Kofi Aidoo Andah funeral book

IN LOVING MEMORY Kofi Aidoo Andah 1966 -2021 Your footsteps can never be filled, nor your love ever forgotten Date: July 9, 2021 Venue: All Souls Chapel, Lashibi Funeral Home Time: 7:30 am Scan Me

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Order of Service OFFICIATING MINISTERS - Superintendent Minister, Calvary Meth.Church, Adabraka 1. Very Rev. Dr. Samuel Dua Dodd - Circuit Minister, Calvary Meth. Church, Adabraka 2. Very Rev. Christopher Atta- Cudjoe - Circuit Minister, Calvary Meth. Church,Adabraka 3. Rev. Godfred Amoo Cudjoe - Supernumerary,Meth. Church, Anaji Circuit 4. Very Rev. T.K. Anderson - Minister in Charge- Presbyterian Church,West Legon 5. Rev. Herbert Anim Opong - Cathedral Administrator- Holy Spirit Cathedral, Accra 6. Very Rev. Fr. Clement Wilson - General Overseer- Word of Life Christian Center, Accra 7. Rev. Dr. Isaac Quaye CHOIR GRACE CHORALE INTERNATIONAL PART 1 : PRE-BURIAL SERVICE AT 7:30 AM 11. Apostles' Creed PART III : AT THE GRAVESIDE 1. Procession Choir 12. Soloist Lordina the Soprano 2. Opening Hymn MHB 1 13. Offering: Grace Chorale Int. 1. Hymn MHB 975 2. Committal MHB 976 3. Prayers 14. Hymn MHB831 3. Prayer CAN 2 3. Hymn 4. Filing Past & Tributes MHB 427,601,511,528,432 15. Service of Commemoration 4. Hymn 5. Benediction 5. Covering of Casket and Commendation PART II : BURIAL SERVICE AT 8:30 AM 16. The Lord's Prayer 1. Sentences 17. Announcement 2. Hymn MHB363 18. Song (ODADEE 84) PRESEC OLD BOYS 3. Prayer 19. Vote of Thanks 4. Hymn MHB 422 20. Hymn MHB 608 5. Biography 21. Closing Hymn MHB 679 6. Soloist Lordina the Soprano 22. Benediction 7. Tributes 23. Dead March 8. Scripture Reading 1: Psalm 90 vs 1-12 24. Recession MHB 651 2: John 14 vs 1-6, 27 9. Hymn MHB 878 10. Sermon 3 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

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“Let no one weep for me, or celebrate my funeral with mourning; for I still live, as I pass to and fro through the mouth of men.” (Quintus Ennius) he late Kofi Aidoo Andah, also Kofi left Ghana for the UK in 1997 for a year known as Papa Aidoo, and popularly and obtained an Advanced Certificate in referred to as 'Mackstone' was born Marketing from the Chartered Institute of in Accra on the 9th of December 1966 to Mr. Marketing UK in 1998. He returned to the Peter Okai Andah and Mrs. Grace Andah. He UK in 2000 to the Institute of Commercial was the youngest of their children. Management and was awarded a Diploma in Management Studies. He then proceeded He started his education at Radiant Way to gain a Master's degree in Marketing from Preparatory School and later in 1978 he the University of Leicester in 2001. transferred to Bethel Academy Preparatory School where he sat and passed the Common After his Master's degree he worked with Entrance examination. He gained admission B&Q PLC, UK as a Customer Care Advisor into Presbyterian Boy's Secondary School and later as an Advertising Application and (PRESEC) where he completed his Ordinary Client Manager. On his return to Ghana, level (O level) in 1984. He then undertook his Kofi worked with Feligames Ghana Limited Advanced level (A level) examination at Apam as a Sales Manager and later with Ghana Secondary School. After his “A” levels he Tote Limited as a Marketing Manager from worked with his father at P.O. Andah 2004 to 2007. He was a member of the Associates, (the pioneer tax consulting Chartered Institute of Marketing Ghana practice) and whilst there he simultaneously (CIMG). undertook ICT training at HiTech Business Services. 5 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

In 2008, he joined SIC Insurance Company 6 Limited as an Assistant Manager and was posted to the Sales & Marketing Department. In the year 2010 he was promoted to Manager and transferred to the Corporate and Special Risk Department. In 2012 he was appointed Acting Head, Retail Relations Department. From 2014 to 2018 he worked in the Sales and Marketing Department and was later transferred to head the Marketing Unit of the Tema Area Office. In 2020, Kofi was elected the vice President of the SIC Managers' Association. Until his demise he was a Manager at the Sales & Marketing Department of the Ring Road West Office. Kofi naturally took full responsibility for the planning and organizing of the yearly nuclear and extended Andah family New Year lunch parties. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

He ensured that the date, venue and time for Each member of the nuclear and extended part of going to the stadium. In every events were carefully chosen and promptly family had a special relationship with him, neighborhood he lived, Kofi had a nickname communicated to all family members. He was be they uncles, aunties, cousins, nephews, some were “Wasto”, “Stoner”, “Wastoniama” the Andah family archivist and had an nieces and brothers/sisters-in-law. and “Stone”. encyclopedic mind, he could regurgitate the birthdays of each family member with ease. Kofi was a keen sports enthusiast. He did He was also an avid Manchester United fan track and field as well as playing hockey and and was emotionally invested in every match Kofi was a larger than life character both soccer for Riis House (5) at Presec-Legon. In they played. When Man U lost a match, he literally (he was physically imposing and the soccer his favorite position was defence. In lost his appetite. He was convinced that strongest just by inspection) and secondary school and after, Kofi would anytime Man U was losing a match and he metaphorically he was the glue that bound the organize neighbourhood football matches stopped watching they ended up winning and Andah family. He was the de facto Secretary and commute from Ridge, Teshie-Nungua, so he stuck to this format even though it did General of the wider Andah family. He would Dome, North Kaneshie and East Legon to not always work. Kotoko and Man U have often sign off his notices to family with– From play and watch football with friends. lost a loyal fan. the Office of the Secretary General- and without fail was quick to correct any family He was a good organizer and as player, He had an uncanny ability to connect with his member who addressed him as General captain cum coach all rolled into one, team peers, seniors and people from all walks of Secretary insisting there was a vast difference members all looked up to him at team life. This gift of his was simply phenomenal. in prestige and would readily refer you to the selection. His love for soccer led him to In his interactions he often left a good and late Kofi Annan's position when he was head of organize friends to undertake trips to lasting impression. He was a good listener, the UN. He was the go to guy because he was Kumasi on several occasions to watch soccer peace maker and would provide solid advice very helpful and accommodating. matches between his favourite club, Asante whenever the need arose. Kotoko and Accra Hearts of Oak and spend Kofi kept a close bond with his maternal quality time with family and friends at Kofi met his wife Sheila Opong – Sampong in family, the Aidoos'. He made every effort to KNUST. He was a regular at the Accra 1990 and in 2000 he formalized their stay in touch with his cousins most of whom Sports Stadium. relationship in the traditional marriage were female and he always benefited from ceremony. Their union was solemnized in their excellent culinary skills when he visited Before or after every match, Kofi would 2004 and they were blessed with three them. organize a food feast and that was the fun children; Araba Kweiba, Kweku Issiw and Kobena Aidoo. 7 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Kofi was a problem solver, peace maker, a gentle giant with a big heart. Simply put he was a man of many parts. We will all miss him. Kofi became ill and was admitted to Korle Bu Teaching Hospital, but unfortunately he passed away on the 25th of May at dawn. Kofi, Papa Aidoo, Osofo Aidoo (after his maternal grandfather, the late Rev. Dr Aidoo of the Methodist Church) Mackstone, Stone, Pizzaaro, Pizza, Wasto, Cisco, Adjei, Adjeious, Afro Gbede, Secretary General, Rest in Perfect Peace. In Loving memory of thIneLlaotveinKgOmFIeAmIDorOyOofAthNeDlAaHte KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 8

