospitalised long-term basis. Venturing into this unique form of volunteeringchildren greatly. together has also bonded them stronger as a family. After all, they say that couples who laugh together, last together.“We empower them,”says Scooby.“Every day the kids are toldwhat to do – when to sleep, what to eat, how to behave, to take “It’s definitely very meaningful and wonderful doing itmedication on a schedule. But on that day, they tell us what they together. We share and we understand what the other goeswant. If they want us to make a fool of ourselves, we’ll do it! If through in the hospital,” says Scooby.they want us to dance, we’ll dance, and we’ll encourage them toparticipate with us in the routines.” So as the season of giving draws closer, the couple would like to wish everybody a season of goodwill, to be happy, and toNot all Fun and Games always be in the spirit of giving. In fact, Scooby and Smiley would like to encourage you to join the Caring Clowns Unit,While the responses towards their visits have been very and to make a difference in other people’s lives.positive, there still are a handful of them who are scared of thered-nosed jesters. To ease the children’s fears, their makeup “As caring clowns, we’re givers, not takers. We don’t expectare usually toned down, where they forgo the full white-face laughs or applause, and we don’t always know who willpaint common with other clowns. Keeping sensitivity as their benefit. But at the end of it, and we quote one of our fellowpriority, Scooby says they would usually “ask permission” first clowns, if laughter is the best medicine, I’m glad to be the onebefore engaging the patients and families. who have dispensed it. The satisfaction is from knowing that we’ve helped relieve the pain even if it’s just for a short while.” Smiley vibes 13

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Hearttoheart Their apartment in Pasir Ris has been home to disadvantaged children the last three years. Sharing their physical and emotional space, Shubra Gupta and her husband are young parents who wish they could care for all the underprivileged kids in the world! But for now, they’re contented to be able to make a few lives better through the Fostering Scheme. Hello Shubra, is foster care and adoption the same thing? They’re totally different. Adoption is a legal process where all parental rights and responsibilities of the child are transferred to their new family. What I’m doing – fostering – is a short-term arrangement to meet the care needs of children whose parents or guardians are unable to provide. The fostering scheme under the Ministry of Family and Social Development (MSF) is an alternative care arrangement for children in need of a conducive home environment. Most children will return to their birth families when the issues that brought them into care are resolved. You and your husband, Vishal, are foster parents even though you have two biological children of your own. Was caring for less fortunate children something you’ve always wanted to do? Yes it was. When we got married, we wanted to adopt instead of giving birth as we’ve seen just too many cases of abandoned children and children living in poverty. After moving to Singapore and after our firstborn, we learnt about fostering and really liked the scheme because it gives these children a chance back at normal life. Since we have the ability to care for them and help them in the long run, we decided to do it. And because we’re still young, it’s better to do it now as we have more energy and resources. It doesn’t matter if it’s someone else’s child or our natural child. All children deserve care and love, no matter their condition or situation and we wanted to do that. How long have you been a foster parent for? About three years. In late January 2012, I fostered my first child who stayed with us for a month. My second stayed for nine months, and the current child I’m caring for, let’s call her Sunny (not her real name), has already been with me for 1 year and 4 months. The length of time a foster child stays with you varies. At 32, people your age want to do things like travel, focus on their careers and concentrate on their own families. Has being a foster parent limited your personal freedom in any way? No it hasn’t. If we go on holidays for example, we’ll always have Sunny with us. If we need to go overseas for an extended period of time, MSF will help look for another foster parent to help us care for Sunny whilst we’re away. It’s never any trouble and never a problem.10 vibes

Other than a place to live, what do you ultimately hope to give to thechildren who come into your home?I hope to give them the love and warmth of a home and family. I hope thatI’m able to instil the right discipline in them and help them grow up to berighteous people who will do the right things and help others in need.“My most memorable moment as a foster parent is…”There are so many unforgettable experiences with the children. You startfrom being strangers then one day, she comes up, hugs you and says “Aunty,I love you”, that’s incredible. It shows that she’s comfortable and accepts thelove we’ve been giving.Seeing the foster children and my own children consider each other asfamily makes me very happy too. Sunny will always say “I have one brotherand one sister”. There was one time when we overheard her having aconversation with her friends. She was boasting about my family, tellingher friends about how much care she was given. I felt very touched at thatmoment.Is it emotional when it’s time to say goodbye?Yes it’s always very sad to watch them leave. However we feel very thankfulto know that our foster children are returning to their natural families or arebeing adopted into a good family, and are happy for them.You’ve mentioned though it’s actually your kids who take it the hardest.My own kids have always bonded very well with the foster children. Whenthe second foster child came and left, my daughter was very affected. Thefoster child used to visit her natural family during the weekends, so everytime she goes home, my daughter would just sit and wait for her return.When Sunny eventually goes, I do think my daughter will be most affectedbecause they’ve had a longer time to bond.Is she aware that Sunny will eventually leave your family?She’s aware of that. We’ve overheard them making arrangements to keepin touch. They reassure each other by saying things like “even if I go home,we’ll have each other’s phone number and you can call me”. They bothknow Sunny is going to leave our home one day and are already preparingthemselves for that day.Finally… any words of advice for those considering being fosterparents?I would advise them not to begin with the mind-set that they’re shoppingfor something. Just like you and me, these special children deserve to beloved and accepted for who they are. Ultimately, it’s our privilege to beable to care for them. If you feel that you’re ready to commit, I say go for it,because there will never be a perfect time or situation to do so.These children have brought so much joy and laughter into our home. Ireally do think that the Fostering Scheme is as much of a blessing to thechildren as it is to us foster parents. At the end of the day, I’m happy that Ican provide for these children and watch them grow and learn; that’s myreward. vibes 11

