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["tham gia \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 tr\u00ec nh\u01b0 c\u01b0\u1edbi xin, tang, gi\u1ed7; th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. Anh ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9. + Tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ri\u00eang h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. Gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft trong anh ch\u1ecb em, c\u00f9ng d\u1ea1y ch\u00e1u con hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o, thu\u1eadn h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 vui s\u1ed1ng. C\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m lo m\u1ed3 m\u1ea3 t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd. C\u00f9ng anh ch\u1ecb em chu to\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c h\u1eadu s\u1ef1 khi cha m\u1eb9 qua \u0111\u1eddi. c) \u1ee8ng x\u1eed trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con d\u00e2u, con r\u1ec3 Ng\u00e0y nay, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u1ec1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u1ebf ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng cao c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef trong nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i,... \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong quan gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi con d\u00e2u ho\u1eb7c con r\u1ec3. Quan ni\u1ec7m \u201cD\u00e2u l\u00e0 con, r\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch\u201d \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a hai con. Nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 xem d\u00e2u, r\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nhi\u1ec1u d\u00e2u hi\u1ec1n, r\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed gi\u1eefa hai b\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1edfi ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. 99","Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng - n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, khi\u1ebfn cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh chung kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, l\u00fd do, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t. * M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 con d\u00e2u Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec t\u1eeb trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng con d\u00e2u l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 con trai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00e0nh h\u1ebft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho m\u1eb9. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m d\u00e2u trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t, nay khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec v\u1eabn b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00f3. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch l\u1edbn, n\u00ean s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e0ng d\u00e2u l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con d\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng: - Coi tr\u1ecdng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng: bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, xin \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, ca ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Vui v\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng. 100","- Hi\u1ebfu k\u00ednh v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng: th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb n\u1ed7i lo toan. Lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng v\u00f4 l\u1ec5 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 con v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea3i y\u00eau k\u00ednh m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Gi\u1eef g\u00ecn n\u1ec1n n\u1ebfp gia \u0111\u00ecnh: h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u1ebfp \u0103n, n\u1ebfp \u1edf c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 chu to\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n. C\u00f9ng b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c, xin \u00fd ki\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng chi ti\u00eau kinh t\u1ebf trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. * M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con r\u1ec3 Ng\u00e0y nay, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 con r\u1ec3 \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. V\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u201cr\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch\u201d nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh. - V\u1ec1 ph\u00eda cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3: Cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn l\u00e0m d\u00e2u, l\u00e0m v\u1ee3, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con m\u00ecnh gi\u1eef g\u00ecn \u0111\u1ea1o ngh\u0129a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, th\u1ee7y chung v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c \u201cC\u01a1m ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0nh, canh ch\u1eb3ng ng\u1ecdt\u201d, cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tham gia qu\u00e1 s\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i 101","quy\u1ebft b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi con r\u1ec3, g\u00e2y \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a con. C\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n, tr\u1ecdng t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, kh\u00e1ch quan s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3. - \u1ee8ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a r\u1ec3 hi\u1ec1n: Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng th\u00e0nh ng\u1eef \u201cr\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c, n\u00ean qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u00e0ng r\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf nh\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1eef l\u1ec5 n\u00ean v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. Tuy v\u1eady, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a r\u1ec3 hi\u1ec1n: th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u0103m h\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3; gi\u00fap c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c khi nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c; c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 ch\u0103m lo vi\u1ec7c l\u1ec5 t\u1ebft cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3; tham d\u1ef1 gi\u1ed7 ch\u1ea1p t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean \u00f4ng b\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ee3; th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t c\u00f9ng v\u1ee3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tham gia kinh ph\u00ed ph\u1ee5 gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c h\u1eefu s\u1ef1. Ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng khi cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ee3 s\u1ed1ng chung. d) \u1ee8ng x\u1eed trong quan h\u1ec7 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u Quan h\u1ec7 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 - ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, quan ni\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i t\u1ea1o n\u00ean gi\u1eefa th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi quan h\u1ec7 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u00e1u. Xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e1ch h\u1ed9, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh gia 102","\u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1t nh\u00e2n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf ri\u00eang n\u00ean \u00edt ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1edbi con ch\u00e1u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u1edbp con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a con ch\u00e1u, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u0169ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. V\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd, vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a con ch\u00e1u. Do v\u1eady, con ch\u00e1u c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, h\u1ecfi han, th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ni\u1ec1m vui, s\u1ef1 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp tham gia ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 khi \u1ed1m \u0111au, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean, l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0a ch\u1eaft \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m c\u00e1c c\u1ee5, tham gia t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c l\u1ec5 m\u1eebng th\u1ecd \u00f4ng b\u00e0, bi\u1ebfu ti\u1ec1n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec qua \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con ch\u00e1u \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0103n n\u00ean l\u00e0m ra nh\u1edd ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed5 ti\u00ean, m\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 an l\u00f2ng vui s\u1ed1ng. \u0111) \u1ee8ng x\u1eed trong quan h\u1ec7 anh ch\u1ecb em Gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u01b0a th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f4ng con, c\u00e1c con c\u00f9ng trong l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i. Trong nh\u00e0, tr\u1ebb em ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00f3 tranh c\u00e3i, gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, xung \u0111\u1ed9t, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh phe ph\u00e1i \u0111\u00e1nh nhau, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c cho nhau... Trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 cho c\u00e1c con c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m anh, ph\u1eadn 103","l\u00e0m em. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n, b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn theo vai tr\u00f2, th\u1ee9 b\u1eadc, t\u00f4n ti tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn l\u1eabn nhau. Ng\u00e0y nay, \u0111a s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai con. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f4 th\u1ecb, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, th\u1eddi gian r\u1ed7i th\u00ec ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed nh\u01b0 ti vi, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, giao ti\u1ebfp qua m\u1ea1ng internet,... V\u00ec v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp n\u00e0y. Tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u1ed1t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 anh\/ch\u1ecb\/em. V\u1eady, n\u00ean ch\u0103ng ng\u00e0y nay c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb n\u00ean ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1edf ra c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i giao ti\u1ebfp, \u1ee9ng x\u1eed cho c\u00e1c con trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 anh ch\u1ecb em h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ea1ch li\u00ean l\u1ea1c giao l\u01b0u, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, trao \u0111\u1ed5i kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhau l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ho\u1ea1n n\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i, anh ch\u1ecb em trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft, th\u00e2n \u00e1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0: - H\u00f2a thu\u1eadn: th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u1eabn nhau, n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nhau, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a 104","sinh chia r\u1ebd. G\u00f3p \u00fd, thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, l\u1eafng nghe, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c tinh th\u1ea7n, th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau, kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i l\u1eabn nhau. - T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng: th\u00e2n k\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh, ch\u1ecb, bao dung \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c em, gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, coi tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau gi\u1eefa anh, ch\u1ecb, em kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i (nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean). T\u1ebf nh\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 (khi anh, ch\u1ecb, em th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh). - H\u1ee3p t\u00e1c: c\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, ch\u0103m lo ph\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9, gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c chung c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, kinh nghi\u1ec7m, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 l\u1eabn nhau kh\u00f4ng m\u01b0u l\u1ee3i. - T\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3: h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn nhau trong h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, chia s\u1ebb vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 theo kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng (l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9). L\u00fac h\u1eefu s\u1ef1, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p, tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap, bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng c\u01a1m, s\u1ebb \u00e1o cho nhau. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m chia s\u1ebb n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n, hun \u0111\u00fac \u00fd ch\u00ed l\u1eabn nhau. II- B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT X\u00c2Y D\u1ef0NG T\u1ed4 \u1ea4M H\u1ea0NH PH\u00daC \u0110\u00f4i khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u lo toan khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. 105","N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 em b\u00e9 th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1edb b\u00e9 d\u00f9 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i hay nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 sau n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef h\u00f2a kh\u00ed m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1edbi c\u00f3 em b\u00e9. Theo \u0111\u00f3, khi sinh con \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t sinh m\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed l\u00fd. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng t\u0103ng cao, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 ngay khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cn\u1ed5i c\u01a1n tam b\u00e0nh\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn, h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh xa kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m nghe c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Sau khi sinh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t s\u1ee9c, lo l\u1eafng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen sinh ho\u1ea1t, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, s\u1edf th\u00edch... d\u1ec5 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng m\u1eb9 b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 em b\u00e9 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00f2ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ee1 ng\u1ee1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong vai tr\u00f2 m\u1edbi. C\u00f2n v\u1edbi b\u00e9 th\u1ee9 hai th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n lo l\u1eafng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 anh, ch\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng em m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf