Bodacious Black Women DRAFT COPY Making Midlife Magic Bodacious Black Women 1
Contents 23. Cheryle Brown Williamson 24. Dimitra L Cook Introduction 25. Crystal Mitchell 26. Margo Wade LaDrew Profiles 27. Constance Anderson 4. Sandy Speed 28. Dr Linda Ottey 5. Dr Glenna Tolbert 29. Felecia Fisher Shamu 6. Brenda Anderson, MBA 30. Denise A Peoples 7. Nina Womack 31. Andrea D Williams 8. Michell Smith-Ballard 9. Stasia Washington 32. Renee Featherstone 10. Dr Melba Carter 11. Mone’ Swann 33. Wanda Wilson 12. Dr Cozette M White 13. Telisha Berry Midlife Magic 14. Robin Thorne 15. Faye Clerk-Moseley Word from Dr Melba Carter – Credit 16. Dorez Douglas Worthiness 17. Karen A Clark 18. Karen Blackwell How to Stay Connected with Bodacious 19. Angela Gibson-Shaw Black Women Over 50 20. Margo Lovett 21. Michelle Beauchamp 22. Kimberly Frelow Bodacious Black Women 3
Introduction We are profiling women who are challenging the notion Linda S Husser that once you turn 50 years old, you need to down shift. These bodacious women of color are disrupting aging, Midlife Magic Coach and crushing the myth of midlife crisis. If you’re a Black female that still rocks and want to share your phenomenal Sharing their own life experiences, they are providing an power with other superstars, or just insight and understanding on how important our mindset waiting to be part of a group that if is at this time of our lives. By eliminating negative self- crushing the myths of aging, please join talk, having a positive outlook on life and embracing Linda S Husser and the Bodacious getting older with grace and ease, we can truly make the Facebook Group: rest of our life the BEST of your life!! BodaciousBlackWomen.com As the Bodacious Lifestyle Coach, my mission is to help Black women over 50 reinvent, recharge and reset themselves, so that they can stop feeling like life is passing them by and get their mojo back! The following pages will highlight a group of women whom are challenging the notion that their best years are behind, and are living examples of the magic of midlife. Please review, read and enjoy. bo·da·cious /ˌbōˈdāSHəs/ adjective 1.INFORMAL•NORTH AMERICAN excellent, admirable, or attractive. \"the restaurant serves bodacious grilled lobster\" •US audacious in a way considered admirable. \"those bodacious women know how to handle their men\" Bodacious Black Women 5
Sandy Speed I believe constant prayer and keeping Christ at the center of my life keep be relevant and vibrant! It is important to have friends that support and love you, as well as me being a good friend to them. I advocate eating healthy 85% of the time; however, you should be able to being able to indulge in your favorites from time to time keeps you happy! Avoiding toxic, negative, unhappy people even if they are family or close friends... just not worth it! Exercising 3-5 times a week and taking vitamins! Drink a lot of water (I don't like it) but I force myself! Get at least 8-10 hours of sleep nightly! Travel, vacation and get out of your comfort zone by going places and doing things you generally would not! Being in love, love keeps you young! Find work that lines up with your personal mission statement and if your job doesn't, volunteer at an organization that's doing the work in the community! Give to causes and help others... that helps you feel good. Be thankful and grateful all the time even when you're going through! God first, then family and friends. As long as your life is Christ centered you can remain beautiful well beyond your 50s! Bodacious Black Women
Dr Glenna Tolbert “Age is just a number” has been modeled for me by some amazing and bodacious women in my family. There is my amazing Aunt Ruth, still rocking life at age 104 with no cane, and with all wit. And there’s my mom, at 80 years young, she epitomizes elegance and beauty. I take pride in witnessing my regal cousin Jean and my grandma who annually would turn over my garden at age 98. Their keys to the “ Fountain of Youth “: Positive family and friends; strong family roots; work hard; play hard; pray hard; use God's word; love self; love all of mankind; hope & dream while fulfilling dreams. We are as young as our dreams and thoughts. As an only child for 11 years, I became a very good daydreamer with a huge imagination . I dreamed of being a ballet dancer. I dreamed of being a teacher. I dreamed of being a doctor. I dreamed of being a scientist. I dreamed of being a business owner. I dreamed of being a “Go- go Dancer” Remember those? Today, I’m doing all those things. In 2004, I opened a medical regenerative and wellness center emphasizing living your best life and aging well. Fabulousness is our God given birthright! Moreover, I’m still dreaming while fulfilling my dreams. So, I’m forever that curious, wide- eyed eleven- year-old girl! Although our outer carrying case ages, our spirit is forever young. We must therefore nourish our timeless beauty from the inside out spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally. Never hang up those Go-go Boots! Bodacious Black Women