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HearttoheartThese seven athletes are much like you and I. We’ve all got our own cracks to mend, demons to conquer, challengesto overcome – the only difference is that they’re doing it in the public eye. We talk to them about sports, abouttheir lives and what life is like beyond the games.Nur Syahidah Bte Alim (Archery)Syahidah’s Next Big GoalMy team and I are preparing for a championship at the Czech Republic this June. We hope to qualify andcontinue to represent Singapore for the Rio Paralympics 2016.A True Blue Pasir Ris GirlI’ve been living in Pasir Ris with my family for over 20 years. I love Pasir Ris. It’s a quaint little place to live in.One of the highlights of my growing up years was spending time with my friends during the holidays.We’d do things like play at the playgrounds or take care of kittens under the blocks.Her Role ModelIn my career at Sport Singapore, I’ve had the opportunity to meet and work with Mr. C. Kunalan,Singapore’s ex-national athlete in athletics. As a work colleague, I learnt more about his glory daysand heard from him stories about fellow local pioneer athletes.He inspires me to be a better sportsperson – to excel in sport, be humble on achievements,to always remember my roots, and be the voice for inclusiveness in sports.Greatest Achievement To Date (That Isn’t Sports Related!)It has to be when I completed my dissertation and graduated with aMaster’s degree at Nanyang Technological University.Nurulasyiqah Bte Mohd Taha (Boccia) Bobby Lee (Badminton)“Excuse me, aren’t you…?” Life after the GamesPeople do stop me on the streets. After the games, people We continue training as usual, but it’s not as frequent as before the game.occasionally come up to me to confirm if it was my face that I still play on most weekdays with my kakis though.was plastered on SBS Service No. 12. They also thank mefor representing Singapore or to say they’re proud of me. Part Time Athlete, Full Time BossFortunately no one has asked for a photo with me yet! I’m not a full time sportsperson due to work commitments. I’m actually a self-employed electrical contractor by trade. I manage my own companyA Lover of Languages with my wife’s help, and have about 25 staff. Some of them have workedI’m an accidental polyglot. I attended Korean classes for with us for quite long and because of their help, I was able to fullythree years so that I can converse with the top Boccia players concentrate on my training for the Para Games.who are from Korea. I’ve also been attending Japaneseclasses for over a year now. It Runs in the Family My daughter also has an interest in badminton and I was really happy toMy Hidden Talent is… learn she was picked for the school team.I can recognise footsteps of the people I know. It’s probablya compensating skill since I can’t turn my head or wheelchairquickly enough to face someone behind me.On her two-dimensional persona as the “disabledathlete”It’s good enough for me if people know me as a para-athletebecause after all that is my public persona. I only hope thatthey attach the same adjectives to para-athletes like they doto all athletes – driven; committed; resilient.12 vibes Photos: Lawrence Loh, Singapore Disability Sports Council, Singapore Sports Institute, Sport Singapore

Lieu Teck Hua (Athletics) HearttoheartOvercoming the ImpossibleRunning was the last thing I imagined possible after my amputation. I’m really happy that I’m able to run now and feel there’s stillmuch room for improvement. Nothing is impossible as long you believe and work at it.Biggest Takeaway from the GamesThe games have created more awareness, which makes me feel more included. I usually train in heartland areas and even though I stillattract plenty of glares and stares, I do feel more accepted.Do you see yourself as an inspiration or has the media hyped that up?It’s quite overrated really. I see myself as just another man on the streets, leading a normal life even after the amputation. I’m still ableto have a career, to build a family, to drive and to travel – I’m happy with the way things are now.Family Comes FirstMy family is without doubt my most precious asset and proudest achievement. I was the happiest when I became a father and myfavourite thing to do other than sports is parenting. Jovin Tan (Sailing) Sailing & Me Sailing was introduced to me in 2001. I’d say I enjoy the sport competitively more so than leisurely. Sailing has not only helped with my confidence level, it has taught me many life lessons and has improved my physical form as well. On the underlying notion that disabled athletes are somewhat “lesser than” able-bodied athletes We may be slower in our physical condition but that doesn’t mean we aren’t as competitive as the able-bodied athletes. More awareness is necessary to help the public understand more about disabled sports and sports without boundaries. Best Moment of the Para Games When I received the gold medal for my country, in my country, and in front of my family and friends.Chew Zi Ling (Swimming) Benson Tan (Swimming)On Being Spotted in Public My Growing Up YearsI feel like a regular person but people have come up to me and said I was extremely hyperactive. My parents had to run after methat I’ve inspired them. This makes me really happy and it makes me when we were out shopping. They had a hard time looking forwant to work even harder! me because I always hid inside the clothing racks. In school, I disrupted classes and once jumped from the stage and receivedGreatest Achievement To Date (That Isn’t Sports Related!) three stitches on my forehead. It was one of the reasons why myMy greatest achievement to date is that I have completed my two parents decided to channel my energy into sports.years traineeship with ITE specialising in Hospitality. Swimming Changed My LifeMy Happiest Moment Was… I chose swimming because I had asthma back then and the sportWhen I was selected to represent Singapore at the 2nd Asian Para helped improve my health conditions. I’m also diagnosed withGames in Incheon, South Korea. My current aim is to qualify for the 3rd Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD); swimming calmsAsian Para Games in Jakarta, Indonesia. me down and helps me focus.Of Other Interests & Passions I Look Up To…I’m able to speak a little bit of German. I also love DJ-ing and Music Joseph Schooling. His achievements come from the effort he putsProducing. in. Aftermath of the Para Games When the dust settles, this group of disabled athletes may be forgotten. But the games have opened doors for disabled athletes to prove themselves; to show how determined the community can be in order to achieve their goals. vibes 13

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They’re the real deal. Local 60s pop band,The Silver Strings, recently held a sold-outconcert to 500 people. Bass player, groupleader and Pasir Ris resident Audie Ngtakes us behind the scenes.

Feature Audie Ng is the bass player and leader of homegrown 60s pop band, The Silver Strings. The band recently threw a sold- out 50th anniversary reunion concert to 500 fans and friends who have been following them since the beginning. Still active in the music industry, would you have guessed he turned 72 this year? A veteran in the scene, VIBES speaks to Audie about music in the good old days, ageing musicians, and why age is really just a number. Hi Audie, congratulations on the successful 50th anniversary concert of The Silver Strings! How was the experience like? It’s actually my dreams come true. It’s been a tremendous success and I’m very proud. I believe no band in Singapore history has performed for 50 years. We played for almost four hours and performed over 40 songs, both original and covers. With us being all senior citizens about 70 years old, many were wondering how we could stand on stage for so long! But I guess when you enjoy something, you get carried away and forget about the time. Tell us a little more about the concert. I handpicked the songs which would go well with the crowd. I wanted it to be a party, and not just a concert. We had some guest performers like radio stalwart Larry Lai, musician Ernesto Valerio and singer Jerry Fernandez. We flew in the band’s former singers like Veronica Young, Mike & Herb, and Mustapha Al-Johary to perform together again. Make Up by Remy Mohamed HSaiilrvbeyrTSretrssinesgCso5u0tutrhe Anniversary Concert12 vibes

