Women's View November 2016

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November Contents Travel Carolina: Day and Weekend Trips omensviewnc.com Cover photo by Kia McMillan with Captured By Kia Wine, Weddings and Llamas at Cape Fear Winery .w Staff 5 - Local Travel Agent Offers Tips Picks for 7 - November's Top 10 Calendar Picks www Visitors to 20 - Readers' Favorite Get-Away Pictures Fayetteville 22 - Advice on Prepping for the Holiday Season Building a lifetime of memories, Building a lifetime of memories, One vacation at a time... Thermograms, One vacation at a time... Health Coaching Specializing in cruises, & More groups, weddings, family, Affordable Prevention all-inclusives, adventure, Disney. Shawna Green Realtor ® Serving Ft. Bragg & Surrounding Areas A Picture of Health Thermograms offers mobile medical thermography to people in the Cape Fear region of North Carolina at doctors’ offices and other medical settings as well as an office in Fayetteville, NC. Please call for more information 910-527-7733 Jill Merrill Owner/Travel Agent/ Hope Mills, N.C. Scan here to find your Dream Home! or email 910-423-2088 • [email protected] [email protected] www.FavoriteTravelAgent.com MyPictureOfHealth.com PictureOfHealthThermograms.com www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 3

VOLUME 9 ISSUE 11 PUBLISHER F & B Publications EDITOR IN CHIEF Janice Burton [email protected] MANAGING EDITOR April Olsen 910.484.6200 ASSOCIATE EDITOR Stephanie Crider [email protected] MARKETING & DEVELOPMENT MARKETING & DEVELOPMENT MANAGER MANAGER Keri Dickson 910.584.4121 Keri Dickson [email protected] [email protected] ART DIRECTOR & GRAPHIC DESIGNER Sara Smith [email protected] MARKETING REPRESENTATIVES Linda McAlister Nicki Hart Travel is oh so good for the economy. I challenge you to OPERATIONS soul! There’s the excitement of try out a “Fay-cation!” Yep, I Paulette Naylor [email protected] adventure, the break from the think I just made up a new DISTRIBUTION MANAGER/ normal routine and the beauty word. Back to the point, my SALES ADMINISTRATOR Laurel Handforth of discovering new places. challenge to you is to go out and [email protected] I personally enjoy traveling find something fun and new CONTRIBUTING WRITERS somewhere that my cell phone right here in Fayetteville, North Erinn Crider, MeMe Novella signal cannot reach. So far, I Carolina! The list above doesn’t WOMEN’S VIEW MAGAZINE 208 ROWAN STREET have managed to find this next even come close to covering it FAYETTEVILLE N.C. 28301 PHONE: 910-484-6200 to a lake in South Carolina, on all. Get some friends together Fax: 910-484-9218 a mountain in North Carolina, and go discover our city! In Women’s View Magazine is for Women, About Women, By Women. Published by F&B Publications in conjunction with Media Marketing Management. on a cruise ship headed to the doing so, you not only entertain All Rights Reserved. Reproduction or use of editorial or advertisement without permission is strictly prohibited. Bahamas and driving down a yourself and your friends, you section of Bragg Boulevard. spend money locally I am always looking for new which does so much places with no signal! good for our community. While travel is amazing, we A “Fay-cation” also gives are truly blessed to live in such you an opportunity to a diverse community that offers meet the beautiful and a variety of things to do. Our interesting people that options include: zipline, indoor come from all over to skydiving, outdoor skydiving, world to be a part of hiking, canoeing, kayaking, our community. strolling through nature trails, At Women’s View, we live theater, art galleries, would love to see your creating your own piece of pictures from your “Fay- art, wine tasting, golf, arcades, cation!” Please, submit swimming, skating, bowling, your pictures to our movies, live music in a variety Women’s View Magazine of venues, sports teams, fishing, Facebook page and tell lots of fitness options, indoor us what you discovered. shooting, outdoor shooting, Have fun discovering our antiques, trivia night, karaoke, city!! shopping, parks to play in, Botanical Garden, winery tours, puzzle rooms, cuisine from all over the world and festivals galore! For a while it seemed “Stay- cations” were pretty popular due to the drastic state of our www.womensviewnc.com Page 4 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

Adventurous Women Traveling the World By JILL MERRILL Women purchase 80 percent of all travel booked worldwide. Women earn more and spend more than ever before. They not only plan weddings and honeymoons, but they now dominate every category of travel purchased. We women are travelling to more exotic locations, taking part in immersive experiences, such as foodie or cultural experiences, travelling with a purpose of helping save the environment (eco-tourism) or helping people in areas of immense need (social impact tourism). We want to see, taste and experience the world in ways we have never experienced it before and we are sharing these experiences with a wide group of people in our circles and even explore some on our own. Twenty years ago, solo women travelers were unheard of. Now it’s becoming quite common. Just a few short years ago the largest segment of travelers were people in their “golden years” spending their children’s inheritance trotting the globe. When they started sharing their experiences by paying for their children and grandchildren to join them, something happened. A new appreciation of travel was born to the younger generation and they have embraced their wanderlust. Social media has added to this boom as the younger generation posts pictures of their latest adventures. So, where to travel - that is the question! And how to travel. On our next adventure, do we want to take an ocean cruise, CONCEALED CARRY HANDGUN TRAINING river cruise, fly, drive, tour in a group, have a private tour, FIREARMS FOR FEMALES FAMILY FOCUS SPORT SHOOTING explore on our own or a combination of some of those? The CUSTOMIZED TRAINING PRIVATE AND GROUP RATES possibilities are endless. [email protected] Getting help planning, budgeting and preparing for these lifelong adventures is probably the best advice I can give. You don’t have to go it alone. Despite the internet, travel agents still book most travel. Travel agents are experts and know all the little pieces you wished you had known when you booked that Do you have a friend who is relocating? last trip on your own. Travel agents protect you from Internet travel scams, add value by finding the right fit for you, saving you hours of research because they know the best suppliers, best time to • FLEXIBLE and go, best pricing and they take the stress out of your travel • AFFORDABLE planning. Most travel agents do not add any fees. The FULLY-furnished suppliers (hotels, tour companies, cruise lines, etc.) pay travel apartments just agents so why not get some expert advice so you know your minutes from money will be well spent. Ft. Bragg, So, where will your next adventure take you? Cross Creek Mall, Jill Merrill has been a travel agent for more than 10 years and schools, hospitals is the owner of Favorite Travel Agent. She may be reached at and restaurants. 309 N. Reilly Road, Fayetteville, NC 910.423.2088 or [email protected]. http://thefamilylodge.yolasite.com www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 5