Brenda Anderson, MBA Fearlessly speaking your mind about the injustices of this society is a full time job even in retirement. The beauty in this is that as I move in to the next stage of my life, I have a new found freedom that allows me to apologetically speak up when I see injustices and even more committed when taking action to address it. Anyone that knows me will tell you I have been advocating for the rights of others since childhood. Whether I was standing up to bullies as a young child, or campaigning to educate and empower the disenfranchised in adulthood. I am not one for sitting on the sidelines because there is so much work to be done. I start every day with a fresh energy for fighting the good fight and relish in seeing the rewards of making positive contributions to the underserved and under-represented. I cannot ask or expect anyone to fight for positive change if I am not willing to fight as well. If you look closely you will see my footprint in my community on issues such as health disparity, voting, US Census, eldercare, financial empowerment, STEAM/STEM and understanding the rich history we as women of the African diaspora have to offer as mentors to our young sisters, who are our future leaders of today and tomorrow. My only allegiance is to change. The struggle for change is real and I am dedicated to the fight! Bodacious Black Women
Nina Womack Creative innovator and visionary leader, Nina Womack is the founder of Transmedia 360°, a multimedia and branding company. Award-winning actress, producer, and brand strategist, Nina has a varied background in theater, film, marketing, festival and event production, as well as years of experience in the non-profit and corporate sector. A native of South L.A., Nina began her career in entertainment as a young, gifted actress and print model. This multi-talented thespian obtained her Theater Arts degree with honors from Los Angeles City College Theater Academy and directs and produces stage plays, music videos, documentaries, commercials and events. Additionally, she spent years in the corporate and non-profit sectors in; marketing, advertising, fundraising, locations, real estate, administrative, catering and sales adding value to her creative skills. Nina enjoys writing poetry, treatments, press releases, website copy, articles, blogs and business proposals. Nina's philanthropic work includes volunteer service, health & wellness education for underserved populations, and motivational speaking to encourage others to reach their full human potential. Bodacious Black Women
Michelle Smith Ballard 30 years of construction experience with the past 10 years developing, administering, and monitoring diversity and MWBE programs. I began my career as project accountant/ and manager in construction where part of my duties included reporting MBE/WBE contracting. In 1999, I joined Anschutz Entertainment Group (AEG) for the construction of STAPLES Center. I developed and presented a comprehensive supplier diversity plan with an emphasis on increased spend with certified MBE/WBEs and then promoted as AEG’s Director of Procurement Equity and Supplier Diversity and remained until 2007. At AEG, I created and implemented innovative processes to communicate the business case for supplier diversity including: an internal Diversity Council whose members consisted of top executives from AEG entities including international; an MBE/WBE supplier database; a diverse supplier tracking system that interfaced directly with the company’s accounting system; a “Procurement Fair” program for MBE/WBE firms to meet the buyers of specific departments of the company that were held at major AEG venues across the country. Through my work and involvement, AEG became known as leader in the MBE/WBE community and in general. Many processes set during my tenure remain in place today. In February 2008, I rejoined Turner as Manager and now Director Community Affairs where I administer the aggressive program including labor compliance, MBE/WBE contracting and monitoring to ensure Turner’s 20% corporate goal is met in the So Cal business unit. Since rejoining Turner, MBE/WBE spend has increased and is currently exceeding the goal at 24%. I coordinate and manage Turner School of Construction Mgmt, an intense 7 week/ 14 session course teaches MBE/WBE firms all aspects of construction and importance of certification. I oversee community involvement such as Turner's Youth Force 20/20 which includes Principal-for-a- Day, career day, ACE Mentoring, and the LA Construction Career Awareness Day. Bodacious Black Women
Stasia Washington What keeps me inspired and flourishing over 50 is organizing my life around five (5) balls. Four of the balls are made out of crystal and one is made out of rubber. The first crystal ball is my family. I have intentional date nights with my husband, one-on-one time with my three adult children, regular visits with my Mother and extended family. The time with my family is precious and humbling. The second crystal ball represents my spiritual life. Every morning I push out a spiritual today's word, which includes scripture or a copy of a sermon to my family, several friends and folks I have met along the way that need encouraging The third crystal ball is my health. I schedule appointments with myself on my calendar to walk, workout, play golf and get regular check-ups to remain energized and healthy in order to balance all of the balls in my life. Next, the friendship crystal ball means a great deal to me. I am member of a traveling book club, a group of ladies in business in which we share experiences, laugh and love on each other. My husband and I share friendships with several couples and we gather together for small dinners on a regular basis. In addition, I spend time with friends all over the country from various stages of life, including grade school, professional friends and girlfriends who you can call in the middle of the night if need be. The final ball represents my career and it is made out of rubber. I have enjoyed career highs and lows but have a fierce drive for success and doing the right thing for my clients and community. The career ball continues to bounce higher for me and I am appreciative of all of God's great blessings of success. Bodacious Black Women
