Catholic Manipur Magazine, November 2021

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SHEPHERD'S CHRISTMAS MESSAGE 2021 As we are preparing for the Christmas, I would like to wish the people of Manipur a very happy Christmas. May Christ, the Prince of peace, bring you peace, Joy and happiness. Christmas is celebrated all over the world to mark the birth of Jesus at Bethlehem in Judea. The birth of Jesus brought joy to the world. The Angel appeared to the shepherds and said: \"I bring you good news that will cause joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Saviour has been born to you, he is the Messiah, the Lord.\" (Lk 2:10-11) The birth of Jesus, the Messiah, was foretold by the prophet Isaiah about 700 years before his birth; \"Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel\"(Is 7:14). The prophecy of the birth of the Messiah was fulfilled historically during the reign of Herod in Bethlehem of Judea. The birth of Jesus Christ is \"Good News\" that would bring great joy not for the few but \"for all the people.\" Jesus is the Saviour who delivers us from sin and death: for \"He will save his people from their sins\" (Mt 1:21). By the disobedience of Adam and Eve sin entered into the world, dragging all humanity with them into the darkness, sin and death. What did God do? He did not tell us to find our own way out of the mess we were in. He came down to where we were and got us. That's what Christmas is all about: God's coming down to rescue us doing whatever it takes to deliver us from sure death and damnation. Christmas is a celebration of God's incredible act of love. \"For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life\" (Jn 3:16). When our near and dear one is in a life threatening situation, we just don't stay idle but we do what we can to save him/her. When God looked down at our sinfu. humanity, he saw we were in mortal danger. The Redeemer came down to deliver us from death. My dear people today our world is enveloped by darkness of violence, hatred, revenge and destruction of precious human life. May Jesus our Saviour and Redeemer bring deliverance to our many troubles and woes. May this Christmas be a time of healing and renewed strength for all of us. May our leaders (social, Political) find courage, wisdom and strength to lead our state. May our communities establish a deeper communion of love, unity and cooperation with each other towards bringing peace and development in our society. May each one of you and your families abound in joy and love during Christmas and the New Year to come. ONCE AGAIN MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR, 2022. 2

FREE AND COMPULSORY EDUCATION ACT 2009: THE IMPACTS AND CHALLENGES ON THE SCHOOLS IN MANIPUR Introduction The Right of Children to Free and Compulsory Education Act 2009, popularly known as the Right to Education Act (RTE Act), is a Central legislation that points out the aspects of the right of children to education from six to fourteen years of age to free and compulsory elementary education (Classes I to VIII). This Act is now a Fundamental Right of every child under the Constitution of India (Article 21A). In 2002, the 86th Amendment to the Constitution initiated Article 21A making the right to education a fundamental right. For the first time in the history of the independent India, a fundamental right had been added to the Constitution. Unlike other fundamental rights, the right to education mandates and facilitates legislation to become effective. The RTE Act came into force on April 1, 2010. 1. An Overview of the Right to Free and Compulsory Education Act 2009 • The child will not pay school fees, capitation fees or any other charges or expenses to get elementary education. • No child or his/her parents are to be subjected to any screening procedure for admission to an elementary school. • When a child of above six years of age has not been admitted to any school or if the child is admitted to a school but is unable to continue studies, then the child shall be admitted to a class appropriate to his/her age. He/she will be also given special training (minimum of 3 months; maximum 2 years) to bring him/her at par with his/her class. He/she can continue beyond 14 years in order to complete receiving elementary education. • If a school does not provide the facility to complete elementary education, then the child of that school can take a transfer to any other government or government-aided school. • Every child is also entitled to free text books, writing material and uniform. 2. Duties of Appropriate Government, Local Authority and Parents The RTE Act defines “Appropriate Government” as: i. The Central government: Schools owned or controlled by the Central Government or a Union Territory (UT) Administration without legislature. ii. The State and UT government with legislature: Schools established in the territory of that State or UT. 3

iii. The Appropriate Government or the Local Authority which means a Municipal Corporation or Municipal Council or equivalent body in urban areas or a Panchayati Raj Institution (PRI) in rural areas has to provide: a. School within 1 kilometer distance for children in classes I to V b. School within 3 kilometers for those in classes VI to VIII. c. In thickly populated areas even more than one school may be provided depending on the number of children. d. For remote areas where distances are more than the prescribed kilometers, facility such as free transportation or residence should be provided for. • These schools are termed as ‘neighbourhood school’. • It is the responsibility of the appropriate government or local authority to undertake school mapping to determine the locations of neighborhood schools. • The location of each school should be made known to the community it is meant to serve. • All the private schools (those schools that do not seek any government grants to impart education) in a neighborhood are required to enroll 25% students from the weaker and disadvantaged sections of society and to give free education to them. These schools can claim reimbursement from the government for the expenditure incurred; provided that per child expenditure does not exceed the amount a government school spends to educate a child. • The Central and State government have concurrent responsibility to provide funds for the execution of the RTE Act. • The Central government apart from carrying out the mandated functions of the appropriate government in respect of schools owned/controlled by it, is also responsible for: i. The preparation of the National Academic Curriculum, ii. Developing and enforcing standards for teachers’ training, and iii. Providing technical support to the State Government for promoting innovations, research, planning and capacity building. • The State Government or local authority is responsible for: i. prescribing the curriculum and courses for elementary education. ii. ensuring the admission, attendance and completion of elementary education of the children and to maintain the records of the children up to the age of 14 years. iii. providing the infrastructure including school buildings, teaching staff and learning equipments. iv. seeing that the children from the weaker and marginalized sections of the society are not discriminated against in such schools. v. providing special training facility for children who are not admitted to any school or those who have not completed elementary education. 4