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November Top Nov. 5 - The Veterans Day Parade Nov. 12 - When Pigs kicks off at 10 a.m. in downtown Fly All American BBQ Fayetteville. Festival at Festival Park benefits Communities In Schools of Cumberland County. Visit www. whenpigsflybbqfestival. Nov. 5 - Worldwide Hollerin' com for more info. Festival at Paradise Acres in Hope Mills. Visit www. worldwidehollerinfestival.org for info. Nov. 13 - Taste of Fayetteville at Festival Park. Local eateries gather to Nov 8 - Don't forget to vote! offer sample-size savings of popular menu items. Nov. 10 - Join us for the Nov 5, 18, 20, 26 - Catch a Fayetteville FireAntz home hockey Fayetteville Ladies Power Lunch at Holiday Inn I-95. game this month at the Crown. Tickets are $35 and include Tickets range from $7-21. Friday and the Shopportunity Expo, lunch and wine Saturday games start at 7:30 p.m., Sunday games start tasting. Kimberly Jeffries Leonard will at 4 p.m. Purchase tickets at www.CapeFearTix.com or be the guest speaker. Register online at call 910.321.0123 www.FayettevilleLadiesPower.com or call Keri at 910.484.6200 for more info. Nov 16-20 - Festival of Trees at the Carolina Hotel in Pinehurst offers lavishly decorated trees and Nov. 10 wreaths, a silent auction and - Indigo pictures with Santa to benefits Film Sandhills Children's Center. Visit www.festivaloftrees.org for Festival will present more info. an encore showing of the documentary Nov. 18-20 - The 35th annual Celebration film Maya of Seagrove Potters features a market, Angelou: And Still auction, demonstration and more. Visit I Rise from 6-8 p.m. at the www.discoverseagrove.com for more info. Cameo Art House Theatre. Tickets are $10. www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 7

Social Security Benefits for Wounded Endulge Yourself Southern Style!ndulge Yourself Southern Style! E Warriors SSA Public Affairs Specialist By BRENDA BROWN Every Veterans Day, the nation honors the brave men and women who risk their lives to protect our country and the freedoms we cherish. Social Security honors veterans and active duty members of the military every day by giving them the support they deserve. For those who return home with injuries, Social Security is a resource they can turn 910•426•2033 to for disability benefits. Social Security’s Wounded Warriors website is at www. socialsecurity.gov/ woundedwarriors. Get Us On The Line website has answers to many commonly asked The Wounded Warriors Before You Pay questions, and shares useful information about disability benefits, including how veterans can receive That Fine! expedited processing of disability claims. Benefits available through Social Security are different from those available from the Department of Veterans Affairs and require a separate application. The expedited process is available to military service members who became disable while on active military service on or after October 1, 2001, regardless of where the disability occurs. Even active duty military who continue to receive pay while in a hospital or on medical leave should consider applying for disability benefits if they • Know Your Rights • Know Your Options • are unable to work due to a disabling condition. • FREE Consultation • Payment Plans • Active duty status and receipt of military pay does not necessarily prevent payment of Social Security disability benefits. Although a person cannot receive One Call Does It All. Better Call Boose Law Social Security disability benefits while engaging in substantial work for pay or profit, receipt of military payments should never stop someone from applying for disability benefits from Social Security. With more than 80 years of experience and compassionate service, Social Security is proud to 214 Dick St., PO Box 1766, support our veterans and active duty members of the Fayetteville, NC 28302 Phone: 910.486.9292 Fax: 910.221.0750 military. Let these heroes know they can count on www.boose-law.com us when they need to take advantage of their earned benefits, today and tomowrrow. Page 8 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

Combining A Christmas Tour of Homes Business Trips presented by with Pleasure The Heritage Square Historical Society Sunday, December 4, 2016 1:00 - 6:00 p.m. Five Gorgeous Fayetteville Homes Decorated for e Holidays Historical Properties in Period Decorations By ASHLEY BARRETT CPA at McFadyen & Sumner Sandford House • Oval Ballroom Refreshments Served at the Sandford House Are you thinking about turning a business trip into a mini vacation? This can be a great way to fund a portion of your vacation costs. But if you’re not careful, you could lose the tax benefits of business travel. Reasonable and necessary Generally, if the primary purpose of your trip is business, expenses directly attributable to business will be deductible (or excludable from your taxable income if your employer is paying the expenses or reimbursing you through an accountable plan). Reasonable and necessary travel expenses generally include: • Air, taxi and rail fares • Baggage handling • Car use or rental • Lodging • Meals • Tips Expenses associated with taking extra days for sightseeing, relaxation or other personal activities generally aren’t deductible, nor are the cost of your spouse or children traveling with you. Business vs. pleasure How do you determine if your trip is “primarily” for Tickets may be purchased day of business? One factor is the number of days spent on business vs. pleasure. But some days that you might think are “pleasure” at any of the tour homes or days might actually be “business” days for tax purposes. e Sandford House/Heritage Square “Standby days,” for example, may be considered business days, 225 Dick Street, Downtown Fayetteville. even if you’re not engaged in business-related activities. You also may be able to deduct certain expenses on personal days if tacking the days onto your trip reduces the overall cost. During your trip it’s critical to carefully document your business vs. personal expenses. Also keep in mind that special limitations apply to foreign travel, luxury water travel and $15 Donations certain convention expenses. For more information call (910) 483-6009 Maximize your tax savings For more information on how to maximize your tax savings or visit www.heritagesquarefay.org for a list of homes. when combining business travel with a vacation, please www.womensviewnc.com contact us. NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 9