Dr Melba Carter Melba Jackson Carter, D.D., is an entrepreneur, credentialed educator, community advocate, and gifted author of the Zankli Chronicles, a paranormal romance series, as well as a personal development notebook, Aging Fantastically, published as MJ Duffy. After graduating from UCLA, she began working in marketing and spent many years as a producer of fundraising projects and programs. In 1993, she founded JOBS Training & Placement, and in 2009, Ms. Carter was presented with a Supplier of the Year Award from the Southern California Minority Business Development Council for the development of career and personal development workshops and seminars. That same year her company was honored by the National Minority Business Development Council with a Class 1 Supplier Award in Miami, Florida. JOBS Training & Placement beat out 15,000 other business candidates for this honor. Today, Dr. Carter is “lazier focused on improving the quality of opportunities” for youth and families. She is a financial coach, specializing in educating urban communities on Money Management, Legacy Protection (Wills & Trusts), and Credit Restoration. (www.myfes.net/MCarter18) Bodacious Black Women
Mone' Swann As a multi-talented singer, actress, model, writer and comedian, Mone’ is rocking the notion that once you turn 50, your best years are behind you. She is currently touring and promoting her new sounds and stage routines. With an eye on the future, she still is pride of some of her recent accomplishments such as appearing in such musical and stage plays like “The Wiz” (Dorothy) and “The King and I” (Tuptim). As a native of Kansas City, Missouri, she still maintains her humble roots and continuously seeks ways to give back to the community. She’s an advocate of the Human Rights Campaign, and works with multiple organizations for the safe and humane treatment of women of all colors. She also works with bullying and domestic violence organizations. Her philanthropic desire is to reach out to women and help them overcome their fears and challenges through song and dance. Bodacious Black Women
Dr Cozette M White I'm Dr. Cozette! I obtained my proven experience in the financial services industry for over 25 years. I have over 13 years of experience training entrepreneurs and have taught workshops on business and finance since 2005. During this time, I realized that small businesses have a hard time finding competent bookkeepers to strategically grow their business. WHOM I DO IT FOR: My clients are a blend small to mid-size businesses who desire a different outcome. Most of the time, they have investors that regularly demand accurate records. Not only will we prepare your books and supporting documents to be audit-proof, but we will also support you throughout the whole process. Clients hire me because I’m a trusted advisor providing insightful advice that enables them to make informed financial decisions and they find accounting to be too tasking. Bodacious Black Women
Telisha Berry Wow, it was back on the 5th of April of 2019 that I ushered in my 50 year of birth. While it is often difficult to believe that so many years have passed, I am constantly amused at people who don’t believe I’ve been on this earth more a half of a century. What I attributed to my reportedly youthful appearance and outlook is I am sincerely happy. I happily divorced, happily mother of four and happily a publisher author. And I never, never pass up on the opportunity to laugh. I love to have a laugh with my family, friends and clients. Another factor I might attribute to being youthful and relevant is my passion to help others. I am fortunate to share my passion voice with other women as Founder & Editor-in-Chief of Courageous Woman Magazine. As a woman of African descent, I am blessed to know that I come from a lineage of kings and queens, and that my purpose of this earth is to aspire and to courage other women of color. I take time to mediate, exercise 3 to 5 times a week. I read the Word of God and attempt to walk in his steps. I do try to eat health, and limit the amount of red met. But I do have a drink of red wine now and then. Bodacious Black Women
Faye Clerk-Moseley As a bodacious black woman, I am upshifting and making midlife magic. As former Ebony Fashion Fair® Model who modeled domestically and abroad, I was inspired to create FLAIR (Fashion Legacy Association for Industry Recognition), a non-profit 501(c)(3) organization comprised of Ebony Fashion Fair® Alum. I am passionate about fashion, beauty and sharing. These and other attributes are what FLAIR is about. I remain relevant and youthful by being mentored and surrounding myself with millennial mentees who mentor me on technology, music, communications and maintaining a competitive edge. I am an advocate of life-learning having earned my MBA and BS degree in Business Management from the University of Phoenix, as well as holding a professional certification in Organizational Development & Leadership from DePaul University’s Executive Management Program. Additionally, I hold dual professional certifications in Organizational and HR Development and HR Management from UCLA’s Anderson School of Business, as well as a professional certification in Transit and Paratransit Management from the University of the Pacific. I continually rock it by giving back. While on the Board of Directors for Project Angel Food, I served as the Board Governance Chair and co-hosted the annual 2014 Angel Awards event raising over $750,000. Additionally, I served on the Board of Directors for National Sales Network (NSN) – Los Angeles Chapter. One of my most recent honors was being named one of the “Top 20 African American Female Power Players in L.A. Business” by L.A. Focus Magazine. A native of Jackson, Mississippi, I’ve enjoyed my life journey from the playgrounds and classrooms to fashion runways and corporate board rooms. Bodacious Black Women