TRIBUTE FROM WIFE (SHEILA) Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal (Isaiah 35:10) ofi passed” keeps ringing in my you are doing and that is how I take some head and I can still visualize the consolation. Your will be done. Doctor's face as he spoke those words to me. “Kofi passed?” “Doc what are you We have been together for 31 years. We used telling me?” It's still a bad dream I need to to joke that you have known me 'all my wake up from. We spoke the night before and adult life'. had a little laugh about the water you would drink at 11pm that night. Was that your good You were gregarious and ebullient and I was bye Papa Aidoo? Why didn't you tell me it was the calmer, quiet one. I remember some of our last time together? Why did God call you your Presec mates teasing you about how at this time when our children are still in their you were with someone so calm when you teens, when we had so much to look forward were the exact opposite. to, when there was so much we still had to share? These and many more are questions I Maybe that is why we were a great match for have on my lips and in my heart but I have each other. You were popular, 'The great faith and believe that our God who is the Mackstone' to them, but to me you were just author of our lives, in His omniscience will Papa Aidoo, the guy I fell in love with all reveal these answers to me in time. Dear God, those years ago, who loved and respected in the Good Book you said that you knew us me, the one who was there for me in before we were formed. The plans you have for exceedingly difficult times and was my us are for good and not for evil, so in all my biggest cheerleader as I progressed in my pain and heartache I trust that you know what academic and professional life. 9 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

You protected me from the time we met and I 10 always felt safe when you were around. When my Dad passed two years ago you were my pillar and rock and helped me get through the dark days. You were meticulous and preferred to write everything down on paper. You would rather drive to Ghana Water Co. to pay a bill than use an app. You would rather stay patiently in traffic than use the 'apia ways' which I used joyfully. The kids looked forward to the Friday waakye, shitolo, grilled pork, khebabs and all the local foods you bought at the 'special joints'. You were always looking out for the best local food joint. You knew all the back stories of Holy Child School (my alma mater) and recounted events and anecdotes about teachers in the school as if you were a former student. You adopted 'blue print' as your year group. In Holy Child School every year group had a colour print. You never forgot birthdays and milestones and I always wondered why you almost had an obsession with those details and managed to retain all that information. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

We watched EPL together and friends always you again. However, I know I will see you in your siblings and the entire family. I pray for told you how fortunate you were to have a wife our beautiful children; a smile, a look, a God's strength to carry on without you. Please who watched football with you. You were very quirk. tell God to send His angels to encamp around impressed with my knowledge of football and us, order our steps as we journey on without after I made a comment on a tactic or Since your passing, I have heard so many you. mentioned a player's name you would say 'Eeii! touching stories from your colleagues and This is really a lot to bear but I believe you are Enye bad ooo.' We were however always on friends. All these make me appreciate even in a better place. You will forever be my Papa opposing sides and I teased you a lot anytime more, how special you were. I am blessed to Aidoo, Adjei, Astowaza, Stone, Mackstone. Man Utd lost. I got to love tennis because of have shared this journey with you. I wish You will forever be in the hearts of myself, you. I adored Federer you loved Nadal. Serena you had stayed on much longer. I remember Kweiba , Kweku and Nana Aidoo. was our common denominator in tennis. I'll when we had our first child and friends said As long as I live you will live in our hearts, you miss watching all those football and tennis she looked so much like me, you didn't want will be loved and remembered. My mind still matches with you. We loved to dance and I'll to be left out so you always told them to look talks to you and my heart still looks for you miss how we would always try to outdo each at her toes and fingers for some resemblance but my soul knows you are at peace. other to the amusement of the children. to you, like seriously? Nevertheless, Saf Rest in perfect peace my love always assured you that Kweiba looked very God be with you till we meet again You had a nickname for everyone and you had much like you. several for me depending on your mood. You were fun loving and boisterous yet quiet and I wish I was prepared for this. I wish I knew private. You recounted your Presec days with a that 24th May was the last day we would be lot of nostalgia. You made friends wherever speaking. We would have had a proper good you found yourself. You were disciplined, prim bye. I take solace in the fact that the last and proper, trust worthy and had a listening thing we did at the hospital was praying ear. Always had a joke to whisper in someone's together after which we shared a joke about ear. the water you were going to drink at 11pm that night. God knows why He allowed this I have so many memories, stories and songs to happen. My prayer is that our creator, the which will keep me thinking of and missing Alpha and Omega sends his Holy Spirit to you every single day. I still cannot wrap my comfort me, the children, Mama, Dada, head around the fact that I will not be seeing 11 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

TRIBUTE FROM DAUGHTER (Araba Kweiba) He was my North, my South, my East I was stubborn as usual, and I suffered and West countless foot burns. Now I'll remember you every time I pick up a pair of slippers. My working week and my Sunday rest, My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song 'Abaru Kwei'! this is the nickname that was echoed in the house every time I got back I thought that love would last forever: from school. How did this name come but I was wrong about? Well, that is a story for another day. I (W. H Auden) used to find the name embarrassing but I grew to love it. I used to call you “Koo” and ackstone or Stone as many rub my hands over your bald head when called him was my Daddy and sitting behind you in the car. We had our one of my biggest fans. He was dancing sessions when I was the expert in strict but incredibly funny and we loved him 'Azonto' and you tried to copy my moves for that. Although I did not like to show my hilariously. affection sometimes, today I am here to tell you how much you were appreciated. I remember when you used to try to figure out something or other on your phone and One thing I'll miss was his constant need to you would go 'Kweiba, how can I…?' I would impress us by always being on the lookout for just take it from you and quickly sort new restaurants. Those early morning kenkey, whatever it was out, and hand it back with a waakye and koko runs. Nothing is better than smug smile and you would say 'Ei waa y1 jwe that fresh food smell at 8 am. o' and then just laugh. He also had this obsession with us wearing slippers anytime we stepped out. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 12

More recently when I went to secondary school troubled by your death but rejoice in the you and Mummy would visit and would laugh Lord because it is all part of His big great nonstop as I gobbled down the 'smuggled food' plan. Proverbs 3:5-6 states that we should behind the car before heading back to my trust the Lord with all our hearts and not dormitory. lean upon our own understanding. I have hope that everything will work out and you I have always been told I look more like my should too. mother, but Daddy just would not have it. He would always add a comment like 'oh can't you I believe you are smiling at us this very see she has my structure?' or 'look at her feet'. moment. Nenyi, Nana Aidoo and I will He just had to have some of the credit! strive to be the best we can be so you will be extremely proud of us. When I say he was one of my favourite people in this world, it would be an understatement. We will be strong just like you would want Daddy would always call me to try on new us to be. We love you!! clothes so he could comment on each outfit. I Sleep well in the Lord Daddy. often acted like I did not want to but those were truly some of our most precious moments. Daddy liked to show that he knew what was popular among the youth. He would bring a pen drive full of new songs and ask me to play them. It was evident that he got excited when I was shocked that he played some of my favourites. He loved to see us happy just like we liked to see him happy. We will therefore not be 13 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

addy, we cannot believe or Daddy when you went on holiday to Who is going to get them for us? We always understand that you are not with Birmingham 2 years ago I called you aside felt safe and loved by you. us anymore. We have been told by and you looked very concerned. I then told You were a strong force in our lives. You everyone that God knows best but we do not you I wanted you to get me a wrist watch were a bit strict with us but always made us understand why that can be. It still feels while you were visiting Auntie Sandra. laugh. unreal. Since you passed there have been so Later you said, you were quite impressed many visitors, coming to our house. We did not with how I 'arranged' the meeting. Maybe Losing you is still awfully hard to believe. realize you knew so many people even though I am already picking some of your 'prim We promise to take care of Mummy, aim anytime we went out together you seemed to and proper' ways. You always looked at me high and do our best in our studies, achieve know everyone on the way. How can one in amazement and say to mummy 'Nana high goals and make you proud wherever person know so many people we wondered? Aidoo is just like me'. I really reminded you are. We pray that God sends us the Holy you of your young self. Spirit to comfort, strengthen and guide us You always had a joke for us and never wanted as we continue our lives without you. any one of us to become taller than you. You You were always large and in charge. We preferred to call me Nenyi and you told me I would have dancing sessions at home and Daddy rest in perfect peace. We will miss could never become taller, but we laughed and Mummy would put up a challenge. That you, but you will be in our hearts forever. challenged you that it will happen by really used to amuse us. Daddy, you know God be with you till we meet again. December and we bet on it. By the way why did Mummy does not know all the food joints: the barber come to trim your bald head? There the waakye, pork and khebabs. Friday Your loving sons – Nenyi and Nana Aidoo was no hair so what was all that about? Daddy evenings especially are going to be you used to admire how I loved to read yet difficult. Whenever we heard the horn, we when I was 'flying' through the books you knew you had returned from work and we would say 'take your time and read otherwise were in for a treat. soon there will be no books left for you to go through'. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 14