vi. making the necessary arrangements for the training of teachers and ensuring that each school follows the academic calendar. vii. ensuring good quality elementary education according the specified standards and norms. viii. ensuring that no new school is either started or allowed to function without obtaining a certificate of recognition from a designated authority. Schools which are already existing before the RTE Act was enforced a certificate is to be obtained within 3 years of the Act’s commencement • It is the responsibility of every parent to admit their children or ward to school and to ensure that they receive elementary education. • It is the duty of the appropriate government to make the necessary arrangements to provide one year of free pre-school training for children. 3. School Management Committees • It is the responsibility of each government and government aided school to set up a School Management Committee (SMC). • 75% of the SMC members have to be from among parents and guardians of the students of the school. • Proportionate representation has to be given to parents/guardians of disadvantaged students or students from weaker sections of society. • Of the remaining 25% members, one third will be from among the elected representatives of the local authority, one third from among the teachers of the school and the remaining one third from among local educationists and children of the school. • It is mandated that 50% of the SMC members should be women. • From among the parent members, SMC has to elect the Chairperson and Vice Chairperson while the Head/the most senior teacher shall function as the Member-Convener of the SMC. • SMC will meet once a month and the minutes of meeting should be made available to the public. • The SMC will oversee the working of the school, prepare the school development plan and monitor the utilization of the government grant. The sanction of grants to a school will dependent on the school development plan that is developed. • It is also the responsibility of the SMC to efficiently communicate to the inhabitants in the neighborhood of the school the rights of the child as defined by the RTE Act and protect the children’s rights while in school. 4. Duties of Teachers • Teachers have to be regular and punctual in the school. • Teachers should make sure of the completion of curriculum within specified time. • Teachers have to assess the ability of each child and recommend special training if it is required. 5

• Teachers should conduct parent-teacher meetings to apprise parents on attendance, learning ability and actual progress of each child. 5. School Norms and Facilities • There should be one teacher for every 30 students for classes I to V and one teacher for every thirty-five students for classes VI to VIII. • There should be one teacher each for (i) Science and Mathematics (ii) Social Sciences and (iii) Languages for upper primary section (Classes VI to VIII). • A full-time Head Teacher is suggested for a school with more than 100 students. • There should be 200 working days for Classes I to V and 220 working days for Classes VI to VIII per academic year with a 45 hour work per week. • There should be in each school: i. an all-weather building with one classroom for every teacher. ii. an office, store room and Head Teacher’s room. iii. separate toilets for boys and girls. iv. safe and hygienic drinking water facility. v. a kitchen to prepare the mid-day meals. vi. playground. vii. fencing for the premises. viii. a library. ix. teaching and learning equipment and games and sports equipment. x. All schools owned or aided by the government need to obtain a certificate of recognition. 6. Completion of Curriculum and Learning Outcome • The State Council for Educational Research and Training (SCERT) will be the academic authority to develop the appropriate academic curriculum keeping in mind the following: i. The all round development of the child. ii. To develop the knowledge, potentiality and talent of the child. iii. To develop the physical and mental abilities of the child. iv. To enable learning through discovery, exploration and activities in a child friendly manner and environment. • The medium of instruction should be the child’s mother tongue. • Comprehensive and Continuous Evaluation of the understanding and application of child’s knowledge shall be adopted instead of periodical examinations. 7. Implementation of Right to Education Act on the Schools in Manipur • It is observed that both the Government schools and the private schools in Manipur collect fees from children at the elementary stage. The children with minimum formal education are also denied of admission. 6

• Practically the schools in Manipur do not give special training for the weak students as mandated by the RTE Act 2009. Students who are above the age of 14 years and who have not completed elementary education are also not given admission as per the direction of the RTE Act. • It is observed that the schools do not admit the students without the age proof. • It is observed that the Central Government provides required funds for the implementation of the RTE Act. But Only a few of the Government schools receive funds from the Central Government while the private schools do not receive any funds. This implies that the funds are being miss utilized. • It is observed that only some schools have the facility for preschool. Besides, only a handful of the schools gets the facility for training the teachers and support from the Central Government to develop the curriculum. • It is observed that only a minimum number of schools avail the opportunity for infrastructure facility provided by the State Government. • In general, monitoring the implementation process of RTE Act is poor in the State of Manipur. • Many parents also do not have the access for elementary schools in the neighbourhood. • It is observed that the teachers are deputed for non-educational purposes and take private tuitions which is not the aim and objective of the RTE Act. 8. Challenges of Right to Education Act on the Schools in Manipur: There appears to be many challenges that the Right to Education Act has posed to the schools in the context of Manipur. The reasons behind for the above conclusion are stated as below: • It is observed that only a few schools in Manipur receives the Central and State funds for the implantation of the RTE Act. • Majority of the children are still paying the school fees at the elementary school level which is against the objective of RTE Act. This is one of the serious challenges of RTE Act which has to be addressed by the people involved in the implementation of the Act. • Another major challenge that the RTE Act has posed is the demand of the age proof for admission. According to the RTE Act, no age proof is required for admission up to elementary stage. But the ground reality is that, majority of the schools demand age proof for admission which is totally against the purpose of the RTE Act. • Besides these, the infrastructures of the schools are not as per the RTE Act. It is a serious matter that it has to be set right. Conclusion: The RTE Act clearly brings out the single mindedness of the Government of India for ensuring the education of every child. The various provisions of the Act clearly indicate that the country has put education first in its agenda for nation transformation. The Act has succeeded in demarcating the various responsibilities of school managing committees, teachers and other stakeholders in education. It has created a legally protected 7