Dorez Douglas Most people who meet me in person cannot believe my age. A few months ago, I celebrated 69 years on the planet. What keeps me young and relevant is that I'm not afraid of change. When I was working with a non-profit organization back in 1997, I had to learn how to use a computer. I was 47 and the only thing I knew how to operate was a Word Processor. Young people at the office helped me get started and taught me how to set up an email account, contact directory, etc. Once I got the hang of it, I was hooked and never looked back. As technology advances, I find myself embracing each new change. Being around people younger than myself, eating healthier and staying active keep me youthful. I'm on Social Media all the time, chatting with online friends too. I'm mentoring some of them. For relaxation, I watch British TV shows. Working in the entertainment industry as a Producer and a Consultant motivates me. I love what I do! Later this year, I'll be learning another new technology - Virtual Reality. I'm co- producing a VR webseries. In 2020, my producing partner, 2-time Academy Award winner Willie Burton, and I will be making a feature film. Not only do I co-own an online store (Nacleo Boutique) with my daughter, Anna, I've written three eBooks about the entertainment industry. Bodacious Black Women
Karen A Clark I think society has created this norm that says people are less useful at a certain age; then they become silenced because nobody is listening to them unless they have a public forum. Many “retire” when there is still so much to be offered. Decades of knowledge, skill, and talent have been amassed and can be deployed toward that dream, that thing, that creative venture you always wanted to do, be it travel, cooking, designing, teaching or helping others. We have so much to give. A turning point on my view of aging occurred when attending a leadership forum where the keynote speaker shared that she used to have constant fears of dying by the age of 60. Her mother had died at that age. And if she was to have the same fate as her mother, would she be satisfied with all she had accomplished in life. In facing her fear, the speaker shared with us that she took the challenge to swim from the coast of Cuba to shoreline of Florida. And she accomplished at the reap age of 64. Like speaker, I am still accomplishing goals and milestones. As a Black woman having traveled all over the world, as well as someone with deep roots from the communities in which I serve and where I came from, I am keenly aware of the issues, obstacles, and successes of women and people of color. The issues are multi layered and ingrained in our society at varying degrees depending on who you are; and where you are geographically. There is no one answer; it seems as if everyone has a pain point. But what I do know is that art, love and creativity can heal so much that ails us. Bodacious Black Women
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Angela Gibson-Shaw The key to being bodacious is to love life and fully embrace it! After 35 years in corporate America, I decided to retire, but then decided to re-wire. For me, re-wiring is the decision to find fulfilling work that includes your passion, and provide profit at the same time. If you want to live a bodacious life, follow my top 5 philosophies. I’m not perfect nor complete, but I am bodacious about the journey. Prayer = “Delight thyself also in the Lord; and He shall give you the desires of thine heart.” It is important to have a higher power that you go to for hope, clarity, comfort and contentment. Life is not always smooth and you will need His strength. Purpose = Service is the rent we pay for the space that we occupy. You will be most successful if you work at something that gives you fulfillment. It is why you are put here on this earth. Take the time and do the work to find out what your purpose is. Preparation = It is important to keep learning. Whether it’s a new hobby, a new skill or a new job. The world is changing at a rapid pace and you don’t want to be left behind. Choose a subject that will make you a life- long student. Prosperity = Learn how to have the right mindset about money. It’s the tool to get us what we need, e.g., food, shelter, etc. Create a mindset of abundance but have a budget. Passion = Once you have found your purpose, dive into it with full energy and passion. Don’t you love meeting people who are passionate about life? Be authentic and claim who you are. That’s how you should show up every day! Laugh, love live! Be Bodacious! Bodacious Black Women