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TRIBUTE FROM PARENTS (Dad & Mum) “Fear not for I am with you. Be not dismayed for I am your God. I will strengthen you; I will help you. I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10) t is indeed very painful and almost We will miss his Sunday afternoon calls and surreal to write a tribute to our frequent visits. youngest son when we are in our eighth and ninth decades of life. It is evident from the outpouring of such grief, love and testimonies of his life that Twenty-fifth May 2021 was such a very dark indeed his seemingly brief life was well day in our lives. Our whole world seemed to lived. He made an indelible impression on crash when we were informed about the death his family, friends and co-workers. of our dearest son. As parents we had prayed and trusted God for good news but alas, God's We thank God for giving us such a gem in ways are not our ways. this journey through life. Papa Aidoo handled all our banking issues, Papa Aidoo, you always lived life to the pension claims, purchases, unexpected fullest, but ours will not be the same until hospital visits – in sum he was our ever-ready the day we can see your beautiful smile earthly help and strength in times of need. again. We will miss you so much. Our son had such an infectious and calming To our dear son, Da Yie Nyame mfa wo nsie personality and found solutions to our yiye. seemingly unsurmountable challenges. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 16

Kojo Okai (Flash) TRIBUTE FROM SIBLINGS Kofi Issiw (Stone) “For if we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or die, we are the Lord's”(Rom. 14:8) Papa Aidoo, it is with heavy heart that I write this tribute, I never thought that I would be faced with this task at this time. My kid brother, whose bottle feed I used to warm and feed when Ma was out of the country. I feel a sense of deep loss at your passing. I wish I had smiled with you more often and had said thank you more often for all you used to do for us, especially when you lived with us. In all those years you showed true love, respect and support as a worthy little brother. Anytime I called on you, you were ever ready with your help. We are still in shock and disbelief but who are we to judge. We thank God for the years we spent with you. My little brother, I will never ever forget you. Your body is not with us but we know your spirit is with the Lord. We confess and know that death holds a glorious hope of heaven and this hope gives us a peace that passeth all understanding. We know that one day we will see you again. May the Lord keep you till we meet again. Rest in perfect peace my brother. That wasn't the plan but it always comes down to the fact that God knows best. As the Secretary General, you were to oversee our funerals. You were the kid brother who had a special relationship with everyone who got close to you. As an older brother, I enjoyed seeing you grow up into a man who took his place at the table of respected individuals. The wonderful family you have left behind is a testament to this. I never saw you upset or angry about issues that set others off. You indeed respected your siblings, peers, elders and work mates. You were the life of the party and I remember at your wedding reception, you took to the dance floor showing off your moves. Mum gently nudged me and said, '' get him off the dance floor before he gets into his element, he is the groom and needs to take it easy.'' It is upon death that the stories and testimonies come out to characterize the kind of person one is, your stories have been touching and beautiful and wish I had the chance now to hug you one more time and 17 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

tell you how much I appreciate and care for Who are we to question what has already been Rest well my brother you as a brother. determined by the Most High God, our ways Da yie Afro Gbede, Pizarro, Cisco, Adjei, When your illness manifested, you came to see are not His ways. Adjeous, Stone, Secretary General. me and in your calm demeanor explained your You have gone to join Araba, Kobena, and Till we meet again. plans of getting better. I added my advice and Frances and I know you are in good company the prognosis was good. under the care of the Lord Almighty. Kate Kaadze The news of your death came as a shock to us all since we had seen you not too long ago; but then God knows best and He wanted you home to rest. Though we are grieving, we have memories and stories celebrating your life not only with your immediate family but also with your friends and colleagues. You will forever be in our hearts. May God grant you perfect peace till we meet again. Kweku Brebu (KB) Cisco! Pizarro! Adjei!, Pizza was my buddy and younger brother in every sense of the word. He looked up to me and I could count on him as a trusted confidant, very honest and practical person. Cisco was in his elements when he was with family and friends. He loved to socialize, was a delight to watch on the dancing floor and was a model family man. My brother was a smiling giant and would stand up to bullies who were his seniors in school both at primary and secondary levels and out of school for which I was very comfortable with and proud of. We were a delight to watch on the soccer field as he was our dependable central defender and I the striker. It is worthy to know and note that we never lost a community football challenge match which Lawyer Wallace Bruce Cathline would attest to as we unfortunately didn't have the benefit of the Guiness book of records to document this feat. My visit in the afternoon on Sunday prior to his exit on Tuesday at dawn at the hospital has proven to be very revealing as his unusual welcome on seeing me put things in perspective for me. He exclaimed excitedly (Professor EST Okpolu and I replied Adjei Pizza or Adjei Kpolu!) and that since he was admitted on Saturday, it is me he had been expecting so I asked why that statement as he knows I will In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 18

always have his back (meanwhile I was You were the Secretary General of the Andah your accomplishments and what you stood for massaging his feet as was my practice when he and Aidoo families as you were the glue that in your relatively brief sojourn. was on his sick bed) but he just shrugged it off. bound all of us together. Pizarro, the family is hurting so bad but: We proceeded to have an uninterrupted hearty, It has been unanimously agreed that the title We shall continue praising God through the revealing and very memorable conversation “Secretary General” should be retired so pain, thank Him during the trials, trust Him about everything from childhood memories to would not be available for use by your when we are tempted to lose hope and love Him, current happenings for close to 4 hours successor on account of your contribution to even when He seems distant. excepting intermittent checks from the the unity and strength of both families. At our lowest, God is our hope, at our darkest, medical team. Apparently it was a sendoff and An added layer of pain is experienced when a God is our light, at our weakest, God is our that was the last I saw of my brother. child predeceases both living parents but just strength and at our saddest God is our Adjei, I would treasure the “professorship” you as I saluted Sabata so shall I salute you too as a comforter. conferred on me and would uphold your legacy. sign and mark of appreciation and respect for Papa Aidoo aka Mackstone da yie Kobena Kwei (KK) I'm supposed to write a tribute to my brother, Papa Aidoo (Mackstone), but I'm going to tell you a story. As kids we did everything together, we were in the same class in primary school, I was referred to as 'Kofi's brother' because Mackstone was popular, a crowd puller and a show stopper. Kofi teased me all the way from school at the end of each semester if his grades were better than mine. We were always together and could pass as twins. Stone was taller, bigger and stronger than me which was to my advantage as he protected me from being bullied. I have a special memory of a day I got into trouble with some boys who planned to beat me up after school. We normally walked home from school using a particular route. On this specific day, I insisted that we use a different route which had Stone all puzzled. I had to confess my reason for the change in route after Stone demanded an explanation. His words were \"just follow me\" and guess what... the guys took to their heels when they saw me with Stone and he gave them a chase just to scare them more. Thank you dearest Stone for such wonderful memories. Our bond grew stronger during our teenage years. We always planned where to take our long vacation classes and went against our Dad's choice by choosing a school which was more fun. It was during one of long vacations after form two when we decided to use our Dad's Peugeot 404 safely parked in the garage for a ride. 19 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

As you know, boys got to be boys! We had a problem though...we needed 15 old Ghana cedis to buy petrol to get the car moving. Stone was able to convince the guys in the neighborhood to come up with 30 cedis to buy petrol. That was Stone, the people's person who could convince you to squeeze water out of stone. The deal was that, whoever contributed would have a chance at the wheel on their street. Funnily enough, most of the guys did not know how to drive and the few of us who had little knowledge of driving only drove in the first gear even though the car had four gears. The car broke down when we got to the fourth street and we had to push it all the way home. Mackstone and I had so many names to call each other. I stopped calling him Papa Aidoo before form two. Amongst the many names I called him were: Stone, Adjei, Pizzarro, Man Casino, Free the people of Africa, Big pellet, Gb4m4 and w4dze wo a w4dze wo which is one Dad, Stone and I affectionately called each other. We both left Ghana to further our education abroad. Stone went to the UK and I went to the States and not even the distance stopped us from calling each other every weekend to share the latest information. Stone, you cheered me on when I was first and stood by me when I was last. You were indeed an epitome of the saying \"that's what brothers are for\". Gb4m4, I bid you farewell in God's perfect rest. God be with you till we meet on the beautiful shore. Aicon Okai It's weird how life and death can conspire to shatter the hearts of the most fragile desire. How history and biography can plot against you. Fante warrior man, from Senya Beraku via Cape Coast and finally, Accra. It was in this dazzling school known as PRESEC that you took me under your wing where you taught me about learning, resisting, assisting, loving, giving, organizing and defying. It was in this same institution that you defeated \"Joshua Nkomo\" and put Sam Mark in his place. You did capture the hearts of many. The name \"MACKSTONE\" was respected everywhere it was mentioned. Little did I know the last time I saw you would be the last time I saw you. We give thanks for the life you shared with us. We give thanks for the light you shone upon us. We give thanks for the love you showered upon us. We give thanks for your memory. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 20