r\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 106","y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng em h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft sau s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 lu\u00f4n \u1edf ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: - D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n. Bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u00e3y gi\u1eef th\u00f3i quen d\u00f9ng b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, chia s\u1ebb c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, khi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho b\u00e9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u00e9 r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi b\u00e9. - Xem xem v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o; \u0111\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. H\u00e3y h\u1ecfi ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3 xem c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m. - Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ng\u1ee7 \u1edf c\u00e1c gi\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t trong hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n quen d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen. - H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 hai b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i. - Thay nhau ch\u0103m s\u00f3c em b\u00e9, th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 tr\u00f4ng ch\u1eebng c\u00e1c con. Vi\u1ec7c san s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. 107","III- L\u00c0M TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O \u0110\u1ec2 TR\u00c1NH M\u00c2U THU\u1eaaN TRONG H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N? V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac xung \u0111\u1ed9t, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Tuy nhi\u00ean sau nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1ea5y, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n? 1. H\u00e3y tranh lu\u1eadn, \u0111\u1eebng tranh c\u00e3i Tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi nhau l\u1eafng nghe, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f9ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ee9 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tranh c\u00e3i, b\u1edbi m\u00f3c nhau. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00ean h\u00e3y b\u00e0y t\u1ecf khi tranh lu\u1eadn. Khi cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng n\u00ean d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, \u0111i ra ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed. Khi c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh tr\u1eadn kh\u1ea9u chi\u1ebfn khi nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1eebng cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3i k\u1ebft. 2. Im l\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u00e0ng Trong khi tranh lu\u1eadn c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng im 108","l\u1eb7ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tranh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec9nh \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00ec n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac tranh lu\u1eadn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m. Nhi\u1ec1u khi s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec m\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y cho v\u1ee3, ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn cho m\u00ecnh bu\u1ed3n c\u0169ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa. 3. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng H\u00e3y nh\u1edb b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y ch\u1ed3ng, v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c. Ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. H\u00e3y c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 4. Kh\u00f4ng tranh c\u00e3i l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec1 Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 109","b\u1ecb chuy\u1ec3n sang ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c. Khi tranh lu\u1eadn h\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan th\u00f4i, \u0111\u1eebng l\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u1edbi n\u1ea3y sinh. 5. Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm c\u1ea3m x\u00fac Nhi\u1ec1u khi vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i ng\u1ea7n hay lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9. H\u00e3y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 6. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac sai l\u1ea7m L\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi tranh lu\u1eadn hay b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, \u00edt khi ch\u00fang ta cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh sai m\u00e0 hay \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1edbi d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i? H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi m\u00ecnh m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i. 110","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng V NGH\u1ec6 THU\u1eacT \u1ee8NG X\u1eec N\u01a0I C\u00d4NG S\u1ede I- M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 N\u1ed8I DUNG V\u1ec0 V\u0102N H\u00d3A \u1ee8NG X\u1eec N\u01a0I C\u00d4NG S\u1ede V\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh v\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 quy \u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u0103n h\u00f3a n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi th\u00e0nh v\u0103n b\u1ea3n ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a Nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 quan, \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb h\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m. 1. Ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi L\u1eddi ch\u00e0o l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o. V\u1eady m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt c\u00e1n b\u1ed9, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf. V\u1eady n\u00ean trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd: 111","- Khi g\u1eb7p nhau th\u00ec nam ch\u00e0o n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi ch\u00e0o c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean, tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o gi\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0o ch\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf trong ph\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc. - Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng g\u1eb7p nhau \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e0o nhau. Ho\u1eb7c sau ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5, sau chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c xa v\u1ec1, k\u00e8m theo l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft tay nhau, th\u0103m h\u1ecfi nhau. - G\u1eb7p nhau \u1edf h\u00e0nh lang c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi nhau, thay v\u00ec c\u00fai m\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c nh\u00ecn \u0111i ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c. C\u00e2u ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u00f4n h\u00ecnh, mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb: \u201cAnh kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?\u201d; \u201c\u0110i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1ed9i th\u1ebf, anh?