Women’s View Staff Top Picks for Fayetteville Visitors By ERINN CRIDER Guests are coming to town to visit. What do you do? Appreciate Nature Fayetteville is an incredible city full of art, history and If the day is beautiful a innovation. Unfortunately, everyday life doesn’t necessarily trip the Cape Fear Botanical uncover the hidden gems that impress guests. Here are some Gardens is an excellent suggestions from the Women’s View team on the best parts of choice. The Garden offers a Fayetteville to show off or to enjoy on your own. mixture of cultivated and wild plants. An amazing aspect Historic Downtown of the Cape Fear Botanical Fayetteville Garden is that it also acts as Even when it is not full of an incredible space for many food trucks and festivals, Historic community and cultural events. There are often concerts, theater Downtown Fayetteville is a sight to productions, classes and other exciting events that fill the space between the trees. see. The beautiful brick buildings are full of creativity and passion. There The Cape Fear River Trail is gem in the Fayetteville Parks and are art galleries, theaters, businesses and restaurants of all kinds. A stroll Recreation system. It is a 5.3 miles (one way) of beautiful native downtown often turns into an evening plants and wildlife. All along the trail there are signs that can of art, entertainment and incredible provide some information about the plants and animals in the cuisine. The monthly 4th Friday events are perhaps when the area. The 10-foot wide paved path makes it easy for everyone vibrant downtown is at its best. All the local businesses stay open to enjoy the amazing river views. There’s also 1,000 feet of late and live entertainment is pretty much guaranteed. You don’t boardwalk that provides a glimpse into the North Carolina marsh have to head downtown with a plan. The fun will find you. and wetlands. The trail is open everyday from 8 a.m. until dusk. Local Sports Festivals Depending on the time of year, The Fayetteville SwampDogs are a collegiate summer baseball team that Fayetteville has some incredible competes in the Coastal Plain League. festivals. The Fayetteville “The Swamp,” or J.P. Riddle Stadium Dogwood Festival takes place is where the team calls home. The every year in the spring and atmosphere of the games is really what fall. The festival includes live makes the SwampDogs such a pleasure entertainment, art, crafts, food to watch. It is baseball at its most vendors and season-specific events. The International Folk Festival takes place every year around late September. enjoyable. The family friendly games are invigorating and there’s Fayetteville is a very multi cultural community and this event is always something fun or delicious happening on the sidelines. invites everyone to share their cultures. There is a parade The Swamp Dogs are incredibly active in the community so often at games there are also a great way to engage with other that highlights traditional clothing and often music. There community events and organizations. are performances throughout the weekend and many people share delicious traditional recipes through small food stands. The Fayetteville FireAntz are also A relatively new Fayetteville festival is the Food Truck Festival a guaranteed fun evening. They are a put on by the same people that organize the Dogwood professional minor league ice hockey Festival. For one day tons of food trucks flood Festival Park team. They play in the Southern and community members are invited to enjoy a day full of creative and delicious food. Professional Hockey League at the Crown Coliseum. The games are fast paced and lively. You don’t have to be a hockey expert to participate in the electric energy of the games. Popular music fills the coliseum and dancing kids fill the aisles. FireAntz games are just fun, frankly, and it’s a great way to show off how passionate Fayetteville citizens are. Page 10 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

For the Foodies... Cook Out is a southern institution. The Cajun fries and milkshakes are the things of which homesickness is made. Whether it is late at night or mid-afternoon, no trip to Cook Out is complete without a milkshake. The massive list of flavors may seem intimidating but rest assured, they are all Catch a Show delicious. The milkshakes are unbelievably thick and An evening at the theater is a classic depending on the flavor it is a physical impossibility for a reason, and in Fayetteville there to get the chunks of cookies and candies through the straw. The straw is a joke, but those milkshakes are is always something fantastic to see. seriously good The Cape Fear Regional Theatre is locally founded and community The Wine Café is incredibly driven. The main stage provides innovative. The small locally owned seating for 309 audience members and shop offers a specially curated stock the theater sees an annual attendance of of high quality and affordable wines. 42,000. The theater brings in actors and designers from all over the nation to produce incredible shows They of course can be purchased for local audiences. The Gilbert Theater is a small black box by the bottle, but there is also the theater that provides a very intimate experience. It is a semi- opportunity to order a glass in the tasting room before committing to professional theater that produces six plays and musicals a year. an entire bottle, or more. No wine The deep connection to the community develops unique and experience needed. It turns the entire relevant artistic interpretations. wine buying process into a fun and For the Military-minded enjoyable experience that can be shared with friends. A central aspect of Fayetteville’s identity as a city it it’s strong connection to the military. The The Mash House is a Airborne and Special Operations Museum is a reflection of this combination of a microbrewery cherished connection. The ASOM and a restaurant. That means that you can offer guests an award winning details the history of the airborne microbrew produced only and special operations troops but in Fayetteville alongside also serves to honor and cherish a fresh interpretation of these brave men and women. This classic southern fare. If that theme of preservation and honor isn’t impressive I don’t know continues into the North Carolina what is. The favorite beer Veterans Park, which is an outdoor installation located near the museum. A trip to Fayetteville is of the evening can also be incomplete without acknowledging the many heroes that have brought home in growlers for later enjoyment. The called this area home. Mash House also has a home-brewed root beer. Be careful, the guests may become frequent visitors. The Fayetteville Pie Company provides a unique opportunity. You could take your guests to the shop and show off the delicious sweet and savory pies you are lucky enough to have daily access too. Alternatively, you could take a ready-to-bake pie home, toss it in the oven and impress guests with the delicious dinner or dessert, or both, that you have prepared. This implies that you made this delicious pie, and it would only be half a lie not to correct them. But at the end of the day, everyone got to enjoy pie, so how could it be bad? www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 11

