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["- Hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft, c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec sao? \\\"S\u1ef1 t\u1eed nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 sinh\\\" kia m\u00e0 ? - \u1ed2, anh mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft con anh c\u00f3 hi\u1ebfu hay kh\u00f4ng, xin anh h\u00e3y r\u00e1ng ch\u1edd sau khi anh ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd r\u00f5. Ca dao c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \\\"Khi s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng cho \u0103n. \u0110\u1ebfn khi ch\u1ebft xu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m v\u0103n t\u1ebf ru\u1ed3i\\\". Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f2n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng anh c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng lo ru\u1ed3i \u0103n h\u1ebft ph\u1ea7n, v\u00ec thanh ni\u00ean ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc v\u0103n n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 t\u1ebf ru\u1ed3i. \u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ee5c tranh c\u00e3i gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u00fa em v\u1ec1 quan ni\u1ec7m ch\u1eef \\\"Hi\u1ebfu\\\" th\u1eddi x\u01b0a v\u00e0c th\u1eddi nay. - Th\u1eddi nay l\u1edbp tr\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft \\\"Ch\u00edn ch\u1eef c\u00f9 lao\\\" l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec. C\u00f4ng \u01a1n mang n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ebb \u0111au, nu\u00f4i con kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn t\u1ed1n bao nhi\u00eau t\u00e2m l\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ebfn nay ch\u00fang n\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1edbn m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f4n. - T\u00f4i ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n - \u0110\u00e3 th\u1ebf c\u00f2n h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh... - \u0110\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng qua l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00f3n n\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u1ea7n, m\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i con r\u1ed3i nu\u00f4i ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng th\u1ebf. L\u1edbp tr\u1ebb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c: \\\"Sinh ra ta, nu\u00f4i ta l\u1edbn l\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u00f4 b\u00e0 b\u00f4\\\". C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a c\u00f2n tr\u00e1ch b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9: \\\"Sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0103n sung m\u1eb7c s\u01b0\u1edbng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng. B\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \\\"Kh\u1eaft khe\\\", \\\"Ky bo' m\u00e0 c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 \u01a1n hu\u1ec7!\\\" - Ch\u00fa em t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 th\u00eam. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, song c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt, v\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp thu s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 qua kh\u1ea3o nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tha th\u1ee9, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft ch\u1ea3y xu\u00f4i l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh. B\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u ca dao: \\\"C\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng \u0103n mu\u1ed1i c\u00e1 \u01b0\u01a1n, con c\u00e3i cha m\u1eb9 tr\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng con h\u01b0\\\", r\u1ed3i \\\"Tr\u1ee9ng kh\u00f4n h\u01a1n v\u1ecbt\\\"... \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbp, con c\u1ea3 t\u00f4i xen v\u00e0o: - Con xin ph\u00e9p cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ch\u00fa, con c\u00e3i cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m con h\u01b0 c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 sai l\u00e0m sai, con can ng\u0103n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e2u! \u00d4ng ch\u00fa g\u1eadt g\u00f9 t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh: - Ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i c\u00f3 l\u00fd. C\u00e2u \\\"Con c\u00e3i cha m\u1eb9 tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n con h\u01b0\\\" ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang khi \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u00f2n th\u01a1 \u1ea5u, ch\u1ee9 khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 c\u1eadu c\u00f2n kh\u00f4n h\u01a1n cha m\u1eb9. \\\"Con h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u00fac\\\" m\u00e0 ! Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y nay, khoa h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt ti\u1ebfn v\u00f9n v\u1ee5t, t\u01b0 duy ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, kinh t\u1ebf b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi m\u00e0 c\u00e1nh gi\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay th\u1ee7 c\u1ef1u, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p. \u00c2u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa hai th\u1ebf h\u1ec7... - Theo ch\u00fa, c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \\\"C\u00f3 con t\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con t\u1ed9i ch\u1ebft\\\" c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ? - \u0110\u00fang th\u1eddi x\u01b0a nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi nay. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \\\"B\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu h\u1eefu tam, v\u00f4 h\u1eadu vi \u0111\u1ea1i\\\" (c\u00f3 3 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eb7ng nh\u1ea5t). Cha m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 tuy \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng trong ta, n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 con th\u00ec sau khi ta ch\u1ebft, ta c\u0169ng l\u00e0m ti\u00eau tan n\u1ed1t gi\u00f2ng m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a bao \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, \u00f4ng cha l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n t\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec sao ? C\u00f3 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng nu\u00f4i con ch\u1eb3ng qua ch\u1ec9 mang th\u00eam t\u1ed9i v\u1ea1. \u0110\u00e3 v\u1eady sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t con l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e1u. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng chon h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghi\u1ec7p cha \u00f4ng th\u00ec hy v\u1ecdng ch\u00e1u m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u1ed1i.","Trong cu\u1ed1n \\\"M\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam\\\" m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng: \\\"N\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 dai d\u1eb3ng nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a con h\u01b0\\\". Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \\\"Con kh\u00f4n n\u1edf m\u1eb7t m\u1eb9 cha\\\" \\\"M\u1ed9t con m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a\\\", c\u00f3 ai t\u1eeb. G\u1eb7p nhau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta h\u1ecfi th\u0103m nhau: \\\"M\u1ea5y trai m\u00e1y g\u00e1i r\u1ed3i ?\\\", ch\u1ee9 c\u00f3 h\u1ecfi: \\\"M\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a r\u1ed3i ?\\\"\u0111\u00e2u. C\u00f2n nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u \\\"Tr\u1ebb c\u1eady cha, gi\u00e0 c\u1eady con\\\" ng\u00e0y nay li\u1ec7n c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ? Nh\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ebfu k\u00ednh th\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0 vua ban bi\u1ec3n v\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 th\u1eddi vua L\u00ea Huy\u1ec1n T\u00f4ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y g\u1ea7n ba tr\u0103m n\u0103m (1663-1671), ban bi\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ecf v\u1edbi b\u1ed1n ch\u1eef v\u00e0ng \\\"Hi\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh kh\u1ea3 phong\\\" nh\u01b0 th\u1eddi vua H\u00e0m Nghi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m n\u0103m (1885-1888) ch\u00fa em t\u00f4i th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t g\u1ee3i \u00fd: \\\"Th\u1eddi nay thi\u1ebfu g\u00ec g\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ebfu kinh sao t\u1eeb trung \u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01b0a th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c khen th\u01b0\u1edfng bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u00ec ?. Trong quy\u1ec3n \\\"Nh\u1ecb th\u1eadp t\u1ee9 hi\u1ebfu\\\" c\u00f3 L\u1ee5c T\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1eadn C\u1eedu Ch\u00e2n m\u1edbi 6 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd Vi\u00ean \u0103n ti\u1ec7c xong d\u1ea5u qu\u1ea3 qu\u00fdt mang v\u1ec1 cho m\u1eb9 Qu\u1eadn C\u1eedu Ch\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t Thanh Ho\u00e1 ng\u00e0y nay. L\u1ee5c T\u00edch c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u1ec7t trong s\u1ed1 \\\"Th\u1ea3o hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n, th\u01a1m ngh\u00ecn mu\u00f4n thu\\\", sao trong s\u1eed s\u00e1ch ta, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn. \u00d4ng ch\u00fa v\u1eeba d\u1ee9t l\u1eddi, c\u1eadu con trai th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i xen ngay : - T\u01b0\u1edfng ai n\u1ed5i danh, ch\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 L\u1ee5c T\u00edch gi\u1ea5y qu\u00fdt v\u1ec1 cho m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o s\u1eed s\u00e1ch, th\u00ec \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ta gi\u1ea5y m\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho h\u1ebft, \u1edf m\u1ed9t v\u00f9ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y h\u00e0ng v\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ngay nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e2y, l\u00fac nh\u1ecf c\u00f9ng \u0111i \u0103n gi\u1ed7 v\u1edbi ch\u00fa \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ecd, h\u1eb3n ch\u00ed c\u00f2n nh\u1edb, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00e1u m\u1edbi b\u1ed1n, n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i, ch\u00e1u c\u00f2n nh\u1edb ch\u00fa x\u00e9 s\u1eb5n cho ch\u00e1u m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i l\u00e1 chu\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0103n c\u1ed7, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea7n gi\u00f2, ph\u1ea7n n\u00eam, ch\u1ea3, x\u00f4i, hoa qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u, ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec1u g\u00f3i c\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i mang v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n m\u1eb9, ph\u1ea7n em, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t th\u00e8m, ch\u00e1u h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n L\u1ee5c T\u00edch ch\u1ee9 ch\u00fa! Nghe con nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169, v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i nho\u1ebbn mi\u1ec7ng c\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i li\u1ebfc th\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i c\u00f2n r\u01a1m r\u1edbm n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft v\u00ec c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u1eadu con th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, b\u1ed7ng quay l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda ch\u00fa, \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t h\u1ecfi: - Vua ban b\u1eb1ng 'Hi\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh\\\" g\u00ec g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa ? Hay l\u1ea1i nghe d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00e2u b\u00e1o l\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 phong cho b\u1ecdn l\u1eafm ti\u1ec1n, kh\u00e9o n\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n khao cho to ? Ch\u00fa \u1ea1, ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 ng\u1ed1c l\u1eafm\\\" \\\"\u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1i th\u00e1nh h\u1ecd Ngu vua Thu\u1ea5n\\\" th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4n: hi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u1ebd, ch\u1ee9 v\u1edbi m\u1ee5 g\u00ec gh\u1ebb cay nghi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 ki\u1ec3u m\u1eb9 con C\u00e1m, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e1u th\u00ec \u0103n \u0111\u00e1m ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng h\u00f2ng \\\"Tr\u0103m cay \u0111\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m ngon ng\u1ecdt\\\". \u0110\u1eddi nh\u00e0 ai, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00f4n con nu\u00f4i m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 H\u00e1n Qu\u00e1ch C\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \\\"Th\u01a1m ngh\u00ecn mu\u00f4n thu\\\". \u0110\u00e1ng l\u00fd ra tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ngi\u00eam tr\u1ecb t\u1ed9i gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb con. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fa em t\u00f4i quay sang h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: - Theo \u00fd anh, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \\\"C\u00f3 hi\u1ebfu\\\", th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \\\"B\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu\\\". Gi\u1eefa hai \u0111\u1ee9a con, anh ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o, m\u1ed9t nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e2y: Con nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o, m\u1edbi 4, 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft gi\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n ngon v\u1ec1 bi\u1ebfu m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a gi\u00e0u sang, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7 cha c\u0169ng l\u1ea5y c\u1edb b\u1ecba ra ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7, c\u1ed7 b\u00e0n linh \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 kho\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3i, c\u1ea7u c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb cao sang, lm\u00e0 ra v\u1ebb ng\u01b0\u1eddi con ch\u00ed hi\u1ebfu, trong khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u1eaft h\u1ee7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 qu\u00ea m\u00f9a, lam l\u0169 ngh\u00e8o h\u00e8n nh\u01b0 trong chuy\u1ec7n \\\"B\u00e1o hi\u1ebfu cha\\\" c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n C\u00f4ng Hoan. Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, gi\u1eefa \\\"L\u1ee5c T\u00edch nh\u00e0 ta\\\" m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u c\u00f3 l\u00fac c\u00f2n h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \\\"Ch\u1ee7 h\u00e3ng \u00f4 t\u00f4 con c\u1ecdp\\\" c\u1ee7a Nguy\u1ec5n C\u00f4ng Hoan, anh ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ee9a n\u00e0o?","D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh dung d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, ch\u00fa em t\u00f4i quay l\u1ea1i, nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u: - Ch\u00e1u \u1ea1, ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed9, t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi, ch\u1ecdn l\u00fac, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft, h\u1ed7n l\u00e1o, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch, khi ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, ho\u1eb7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t v\u1ee3 con, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd qu\u1edf m\u1eafng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u1ea1y con; \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ee3 con ch\u00e1u, em \u00fat ch\u00e1u khinh nh\u1eddn b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng khinh nh\u1eddn c\u1ea3 ch\u00e1u. Sau n\u00e0y ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd r\u00f5: c\u00f3 nu\u00f4i con m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9. T\u1eeb n\u00e3y \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i nghe, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1edbi l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng: \\\"Nghe cha con, ch\u00fa ch\u00e1u nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng n\u00f3i th\u00ec ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd \\\"! Xin m\u01b0\u1ee3n c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m c\u00e2u k\u1ebft cho b\u00e0i n\u00e0y.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 43 : T\u1ee5c khao l\u00e3o B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eadc \u0103n d\u01b0ng nh\u1ec9, C\u00f3 r\u01b0\u1ee3u th\u00ec \u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady ra. (Nguy\u1ec5n Khuy\u1ebfn) L\u00ean l\u00e3o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i khao. \\\"Khao l\u00e3o\\\" kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 khao v\u1ecb th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00ecnh trung. Lo \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f3 m\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1eddi phe gi\u00e1p hay th\u00f4n x\u00f3m kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn, v\u00ec l\u00ean l\u00e3o l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1eadu c\u1ea1nh. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00e2n d\u1ecbp b\u00e0y ti\u1ec7c m\u1eebng th\u1ecd t\u1ebf l\u1ec5, \u0103n u\u1ed1ng linh \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u1ebf s\u1ed1ng cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 v\u0103n ch\u00fac th\u1ecd v\u1edbi ban t\u01b0 v\u0103n h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 tr\u1ee3 t\u1ebf. Cha m\u1eb9 ng\u1ed3i ph\u00eda trong, con tr\u00e1i, g\u00e1i, d\u00e2u, r\u1ec3, ch\u00e1u ch\u1eaft, ph\u00e2n th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9ng hai b\u00ean, nam b\u00ean tr\u00e1i, n\u1eef b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 t\u1ebf ba tu\u1ea7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, c\u00f3 t\u1ea5u nh\u1ea1c tr\u1ecdng th\u1ec3 , vui v\u1ebb. T\u1ebf s\u1ed1ng cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n hai l\u1ea1y, kh\u00e1c t\u1ebf th\u1ea7n, t\u1ebf t\u1ed5 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n b\u1ed1n l\u1ea1y. \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t v\u0103n v\u1eadt, b\u00e0i v\u0103n t\u1ebf ch\u00fac th\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh b\u00fat m\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong v\u00f9ng n\u00f4 n\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn xem t\u1ebf v\u00e0 nghe \u0111\u1ecdc v\u0103n. C\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1m m\u1eebng th\u1ecd m\u1eddi b\u00e0 con h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng l\u00e0ng t\u1ed5ng, ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng h\u00e1t x\u01b0\u1edbng hai ba b\u1ed1n ng\u00e0y. \\\"Ph\u00fa qu\u00fd sinh l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a\\\", c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 m\u1eebng th\u1ecd cha m\u1eb9 l\u00ean l\u00e3o 70,80,90 tu\u1ed5i...Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c, gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 b\u00e0y ra th\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3i m\u1eddi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn chia vui v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0m vui l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9, t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ee5c hay, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb nh\u1eb9 t\u00ecnh hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, kh\u00f4ng lo ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cha m\u1eb9 cho \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 44 : Y\u1ebfn l\u00e3o \\\"Y\u1ebfn\\\" l\u00e0 ti\u1ec7c r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0ng c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c y\u1ebfn l\u00e3o, h\u00e0ng n\u0103m hay hai ba n\u0103m m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, th\u1ebft ti\u1ec7c m\u1eebng th\u1ecd c\u00e1c quan l\u00e3o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec3n th\u1eddi th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ec7 \u0111oan nh\u01b0 t\u1ee5c ng\u00f4i th\u1ee9 h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea9m. \\\"S\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u l\u00ean l\u00e3o l\u00e0ng\\\", t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 vinh d\u1ef1 tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tranh d\u00e0nh m\u1edbi c\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed7i n\u0103m c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ecbp l\u00e0ng m\u1edf h\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ec5 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3, c\u00e1c quan l\u00e3o t\u1ee5 h\u1ed9i \u1edf ch\u00f9a hay n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng qu\u00e1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng cai, l\u00e0ng \u0111em c\u1edd qu\u1ea1t v\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1t \u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn r\u01b0\u1edbc ra \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u00e0ng tr\u00f9 ph\u00fa th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eafm \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00f5ng l\u1ecdng r\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3o, l\u00e3o 100 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i v\u00f5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u che b\u1ed1n l\u1ecdng xanh, l\u00e3o 90 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i v\u00f5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u hai l\u1ecdng xanh, l\u00e3o 80 tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecdng xanh (\u0111\u00f2n cong) m\u1ed9t l\u1ecdng, l\u00e3o 70 v\u00f5ng xanh (\u0111\u00f2n \u1ed1ng) m\u1ed9t l\u1ecdng. Trai tr\u00e1ng c\u1ea7m c\u1edd khi\u00eang v\u00f5ng \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3n d\u1ea5u \u00e1o n\u1eb9p. \u0110\u00e1m r\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t tr\u1ecdng th\u1ec3. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0ng, n\u01a1i gi\u1eefa thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd ti\u00ean l\u00e3o, c\u00e1c quan l\u00e3o ng\u1ed3i hai gian b\u00ean theo th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 l\u00e0ng y\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 l\u00e3o b\u00e0 th\u00ec gian tr\u00e1i l\u00e3o \u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i, gian b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e3o b\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i. Tu\u1ef3 theo l\u1ec7 l\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 n\u01a1i l\u00e3o 90 tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u1eefa ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 n\u01a1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn 60 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 b\u1eadc cao ni\u00ean nh\u1ea5t, c\u0169ng ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t. T\u1ebf l\u00e3o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 nghi th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 t\u1ebf th\u1ea7n, ba tu\u1ea7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u1edbi v\u0103n t\u1ebf ti\u00ean l\u00e3o, v\u0103n ch\u00fac th\u1ecd quan l\u00e3o, c\u00f3 ban t\u01b0 v\u0103n h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5, ph\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1t \u00e2m t\u1ea5u nh\u1ea1c. L\u00fac t\u1ebf, quan l\u00e3o ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng m\u00e2m c\u1ed7 \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1eefa chi\u1ebfu, ch\u1ec9 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u su\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0103n, l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u00fd trang nh\u00e3, tr\u1ecbnh tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi d\u00e2n l\u00e0ng, ng\u1ed3i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c l\u1ec5 di\u1ec5n h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe v\u0103n t\u1ebf, v\u0103n ch\u00fac th\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng m\u00e2m c\u1ed7 kia s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eebng nh\u00e0 bi\u1ebfu c\u00e1c c\u1ee5. C\u1ed7 y\u1ebfn l\u00e3o th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u1ecbnh h\u1eadu c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m l\u1eabn l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u00f3 n\u01a1i m\u1ed7i c\u1ed7 hai b\u00e1nh d\u00e0y, hai b\u00e1nh ch\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n gi\u00f2, nem v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 b\u00e1nh kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng phu. Chi\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t, m\u1ed9t c\u1ee5 ng\u1ed3i th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t, chi\u1ebfu nh\u00ec, hai c\u1ee5 ng\u1ed3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i c\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ed7, nh\u1eefng c\u1ed7 d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ea1ng c\u1ee9 b\u1ed1n c\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7. T\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a, nh\u1eefng khi c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u01a1i \u0111\u00ecnh trung. Ng\u00e0y y\u1ebfn, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c l\u00e3o b\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho d\u00e2n l\u00e0ng m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t vui v\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea7m \u1ea5m. M\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c y\u1ebfn l\u00e3o l\u00e0 do \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ebfu m\u00e0 ra, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c t\u00ednh d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t tr\u1ecdng h\u1eadu, tr\u1ebb vui \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u1ebb, gi\u00e0 vui tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0, tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eb3n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i th\u1ea3m c\u1ea3nh \u1edf m\u1ea5y n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u0103n minh c\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ecbnh c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ecb li\u1ec7t v\u00e0o h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, \u0103n h\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, con ch\u00e1u \u00edt ch\u0103m nom, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t. L\u00fac v\u00e3n ni\u00ean, t\u00f3c b\u1ea1c da m\u1ed3i, v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb n\u01a1i th\u00f4n d\u00e3 n\u0103m th\u00e1ng tr\u00f4i, c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 h\u1eb3n c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y sung s\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 l\u00e0ng t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng, qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t m\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c r\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i y\u1ebfn \u1ea9m, con ch\u00e1u c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n l\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u00fac m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd, cho n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0, d\u00f9 ng\u00e8o c\u0169ng r\u00e1ng may s\u1eafm cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111i d\u1ef1 y\u1ebfn.","C\u1ee5 th\u00ec m\u0169 ni nhung \u0111en, \u00e1o v\u00f3c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ed3ng, c\u1ee5 th\u00ec kh\u0103n nhi\u1ec5u tam giang, gi\u1ea7y v\u0103n h\u00e0i, c\u1ee5 th\u00ec \u00e1o \u0111o\u1ea1n huy\u1ec1n qu\u1ea7n l\u1ee5a b\u1ea1ch, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5 nh\u00e0 b\u1ea7n h\u00e0n, quanh n\u0103m qu\u1ea7n n\u00e2u \u00e1o v\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u0169ng qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fac b\u00e2u, \u00e1o the th\u00e2m, \u00e1o l\u00e1ng ch\u00e9o go, d\u00e9p m\u1edbi thay quai... Y ph\u1ee5c tu\u1ef3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u1ed7i nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o, ch\u1ec9 tr\u1eeb m\u00e0u v\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua, quan d\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb7c Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c, d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00f2ng d\u00e2y thao qu\u00e0ng c\u1ed5 l\u00e0 t\u00fai g\u1ea5m m\u00e0u lam, m\u00e0u huy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ef1ng tr\u1ea7u, thu\u1ed1c, c\u1ed1i, ch\u00e0y... \u0110\u00e1m r\u01b0\u1edbc quan l\u00e3o, y ph\u1ee5c m\u00e0u s\u1eafc nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1edbi v\u00f5ng l\u1ecdng c\u1edd qu\u1ea1t, v\u1eeba g\u1ee3i c\u1ea3m. Nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 t\u1eeb m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00f4ng cha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi b\u00f9i ng\u00f9i ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n \u01b0\u1edbc mong cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eddi nay v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi sau.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 45 : T\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 phong tr\u00e0o kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd ? T\u1eeb n\u0103m 1975 l\u1ea1i nay, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. T\u1eeb B\u1eafc ch\u00ed Nam \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 phong tr\u00e0o kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung: Di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch, bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n, ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn gia ph\u1ea3, s\u1eeda sang t\u00f4n t\u1ea1o t\u1ed5 m\u1ed9, t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1ebf t\u1ef1, gi\u1ed7 t\u1ed5 h\u00e0ng n\u0103m v\u00e0 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia t\u1ed9c h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phong tr\u00e0o t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u0103n b\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 th\u1ecb n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 quan trung \u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay ng\u00e0nh v\u0103n ho\u00e1 c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn khuy\u1ec5n kh\u00edch. V\u1eady nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 n\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1o, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y phong tr\u00e0o lan r\u1ed9ng nhanh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1t tri\u1ebfn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1ch quan. Trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 kh\u00e1ng chi\u1ebfn. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n, tr\u00ean c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i d\u1ed3n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 T\u1ed5 Qu\u1ed1c, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i lo nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ee9c x\u00fac nh\u1ea5t : \u0102n \u1edf, s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebft ... v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u00e3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau khi ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n v\u0103n ho\u00e1 l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i l\u00ean. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111i l\u1ea1i, th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng nhau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1, g\u1eafn b\u00f3 m\u1ed1i qu\u00e2n h\u1ec7 gia t\u1ed9c, vi\u1ec7c th\u1edd ph\u1ee5ng t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb ng\u00e0n x\u01b0a \u0111\u1eb5 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c quan tr\u1ecdng trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u0103n ho\u00e1 v\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng. D\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o, d\u00f9 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eabn v\u1eady. T\u0129nh gia t\u1ed9c l\u00e0 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u00e1u tho\u1ea3ng h\u01a1n n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn . V\u00ec v\u1eady. Kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e2m t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 x\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 thu\u1ea7n phong m\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 46 : Quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0ng x\u00e3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u1ee3i hay h\u1ea1i ? Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, v\u00f4 t\u01b0, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1ea7n phong m\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 c\u01a1 s\u1edf bi\u1ebft kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i, lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 3 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c sau \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd v\u1eefng m\u1ea1nh c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho phong tr\u00e0o chung: \u2022 Ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00e9o b\u00e8, k\u00e9o c\u00e1nh. \u2022 Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c, m\u00ea t\u00edn d\u1ecb \u0111oan. \u2022 D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o th\u1ebf c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f3p m\u00e9o lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p, l\u00e0m \u0103n sai tr\u00e1i. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u1ebfu t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c h\u1ed9i h\u00e8 \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 g\u00e2y l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed, nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec gi\u1edd v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, th\u1eddi v\u1ee5 s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t, th\u00ec n\u00ean kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf m\u1eb7t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00ec l\u00e0ng x\u00e3 ph\u1ed3n vinh . Tr\u01b0\u1edbc C\u00e1ch M\u1ea1ng Th\u00e1ng T\u00e1m, b\u1ed9 m\u00e1y h\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00fd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh, ph\u00e1p l\u00fd, tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecb an, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n, ch\u1ea5n h\u01b0ng phong ho\u00e1 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u00e1, \u0111\u00e0o gi\u1ebfng, s\u1eeda sang \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00f9a, h\u1ed9i h\u00e8 ... h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0o m\u1ee5c mu\u1ed1n huy \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c, ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c h\u1ecd, n\u00ean m\u1ed7i x\u00e3, th\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ed9c bi\u1ec3u bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 vai v\u1ebf trong c\u00e1c h\u1ecd. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng con ch\u00e1u trong c\u00e1c h\u1ecd ra l\u00e0ng x\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4ng \u00edch. Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi phong tr\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng: \u2022 Ph\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i lu\u00e2n l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 c\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng v\u0103n minh, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u0103n ho\u00e1 m\u1edbi. \u2022 G\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb, con trung hi\u1ebfu, ch\u00e1u th\u1ea3o hi\u1ec1n, nu\u00f4i con kho\u1ebb, d\u1ea1y con ngoan.","\u2022 V\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u1ecd th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t binh \u0111i\u1ec1n, h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1n, t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c l\u1ec5 h\u1ecd, h\u1ed9i t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ebf. V\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng cho con ch\u00e1u trong h\u1ecd h\u1ecdc kh\u1ecfi, l\u00ean l\u1edbp, l\u00ean c\u1ea5p, ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 qu\u00e2n s\u1ef1, n\u00eau cao \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01a1 nh\u1ee1, \u1ed1m \u0111au, t\u00e0n t\u1eadt ... \u2022 N\u1ebfu kh\u00e9o t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, c\u00e1c h\u1ecd c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u1ee7 s\u00e1ch, c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 ...","\u0110i\u1ec1u 47 : Ru\u1ed9ng \u00ab h\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecfa \u00bb c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec ? \\\"Ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 \\\" l\u00e0 ru\u1ed9ng d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang giao cho t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng lo vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5ng th\u1edd h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i cho cha \u00f4ng, t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean. Ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 l\u01b0u truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1n. Lu\u1eadt phong ki\u1ebfn c\u1ea5m b\u00e1n ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u1eb7c \u0111i bi\u1ec7t x\u1ee9 xa qu\u00ea, h\u1ecd khuy\u1ebft t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi con tr\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n th\u1eeba tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1nh hai l\u00ean thay, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u01b0\u1edfng ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 v\u00e0 lo vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ed7 t\u1ebft h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 con ch\u00e1u trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u phi\u00eau c\u01b0 b\u1ea1t qu\u00e1n ( con g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn ) th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111ang h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0m \u0111\u01a1n xin b\u00e1n, l\u00fd tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o l\u00e0m sai lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 tr\u00ean s\u1ebd b\u1ecb quan x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t, n\u1ebfu trong h\u1ecd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0a ki\u1ec7n. V\u00ec c\u00f3 ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecfa n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c t\u1ebf t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, d\u00f9 h\u1ecd l\u1edbn hay b\u00e9, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t hay b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, d\u00f9 t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00e0u hay ngh\u00e8o, sang hay h\u00e8n, gi\u00e0 hay tr\u1ebb ( c\u00f3 khi m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 con n\u0103m b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i ), vi\u1ec7c t\u1ebf t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n uy nghi \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 48 : Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng x\u01b0a v\u00e0 nay Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u1ecd l\u1edbn c\u00f3 t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd l\u1edbn; c\u00e1c chi c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng chi . T\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i, ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec l\u1ec5 to, nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ecd l\u1edbn, t\u1ebf kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Khi v\u00e0o t\u1ebf l\u1ec5, t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 t\u1ebf, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u00fa d\u1eabu cao tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i t\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu nh\u1ecf qu\u00e1 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u00fa k\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edfng thay th\u1ebf, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng vua tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ea7n. Th\u1eddi nay ru\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea5t thu\u1ed9c s\u1edf h\u1eefu to\u00e0n d\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 thu t\u00f4 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng c\u0169ng tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c; t\u00e2m t\u01b0, tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh sinh s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd, t\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u1ee5 c\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t ly c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng xa c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng giao (ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng giao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c) vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd cho ai. Trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i t\u1ebf t\u1ef1 t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng b\u1ecb ph\u1ebf kho\u00e1ng. Th\u1ec3 theo nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng, t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \\\"U\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1edb ngu\u1ed3n\\\", ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7 ng\u00e0y t\u1ebft con ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n d\u00e2ng l\u00ean T\u1ed5 ti\u00ean b\u00e1t n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u00e9n h\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 c\u1ee9u t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn, nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh trong h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd. Ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u0103n b\u1ea3n hay c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec1n l\u1ec7 n\u00e0o qui \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ban nghi l\u1ec5. l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng gia t\u1ed9c hay h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ed9c bi\u1ec3u ... Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, h\u1ecd n\u00e0o m\u1ea1nh hay y\u1ebfu, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t hay suy vi, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng, t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi phong tr\u00e0o chung, c\u00f2n tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 ch\u1ed1t, ch\u1ee9 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. Trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 kh\u00e1ng chi\u1ebfn con ch\u00e1u t\u1ea3n m\u00e1c, nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd b\u1ecb ph\u1ebf kho\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo t\u1eeb \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3. T\u1eeb sau ho\u00e0 b\u00ecnh, th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec \\\" Duy \u00fd ch\u00ed \\\", n\u00ean phong tr\u00e0o lo\u00e9 l\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn r\u1ed3i l\u1ee5i d\u1ea7n. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i th\u00ec con ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p ti\u1ec1n g\u1eedi v\u00e0o qu\u1ef9 t\u00edch ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eaby lai h\u00e0ng n\u0103m m\u00e0 lo h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i do tr\u01b0\u1ee3t gi\u00e1, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1ch quan n\u1eefa t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i c\u0169ng ngu\u00f4i d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng tr\u0103n tr\u1edf nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebf t\u1ee5c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p cha \u00f4ng, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho anh linh t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, cha \u00f4ng, mu\u1ed1n cho d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 49 : B\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? C\u00e1ch l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng ? B\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho con ch\u00e1u s\u1ed1ng xa qu\u00ea, h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea, th\u1edd cha m\u1eb9 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7, t\u1ebft. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, v\u1edbi n\u1ec1n kinh t\u1ebf n\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p t\u1ef1 cung, t\u1ef1 c\u1ea5p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng d\u00e2n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi qu\u00ea cha \u0111\u1ea5t t\u1ed5, chuy\u1ec3n c\u01b0 sang l\u00e0ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7t qu\u00e1n, ly h\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00ec v\u1eady b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh phong t\u1ee5c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. \\\"V\u1ecdng b\u00e1i \\\", ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u00e1i l\u1ea1y t\u1eeb xa. Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, khi tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3n l\u1ec5 l\u1edbn, c\u00e1c quan trong tri\u1ec1u t\u1eadp trung tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n r\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m l\u1ec5, c\u00e1c quan \u1edf c\u00e1c t\u1ec9nh ho\u1eb7c n\u01a1i bi\u00ean \u1ea3i, thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1eafp h\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ebfn, h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 kinh \u0111\u00f4 qu\u1ef3 l\u1ea1y Thi\u00ean t\u1eed. Khi nghe tin cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u1ea5t, con ch\u00e1u ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea ch\u1ecbu tang, c\u0169ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n ngo\u00e0i s\u00e2n, h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. C\u00e1c b\u00e0n th\u1edd thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, sau \u0111\u00f3 con c\u00e1o quan xin v\u1ec1 c\u01b0 tang ba n\u0103m (xem b\u00e0i L\u1ec5 C\u01b0 tang). C\u00e1c thi\u1ec7n nam t\u00edn n\u1eef h\u00e0ng n\u0103m \u0111i tr\u1ea9y h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh Tr\u1ea7n \u1edf V\u1ea1n Ki\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ee9c Th\u00e1nh M\u1eabu \u1edf \u0110\u1ec1n S\u00f2ng v.v... d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 sau, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u00e1 xa x\u00f4i, c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf, \u0111i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, c\u0169ng l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. N\u01a1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00edn \u0111\u1ed3 t\u1eadp trung, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. C\u00e1c thi\u1ec7n nam t\u00edn n\u1eef quy\u00ean g\u00f3p nhau c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd kh\u00e1c, r\u1ed3i c\u1eed ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0n th\u1edd ch\u00ednh xin b\u00e1t h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ec1 th\u1edd. nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1n th\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb (th\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u1edf s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 35 ph\u1ed1 T\u00f4n \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u1eafng H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \\\"S\u00f9ng S\u01a1n v\u1ecdng t\u1eeb\\\" ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0110\u1ec1n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a n\u00fai S\u00f2ng, th\u1edd th\u00e1nh M\u1eabu Li\u1ec5u H\u1ea1nh). B\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadp trung trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p s\u1ed1ng xa qu\u00ea. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi con th\u1ee9, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o, sang h\u00e8n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, n\u1ebfu \u1edf g\u1ea7n c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t t\u1ed5 ph\u1ee5 l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7, ng\u00e0y t\u1ebft, con th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ph\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ho\u1eb7c g\u00f3p l\u1ec5, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 th\u1edd hay nh\u00e0 con tru\u1edfng l\u00e0m l\u1ec5, cho d\u00f9 c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ec9 thu\u1ed9c h\u00e0ng ch\u00e1u, th\u00ec ch\u00fa ho\u1eb7c \u00f4ng ch\u00fa v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i th\u1edd c\u00fang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Do \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ec7 l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1eeda th\u1ee9 ngay \u1edf qu\u00ea nh\u00e0. N\u1ebfu c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng khuy\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c xa qu\u00ea, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi con th\u1ee9 2 th\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd ch\u00ednh, c\u00f2n b\u00e0n th\u1edd \u1edf nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh c\u1ea3 \u1edf xa qu\u00ea l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng. Phong t\u1ee5c r\u1ea5t hay v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd ch\u1eef Hi\u1ebfu \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi ch\u1eef \u0110\u1ec7. Khi s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n anh ch\u1ecb em s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7m \u1ea5m. Th\u1ec9nh vong h\u1ed3n v\u1ec1 c\u1ea7u c\u00fang l\u1ec5 b\u00e1i, m\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em \u1edf g\u1ea7n nhau kh\u00f4ng sum h\u1ecdp, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00fang m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea7m m\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t ho\u00e0, vong h\u1ed3n l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 thanh th\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e1ch l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng: Ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 phong t\u1ee5c c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nghi l\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m truy\u1ec1n cho nhau kho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 l\u1ea1i nay tu\u1ef3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n m\u00e0 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng: Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1eadp b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea ch\u00ednh b\u00e1o c\u00e1o gia ti\u00ean t\u1ea1i b\u00e0n th\u1edd ch\u00ednh. Sau \u0111\u00f3 xin ph\u00e9p chuy\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t l\u01b0 h\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ee5 ho\u1eb7c","m\u1ea5y n\u00e9n h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang ch\u00e1y gi\u1edf mang \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng r\u1ed3i th\u1eafp ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 ri\u00eang, t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i khang trang, th\u00ec b\u00e0n th\u1edd \u0111\u1eb7t h\u1eb3n m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang chuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1edd c\u00fang cho t\u00f4n nghi\u00eam, ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1eb7t \u1edf ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng cao h\u01a1n ch\u1ed7 ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00e0n th\u1edd gia th\u1ea7n ri\u00eang, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n b\u00e0n th\u1edd gia th\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u00edt. \u0110\u1eb7t h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o? - H\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea ch\u00ednh, \u0111\u1ec3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1eafp h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e1i l\u1ea1y thu\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e1i l\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00ea mi\u1ec1n Trung s\u1ed1ng \u1edf H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i th\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00e0n th\u1edd v\u1ecdng ph\u00eda Nam c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng hay ngo\u00e0i s\u00e2n, ngo\u00e0i hi\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00e0n th\u1edd trong bu\u1ed3ng ng\u1ee7, tr\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u00e0 ch\u1eadt h\u1eb9p qu\u00e1 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ed7 u\u1ebf t\u1ea1p, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea1nh l\u1ed1i \u0111i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf khu t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 nh\u00e0 t\u1ea7ng, n\u1ebfu c\u00e2u n\u1ec7 qu\u00e1 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0n th\u1edd. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t l\u1ecd c\u1eafm h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1eb1m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7, mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh k\u00ednh, ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00e2u n\u1ec7 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o, cao th\u1ea5p r\u1ed9ng h\u1eb9p ra sao.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 50 : H\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 ? H\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 : r\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c ti\u00ean linh c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0o th\u1edd chung trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00f4n hay c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng ti\u1ec3u chi. Theo phong t\u1ee5c c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n: N\u0103m \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed7, hay \\\"Ng\u0169 \u0111\u1ea1i mai th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7\\\" (\u0110\u1ebfn 5 \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec ch\u00f4n th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7). Th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 l\u00e0m gi\u1ed7 cha m\u1eb9 (\u0111\u1eddi 2), \u00f4ng b\u00e0 (\u0111\u1eddi 3), c\u1ee5 \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 b\u00e0 (hay c\u1ed1 4 \u0111\u1eddi) v\u00e0 k\u1ef5 (hay can 5 \u0111\u1eddi). Cao h\u01a1n k\u1ef5 g\u1ecdi chung l\u00e0 ti\u00ean t\u1ed5, th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00fang gi\u1ed7 n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1edbc chung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 thu\u1ef7 t\u1ed5, ti\u00ean t\u1ed5 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0o chung m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u1edd m\u1ed7i n\u0103m t\u1ebf m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3t. Th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 con c\u00fang cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n kh\u1ea3o, Hi\u1ec1n t\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi con tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ebft, ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n c\u00fang \u00f4ng b\u00e0, \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 l\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n t\u1ed5 kh\u1ea3o, Hi\u1ec1n t\u1ed5 t\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t ch\u00e1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea5t, ch\u1eaft tr\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1edd c\u1ee5 l\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n T\u1eb1ng t\u1ed5 kh\u1ea3o (ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef7), ch\u00edt (chiu) tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1edd k\u1ef5 l\u00e0 Hi\u1ec1n Cao t\u1ed5 kh\u1ea3o (ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef7). Sau n\u0103m \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec r\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 th\u1edd t\u1ed5 r\u1ed3i ch\u00f4n th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. Trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd t\u1ed5 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 cao nh\u1ea5t (thu\u1ef7 t\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c ti\u00ean t\u1ed5 b\u1eadc cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 th\u1edd chi \u0111\u00f3) g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \\\"V\u0129nh th\u1ebf th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7\\\". G\u1ed9p chung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ti\u00ean t\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ebf chung thay cho t\u1eebng l\u1ec5 gi\u1ed7, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n. Song trong phong t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n: Ch\u1ec9 con tr\u01b0\u1edfng, ch\u00e1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng, ch\u1eaft tr\u01b0\u1edfng v.v...n\u1ed1i d\u00f2ng qua nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1edd \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd ch\u00ednh. V\u00ec v\u1eady con , ch\u00e1u, ch\u1eaft nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng con th\u1ee9 qua nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i x\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 th\u1edd l\u1edbp con th\u1ee9, l\u1edbp ch\u00e1u th\u1ee9, l\u1edbp ch\u1eaft th\u1ee9 v.v...N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u00e3i, th\u00ec c\u00f3 n\u01a1i s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 th\u1edd c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 s\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 \u1edf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ea7n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u1ebd tr\u00ean, n\u00ean h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 20 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc CM Th\u00e1ng 8-1945 \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 phong tr\u00e0o ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ecd: D\u1ea7u c\u1eeda tr\u01b0\u1edfng hay c\u1eeda th\u1ee9, sau khi m\u1ea5t, h\u1ebft v\u00f2ng tang, \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u01b0\u1edbc linh v\u1ecb v\u00e0o th\u1edd \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1edd chung c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Linh v\u1ecb x\u1ebfp theo th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. \u0110\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y gi\u1ed7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0a linh v\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o h\u00e0ng gi\u1eefa theo th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc, c\u00fang xong l\u1ea1i x\u1ebfp v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u0169. Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh, con c\u00e1i \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e2n cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00e1u ch\u1eaft v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e0n t\u1ee5 \u1edf c\u00f5i \u00e2m, sau n\u1eefa thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n cho vi\u1ec7c chung s\u1ee9c, chung l\u00f2ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, mua s\u1eafm t\u1ebf kh\u00ed, quanh n\u0103m h\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3i, g\u1eafn b\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt trong n\u1ed9i th\u00e2n. Song c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, kinh t\u1ebf d\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e0o h\u01a1n, l\u1ea1i \u1edf c\u00e1ch xa nh\u00e0 th\u1edd \u0111i l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n, n\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u00fang ri\u00eang, ti\u1ec7n h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1. Do \u0111\u00f3, ng\u00e0y nay n\u00ean v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ee3p t\u1ef1, tr\u00ean nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 51 : Gia ph\u1ea3 l\u00e0 gia b\u1ea3o c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ? \u0110\u00fang v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u00f4n k\u00ednh t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean v\u00e0 qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng gia t\u1ed9c. Gia ph\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn. Thi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i cu\u1ed1n gia ph\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 trong t\u1eebng l\u1eddi t\u1ef1a. \u0110\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i \u0103n, c\u00e1i m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y n\u1ed7i day d\u1ee9t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n cho con ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eddi cha m\u00ecnh do ai sinh ra, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ebfn, t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c ra sao, ng\u1eb7t v\u00ec gia ph\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t; c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i ni\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00fa ng\u1ee5 \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng xa kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha \u00f4ng truy\u1ec1n cho bi\u1ebft g\u1ed1c g\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng l\u00e0 ai, khi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a hai ch\u1eef \\\"Gia ph\u1ea3-Gia b\u1ea3o\\\". Gi\u1ecdt n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean sa m\u1ea1c, c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ven s\u00f4ng, d\u1ec5 g\u00ec m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \\\"U\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc\\\" l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \\\"Nh\u1edb ngu\u1ed3n\\\". Th\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ecd n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gia ph\u1ea3, c\u00f3 h\u1ecd t\u1eebng nh\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 gia ph\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu v\u00ec thu\u1ef7, h\u1ecfa, \u0111\u1ea1o t\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t v\u00e0ng b\u1ea1c- c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1ea5t, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t gia ph\u1ea3. Ng\u1eb7t v\u00ec gia ph\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a vi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng ch\u1eef H\u00e1n, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa t\u1eebng chi t\u1eebng nh\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u1ed1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u1ef1c h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a chi m\u00ecnh, nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, th\u1ea3ng ho\u1eb7c m\u1edbi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n gia ph\u1ea3 ghi \u0111\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a chi anh, chi em, \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi hai \u0111\u1eddi ba l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng, do \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t chi m\u1ea5t gia ph\u1ea3 th\u00ec chi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 c\u1ee9u. Hi\u1ec7n nay, do m\u1ea5t gia ph\u1ea3 n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd tuy c\u00f9ng \u1edf v\u1edbi nhau trong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft nhau, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng. V\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a kh\u00e1c, gia ph\u1ea3 s\u1edf d\u0129 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 gia b\u1ea3o v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eddi truy\u1ec1n l\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi g\u1eafm l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1eddi sau. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u1ecd n\u00e0o, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong h\u1ecd, c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 gia ph\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 k\u1ebf th\u1eeba \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1eddi sau. Gia ph\u1ea3 c\u00e1c h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n b\u1ed5 sung t\u01b0 li\u1ec7u r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd, r\u1ea5t d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o cho qu\u1ed1c s\u1eed, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 s\u1eed h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft khai th\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eeb gia b\u1ea3o tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh qu\u1ed1c b\u1ea3o.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 52 : Gia ph\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c g\u00ec ? Gia ph\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gia ph\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi ch\u00e9p r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ch\u1eef ngh\u0129a ch\u00e2n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 ghi r\u00f5 t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi sao l\u1ee5c, bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y, n\u0103m n\u00e0o, tri\u1ec1u vua n\u00e0o, c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n n\u00e0o, t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee5c bi\u00ean qua c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fa r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. \u0110\u1ea7u gia ph\u1ea3 c\u00f3 l\u1eddi t\u1ef1a ghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c xu\u1ea5t x\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a th\u1ee7y t\u1ed5 c\u00f3 c\u1ee9 li\u1ec7u th\u00e0nh v\u0103n hay truy\u1ec1n ng\u00f4n. M\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 thu\u1ef7 t\u1ed5, l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u00ean t\u1ed5 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eddi, n\u1ed1i d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbp con ch\u00e1u m\u1edbi sinh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c sau \u0111\u00e2y: \u2022 T\u00ean: G\u1ed3m t\u00ean hu\u00fd, t\u00ean t\u1ef1, bi\u1ec7t hi\u1ec7u, th\u1ee5y hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng theo t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng? Thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y ? \u2022 Con trai th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng n\u00e0o? B\u00e0 n\u00e0o ? \u2022 Ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng n\u0103m sinh (c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n ghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 gi\u1edd sinh). \u2022 Ng\u00e0y, th\u00e1ng, n\u0103m m\u1ea5t ? Th\u1ecd bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i ? \u2022 M\u1ed9 t\u00e1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2u? (c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 nguy\u00ean t\u00e1ng, c\u1ea3i t\u00e1ng, di t\u00e1ng t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2u ? V\u00e0o th\u00e1ng, n\u0103m n\u00e0o ?). \u2022 H\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, thi c\u1eed, \u0111\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea1t, ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb l\u00fac sinh th\u1eddi v\u00e0 truy phong sau khi m\u1ea5t: Thi \u0111\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u1ecb g\u00ec? Khoa n\u00e0o? Tri\u1ec1u vua n\u00e0o? Nh\u1eadn ch\u1ee9c v\u1ecb g\u00ec? n\u0103m n\u00e0o? \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c ban khen v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ed9c g\u00ec ? Sau khi m\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy phong ch\u1ee9c g\u00ec ? T\u01b0\u1edbc g\u00ec ? (\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb hi\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00ec m\u1ee5c n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 trong Nghi Ti\u00ean Nguy\u1ec5n gia th\u1ebf ph\u1ea3, ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang Xu\u00e2n qu\u1eadn c\u00f4ng Nguy\u1ec5n Nghi\u1ec5m, m\u1ee5c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi trang) \u2022 V\u1ee3: Ch\u00e1nh th\u1ea5t, k\u1ebf th\u1ea5t, th\u1ee9 th\u1ea5t...","\u2022 H\u1ecd t\u00ean, con g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng n\u00e0o, b\u00e0 n\u00e0o ? Qu\u00ea \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u ? C\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ng\u00e0y, th\u00e1ng, n\u0103m sinh, ng\u00e0y, th\u00e1ng, n\u0103m m\u1ea5t, tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd, m\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ec1u ghi t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean. \u2022 N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 thi \u0111\u1eadu ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban th\u01b0\u1edfng ri\u00eang th\u00ec ghi th\u00eam. \u2022 Con: Ghi theo th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 n\u0103m sinh, n\u1ebfu nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ee3 th\u00ec ghi r\u00f5 con b\u00e0 n\u00e0o ? Con g\u00e1i th\u00ec c\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fa k\u1ef9: Con g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y, \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec ghi t\u00ean h\u1ecd ch\u1ed3ng, n\u0103m sinh, con \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u00e0o, qu\u00ea qu\u00e1n, \u0111\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea1t, ch\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1edbc ? Sinh con m\u1ea5y trai m\u1ea5y g\u00e1i, t\u00ean g\u00ec ? (Con g\u00e1i c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fa c\u00f2n con trai kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ri\u00eang t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi sau). \u2022 Nh\u1eefng g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng, nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, h\u00e0nh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi l\u00e0ng x\u00e3, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, x\u00f3m gi\u1ec1ng... Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ghi tr\u00ean, gia ph\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ecd c\u00f2n l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 t\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb ti\u00ean t\u1ed5, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1i, nh\u1eefng \u00e1ng v\u0103n hay, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i thu\u1ed1c gia truy\u1ec1n...\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5t truy\u1ec1n, ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft khai th\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung ghi tr\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t g\u1ee3i \u00fd v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc huynh tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1c h\u1ecd, \u0111ang ch\u0103m lo c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 t\u1ee5c bi\u00ean gia ph\u1ea3 d\u00e0nh cho con ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1eddi sau. C\u00f2n ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ean gia ph\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh hay s\u01a1 s\u00e0i, c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 c\u00f2n gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i cho ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau, ai d\u00e1m s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c th\u00eam ? Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ed1c s\u1eed, ho\u1eb7c trong gia ph\u1ea3, th\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 li\u1ec7u li\u00ean quan th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fa k\u1ef9, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1eddi sau th\u00eam s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 53 : Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5 l\u00e0 gia l\u1ec5 n\u01b0\u1edbc ta hay gia l\u1ec5 Trung Qu\u1ed1c ? \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\" l\u00e0 gia l\u1ec5 n\u01b0\u1edbc ta, c\u00f3 d\u1ef1a theo Chu C\u00f4ng gia l\u1ec5 t\u1ee9c gia l\u1ec5 th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u1ee7a Trung Qu\u1ed1c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng r\u1eadp khu\u00f4n theo T\u1ea7u. M\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u gia l\u1ec5 t\u1eeb tri\u1ec1u L\u00ea \u0111\u1ebfn nay c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh lu\u1eadt t\u1ee5c, \u0103n s\u00e2u, b\u00e9n r\u1ec5 trong nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n, n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn nay trong Nam ngo\u00e0i B\u1eafc v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tang l\u1ec5. T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\" l\u00e0 H\u1ed3 S\u1ef9 T\u00e2n (1690-1760) hi\u1ec7u Th\u1ecd Mai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0ng Ho\u00e0n H\u1eadu, huy\u1ec7n Qu\u1ef3nh L\u01b0u, \u0111\u1eadu Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 n\u0103m 1721 (n\u0103m th\u1ee9 2 tri\u1ec1u B\u1ea3o Th\u00e1i), l\u00e0m quan \u0111\u1ebfn H\u00e0n l\u00e2m Th\u1ecb ch\u1ebf. Trong \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\" c\u00f3 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a H\u1ed3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0 gia l\u1ec5. H\u1ed3 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0 t\u1ee9c H\u1ed3 S\u1ef9 D\u01b0\u01a1ng (1621-1681) c\u0169ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0ng Ho\u00e0n H\u1eadu, \u0111\u1eadu ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 n\u0103m 1652 t\u1ee9c n\u0103m th\u1ee9 4 tri\u1ec1u Kh\u00e1nh \u0110\u1ee9c, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0 b\u1ed9 H\u00ecnh, t\u01b0\u1edbc Du\u1ec7 Qu\u1eadn c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u 54 : \u00ab Ba cha t\u00e1m m\u1eb9 \u00bb l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai ? Theo \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\": Ba cha l\u00e0: 1. Th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5: Cha sinh ra m\u00ecnh. 2. K\u1ebf ph\u1ee5: Sau khi cha ch\u1ebft, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebf ph\u1ee5 hay, b\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1ee3ng. 3. D\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ee5: B\u1ed1 nu\u00f4i. T\u00e1m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0: 1. \u0110\u00edch m\u1eabu: V\u1ee3 c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. 2. K\u1ebf m\u1eabu: Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, cha l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng m\u00ecnh. 3. T\u1eeb m\u1eabu: M\u1eb9 ch\u1ebft t\u1eeb t\u1ea5m b\u00e9, cha sai ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u1ebd nu\u00f4i m\u00ecnh b\u00fa m\u1edbm.","4. D\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1eabu: M\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i, cha m\u1eb9 ngh\u00e8o cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nu\u00f4i. 5. Xu\u1ea5t m\u1eabu: L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sinh ra m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb cha ru\u1ed3ng r\u1eaby. 6. Gi\u00e1 m\u1eabu: l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sinh ra m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng khi cha m\u1ea5t th\u00ec \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c. 7. Th\u1ee9 m\u1eabu: L\u00e0 m\u1eb9 sinh ra m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 l\u1ebd c\u1ee7a cha. 8. Nh\u0169 m\u1eabu: M\u1eb9 v\u00fa, cho m\u00ecnh b\u00fa m\u1edbm t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n t\u1ea5m b\u00e9. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a theo \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\", ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. V\u1eady th\u00ec, c\u00f2n ba lo\u1ea1i nh\u1ea1c ph\u1ee5 v\u00e0 t\u00e1m lo\u1ea1i nh\u1ea1c m\u1eabu. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ph\u1ea3i 6 cha,16 m\u1eb9.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 55 : Ch\u00fac th\u01b0 l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? \\\"Ch\u00fac\\\" l\u00e0 l\u1eddi d\u1eb7n d\u00f2, ph\u00f3 th\u00e1c. \\\"Ch\u00fac th\u01b0\\\" hay \\\"Di ch\u00fac\\\" l\u00e0 l\u1eddi d\u1eb7n d\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fac th\u01b0, di ch\u00fac vi\u1ebft th\u00e0nh v\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh, ph\u00e1p l\u00fd. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eef, ho\u1eb7c y\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa th\u00ec nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i cho nghe r\u1ed3i k\u00fd t\u00ean ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o d\u01b0\u1edbi. Di ch\u00fac c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua th\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 di chi\u1ebfu. N\u1ed9i dung ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fac th\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c chia gia t\u00e0i. Nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ru\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea5t, nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda, chia cho con trai con g\u00e1i, ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng kho\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, m\u1ea5y m\u1eabu, m\u1ea5y s\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i bao nhi\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o, giao ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o ch\u0103m nom. N\u1ebfu c\u00f2n bao nhi\u00eau n\u1ee3 l\u00e0ng, n\u1ee3 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng giao ph\u00f3 cho con n\u00e0o ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f2i, ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3. Quy \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau l\u00e0m ru\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecfa, giao cho con tr\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n. Di chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 vua giao cho ai l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ec7nh ph\u00f2 th\u00e1i t\u1eed l\u00ean ng\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4i th\u00e1i t\u1eed ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00ec chuy\u1ec1n ch\u1ec9 cho ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed n\u00e0o n\u1ed1i ng\u00f4i... Th\u1eddi nay, nam n\u1eef b\u00ecnh quy\u1ec1n, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 n\u1eafm to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh. Th\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 sau 3 n\u0103m tang ch\u1ed3ng n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n t\u00e1i gi\u00e1 th\u00ec \u0111i tay kh\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu \u1edf l\u1ea1i nu\u00f4i con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eafm to\u00e0n quy\u1ec1n, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u00fa, \u00f4ng b\u00e1c trong h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu c\u00f2n c\u00f3 n\u1ee3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 h\u1ebft. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u00f4 ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ee9c: Cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng anh em \u0111\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea9y nhau, ch\u01b0a lo vi\u1ec7c ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t, ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa tranh gi\u00e0nh t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 x\u1ec9 v\u1ea3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi c\u00f2n kho\u1ebb, c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i lo xa: Chia gia t\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m s\u1eb5n, mua s\u1eafm b\u1ed9 h\u1eadu s\u1ef1 (\u00e1o quan) c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n d\u1eb7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t, tang ch\u1ebf, c\u1ed7 b\u00e0n, \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1m.. Tr\u00edch di ch\u00fac c\u1ee7a Ch\u1ee7 T\u1ecbch H\u1ed3 Ch\u00ed Minh: \\\"...Su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 T\u1ed5 qu\u1ed1c, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng, ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n. Nay d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb bi\u1ec7t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn, ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Sau khi t\u00f4i qua \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u1edb n\u00ean t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ebfu ph\u00fang linh \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfi l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gi\u1edd v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n...