What genre of music does the band play? Do you still consider yourself a musician?We play oldies, pop-rock and ballads. We are more of an No, but every three to four years, I activate and play again. I’mEnglish pop band. We wrote and recorded 12 original songs still in the music industry, just not as a musician.then. But the band still performs together?The Silver Strings were formed in 1963. Who were the The band’s already disbanded, but we come togetherband’s musical influences then? whenever there’s a concert or a charity event to play. SinceThe Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Elvis Presley, Tom Jones and we’re still good and healthy and it’s for a good cause, we do it.The Shadows. As a British colony, we followed the Britishtrends. That’s why bands like The Shadows were more popular Most people your age are retired. What are you currentlythan The Beatles. The Shadows was THE band of our time. involved with?To be recognised as a band, we had to be able to play their I’ve been in the music industry for 51 years. I still run my ownsongs. business – Supreme Musical Connections – which supplies entertainers from and around Asia.How different was the music scene like then-and-now?In the 60s, we played for passion; not for money, not for fame. Will you be retiring soon? The word ‘retire’ doesn’t come to me. If we retire, we getLast time, music was focused on the melody and the voice. senile. I prefer to stay active. What’s there to retire anyway?Now, music is made for dual purposes – dancing and singing. You can still do your own things at your own pace and time.They also paid less attention to the looks of the singer, and Just never stop.more to the quality of the voice. Nowadays, they’re moreinterested in how good a singer looks. One example is the Any words for other senior citizens out there?Koreans and the Kpop. Frankly, they may not be the best Age is only a number. I want to tell these seniors to continuesingers around, but the package is good. Speaking of which, playing, and doing what they love. Music keeps you young.45 years ago, I actually brought in a Korean band called the As long as they keep the music in them alive, that’s most‘Korean Kittens’ to perform. important.What were the band’s defining moments in the heyday? On the ageing musicians in Singapore:We were very fortunate to open for the legendary Rolling Many senior citizens who were previously in bands are stillStones when they first came to Singapore in 1965. The playing. Community Clubs make allowance for them tosame year, we also played to 20,000 people during the Miss practise for free. They bring their own instruments and don’tUniverse Pageant in Malaysia’s Stadium Negara. have to book their studios. In return, they perform when there are functions. Many also continue to play at Country Clubs.We were also the only band to tour the whole of Malaysia in They’re happy doing what they love.all the Shaw Brother theatres in the 60s. It’s amazing becausewe were greeted just like how we greet the international One last question: Are you planning a sequel for theartists. They adored us! successful concert you’ve just had? Yes, maybe next year. People are requesting for another show,What led to the disbanding of The Silver Strings? and I might oblige because I’m also getting older. I don’t thinkI saw that there were no prospects for musicians. The I can wait another 25 years to hold a 75th anniversary!market here is too small and there was a lack of support andacceptance. Eager to learn more about Singapore’s music scene in the 60s? We recommend visiting www. singapore60smusic.blogspot.sg for a comprehensive and nostalgic read! Photos by: Andy YoungHerb and Mike Veronica Young Mustapha Al-Johary Andy Young vibes 13

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Feature Scaling up to Mount Everest’s Base Camp has been on Carol Tan’s bucket list for a long time. 20 years, in fact. Last December, the 38-year-old secretary took that nearly forgotten dream and turned it into a reality that demanded 18 months of physical preparation beforehand. The Pasir Ris resident shares what the expedition has taught her. “It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.” - Edmund Hillary (first man to reach the summit of Mount Everest)12 vibes

Hi Carol, you’re quite the adventure junkie, aren’t you? Did the 18-month dedication eventually pay off?I think so. My friends have commented that I don’t do the Yes it did. Conditioning the legs is half the battle won. Most ofnormal “rest and relaxation” type of trips. the time, I was in front of the group as I had made a promise not to be the last one behind anymore.You flung yourself off to Lofoten Islands, Norway, last month.What did you do there? Did you get to see the auroras? How was the EBC experience like as a whole?I was there to attend a photography workshop. And yes I did! It was an amazing, awesome trek which included climbing theI saw the northern lights in Iceland some time back, and I’ve Gokyo Ri (5357m) and Cho La Pass (5420m). I was noisy on thebeen wanting to see it again. I fell in love with the green, red, trip to entertain everyone; I kept screaming ‘ikimashyo -purple and pink lights dancing in the sky. いきましょ’ (which means “let’s go” in Japanese) to spur everyone on and also to motivate myself to carry on, otherwiseThey’re magnificent, aren’t they? So Norway was just two it would have been a depressing and quiet trek. What I enjoyedmonths after your climb up Nepal’s Everest Base Camp (EBC) most was just going through the process of reaching thein December 2014. Was EBC something you’ve always wanted destinations, day by day, earlier than the targeted time. Uponto conquer? reaching EBC, I felt a tinge of sadness knowing the trekkingIt’s been on my mind since young. I was 18 when I first learnt days were coming to an end.about Mount Everest, but it’s out of reach for monetary reasons.So, the next best thing to dream of is the Everest Base Camp. I You also mentioned not bathing for 14 days.was browsing through a magazine in the bookstore and images The water there is too cold to bathe in. Our guide told us thatof tents set up at the campsite have been stuck in my mind if we bathed at night, chances were we may get high altitudesince. I thought how cool it would be to be there. sickness. So, we did wet-wipes wash down every day instead. Thankfully, my hairdresser also gave me two bottles of instantIf it was something you’ve always wanted to do, why hadn’t dry shampoo for my hair.you done it sooner?As time passes by, the dream was gradually forgotten as I didn’t Why is it important to always challenge yourself?know who to go with, how or where to begin. The preparation to travel to EBC has taught me a valuable lesson. When I challenge myself, I go beyond who I think I amAnd most people would just eventually let go of their and it reveals who I can be. Every time I step out of the comfortaspirations. Most would just give up and use “getting older” zone and into the unknown, the greater being that is me comesas a reason. forth and I grow.I don’t believe in using “getting older” as an excuse. I look at my80-year-old father who still jogs around the Bedok Reservoir And it doesn’t actually matter if it results in success or not,every day. The oldest man to climb Mount Everest is Yuichiro right?Miura who reached the summit on 23 May 2013 at the age of 80. That’s right! The thing is, I always win because every experienceThat is the REAL inspiration. is a great experience! It contributes to my growth and raises my awareness of myself and my self worth. The more I do it, theThere were a few things going against your EBC dreams. You further I go and the lesser I think about how uncomfortable it’ssay weight was one of them. going to be. So, I push the limits, break the boundaries, and liveIn 2013, I did my first trek in Nepal to the Kingdom of Lo at the life I am meant to live. If I can do it within my own means, IUpper Mustang. The trek up was quite a challenge. I was a bit will do it. With time, I do things with more confidence and haveoverweight then and was out of breath easily; so afterwards more faith in myself.I knew I had to shed off more weight. Every kilo counts whenyou’re trekking. Thank you for speaking with us, Carol!How long did you train for in preparation for EBC? Photos by : Mr Teo Kee Huat (front cover), Mr Basu and Ms Carol Tan18 months, after the last trek to Upper Mustang. On a scale of 1 –10, my fitness level was probably a‘1’. If I hadn’t pushed myself torun and swim on alternate days, it would not have been easy. vibes 13

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1. Singaporeans receive the Hearttoheart best education in the world!This year, we topped the 12. A distinct local accentbiggest global school that’s recognisable arankings published mile away.by the Organisation forEconomic Co-operation RWEAHSOYNS 13. Our very own Botanic Gardensand Development which beat the odds and made it tomeasures the quality of the UNESCO World Heritage list.education. IT’S GREAT 14. We live amongst 2. We’re creative when compassionate people. Case in it comes to resource TO BE point: People gave out food and water to management. Where else those queuing to pay their final respects in the world would people to Mr Lee Kuan Yew. During the recent transform wastewater into train breakdowns, Singaporeans looked drinkable water? out for each other’s wellbeing despite3. Our passport is having reasons to do just the opposite. one of the mostaccepted globally. This 7. With one of themeans visa-free access lowest crimeto most parts of the rates in the world, weworld. can walk home at 3am and not worry about 4. The strong getting robbed. Singapore Dollar. For the local people, this means 8. Raised in a melting pot of 15. We are a better exchange rate and different races, religions and free to greater spending power. cultures, we are stand up for what we sensitive to believe in (as long as it’s5. We live in the food capital of differences. peaceful and constructive). the world. Om nom nom nom. i.e. Pink Dot. 9. Our bilingual ability6. Yet amongst the restaurants and provides us both 16. As ‘Fastest cafés, we still have the option of a social and an economic Walkers’ inexpensive dining. At very decent advantage. in the world, prices, we get to have quality we understand meals at our trusted coffee shops 10. We have our own“brand”of the importance & hawker centres. English: Singlish. Love it or of efficiency and hate it, it’s definitely a part of our identity. the value of time. LAH LOH LEH 11. No natural disasters due to 17. Singapore remains one of the our geographic location. least corrupted countries in the world. vibes 09