Family Fun Awaits at NC Beaches For many in the state, an annual trip to the beach is on the “must do” list. For some, the developed beaches like Myrtle Beach or Wrightsville Beach are favorite destinations. But many find the tranquility of North Carolina’s family beaches a better way to relax and enjoy time with family and friends. Below are a couple of the best beach destinations in the state: Ocean Isle Beach Ocean Isle Beach is just a short drive from Fayetteville. The island is comprised of seven miles of south-facing beaches. The spring season begins in March, with the summer season kicking off in June. The island has a small town flavor that is hard to beat. When you drive across the beach to the island, you can literally feel your stress slipping away. There are numerous homes for rent on the island to fit the needs of families of all sizes. Most houses on the channel have docks where you can fish, swim or kyak, while the oceanfront homes give you breathtaking views of the Atlantic. There are a few restaurants and bars, and it wouldn’t be a beach town without an arcade, putt-putt and ice cream shop. Ocean Isle has all three. The beaches are clean and even during the height of the season you can find a comfortable place to plant your chair. Instead of the rowdy behavior you find at some of the more developed beaches, you will find families picnicing, playing bocce ball or tossing around the football. The beach also has a great number of tidal pools that you can sit your chair in and stay cool when the temperatures start heating up. Oak Island Beach new station house is built over the footprint of the lost station, Oak Island Beach is included in the string of beaches that and closely resembles the older station. fall into the Brunswick Island Beaches. Like Ocean Isle, Oak In 2004, the lighthouse and the surrounding property were Island is also a family beach, and, yes, there is ice cream, deeded to the Town of Caswell Beach along with adjacent mini-golf and happy people riding bicycles. The water is the beachfront property. While the Coast Guard has retained big draw on Oak Island, which boasts of more than 60 public responsibility for the upkeep of the lights, Caswell Beach beach-access points, two fishing piers, two marinas and three now has responsibility for maintenance of the lighthouse and public boat and canoe ramps. the grounds. The town has made provisions for additional Oak Island also has a number of quaint shops and parking as well as providing access to the lighthouse grounds restaurants, as well as a karaoke bar. In addition to home and a boardwalk access to the beach with an observation rentals, Oak Island also has a number of small hotels and deck. During the summer of 2006, the Friends of Oak Island inns, as well a great golf course. Just down from the Town of Lighthouse began assembling volunteers and providing visitors Oak Island, is Caswell Beach, which is home to one of North the opportunity to tour the tower. Carolina’s light houses and Historic Fort Caswell, which is Public 'no reservation required' free tours to the second now home to a North Carolina Baptist Retreat Center. level (NOT to the top) are offered every Wednesday and The Oak Island Lighthouse was completed in 1958 at a Saturday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., starting Memorial Day total cost of $110,000. The lights are 169 feet above the water. and running through Labor Day. Visitors climb 1 level (12 A misconception is that the lighthouse itself is 169 feet tall. steps) for anyone age seven and up. A docent will provide The actual structure is 153 feet tall, but it stands on a slight information about the lighthouse and answer any questions rise. Therefore, the height of the light above the water is 169 you may have. Climbing to the top is available year round for feet, and it is so reported on nautical charts. There is no spiral anyone nine years or older with at least two weeks advanced staircase as found in most older lighthouses, but instead a notice for a reservation and four weeks in June, July and series of ships ladders with a total of 131 steps to the lantern August. Requests with less than two or four weeks notice will gallery level. be offered the opportunity to join already scheduled tours if The Oak Island Lighthouse is located on property that has openings exist. Memorial Day through Labor Day, top tours been in use as a U.S. Coast Guard station since the 1930s, are only offered on Tuesday and Thursday mornings and and prior to that it was a U.S. Lifesaving Station. The current under some circumstances on Sunday mornings. Top tours Coast Guard station was recently reconstructed after a fire are up 131 metal ship stairs to an outside balcony and are completely destroyed the 10-year-old building in 2002. The currently offered free of charge and by appointment only. Page 12 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

Fast Facts About North Carolina Tourism • Tourism is one of North Carolina’s largest industries. In 2014, domestic travelers spent $21.3 billion across the state, a 5.4 percent increase from 2013, and a record high visitor spending figure.* • Domestic tourism expenditures directly supported 204,832 jobs for North Carolina residents, up 3 percent from 2013 and a record high employment figure.* • The tourism industry contributed $4.9 billion to the state’s payroll in 2014.* • Traveler spending generated over $3.2 billion in tax receipts: * • $1.5 billion in federal, $1.1 billion in state and $636.1 million in local tax revenue. • North Carolina ranks sixth in total person-trip volume by state behind California, Florida, Texas, New York and Pennsylvania. www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 13

Enjoy Outdoor Adventure, Pottery and Wine in the Uwharrie Mountains By JANICE BURTON In 1931, the federal government Trail. Wilderness camping is also available staging areas. purchased a track of land in Central at designated sites throughout the forest. There are several staging areas to choose North Carolina. Thirty years later, If you are just interested in spending from but the trail that starts from Cotton President John F. Kennedy Jr. made the the day hiking, you can picnic at Holts Place Staging Area is rated as extremely land, which encompasses Montgomery, Picnic Area, which is located on Badin difficult and should only be attempted by Randolph and Davidson counties, the Lake. There is a bathroom facility and a experienced riders. An OHV Trail Pass is Uwharrie National Forest. Although it boat dock, as well as access to one of the required and must be purchased prior to is one of the smallest national forests in many trails. arrival since there is currently no on-site the system — just 50,645 acres — the The Uwharrie OHV Trails are very self service pay station. Passes can be Uwharrie Mountains are among the popular for Jeeps because the rugged purchased at nearby vendors or by visiting oldest in the nation. The forest is also one trails consist of steep and chunky climbs, the Uwharrie National Forest District of the most serene, with little commercial deep ruts, seasonal mud pits and a few Each October, the forest plays host to development within its confines. shallow stream crossings. The 20-mile trail the Uwharrie Mountain Festival, which For Cumberland County residents, the system is primarily geared for 4x4s and includes a run around the lake, a crafts Uwharrie National Forest is just a short four wheelers drive northeast, making it easy to soothe but all vehicle your soul in a mountain setting without types including the long drive and crowds that come with dirt bikes are a trip to the North Carolina mountains. permitted. The Uwharrie Forest is a great place to Free primitive get away from it all and spend time simply camping with enjoying the great outdoors. direct trail Recreation abounds in the Uwharries. access can You can do everything from biking to be found at horseback riding to camping and kayaking Art Lilley and hiking. It is one of few places where Campground. you go off-roading with your Jeep or four- The wheeler. You can also spend a day on the campground lake fishing or swimming. is graded with If you want to make it a weekend loose gravel getaway, you can check out one of the and sites are many campgrounds. If you are into a little available on a more comfort, you may want to check first come, first into Arrowhead Campground. It has served basis. electrical hook-ups at single and double Amenities sites, is located near a a boat launch and include a vault is near bike, horse and OHV trails. There toilet, unloading are also restroom and shower facilities. At ramp and the Badin Lake site, you can camp directly garbabge cans on the lake. No electricity, but there are but no running restrooms and showers. water. The For those looking to get back to nature, campground you can stay at West Morris Mountain provides direct Campground, which is the trailhead for OHV access the Uwaharrie National Forest Recreation to the trail Page 14 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