environment for the child to get education which can function as a launch pad for the future. The Act will definitely create a great impact on improving literacy rate and guaranteeing children their rightful place in the world. When the RTE Act 2009 which is a Fundamental Right is implemented properly, the main objective of the RTE Act which is to ensure that each child in India receives quality elementary education irrespective of their economic or caste background will be achieved. This includes children who are forced to drop out of school. ARCHDIOCESAN NEWS COLUMN ALL SOULS DAY Chingmeirong, Imphal November 2, 2021: The Catholic community of the Archdiocese of Imphal observed, ‘All Souls Day’ on the 2 November. Unlike other years, this year Holy Mass was held at Mary Help of Christians Parish Church, Chingmeirong, due to the prevailing situation of COVID-19. Most Rev. Dominic Lumon DD., Archbishop of Imphal officiated the Holy Mass at Mary Help of Christians Parish, Chingmeirong. As many as 8 priests joined Archbishop in praying for the departed souls. In his homily Archbishop said, “According to Catholic belief, the soul of a person who dies can go to one of three places. The first is heaven, where a person who dies in a state of perfect grace and communion with God goes. The second is hell, where those who die in a state of mortal sin are naturally condemned by their choice. The intermediate option is purgatory, which is thought to be where most people, free of mortal sin, but still in a state of lesser (venial) sin, must go. Purgatory is necessary so that souls can be cleansed and perfected before they enter into heaven. There is scriptural basis for this belief. The primary reference is in 2 Maccabees, 12:26 and 12:32. Turning to supplication, they prayed that the sinful deed might be fully blotted out... Thus made atonement for the dead that they might be free from sin.” After the holy Mass, the faithful were asked to go to the cemetery for the blessing of the tombs. All together 10 priests accompanied by many religious sisters and lay faithful were there for the blessing of the cemetery. 8

SEMINAR ON SYNODAL CHURCH Retreat House, November 5, 2021: The first seminar on the Synodal Church – diocesan phase was held on 5th November, 2021, at Retreat House, Mantripukhri, Imphal. The Meeting was attended by Parish priests, Assistant Parish Priests, representatives of the ecclesiastical Commissions of the Archdiocese of Imphal including, AMCO, MCWO, MCYO and CRI. The meeting began with welcome and introduction of the proceedings by Rev. Fr. Solomon Thezii, Chancellor, Archdiocese of Imphal. He handed the meeting formally to the moderator of the session Rev. Fr. Linus Neli, Director of Retreat House and member of the Archdiocesan Contact persons for the synod on synodal church. Rev. Fr. Peter Haokip proposed the keynote address, which was followed by sharing session, all the unit present for the seminar were given time to express their views and way forward. PRIESTS’ ANNUAL RETREAT 2021 St. Paul’s Retreat House, November 8-13, 2021: The Clergy annual retreat for the year 2021 was held from 8-13 November. The actual date for the retreat was scheduled from 21-26 June 2021, but due to the continuous surging and spreading of COVID-19 pandemic, the anuual retreat postponed indefinitely. By God’s providence Most Rev. Dennis Panipitchai, Auxiliary Bishop of Miao was approached to be the preacher and he willingly accepted the request and animated and preached the retreat. Most of the retreatents have wonderful and grace filled time with the Lord, and the sentiments were well expressed during the Adoration time. 9

The annual retreat came to conclusion with the Holy Mass at St. Joseph Cathedral, Imphal which was presided by Most Rev. Dominic Lumon, Archbishop of Imphal. The intention for the Holy Mass was offered for the repose of the souls of our deceased clergy. Soon after the Mass, the congregation moved to the cemetery for the office for the death. Most. Rev. Dennis Panipitchai, Auxiliary Bishop of Miao led the congregation in praying the office for the death. MUSIC THEORY VOLUME –I RELEASED Retreat House, Mantripukhri, November 14, 2021: Archbishop Dominic Lumon releases a Music Theory, Staff and Tonic Sol-fa, written by (Dr.) Fr. Linus Neli. This is the third book written and edited by Dr. Fr. Linus Neli this year 2021. At present Fr. Linus is the Judicial Vicar of the Archdiocese of Imphal and Director of St. Paul’s Retreat House, Imphal. Fr. Linus gives Sunday homily for every Sunday since the second wave of COVID-19, Pandemic started. ST. THOMAS SEMINARY ANNUAL SPORTS MEET 2021 St. Thomas Seminary, Mantripukhri, Imphal, November 18-19, 2021: The Annual Sports Meet of St. Thomas Seminary, Mantripukhri, Imphal was held on 18-19 November, 2021. The inaugural Function was graced by Shri. Ngajokpa Francis, Ex-Minister, Government of Manipur as the Chief Guest, Most Rev. Dominic Lumon, DD The Archbishop of Imphal as the Functional President, priests, Sisters and Aspirants. During the Speech the Chief Guest Shri. Ngajokpa Francis delivered a beautiful exhortation in which he encouraged the Seminarians to accept the reality of Life whether becoming a Priest or not, to accept the wins as well as the defeats in life and in Sports alike. His Grace Most. Dominic Lumon, the Functional President, also appreciated the Staff for keeping up the good system of promoting activities in the formation House. Various events including sports, academic session and many other curricular activities enhance the learning experience of the seminarians and sets the Seminary apart as a seeding ground of character. 10

The flag of the Seminary flew high while the Chief Guest declared the Annual Sports Meet opened. The proceedings of the day began with March Pass competition, followed by the Aerobic Drill Display competition. The three Synergised groups- Juventus, Dortmund and PSG participated in the annual sports fighting for the cup of victory with the spirit of Sportsmanship. Led by the Dean and Regent Brother the events were carried out in smooth progression. The participants competed in various disciplines with eye-catching vigour and enthusiasm. The cries of the Captains shouting “We can Win” followed by a determined reply “Yes we will” became the war-cry. The Annual Sports in the field began with the ‘Handball’ match and ended with the ‘Tug-O-War’. During the sports days many group and individual games were played. New games were also introduced for the first time (or may be played after many years) in the Seminary like Sepak Ta-kraw, Arabian Flag, longest line making, etc. One of the exciting events was the group-wise Pig-Head cooking competition – thanks to Sir Francis Ngajokpa for the unique present of four enormous heads of pigs! The Annual Sports Meet of St. Thomas Seminary 2021 ended with the flag dehoist by Rev. Fr. Mario, the Spiritual Director. The two Captains of the house handed the flag to Rev. Fr. Vialo Francis, the Rector of the Seminary to meet again in the next year’s event. Long Live St. Thomas Seminary! CHRIST THE KING CHURCH BLESSING AND DEDICATION Christ the King Church, Laii Shirafii, November 19, 2021: The Catholic community of Christ the King Church, Laii Shirafii have the joy of having their newly built Church Blessed and dedicated. Rev. Fr. John Kashiiprii, Vicar General of the Archdiocese of Imphal officiated the blessing and presided over the Holy Eucharist. All together 12 priests, some sisters and around 400 faithful gathered for the programme. It may be mentioned that Catholic Community at Laii Shirafii is a small community having 18 families with 62 members and the Church members are cultivators. The Church construction was completed with the help of many generous people. May God bless them all abundantly. 11