Hearttoheart 23. Books are available 28. If you ever get pinned under a everywhere! With the truck, you can count on your18. We’re generous in giving our 27-wellstocked libraries scattered around fellow Singaporeans to get you out from time and the island, we can read all we want, under it. In July, 30 passersby combinedmoney to charities. whenever we want. might to lift a trailer truck to free a manMore than 55% of trapped underneath.Singaporeansdonate or volunteerwhen possible.19. Our high-network transport 24. Our policemen care for the 29. Love proclamation comes system is so efficient, even safety of not just civilians, easy to us! Ranked number superheroes take them. but animals too. Like out of a storybook, two in Asia Pacific in Sergeant Benjamin Cheah and Corporal saying ‘I Love You’ Source: 9gag.com Mohammad Faidzul Bin Muslim rescued on Twitter, we’re a a cat that had been stuck on surprisingly mushy20. We stand up for our own. a six-storey-tall tree for two bunch. When Muhammad Hanafie days, and reunited it withconfronted a its owners. A purrfect ending! 30. We live in a Garden City.man who was Though denselyverbally terrorising 25. No chewing gum allowed? populated with peoplea teenager on the That’s ok. At least we never and buildings,MRT, netizens have to worry about stepping on gum we still manage tolauded him a hero. litter and ruining our shoes! share the space with over 2,00021. We’re all 26. We understand the plant species. about importance of respect in aoutdoing ourselves. multiracial society. While hate crimes 31. GentleAt SEA GAMES 2015, shake the rest of the world, we remain Bones (Joelour athletes won a strong in racial cohesion and social Tan), The Sam Willows,record 259 medals harmony. Stephanie Sun, JJ Lin,– the highest at this Kit Chan and more…year’s games and local musicians areSingapore’s best putting us on the maprecord to date. with their voices.22. Only here we can“chope” 32. Making waves on an (reserve) our tables with international level are also ourtissue paper or personal belongings like filmmakers likeumbrellas – and not have them stolen! Anthony Chen, who won big at the 50th Golden Horse Awards and 2013 Cannes Film Festival. 33. First and only night race in the world: We host the Formula 1 Grand Prix under the stars. 27. Other countries want to learn from us. From education policies to nation-building strategies, we have a knack for getting a number of formulas right!10 vibes

34. When overseas, 40. Two words: Changi Airport Hearttoheart people aremostly generous with their 46. Chinese New Year, Hari Raya,compliments when we tell Deepavali and Christmas…them we’re from Singapore we have plenty of reasons to celebrate(try it out the next time). together!35. Yes, it’s 41. As a society, we only continue hot almost to become more graciousall year round, but and civic-minded. Remember when thisa tropical weather started happening?means no icy roads, nocracked skin and nothick coats.36. Good city planning means amenities like schools,Polyclinics, shopping malls, SportsComplexes etc. are accessible no matterwhere we live. Source: Travel & Lifestyle Diaries37. Kiasu Kiasi Kiabo 42. Our growing arts 47. Mid-year sales, year-end sales,38. Because we do have a sense of scene allows post-festival sales… there’s people the opportunity always a reason for us to help boost our humour! to explore the political economy. & social landscape through creative 48. In 2008, Jennifer Lim lost her dissent. wedding ring at East Coast Park. Four years later, Aliff Noor Hakim 43. We’re one big family– found the ring at a bus stop in Eunos everyone is either “uncle” or and spent the next three years trying to “auntie”. reunite it with its owner. Last month, thanks to uncle AUNTIE uncle AUNTIE Aliff, Jennifer got her ring back afterSource: 9gag.com seven long years. 44. We’re united. We prompt each 49. With beaches located around other when the “summon” our island (in Paris Ris, West (parking fines) auntie appears. Coast, Sembawang etc.), we never have to travel far to enjoy the sun, sand and summon auntie sea. is here! 50. In just 50 years, we’ve Source: 9gag.com 45. Ever held onto your rubbish catapulted from an for hours when abroad? Here, unassuming little country to a39. We have clean air (ever blown rubbish bins are always at your disposal. cosmopolitan nation that has captured your nose after roaming the the attention of the world. We’re proud ofstreets in Vietnam or even South Korea?). the little quirks and our uniquely local features. As Singaporeans, we know there’s none other like us. vibes 11

Hearttoheart Humans of SG Pasir Ris - Punggol EditionIt began with the massively popular Humans of New York. Spiralling into a global phenomenon, ‘Humans of’has spawned dozens of adaptations worldwide, including Singapore.This National Day, we took this project to the streets of Pasir Ris-Punggol and documented the extraordinary lives ofvery ordinary people. We celebrate the one thing that makes a country as diverse & vibrant as it is – its people! What’s your favourite memory of Adin? She’s been very vain ever since she was little. Once, we asked her to join us for a photo when she was sulking and crying - she actually stopped and smiled for the photo… then continued to cry! Till now, I still laugh whenever I think about it. Mdm Siti What do you appreciate most about your mum? She’s very understanding and always gives me what I want. She cares a lot about me too, always asking about school to see if I’m doing okay. Adin MasturaOn their favourite moment as a couple: Now that everyone has found jobs with all sorts of different working hours, it’s always so nice to be able to meet my bestWe were at the beach a couple of days after we got friends from primary school whenever our schedules coincide.together, and it was really sweet and romantic when we We might not be able to meet as often as we would love to, butsaw a shooting star that night. While a lot of good things we know that we can always count on each other for anythinghappened to us prior to, I took that as a sign that things and everything.were just going to get better from then on. Nicole GreenSree and Raji12 vibes