festival and much more. It also puts on a beautiful display of Collaborative Auction, which is on Friday, Nov. 18 from 6-9 color, with changing leaves that can’t be found anywhere else p.m. at Lucks Cannery, 798 North Carolina 705. but the mountains. While there, you can also check out the This is your opportunity to browse and shop the booths many small towns that surround the forest, or you can even stop before the marketplace opens Saturday morning. There in and visit the N.C. Zoo, which is located in Asheboro. The will be a delicious spread of heavy hors d'oeuvres and fully zoo has consistently been rated one of the best natural habitat catered reception. A live band will be performing and the zoos in the world, and with cooler temperatures, the animals popular 'Seagrove Potters' Collaborative Auction' will take become more active. place. Artists from different shops that do not normally work Also, November is a great time to check out Seagrove, together, have made one of a kind pieces only available on North Carolina. Seagrove is home to more than 100 pottery this night each year, all created in Seagrove. You can view shops and is considered by many to be the pottery capital of the Collaborations that will be sold Friday night at www. the United States. Seagrove is home to one of the the largest discoverseagrove.com and on their Facebook page. concentration of working potters in the United States. Enjoy Your tickets will be held at the will call desk at the door. On your day on a self-guided driving tour down some of North Saturday and Sunday you can shop to you drop at the Lucks Carolina’s scenic byways. Within a 20 mile radius there are Cannery. Saturday hours are 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. and Sunday just under 100 shops to visit. You’ll most likely be greeted by doors open at 10 a.m. and close at 4 p.m. the potters themselves, and can watch them while they create If you can’t make that event, you can check out the beautiful traditional and modern works. Seagrove offers a Holiday Open House on Saturday, Dec. 3, Saturday, Dec range of pottery, from functional everyday use, sculptural, folk 10 and Saturday, Dec. 17. Starting on December 3rd the art, to historical forms from the past. pottery shops of Seagrove have special events planned on On Nov. 19, you can drop-in on the 9th Annual Saturdays and Sundays. Enjoy decorations and complimentary Celebration of Seagrove Potters. This annual fall celebration refreshments as you find something for everyone on your list is an indoor event, where potters come together for a weekend this year. Many of the potters create special pieces specifically of art. On Friday, you can attend the Potters Gala and for the holidays. And if the great outdoors, wildlife and art are not enough to convince you to visit the Uwharrie’s you may want to check out the Uwharrie Wine Trail. Less than 45 miles separate four wineries along the Uwharrie Mountains Wine Trail, making it ideal for you to enjoy a day trip involving all or most wineries. The trail winds from Salisbury, which is just 45 minutes to the northeast of Charlotte, and heads southeast to Albemarle near the Uwharrie National Forest. It ends on top of Stony Mountain, where you can toast the panoramic views of the Uwharrie Mountains and the lower Yadkin Valley. Old Stone Winery was founded in 2001 and is currently owned and operated by Army veterans Darin and Naomi Griffin. Old Stone Winery is a 130-acre estate with 20 acres of muscadine grapes making award-winning wines. The winery also sources wine grapes as locally as possible, with many grapes from around Rowan County. Along with varied Muscadine offerings and several fruit wines (think blackberry and more), you’ll likely find Cabernet Sauvignon, Merlot, Cabernet Franc, Seyval Blanc, Chardonnay and more. There are tours, a tasting room and a gift shop. The Uwharrie Vineyard offers a wide variety of wines in its tasting room and gift shop. During tastings and tours, you’ll learn about the unique style of red and white wines made here, as well as blush wines, fruit wines and port-style wines. Live music events are frequent in the formal banquet hall and also on the large outside patio. Plus the winery's chef enjoys doing the food pairings with the wines. Dennis Vineyards features a variety of Muscadine wines, as well as several varietals and fruit wines. The ice wine-style Harvest Gold is the most-requested and least- available wine. Stony Mountain Vineyard offers a perfect ending to the Uwharrie Mountains Wine Trail. Stony Mountain features many varietal wines, including an interesting blend of Syrah and Sangiovese, as well as a half-dozen fruit wines and red and white Muscadine table wines. www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 15