BLESSING AND LAYING FOUNDATION FOR THE CONVENT Mantripukhri, November 20, 2021: Most Rev. Dominic Lumon, Archbishop of Imphal blessed and laid the foundation for St. Joseph’s Convent at Lhangnom, in the presence of Rev. Fr, John Kashiiprii, Vicar General, Rev. Fr. Varghese Velickakam, procurator, Rev. Fr. Dale Joseph, the economer, Rev. Fr. Samuel Kapani, Rev. Sr. Jolly SJSM and Mr. Thankholet, chief of Lhangnom village and as many as 30 workers joined for the programme. It may be mentioned that this is the 3rd convent the sisters of St. Joseph of saint Marc (SJSM) are taking in collaboration with the Archdiocese of Imphal. The other two house are St. Joseph’s Convent, Kamjong, and St. Joseph’s convent at lower Hundung. CHRIST THE KING CHURCH CHINGJAROI, ANNUAL RETREAT Chingjaroi Khullen, November, 18-20, 2021: The faithful of Christ the King Church Chingjaroi, had three days spiritual preparation for the solemn celebration of the Parish Feast. Rev. Fr. Saji Kollamparambil VC, preached and animated the faithful. It’s so inspiring to see hundreds of young and old people coming for the spiritual retreat. May God bless them abundantly. 12

FIRST HOLY COMMUNICANTS (CARMAL JOYTI) Carmal Joyti, Imphal, November 21, 2021: On this joyous occasion of Christ the King Feast Day, 14 children Recieved First Holy Communion, one person recieved baptism at Carmal Joyti, Luwangsangbam, under St. Joseph's Cathedral Parish, Imphal. Rev. Fr. Solomon Thezii, Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Imphal officiated the Holy Eucharist. Rev. Fr. Denis Ngaopuni, assistant Parish Priest of St. Joseph’s Cathedral Parish, Rev. Sr. Paulcy Nakhuru CMC, Rev. Sr. Athui Rosalia CMC and Rev. Sr. Athia Agatha CMC were instrumental in preparing the children for receiving the Holy Communion. CHRIST THE KING FEAST LIYAI KHULLEN Christ the King Church, Liyai, November 21, 2021: The faithful of Christ Church, Liyai celebrated their Church feast day with great delight. 104 faithful received the sacrament of confirmation. Archbishop Dominic Lumon presided over the Holy Mass, concelebrated by Rev. Fr. Varghese Velickakam, Procurator of the Archdiocese of Imphal, Rev. Fr. Jerome Vaigas SJ, Parish Priest, Fr. Khathing Jeremiah SJ, the Assistant Parish Priest. Hearty congratulations to all who received the sacrament of confirmation, wishing them firm and committed Christian life in the days to come. Sincere appreciation to the fathers, sisters, catechists and Catechism class teachers for being instrumental in instructing and guiding the children in receiving the sacrament. 13

ST. THOMAS SEMINARY COMMUNITY PICNIC 2021 St. Thomas Seminary, November 24, 2021: The community of St. Thomas Seminary went on a relaxing picnic-out to the picturesque Khoupum Valley on 24 November, 2021. The day kick-started at 5.30 a.m., riding in style on the CMC College of Nursing bus, all roads leading to Khoupum. On the way the picnickers shared a refreshing breakfast under the shadow of the protecting mountains. On arrival at Khoupum, the community had a Pilgrim’s Eucharistic celebration at the Prayer facility of the Family of Faith joined by the local church members. After the visit to the mount of the Crucifix, the picnickers were treated with a sumptuous lunch at St. John Bosco Parish, Khoupum. Thereafter, the community took a joy-walk to the enchanting Khoupum Water Fall. As the day was waning away, the picnickers had the chance to have the last view at the Khoupum irrigation dam, before heading way home. STS expresses gratitude to the Archbishop’s House, Rev. Fr. James Tangshel and CMC for providing comfortable conveyance, Rev. Fr. Michael Hingba and Fathers at St. John Bosco Parish, Khoupum for the hospitality and unforgettable lunch and the people of Khoupum for their generosity and love. When in need STS has always been blessed with noble and cheerful souls to support. May God bless you all. It was a day to cherish, a moment much anticipated and a picnic worth the Go! CATHOLIC EDUCATIONAL SOCIETY, MANIPUR, MEETING Retreat House, November 25, 2021: All the Principals, Headmistresses and ex-officio members of the Catholic Educational Society, Manipur were called for the meeting and discussed the agenda pertaining to school administration. The meeting began with a prayer proposed by Rev. Fr. John Kashiiprii. Most Rev. Dominic Lumon DD., Archbishop of Imphal chaired the meeting and the following agenda were discussed. • Introducing the New Service Rules and Conditions. 14