Okailey Kofi Aidoo was a wonderful brother to me. I remember the first day I met him in his office, I was wondering what kind of man he was. I was feeling very anxious. I was amazed at his reception, how jovial he was with me. He made me feel at home immediately. It felt like we had known each other all our lives. The bond became stronger with each passing day. He took care of me like his own, checked up on me and made sure I had everything I needed. He always advised and encouraged me to study hard. I recall how happy and proud he was when I told him I had passed my exams. He said \"Andahs' never fail so you must automatically pass\" and we laughed over his words. I was looking forward to more years of knowing him more. Hearing about your passing has been so painful for me. I miss you my brother, I miss being your little sister. May his soul Rest in Peace 21 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Sandy, Odarkai, Ama, Fafa and Christina h Papa Aidoo! Our jack of all trades and he knew it and would show his style. At We watched the way he interacted with Sheila and master of all! The saying that you the last event, he did his dance with Kweiba, and the kids… simply, yet lovingly, a doting don't know what you have till you his eldest child and it was a beauty to behold father and devoted husband. Quietly yet, have lost it, is staring us in the face right now. the moves she had picked up. involved. Papa Aidoo was special and had many names that attested to this. The most important to Papa Aidoo and his brothers loved to tease The news of his demise hit us like a ton of him was Secretary General. What information each other and call each other names. It was bricks, yes we knew he had health challenges about the Andahs' or Aidoos' did he not know, fun to see the closeness amongst the siblings but losing him, not in our wildest dreams! He be it birthdays, weddings, deaths, whose turn and the way they valued each other in such a was handling his health issues so well, like the it was to organize the smaller or wider Andah light hearted way. They always reminded warrior he was. family get-togethers, whatever it was, he knew him of his place as a younger sibling and we and apart from knowing, he initiated, acted, would be in stitches laughing at some of the Sandy organized and called to remind us. Just ask tales they would tell of each other. Papa Aidoo was part of our young family Papa Aidoo and it was done! What big shoes to (Flash and Sandy) right from our wedding day fill. Papa Aidoo had a quiet demeanor, was in 1985, he lived with us everywhere we respectful and courteous, never once did we moved to from Ridge, Teshie-Nungua, Dome, When he arrived at our meeting or events, he hear him use harsh words. He never spoke North Kaneshie and East Legon. He was the came with a bang, announcing his arrival by out of turn. Papa Aidoo was also children's first memory of an Uncle. calling those he could see by their nick names, trustworthy and could be relied upon to do laughing, dancing if there was good music and anything especially for his parents. He was so willing to be of help that I got in the then his names would start! Hello Cisco, Pizza, He had time for them and all of us, running habit of him being my 'go to' person especially Adjei, Adjeious, Mackstone, Secretary General, a myriad of errands requested of him. since his elder brother was often out of town. Uncle Papa Aidoo. And talk about dancing, he It was Papa Aidoo this and Papa Aidoo that. was the undisputed champion of the family In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 22

He never complained and we lived happily to tell me how pleased you were that I was together. Indeed I considered him my kid looking better. That's how close you were as brother and not a brother-in- law at all. He a brother! Abeku, Kwamena and Bobo are was a big check on the kids, woe betides you if shocked and devastated at your loss! You Uncle Papa Aidoo sees you barefoot outside. He will forever have a special place in our also helped with checking the kid's homework. hearts! He took over some of the parenting role and so I was assured that the kids were always in good Ama hands with him around. In fact the kids were Adjeous, This is Ama, I will miss your more in awe of him than us. I remember when booming voice entering my kitchen calling he was returning from the UK, I told the kids me “Kwatch! Kwatch ! Kwatch! where the that he was coming back so they better stop food dey?” Your constant soliciting for walking outside barefoot and all the other accolades and recognition for losing weight naughty things. I am therefore not surprised at when I pretended I had not seen you will be how disciplined his own children are. Even sorely missed. now as young adults, their Uncle Papa Aidoo will demand to know from his nephew and Our kokonsa sessions about “you know niece why they are online at an ungodly hour. who” I will always hold dear. Hard as it is, I Rest in Peace dear Papa Aidoo. promise to try and keep all the “secrets” we shared. Your nieces Kweiba and Nana Ama Caroline will always cherish your dance moves and Papa Aidoo, Caro here! I remember how you side chats with them. would say “Titoi, Titoi, you are too skinny, it is not good kraa!”, whenever I was on my crazy Fafa diets and had lost too much weight. It really Papa Aidoo (Mark Stone) this is Fafa. I met bothered you, and you would monitor my Papa Aidoo around December 2009. The weight gain and would complement me when first day we met, he cracked me up so much you felt I had recovered and would make sure that I said to myself I will give his brother KK a chance to date me. 23 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Mackstone as we all called him was a people's Christina person, he was loved by all and he had a great I met Papa Aidoo briefly in August 2011. He personality. I remember on my engagement was the funniest person I ever met. He day he danced the Agbadza so well that, most would crack jokes all day long. He made me of the guests thought he was related to me. feel comfortable in his presence. I was the Anytime he called my husband in Houston, quiet type so it was difficult for me to make Texas or vice versa, the two would shout on the any conversation with him immediately, phone for hours, giving each other fans. All I but he took it upon himself to converse with heard was the Stone, Mackstone, Adjei and the me like he had known me forever. I loved Stoner. his character and his poise. Anytime he called his brother, he always spoke to me at He visited us twice in Houston Texas and on length. He was a loving person and would be each visit he took over the kitchen with my dearly missed. husband. They prepared their own concoction full of meat and pepper which was very Papa Aidoo, was our unique gem. He is and delicious, as the woman of the house I had the will be sorely missed. He fought the good honor to taste it and I always gave them the fight, may he enjoy his crown of glory. We thumbs up even though it was too spicy. weep because we would have wished he had stayed with us much longer but we celebrate Mackstone promised to come to Houston the fact that he is in a better place where Texas this fall, Stone I was looking forward to there will be no more pain or sorrow. We will your visit, and the dancing competitions that forever treasure all the good memories we we had any time you were around, your jokes shared with him. and all the latest info from Ghana, but as we say “man proposes and God disposes”. Papa Aidoo, rest eternally in the arms of the Mackstone you always had a smile to share, Lord dear brother, till we meet again. time to give and time to care. I will really miss you. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 24

For some moments in life there are no words-David Seltzer apa Aidoo, Stonash, Daddy Stone, It was one proud moment for Mama Kate Joe Pepper and more recently and I when we accompanied you to your General (Rtd) are all the many graduation ceremony at Leicester names you responded to when we spoke or University. exchanged messages. Where do I start? Papa Aidoo you were my brother-in-law From the moment I peered into your face on a who was always there for not just Sheila but badly lit verandah somewhere in Abeka in late me as well in good and difficult times. All 1991 and asked 'so you are Papa Aidoo', we hit it my friends and family members knew you. off. We enjoyed a friendship that was based on You had the special gift of making people trust, mutual respect and a shared sense of feel at ease and somehow managed to have humour. Over the years I would occasionally your private joke with anyone who got close come home to meet our usually reserved Dad - enough to you. you called him KSamp-engaged in animated conversation with you on topics ranging from We discussed serious life issues and trivial sports to politics and anything in between. As topics but they all ended with a good dose of usual you would end up saying something so laughter. I had the privilege of meeting you funny Dada would just burst out laughing and in the USA years after I had moved to the go 'Papa Aidoo paa'. UK and even though it was for a brief period we carried on like we had just met a few days Our Mum came to cherish your visits when before. you were in England pursuing your studies. She looked forward to preparing your 'specials' and enjoying your pleasant company. 25 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