HearttoheartWe’ve known each other since we were 10. We met in atemple, and because we didn’t have handphones backthen, we would try to go to the same temple everyweek. It was fun because we were kids, but lookingback, we’ve really come a long way. I’m happy that Iwent to pray that day!Kasi, with wife Jeyseaslvi and son, KrishnaSkateboarding improves your sense of When I was younger, I never Tell us about something that’sbalance, enhances your fitness and leg spoke to girls unless absolutely close to your heart.strength, which people of our age would necessary. As a kid, I was taught I have an Instagram projectneed. I started three years back when I to respect the other gender called The Basic J. It may lookwas able to free up some time to do it. It’s but took that to an extreme. like a typical online shop thatvery enjoyable and I’m really passionate Things changed in Polytechnic sells jewellery, but I started itabout it. There’s a group of us, going long when I picked up the camera. with a different intent; which isdistance from Pasir Ris, to Sengkang, then Photography forced me to talk to encourage young ladies withto Ang Mo Kio and we try to do it every to people and pushed me out empowering messages. Everyweek. We are fully protected with our of my comfort zone. Eventually package that I send out comesgear so we hardly get hurt! I co-founded the ‘A Thousand with a personalised card and note. Smiles’ project which basically I was motivated to do this becauseJohn Cheng, a skateboarder in his 50s was collecting portraits of of my own insecurities as a girl, as strangers. Putting myself out a teenager, and even till today. I there and facing rejections was hope these little acts will let young the hardest thing to do, but it women feel loved, and give them helped me develop courage. strength to pass on encouraging I have about 200 shots so far, words to the people around them and eventually hope to have an Joane Ling exhibition one day! vibes 13 Ng Khuan Kung

Hearttoheart Earlier this year, I surprised my husband with a birthday gift on our birthday (coincidentally,You have one minute to rant we both share the same birthday)… a positiveabout anything you want. Go! pregnancy test! It’s definitely the best present the both of us could ever ask for and we areI’m a punctual person and I glad to share the joy with Singapore’s 50thbelieve that being on time Birthday, a special year for all Singaporeans.is like keeping a promise. Cassandra YeoWhen you arrange to meetsomeone at 9am, you’re I’ve been in the construction industry all mymaking a promise to be life – since my 20s. I’m in my 60s now and havethere at the stated time. It’s spent my entire adult life building HDB estates,not a very difficult promise landmarks and other things for Singapore. Lifeto keep, and I tend not was hard, but it’s slightly better now that myto trust tardy people - I son has grown up and is earning his own living.mean, if I can’t even trust I don’t want my son to follow in my footsteps ofsomeone with keeping becoming a construction worker so I’ve alwayssuch a simple promise, how urged him to study more. I didn’t have a chancecan I trust them with more to go to university but he did. In a way, he’scomplex issues? Call me old- completing my dream for me.fashioned, but I appreciate Ng Hock Lamthe effort someone makes tobe punctual!SyazwanI’ve always liked the easternside of Singapore. Havinglived in Pasir Ris with myparents for the past 16 years,it was an easy decision tomake when my wife and Ibought our own place here.We love the accessibility andthe convenience, and moreso the fact that our lovedones are within walkingdistance.Kevin Lim14 vibes

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Hearttoheart RediscoveringSankar and Sumi of the Naked Hermit Crabs are bringing us ona tour around Pasir Ris Mangrove. Spotting only giant red antsthe last time, we weren’t certain if we’d see any more than we did.Under the nature lovers’ lead (and really sharp eyes), snakes, owlsand all sorts of lovely bugs suddenly became visible. During thewalk, they talk about why the mangrove is special and how thisswampy beauty in Pasir Ris can be conserved.Sumi Sankar Monitor lizard Shore pit viper Hi Sankar, hello Sumi! Tell us about the Naked Hermit Crabs and your role as Crabs (i.e. volunteer guide)? The Naked Hermit Crabs are a group of volunteer guides who conduct free guided treks at Singapore’s shores such as Chek Jawa, Pulau Semakau, Kusu Island. We also organise nature walks at the Pasir Ris mangroves frequently. We share about our shores through these walks as people might not know what to look out for when they go there on their own. What are some common misconceptions about our local mangroves? They think that everything’s dead and there’s nothing to see. But the mangrove is a special ecosystem and much more special than it is given credit for. It’s a place full of life and some of the wildlife here can be found nowhere else in the world. We should be patriotic about it because these are Singaporean animals and they’re as Singaporean as you and me. The other misconception is that these forests have no value. A lot of these plants are actually used for medicine and many of them have yet to be studied. Who knows the cure for AIDs and cancer could be sitting in our very own backyard? What are residents usually most surprised to learn on the treks? Many residents have lived here for a long time but have never visited the Pasir Ris Mangrove. When they come here, they’re surprised to find animals because many don’t associate biodiversity with Singapore. When they see nature (i.e. spotting crabs and large birds) happening in front of them, they’re amazed. And being Singaporeans, the first thing they ask is “this one can eat or not?” People usually associate illegal hunting with larger animals like tigers or whales. Are there any forms of poaching that goes on within these mangroves? Illegal fishing is one problem. People will tie crab traps with pieces of chicken in it to the boardwalk. If we encounter the traps, we’ll remove them because it might accidentally catch other wildlife like a monitor lizard that’s swimming through. Very recently, we encountered a group of young poachers – a bunch of local teenagers – who jumped in to catch a snake. They played with it, tossed it around and later threw it back in. The snake died after that.12 vibes

Hearttoheartthe Mangrove Bug’s life Other than poaching, what other things do people do unknowinglyGrey Heron that’s hurting the ecosystem? There’s always the issue of marine trash. A lot of the trash we see in the mangroves isn’t actually caused by littering. Most of it is washed in by the tide. What’s done outside of these mangroves and outside of Singapore has an impact, so it’s something everyone should know. Another problem is that people illegally release animals that are not supposed to be inside the ecosystem. Those terrapins people buy as pets are the most common, or during Vesak Day when people “mercy” release loads of fish that don’t belong in these waters. 90% of them die as a result. Furthermore, they out-compete local species and do a lot of damage to the ecosystem. Your outreach efforts are mainly to families and the kids. Is it better to cultivate the awareness at a young age? Yes, it’s definitely better to start young before kids become out of tune with nature. While I don’t think it’s a “lost cause” to start later, it’s an advantage to gain awareness when they’re younger because the children will grow to develop a sense of ownership for the environment. Indirectly, it creates value for the ecosystem. Years down the road, they’ll remember the good times they’ve had at the mangroves and remember that this is a place they must protect if they want their own kids to have the same kind of fun they’ve had. To those who argue that because of land scarcity, these habitats should be reclaimed for more practical stuff like roads and buildings. What are your thoughts? Realistically speaking, this place is not a nature reserve, so any time when it’s convenient or necessary, it can get torn down or come under threat. There’s always the same constant fear of it being cleared. When that happens, all the animals and living creatures will lose their homes. It’s entirely possible that this scenario could happen so we’re raising awareness on this and lobbying to preserve this habitat for them. What’s the value behind protecting the mangroves and how can regular people like us do our part? Other than it being the home of many species of wildlife, the mangroves is a place where people can learn, relax and enjoy with their loved ones. Studies have also shown that being close to nature helps with the overall health and well-being. If you want to help preserve the mangroves, you can take ownership by writing in to the newspapers or National Parks. If you’ve enjoyed your time there, simply take a few moments to share your reflections or blog about them. It’s one of the best ways to give the mangroves a voice as the positive feedback generates positive value for them. Keen to join the Naked Hermit vibes 13 Crabs on a free guided tour? Go to www.nakedhermitcrabs.blogspot.com for their schedule!Credits: Photo of Buffy Fish Owl (cover) by Sean Yap, Photo of Grey Heron (story) by the Naked Hermit Crabs