• CESM Year Plan for the Academic -2022 • Implementation of POCSO • Reviewing contracts with Book Agencies. After having thread bare discussion on the agenda, the meeting concluded with a prayer proposed by Rev. Fr. Roy MD MSFS which was followed by lunch. RELEASING OF BOOK (FIRST HOLY COMMUNION) Retreat House, November 25, 2021: Archbishop Dominic Lumon released the book on “The First Holy Communion (catechism on Holy Eucharist for all) compiled and edited by Rev. Fr. Riji George and Rev. Sr. Chantal FCC, Vice- Provincial of St. Clare Province of Franciscan Clarist Congregation. Rev. Fr. Riji is the director for the Bible Commission of the Archdiocese of Imphal. NEWLY BUILT CHURCH DEDICATION AND BLESSING Bendramai, November 27, 2021: The newly constructed St. Paul’s Church, Bakie, under St. Mary’s Parish, Bendramai was blessed and dedicated by Rev. Fr. Solomon Thezii, Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Imphal. Rev. Fr. TS. Dominic, Parish Priest of St. Mary’s Parish, Bendramai, Rev. Fr. Mario Matuingai, Spiritual Director of St. Thomas Seminary, Imphal, and Rev. Fr. Riji George Parish Priest of St. John’s Bosco Parish, Senapati were present for the function. It was so inspiring to see of our brethren members from Bakie Baptist Church whole heartedly helping the small Catholic community in various ways. Good number of delegates from the four neighbouring churches such as; Yangkhullen, Bendramai, Zumi and Idinlo came and joined for the celebration. 15

PARISH FEAST OF QUEEN OF THE MISSION’S PARISH, WILLONG Willong, November 27, 202: Most Rev. Dominic Lumon the Archbishop of Imphal graced the joyful occasion of the feast of Queen of the Mission’s Parish, Willong on 27th November, 2021 as the Chief celebrant of the Holy Eucharistic celebration. Sixty one (61) children and thirty four (34) faithful from different churches under the parish received the First Holy Communion and Confirmation respectively. Eucharistic celebration was followed by cultural programme from different churches under the parish. The participation and mesmerizing performance of different churches displayed a strong bond of unity and harmony among the faithful and added more color to the spirit of celebration. The eventful celebration concluded with a luxurious fellowship meal. YOUTH COLUMN MCYO REACHING OUT PROGRAMME TO NUNGBA Mantripukhri, Imphal MCYO office, November 1, 2021: Manipur Catholioc Youth organization team Led by the Director Rev. Fr. Albert Leivon and President Mr. Napolean Rongmei visited St. John Parish Nungba, and had an interaction program with the Tamenglong Noney District Catholic Youth Organization (TNDCYO) on 31st of October, 2021. GPSCYO JUBILEE ELEBRATION 2021 Churachandpur, November 7, 2021: The MCYO Executives along with the director, Rev. Fr. Albert Leivon attended the Silver Jubilee Celebration of the Good Shepherd Parish Catholic Youth Organization and Women Society, Churachandpur. The event was graced by the presence of Most Rev. Dominic Lumon DD., Archbishop of Imphal. 16

INTERACTION WITH IUCYO Mantripukhri, (MCYO Office)November 7, 2021: The executives of MCYO had an interaction with the Imphal Unit Catholic Youth Organization and the parish leaders under Imphal unit at Mary Immaculate parish ,Chingmeirong in the presence of Rev. Fr. Elow Lawrence SDB at 10:00 AM. The interaction program initiated with an opening prayer led by Madam Precilla, president, Holy Trinity parish CYF. A secretarial report on the activities was highlighted by Mr. Stephen, information secretary of IUCYO, after which, the MCYO team took up the interaction hour. Rev. Fr. Lawrence SDB exhorted the youths to be self-independent. Concluding remark was given by the director Rev.Fr. Albert Leivon which was followed by a vote of thanks by Kh. Florence. The meeting concluded with the final blessing by Rev. Fr. Albert Leivon. MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS PARISH YOUTH FEDERATION, UKHRUL. Ukhrul, November 15, 2021 : MARY HELP OF CHRISTIANS PARISH YOUTH FEDERATION, UKHRUL organized The 2nd Youth Camp from 12th – 15th of November, 2021 under the young and dynamic President of Sir. Wunganing A.S and his colleagues. MCYO Team led by Fr. Albert Leivon, the Director along with six executives joined in celebrating the Youth Camp. During the Noon session of the programme, Fr. Albert Leivon encouraged the youths extensively on diverse topics of the present and future scenario of the education in the society. The MCYO executives gave special item and group dynamics during the programme. A total number of 120 youths were present for the Camp. 17

REPORT ON WORLD YOUTH DAY CELEBRATION Mantripukhri, (MCYO Office) November 21, 2021: The Manipur Catholic Youth Organization (MCYO) celebrated the World Youth Day at different parishes and local churches in the Archdiocese of Imphal. To make the celebration more meaningful, confession and holy mass was made mandatory . The youths in the respective parishes under the leadership of the parish and local unit leaders organized literary ,sports ,cultural and entertainment programs to mark the celebration . The executives of MCYO joined the St. Joseph’s Cathedral parish youths in celebrating the World Youth Day . Holy mass was celebrated by Rev. Fr. Albert Leivon , the Director ,MCYO . Ms. HitaryRebecca ,the National Treasurer, ICYM was also present for the celebration. The youths were encouraged and blessed by the presence of some members from FOCALORE movement . WOMEN COLUMN FRANCISCAN CLARIST CONGREGATION Clarist Home, Mantripukhri, November 1, 2021: At the General Synaxis conducted at FCC Generalate, Portiuncula, Aluva from 29th October to 1st November 2021 presided over by His Grace Mar Antony Kariyil, Metropolitan Vicar of the Archdiocese of Ernakulam – Angamaly, Rev. Sr. Litty, Devamatha Province, Changanassery has been elected Superior General of the Franciscan Clarist Congregation according to the Constitution. 18