Margo Lovett You ask how I stay relevant; well I created and hosted a talk podcast after age 50. The \"how-to\" of reinventing yourself is the topic. As my guests speak and they share their perspective on leadership, personal triumph of success and overcoming life obstacles, my understanding and appreciation of them connects us. Now that is mid-life magic! Many boomer women want to reinvent themselves (especially after leaving corporate) but failure to plan, procrastination, love with the comfortable and refusing to move even an inch rob them of their appointed next chapter. I embraced my yearning to reinvent, podcasting (from the technical to the PR) positions me in a unique place. Consistency proves that I will be where #ReinventedOnes need me to be; ready and qualified to help them become their own superhero. My youthfulness? I study podcasting, the trends, stats, technical advances, sharpening my craft as an interviewer. Yes, I network, take classes with millennials and they have been guests on my show – we connect! I have to allocate some \"me time\" to I scrub my face, go the gym, drink a little wine or lemon in water. Midlife has given me confidence that I longed for in my 20's. I pick my battles for sure. Good health is a gift and I cherish it with care. God has blessed, I simply walk out the life he planned for me! Bodacious Black Women
Michelle Beauchamp Helping others recognize their potential and greatness is my passion. I am most joyful when I see others achieve the results they desire and deserve. My training and coaching business, The Champ Group, provides professional and personal development for community and business organizations. Our delivery methods range from facilitating Mastermind Groups to coaching and training individuals and teams in subjects of leadership, sales, and speaking. I serve on the teaching faculty of the American Management Association and Brandman University. I am also a certified member of the John Maxwell Team. After working in the telecommunications industry for over 20 years, I decided to rewire myself and launch The Champ Group at the reap age of 62, when many of my peers would already be retired. Committed to make a difference, I had finished my fifth consecutive Avon Walk for Cancer back in 2018 in Santa Barbara, where I walked 39.3 miles over two days. Then, in 2018 I decided to stepped it up when I joined the Susan G Komen 60- mile walk in San Diego. Currently, I’m preparing to walk 60 miles again in November 2019. Married for over 35 years, and mother to two adult sons Evan and Alex, I value living my life to the fullest. I embrace the verse Jeremiah 29:11,” … and hastens to each day to pursue blessings, and pass blessings on to others.” Bodacious Black Women
Kimberly Frelow Born and raised in Los Angeles, I am fortunate to have a plethora of relationships that are well-established and well- respected among small businesses and community organizations. For over twenty-five years, I have dedicated my professional and personal endeavors to supporting our youth, inspiring entrepreneurs, and assisting individuals with their pursuit to become financially self-sufficient. I have been described as a tireless trailblazer, due to my advocacy and support of economic growth through small business and job development strategies. I am proud to say I have made a positive impact on many lives, however my most fulfilling role is \"Mom\" to my son Kyle and \"Friend\" to my awesome village of family and friends I have been blessed to walk this journey of life with. Always active and pursuing my purpose, I maintain a small training and consulting firm, as well as recently launched a non-profit organization, “Careers in Sports”, to introduce high school student athletes to the vast careers in the professional sports industry, on and off the field. In addition, I am the Small Business Manager for the Los Angeles Unified School District … the 2nd largest school district in the country, where I’m responsible for facilitating the introduction of small vendors to the billions of dollars in contracts LAUSD awards annually. I live my daily life by three core values, taught to me by my mother as a child, (a) Have faith in God and commit your plans to his purpose; (b) Be loving, kind, and generous to others at all times; and (c) Speak positively, your words create life. I’m the eternal optimist; constant believer that there is a solution to all challenges. With God on my side, all things are possible! Thereby, eliminating any notion that any person or situation cannot evolve and have a positive outcome. Bodacious Black Women
Cheryle Brown Williamson Hello there, I’m Cheryle, entrepreneur, accountant, realtor, and business owner! As a mature woman of 60 years old, full of grace, passion and humility, I make a conscious decision every day to ENJOY LIFE! But not just enjoy life, but to the fullest that I can. We only get to do this thing called “life,” once. Therefore, we must make the best of it. I used to hide all my “extra- ness” because of what people might think. I used to hide behind the thought of, “Who does she think she is?” I stay occupied with my staging business, which is also my passion, and volunteering to help others through the WELOVEU Foundation and SPINOC (Saving People in Need-OC). I also belong to a variety of organizations such as RESA, OCAR, and NAREB, in order to keep my MIND on current things happening now in real estate and staging industries. I love music, in particular jazz concerts. It is my belief that music is one of the keys to my happiness and glow. I love to dance, in particular line dancing, which is my favorite. I used to monitor taking over 10,000 steps per day, now I am able to obtain the same level of workout just line dancing. As we age with grace, one must always remember to KEEP MOVING, since I love to dance, it’s easy. I also have a supportive family to make life fun by taking vacations together, laughing, having fun, and of course, dancing together. As far as my skin care goes, I have had eczema all my life, so moisturizing is a daily routine. MOISTURIZING is important for your skin’s elasticity, along with EATING HEALTHY. What you eat shows on your skin. Lastly, what really counts is PRAYER. I pray continuously, 2-3 times a day, morning, mid-day, and evening. You have to have a connection with GOD, whom is our strength, to be fabulous in your next life as well. Bodacious Black Women