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Hearttoheart Jenny Wee Owner of TRESSES by Nails & Brows and MANICURED by Nails & Brows | Mama ofA microbiologist by training, Jenny quit her teaching job upon arrival of her first child 13 years ago. The veteranmumpreneur later went on to distribute baby hammocks and children’s books, design baby slings and even started an onlineparenting forum, before getting into her current beauty business.You were a mumpreneur even before there was such a term. road of a mumpreneur will be easy! It’s more taxing than a full-time jobHow different was it back then and now? because you have to manage your kids and business at the same time.There weren’t many mumpreneurs back then and I didn’t have a You’re passionate aboutlot of support. My friends (also mums) couldn’t understand my community work andproblems as a business woman, while my entrepreneur friends have found a way to givedidn’t get that I had my children to consider. In terms of support back with Nails & Brows.and recognition, it’s gotten much better. There’s a platform of I feel that when you’vepeople who understand you, and will share their resources and made a difference inexperiences with you so you don’t feel so alone. someone else’s life, that’sAfter 13 years, have your priorities as a mumpreneur evolved where you find valuein any way? in your own existence.The main principle hasn’t changed – but you learn to adjust your Even when running aexpectations. For mumpreneurs, we’re both a mum and a business business, it’s alwayswoman, so our definition of success hinges upon these two things. been about serving theAfter some years, you tend to be less hard on yourself, so even if community. We’re a smallthey (business or children) don’t meet your expectations fully, it’s neighbourhood shop but Iok. feel we can do more. EveryMany mums like you end up starting businesses that’s year, we adopt a charitycompletely different than what they’ve been doing. Any organisation and haveadvice you can give from your experience? partnered with the BoneFirst, do good market research. Your service or product isn’t Marrow Donor Programme and Project Happy Feet. automatically needed by everyone just because Currently we give free you feel there’s a market gap. Second, know monthly haircuts to the when to pull the plug if the idea proves to be residents at Cerebral Palsy unsustainable. Third, don’t go in thinking the Alliance Singapore. You also wish to A portmanteau of “mum” and “entrepr encourage more mums to who set up and manage their own bu do volunteer work! time mothers. These five mums* unan Doing community work has mumpreneur is how she’s always a mo improved my outlook in later, even though she’s effectively bo life and has made me more these amazing women are involved in resilient. It has helped me in my journey as a mum and I’m less myopic in my views. From my involvement, my children also get to learn about adversity, about helping others and to be positive.Adeline OonOwner of Adeline’s Loft | Mama ofBefore she had her hand in jewellery making, Adeline was the popular ‘Accidental Mom Blogger’ who chronicled hermotherhood journey on her blog. The mother of two teenagers shares her growth as a jewellery artist.Describe the form of mumpreneurship you’re involved in. Is there a vision behind your jewellery creations?I’m a one-woman show, tapping on my passion for jewellery Everyone has their own personality. My vision is to create uniquecrafting. My works are usually commissioned from clients who’re pieces that compliment the personality of its owners. Personally,looking for bespoke lifestyle jewellery pieces. I’m drawn to Avant Garde creations. However, I’m always open to experimenting with different styles.What were your motivations for starting this business?My children are my world and my family is always my priority. You said it has taken you some years to understand the trueHaving this business allows me to be there for them, yet also meaning behind handmade jewelleries. What did you discover?have my own personal fund to sustain the costs essential to my Handmade jewellery, or other handmade products for that matter,jewellery crafting. In return, it helps me maintain my self-worth are labours of love. As a handmade artist, I care and value what I do.and cultivates positive emotional growth as a stay-at-home mum. They may cost more than mass produced pieces, but I would go the12 vibes *Contacts in this article are provided by Mums@Work Singapore. Mums@Work supports women seeking

Ruth Wong HearttoheartFounder of PhiloSOULphy | Mama ofCurrently a freelance writer and certified life coach, becoming a mumpreneur was Ruth’s way of fulfilling her role as a mumwhile doing passion-based work that aligns with her values. She now dedicates her time towards helping other womencreate a life of purpose, passion and abundance.You were a successful writer before you had your child. Were From motherhood, you eventually forayed into mumpreneurshipthere any doubts or fears you had transitioning into the role of a with a focus on empowering women and their lives. Tell us more about PhiloSOULphy and your role as a life coach. full-time mum? About two years into motherhood, I started to feel a little restless. When I first started I wanted to do something else besides writing but had no idea freelance writing, one of the what. I have a degree in social work and was a social worker for a reasons was that I knew I few years. I’m drawn to work that allows me to make a difference in was going to be a stay-at- other people’s lives. At the same time, I also value time flexibility and home mum and wanted to creative freedom. Some of the things I’ve tried include becoming a make the transition before rather successful mom blogger before eventually finding my way to the child arrives. However, coaching. I started coaching with a focus on helping mums. Today, I didn’t expect to love my I’m on a mission to support women to live their dreams by helping work so much that at one them to heal their past, gain clarity about what they want, and point, I didn’t feel like I overcome their inner roadblocks such as fears and limiting beliefs so wanted to have a child that they can create an amazing life they love and enjoy greater joy, anymore because I thought purpose and fulfillment. it would mean having to You believe strongly that mothers should nurture themselves give up my lifestyle and the and work on their passions even as they’re raising kids. Why so? work I came to enjoy. I was Some mums give up their passion and dreams and begin to pin all afraid of losing my freedom, their hopes on their kids. We should remember that our kids are not afraid of having to let go of here to live our dreams. They should have the choice to pursue their my dreams and passion. own passion and dreams. Did your perspective I think one solution is to find a balance between caring for your change after your son children and making time for yourself. It doesn’t have to be an was born? What has “either or”. There’s always a way to having what we want. It starts motherhood given you? with what you believe to be possible or not. Motherhood constantly offers me new experiences, and adds greater meaning and depth to my life. It enriches who I am as a woman. Becoming a mum was a new chapter of my life, a new stage of growth, and a chance to reinvent myself.reneur”, mumpreneurs are women Life is very different now asusiness in addition to being full- a mum. I never imagined Inimously agree that what defines a could love another humanother first, and a business woman being as much as I loveoth at the same time. Find out what my son. My son is literallyn, why, and how they do it. a precious gift to me - he was born three weeks early so that we can both share the same birthday! I’m still pretty amazed till this day. extra mile to provide personalised services and build relationships with my vibes 13 clients – this is how I differentiate myself! Are there any advice you’d like to give to mums who are aspiring blogshop owners? Truly, nothing is ever easy when you’re starting out. Whether or not an online shop is successful depends how ambitious you are. Personally, I believe that there’re three key ingredients to be successful. Passion – Believe in yourself and love what you do. Perseverance – Stay true to your beliefs and be resilient in overcoming obstacles. Success does not happen overnight. Sincerity – Build a positive online presence, earn trust, and connect with your clients.work-family balance through Flexible Work Arrangements, Mumpreneur Activities and more.