BETHANY SISTERS ARRIVED AT HUNGDUNG Hungdung, November 12, 2021: Bethany sisters set foot on the holy ground of Sacred Heart Parish Hungpung on 12th November 2021, at the invitation of Most Rev. Dominic Lumon, D.D. Archbishop of Imphal. November 14, 2021 was a red letter day for the Congregation of the Sisters of the little Flower of Bethany Silchar Province as well as for the Archdiocese of Imphal, as Bethany Sisters were officially welcomed and incorporated with the mission of the Parish. Most Rev. Fr. John Kashiiprii, officiated the Solemn Eucharistic Celebration, along with , Fr. Gabriel Mayopam and five other priests of the Diocese. Sr. Lucious BS, the Provincial Superior, Sr. Harsha, the provincial Councillor, sisters from Bethany Convent Canchipur, along with large number of Parishners, church elders, office bearers of various church organisations, Catechists, witnessed the erection of Bethany Convent in HungpungUkhrul , a unique mission in the land of Ukhrul under the Portals of Sacred Heart. During the Solemn Eucharistic Celebration Rev Fr John Kashiiphrii Vicar General of The Archdiocese of Imphal imparted his Blessings on the Sisters and Blessed the sisters stay Home, setup by the Parish. He urged us to bear witness to Christ through our life in collaboration with other religious community. The Eucharistic Celebration was concelebrated by Rev Fr Gabriel Mayopam the Parish Priest, Fr Joseph the asst Parish Priest, Fr Francis other Priest from the vicinity, religious sisters of SABS and SJSM congregation. After the blessing of the House there was a short felicitation programme. The welcome gesture shown by the Tangkhul Community made a great impression and left us with fascination. Moved by the Charism of the Institute and spirit of Founder the sisters cater to education ministry and pastoral activities. We remain ever grateful to Most Rev Dominic Lumon Archbishop of Imphal Diocese , Sr. Rose Celine BS the Superior General of the Congregation of the Sisters of the Little Floweof Bethany, Sr. Lucious BS, the Provincial Superior of Silchar for the trust they have placed on the pioneering members, Sr. Philomina Secundas, the Superior of the community, Sr. Therou Marina Pao and Sr. Catherine Pao. We, ever remain grateful to Fr. Gabriel Mayopam for providing us with comfortable stay home and for direction and guidance for our mission over this place. A word thanks to Fr. Joseph Thohrii, Fr. Francis Nganingmi, Sisters of SABS, SJSM and MSMHS for their support and encouragement. We thank each and everyone for their love, care, sharing and prayers. 19

SEMINAR ON FAITH FORMATION(SACRED HEART PARISH HUNGDUNG) Sacred Heart Parish, Hungdung, November 14, 2021: A day seminar was conducted on \"FAITH FORMATION- PAULINE THEOLOGY\". The seminar was held with the directive and TOT by North East Region Women Commission (NERWC) The programme was organized by MCWO at Diocese level hosted by Sacred Heart Parish Women Society of our Lady, Hungpung. Programme started with the Holy Mass presided over by Rev. Fr. Gabriel Mayopam, Parish priest, Sacred Heart Parish Hungpung. The Resource Persons of the training were Rev.Fr. Nganingmi Francis, Rev. Fr. Ephrem Mayarping, and Rev. Sr. Martha SABS gave a words of encouragement. All together 63 women came for the programme, which was more then the coordinators expectation (supposed to be 50). The Resource persons highlighted the historical, cultural, economical, religious and personal backgrounds of St. Paul and his different letters in general. The participants expressed their satisfaction for the programme and proposed to be conducted in the near future, highly recommended such programme to be conducted for the men folk as well. CONGRATULATIONS TO THE JUBILARIANS Ferrando Hostel, November 27, 2021: The Missionary sisters of Mary Help of Christian of Imphal unit is blessed to witness the Silver jubilee celebration of Rev. Sr. Jacinta Shangrang and Rev. Sr. Maria Kikon. Rev. Fr. John Kashiprii, the Vicar General of the Archdiocese of Imphal, was the main celebrant and around 12 priest concelebrated the Holy Eucharist. Fr. John Kashiiprii in his homily spoke on “the faithfulness of religious call, consecrated life demand faithfulness to one’s call. The consecrated person needs to put complete trust in God in all circumstances of life.” 20

SOCIAL MEDIA COLUMN RADIO VERITAS ASIA ZO SERVICE TURNS SILVER (Fr. Mark Thang Khan Ai, Director) Sugnu, November 8, 2021: Radio Veritas Asia Zo Service was first christened Zomi-Chin Service to include all the Zomi-Chin speaking communities of India and Chin State of Myanmar way back in 1994. It was the twin dream of Fr.Mark Thang Khan Ai and Fr. John Omse of the then Hakha Diocese in Chin State of Myanmar. They made a joint application to the then manager of RVA, Ms. Erlinda So whom Fr. Mark met for the first in May 1994. It was the inspiration of Fr. John Sulya, the then Hindi Service director who prompted Fr. Mark to approach the management as there was one slot free. He and Fr. John Omse were advised to make a formal application for inclusion of Zomi-Chin Service. The two priests who were both in the Philippines left for their respective countries in the summer of 1994 after completing their courses in Manila. However, Fr. John Omse never materialised on the scene again as he was asked to teach in the major seminary in Rangon. Fr. Mark went solo then on with the application follow up. The first Short Wave broadcast was aired on 06 August, 1996 on Mondays with a repeat on Tuesdays. Programmes were recorded on cassette tape, the technology of the 90s and sent to Manila. During the General Body Meeting of RVA in August 2000, Fr. Mark appealed for a daily service. It was upgraded to a four-times-a week service in 2004. By then CDs became the next available technology to record programmes. In 2008 it became a daily service but the programmes were still recorded on CDs. In 2014, the service was digitalized and programmes were sent from the comfort of the service’s office in Imphal via internet. 2016 saw the service being fully digitalized like other services, a departure from analogue to digital service. Zomi-Chin Service became Zo Service when Tedim-Chin Service was launched by the management in 2012. However, Zo Service still includes Tedim-Chin language in its six languages outreach, namely, Zo, Thadou, Tedim-Chin, Gangte, Vaiphei and Paite. The Silver Jubilee celebrations took place on 08 November, 2021 at St. Joseph’s Parish, Sugnu, the same venue where the Golden Jubilee of Radio Veritas Asia was celebrated in the presence of Fr. George Plathottam, SDB. Minutes before the Silver Jubilee Mass, RVA Zo Service Memorial Stone was blessed and dedicated by Most Rev.Dominic Lumon, DD, Archbishop of Imphal, who also presided over the Jubilee Mass. The hall was jam packed with listeners, admirers, sympathisers and supporters of the service. In his homily, the archbishop said “Radio Veritas Asia is the child of the South East Asian Bishops Conference for which every bishop had been contributing US $ 1000 and now much more. The main objective in founding this radio service was to spread the Gospel message to non-Christians of South East Asia and it has 21