I remember picking you from the airport when calmly, watching proceedings and consoling I see your smiling face and I pray that God you visited us in Birmingham 2 years ago and Sak and I. has welcomed you into His bosom. you insisted I drive so you 'mark' my driving Papa Ansah, Nana Yaa (Joe Pepper) Daryl, skills. Papa Ansah and I were howling with What a shock then that after being hopeful Ewurajoa, Luu, Ekua, Teacher Elizabeth, laughter all the way to the house. Daddy Stone! that you were getting better after being Gloria, Olivia, Auntie Ellen (Original) Sisi and you would respond Sandymo! and we hospitalised a few days before, I received a call and the entire family all join me to say would continue 'giving each other fans' till we early on 25th May and heard Sak scream. You Nanstew Yie. moved on to something else. had arrived at your destination and gotten off the train. Daddy Stone as Mahatma Gandhi said- When our Dad passed barely two years ago I There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever quietly admired how you supported us, My dearest friend and brother-in-law, I have you are, you will always, always be in my patiently accompanying us everywhere, sitting no words to describe the pain and grief. I still heart. hear your voice, your laughter rings in my ears, I quote “A brother- in- law is someone who Not only does he call to check on the family, comes into your life and becomes your he calls to check on my staff in my absence. friend” He left a good lasting impression with people within a short time after meeting Papa Aidoo was more of a friend to me than with them. a brother in-law. I knew him since his Papa Aidoo, I did not get a chance to say PRESEC days when I was in Legon. Our good-bye; I know you will be dearly conversations always started with good missed. jokes and then to serious conversation with Rest in Perfect Peace no topics off limits. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 26

t is with great sadness that we write In the midst of this we never doubted his A memory that holds a prominent place in his this tribute to our dear Uncle Papa love and care for us. He would painstakingly memory bank. To his nephews and nieces, he Aidoo. We could hardly believe it look over our homework and grill us to was strong, tall, affable and personable. These when we heard that our dear Uncle had passed make sure we understood what we learnt in are words that come to our minds when we on. It is still so surreal to us, we wish we had school. He made sure we understood the think about our Uncle Papa Aidoo. more time to appreciate him. value of education and motivated us to do To many he was an amazing human being who our best. On Saturdays we looked forward to The memories we have with our Uncle will be was strong, bold, jovial and had a rare larger- the 'Abom' he would make for us. We would cherished forever. He might be gone, but his than-life personality that he took everywhere all sit around the asanka and listen as he legacy lives on in all of our lives. with him. told us stories and jokes. He spent time At family gatherings, we were almost certain taking his nephew, Nenyi, to the beach. Rest in peace dear Uncle that we would find Uncle Papa Aidoo on the dance floor or flexing his sense of humor with us. To us, his nieces and nephews, our Uncle Papa Aidoo was a kind and gentle disciplinarian. As a constant presence in our childhood he was always there to keep us in check. After school, we knew we had to remove our socks and shoes, change out of our uniforms before Uncle Papa Aidoo came home and woe betides you, if you were caught stepping on the back of your shoes or walking outside bare foot. 27 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

TRIBUTE FROM SHEILA’S FAMILY TRIBUTE FROM MATERNAL COUSINS For me to live is Christ and to die is gain. If I am to live in the flesh MHB 525 Vs.3 means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell. We expect a bright tomorrow, all will be well. I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart Faith can sing through days of sorrow, and be with Christ for that is far better, but to remain 'All, all is well.' in the flesh is more necessary on your account (Philippians 1: 21-24) On our Father's love relying, Jesus every need supplying, he news of the death of Papa Aidoo, was received by the in our living, in our dying, in-laws as a great shock. It was so soon. There were no goodbyes, no farewells. Your late father-in-law called all must be well. you “Papa.” His explanation was that you represented what he could ask God for in a son-in-law. You made great impact on your ife is measured by the number of faces who smile in-laws by your kind, loving and peaceful nature. when they hear your name. Papa Aidoo our hearts feel heavy over your sudden departure. We These qualities were clearly demonstrated when your dear wife already miss your pleasant natural and ready sense of humour lost her father. You were a strong pillar supporting her every step with which you lured us into fits of laughter and your of the way till everything was over. In truth even those in-laws welcoming attitude at each contact. who did not know you then, could not help but admire your posture. No wonder your in-laws also called you “Papa.” Your Cousin Kofi Papa Aidoo, words aren't enough to say how big a golden heart has stopped beating, and your hard working hands loss your demise has caused us. But we know that you are in a now resting. better place, though you've left us too soon!!! In all of this we take consolation that God, our creator understands best as you rest in His arms. How Papaidoo!? Well, we pray that Uncle Peter, Aunty Grace, Kofi Aidoo Andah, rest in the bosom of Abraham. your dear wife Sheila, your children and siblings, will also find comfort in the fact that, \"you knew your creator and also Papa, sleep well till we meet again. walked with Him diligently\". We pray your humorous soul will find its space in eternity. May your cherished soul rest in perfect peace. Papaidoo Dà Ýiè …Nyami ñfa wò kra ñsiè In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 28

TRIBUTE FROM PATERNAL COUSINS We can shed tears that he is gone Class of 1966”; one of seven children born to soles of his shoes so that he could 'slide' on the Or we could smile because he lived; Andah brothers that year. Having several floor, while dancing to mimic James Brown. We could close our eyes and pray that he will come  older brothers, Papa Aidoo had a quiet He was particular about his dressing. back confidence and a worldly calm, beyond his Everything had to match, and later he added Or we could open our eyes and see all that he has  years. We remember him in his earlier the prototypical braces and patterned socks, le  us; years, with his smiles, infectious laugh and to complete the picture. He cut an impressive We could remember him, sad that he is gone calm assurance. figure. It is not surprising that he became a Or we could cherish his memory and Iet it live on, chartered marketing professional – Papa And do what Papa Aidoo would want us to do –  At the annual Andah Family reunions at Aidoo, himself, was THE brand! Smile, laugh, dance love and live on Senya Beraku, even though he was one of ~ Adapted from “He is gone” by David Harkins the younger cousins, Papa Aidoo would Papa Aidoo had a personal nickname, joke or enthrall us with his jokes and stories. These banter for everyone and made one feel special e have drifted through traits never changed over the years. He in his presence. He connected with all ages, all different emotions since loved to banter and tell jokes. social classes and all social stations. He hearing about the unexpected formed instant but lasting meaningful passing of our dear brother Papa Aidoo: Shock, He was a great storyteller who delivered his relationships with everyone he met. People that he left us so soon without a goodbye jokes - with accompanying hand gestures gravitated towards Papa Aidoo; drawn by his Sadness, that we will no longer see his smile, and the characteristic “slight Andah calm, ebullient personality and genuine hear his laugh and share his jokes, Anger, that stutter” - with perfect comedic timing! kindness. we were helpless to prevent this, Acceptance, that this was a life well lived, and his duty here Papa Aidoo loved to dance, and was sure to His brother KK once shared a story about a on earth was done. be seen dancing at the Andah get-togethers visit to Houston, where he (KK) took him to Gratitude, for the countless wonderful in Accra. His dancing was a show in itself. meet his friends at a party. At the end of the memories. Peace, that he accomplished his When he was younger he would polish the party, KK's friends said, speaking about Papa mission and is in a better place! Papa Aidoo was a member of the famed “Andah 29 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Aidoo: “we like your brother even better than Another endearing trait about Papa Aidoo We had always assumed Papa Aidoo had a you!” The widespread affection for Papa Aidoo was his ability to remember birthdays and photographic memory, but we later found out was a sentiment often heard from his anniversaries. Even before the development that this smart man developed a system childhood friends in Odorkor, at Ridge, from of technology that makes it easier to where he associated these dates with other his schoolmates at PRESEC, and from his remember these dates, Kofi had a knack of events so he could remember. As an example, friends and colleagues in later life. Even on a surprising you with a call on your birthday he would always call our cousin, Katie on her brief work trip with Sheila to Dubai, Papa or anniversary or commiserating with you birthday, but that was his wedding Aidoo made many new friends, who kept on the anniversary of a loss. Dates meant a anniversary too! He kept his system to coming back, to enjoy his 'soakings' and his lot to him, and when he had a choice, he himself. amiable and engaging personality. Papa Aidoo would pick days for various events carefully. loved people and they loved him back. We have spoken of his fun-loving side. But Papa Aidoo had another side too. When he accepted a task, he would deliver it with all seriousness. Growing up, he was often selected to man the gate at parties. Old friends seeing him at the door, would expect to be allowed in without invites. These friends would be left shocked, when they realized Papa Aidoo would not budge, leave them waiting at the door, and he would finally let them in when the party was almost over. Papa Aidoo was also serious about family. He was a loyal son, devoted father and doting husband. He would speak tenderly of his dear wife Sheila and the children. His brothers and older cousins were his role models, and he was a loyal friend. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 30