Dimitra L Cook Now that I am at level 50, staying relevant and youthful is achieved through constantly feeding my mindset positive affirmations and surrounding myself with other high achieving women, especially women of color. High octane, high performance! As an author, coach, and transformational speaker, I challenge others to rediscover their authentic self by connecting to their inner soul. Also, in order for me to stay relevant, I take chances and embrace failure. When I fail, I learn something new, therefore enlightening me and steering me in the right direction. Rocking it for me at this level means dancing to the beat and moving to the rhythm of my own drum, with some percussion in the background, wind instruments, and strings guiding me through the pulse of life. My natural salt and pepper hair are the envy of many. I have cellulite and dimples, grey chin hairs and grey eye lashes. I wear it well because my self-confidence is explosive and cannot be contained. Being at level 50 means I champion myself while uplifting other women of color because my success is the result of the burdens and struggles carried on the backs and shoulders of my ancestors. Because of them, I can. Because of me, I am. My philosophy is “Never give in…Never give up,” and my grandmother always said, “I didn’t flock with birds that didn’t mean anything to me.” Bodacious Black Women
Crystal Mitchell My life has been an open canvas, and at each stage, it has changed based on my life experiences. As a bodacious and beautiful black woman, I’ve lived this life getting to know myself, and discovering my purpose and my reason for being on this planet. My personal journey stated in Buffalo, New York, where I was born and raised by an amazing woman who shaped me into the woman I am today. My journey brought me to Southern California when I was 16, and my life changed completed from there on. I graduated from high school, college, and started a career in finance and insurance, as well as began my entrepreneur in Los Angeles. By the time I was 18, I started my first business. At age 24, I launched another business – a matching service for Black Professional, and a business mixer called The Network. Later, when I was 32, I started Mitchell Business Solutions, a consulting business that evolved into becoming a business coach for small business owners specializing in business development, financial and strategic marketing. In my fifties, I became the Co-Director of Recycling Black Dollars, and three years ago launched a live podcast called The BusinessZone with Crystal & Gilbert. I learned to ski at 25, and for the next fifteen years, I skied, raced, and taught children how to ski. As result of skiing, as well as teaching others how to ski, I’ve traveled places and met many life-long friends. In addition to skiing, I love to dance, work out, bike ride, play tennis and I recently added burlesque dancing to my repertoire of skills and talents. I firmly believe that “if you turn your cant’s into cans, and your dreams into plans, everyone would achieve the life that they were destined to live.” Bodacious Black Women
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Dr. Linda Ottey Dr. Linda Ottey… I like the sound of that, having recently completed the requirements for my PhD in Nursing at the University of New Mexico. My academic focus was on health inequities, especially as it relates to men’s health issues. As a medical professional and woman of color, the collaboration and connection with our male counterparts are center to the essence of our race. My dissertation, \"A Qualitative Examination of Prostate Cancer Treatment Decision-Making among Black Men,\" is a result of my passion for keeping Black men healthy. Amongst all ethnic groups, Black men have the lowest survival rate and longevity. As a board-certified nurse practitioner who diagnoses and treats men with prostate cancer and other urological disorders, it is my passion to be part of the solution in addressing this health disparity. I am also an adjunct lecturer at Simmons University and Regis College. I’m blessed to be the mother of my son whose has established his own career as a software engineer. Having been born and raised in the Caribbean Islands, I enjoy traveling, especially to the Virgin Islands whenever I can. In my spare time, I enjoy hiking and being with friends. Bodacious Black Women