A Nicholas Sparks Tour of North Carolina By LYNN SELDON On a relaxing day, it’s hard to beat curling up with the first city in America to be named for George Washington. latest book from North Carolina author Nicholas Sparks. Situated on the Pamlico River, Washington’s downtown offers It’s even better if that cozy reading takes place in one of lots of shops and restaurants, the Pamlico River Promenade, the coastal settings Sparks loves. It’s easy to see why Sparks and the North Carolina Estuarium, with many hands-on loves living in – and writing about — southeastern North exhibits highlighting the Pamlico-Tar River region. Carolina. It’s also easy to enjoy the real-life settings that New Bern on the Neuse River is next and it’s best to plan inspire his bestselling novels, thanks to charming historic to stay awhile. Author Nicholas Sparks certainly did – the towns, quiet beaches, tidal rivers and pretty marshes as far town has been his home for many years. as the eye can see. The staff at New Bern’s friendly Convention & Visitors Center is happy to share the self-guided Walk to 3-day Itinerary Remember walking tour with fans of the writer’s popular Day 1: Start your exploration of Nicholas Sparks country books and numerous resulting movies. The tour also on North Carolina’s coast in the pretty river town of provides a way to see many of the city’s sights. Edenton, where Sparks set The Rescue. New Bern specifically plays a role in three Day 2: Take U.S. 17 through the small Sparks novels: A Bend in the Road, The towns of Williamston and Washington Wedding and The Notebook. Highlights before settling into New Bern, where of the walking tour include Union Sparks lives, works and has set several Point Park and the docks behind the of his novels. See why waterfront DoubleTree by Hilton Day 3: Head down the coast (both featured in A Bend in the through Swansboro and on to our beautiful Road), the Alfred Cunningham “Hollywood East” in Wilmington Bridge leading into town (in before ending your exploration state is a The Notebook), the Masonic of Nicholas Sparks country in Theatre and Centenary Southport, the setting for the main character Methodist Church (both in recent Sparks hit novel and film, The Notebook), historic Cedar Safe Haven. in best sellers Grove Cemetery (mentioned as part of a funeral procession Day 1: Edenton in A Bend in the Road). Sparks Known as the “South’s Prettiest also featured the tasty New Bern Small Town,” historic Edenton is restaurant Fred & Claire’s (which situated on the Chowan River and now houses the creative cuisine of 247 Albemarle Sound, a picture-perfect setting Craven) in A Bend in the Road. for The Rescue. The novel is one of Sparks’ more Other Heritage Walking Tours available personal stories and was inspired by his son, Ryan. from the Convention & Visitors Center include The novel’s main character has a family home on the Civil War Heritage, Historic Homes, Architectural, and Chowan River, which is easy to envision as you cross African-American Heritage. They all provide a great way the bridge into town. Two of the novel’s characters are to see the town. volunteers with the Edenton Volunteer Fire Department. Along with taking one of the walking tours, many See the town library and Episcopal Church that play “roles” visitors to New Bern start with Tryon Palace, which served in the book on a guided walking or trolley tour. as the North Carolina government when New Bern was Other Edenton highlights include: Historic Edenton the state capital in the late-1700s and was mentioned in A State Historic Site; the 1767 Chowan County Courthouse; Bend in the Road and The Wedding. the 250-year-old Cupola House; 1886 Roanoke River A visit to Tryon Palace starts at the adjacent North Lighthouse; a Maritime Underground Railroad Site; and Carolina History Center, where the soaring Cannon much more. Gateway provides orientation exhibits and the rest of the museum features rotating coverage and interactive Day 2: Williamston, Washington & New historical activities – as well as Lawson’s Landing, a tasty Bern Riverwalk café right on the Neuse. The Tryon Palace Williamston is located right on the Roanoke River and Museum Store features many items representative of North features many historic buildings, a revitalized downtown Carolina history, including decorative pieces for the home and the Senator Bob Martin Agricultural Center, which and garden, collectibles, porcelain and many books. features many equestrian events and more. Another interesting part of New Bern’s history can be Historic Washington was founded in 1776 and was the found just up Middle Street at the Birthplace of Pepsi. Page 16 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

Here, at his pharmacy, Caleb Bradham Sparks book to hit the silver screen). during filming, including: Julianne invented “Brad’s Drink,” which he later Safe Haven – the romantic thriller Hough’s 23rd birthday celebration patented as Pepsi-Cola. Today, thirsty starring Josh Duhamel and Julianne at Ports of Call; popular Fishy Fishy visitors can enjoy a sample and buy Hough – debuted on Valentine’s Day Cafe, near where much of the film souvenirs at the recreated soda fountain. 2013, after being filmed exclusively in work was done and a favorite with Nearby, the New Bern Firemen’s Southport and Wilmington. Sparks and the cast and crew; a Museum features the state’s first It’s easy to connect with both guided paddling trip with Adventure chartered fire department. There towns as seen in the film. In Kayak Company; and tee times, are horse-drawn steam engines and Wilmington – often referred to as dining and libations at Oak Island other original firefighting equipment “Wilmywood” and “Hollywood East” Golf Club. and relics. because of all the film work done Duhamel, often accompanied by Throughout town, creatively there – the characters strolled by the wife Fergie of Black Eyed Peas fame, painted bear sculptures are easy to Wilmington Convention Center and stayed on Oak Island and continues spot. New Bern was named for Bern, the Carolina Apartments on Market to publicly rave about his time on Switzerland, and a bear serves as the Street during a visit. Down at Fort the island and in Southport. town symbol and mascot. Fisher State Recreation Area, the With the addition of Southport, fictional couple enjoyed a romantic Sparks has now featured kiss on the wide and deserted beach. southeastern North Carolina’s Day 3: Swansboro, The possibilities in and around Beaufort, Edenton, New Bern, Wilmington & Southport Southport include: the ferry Rodanthe, Swansboro and Swansboro is next. The “Friendly between Fort Fisher, across the Wilmington (which was already City by the Sea” sits at the confluence Cape Fear River, to Southport; highlighted in Dear John, Message of the White Oak River and the Southport’s old-timey city blocks in a Bottle and The Last Song prior Intracoastal Waterway (including a where the dramatic Fourth of July to Safe Haven). scenic walkway). Just a few blocks in scenes were filmed; Ports of Call Looking for more Nicholas size and featured in The Guardian, restaurant, where a romantic dinner Sparks stops along the North Swansboro’s historic district includes was shot and actor Josh Duhamel Carolina coast? Visit the Outer quaint shops, many historic houses learned to shuck an oyster; and Banks to explore sites on the Nights and buildings, and popular restaurants. Old American Fish Co. restaurant, in Rodanthe Film Trail. Enjoy all To finish the trip, the riverfront where the character Katie ( Julianne this trip idea has to offer by mixing towns of Wilmington and Southport Hough) worked as a waitress. and matching to your particular recently provided yet another North Along with their fictional interest. Be sure to check days and Carolina setting for a Nicholas Sparks roles, the cast and crew also took hours of operation for each venue. novel and resulting film (the eighth advantage of other area offerings www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 17