It was no surprise,that he was chosen to him, they would probably have attempted to sharing this life with you. manage the administrative side of Andah discuss more 'important' things. That Rest well, noble Senya Prince! family reunions. He kept a rota, kept us impromptu meet-up was spent in Till we meet again! organized and participated fully at these quintessential Papa Aidoo fashion - laughing, events. He noticed and investigated anything joking, pulling of legs and sharing family What I remember fondly about Papa Aidoo and he thought was amiss. We called him our “filla”. what he is leaving for us is his warm smile, the “Secretary-General”. It was an office he universal language of kindness. May he rest in embraced with full aplomb. But Papa Aidoo was also a stoic, private person. peace. That was the contradiction about him. Alex Acquaah If you made a mistake and called him “General Outgoing and social yet reserving his most Secretary”, he was quick to correct you, saying private emotions and issues to himself and a Our one and only Secretary-General; who “that is the difference between Kofi Annan and trusted few. The great General; encouraging touched the lives of all those he loved. We are Asiedu Nketia!” and cheering on his troops despite his own devastated by your sudden death, the memories trials. you left us are a treasure. anks for the phone The last office Papa Aidoo pledged to take on calls, jokes, banter, infectious smiles, asa boni was that of “Special Adviser to the acting That is how we will remember you and how we dances, latest llas, reaching out to your Akyempimhene” after our cousin Nenyi believe you would want us to remember you. nephews and nieces and your caring and loving George, was selected to act in that capacity Like the lyrics of the song, 'when we get the nature. Rest in perfect peace until we meet after the passing of our uncle Nenyi Kobena chance to sit it out or 'dance', in all the again. Andakwei V. situations of life, we will think of you, embrace Gerrie Nartey the challenge, and choose to dance, the way Looking back at pictures through the years, you would. My “heart” brother, we shared so much. From Papa Aidoo was always smiling or laughing your decision to only marry a Holico girl, to your with a glint in his eye, or dancing. But even The General was not supposed to leave his wedding ceremony on my birthday, to the those pictures do not fully convey the warmth troops behind. signi cance of the names of your children. Rest of his personality and his genuine affection. peacefully in the arms of the Lord. We shall meet If Katie and Doreen had known, that Friday, We will miss you, but we will cherish the great again. that it would be the last time they would see times we shared with you, your smile, laugh, Katie Andah jokes, the dance moves. It was an honor 31 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Keep smiling and don't stop dancing, my dear Papa Aidoo - Your sudden unexpected death has left ere are those who come with oranges, others Brother. Da Yie, until we meet again. Love, within me a gaping hole. We have lost our rst with apples. You came with Big Brotherly Love. Bernice Apaade Andah-Lovely member of the “Andah 1966 birth group”. Your ank you for your countless pieces of advice smile, your laughter will be missed dearly. Papa and leadership qualities. We have many memories… Accra, Tech, Lagos… so Aidoo “May your memory be a blessing.” Karl Andah many adventures. I remember your plan that KK, you Sharon Meixler and I would marry a certain trio. Unfortunately, KK Your infectious smile and daily forwarded jokes and I failed 'portor', but you kept your eye on the goal Mentioning you were my cousin at PRESEC saved will be greatly missed. Rest easy until we meet and made us proud. Hmmm, My Man, so Stone, it is me many lashes and even made me untouchable at again big cousin. that ??? Rest in Peace, till we meet again. times. anks for the laughs. Rest in perfect power. Mona Lisa Andah Nenyi Kobena Andakwei VI aka Nenyi George Kwame Andah Andah Acting Akyempin Odefey, Senya Beraku Traditional Area Papa Aidoo, Mackstone; I am experiencing a deep sorrow that leaves me at a loss for words. ank You for always being there, the laughter we shared will forever ring in my ears, the support will never be forgotten. You are now a part of God's greater plan but your memory is forever etched within me. Love Desta In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 32

TRIBUTE FROM FRIENDS Waasto, were you preparing for public office (I do not Ben Amadieh & Edward Odei-Ntiri remember discussing this with you)? I have received Tribute by Kofi Pianim (AMORIN) too many calls from different locations asking for Kofi Aidoo Andah aka Mackstone is a friend we're confirmation of your transition and what assistance honored to have crossed path with in this life. An “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” will be required. imposing figure and a “serious” face, but behind that, — Mae West was a calm smile and a heart of gold, if you dared get Proverbs 18:24 (NIV) A man of many Sheila, Kweiba, Kwaku, and Nana Aidoo are doing close to him. companions may come to ruin, but there is a just fine (the support system is simply fantastic). I friend who sticks closer than a brother. still haven't apologized to Sheila for sharing you with As neighborhood friends in North Kaneshie, we got her without her prior consent (will do so soon). together to play soccer on Sunday mornings and Hello Stone, planned our stadium trips, if a good game was Bro, this transition hits differently! I'm not sure how I “General” Stoner, the stories, memories, and scheduled at the Accra Sports Stadium. We had our am feeling right now – numb maybe. I won't forget May emotions are absolutely impossible to capture on little ritual of organizing food and drinks after playing 25th, 2021. paper. Hmmm, many thanks for the ride! (Only you soccer. Papa Aidoo always made his presence felt. He Papa Aidoo, on the morning of the 26th of May 2021, I will understand this). enjoyed taking charge of the whole planning and had to explain to my son that it is okay for men to weep. always had a pleasant surprise up his sleeves. He saw me weeping for the first time in his young life Farewell, my brother, your friendship was a blessing. and he could not process the event. But why do we I know you are in a better place now. We fondly remember how when we run out of program our boys to believe that 'b11ma nsu'? It's me ---- Amorin. something or forgot to pack enough of anything, our My friend, brother, “Konkonsa” mate of over forty (40) miracle worker was McStone! He always had a backup years, this is not a prank, is it? I sent you a message on Akosua Agadzi and siblings stashed somewhere and proudly spoke these words as “opana”. I am still waiting for your response. I had to he saves the day, “never underestimate an Andah, break the news gently to my father, JK, and the other Uncle Papa Aidoo, we don't how to console our never underestimate the Stone.” Long after he moved siblings since you were recognized as the firstborn. grieving heart at your departure. We know out of the neighborhood, he stayed in touch and kept Our Analyst-In-Chief (AIC) – Adjei, how many potholes mourning is not the best way to say goodbye to his role as “Organizer in Chief.” McStone was always are on the Tema motorway? and what's the best route to you, but I, Akosua, don't know how to control one of the first to suggest a visit to a sick friend, the first Labadi from my house? Will Manchester United (Man myself! You will be missed forever and always. to organize some sort of contribution for a friend going U) ever perform well in the EPL and become champions The beautiful moments you shared with us will through hard times, the first to call with consoling again? You never forgot birthdays, events, places, always speak of the kind person that you were. words when a friend was going through grief. We have people. You were a true extrovert with emotional Rest in peace in the bosom of the Lord. Damirifa lost a friend and in so many ways, our Big Brother. As intelligence. Stone, you had the special ability to create Due Uncle Papa Aidoo. It is indeed hurtful to lose we mourn in pain to this insurmountable loss, we have unique relationships and you maintained an interesting someone like you and even more difficult saying no doubt that McStone is in a better place with his network. goodbye. Rest in perfect peace. maker. Rest well our friend! Rest well our protector! Rest well our Big Brother! Till we meet Again 33 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

TRIBUTE FROM SIC MANAGERS' ASSOCIATION “Some are bound to die young He was later elected Vice President, a The Association will greatly miss his By dying young, a person stays young in our memory position he held until his sudden demise. organizational skills, his vision and the If he burns brightly before he dies, his brightness Boss Andah's life meant so many things to several creative ideas he brought to bear on shines for all time” the numerous people he came into contact the Association. -Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn with. He was a man who put in so much to what he did. His, was a life that demanded In grief, our thoughts turn to those whose ur hearts are filled with sorrow; notice, a life that exemplified brilliance, a pain could only be more intense than ours. sorrow so deep and personal. Boss life that burned so bright and lighted so His wife, children, siblings and family. Andah, as he was affectionately called, many paths for others. Rest in perfect peace, Boss Kofi Aidoo Andah. has silently closed the door of life and departed There will never be another you! from us. The empty spaces he brightened have become dim. We have known Boss Andah since 2008 when He was a kind boss to the people in his he joined SIC Insurance Plc and was posted to charge. So down to earth, sincere, earnest in the Marketing Department. He joined the his quest for excellence, a friend of the Association in 2012 as Organizing Secretary at majority, displayed a very high sense of a time a lot of Managers were just not humour and a loyal friend to a fault. interested as it had become dormant. He used his wisdom, skills and marketing strategies to By Boss Andah's death, we are all going to assist in rebranding the Association to deliver miss a highly intelligent and vibrant excellent service to its members. His strategy individual with a rare charming personality. of 'desk-to-desk' with Managers, together Our voices have been subdued and taken with his organising skills attracted almost over by grief. But, if I may ask, who would every Manager in the company to sign-on as a not grieve over the demise of a gem? member of the Association. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 34