Felecia Fisher Shamu Elements of being relevant can mean to be passionate about your career, develop an inspiring home and work environment, exercise and maintain good health, implement fashion trends as they reflect your personality, keep up with technology and trust in God. Luckily, I have a business that I am passionate about, Vitality Furniture. Working in the design and production of furniture has been like being in a candy store and a museum sometimes. Our employees and vendors are also passionate and we are like a family. The production of furniture for hotels, event rentals and special clients can keep me busy and since I am doing what I enjoy, it gives me a positive energy from within. No matter what is going on in my life, I can be inspired by new thoughts, environments and knowledge. Staying relevant is a personal thing. It has to do with how you feel and look. That’s why it is important to surround yourself with people that are nurturing and caring enough to make you feel good “about you being you”. Your environment is a good part of your health. Exercise and regular visits to the doctor will maintain good health because you are going to need it to maintain stamina. I am very thankful that I had some fashion training in my early days. Poise, posture and quality fashion trends are good to remember as one gets older. Your body is your instrument. It is a visual expression of yourself. One of the best things about being a woman of color today is that we can wear our hair the way we want and dress according to our personality. You can be old or young and if you keep it together, you will be relevant! Bodacious Black Women
Denise A Peoples I’m a firm believer I am blessed with is a gift that is never about me, but to fulfill a purpose-filled assignment from God. My company, STEMulate Learning, provides educational services and support to thousands of disenfranchised and disadvantaged children throughout California. As a math consulting firm, we putting the “M” in STEM Math. What makes me rock over 50 is understanding that the true essence of beauty is not how much money I make or where I live. It’s the inner knowing and spirit telling me that all things are possible when you believe. Rising from the ashes like a Phoenix and re-inventing myself at 50 years old after a great downfall is sexy as hell! Finding greater gratification and happiness in helping others achieve their dreams is life changing. When you get more joy from a reciprocated smile, you know you’re moving in the right direction. When you laugh more than you cry, even when the sky is gray, filled with hatred and sorrow, is the start of a recognition of a brighter tomorrow. Being bodacious and courageous by leaning in to help the voiceless brings life to my bones. Knowing that your “Best Life” should be starting after 50 with new goals and aspirations. A youthful glow can only grow by keeping a “childlike” spirit which allows you to connect and learn from the best and brightest bunch of youthful minds. This I will give credit to my two beautiful children. Replace your “Bucket List” and check in, not out! Get your swag back and celebrate your “Zen from within”! Learn to find peace in solitude and your surroundings. Dance as much as you can. “Girl put your records on and play your favorite song, go ahead and let your hair down”. Like a Phoenix, I will continue to rise reminding others that it’s their time to fly. Here’s to many more years of “Mid-Life Magic”. Bodacious Black Women
Andrea D Williams I refuse to accept societal norms that once you’re 50 years old, and a black female a top of that, that somehow your best years are behind you. In my case, I am living life to it’s fullest and making my midlife magic. I attribute my youthful and positive outlook on three (3) factors. First and foremost is my faith and belief in God, for without Jesus Christ I would not be here to rejoice and resolve. Second, I am fortunate to be surrounded by a close knit of family members and friends. Last, I am laser focus on my health. I’ve started to grow some of my own vegetables and I limit the amount of red meat intake. Feeling connected with my spiritual walk, enjoying blissful relationships, and being satisfied with my finances has greatly aided me in being the bodacious women that I’ve grown to be. Bodacious Black Women
Renee Featherstone Who’s afraid of aging? Not me. Life is awesome! I’m discovering that each year brings more adventure, excitement, freedom and joy! Once I stopped waiting for “as soon as…” life opened up wider than I could have imagined. My 50’s opened the door to what has become a very full and bodacious life. Now that I’m 50-through, I’m planning to continue living a healthy, fun and vibrant life, at least until I hit my century mark, which means I’m just barely past middle age. Doing what I love and honoring myself is my secret sauce. My greatest passion is helping others change their lives. I am blessed to be able to do that as an Empowerment Coach and Speaker, and as a Hearing Provider. With coaching, I’m able to help guide them to the door of their emotional freedom. When I help people hear better, I witness their lives and their family’s lives change in minutes. Volunteering in prisons, facilitating a cancer support group, co-hosting a Blog Talk Radio show, and starting a Meet-up group called “Happiness for Single Women Over 40,” that’s the juicy stuff. I rock my health and sanity by hiking, working out, dancing, eating healthy, writing, and meditation. I was just recently certified as a Zumba Instructor, so put on your workout clothes and let’s get it on. I am a self- proclaimed dance-aholic. Dancing is my Vitamin Z for Zest. Life is a dance…don’t stop. Bodacious Black Women