Weekend Adventure Awaits in Elizabethtown By APRIL OLSEN Follow 87 South for about an hour interact with farm animals. You can from Fayetteville and you will run into hang out with a draft horse, donkeys, Elizabethtown. It is a great destination miniature ponies, llamas, ducks, geese, if you seek a weekend adventure chickens, peacocks, rabbits, zebra but do not want to travel far. The finches, love birds and swans. downtown area has a small-town vibe The newest member of the Cape that is friendly, welcoming and quaint. Fear animal family is Dom (for Dom Shopkeepers are helpful and friendly Perignon). Dom, a donkey, is just one enough to invite you to sit down and of many animal friends on the property. have a chat over a scoop of ice cream. Born in September, Dom still stays There is enough in town to keep close to his mama, but the other animals you busy for a few hours before venture up to the fence posts to greet you head over to the area's newest visitors. Some, like Peebo, a miniature destination: Cape Fear Vineyard & pony, roam around the premises freely. Winery. Take a stroll through town, After getting acquainted with critters, do some shopping and have lunch. you can take a walk around the grounds Start off at Burney’s Sweets for and see the award-winning Camellia something to munch own while Japonica blooms. you are strolling through town. Cape Fear Vineyard & Winery is Like its sister shops in Clinton quickly becoming the area's prime and Fayetteville, Barney's in destination for weddings. Couples can Elizabethtown offers croissants, exchange vows on the lakeside landing donuts, cakes and pies (in full and with swans floating in the background individual sizes). Pick one for now — it doesn’t get much more romantic and one for later — they are that good than that. and the calories are worth it. Try To be sure, Cape Fear does have a the chocolate croissants or have a vineyard and does produce wine. Some mini-pecan pie — it is just enough pretty good wine, I might add. You can to keep you from feeling guilty if do a wine tasting. You can also have a you eat the whole thing. few drinks, order dinner (or lunch) in If you would rather save the The Cork Room restaurant and stay desserts for later, stop by Melvin’s overnight in one of their cottages. For for lunch. Melvin's has a limited those who like to try a few varieties menu, but when you make hot dogs you can order a wine flight with your and hamburgers this good, you dinner — three white or red. On my wouldn't want to order anything visit, I wasn't prepared for the amount else anyway. Fast, cheap, and of food served, and I had leftovers for delicious. No nonsense — served quick and easy, wrapped in paper lunch the next day, which changed my with to-go orders placed in a brown happy to show it off in between parades plan to swing by Melvin's again on my paper lunch sack. It's not complicated, and special events if you call ahead. way out of town. not fussy — just darn good. Ask for After visiting in town, make your Aside from a great meal and tasty your dog “all the way” to get mustard, way over to the Cape Fear Vineyard wine, what impressed me most was the onions, chili and slaw. No visit to & Winery. I recommend making time and attention paid to customers Elizabethtown would be complete overnight reservations for one of their by the staff. Of course, the hostess and without a stop by Melvin’s. cottages because once you get there, waitress were friendly and attentive, Worth a stop is the Elizabethtown Fire you are not going to want to leave. but throughout my meal, I saw the Department, located a few blocks from Drive back to 87 and head toward the owner, the general manager and the the downtown area on Swanzy Street. Industrial Park area. You might think restaurant manager greet customers, You can call ahead to arrange to view you are heading in the wrong direction check on tables, and even serve drinks their antique fire engine. The restored until you see the horse crossing sign and clear tables — all to take care of engine is the original one for the area. and the llama crossing sign. Yes, you customers and make sure the Cape Lieutenant Chad Sholar said it is not read that right. Cape Fear Vineyard Fear experience is a memorable one. on exhibit to the public full-time simply & Winery has animals as part of an For more information, visit the because it is still in use. But, the EFD is agritourism project where visitors can website at www.capefearwinery.com. Page 18 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

Something for every taste... While at Cape Fear Vineyards & Winery, you will get a rare glimpse into the remarkable personal art collection of owner Alex Munroe. Munroe said he has been collecting art since he was a teen-ager and is proud to showcase it throughout the winery. Having a look at the collection of art is worth the trip itself. The collection ranges from original paintings to prints and lithographs, sketches, photos and celebrity memorabilia. You will see examples of works by Renoir, Picasso, Chagall displayed with pieces by Paul McCartney, Muhammad Ali, Jimi Hendrix and original paintings by Janis Joplin. There is something for every taste. • The Celebrity Hallway is lined with autographed photos of athletes, musicians, stars of television and movies, and even politicians. The sheer mass of photos make it a fun addition to Munroe’s vast collection. You can see the likes of Van Halen, Snoop Dogg, Kiss, Fats Domino, Richard Petty, John Glenn, Walter Cronkite, Chuck Norris, Dolly Parton, Brad Pitt and Tom Selleck on the wall along with President George H. W. Bush, astronaut John Glenn and explorer Edmund Hillary. • In The Cork Room is “The Game,” an original painting by Grace Slick, of Jefferson Airplane, dedicated to Munroe and Cape Fear Winery. It is a mesmerizing depiction of Alice in Wonderland and a particular white rabbit on a giant chess board with the Cheshire Cat and the Mad Hatter among others. • Munroe has a collection of signed original lithographs by Salvador Dali from 1975-76. The original etchings were made by Dali on copper plates and the impressions were pulled in a studio in Paris. Together, they reveal flashes of scientific insight by the artist prompting some, at the time, to call Dali a modern day Da Vinci. In one, Dali depicts spectacles with holograms and computers for seeing imagined objects on a “radio phone.” • Ted Geisel’s (Dr. Suess) earliest and largest painting, “Abduction of the Sabine Women,” from 1930 depicts Rome’s legendary episode at the city’s founding celebration around 750 B.C. Roman men abducted women to take as wives to populate their new metropolis. The tradition of a groom carrying his bride over the threshold dates to this event. Geisel’s painting is on display in the gallery ballroom, which hosts wedding receptions. • There are several personal items on display from some of the biggest names in music history: Elvis’ shoes, sunglasses and necklace; a jacket worn by Michael Jackson; Ringo Starr’s shirt; handwritten song lyrics by Madonna; a hand-made Winnie the Pooh card by Britney Spears for her son inscribed with a verse ”… beyond the seas/ you’ll always mean/ the world to me.” • There are prints by Tom Everhart, a close collaborator of Charles Schulz, featuring the Peanuts characters. Before his death, Schulz gave Everhart permission to use the characters in his own artwork. Any establishment that displays “My Homie Ace” on the walls in the same room and with the same respect and admiration as works by Picasso and Dali, is a place you want to visit. www.womensviewnc.com NOVEMBER 2016 – Page 19

