Are You A Robot?

ARE YOU APROGRAMMED ROBOT? FIND OUT THE DIFFERENCE Book ONE MARGOT RIDLER

If you want to live a truly free and liberated life, you must surrender all of your programming. 1

There are two ways you can live your life. One way is programmed, which is the way human beings have lived for thousands of years.The second way is un-programmed, free and liberated. This free way is unprecedented and unknown by most human beings. 2

Throughout history, there existed people who pursued as their life goal living with True Freedom. However, attaining True Freedom has been incredibly hard to achieve and embody in daily life. A person’s mental, emotional and instinctual programming,which has to be surrendered and freed operates with tremendous power and force. That’s because our programming is passed down generation after generation for thousands of years. It is almost impossible to break through and release. 3

I did not know about True Freedom for twenty years even though I had been involved in the personal transformation and self-improvement arena since the late 1980’s. Personally, in my own life and professionally, helping other people, I used with great success two very profound transformative methods called Brain Gym and Family Constellation Work. 4

The goal of personal transformation work revolves around changing negative aspects of the personal self into positive ones.Family Constellation Work was an incredibly effective healing modality. I had never come across a more powerful method. It allowed people to release lifelong afflictions often in just one, or at most, a few sessions. 5

Then in December 2005 everything changed. A direct-seeing brought into my awareness the possibility of living with True Freedom. I found it strange that in two decades of intensestudy in the personal development arena, I had never heard or read anything about True Freedom. 6

The information the direct-seeing providedshook me to my core. It was so other and different from anything I had known, believed or understood. Instantly I realized that transforming negative aspects of our personal self into positive elements could never set a person truly free. 7

I understood that the negative to positive revamping ofour personal self is a distraction. It keeps our attention diverted. We are actually not engaging in the true work, which is essential for us to unearth True Freedom in our life. 8

Once I grasped what was required to live with True Freedom, I understood why True Freedom is notpromoted as a worthwhile goal in our society and culture. Individuals who are truly free are not interested in being manipulated, subjugated and controlled. They are also not interested in manipulating, subjugating and controlling others. 9

Truly liberated human beings live according to their own direct-guidance and inner directives. Truly free individuals are not dependent on outer stimuli to make themselves feel good.Achievements, accomplishments and the impetusto acquire an infinite number of purchasable goods cease to be a priority in their life. 10

Anyone who has attained True Freedom will directly know incredible peace, joy, delight, wonder and freedom, simply by being alive. Whatever is available outside in the market place, touted to bring about personal fulfillment and satisfaction can never improve the wholeness andcompleteness truly free people already directly experience. 11

Persons who live with True Freedom are completely responsible individuals. They are intimately in tune withthe impersonal directives of life. These directives are intrinsic to life itself. They encompass the highest moral and ethical mandates in existence. These directives are effortlessly accessed via the faculty of direct-knowing by all liberated individuals.These directives guide a person in life towards their highest possible good, which miraculously also includes the highest possible good for all life on Earth. 12











We usually don’t complain about the beneficialprogramming we inherited. Most likely, we like it and might even be proud of it.It is the programming that causes pain and suffering, and does not allow us to live with freedom, joy, and peace that disturbs our life in fundamental ways. Let me give you an example: 18

Recently, I received an email from a woman I will call Mary who asked for my help. She told me that her daughter was treating her so badly that she was on the brink of going mad. Her daughter is a single mother of a five year old girl.The father of the child is not around to help raise their daughter. He is also not providing any financial support, which forces the sole responsibility of caring for and raising the girl onto the shoulders of Mary’s daughter. 19















Mary was stunned when she grasped that her,her daughter and her grand daughter were engaged in repeating a five-generational family dynamic. She had never seen the challenges with her daughter in this light. Nor had she ever considered that herchoices in men, along with her internalized blueprint ofhow to be a woman and how to raise a family had been established as a fixed programming in her DNA. 27

Mary had no idea she inherited her grandmother’s mental, emotional, behavioral makeup. That’s when a lightbulb went off in her head. Suddenly she saw that four generations of womenpicked men who were not responsible fathers and husbands. Four generations of men left to their women not only the enormously difficult task of being the sole caretaker for their children. These men also had their women shoulder the entire financial burden of raising their offspring. 28

Four generations of women did not know what a mutually loving, supportive, rewarding and fulfilling relationship with a man looks and feels like. Four generations of women were weary of love,living with enormous hurt, anger sadness, pain and loneliness, unable to generate a beautiful family life. 29

Five generations of children did not know whatit is like to have a father around to help raise them, and lovingly take care of them and support them. Five generations of children were raised by their mothers and grandmothers, living together in one household, with the adult women fighting with each other all the time. 30

What is the programming involved in this family trauma? How can five generations of people be entangled? It’s the anger. It is misplaced!The anger that is expressed between mothers and daughters belongs to Mary’s grandmother and grandfather. Because the grandmother could not heal and release the rage she felt towards her husband, it was passed on to future generations as an energetic family legacy. 31

In this family, the daughters became the carriers of the grandmother’s unresolved rage, anger, fury and bitterness. They act it out between them. What is really crazy is that the mothers and daughterscan not heal their difficulties on the level of their relationships. That’s because they aren’t really angry with one another. Do you get that? They actually love each other dearly! 32

Mothers and daughters are simply hijacked by the programming they inherited. They actually cannot act any differently. They are a slave to the thoughts and feelings that run in their brain and body. Do you see the incredibly tragic effect unconsciousfamily entanglements have on us, our life and our relationships? People who love each other act in strange, hurtful and incomprehensible ways due to hidden, passed-down family programming to which they are a bound. 33

So what happened with Mary and her family? Could freedom be generated from this incrediblytragic and pain-filled inherited family programming? 34

Yes, it could! 35

During a family constellation set up, four generations of women in this family took responsibility for their choices and let go of their anger towards their men. Within a few days, the entire family dynamic changed. All fighting stopped. Mary’s daughter, who was completelyunaware that her mother had sought professional help, is nowas sweet as can be. She is appreciative of her mother, friendly, helpful and supportive. She spends most of her free time at home now, and recently even frolicked around in the kitchen, dancing arm in arm with her mother and her child. 36

How is such a drastic change possible? How can it be that just within a few days after aconstellation set up had been done, the daughter’s behavior is completely altered? Plus, she did not even know any release work had been done! 37

In the upcoming pages, I will show you with visualsthe make up of human beings. What I will present will benews to you. I did not know any of this either until 2009. The visuals will help you understand how this kind of immediate transformation is possible. The visuals will also show you where your inherited programming is located in your being and where True Freedom is found. 38

It is my hope that the subsequent words and the truly unique, one of a kind visuals will help you understand yourself and life in a new way.May you realize that the happiness and contentment you have been searching for all your life have always been and will always be right there where ever you are. Margot Ridler Intuitive Visionary March 2018 39











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This visual depicts a function that operates in us that claims all thoughts, feelings, emotions and instincts that appear in our body to be personally ours. I call this functioning the claiming function.I had not been aware of this function until September 2006, when it disappeared and never started back up again. 46

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This visual depicts the merged grid structure andclaiming function, which produces in us the sense of having or being a personal self. Remember, I just showed you that the thoughts you think, the feelings you feel, the emotions and instincts you experience are programmed? You inherited them from your family system. 48

This makes your personal self a robot. 49