Hearttoheart Karen Ang Founder of LearnMOJO | Mama of Two years ago, Karen left her job at a community hospital to be a stay-at-home mum to her two kids. If there’s one thing this new mumpreneur has learned, it’s that it’s alright to feel that things are falling apart sometimes. Please share about LearnMOJO! I was a History and Social Studies teacher for eight years. LearnMOJO was a way for me to share my accumulated experience, and to equip students (and parents) with the resources they need to cope and thrive in their studies. You began your mumpreneurship with LearnMOJO and as an online tutor. Why forgo the route of traditional tuition in favour of e-learning? I wanted to find a creative solution from whatever that’s available. Currently, I give both online and offline tuition but find e-learning effective because it’s flexible. Students have a lot of demands and might not have the time to attend scheduled tuition, so I craft a plan based on their needs instead. It’s not as impersonal as you’d think because we check-in pretty often through modes like telephone calls, video calls etc. There’s the impression that online tutors have it easier because they don’t have to see the students. I can see why people would think that. In reality, there’s a lot of invisible work that goes behind remote learning. For example,Sophia Loy Do you do all the baking yourself? I have part-time staff and many of them are actually stay-at-homeOwner of Petite Bakehouse | Mama of mums. Having the mothers around is great because we have similar schedules. The shop closes between 12-4pm (after-schoolEven after two years, residents still ask Sophia if her shop in hours) and we use the time to tend to our children.Anchorvale is new. The ex-graphic designer confessed sheused to “hate baking” because it was “a hassle”. Now, the You also hold classes for anybody interested in baking. Manyexpert baker has a legion of housewives joining her in her people in the food business are usually protective over theirmission to serve petite handmade treats to the masses. recipes but it seems like you embrace a culture of sharing and teaching.How would you describe Petite Bakehouse? I tend to share and not hoard the knowledge to myself. When I goPetite Bakehouse operates as on online bakery gearing towards for courses, I come back and share with my staff if they’re keen topreorders. We take on customised orders so it’s more of a specialty learn. My recipes are open for them to follow. The fact is the samecake shop than a neighbourhood bakery. Our concept is to go small recipe can yield different results from different people that’s whybecause because with petite bakes, you can have variety. there’re cook books!Why turn to baking? Petite Bakes has plans to engage the community in the comingAfter my youngest child turned four, I started to wonder what months! Care to share?I wanted for myself. I contemplated going back to publishing Our motto is “Bakes to Bond, Share Your Love”, so I’m lookingbut with the influx of new software and young designers, it was to create sessions for families to come and decorate cakes oroverwhelming. As a full-time mum, I couldn’t do freelance because it cupcakes together. That’s what I’m trying to do for the residentsneeded me to be at the office, and I also didn’t have the software to around here, so look out for it soon!work from home.As my family owns a food business, I began toying with the idea ofhaving my own shop. My intention was to make bread, but I couldn’tbake. So the course I went for taught me to bake bread, cakes andpastries, and I realised it wasn’t that difficult! My background indesign was actually advantageous in terms of cake aesthetics.14 vibes

when marking a student’s work, I have to be very Allegro Education Centre has been are locatedWine aPurneggol! deliberate in the way I comment so that they can established in Punggol since 2008. giving understand almost instantaneously as I don’t get Celebrating its 8th Anniversary, we to sit with them and get the instant feedback. away Popular Vouchers for three months period from June-August. Now you’re actually pretty new to this whole mumpreneur concept. It was just two years Allegro Education Centre prides itself as a Tuition Centre which truly ago you left your day job to be a full-time cares for the improvement of every student. Monitoring of progress mum. Why? in relation to subjects taken and consistent feedback to parents with I decided to quit because I felt that my kids were dedicated teaching from the tutors and quality worksheets which at that age where they needed me more than meet the school standards to excel in the respective subjects. ever; to teach them about values, about life andjust to watch them grow. While I really enjoyed my job, I had to ask • Tuition In Primary Subjects - English, Chinese, Maths and Sciencemyself what’s more important? • Tuition In Secondary English and Secondary Maths • Tuition In English Creative WritingHow did your children react? • Effective Small Group TeachingKaren: Matt (9-years-old), how did you feel when mummy told you • Conducive Classroom SettingI was going to quit my hospital job? • Dedicated TutorsMatt: Happy, because I can spend time with you. • Guaranteed Results *Karen: But won’t I nag at you more? • Registered withMatt: At least you can bring me out… and also book vacations! Ministry of EducationSo far, working from home has been… Read up on our latest happenings and promotions onChallenging and rewarding! I’m learning about myself, and www.facebook.com/allegroeducationlearning to balance the different aspects of work and family life.I meet up with a group of freelancers to help keep one another Allegro Education Centre:accountable to the work we said we’d do. There are good and bad Blk 198 Punggol Field #02-05 Singapore 820198days, but I’m grateful for the opportunity and wouldn’t give it up (opp COVE LRT)for anything else! www.allegroeducation.com, Email: [email protected] 9889 0533 Don’t Waste Water! It is precious. It is the source of life. vibes 15

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Where ?Hearttoheart are They Now The Rahman Family15 years ago, the Rahmans caught our attention with their largefamily of seven. Sharing their unique joys and challenges of raisingfive children, Mr and Mrs Rahman also said they’ll never considermoving out of Pasir Ris – and they never did! Their entourage mayhave expanded considerably, but one thing that hasn’t changed ishow closely-knit the family still is.12 vibes Featured in: Issue 16 • When: March 2001

HearttoheartMuhammad Umar, 29A carefree secondary two student 15 years ago, Umar now carries the weight of the eldestson and feels responsible for the wellbeing of his siblings and his aging parents. The father ofone works at SCDF as a Disaster Assistance Rescue Team (DART) Specialist, and remembersthe frenzy when the newsletter was circulated on the now-ancient ‘Friendster’ (wow).Muhammad Othman, 25 Abu Bakar, 27 Siti Aishah, 32Working at the Ministry of Home Affairs, Othman is most proud of how The first to get married, Abu She was taking her O levelswell his parents have brought him and his siblings up. His goal in life? Bakar is now daddy to three the year the newsletter cameTo “discipline my children like how my parents disciplined us”. While kids. A self-described bad out. Oldest child Aishah feelsrunning and wrestling were his childhood staple, he observes the current boy, he was once touted as “overwhelmed” upon realisinggeneration’s obsession with IT and hopes they will learn to limit their someone who would never how much her brothersusage. succeed in life. He is now the have grown! Now a mother youngest safety manager of two bubbly boys, sheMuhammad Ali, 24 handling one of the biggest says she now understands projects in Singapore – the real responsibility and hasThe baby of the family, Ali is now studying Mechanical Engineering Terminal 5 Airport. Because of come to see how much theirat the Singapore Institute of Technology. Only nine years old back his work, he understands the parents have sacrificed. Athen, he was blissfully unaware that his family photo had been on importance of Mandarin and bank officer at DBS, she nowthe cover of Vibes and distributed to the entire town. One of his has made learning it a priority lives in Tampines with herfondest memories as a child was going to Changi Airport with this in his family. family.family to gaze at airplanes while drinking bandung. Ali intendsto pursue his childhood ambitions of becoming a pilot aftergraduation.Haji Rahman, 61 and Hajjah Habsah, 57It was all about the kids back then. Now that they’re all grown up, Mr and Mrs Rahmanhave more time for themselves but choose to spend their days working to keep theirbodies and minds active. Mr Rahman is now a senior operations manager, while MrsRahman works at HDB Sengkang Branch as an admin executive; she’s been with HDB for37 years! Like how their family has changed, they say that Pasir Ris has evolved too andappreciates the improvements around the estate. vibes 13