done its work well. ‘Veritas’ means truth and RVA continues to spread the truth of our salvation through its languages service. The Archdiocese of Imphal will continue to support Zo Service and I wish Fr.Mark Thang Khan Ai and his team God’s abundant blessings.” The youth of Mary Help of Christians local church took up the liturgical singing while talented youth in and around Sugnu contributed items for the felicitation programme. Mr. Ginsuonhau, MLA, 60 Singngat and Minister of MANIREDA and MTDC was the Chief Guest. In his speech he said, ““I am a keen follower of the programmes of RVA Zo Service as it goes beyond church and languages of the state. As it is a Jubilee Day, I urge all to forgive any debts to the tune of Rs.5000/- or below to keep up the Old Testament practice of forgiving debts during their jubilees. I am so glad to be the Chief Guest again this time, after we celebrated RVA Golden Jubilee way back in November 2019. Where else can I get such a rare privilege? I would like to award Fr.Mark Thang Khan Ai in some gathering of our people in the near future. Reaching out to our people through social media platforms in this digital age is the need of our time and RVA Zo Service has just done that and I heartily congratulate the service. Long live RVA Zo Service.” Mr. Michael Ginzasuan, one of the Guests of Honour said, “Broadcasting the Good News by RVA Zo Service was like sowing a tiny mustard seed. It needed guts and patience to bring the service to this present status and I deeply appreciate the efforts of the entire team. Fr. Mark’s efforts deserve the appreciation and gratitude of our people. The Zo community is a small community in the state of Manipur but we are a giant when it comes to digital broadcast. This is what I would like to call ‘Evangelization’ and RVA Zo Service is doing just that.” A special attraction was the theme song dance performed by Singtom Village youth. The theme song zeroed on gratitude to God, RVA Management Team, gratitude to benefactors and all those who had worked hard to make the service a life-changing service for the Zomi-Chin speaking communities in India, Myanmar and the Zomi-Chin diaspora in Malaysia, New Zealand, and the United States. Financial contributions poured in from these countries if not in huge amount but substantial enough to make the event memorable. The main financial support came from the RVA headquarters for which the service team and its audience will remain ever grateful. Celebration of this nature brings deep sentiments of gratitude to all those who had contributed to the beginning and growth of the service, beginning with the headquarters itself. There are no words eloquent enough to express our gratitude to the golden hearted donors from the West. The transition from a once-a- week service to a fully digitalized service, using available social media platforms is a historical landmark for the service. Added to that is the latest RVA Mobile App which Michael Undland described as a ‘Historical Landmark.’ It has made RVA services available at the touch of Android mobile buttons. Our gratitude definitely goes to the management that was actually the chief initiator and mentor of Zo Service. With Job like patience the management had been guiding and mentoring the staff of Zo Service till this day. Staffed by four digital natives who were digitally cultured by the management, the service now aims for the skies as the next limit to reach out to the people it has been serving for the past twenty five years. 22

CATHOLIC ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS (Fr. Sebastian Chelat) 147. What are the strategies for healing the wounds of suicide? Hope lies in working through grief at one’s own pace, rather than ignoring sadness, or pretending it does not exist. Focus on healing rather than on events prior to the suicide, or what might have been done differently. Be certain to take care of physical needs: get adequate rest; eat nutritious foods; do some physical activity such as walking, playing a sport or working in the garden. Medication may be necessary in order to obtain needed sleep, but be cautious with prescription sleep aids, some of which can be addictive. Receive the Sacraments and pray: “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves the crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18). Simply offering one’s anguish to God in prayer can be powerful. Ask Him for the strength and grace to make it through each day, and pray for others who may be suffering from this particular heartache. Seek spiritual guidance if anger, guilt or shame hinders the strength and consolation that comes from prayer and the Sacraments Connect with others: Gradually move away from the tendency towards isolation, especially when driven by a feeling of being blamed or stigmatized by others. Surrounding one’s self with supportive people and discussing painful feelings are crucial forward steps in the grieving process. Most people genuinely are concerned, but do not know how to help someone who is grieving over suicide, and may avoid the bereaved out of fear of saying the wrong thing. Simply letting others know that just listening or being present, even long after the funeral has passed, may aid them in their honest desire to do something helpful. Of course, no one will have magic solutions, but connecting with others who are supportive leads to greater peace. Rather than relying upon one or two people for support, build a network through friends, parish and other social groups, or attend a bereavement support group for suicide survivors. Expect setbacks: Sudden, sometimes overwhelmingly painful, emotions can recur. Years later, another death, a photograph, or something as simple as a song can rekindle intense feelings about the suicide. These setbacks will most likely be temporary if the grieving process was allowed to progress naturally. Plan ahead: Rather than avoiding all reminders of the suicide, which can prevent healing, have a plan for dealing with anniversaries, birthdays and holidays. While it may be too painful for some, visiting the loved one’s gravesite also can be an important part of healing, as can simply spending time in an activity that the loved one enjoyed. Alternatively, finding ways to help others who may be grieving, or who are in need, can be a helpful distraction and an opportunity to find greater meaning or purpose. Making early decisions about whether to continue with old traditions, create new ones, or suspend them for a while can ease the strain of these difficult times. Giving one’s self permission to move forward, and to live a rebuilt life, does not mean forgetting a loved one, nor is it a betrayal of his memory. Although difficult to imagine early on, recovering survivors can create something good out of the devastation. This could include a new understanding of or appreciation for life, a renewal of faith, advocating for others, or it may mean taking on a new project, class or hobby. Concrete projects, such as creating a memorial for a loved one through a scrapbook, picture album, or website, or creative expression, through activities such as writing poetry, writing letters to the deceased or journaling about thoughts and feelings, sometimes facilitate 23