Wanda Wilson First, what keeps me relevant is I give thanks to God for allowing me to be “me”. Secondly, I give praise to my parents for setting a foundation of love and kindness for me and my siblings. They taught us to do unto others as we would have them do unto us. I stay relevant by being in the moment each second of my life, being versatile and willing to experience new people, things and experiences. Getting together with close friends regularly, fellowship with my church family, sharing and receiving little nuggets of wisdom along the way, especially when I'm in the presences of young people keeps be current and connected. Lastly, and importantly, being married 38 years has also kept me grounded. Even with the requirements of engaging with my amazing sons and priceless grandchildren, I constantly make sure I set aside some “me” time to clears my thoughts and my mind. I don’t embrace nor do I accept the myth that at 50 or even 60 years plus it's over. As evident of my own personal story, I am of the same mind set in my 60s as I was in my 40s. The difference of years is the gift of living and experience. From the day we take our first breath, we live a life that has an expiration date. When and where we take our last breath, it is unknown. However, as long as we’re here, let’s enjoy this gift of life and enjoy the ride. I know I will. I have stuff to do!! Bodacious Black Women
Kelly Redmond I'm sooo grateful for the gift of being 50, and aging in reverse! Living in Los Angeles, has that effect on you, but I'm also glad that I don't look like what I've been through. I have learned not to settle and I do know my worth. I've known since I was 12 that I was supposed to be here. It took a while but it was divine timing. I came here on a mission and I am purpose-driven. I am passionate about promoting positive and uplifting content featuring African Americans. My faith is my superpower. I live out my faith by feeding my spirit, soul, mind and body with the fruit of God's word, love, wisdom, peace, healing, forgiveness and blessings. Balance is key, and I focus on my health by having fun in the sun and dancing at least three to five times a week. I love Salsa Dancing, Cardio Latin class, and Chicago Stepping. I get teased often about eating too healthy and eating too many brussel sprouts, but that's okay. I live life to the fullest and moderation is my secret weapon. I've learned to embrace, highlight and accentuate my natural beauty. These are some of the same lessons I taught to my daughter Jada. I choose quality people, relationships and experiences over things. Quality time is my love language. In this age of social media, I focus on being present in the moment. Bodacious Black Women
Natalyn Randle “My cup is overflowing with gifts to share with the world”. This statement is certainly true for me. As a 58-year-old business mogul responsible for creating countless opportunities for businesswomen of color around the globe, I live in a world of abundance with unlimited opportunities. My journey to this point started when I re-launched and reinvented myself after working some 30 years career with AT&T. With a dire quest to live out my purpose, I gave birth to her home improvement company, Ease on Down the Road Home Improvement Referral Service. Similar to business of remodeling and reconstructing homes, I also was doing some personal remodeling and reconstructing of life. I believe the key to ditching the daytime monotony and exploring the idea of full-time entrepreneurship took lots of prayer and meditation. Taking a leap of faith and believing in God to lead and guide me opened up many doors of opportunities. Quiet time, meditation and forgiveness were the key components I needed to move forward on my spiritual journey. As I gained momentum with my business, I also began to follow my passion of serving and connecting people. Thus, I launch Black Business Women Rock (BBWR). Now, some eight years later, BBW hosts thousands of conference attendees, micro-events, an online business directory, as well as proving a digital platform that allows women to connect with key resources needed to take their businesses to the next level. As women of color, we cannot forget how much we can inspire one another. No one understands us like US. Bodacious Black Women
Alisha White Madison Life after 50 has been rich and rewarding as I turn my focus to a deeper level of community service. While I have always given back to my community, my goal at this stage of my life is to create a lasting legacy that impacts and improves the economic stability of people of color and their families. With a renewed purpose, in 2016, I started The Bella Network. The Bella Network focuses on businesswomen and female entrepreneurs, specifically underrepresented women in its efforts to create access to resources that support career and business advancement. I held my inaugural 3-day Bella Network Women’s Leadership Conference in October of 2016 – a smashing success with numerous corporate sponsors from among America’s finest Fortune 100 companies. Since then, the Network has grown to incorporate regular workshops and networking events as well as subscription-based hotline services for business and career emergencies. I believe we must all share our journey -- both successes and failures – openly, in a safe space, if we are going to learn, grow and inspire one another to the greatest success. My vision for the Bella Network includes the desire to build a movement that rejects the notion that women can’t work together, and instead positions our Bella Network members to create partnerships that lead to the greatest global success. I’m a bodacious Black Woman who wants to be known for my strength, drive, commitment, confidence, and talent for captivating and inspiring others to thrive. Bodacious Black Women
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