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HearttoheartEAT DO GO EATCravings Keep Tongues Waggin’Serving hand crafted desserts by Attention pet owners! Ifhome bakers and professional chefs, you’ve always wanted toCravings is your go-to spot for bring your fur kids outa sweet time. Try their popular café-hopping, Keep TonguesCheesecake for just $3.90, or their Waggin’ is a place you cannotIce Cream Waffle ($10.90) that’s miss. Don’t let the funnytopped with two scoops of premium name fool you, for their itemsice cream or gelato. The friendly café like the Black Angus Ribeyeopens till 1am for those who want to 200g ($36) are daily sell-outs.stay out late. Night owls and sweet tooths, Other recommended dishestake note! are the Japanese-inspired Seafood Pasta ($28) and the 6 Tebing Lane, #01-05 Atlantic Black Cod ($32). 4pm – 1am (Wed – Sun) The Punggol Settlement, #01-11/12Georges @ The Cove 11am – 10pm (Tue – Thu) 11am – 12 am (Fri – Sun)Escape the crowd and immerse in a beachfront diningexperience at Georges @ The Cove, aka Your Friendly Ohana Beach HouseNeighbourhood Bar. The bistro offers a variety of Western andAsian fare, from their signature Georges Cop The Lot Burger Ohana Beach House is an idyllic bistro that offers a stunning view($17.90) to the homely Seafood Mee Goreng ($10.90). Their of the sea whilst dining alfresco. Their eclectic menu features all-assurance to you is simple: “No time favourites like the Truffle Fries, specialty Jack Daniel Wingsgood, don’t pay!” and homemade Shrimp Chilli Carrot Cake. After food, unwind with some drinks and a game of darts! 133 Pasir Ris Rd 4pm – 1am (Mon – Thu) 3pm – 1am (Fri, Sat & PH) 3pm – 12am (Sun)Izakaya 95 131 Pasir Ris Rd (Pasir Ris Park Carpark E)Specialising in yakitori (charcoal-grilled skewers), Izakaya 95allows you to indulge in quality traditional Japanese food atdecent prices. Try the five-stick Meat Set ($19), which consistsof Bacon Asparagus, Bacon Enoki, Smoked Duck, Pork Bellyand Chicken & Leek. Customers can expect an extensive menuranging from appetisers to mains, and even a sophisticatedselection of drinks. The Punggol Settlement, #02-05 5pm – 12am (Tue – Fri) 1.30pm – 12am (Sat) 12.30pm – 12am (Sun & PH)14 vibes

Running out of ideas? HearttoheartVibes has compiled a list to get Umairah Bafana us inspired again! Pasir Ris Resident DOVintage Shopping Futuristic BowlingRummage through With its cosmic-themed nights, bowling at Punggol SAFRA justtheir stacks and racks got more interesting. Gather your friends and family for someof clothes, shoes, bags, luminous fun at Orchid Bowl featuring glowing balls, disco lightstoys and electronics and and thumping dance music. The stimulating ambience will makeyou might just score you feel like you’re bowling in either a spaceship or a club.yourself a second-handsteal at the Something Cosmic Bowling Nite @ Orchid BowlOld, Something New Punggol SAFRA, #05-03thrift store. Best for 7pm – 3am (Fri & Sat)vintage lovers, bargainhunters and shopping Play TAGmall avoiders. “Workout” and “fun” don’t always have to be mutually exclusive. Something Old, Something New Instead of spending another weekend at the movies, opt for an 534 Pasir Ris Dr 1, #01-266 interactive day out with your pals with a thrilling game of laser 9am – 4pm (Mon – Sat) tag or laser sword tag at TAG TEAM’s fully air-conditioned centre at Downtown East.Leather CraftingD.I.Y. is all the rage these days and if you’re itching to pick up anew skill, BE: Leather Lab is offering home-based workshops tothose interested in leather crafting. Slice, stitch and bring homepersonalised leather works like cardholders, passport holdersand wallets in a day. Because of its heartland proximity, you canexpect BE: Leather Lab’s workshops to be much cheaper thanthose offered in town. BE: Leather Lab 555 Pasir Ris St 51 From $26 onwards. Classes by appointment only.Build A Terrarium TAG TEAM Downtown East E!hub, #04-103Terrariums are great for adding a little 12pm – 8pm (Wed – Fri)greenery to an indoor space. Build your own 11am –7pm (Weekends & PH)forest-in-a jar at A Tilly A Day, where you’llhow to make (and care for) a terrarium on the vibes 15spot! The shop allows walk-ins and offers DIYpackages from $15–$38. Those who preferother vessels can also buy the materialsseparately. A Tilly A Day Waterway Point, #02-03 (West Wing) 10.30 am – 9.30pm (Mon – Sun)

Hearttoheart GOThe BumboatWith only a handful of retro playgrounds left in Singapore,explore Pasir Ris’s last terrazzo and mosaic-tile beauty while it’sstill around. Such playgrounds are an integral part of our history,heritage and culture, and just as importantly, our childhood. Timeto get sentimental! Pasir Ris is also home to the ElephantDID YOU playground. However, it’s locked within the compound of the now- defunct Home Team Pasir Ris ChaletsKNOW? and inaccessible to the public. Bumboat Playground 625 Elias Rd Instagram-Worthy Spots Go on a trail to visit some of Punggol’s most iconic photography spots. While the original “Punggol Instagram Tree” has been removed in 2015, it has a successor (the 2nd Gen Instagram Tree) just 25m away from the original. In the same park, you can also find the romantic-looking lalang field and a charming wall mural depicting robots. Punggol Waterway ParkLargest Fire Station in Singapore Singapore’s Last KampongSingapore’s biggest fire station is right in our GRC, and you can A taste of old Singapore can be found at Kampong Lorongtour it for free. Sengkang Fire Station holds educational open Buangkok, the last surviving kampong in Singapore. Get ready tohouses every weekend for you to learn about the in-and-outs of step back in time as you explore this piece of undisturbed, rusticthe life saving force. While we’ve been told you won’t be allowed haven home to some 30 families still living the ways of a village.to slide down the pole, it’s definitely still worth a visit. True in all senses, visiting this kampong will be a breath of fresh air. Sengkang Fire Station 50 Buangkok Dr Kampong Lorong Buangkok 9am – 11am (Sat) 7 Lor Buangkok16 vibes