Thanks to all of our readers who submitted photos for our favorite get-away destinations contest. Our winner is Lenore Jones, who picked up her copy of Women's View at the library. She usually travels with friends or with her son. Lenore's favorite get-away was a cruise to Key West and Cozumel, Mexico. 'I enjoy cruises the most... I look forward to another get-away. It's been too long.' The Renfro Family at Carolina Beach. Page 20 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

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One Last By STEPHANIE CRIDER Halloween. Thanksgiving. Christmas. Thanksgiving might mean my husband or affordable way to make our assigned person Hanukkah. New Year’s Eve. New Year’s Day. dad or brother frying a turkey or two and a happy. Everyone wants to be the hero who They happen every year. On schedule and slew of friends and family around the table, or gave the best gift AND stayed within the without fail. But somehow, when October we might order the basics and pick them up price limit. rolls around, there I stand wide-eyed and from the grocery store, or even go out to din- My husband and I (or sometimes it’s just frantic, like a deer (or trick or treater) caught ner. The focus is always about counting our me) make a stocking for everyone. We fill unaware in the headlights. Don’t get me blessings and enjoying our loved ones, though. them with inexpensive gag gifts and favorite wrong. I love the holiday season. I am all Paper plates, plastic cups, store-bought pies. candies and a sentimental item or two. about carving pumpkins, celebrating the We do all that now. Any special requests are a Everyone gets a new pair of pajamas, too. We harvest, counting my blessings, celebrating my team effort. If you want homemade mashed open them on Christmas Eve. The rest of faith, family and friendships, sending the old potatoes, I’m delighted to do that, just plan the budget goes to purchase a group year off in style and ringing in the new year on being in the kitchen to keep me company experience. Last year we spent a with a glass of champagne and a long list of while I make them. We spend time together. weekend learning to skeet shoot resolutions that I know I likely will not keep. We talk. We make memories. We share and fly fish. Those hours spent Costumes and candy. Delicious meals. Gifts. the load. The magic isn’t in the meal, together were better than Parties. Check, check, check and check. the décor or the anything that was ever We do all these things at our house, but picture-perfect “All those years under the tree. they look a lot different than they used to. setting. It hap- Holiday parties. I love For years, while I was practically killing pens around the I spent fuming in them. But I no longer feel myself to pull off the perfect (insert holiday turkey fryer, the obliged to attend or host here) celebration and struggling against the mixing bowl, on the kitchen and them. Just know this: If you inevitable resentment that followed when my the post-dinner planning and invite me or my family to efforts seemed to go unappreciated, everyone stroll or ball a holiday party and we at- around me frolicked and indulged, overcome game with who- shopping… tend, or we host a party and with merriment. I was simply exhausted, ever can be there invite you, it is not because overwhelmed and frustrated. to share these I did that to myself. we feel obliged. It is because It was a deployment year. One of many. experiences. we truly value you and want No one’s finest hour. I just couldn’t rally that We’ve While my intentions to share our time and our holiday season. Even with a solid support net- streamlined our were good, I was lives with you. work of friends, family and co-workers at my Christmas tradi- So yes, when October side, I couldn’t deliver. Not for my kids. Not tions, too. Santa miserable and missed rolls around, I still panic for anyone. We ate Thanksgiving dinner from used to visit and — but just for a moment. a fast food drive thru window and had peanut leave gifts under out on a lot of the Then I take a deep breath, butter and jelly sandwiches for Christmas the tree for holiday fun that decide what and where I dinner. New Year’s Day it was cold cereal — everyone. We can give this year and go for all three meals. The majority of the gifts still do a tree. I was too busy creating about enjoying this special by the homemade tabletop tree our second Most years. It’s season. There are countless grader made from felt and construction paper not always fresh to enjoy.” ways to redesign were purchased Christmas Eve during a cut, but we dec- your holiday frantic late night trip to Walgreens. It was the orate it together. traditions, no year that changed everything. Sometimes matter what they Now, I have more fun during the last two we have spiced cider and homemade are. All those months of the year than I ever have — even cookies and listen to Christmas music years I spent fum- during deployment years. And it was after while we do it. Sometimes it’s soda ing in the kitchen that disaster of a deployment year that I and microwaved popcorn with the and planning learned how to set boundaries and manage TV going in the background. Always, and shopping for expectations for myself and the people around there is chit chat and silliness and gifts that no one me. Many long-held traditions remain. They laughter. We tell stories. Relive mem- needed or wanted just look different now. I no longer consider ories. Remember those who can’t be — I did that to myself personally responsible for the success with us this year. myself. While my or failure of every holiday related event. There Instead of piles of presents, now intentions were are no more weekend-long baking marathons we have a Secret Santa exchange. It good, I was miser- with me up to my elbows in baked goods. includes me and my husband, our chil- able and missed out on a lot We still have our favorites no matter what — dren and their significant others. We each of the holiday fun that I was too busy creating caramel corn and pizzelles. The difference is purchase one reasonably-priced gift for our to enjoy. Include yourself in the festivities now we make them together. On occasion, it’s secret Santa. We spend weeks trying to figure this year, you’ll have more fun and the people the kids leading the charge — and I love that! out who is paired with whom. We discuss gift around you will get to enjoy your company We still decorate pumpkins. Or not. And it’s options in minute detail and put tremendous and appreciate the opportunity to make some truly okay when we don’t. effort into finding the most creative and memories with you. Page 22 – NOVEMBER 2016 www.womensviewnc.com

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