\\\" Ng\u00e0y 10-5-1969 Di ch\u00fac c\u1ee7a Tam nguy\u00ean Y\u00ean \u0110\u1ed5: \\\"K\u00e9m hai tu\u1ed5i xu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea7y ch\u00edn ch\u1ee5c","S\u1ed1 th\u1ea7y sinh ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f9ng \u0110\u1ee9c th\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ecfng m\u00f2ng mong Tu\u1ed5i th\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ea7y H\u1ecdc ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng hay chi c\u1ea3 C\u01b0\u1ee1i \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 ba phen Tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a gia ti\u00ean Cho n\u00ean th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u00ean l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y. \u1ea5y th\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng m\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ed7 Ho\u00e1 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd cho b\u1ed1 l\u00e0m n\u00ean \u01a0n vua ch\u1eeda ch\u00fat b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec1n C\u00fai tr\u00f4ng h\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea5t, ng\u1eedng l\u00ean th\u1eb9n tr\u1eddi S\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1eddi ca th\u00e1n","Ch\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea qu\u00e1n h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00f4n M\u1edbi hay tr\u0103m s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u00f4ng tr\u00f2n S\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i ch\u1ebft ch\u00f4n ch\u1edd g\u00ec? \u0110\u1ed3 kh\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m ch\u1edb n\u1ec1 x\u1ea5u t\u1ed1t K\u00edn ch\u00e2n tay \u0111\u1ea7u g\u00f3t th\u1eddi th\u00f4i C\u1ed7 \u0111\u1eebng to l\u1eafm con \u01a1i H\u1ec5 ai ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea1i con m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n T\u1ebf \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft v\u0103n m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc Tr\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng g\u1ea5m v\u00f3c l\u00e0m chi Minh tinh con c\u0169ng b\u1ecf \u0111i M\u1eddi quan \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 con th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean","M\u00f4n sinh ch\u1edb b\u1ecf ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea5y B\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y c\u0169ng v\u1eady m\u00e0 th\u00f4i Kh\u00e1ch quen ch\u1edb vi\u1ebft thi\u1ebfp m\u1eddi Ai \u0111\u01b0a l\u1ec5 ph\u00fang con th\u1eddi ch\u1edb thu Ch\u1eb3ng qua n\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng Ch\u1ebft \u0111i r\u1ed3i c\u00f2n ng\u00f3ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u L\u1ea1i mang c\u00e1i ti\u1ebfng to \u0111\u1ea7u Khi nay b\u00e0y bi\u1ec7n, khi sau ch\u00ea b\u00e0n C\u1edd bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a vua ban ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc Khi \u0111\u01b0a th\u00e0y con r\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean L\u1ea1i thu\u00ea m\u1ed9t l\u0169 ph\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00e8n V\u1eeba \u0111i v\u1eeba th\u1ed5i m\u1ed7i b\u00ean d\u0103m th\u1eb1ng","Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ng nhung nh\u0103ng qua qu\u00fdt C\u00fang cho th\u1ea7y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat r\u01b0\u1ee3u hoa \u0110\u1ec1 v\u00e0o m\u1ea5y ch\u1eef trong bia, R\u1eb1ng: \\\"Quan nh\u00e0 Nguy\u1ec5n c\u00e1o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u\\\"","\u0110i\u1ec1u 56 : \u00ab C\u01b0 tang \u00bb l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, d\u1eabu l\u00e0m quan \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9c g\u00ec, theo ph\u00e9p n\u01b0\u1edbc, h\u1ec5 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 c\u01b0 tang 3 n\u0103m tr\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111ang b\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e2n n\u01a1i bi\u00ean \u1ea3i hay \u0111i s\u1ee9 n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. L\u1ec7 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi binh l\u00ednh v\u00e0 nha l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu ai v\u00ec tham quy\u1ec1n c\u1ed1 v\u1ecb, gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm kh\u00f4ng t\u00e2u b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u01b0 tang, b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0n h\u1eb7c v\u00ec t\u1ed9i b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu, s\u1ebd b\u1ecb tri\u1ec1u \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1eed ph\u1ea1t bi\u1ebfm tru\u1ea5t. Trong th\u1eddi gian c\u01b0 tang, l\u1ec7nh vua kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eeda. Ba n\u0103m c\u01b0 tang l\u00e0 ba n\u0103m ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng gian kh\u1ed5, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1 m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c vui, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi, l\u1ec5 m\u1eebng, kh\u00f4ng u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u (ngo\u00e0i ch\u00e9n r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u00fang cha m\u1eb9), kh\u00f4ng nghe nh\u1ea1c vui, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c n\u00e0ng h\u1ea7u, tr\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 con trai \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed1i d\u00f5i t\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ngo\u00e0i ra ai sinh con trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb7c g\u1ea5m v\u00f3c, nhung l\u1ee5a, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed9i m\u0169 \u0111i hia, th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ch\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f9ng l\u1eafm ch\u1ec9 \u0111i gu\u1ed1c m\u1ed9c ho\u1eb7c gi\u00e0y c\u1ecf. D\u1ea7u l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbng trong tri\u1ec1u, khi kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 sang hay h\u00e8n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i cung k\u00ednh ch\u00e0o m\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u1ea1y t\u1ea1 (hai l\u1ea1y hay ba v\u00e1i d\u00e0i). Khi ra \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng sinh s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1eaft c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. \u1edf trong nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi k\u1ec3 \u0103n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to ti\u1ebfng. Ba n\u0103m s\u1ea7u mu\u1ed9n, t\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi k\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi, cung k\u00ednh v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh k\u00ednh v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9. Th\u1eddi nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ec7 c\u01b0 tang, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 ch\u1ee7 ch\u1ed1t c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft qua l\u1ec7 c\u01b0 tang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng cha ta ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, h\u1eadu sinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ?","\u0110i\u1ec1u 57 : V\u00ec sao c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9i m\u0169 gai, \u0111ai chu\u1ed1i v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady ? T\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed9i m\u0169 r\u01a1m qu\u1ea5n th\u1eadt to quanh \u0111\u1ea7u, th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng d\u00e2y gai, d\u00e2y chu\u1ed1i ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi, nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e3i b\u1ecf, c\u00f2n t\u1ee5c ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady ch\u1ec9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con trai tang cha (g\u1eady tre) tang m\u1eb9 (g\u1eady v\u00f4ng),v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nguy\u00ean do: \u0110\u1eddi x\u01b0a, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n h\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i leo n\u00fai cao, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t d\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t \u1edf n\u01a1i xa khu d\u00e2n c\u01b0, trong r\u1eebng n\u00fai, c\u00f3 n\u01a1i ch\u00f4n \u1edf tri\u1ec1n n\u00fai \u0111\u00e1 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u hang \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi con v\u00ec qu\u00e1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn sinh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o v\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1, khi leo n\u00fai \u0111i v\u1ec1 v\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m qu\u00e1 m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u00e3 l\u0103n xu\u1ed1ng v\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ng t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u00f9ng tang th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5n quanh \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt li\u1ec7u m\u1ec1m, x\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ebfu va v\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ee1 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t ra l\u1ec7 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n. V\u1eadt li\u1ec7u d\u1ec5 ki\u1ebfm nh\u1ea5t, gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 li\u1ec7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec7m, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u01a1m, l\u00e1 chu\u1ed1i, d\u00e2y gai, d\u00e2y \u0111ay. Xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh phong t\u1ee5c ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. V\u00ec ng\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i lao \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ed3ng ru\u1ed9ng, n\u00fai r\u1eebng ho\u1eb7c \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o g\u1ecdn b\u00f3 v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f3 tang t\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i m\u1eb7c \u00e1o d\u00e0i r\u1ed9ng, d\u1ec5 v\u01b0\u1edbng gai g\u00f3c n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 d\u00e2y \u0111ai, t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t x\u1ee9 t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1nh n\u1ea1n tr\u00f9ng tang.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 58 : \u00ab N\u0103m h\u1ea1ng tang ph\u1ee5c \u00bb l\u00e0 g\u00ec ? Theo \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\", c\u00f3 n\u0103m h\u1ea1ng tang ph\u1ee5c tu\u1ef3 theo quan h\u1ec7 huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t th\u00e2n s\u01a1: 1.\u0110\u1ea1i tang: Tr\u1ea3m th\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u1ec1 th\u00f4i. \u2022 Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o s\u1ed5 g\u1ea5u g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3m th\u00f4i: Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha. \u2022 Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed5 g\u1ea5u g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u1ec1 th\u00f4i: Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang m\u1eb9, v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u1ed3ng khi cha ch\u01b0a m\u1ea5t. \u2022 Th\u1eddi h\u1ea1n: 3 n\u0103m, \u0111\u1eddi sau gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt c\u00f2n 2 n\u0103m 3 th\u00e1ng (sau l\u1ec5 gi\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u1eddng 2 n\u0103m, th\u00eam 3 th\u00e1ng d\u01b0 ai). \u2022 \u00e1o x\u00f4, kh\u0103n x\u00f4 c\u00f3 hai gi\u1ea3i sau l\u01b0ng (g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 kh\u0103n ngang). N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t th\u00ec hai gi\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng nhau, n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f2n cha th\u00ec hai gi\u1ea3i d\u00e0i ng\u1eafn l\u1ec7ch nhau. \u2022 Con trai ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady: Tang cha g\u1eady tre, tang m\u1eb9 g\u1eady v\u00f4ng, m\u0169 r\u01a1m qu\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea7u, d\u00e2y chu\u1ed1i, d\u00e2y \u0111ai th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng. Th\u1eddi nay, nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e3i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng tang ph\u1ee5c n\u00e0y. \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 d\u00f9ng b\u0103ng \u0111en theo tang ch\u1ebf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, theo \u00fd ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, ti\u1ec7n h\u01a1n. \u2022 Con trai, con g\u00e1i, con d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9. (K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00edch m\u1eabu, k\u1ebf m\u1eabu, d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1eabu, t\u1eeb m\u1eabu v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ee5). \u2022 V\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u1ed3ng.","\u2022 N\u1ebfu con tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea1i tang thay cha. 2. C\u01a1 ni\u00ean: \u0110\u1ec3 tang m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. T\u1eeb ni\u00ean c\u01a1 tr\u1edf xu\u1ed1ng d\u00f9ng kh\u0103n tr\u00f2n, v\u1ea3i tr\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng g\u1eady. \u2022 Ch\u00e1u n\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i. \u2022 Con ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng nu\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u1edf c\u00f9ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u1edf c\u00f9ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tang; tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 \u1edf c\u00f9ng sau th\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tang 3 th\u00e1ng. \u2022 Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb ra m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 r\u1eaby (xu\u1ea5t m\u1eabu), ho\u1eb7c cha ch\u1ebft, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00e1c (gi\u00e1 m\u1eabu). \u2022 Ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang v\u1ee3 c\u1ea3 c\u00f3 g\u1eady, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng g\u1eady. \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00e1c trai b\u00e1c g\u00e1i, ch\u00fa, th\u00edm v\u00e0 c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t. \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho nhau (c\u00f9ng cha kh\u00e1c m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng tang m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c cha th\u00ec tang 5 th\u00e1ng). \u2022 Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con trai, con g\u00e1i v\u00e0 con d\u00e2u c\u1ea3, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 con \u0111i l\u00e0m con nu\u00f4i nh\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u2022 Ch\u00fa, b\u00e1c, th\u00edm c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho ch\u00e1u ( con anh em ru\u1ed9t). \u2022 \u00d4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho ch\u00e1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng (\u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n). \u2022 \u0110\u00edch m\u1eabu, k\u1ebf m\u1eabu, t\u1eeb m\u1eabu tang c\u00e1c con ch\u1ed3ng, th\u1ee9 m\u1eabu tang con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con ch\u1ed3ng","nh\u01b0 nhau \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. Tang con d\u00e2u c\u1ea3 c\u0169ng m\u1ed9t n\u0103m. \u2022 Con d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang d\u00ec gh\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng (t\u1ee9c v\u1ee3 l\u1ebd cha ch\u1ed3ng). \u2022 R\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 (v\u1ee3 ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e1y v\u1ee3 kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1eady). \u2022 N\u00e0ng h\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3 c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c con ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con m\u00ecnh (c\u00e1c h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng b\u00e0ng th\u00e2n b\u00ean nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tang). 3. \u0110\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng: \u0111\u1ec3 tang 9 th\u00e1ng. \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em con ch\u00fa con b\u00e1c ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho nhau. \u2022 Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con d\u00e2u th\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 Ch\u00fa, b\u00e1c th\u00edm ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u00e1u (con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1, con d\u00e2u c\u1ee7a anh em ru\u1ed9t). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, ch\u00fa, b\u00e1c, th\u00edm ru\u1ed9t, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con d\u00e2u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 Con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00e1c trai, b\u00e1c g\u00e1i, ch\u00fa th\u00edm, c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t. 4. Ti\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng: \u0110\u1ec3 tang 5 th\u00e1ng. \u2022 Ch\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u1ee5. (Ho\u00e0ng tang: Ch\u00edt kh\u0103n v\u00e0ng)","\u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i (\u00f4ng b\u00e0 b\u00e1c, \u00f4ng ch\u00fa, b\u00e0 th\u00edm, b\u00e0 c\u00f4). \u2022 Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang v\u1ee3 l\u1ebd, n\u00e0ng h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cha ( n\u1ebfu cha giao cho nu\u00f4i m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tang 3 n\u0103m nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1 th\u00fac ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4 (anh ch\u1ecb em con ch\u00fa b\u00e1c ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a cha). \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em con ch\u00fa, b\u00e1c ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a nhau. \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em chung m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c cha \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho nhau (v\u1ee3 con c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb em \u1ea5y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tang). \u2022 Ch\u00fa b\u00e1c ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u (con d\u00e2u c\u1ee7a anh em ru\u1ed9t). \u2022 \u00d4ng b\u00e0 b\u00e1c, \u00f4ng ch\u00fa, b\u00e0 th\u00edm, b\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho ch\u00e1u (t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u00e1u n\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a anh em ru\u1ed9t). \u2022 \u00d4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho v\u1ee3 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1. \u2022 Ch\u00e1u ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1eadu ru\u1ed9t, d\u00ec ru\u1ed9t (anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00edch m\u1eabu, th\u1ee9 m\u1eabu, k\u1ebf m\u1eabu). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 Ch\u1ecb d\u00e2u, em d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 (t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u00e1u g\u1ecdi b\u1eb1ng b\u00e1c, b\u1eb1ng th\u00edm).","5. Ty ma Ph\u1ee5c: Tang 3 th\u00e1ng. \u2022 Ch\u00edt \u0111\u1ec3 tang can (k\u1ef5) n\u1ed9i (ng\u0169 \u0111\u1ea1i : H\u1ed3ng tang ch\u00edt kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ecf). \u2022 Ch\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u1ee5 nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c, nh\u00e0 ch\u00fa (t\u1eb1ng t\u1ed5 b\u00e1 th\u00fac ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu v\u00e0 t\u1eb1ng t\u1ed5 c\u00f4, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 anh em ru\u1ed9t v\u1edbi c\u1ee5 n\u1ed9i). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng (ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t v\u1edbi \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u00f4 b\u00e1 (ch\u1ecb em con ch\u00fa b\u00e1c ru\u1ed9t v\u1edbi b\u1ed1). \u2022 Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1ee3ng (n\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 \u1edf c\u00f9ng, sau m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 b\u00ean n\u1ed9i). \u2022 Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang n\u00e0ng h\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cha. \u2022 Con \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00e0 v\u00fa (cho b\u00fa m\u1edbm). \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang t\u1ed9c b\u00e1 th\u00fac ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu (anh em ch\u00e1u ch\u00fa, ch\u00e1u b\u00e1c v\u1edbi cha). \u2022 Ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang v\u1ee3 l\u1ebd n\u00e0ng h\u1ea7u. \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em h\u1ecd n\u1ed9i 5 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho nhau. \u2022 B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con r\u1ec3.","\u2022 \u00d4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u00e1u ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u ngo\u1ea1i. \u2022 \u00d4ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u. \u2022 C\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho ch\u1eaft n\u1ed9i. \u2022 Ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec3 tang v\u1ee3 c\u1eadu, ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4, ch\u1ed3ng d\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0. \u2022 Anh ch\u1ecb em con c\u00f4 ru\u1ed9t v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n con d\u00ec ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang cho nhau. \u2022 C\u1eadu ru\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 tang v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u trai \u2022 Ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng, c\u1eadu ru\u1ed9t, d\u00ec ru\u1ed9t ch\u1ed3ng \u2022 Ch\u00e1u d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t v\u1edbi \u00f4ng n\u1ed9i ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 Ch\u1eaft d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u1ee5 n\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng. \u2022 C\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 tang ch\u1eaft n\u1ed9i trai g\u00e1i. \u2022 \u00d4ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tang c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con nh\u00e0 ch\u00fa, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c. Tang b\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i: 1. K\u1ef5 b\u00ean cha nu\u00f4i th\u00ec 3 th\u00e1ng, c\u1ee5 b\u00ean cha nu\u00f4i th\u00ec 5 th\u00e1ng, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t n\u0103m.","2. Cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i th\u00ec \u00e1o b\u1eb1ng g\u1ea5u, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed5 g\u1ea5u 3 n\u0103m c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 g\u1eady. 3. T\u1eeb \u00f4ng b\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u00ean n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh th\u1eeba tr\u1ecdng c\u0169ng s\u1ed5 g\u1ea5u 3 n\u0103m. 4. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 sinh ra m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i th\u00ec 5 th\u00e1ng, c\u00f2n th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. Tang h\u1ecd nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh (\u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 con nu\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh): 1. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 sinh ra cha th\u00ec 9 th\u00e1ng. 2. Cha m\u1eb9 sinh ra m\u00ecnh th\u00ec 1 n\u0103m c\u00f3 g\u1eady. 3. B\u00e1c trai b\u00e1c g\u00e1i, ch\u00fa, th\u00edm v\u00e0 c\u00f4 l\u00e0 anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t v\u1edbi cha th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u 9 th\u00e1ng. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e1 th\u00ec 5 th\u00e1ng. 4. Anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t th\u00ec 9 th\u00e1ng, ch\u1ecb d\u00e2u, em d\u00e2u th\u00ec 3 th\u00e1ng, ch\u1ecb em \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 th\u00ec 5 th\u00e1ng. 5. \u00d4ng b\u00e0 sinh ra m\u1eb9 th\u00ec 3 th\u00e1ng. X\u00e9t trong l\u1ec5 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: Con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 th\u00ec c\u00e1c tang c\u00f3 gi\u00e1ng, song \u0111i l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eaby b\u1ecf, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ebft, con l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3, l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, tang ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1ng N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u0103m m\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eaby b\u1ecf th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tang cha m\u1eb9 3 n\u0103m, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 1 n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1eeb ph\u1ee5c \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i 3 n\u0103m, d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed3ng d\u1eaby tr\u01b0\u1edbc, sau m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 tang cha m\u1eb9 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 1 n\u0103m m\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1 th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng n\u00ean v\u1ec1 v\u1ed9i ph\u1ea3i n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdn 3 n\u0103m. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ee5c: c\u00f3 ba lo\u1ea1i:","1. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u01b0\u1eddng: T\u1eeb 16-19 tu\u1ed5i 2. Trung tr\u01b0\u1eddng: T\u1eeb 12-15 tu\u1ed5i 3. H\u1ea1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng: T\u1eeb 8-11 tu\u1ed5i (\u0110\u1ec1u l\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc). V\u00ed d\u1ee5: Giai \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y v\u1ee3, g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, d\u1eabu c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tang 1 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng 9 th\u00e1ng, trung tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng 7 th\u00e1ng, h\u1ea1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng 5 th\u00e1ng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1ed1n tang 9 th\u00e1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng 7 th\u00e1ng, trung tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng 5 th\u00e1ng, h\u1ea1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1ng 3 th\u00e1ng, c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 suy.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 59 : Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con kh\u00f4ng ? Tang ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a, c\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t th\u00e2n s\u01a1 \\\"H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng 3 th\u00e1ng, l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng 3 ng\u00e0y\\\", th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t gi\u1eefa k\u1ebb m\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng th\u00e2n th\u00edch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fang vi\u1ebfng c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111eo b\u0103ng tang. Theo \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\" th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 tang con m\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u1ee5 k\u1ef5 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang h\u00e0ng ch\u00e1u, h\u00e0ng ch\u1eaft. \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\" quy \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng B\u1eafc b\u1ed9 quan ni\u1ec7m \\\"Ph\u1ee5 b\u1ea5t b\u00e1i t\u1eed\\\" (cha kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1y con), Con ch\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh, l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu, con ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp b\u00e1o hi\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ed1n n\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eddi, ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang con m\u00e0 khi kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m con c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eed thi m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng kh\u0103n tr\u1eafng. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u00e0 t\u1ee9 th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5 m\u1eabu c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ebfn hai v\u00f2ng, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00f5i \u00e2m c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 tang b\u00e1o hi\u1ebfu s\u1eb5n cho cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang \u1edf tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ea7n.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 60 : T\u1ea1i sao cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a tang con ? T\u1eed bi\u1ec7t sinh ly, ai kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00f3t, nh\u01b0ng theo quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n, con b\u00e1o hi\u1ebfu cha, m\u1eb9, \u0111\u01b0a tang b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh. Con ch\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ebft non, g\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Gi\u1edd ph\u00fat h\u1ea1 huy\u1ec7t l\u00e0 gi\u1edd ph\u00fat x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ng\u1ea5t l\u1ecbm \u0111i. \u0110\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1eb9 ch\u1ebft lu\u00f4n b\u00ean huy\u1ec7t ch\u00f4n con. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n v\u00e0 thu\u1ed1c thang c\u1ea5p c\u1ee9u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, kh\u00f4ng cho cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a tang con \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01a1i b\u1edbt n\u1ed7i \u0111au bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u1ea1n tr\u00f9ng tang l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 b\u00e0 c\u1ea3 trong n\u1ed9i th\u00e2n, s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e0n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a tang, s\u1ee3 v\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 61 : \u0110\u00e1m tang trong ng\u00e0y t\u1ebft, li\u1ec7u t\u00ednh ra sao ? Ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft Nguy\u00ean \u0110\u00e1n l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y vui c\u1ee7a to\u00e0n d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, ng\u00e0y m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u cho v\u1eadn h\u1ed9i hanh th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t thi\u00eang li\u00eang. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1m g\u00e1c m\u1ed1i s\u1ea7u ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0 chung v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m vui to\u00e0n d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. V\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 c\u1ea5t kh\u0103n tang trong ba ng\u00e0y T\u1ebft. Nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1i tang ki\u00eang kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ch\u00fac t\u1ebft, m\u1eebng tu\u1ed5i b\u00e0 con, x\u00f3m gi\u1ec1ng, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u00e0 con x\u00f3m gi\u1ec1ng l\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fac T\u1ebft v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 30 ho\u1eb7c m\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t T\u1ebft th\u00ec sao? Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y hi\u1ebfm nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ng\u00e0y 30 th\u00e1ng ch\u1ea1p m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec n\u00ean ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t cho k\u1ecbp trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 sang n\u0103m m\u1edbi th\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ti\u1ec7n. \u0110a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh ki\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 sang ng\u00e0y m\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u n\u0103m. tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang ng\u00e0y m\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t T\u1ebft th\u00ec ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tang v\u1ed9i nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng m\u00f9ng hai l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 ph\u00e1t tang.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 62 : L\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i l\u1ec5 tang, t\u00ednh sao \u0111\u00e2y ? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \\\"\u01afu h\u1ef7 tr\u00f9ng ph\u00f9ng\\\". Vui v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. \\\"Sinh h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n, t\u1eed v\u00f4 k\u1ef3\\\", cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng ai bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ebft v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0o. Theo l\u1ec5 nghi th\u00ec khi trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f2n tang, tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f2n c\u00f3 v\u00e0nh kh\u0103n tr\u1eafng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i tang th\u00ec tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c vui. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n, n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 c\u00e2u n\u1ec7 th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 gay go cho c\u1ea3 hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh duy\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a d\u1edf dang, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 b\u00e0 c\u1ea3, c\u00f3 khi \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y, t\u00e1m n\u0103m sau ch\u01b0a h\u1ebft tang. V\u00ec v\u1eady t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 x\u01b0a c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3n \\\"tr\u1eeb hao\\\" : \\\"C\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00f4n tang, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u1ea1y tang\\\". Khi \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft n\u1eb1m t\u1ea1m tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eafp ch\u0103n chi\u1ebfu l\u1ea1i, ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadp quan, ho\u1eb7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m, nh\u1eadp quan nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c. Theo nghi l\u1ec5, n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c th\u00ec trong nh\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3c. H\u00e0ng x\u00f3m tuy c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tang th\u00ec ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng, tr\u1eeb th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e2n c\u1eadn t\u1ed1i l\u1eeda t\u1eaft \u0111\u00e8n c\u00f3 nhau, coi nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0a d\u00e2u, \u0111\u00f3n d\u00e2u, y\u1ebft c\u00e1o gia ti\u00ean, l\u1ec5 t\u01a1 h\u1ed3ng... nh\u01b0ng l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n s\u01a1, th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3n l\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong ph\u1ea1m vi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n. Kh\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eddi c\u0169ng mi\u1ec5n, s\u1ebd th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m sau. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u1edbi, g\u1ea3 xong xu\u00f4i m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tang. C\u00f4 d\u00e2u ch\u00fa r\u1ec3 m\u1edbi, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u1ecbu tang ch\u1ebf nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi con ch\u00e1u kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu hai gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho nhau, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0a c\u01b0\u1edbi d\u00e2u, chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i ph\u00e1t tang c\u0169ng xong. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m l\u00e2n c\u1eadn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1m tang th\u00ec sao ? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3nh bu\u1ed3n th\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho ph\u00e9p con ch\u00e1u n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a \u1ea7m \u1ef9 ho\u1eb7c m\u1edf b\u0103ng nh\u1ea1c inh \u1ecfi khi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c bu\u1ed3n. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean, v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 c\u01b0\u1edbi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1t ph\u00e1o, m\u1edf b\u0103ng nh\u1ea1c v\u00e0 ca h\u00e1t \u1ea7m \u0129, tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng k\u1ebb kh\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 qu\u1ed1c tang c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 63 : Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1m tang n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? D\u00f9 th\u00e2n hay s\u01a1, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1m tang ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh k\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 khu\u1ea5t, t\u00ecnh \u01b0u \u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tang quy\u1ebfn. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch n\u1ebfu b\u00f4 b\u00f4 c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f9a gi\u1ee1n trong l\u00fac tang ch\u1ee7 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n. \u1ede n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n, nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i c\u00f2n t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 c\u1ed7 b\u00e0n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng linh \u0111\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00e1m tang, th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p t\u00ecnh, h\u1ee3p c\u1ea3nh ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e0nh r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf trong s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n \u1edf xa v\u1ec1. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u00e0 con, l\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, kh\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n th\u00ec tang l\u1ec5 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ecbp \u0111\u1ec3 \\\"Tr\u1ea3 n\u1ee3 mi\u1ec7ng\\\". C\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb g\u00ec trong l\u00fac tang gia b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u01b0a b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1m th\u00ec trong l\u1ec5 tang, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf m\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec th\u00ec t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0103n c\u01a1m th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1ch s\u00e1ch, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c. Th\u00f3i c\u0169 \\\"Ma ch\u00ea, c\u01b0\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch\\\" c\u00f3 hay ho g\u00ec ! C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb : Khi \u0111i d\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1m tang kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0103n m\u1eb7c lo\u00e8 lo\u1eb9t, h\u1edf hang, l\u1ed1 l\u0103ng, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p c\u1ea3nh s\u1ebd g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 64 : \u0110i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e1m tang n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? H\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfp qu\u1ea3n th\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f4 (1954) ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1m tang r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 k\u1ef7 c\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 giao th\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e1m tang ng\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1ea3o ai, d\u00f9 v\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ed1ng xe, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i xe m\u00e1y, x\u00edch l\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1u ng\u1ea3 m\u0169 n\u00f3n, d\u1eaft b\u1ed9 qua \u0111\u00e1m tang r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi l\u00ean xe. \u00d4 t\u00f4 th\u00ec ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng b\u00f3p c\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu \u0111i c\u00f9ng chi\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ec7n xu\u1ed1ng xe th\u00ec \u0111i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ng\u1ea3 m\u0169. Th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n \u0111i ti\u1ec5n \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c \u0111i c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng l\u1ed1i, tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. L\u00e1i xe \u0111\u00e1m tang \u0103n m\u1eb7c theo l\u1ec5 ph\u1ee5c, t\u00e1c phong c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam trang.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 65 : Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u g\u00ec b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc ? Th\u1eadt k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1, x\u01b0a nay \u0111\u00e3 ai ch\u1ebft hai l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5 cao tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \\\"Tri thi\u00ean m\u1ec7nh\\\", bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00e0y m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eabn kho\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edd m\u1ea5t, \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111i\u1ec7n cho con ch\u00e1u xa v\u1ec1. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tang l\u1ec5, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u g\u00ec b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ? \u2022 Xem th\u1ea7n s\u1eafc : ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu xem hai \u0111\u00e1y m\u1eaft c\u00f2n tinh anh kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee5c m\u1edd. \u2022 S\u1edd ch\u00e2n tay xem c\u00f2n n\u00f3ng hay \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea1nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp ch\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e2n. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. \u2022 M\u1ea1ch r\u1ea5t tr\u1ea7m, c\u00f3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft m\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy tim, s\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 tim \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec \u0111\u1eadp y\u1ebfu n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u2022 \u0110\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t \u00edt b\u00f4ng v\u00e0o l\u1ed7 m\u0169i m\u00e0 b\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1eady t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eaft th\u1edf. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au \u1ed1m l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ng\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e8n h\u1ebft d\u1ea7u lo\u00e9 s\u00e1ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i t\u1eaft ng\u1ea5m. C\u00e1c c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecf \u0103n, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n \u0103n nh\u01b0ng \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t \u00edt tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1ea5t. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u00ec nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc con ch\u00e1u \u1edf xa ch\u01b0a g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ho\u1eb7c do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed5 x\u00e2m h\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng trong mu\u00f4n m\u1ed9t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qua kh\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c k\u00e9o th\u00eam \u00edt gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ng\u00e0y x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 tr\u00f9ng tang, tr\u00f9ng ph\u1ee5c... th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00eam ch\u00fat \u00edt.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 66 : Trong gi\u1edd ph\u00fat th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec ? - D\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eafp m\u1ea5t sang ph\u00f2ng ch\u00ednh t\u1ea9m, \u0111\u1ea7u h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u0110\u00f4ng. - H\u1ecfi xem c\u00f3 d\u1eb7n d\u00f2 tr\u1ed1i tr\u0103ng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng - \u0110\u1eb7t thu\u1ef5 hi\u1ec7u (t\u1ee9c t\u00ean h\u00e8m) r\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd kh\u00f4ng. - Lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00fac tr\u1ef1c b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. - Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 theo t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o th\u00ec l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n theo ph\u00e9p c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. - Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eafm g\u1ed9i (l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 m\u1ed9c d\u1ee5c) v\u00e0 kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m (l\u1ec5 nh\u1eadp quan).","\u0110i\u1ec1u 67 : Khi th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n m\u1ea5t, gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ? Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 n\u00eau l\u00ean nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu, m\u1ea5t t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0, theo phong t\u1ee5c c\u1ed5 truy\u1ec1n. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u1ea5t t\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, qu\u00e1n tr\u1ecd, ch\u1ebft v\u00ec tai n\u1ea1n, g\u01b0\u01a1m s\u00fang, xe c\u1ed9, r\u1eafn \u0111\u1ed9c, thu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea3 tai, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u1ebft... kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 thao t\u00e1c v\u00e0 nghi l\u1ec5, v\u1eady n\u00ean ch\u00e2m ch\u01b0\u1edbc, tu\u1ef3 nghi v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng: 1. L\u1ec5 m\u1ed9c d\u1ee5c : (t\u1eafm g\u1ed9i) L\u00fac t\u1eafm g\u1ed9i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba ch\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eb5n m\u1ed9t con dao nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t vu\u00f4ng v\u1ea3i (kh\u0103n), m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i l\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i th\u00eca, m\u1ed9t \u00edt \u0111\u1ea5t \u1edf \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3 rau, m\u1ed9t n\u1ed1i n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u0169 v\u1ecb h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed3i n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3ng kh\u00e1c. l\u00fac t\u1eafm, v\u00e2y m\u00e0n cho ki\u1ebfn, tang ch\u1ee7 qu\u1ef3 xu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng qu\u1ef3 r\u1ed3i c\u00e1o t\u1eeb r\u1eb1ng; \\\"nay xin t\u1eafm g\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ea1ch b\u1ee5i tr\u1ea7n\\\", xong ph\u1ee5c xu\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady. Cha th\u00ec con trai v\u00e0o t\u1eafm, m\u1eb9 th\u00ec con g\u00e1i v\u00e0o t\u1eafm. L\u1ea5y vu\u00f4ng v\u1ea3i d\u1ea5p v\u00e0o ng\u0169 v\u1ecb, lau m\u1eb7t, lau m\u00ecnh cho s\u1ea1ch r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y l\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea3i t\u00f3c l\u1ea5y s\u1ee3i v\u1ea3i bu\u1ed9c t\u00f3c, l\u1ea5y kh\u0103n kh\u00e1c lau hai tay hai ch\u00e2n, l\u1ea1i l\u1ea5y dao c\u1eaft m\u00f3ng tay m\u00f3ng ch\u00e2n,m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o cho ch\u1ec9nh. M\u00f3ng tay m\u00f3ng ch\u00e2n g\u00f3i l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u1edbi, \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0o trong quan t\u00e0i; dao, l\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eca v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111em \u0111i ch\u00f4n; r\u01b0\u1edbc thi th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng. 2. Sau l\u1ec5 m\u1ed9c d\u1ee5c th\u1eddi gian ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadp quan: \u0110\u1eafp ch\u0103n ho\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfu, bu\u00f4ng m\u00e0n, \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t chi\u00eac gh\u1ebf con ph\u00eda tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u, tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t b\u00e1t c\u01a1m \u00fap, m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng, d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i \u0111\u0169a tr\u00ean b\u00e1t c\u01a1m v\u00e0 th\u1eafp h\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t con dao tr\u00ean b\u1ee5ng, (c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1eeb t\u00e0 ma hay qu\u1ef7 nh\u1eadp tr\u00e0ng). 3. L\u1ec5 ph\u1ea1n h\u00e0m: L\u1ec5 n\u00e0y theo t\u1ee5c x\u01b0a, b\u1ecf g\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0o mi\u1ec7ng tr\u00e1nh t\u00e0 ma \u00e1c qu\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111o\u1ea1t, \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ec5n vong h\u1ed3n \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng xa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c si\u00eau tho\u00e1t. L\u1ec5 n\u00e0y ng\u00e0y nay nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf, c\u00f3 n\u01a1i thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng may m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00fai, trong t\u00fai \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t \u00edt ti\u1ec1n g\u1ea1o v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed3 l\u1eb7t v\u1eb7t m\u00e0 khi s\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 hay d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn. Theo \\\"Th\u1ecd mai gia l\u1ec5\\\", l\u1ec5 n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 sau: L\u1ea5y \u00edt g\u1ea1o n\u1ebfp x\u00e1t cho s\u1ea1ch, ba \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0i cho s\u00e1ng (nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u th\u00ec d\u00f9ng v\u00e0ng ho\u1eb7c vi\u00ean ng\u1ecdc trai). Tang ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0o kh\u00f3c qu\u1ef3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng qu\u1ef3, c\u00e1o t\u1eeb r\u1eb1ng: \\\" nay xin ph\u1ea1n h\u00e0n, ph\u1ee5c duy h\u00e2m n\u1ea1p\\\". Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t x\u01b0\u1edbng \\\"S\u01a1 ph\u1ea1n h\u00e0m, t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1n h\u00e0m, tam ph\u1ea1n h\u00e0m\\\". Tang ch\u1ee7 ba l\u1ea7n, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n x\u00fac m\u1ed9t \u00edt g\u1ea1o v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n tra v\u00e0o m\u1ed3m b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean tr\u00e1i, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa. Xong, b\u00f3p m\u1ed3m l\u1ea1i, ph\u1ee7 m\u1eb7t nh\u01b0 c\u0169. 4. L\u1ec5 kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m nh\u1eadp quan: C\u00e1c con v\u00e0o, con trai b\u00ean tr\u00e1i, con g\u00e1i b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 x\u01b0\u1edbng. T\u1ef1 l\u1eadp (\u0111\u1ee9ng g\u1ea7n v\u00e0o),","c\u1eed ai (kh\u00f3c c\u1ea3 l\u00ean), qu\u1ef3. Ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng qu\u1ef3 m\u00e0 c\u00e1o t\u1eeb r\u1eb1ng \\\"Nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edd l\u00e0nh, xin r\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eadp quan\\\". \\\"C\u1ea9n c\u00e1o\\\" xong l\u1ea1i x\u01b0\u1edbng: ph\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5c (l\u1ec5 xu\u1ed1ng), h\u01b0ng (d\u1eady), b\u00ecnh th\u00e2n (\u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng). Sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c con ch\u00e1u tr\u00e1nh ra hai b\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c quay v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7m t\u1ea1 quan n\u00e2ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o cho \u00eam \u00e1i, \u0111\u1eb7t cho ch\u00ednh gi\u1eefa quan t\u00e0i, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 h\u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n l\u1ea5y \u00e1o c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba m\u1ea5t b\u1ed5 khuy\u1ebft cho \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, r\u1ed3i g\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u00ean tr\u00e1i g\u1ea5p tr\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea5p sau, tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ea5p sau c\u00f9ng, s\u01a1n n\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fa \u00fd: Nh\u1eefng qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7c chung th\u00ec ki\u00eang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf v\u00e0o \u00e1o quan. \u0110\u1ed3 kh\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m: nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u d\u00f9ng v\u00f3c nhi\u1ec5u, t\u01a1, l\u1ee5a; nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng v\u1ea3i tr\u1eafng may l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea1i li\u1ec7m (1 m\u1ea3nh d\u1ecdc, 5 m\u1ea3nh ngang) ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ec3u li\u1ec7m (1 m\u1ea3nh d\u1ecdc 3 m\u1ea3nh ngang). Ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea1i li\u1ec7m hay ti\u1ec3u li\u1ec7m v\u00ec kh\u1ed5 v\u1ea3i nh\u1ecf. Ng\u00e0y nay, d\u00f9ng v\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 r\u1ed9ng, mi\u1ec5n k\u00edn ch\u00e2n, tay, \u0111\u1ea7u, g\u00f3t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \\\"T\u1ee5c ta nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin theo th\u1ea7y ph\u00f9 thu\u1ef7, trong quan t\u00e0i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ea3nh v\u00e1n \u0111\u1ee5c sao B\u1eafc \u0110\u1ea9u th\u1ea5t tinh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi nh\u1eadp quan th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ecdn gi\u1edd, tr\u00e1nh tu\u1ed5i r\u1ed3i d\u00f9ng b\u00f9a n\u1ecd b\u00f9a kia d\u00e1n \u1edf trong, ngo\u00e0i quan t\u00e0i. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edd s\u1ea5u th\u00ec b\u1ecf c\u1ed7 b\u00e0i t\u1ed5 t\u00f4m ho\u1eb7c quy\u1ec3n l\u1ecbch ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0u l\u00e1 g\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea5n \u00e1t ma qu\u1ef7\\\" (Tr\u00edch \\\"Vi\u1ec7t Nam phong t\u1ee5c\\\"- Phan K\u1ebf B\u00ednh - tr.31) M\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c xong th\u00ec s\u01a1n g\u1eafn quan t\u00e0i cho k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00ednh gi\u1eefa gian gi\u1eefa, ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0 c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n h\u01a1n th\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7t sang gian c\u1ea1nh. 5. L\u1ec5 thi\u1ebft linh: (Sau khi nh\u1eadp quan) L\u00e0 l\u1ec5 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp linh v\u1ecb, \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00e0n th\u1edd tang. Khi ch\u01b0a ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t th\u00ec l\u1ea5y l\u1ec5 th\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 l\u1ec5, n\u00ean m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n l\u1ea1y ch\u1ec9 l\u1ea1y hai l\u1ea1y, trong linh v\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u0103n v\u1ea5n d\u00f9ng ch\u1eef \\\"C\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5\\\", \\\"C\u1ed1 m\u1eabu\\\" thay cho \\\"Hi\u1ec1n th\u1ea3o\\\", \\\"Hi\u1ec1n t\u1ef7\\\". 6. L\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c: T\u1ee9c l\u00e0 con ch\u00e1u m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 tang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00fang t\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ec5 khi kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tang ch\u01b0a ra ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang thay m\u1eb7t ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch. Sau l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t tang. Sau \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu, l\u00e0ng x\u00e3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fang vi\u1ebfng.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 68 : T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c h\u00fa h\u1ed3n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi nh\u1eadp quan ? V\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng, ng\u1ea5t, b\u1ea5t t\u1ec9nh nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u00ec h\u1ed3i t\u1ec9nh, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 thu\u1eadt h\u00fa h\u1ed3n h\u00fa v\u00eda. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eaft th\u1edf, t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i. Do \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t hy v\u1ecdng d\u1ea7u m\u1ecfng manh, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u trong mu\u00f4n m\u1ed9t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n... n\u00ean c\u1ea7m chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eaft th\u1edf, leo l\u00ean m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 cao nh\u1ea5t h\u00fa \\\"Ba h\u1ed3n b\u1ea3y v\u00eda \u00f4ng\\\" ho\u1eb7c \\\"Ba h\u1ed3n ch\u00edn v\u00eda b\u00e0\\\" v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadp x\u00e1c. H\u00fa ba l\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng ch\u1ecbu kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m m\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ee1 v\u1ea5t v\u01b0\u1edfng, bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 (Kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m xong v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a n\u1ee1 \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1ed1t \u00e1o quan). \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t phong t\u1ee5c ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebb tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n t\u00e2m linh.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 69 : Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi co r\u00fam kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf l\u1ecdt \u00e1o quan th\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? Theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u00e2n gian: H\u01a1 l\u1eeda v\u00e0 n\u1eafn d\u1ea7n cho th\u1eb3ng ra, ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9ng c\u1ed3n, r\u01b0\u1ee3u xoa b\u00f3p, n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u00f3 thu\u1eadt d\u00f9ng hai chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u0169a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 hai b\u00ean m\u00e9p \u00e1o quan r\u1ed3i cho thi h\u00e0i l\u1ecdt xu\u1ed1ng d\u1ea7n, khi thi h\u00e0i d\u00e3 l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o \u00e1o quan r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i c\u1eaft b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng d\u00e2y bu\u1ed9c ch\u00e2n, bu\u1ed9c tay, bu\u1ed9c vai, bu\u1ed9c m\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eb1m tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u 70 : Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt li\u1ec7u g\u00ec l\u00f3t v\u00e0o \u00e1o quan ? Trong c\u00e1c ng\u00f4i m\u1ed9 c\u1ed5 khai qu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 trang s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft, ph\u00eda trong \u00e1o quan th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 l\u00f3t l\u00e1 chu\u1ed1i, gi\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n, ch\u00e8 b\u00fap, b\u1ecfng n\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c kh\u0103n v\u00f3c \u00e1o nhi\u1ec5u... Trong quan, ngo\u00e0i qu\u00e1ch, gi\u1eefa quan v\u00e0 qu\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed5 c\u00e1t v\u00e0ng. C\u00e1c th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t h\u00fat \u1ea9m v\u00e0 ng\u0103n gi\u1eef kh\u00ed h\u00f4i h\u00e1m kh\u1ecfi b\u1ed1c ra ngo\u00e0i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1eddi x\u01b0a ch\u1ebft xong ch\u01b0a m\u1ea5y ai \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00f4n ngay, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eafm \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt, t\u1ebf kh\u00ed, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i xa g\u1ea7n ph\u00fang vi\u1ebfng linh \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y, ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea5t m\u1edbi l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 an t\u00e1ng.