FOND MEMORIES- SIC COLLEAGUES Baaba Anokye Sedem Akoto Darko David Klutsey (Jnr) Ko , your advice, your motivation and your Ko , “My heart is shattered” is an understatement. Mr. Ko Andah aka Macstone, is a cool, kind, gentle, encouragement will be dearly missed. Never a dull How could I be writing your tribute at this time humble and a God fearing man. Words alone cannot moment with you. You have a beautiful soul and I when we still have so many things outstanding to express how much I will forever miss you. know I have lost a good friend, a brother from do. You have forever left a gaping hole in my heart. another mother, a team mate, a partner and a People, they say never die as long as someone Emelia Odonkor helper. Rest in perfect peace till we meet again. remembers them. Guess what? is your sister, Ko !!!! you were kind and ready to assist, your sense of Damirifa due! whom you have always insisted you are comfortable dressing was always sharp and you never failed to with because she's one of the boys, I will never forget commend that of others. You shall forever remain in Aki Tayo Akiwumi you. ough the Lord has taken you, you still live on our hearts. May God Grant You Eternal Rest. Ko , you lived a life of a top-class gentleman. You in my heart. I used to be your Angel but now you are are gone but de nitely not forgotten. May your soul my Angel. Ko ! Damirifa Due, Rest in Peace, Rest in Salifu Bukari rest in peace. Heaven my brother from another mother, till we Ko , you would fondly be remembered for your high meet again. sense of humor. It's never been a boring moment with Michael Kyei Donkor you. Rest well in the bosom of the creator, my good Boss Andah was a very good man. He will avoid any Kate ompson friend. confrontation and argument even when he is right, Boss Andah, it is very hard for me to believe you are just for peace to prevail. really gone too soon!! For the beautiful experience Joyce Nkrumah Baah of knowing and relating to you, I thank the Lord. It Boss Andah, my boss. Always complimenting and Rebecca Amegah has been an absolute pleasure and I thank you for encouraging me to do my best. May his soul Rest in You will be dearly missed. I am still in shock and the privilege of your time. Adios! Perfect Peace. shattered but Jehovah knows best. Although I am sad, the sweet and fond memories we shared will Gina Appiah-Twum Phyllis Tettey always put a smile on my face. Rest well my dear boss. You were loving and caring to a fault. Your footsteps Boss Andah, you always taught me never to assume on the sands of time will never be forgotten. ank tomorrow is promised. I remember how well you you for the opportunity to serve you. Rest in peace dressed, so we called you “Dadabee man.” Your my Boss Andah. appearance was always on point. But most of all, your encouragement and advice will never be forgotten. It is well. 35 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

Soffo Bissi Nana Ama Ofosu Anim Patrick Ayeh Boss Andah, you have never denied me anything I Boss Andah, a boss like no other, a good listener, asked for. May your soul rest in perfect peace. cheerful and a kindhearted person. Indeed, your Boss Andah, as we all call him, was more like a presence will be sorely missed. Gone too soon and its Father, Uncle, Big Brother and a Friend I never had. Akwasi Adu-Poku painful but God knows best. It is my prayer that Little did I know good things truly don't last forever. Boss Andah, I remember when you taught me how to you've found peace in the bosom of our Lord. Till we He would always advise me, check me in terms of my introduce myself to clients with utmost con dence. It's meet to part no more, rest well Boss Andah. outlook; make sure I don't dress down because of my helped me till date. ank you, May your soul rest in affiliation with him. “Patooshi” as he called me, and peace. Annabel Dabi anytime I hear that, I know I'm in a good place. Boss Andah, you were an affable, caring and down You'll truly be missed Boss. Gina Ago to earth leader. Your memories will forever be Ko , you were the epitome of fashion so I called you the cherished. Rest in Perfect Peace. Boss of all bosses. RIP Boss Andah. Angela Obeng Alexander Osei Boss Andah, the laughter, the big smiles, the jokes, I directly worked under Boss Andah. He was indeed a the food, the stories, the clothes, your big heart, very kind gentleman. One of my numerous fond your kindness… You will be missed. You touched memories was his positive reactions and lives in so many ways. Gone too soon, only God encouragement when it comes to seeking permission to knows why. step out to resolve work issues. Rest in peace my boss, my friend. Paula Anagblah Mavis Parry Adu Boss Andah!!, I'm still in shock. Who will I gist with? Smart, Sleek and Simple. Never missing little Who will satisfy my chocolate cravings? Depending on details. Never forgetting a birthday. A father, a the circumstance I will sometimes shout “SENIOR friend, a boss. at's who you were. You never said KOFI” and your response most times will be a SMILE. you will be gone forever...but all we have left now is was de nitely your trademark which speak are just fond memories. Rest well Sir, sleep well my volumes and only those close to you can relate. Boss Andah. FARE THEE WELL BOSS ANDAH, FARE THEE WELL SENIOR KOFI. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 36

TRIBUTE TO KOFI AIDOO ANDAH BY THE PRESEC OLD BOYS ASSOCIATION -ODAD!! 1984 YEAR GROUP FARE THEE WELL GENERAL We don't remember him as being parliamentary democratic system. In 1983, MACKSTONE particularly great at football nor do we drama was added to the storyline through a remember the results of all those “do or die” coup d'etat with a mock invasion of campus As it was and it is, so shall it be that the echoes matches. However, we vividly remember by troops, mass “arrest” of all party leaders of death become instantaneously evermore him being front and center with respect to and a suspension of parliament. Kofi was the apparent wherever and whenever organizing the matches and leading any coup leader and the appellation of General manifestation of life is real. debates and arguments. His charisma was which was supposed to have lasted for just a in full display as he excelled at leading the week has stuck ever since. Birth and death are seemingly worlds apart cheers with his loud, brash and interesting when life's journey is on. Time, space and personality. Kofi Andah was an interesting personality. circumstances become non-existent when life His appearance and nature were contrasting. runs its full course for it swiftly yields to death Every year in Riis House, a Form 4 boy was Whilst he was well built, he was respectful and nullify the above and all the more laying chosen as “Supervisor of Cleaning”. It was a and very generous and some of us have fond emphasis as to how intertwining the two are in coveted role with power over the junior boys memories of the canned tuna, fried black the natural scheme of things.Fate couldn't rob that did the cleaning. Kofi was chosen in our pepper or non-fat powdered milk we could us when we met at Presbyterian Boys' School year. In contrast to previous officers who occasionally get him to share in boarding on 24th September 1979. wielded their power rather strongly, Kofi school. Andah led with humor and compassion and The said year in the annals of the nation's was highly popular amongst the juniors. Mackstone's favorite food in secondary school history carries an awful lot of sentiments, was kenkey which he humorously referred to surprisingly that was the moment in time our His nickname was “General Mackstone”. In as “mah”. He reveled in the fact that he could paths crossed and the stitching of the Odade3 our Presec years, we held an annual “Mock eat more balls of kenkey than anyone else in commonality assumed a life of its own . Kofi Parliament” on campus as we simulated a the dormitory. Andah was one of our leaders. 37 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

If we had an eating contest, he would have won hands down! Kofi We are so saddened by your passing and will truly miss your played a very active role in our Old Boys' activities and whatever the companionship. Rest peacefully dear brother till we meet again. occasion was, be it a party, speech day or funeral, he made it a duty to Kofi Andah Da yie attend. He loved to laugh and make others laugh as well and General Mackstone yaawo ojogbann. regularly shared the craziest of jokes via WhatsApp. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 38