healing. Developing rituals can be another way of honoring a loved one’s life. Ultimately, however, one must accept life as it is now and perhaps come to terms with a life that is different than originally planned. Forgiveness is a key element of successful recovery. It may be necessary to give one’s self permission to forgive the deceased, God, others or self. It is important to understand that forgiveness does not mean condoning the actions of the one who committed suicide or others who may have done wrong. Forgiveness is not a one-time event, but a process that may require outside help. Lack of forgiveness hurts one’s self more than anyone else, and makes one a prisoner of the past. When to ask Professional help: When certain symptoms are present, it is time to seek help from a mental health therapist, preferably one with experience in bereavement work. Check local parishes or dioceses for referrals. Symptoms which are a cause for concern in one’s self or others include: • Emotional numbness that does not subside for months after the suicide. • Insomnia or recurring nightmares. • Inability to resume a normal routine when required, e.g., returing to work, caring for one’s children or household. • Feeling isolated and unable to connect with others to share grief. • Staying busy to avoid feelings. • Increased alcohol or drug use, including addictive prescription medication. • Suicidal thoughts. 148. I would like to know how does one support those grieving over a loss by suicide? Approaching someone who has lost a loved one to suicide can be difficult. Avoiding any mention of the departed out of a misguided desire to protect the bereaved, and the hope that not discussing the suicide will help those grieving either to forget or to recover more quickly, are common mistakes. Acceptance and compassion, along with a prudent appraisal of ways to aid the bereaved (offering practical assistance with shopping, cooking, driving, etc.) can be helpful. Make a sincere offer of emotional support, whether communicated in a card or letter, by telephone or in person, and give the bereaved permission to talk about the suicide. For example, “I am sorry for your loss. If you need to talk, I am available.” A good way to approach the bereaved is simply to ask, “How are you doing?” and then just listen. Let them decide how much they want to share. There are some common responses that are not helpful to the bereaved and can come across as judgmental or hurtful. For example, one should not ask why the departed committed suicide. The bereaved may not have a ready answer to this question, and asking only highlights that point. In addition, avoid remarks that suggest the death was God’s will, or that the departed is better off because he or she is no longer suffering. If it was a child who died, do not suggest that they can always have another one, or that they should be grateful for the siblings who are surviving. Neither these types of statements, nor pointing out any other potentially “constructive” aspect of the loss, is helpful. While such statements may be well-meant, in general, they will seem insensitive to the bereaved. Also, claiming to know how the bereaved feels is not helpful, unless the similar loss was also by suicide. Although the sudden and unexpected death of a loved one may, on the surface, seem similar, grief from a loss due to suicide usually involves difficult, complicated, and more intense feelings of rejection, guilt and shame. Although any loss can be difficult or even excruciating, losing someone to suicide is simply different than any other type of bereavement. 24

There is no timetable for grief, and each person mourns in an individual way. Therefore, do not assume that bereavement will end after a few weeks, months or even after the one-year anniversary of the death. Motivated by concern over the intensity or length of grief, some comforters may tell the bereaved that it is time to get over it and move on, which can be experienced by the survivor as a criticism. Survivors of suicide will continue to need care and support even after the first few weeks or months have passed. Be aware of difficult times for the bereaved, such as anniversaries, birthdays and holidays. In a gentle manner, share concerns about signs of depression such as social withdrawal, or speak to others who are close to the person about these concerns. Encourage the bereaved to obtain professional help if this seems necessary, and do not be afraid to seek the advice of a mental health professional. It is important not to ignore signs that the person may be in greater distress than that which can be addressed through the usual social support processes. Do not take it personally if a survivor declines support. Promise to contact him again later and then follow through. He may not be ready to share, or may have difficulty trusting others after feeling rejected or abandoned by the deceased loved one. Perhaps he is experiencing great shame or embarrassment, or needs time to be certainly that the offer of support is sincere and not merely a platitude. Gentle and patient follow up is the best way to demonstrate genuine sincerity. Most people will need support only occasionally, if ever, while a few will have greater needs. Sometimes it can be difficult to balance taking care of others with taking care of one’s self. Inadvertently encouraging someone to rely too heavily on one person’s support can easily lead to the proverbial situation of trying to rescue a drowning victim. In the process, both the rescuer and the victim drown. Conversely, withdrawing from one who is suffering because his need is overwhelming can leave him feeling hurt and abandoned. Rather, in a gentle manner, encourage the survivor to reach out to others as well, so that he or she can be sure of available support when it is most needed. The potential difficulties brought on by offering support can be discouraging, however, survivors need support. If a survivor’s needs become overwhelming, seek outside help.(to continue…) 25

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THE EDITORIAL TEAM Rev. Fr. Solomon Thezii Rev. Fr. Mark IA Rev. Fr. Mark Kumshang Chief Editor Co-Editor Co-Editor The Catholic Manipur” a Monthly News Bulletin for the Archdiocese of Imphal will continue to updates and serves the events of the Archdiocese through soft copy, until the situation comes to full normalcy. The editorial board is ever grateful to our Archbishop Most Rev. Dominic for his constant support and encouragement through his regular Shepherd’s voice. The editorial team is ever grateful to all the contributors, sincere thanks to Rev. (Dr.) (Fr. John Parvis, for giving the gist of his thesis, the main article for this month’s issue), contributors for the Archdiocesan News Column, Youth Column, Women Column, Social Media Column and Catholic Questions and Answers. The Editorial team would like to request all the readers to update your Parish Activities through: a) Mail ID : [email protected]/[email protected] b) Whatsapp: 9612830718/9612448829/7005071200 27

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