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 71 : T\u1ea1i sao tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi kh\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m, nh\u1eadp quan c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng chi\u1ebfc chi\u1ebfu gi\u1ea3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t ? Theo Phan K\u1ebf B\u00ednh :\\\"L\u1ea5y ngh\u0129a, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea5t sinh th\u00ec ch\u1ebft l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t\\\". Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 thao t\u00e1c. V\u1ea3 ch\u0103ng, trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec7n \u00e2m trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1eadt ph\u00f2ng xa hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \\\"Qu\u1ef7 nh\u1eadp tr\u00e0ng\\\".","\u0110i\u1ec1u 72 : Sau l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ec5 an t\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec ? Th\u1eddi nay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1ec7 sinh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 24 gi\u1edd. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u sang \u0111\u1ec3 n\u0103m b\u1ea3y h\u00f4m trong nh\u00e0, ch\u1edd con ch\u00e1u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, l\u00e0ng x\u00e3, h\u00e0ng t\u1ed5ng h\u00e0ng huy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fang vi\u1ebfng; \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1ng r\u1ea1p tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n, d\u1ef1ng nh\u00e0 tr\u1ea1m d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00ed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u1ed7 b\u00e0n th\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3i linh \u0111\u00ecnh; \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0y c\u00fang ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0y, th\u00e0y \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ea5t an t\u00e1ng, ph\u00e2n kim l\u1eadp h\u01b0\u1edbng h\u1eb3n hoi. C\u00f3 nh\u00e0 c\u00f2n s\u1eafm \u0111\u1ee7 trong quan ngo\u00e0i qu\u00e1ch, qu\u00e0n t\u1ea1m trong v\u01b0\u1eddn, v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng sau m\u1edbi l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 an t\u00e1ng. Trong th\u1eddi gian ch\u01b0a ch\u00f4n c\u00f3 \\\"L\u1ec5 tri\u00eau t\u1ecbch \u0111i\u1ec7n\\\" : Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng d\u1eady b\u01b0ng kh\u0103n l\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o linh s\u00e0ng, c\u00e1c con qu\u1ef3 kh\u00f3c ba ti\u1ebfng r\u1ed3i qu\u1ea5n m\u00e0n l\u00ean c\u00e1o t\u1eeb r\u1eb1ng: \\\"Ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng r\u1ed3i xin r\u01b0\u1edbc linh b\u1ea1ch ra linh to\u1ea1\\\". Sau \u0111\u00f3 r\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1chra \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o \u1ef7, v\u1eaft m\u00e0n, d\u1ecdn ch\u0103n g\u1ed1i, chi\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i r\u01b0\u1edbc linh b\u1ea1ch v\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eafp ch\u0103n th\u1ea3 chi\u1ebfu, m\u00e0n xu\u1ed1ng. Th\u1edd nh\u01b0 l\u00fac s\u1ed1ng, ch\u1ec9 l\u1ea1y hai l\u1ea1y (ch\u1ec9 sau khi an t\u00e1ng, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u00e2ng xong m\u1edbi l\u1ea1y b\u1ed1n l\u1ea1y theo nghi l\u1ec5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft). C\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u01b0a ch\u00f4n, c\u00f3 \\\"L\u1ec5 ch\u00fac th\u1ef1c\\\" (Tr\u1ed3ng b\u00f3 \u0111u\u1ed1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n):ph\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e1t \u00e2m t\u1ea5u nh\u1ea1c, con ch\u00e1u thay nhau t\u00fac tr\u1ef1c b\u00ean linh c\u1eefu, trong nh\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i s\u00e2n \u0111\u00e8n \u0111u\u1ed1c s\u00e1ng tr\u01b0ng. Khi th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fang \u0111i\u1ebfu, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tang v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ee9ng c\u1ea1nh linh to\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda kh\u00e1ch, h\u1ec5 kh\u00e1ch l\u1ea1y hai l\u1ea1y th\u00ec ch\u1ee7 l\u1ec5 t\u1ea1 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1ea1y. Kh\u00e1ch v\u00e1i cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh ba v\u00e1i th\u00ec v\u00e1i t\u1ea1 m\u1ed9t v\u00e1i. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfp tr\u1ea7u, n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u1ed7 b\u00e0n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con trai n\u00e0o \u0111i v\u1eafng ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp v\u1ec1 th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u0169, kh\u0103n x\u00f4 v\u00e0 g\u1eady c\u1ea1nh h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 chuy\u1ec3n c\u1eefu \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1t d\u1eabn th\u00ec \u00e1o quan v\u1eabn tr\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o trong, coi nh\u01b0 l\u1ec5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ecdc v\u0103n c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a d\u00f9ng ch\u1eef \\\"Hi\u1ec3n th\u1ea3o\\\" (cha) \\\"Hi\u1ec3n t\u1ef7\\\" (m\u1eb9) m\u00e0 con d\u00f9ng ch\u1eef \\\"C\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5\\\" (cha), \\\"C\u1ed1 m\u1eabu\\\" (m\u1eb9) \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbp l\u1ea1nh, \u1edf n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u0103m b\u1ea3y ng\u00e0y trong nh\u00e0, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao cho kh\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec5m u\u1ebf kh\u00ed ? - \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ecb tang ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m : \u00e1o quan v\u1ecf d\u00e0y, g\u1ed7 t\u1ed1t, tr\u00e1m th\u1eadt k\u00edn, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t khe h\u1edf n\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e1y \u00e1o quan l\u00f3t nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ed1ng \u1ea9m nh\u01b0 l\u00e1 chu\u1ed1i, gi\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n, than, v\u00f4i, b\u1ecfng n\u1ebfp... C\u00e1c khe h\u1edf c\u1ee7a \u00e1o quan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecbt k\u00edn tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1eb1ng s\u01a1n ta, nh\u1ef1a \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, d\u00e1n gi\u1ea5y tr\u00e1ng kim. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 trong quan ngo\u00e0i qu\u00e1ch, gi\u1eefa quan v\u00e0 qu\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed5 c\u00e1t v\u00e0ng rang kh\u00f4 n\u00f3ng. Ph\u1ee7 tr\u00ean thi h\u00e0i c\u00f3 c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eed u\u1ebf kh\u00ed. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y an t\u00e1ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u00eam t\u1ee5c \\\"L\u1ec5 y\u1ebft c\u00e1o t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean\\\", n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c linh c\u1eefu, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ecd. H\u1ed3n b\u1ea1ch ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n th\u1edd, \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd t\u1ed5. N\u1ed9i dung: B\u00e1o c\u00e1o v\u1edbi gia ti\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u00e2n ph\u1ee5 ho\u1eb7c th\u00e2n m\u1eabu v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea7u t\u1ed5. Xong l\u1ea1i r\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1ch v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7t l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean linh to\u1ea1.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 73 : Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong tang l\u1ec5 Trong l\u00fac tang gia b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t l\u00fang t\u00fang v\u00e0 ph\u1ea1m nhi\u1ec1u sai s\u00f3t. Khi th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n s\u1eafp t\u1eeb tr\u1ea7n, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tang gia ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u00edch g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, th\u00e1o v\u00e1t, c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn trong h\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang thay m\u1eb7t tang ch\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1ed1i n\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i ngo\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang bi\u1ebft c\u00fang l\u1ec5 th\u00ec ki\u00eam lu\u00f4n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1, Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 lo vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t nghi l\u1ec5 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9c d\u1ee5c, kh\u00e2m li\u1ec7m, thi\u1ebft linh, th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ebfn an t\u00e1ng. Th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u1ebf ngu (l\u1ec5 3 ng\u00e0y sau khi ch\u00f4n). Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 v\u0103n ho\u00e1 (ch\u1eef H\u00e1n, ch\u1eef Qu\u1ed1c ng\u1eef) n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u00eam lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n (vi\u1ebft v\u0103n c\u00fang t\u1ebf, b\u00e0i v\u1ecb, long tri\u1ec7u, \u0111\u1ed1i, tr\u01b0\u1edbng, c\u00e1o ph\u00f3...). Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu l\u1ec5: Sau khi th\u00e0nh ph\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ebft 3 ng\u00e0y sau khi an t\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu l\u1ec5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 chuy\u00ean t\u00fac tr\u1ef1c \u1edf nh\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i, h\u1ec5 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00fang vi\u1ebfng th\u00ec ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd, b\u00e1o cho th\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 ra b\u00e1i t\u1ea1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu l\u1ec5 ph\u1ea3i ghi \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 danh s\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1 l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y tang ch\u1ee7 bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 t\u1ea1 \u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu l\u1ec5 ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ec5 v\u1eadt sau khi kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 c\u00fang l\u1ec5 xong ra v\u1ec1. V\u00ec v\u1eady ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n t\u00edn c\u1ee7a tang gia. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u: Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00e1c ban h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u chuy\u00ean tr\u00e1ch. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 huy \u0111\u00e1m phu ki\u1ec7u \u0111\u01b0a quan t\u00e0i t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 ra xe tang ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0 (tuy kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 xe nh\u01b0ng khi\u00eang ki\u1ec7u hay xe g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0), \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec3n vi\u1ec7c \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng, n\u00e2ng l\u00ean h\u1ea1 xu\u1ed1ng, sang tr\u00e1i sang ph\u1ea3i, b\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec7u l\u1ec7nh hai thanh g\u1ed7 ng\u1eafn c\u1ea7m tay, cho \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac h\u1ea1 huy\u1ec7t, th\u00e1o gi\u00e2y \u0111\u00f2n m\u00e0 ch\u00e9n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u0111\u0129a d\u1ea7u l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean n\u1eafp \u00e1o quan kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1nh ra ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0 \u1edf ph\u00eda sau, ho\u1eb7c \u0111i b\u1ed9 gi\u1eadt l\u00f9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc quan t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n. N\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o t\u1ef1 thu x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00e1u ki\u00eang \u00e1o quan th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Ch\u1ee7 tang v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5: L\u00e0 con trai tr\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 con d\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu tang cha m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5. N\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n th\u1eeba tr\u1ecdng (thay th\u1ebf cha \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, khi l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 tang \u00f4ng b\u00e0) th\u00ec ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 tang, c\u00e1c \u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u0111\u1ee9ng hai b\u00ean ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i t\u1ebf v\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 ph\u1ee5 khi b\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t, c\u00f2n c\u00e1c b\u00e0 th\u00edm ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5. N\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00edch t\u00f4n c\u00f2n b\u00e9 qu\u00e1, ch\u01b0a ch\u1ed1ng g\u1eady l\u1ec5 t\u1ea1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ch\u00fa th\u1ee9 hai thay th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i nh\u00e2n danh ch\u00e1u m\u00e0 b\u00e1i l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 b\u00e1i t\u1ea1. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ee5c nghi l\u1ec5 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a kh\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1ee5c l\u1ec7 l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu, l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f9ng b\u00e3i b\u1ecf, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 t\u1ee5c l\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u00e0 ma \u00e1c qu\u1ef7. L\u1ec7 t\u1ee5c chung v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eebng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau, ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eady, hu\u1ed1ng h\u1ed3 ng\u00e0y nay. C\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh con \u0111\u00e0n ch\u00e1u l\u1eef, c\u1ee7a \u0103n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec3, sung t\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1 hu\u1ec1, c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01a1n b\u1ea1c ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i tu\u1ef3 nghi ch\u00e2m tr\u01b0\u1edbc.","\u0110i\u1ec1u 74 : L\u1ec5 an t\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ? Tu\u1ef3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eebng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, m\u1ed7i n\u01a1i nghi l\u1ec5 phong t\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1c. Th\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u00f4n \u1ea5p c\u1eed nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trai tr\u00e1ng trong l\u00e0ng x\u00f3m ra khi\u00eang v\u00e1c ch\u00f4n c\u1ea5t. N\u01a1i c\u00f3 h\u1ed9i t\u01b0 v\u0103n, th\u00ec h\u1ed9i t\u01b0 v\u0103n \u0111\u1ee9ng ra lo li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c theo h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n. Hi\u1ec7n nay \u1edf n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 tang, th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 th\u1ecb x\u00e3 c\u00f3 ban qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd ngh\u0129a trang, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chi h\u1ed9i tr\u1ecdng th\u1ecd c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1ee9ng ra lo li\u1ec7u chu \u0111\u00e1o. L\u1ec5 an t\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh tu\u1ef3 theo ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u1eebng nh\u00e0, \\\"Gi\u00e0u l\u00e0m k\u00e9p, h\u1eb9p l\u00e0m \u0111\u01a1n\\\". \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i ph\u1ea7n tang gia c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec: \u2022 Khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n m\u1ea5t, tang ch\u1ee7 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e1o g\u1ea5p, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c theo quy \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh. \u2022 Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a, tang ch\u1ee7 c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p hi\u1ec7u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng phu ki\u1ec7u. N\u1ebfu t\u1eeb khi \u0111\u01b0a \u00e1o quan l\u00ean ki\u1ec7u, \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn huy\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ch\u00e9n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, \u0111\u0129a d\u1ea7u l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ean \u00e1o quan kh\u00f4ng s\u00f3ng s\u00e1nh ra ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec tang ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0a ti\u1ec1n th\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t h\u1eadu. \u2022 Th\u00e2n nh\u00e2n, theo th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 nh\u00e2n s\u01a1 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh, tang ph\u1ee5c theo gia l\u1ec5, \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng \u0111i theo sau linh c\u1eefu. Th\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng v\u1ea3i tr\u1eafng che tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1ch m\u1ea1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc ho\u1eb7c k\u00e8m sau xe quan t\u00e0i theo t\u1ee5c \\\"Cha \u0111\u01b0a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3n\\\". \u2022 H\u1ea1 huy\u1ec7t xong, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i v\u00f2ng quanh m\u1ed9 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e9m xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea5t. \u2022 \u0110\u1eafp m\u1ed9 xong, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u00f2ng quanh m\u1ed9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed9 tang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh l\u1ec5 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n. \u2022 Nghi th\u1ee9c chung nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u n\u01a1i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u1ee5c ri\u00eang nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u kinh, y\u1ec3m b\u00f9a, nh\u1ed1t con g\u00e0, c\u00e0i c\u00e2y l\u00e1 ch\u1ee9a, d\u1ef1ng c\u00e2y n\u00eau, \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda m\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ed1t h\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n... r\u1eafc v\u00e0ng kh\u1ea9u d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1eafm h\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf c\u00e1c m\u1ed9 xung quanh, m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0103n tr\u1ea7u h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, \u0111\u00e3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eafp m\u1ed9..."]