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PRE-BURIAL HYMNS hymns MHB 427 Raise the stone, and thou shalt find Me; 4. Why should I complain of want or distress, MHB 432 1. Through all the changing scenes of life, cleave the wood and I am there. Temptation or pain? He told me no less; 1. Hark, my soul! It is the Lord; 2. Where the many toil together, The heirs of salvation, I know from His word, In trouble and in joy, There I am among My own; Through much tribulation must follow their Lord. 'Tis the Saviour, hear His word; The praises of my God shall still Where the tired workman sleepeth, Jesus speaks, and speaks to thee: My heart and tongue employ. there am I with him alone. 5. Since all that I meet shall work for my good, Say, poor sinner, lov'st thou Me? 2. Of His deliverance I will boast, I, the Peace that passeth knowledge, The bitter is sweet, the medicine food; 2. I delivered thee when bound, Till all that are distressed dwell amid the daily strife; Though painful at present, 'twill cease before And, when bleeding, healed thy wound; From my example comfort take, I, the Bread of heaven, am broken long; Sought thee wandering, set thee right; And charm their griefs to rest. in the sacrament of life. And then, O how pleasant the conqueror's song! Turned thy darkness into light. 3. O magnify the Lord with me, 3. Every task, however simple, sets 3. Can a woman's tender care With me exalt His name; the soul that does it free; MHB 528 Cease toward the child she bare? When in distress to Him I called, Every deed of love and mercy 1. In heavenly love abiding, Yes, she may forgetful be; He to my rescue came. done to man, is done to Me; Yet will I remember thee. 4. The hosts of God encamp around Nevermore thou needest seek Me; No change my heart shall far; 4. Mine is an unchanging love, The dwellings of the just; I am with thee everywhere; And safe is such confiding, Higher than the heights above, Deliverance He affords to all Raise the stone, and thou shalt find Me; For nothing changes here: Deeper than the depths beneath, Who on His succour trust. Cleave the wood and I am there. The storm may roar without me, Free and faithful, strong as death. 5. O make but trial of His love; My heart may low be laid; 5. Thou shalt see My glory soon, Experience will decide MHB 511 But God is round about me, When the work of grace is done; How blest they are, and only they, 1. Begone, unbelief; my Saviour is near, And can I be dismayed? Partner of My throne shalt be; Who in His truth confide. 2. Wherever He may guide me, Say, poor sinner, lov'st thou Me? 6. Fear Him ye saints, and you will then And for my relief will surely appear; No want shall turn me back; 6. Lord, it is my chief complaint Have nothing else to fear; By payer let me wrestle, and He will perform; My Shepherd is beside me, That my love is weak and faint; Make you His service your delight. With Christ in the vessel, I smile at the storm. And nothing can I lack: Yet I love Thee, and adore He'll make your wants His care. 2. Though dark be my way, since He is my Guide, His wisdom ever waketh, O for grace to love Thee more! 'Tis mine to obey, 'tis His to provide; His sight is never dim; MHB 601 Though cisterns be broken and creatures all fail, He knows the way He taketh, 1. They who tread the path of The word He has spoken shall surely prevail. And I will walk with Him. 3. His love in time past forbids me to think 3. Green pastures are before me, labour follow where My feet have trod; He'll leave me at last in trouble to sink; Which yet I have not seen; They who work without complaining While each Ebenezer I have in review Bright skies will soon be o'er me, do the holy will of God; Confirms His good pleasure to help me quite Where the dark clouds have been: Nevermore thou needest seek me; through. My hope I cannot measure, I am with thee everywhere; My path to life is free; My Saviour has my treasure, And He will walk with me. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 44

HYMNS for BURIAL service MHB 1 'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore; 3. Perfect submission, all is at rest, As far from danger as from fear, 1 O for a thousand tongues to sing let angel minds inquire no more. I in my Savior am happy and blest, While Love, almighty Love, is near. 'Tis mercy all! Let earth adore; Watching and waiting, looking above, We've no abiding city here, my great Redeemer's praise, let angel minds inquire no more. Filled with His goodness, lost in His love. but seek a city out of sight; the glories of my God and King, 3. He left his Father's throne above thither our steady course we steer, the triumphs of his grace! (so free, so infinite his grace!), MHB 878 aspiring to the plains of light; 2 My gracious Master and my God, emptied himself of all but love, 1. O God, our help in ages past, Jerusalem the saints' abode, assist me to proclaim, and bled for Adam's helpless race. whose founder is the living God. to spread thro' all the earth abroad 'Tis mercy all, immense and free, Our hope for years to come, MHB 679 the honors of your name. for O my God, it found out me! Our shelter from the stormy blast, 1 PLEASANT are thy courts above, 3 Jesus! the name that charms our fears, 'Tis mercy all, immense and free, And our eternal home. In the land of light and love; that bids our sorrows cease, for O my God, it found out me! 2. Within the shadow of thy throne, Pleasant are thy courts below, 'tis music in the sinner's ears, 4. Long my imprisoned spirit lay, Still may we dwell secure. In this land of sin and woe. 'tis life and health and peace. fast bound in sin and nature's night; Sufficient is thine arm alone, O! my spirit longs and faints 4 He breaks the power of cancelled sin, thine eye diffused a quickening ray; And our defense is sure. For the converse of thy saints, he sets the prisoner free; I woke, the dungeon flamed with light; 3. Before the hills in order stood, For the brightness of thy face, his blood can make the foulest clean; my chains fell off, my heart was free, Or earth received her frame, For thy fullness, God of grace! his blood availed for me. I rose, went forth, and followed thee. From everlasting thou art God, 5 To God all glory, praise, and love My chains fell off, my heart was free, To endless years the same. be now and ever given I rose, went forth, and followed thee. by saints below and saints above, MHB422 4. O God, our help in ages past, 2 Happy birds that sing and fly the Church in earth and heaven. 1. Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine! Our hope for years to come, Round thy altars, O most High! MHB 363 Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine! Be thou our guide while life shall last Happier souls that find a rest 1. And can it be that I should gain Heir of salvation, purchase of God, And our eternal home. In a heavenly Father's breast! an interest in the Savior's blood! Born of His Spirit, washed in His blood. Like the wandering dove that found Died he for me? who caused his pain! o Refrain: MHB 608 3 No repose on earth around, For me? who him to death pursued? This is my story, this is my song, Captain of Israel's host, and Guide The can to their ark repair, Amazing love! How can it be Praising my Savior all the day long; Of all who seek the land above, And enjoy it ever there. that thou, my God, shouldst die for me? This is my story, this is my song, Beneath Thy shadow we abide, Happy souls! their praises flow Amazing love! How can it be Praising my Savior all the day long. The cloud of Thy protecting love; Even in this vale of woe; that thou, my God, shouldst die for me? 2. Perfect submission, perfect delight, Our strength, Thy grace, our rule, Thy Word; Waters in the desert rise, 2. 'Tis mystery all: th' Immortal dies! Visions of rapture now burst on my sight; Our end, the glory of the Lord. Manna feeds them from the skies Who can explore his strange design? Angels, descending, bring from above On they go from strength to strength, In vain the firstborn seraph tries Echoes of mercy, whispers of love. By Thine unerring Spirit led, Till they reach thy throne at length; to sound the depths of love divine. We shall not in the desert stray At thy feet adoring fall, We shall not full direction need Who hast led them safe through all. Nor miss our providential way; 45 In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH

4 Lord be mine this prize to win: MHB 976 “Earth to earth, and dust to dust,” And Lord, haste the day when the faith shall Guide me through a world of sin; Now the laborer's task is o'er; Calmly now the words we say; be sight, Keep me by Thy saving grace; Now the battle day is past; Left behind, we wait in trust The clouds be rolled back as a scroll; Give me by Thy side a place Now upon the farther shore For the resurrection day. The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall Sun and shield alike thou art, Lands the voyager at last. Father, in Thy gracious keeping descend, Guide and guard my erring heart; Father, in Thy gracious keeping Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. Even so, it is well with my soul. Grace and glory flow from thee: Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. Shower, O shower them, Lord, on me! There the tears of earth are dried; CAN 2 There its hidden things are clear; When peace, like a river, attendeth my way, MHB 975 There the work of life is tried When sorrows like sea billows roll; When the day of toil is done, By a juster Judge than here. Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say, When the race of life is run, Father, in Thy gracious keeping It is well, it is well with my soul. Father, grant Thy wearied one Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. Refrain: Rest forevermore. There the Shepherd, bringing home It is well with my soul, When the strife of sin is stilled, Many a lamb forlorn and strayed, It is well, it is well with my soul. When the foe within is killed, Shelters each, no more to roam, Though Satan should buffet, though trials should Be Thy gracious Word fulfilled: Where the wolf can ne'er invade. come, Peace forevermore. Father, in Thy gracious keeping Let this blest assurance control, When the darkness melts away Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. That Christ hath regarded my helpless estate, At the breaking of the day, There the sinful souls, that turn And hath shed His own blood for my soul. Bid us hail the cheering ray: To the cross their dying eyes, My sin—oh, the bliss of this glorious Light forevermore. All the love of Christ shall learn thought!—My sin, not in part but the whole, When the heart by sorrow tried, At His feet in Paradise. Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more, Feels at length its throbs subside, Father, in Thy gracious keeping Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul! Bring us, where all tears are dried, Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live: Joy forevermore. There no more the powers of hell If Jordan above me shall roll, When for vanished days we yearn, Can prevail to mar their peace; No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life Days that never can return, Christ the Lord shall guard them well, Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul. Teach us in Thy love to learn He Who died for their release. But, Lord, ’tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait, Love forevermore. Father, in Thy gracious keeping The sky, not the grave, is our goal; When the breath of life is flown, Leave we now Thy servant sleeping. Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord! When the grave must claim its own, Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul! Lord of life, be ours Thy crown, Life forevermore. In Loving memory of the late KOFI AIDOO ANDAH 46

Those we love never pass away. They live in our hearts always with precious cherished memories that would never fade away.

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