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rif;jrwfol& a½Tcsrf;om aiGcsrf;om   “eifwdkUpmuvJ rdef;rawGraumif;aBumif;udka&;xm;wmyJ” “igvJrodygbl;[,f... q&mawmfoifay;wmudk½Gwfjywmav” vli,fonfajymajymqdkqdkESifhrdef;uav;twGufca&yef;rsm;udk aumufay;ae \\/ rdef;uav;onf*g0efudkodrf;í opfjrpfqHkwGifxdkifapmifh\\/ cPBumvQif ca&yef; rsm; toifhtwifh&jyDjzpf&m vli,furdef;uav;\\vufz0g;xJodkYxnfhay;av\\/ rdef; uav;onf ca&yef;rsm;udktm;&yg;&erf;½Iyfí “tm; ... odyfarT;wmyJ? odkif;c½k ... odkif;c½k” [kajymav&m vli,fu “aus;Zl;wifw,fvdkUajymwmaygh ... aus;Zl;wif&if aemufaeUvmcJhOD;av” “aus;Zl;wifwmeJU igubmvdkUvm&rSmvJ” “eifrsufESmudkjrif&if igpdwfcsrf;omw,f... 'gaBumifheifudktjrJvmcdkif;wm” “tdk?bmawGavQmufajymaewmvJ....... igoGm;awmhr,f” rdef;uav;onf vl½G,f\\pum;aBumifh½Sufudk;½Sufuef; jzpfoGm;jyD;vQif*g0ef av;tm; avxJwGifwvlvlvGifhatmif ajy;xGufoGm;av\\/ vli,fonfrdef;uav;\\ aemufausmudk rsufpdwpfqHk;Bunfhí BunfEl;csrf;ajrhjyD;usef&pfcJhav\\/ xdkaeUuvli,fonfrdef;uav;taBumif;pOf;pm;aeí ,m*kBudKaemufusav \\/ www.myanmarcupidclub.net   9   

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