\u201d; \u201cEm v\u1eadn chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o n\u00e0y h\u1ee3p l\u1eafm\u201d; \u201cTh\u1eddi ti\u1ebft h\u00f4m nay n\u00f3ng qu\u00e1\u201d... - N\u1ebfu trong c\u01a1 quan c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eb1m g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, xua tan s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t. - Khi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c xoay h\u1eb3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i, nh\u00ecn th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o. Khi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i c\u00f9ng kh\u00e1ch th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e0o c\u1ea3 th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch. Khi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111i ra nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady ch\u00e0o. - K\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng ph\u00f2ng n\u00ean ch\u00e0o nhau ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 xe. K\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00e0o th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng hay \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi ch\u00fac \u201cCh\u00fac ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9 vui v\u1ebb\u201d. 112","Th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00e0o nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean tr\u00e1nh m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e0o th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ch\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecd th\u00ec h\u1ecd coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i k\u1ef5 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean. D\u00f9 th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y l\u1eddi ch\u00e0o c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean th\u00ec \u00f4ng ta v\u1eabn b\u1ecb nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean lan truy\u1ec1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi. Th\u0103m h\u1ecfi c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi Th\u0103m h\u1ecfi, ch\u00fac t\u1ee5ng c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1 tuy nhi\u00ean th\u0103m h\u1ecfi c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o c\u0169ng quan t\u00e2m ch\u00fa \u00fd. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u0103m h\u1ecfi, c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi, l\u1eddi th\u0103m h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen. V\u1eady n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00ean th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi. Khi th\u0103m h\u1ecfi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00ean nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103m h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u00e2m mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng th\u00ec t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3: \u201cAnh t\u00ean l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Qu\u00ea \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?\u201d th\u00ec nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean s\u1ebd coi th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. 113","Ch\u00e0o kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c Khi ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch (l\u00e0 c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean, c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c ngang c\u1ea5p) ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1ch (nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n) \u0111\u1ebfn li\u00ean h\u1ec7 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i nh\u01b0: ch\u00e0o ch\u00fa, ch\u00e0o b\u00e1c, ch\u00e0o anh, ch\u00e0o ch\u1ecb... N\u1ebfu \u0111ang b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f4ng th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00e0o chung ho\u1eb7c ch\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m; sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0: Th\u01b0a ch\u00fa (b\u00e1c, c\u00f4, anh...) \u0111\u1ebfn li\u00ean h\u1ec7 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec? C\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec?... N\u1ebfu trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch ng\u1ed3i gh\u1ebf, r\u00f3t n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eddi, r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cho kh\u00e1ch. B\u1eaft tay nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o B\u1eaft tay nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ch\u00e0o nhau th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n. T\u1ee5c b\u1eaft tay \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb kh\u00e1 l\u00e2u, v\u1eady m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn nay, nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1n b\u1ed9, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a quen v\u1edbi ph\u00e9p x\u00e3 giao n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u00eca tay ra. N\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00eca tay th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean ch\u00e0o r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 h\u01a1i c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00ednh c\u1ea9n ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 b\u1eaft tay th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00eca tay ra, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean b\u1eaft tay ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eef tay ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean gi\u1eef tay \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadt tay l\u00e2u v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. Khi b\u1eaft tay n\u00ean d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00f4 l\u1ec5, v\u1ed3 v\u1eadp, s\u1ed7 s\u00e0ng. M\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng gi\u00e1 l\u1ea1nh khi 114","b\u1eaft tay ph\u1ea3i th\u00e1o g\u0103ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n th\u00e1o g\u0103ng khi b\u1eaft tay nam gi\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fat tay trong t\u00fai \u00e1o, t\u00fai qu\u1ea7n c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t tay \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a quen th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft tay kh\u00e1ch, n\u00ean ch\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m quen r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi b\u1eaft tay. Tay \u0111ang \u01b0\u1edbt, \u0111ang b\u1ea9n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00eca ra nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i, tay \u0111ang b\u1ea9n\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb cao h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. C\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1i c\u00fai b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb cao h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00fam n\u00fam, cong g\u1eadp ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng gi\u01a1 tay cho m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft, ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c, c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb cao h\u01a1n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u1ecf r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh th\u00ec n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a c\u1ea3 hai tay ra \u0111\u00f3n l\u1ea5y tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1eaft tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd ch\u00e9o tay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi hai tay ph\u1ea3i, tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft tay hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eeba b\u1eaft tay v\u1eeba h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, ho\u1eb7c tay kia \u0111\u00fat t\u00fai qu\u1ea7n. Khi b\u1eaft tay kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t sang h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c cao h\u01a1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ed7 vai c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n. Ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean xoa \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. N\u00ean th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi. 115","Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u1ea3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00e0 nam gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft tay n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc sau, nam n\u1eef. 2. Trang ph\u1ee5c Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, mi\u1ebfng c\u01a1m manh \u00e1o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec qu\u00e1 xa x\u1ec9. Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0103n m\u1eb7c khi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng c\u0169ng d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng thi\u1ebfu \u00fd th\u1ee9c trong \u0103n m\u1eb7c, nh\u1eefng vi ph\u1ea1m v\u1ec1 thu\u1ea7n phong m\u1ef9 t\u1ee5c trong trang ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn thanh ni\u00ean c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o. Nhi\u1ec1u lo\u1ea1i trang ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 may m\u1eb7c, thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf th\u1eddi trang v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn qu\u00e1 h\u1edf hang, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi phong t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 v\u00f3c d\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00c1 \u0110\u00f4ng. Hi\u1ec7n \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong khu v\u1ef1c, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 t\u00e1c phong c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p h\u00f3a, hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i h\u00f3a. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0m n\u00ean b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 v\u0103n minh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p. H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef hay do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn t\u1ed1i m\u1eaft t\u1ed1i m\u0169i, kh\u00f4ng 116","c\u00f2n th\u1eddi gian ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p. \u1ea4n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ban \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qua trang ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch trang \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp, v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p n\u1ebfu b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea1n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0u n\u00e1t hay qu\u00e1 s\u1eb7c s\u1ee1. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c v\u1edbi b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i b\u00ea b\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t hay \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean th\u00ec qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean phong c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o tuy kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c trang ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7n nay, ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a trang b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf cho c\u00e1n b\u1ed9, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf nh\u01b0 sau: - Kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n m\u00e0u s\u1eafc hoa h\u00f2e s\u1eb7c s\u1ee1, may c\u1ea7u k\u1ef3, m\u00e0u qu\u00e1 ch\u00f3i m\u1eaft. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng s\u1edf v\u1edbi b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 nh\u00e0u n\u00e1t. - Kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o qu\u00e1 ch\u1eadt, v\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 m\u1ecfng, qu\u00e1 \u00f4m s\u00e1t v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi (nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi) nh\u01b0: \u00e1o pull, qu\u1ea7n jean, v\u00e1y qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn, \u00e1o kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed5 \u00e1o qu\u00e1 r\u1ed9ng... - N\u00ean d\u00f9ng s\u01a1 mi, qu\u1ea7n \u00e2u hay coml\u00ea, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc trang nh\u00e3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Khi d\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i trang tr\u1ecdng n\u1eef n\u00ean m\u1eb7c \u00e1o d\u00e0i hay b\u1ed9 v\u00e9tton, nam n\u00ean th\u1eaft c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb7c v\u00e9tton th\u00eam ph\u1ea7n l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 h\u01a1n. 117","3. Ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cNg\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. Ng\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i, ki\u1ec3u n\u00f3i, cung c\u00e1ch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho th\u1ea5y ch\u00ednh v\u0103n h\u00f3a h\u00e0nh vi trong giao ti\u1ebfp s\u1ebd n\u00f3i l\u00ean r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 thanh l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb nh\u01b0 c\u01a1m \u0103n \u00e1o m\u1eb7c h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0m sao cho \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 nghi l\u1ec5 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1n b\u1ed9, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c n\u00f3i t\u1ee5c, ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1, ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i trong l\u1eddi \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 trong l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c. Khi \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng kinh t\u1ebf tri th\u1ee9c th\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i theo ki\u1ec3u \u201cx\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111en\u201d hay nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd th\u00f4 t\u1ee5c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u0103n minh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hay. \u00d4ng cha ta th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y \u201cTi\u00ean h\u1ecdc l\u1ec5, h\u1eadu h\u1ecdc v\u0103n\u201d, cho th\u1ea5y l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nghi th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng mang s\u1eafc th\u00e1i v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c. Trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u01b0a, l\u1ec5 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t nghi th\u1ee9c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh x\u01b0a chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 quy t\u1eafc. Con 118","c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt tu\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng nghi l\u1ec5 qu\u00e1 kh\u1eaft khe ki\u1ec3u phong ki\u1ebfn. L\u1edbp tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, t\u1ef1 do ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 do b\u1eeba b\u00e3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ec1 th\u00f3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng trong giao ti\u1ebfp, \u1ee9ng x\u1eed nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, xin l\u1ed7i hay nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o k\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi trong c\u00f4ng s\u1edf. C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi t\u00ednh h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc: s\u1ef1 h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh, t\u00ednh h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f9a vui. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a g\u00e2y c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u201cn\u00f3i kh\u00e1y\u201d h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a b\u1ee1n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c c\u1ea5p, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ednh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cao tu\u1ed5i, d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, v.v. kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf. 4. Giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf Theo kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t th\u00ec \u0111a ph\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u201cqu\u00ean\u201d vi\u1ec7c ch\u00e0o, h\u1ecfi, xin l\u1ed7i, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n khi 119","giao ti\u1ebfp qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu ch\u1ee7 ng\u1eef nh\u01b0 \u201cai \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d, \u201cc\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec\u201d, \u201cg\u1eb7p ai\u201d... m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u201cAl\u00f4\u201d th\u1eadt to, n\u00f3i oang oang l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u00e0 xung quanh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb khi giao ti\u1ebfp qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi c\u00e2u: \u201cAl\u00f4, ph\u00f2ng (t\u00ean \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb), (ho\u1eb7c t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi) xin nghe. Xin l\u1ed7i, \u00f4ng (b\u00e0) mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p ai \u1ea1?\u201d; khi g\u1ecdi \u0111i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1ch m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i (t\u00ean \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p) kh\u00f4ng?\u201d; n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u1ecdi ho\u1eb7c ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi nh\u1ea7m th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi nh\u1ea7m, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n!...\u201d. Hay \u201cXin l\u1ed7i, anh (ch\u1ecb) \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi nh\u1ea7m!\u201d. Khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u00e2m v\u1ef1c gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 nghe, tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i to \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. K\u1ebft th\u00fac bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00ean ch\u00e0o, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0: \u201cXin c\u1ea3m \u01a1n. Ch\u00fac \u00f4ng (b\u00e0) kh\u1ecfe. H\u1eb9n g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i!\u201d hay \u201cCh\u00e0o (\u00f4ng, b\u00e0, c\u00f4, ch\u00fa!)...\u201d v\u00e0 g\u00e1c m\u00e1y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng (tr\u00e1nh d\u1eadp m\u00e1y m\u1ea1nh l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00e2y kia l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 l\u1ec5 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1). M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t t\u1eed t\u1ebf s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t cho ch\u00fang ta trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. 120","Khi giao ti\u1ebfp, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd: - X\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 n\u1ed9i dung g\u00ec, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee7 t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 cho c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe. - \u0110i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n cho th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, n\u00f3i ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n m\u1eadt h\u01a1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f9y \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh cho th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. - H\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang b\u1edfi n\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c xung quanh. - Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi cho h\u1ecd sau khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n sai l\u1ea7m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tin b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. - Cu\u1ed1i bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i; nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. - \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang khi \u0111ang d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 121","g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u1ea5p, h\u00e3y y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u1eef m\u00e1y \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00f3. * M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di d\u1ed9ng \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf: - T\u1eaft \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 rung trong khi d\u1ef1 h\u1ecdp; \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp quan tr\u1ecdng; - Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5m m\u00e1y ch\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong l\u00fac h\u1ecdp l\u00e0m cho kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghi\u00eam t\u00fac; - Khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec7n g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea3i xin ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tr\u00ec ra ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi kh\u00e9o kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp; - H\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. 5. Phong c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c T\u00e1c phong c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cN\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00e2n m\u1edbi nh\u1ea3y\u201d. C\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. Nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ngay \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean xao nh\u00e3ng. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian. H\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u00e1m gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. T\u00e1m gi\u1edd tuy d\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c. V\u00ec n\u1ebfu khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t m\u1edbi cu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m th\u00ec m\u1ecdi k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch 122","trong c\u01a1 quan, \u0111\u01a1n v\u1ecb b\u1ecb ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5 b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean g\u00e2y ra. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u00eau ch\u00ed quan tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean phong c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, tham d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc 5-10 ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng s\u1edf \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111i l\u00e0m tr\u1ec5 gi\u1edd. V\u00ec th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 b\u1ecf qua ho\u1eb7c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng giao vi\u1ec7c cho b\u1ea1n, khi ngay \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c t\u1edbi c\u01a1 quan l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m (tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng cho ph\u00e9p khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3). H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c: V\u00ec qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p so v\u1edbi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. * M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c: - Ra kh\u1ecfi gi\u01b0\u1eddng ngay khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady c\u0169ng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 20 \u0111\u1ebfn 50 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. V\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng s\u1edbm, tinh th\u1ea7n minh m\u1eabn hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c s\u1ebd cao. - L\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. - Li\u1ec7t k\u00ea nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m theo danh m\u1ee5c \u01b0u ti\u00ean. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec ghi t\u1eebng nh\u00f3m 123","c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Th\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u00f3m A l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00f3m B v\u00e0 C (c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng b\u00fat m\u00e0u \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u). - Kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp lo\u1ea1i kh\u00e1ch ti\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 gh\u00e9 \u0111\u1ebfn. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen lu\u00f4n m\u1edf c\u1eeda v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng khi \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, tuy h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m n\u1edf v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch v\u00e3ng lai nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p. H\u00e3y xin l\u1ed7i kh\u00e1ch v\u00ec th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn, ho\u1eb7c h\u1eb9n kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n. - H\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i: tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n h\u00e3y ghi c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i, ghi r\u00f5 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. - \u0110\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian l\u00fac ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang theo th\u01b0 t\u1eeb, t\u01b0 li\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u00ean h\u1eb9n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac. - C\u1ea7n t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, ch\u1ee3p m\u1eaft bu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0a s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u. T\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c minh m\u1eabn. Th\u1edf s\u00e2u \u00edt ph\u00fat c\u0169ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng qu\u00e1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. * M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: Trong giao ti\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n th\u00ec tr\u00ecnh gi\u1ea5y gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. K\u00e8m theo gi\u1ea5y gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a th\u00eam danh thi\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi danh thi\u1ebfp ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. 124","Trong \u0111o\u00e0n c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c g\u1ed3m nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc. N\u1ebfu \u0111o\u00e0n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00f4ng, trong t\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9ng, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u00e0i ba y\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n. Trong t\u01b0 th\u1ebf ng\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ed3i g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ed3i xa b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1edbc. L\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng, ti\u1ec1n ch\u1ee7 h\u1eadu kh\u00e1ch, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3n ti\u1ebfp, th\u00ec ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n kh\u00e1ch c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111o\u00e0n kh\u00e1ch cho ch\u1ee7. \u0110\u1eebng v\u00ec hai tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111o\u00e0n \u0111\u00e3 quen nhau m\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua ph\u1ea7n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai \u0111o\u00e0n v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf kh\u00f3 x\u1eed. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, d\u1eabu quen nhau th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a hai \u0111o\u00e0n. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p v\u1eabn nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 h\u00f4m qua c\u00f2n \u1edf ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, h\u00f4m nay d\u1ef1 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf c\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c. * C\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng: C\u00e1ch g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp, m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u, lo \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea9m chu \u0111\u00e1o nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y chu \u0111\u00e1o. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb th\u00ec b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i n\u00f3i ng\u1eabu h\u1ee9ng, l\u00fang t\u00fang. Trong c\u00e1c 125","bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng r\u00f5 ai n\u00f3i, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, n\u00f3i khi n\u00e0o. Khi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u, ph\u1ea3i gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1ch tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u1ee7 sau, c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi sau. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 cao ni\u00ean, \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u01b0u. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u theo nh\u00f3m c\u01a1 quan, nh\u00f3m \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u, sao cho c\u01a1 quan n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ec3u n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u... Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd, t\u00ean, ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 quan kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 hai b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, th\u00ec nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u00edt quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3i ph\u1ea7n m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u, gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u, c\u00f2n y\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i sau, k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, n\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch chi ti\u1ebft. II- C\u00c1CH \u1ee8NG X\u1eec N\u01a0I C\u00d4NG S\u1ede H\u00f2a h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c su\u00f4n s\u1ebb v\u00e0 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng minh tin c\u1eady. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean sau: 1. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb s\u1ebfp la m\u1eafng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y oan \u1ee9c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e3y im l\u1eb7ng b\u1edfi n\u1ebfu ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c 126","t\u1ee9c, h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c trong gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p h\u01a1n. Khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u00edt h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh b\u1edbt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng b\u1edbt x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n. Trong c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o sao cho ch\u00fang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. 2. C\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a ra cam k\u1ebft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft h\u00e3y b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f3. Khi th\u1ea5t h\u1ee9a, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin. \u0110\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp coi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef ch\u1eef t\u00edn. 3. \u0110\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. H\u00e3y h\u1ebft l\u1eddi ca ng\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea1nh tranh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, mang 127","t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ecf v\u1ebb h\u1eb1n h\u1ecdc. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00f4ng ty. 4. Quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi H\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vui v\u1ebb, h\u00e3y vui c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd v\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, \u0111au bu\u1ed3n, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. C\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u00e3 nh\u1eb7n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb anh b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u1edbi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. 5. Lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb, l\u1ea1c quan Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n l\u1ea1c quan, vui v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u201cmi\u1ec5n nhi\u1ec5m\u201d v\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi m\u00e0 c\u00f2n truy\u1ec1n cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u00edch th\u00fa khi \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1eefng l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 \u201cv\u00e1c\u201d b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u1ee7 r\u0169 t\u1edbi c\u01a1 quan. 6. C\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay s\u1ebfp. H\u00e3y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tranh c\u00e3i. B\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a nhau. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng 128","th\u00edch, h\u00e3y c\u01b0 x\u1eed th\u1eadt kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o sao cho th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a. 7. C\u1ea9n th\u1eadn khi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u ho\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ee3i \u00fd. H\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng m\u00ecnh l\u00ean l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nhu\u1ec7 kh\u00ed l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c chung c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea5t gi\u1ecdng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. 8. Ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ec5u c\u1ee3t v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb ng\u1eef trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o l\u00e0 l\u1eddi l\u1ebd cay \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t. H\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. 9. Kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u00e1c \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n H\u00e3y nh\u1edb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u, b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u00e1c \u00fd v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 129","nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t b\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. 10. Kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n H\u00e3y th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. S\u1ed1t s\u1eafng v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0 c\u01b0\u1edbp l\u1ea5y danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. Lo l\u1eafng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00eam c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh, vui s\u01b0\u1edbng khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc. III- NGH\u1ec6 THU\u1eacT \u1ee8NG X\u1eec V\u1edaI C\u1ea4P TR\u00caN Khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 ra sao? Ch\u00edn m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 1. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng: X\u1eed l\u00fd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng minh N\u1ebfu c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n, v\u1ec1 s\u1edbm, giao vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi; n\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 sai s\u00f3t, m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m do b\u1ea1n g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu. L\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00ean b\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp? 130","B\u00e1o c\u00e1o c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng x\u1ea5u. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng khai r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p sau: khi s\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1edf v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, m\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. 2. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m: D\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u1ec1m m\u1ecfng V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng, t\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n minh, d\u00f9ng th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c giao vi\u1ec7c ri\u00eang, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u1ea7n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ngo\u00e0i c\u01a1 quan, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: khi s\u1ebfp y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft b\u00e1o c\u00e1o cho con g\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp giao vi\u1ec7c khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft gi\u1edd l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng l\u00fd do: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t. N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u1edd b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y vi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp t\u1ef1 \u00fd r\u00fat lui. 3. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng: H\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch an \u1ee7i N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ra v\u1ec1 h\u1ebft; s\u1ebfp c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh; khi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch an \u1ee7i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh h\u1ecfi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh ri\u00eang th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u1eb7p sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn. 131","Ngay c\u1ea3 khi s\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i th\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1ch tr\u00e0 n\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. N\u1ebfu th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap s\u1ebfp gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng. H\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea3y ra trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho s\u1ebfp th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. 4. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp gia tr\u01b0\u1edfng: Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i M\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ra uy v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd b\u1ecb thu ph\u1ee5c. V\u1edbi s\u1ebfp c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi s\u1ebfp d\u00f9ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i to t\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i suy x\u00e9t k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 \u00fd. 5. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp th\u00edch theo \u0111u\u1ed5i n\u1eef nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean: T\u00ecm l\u00fd do t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p Khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nam c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i n\u1eef nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn xin ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c hay t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n 132","ph\u00e1p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u00ean s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Do v\u1eady, th\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o \u201cc\u00e1i b\u1eaby\u201d hay kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eafc t\u1ed9i v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp m\u1eddi h\u1eb9n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n ng\u1eafn, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u00e3y l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 s\u1ebfp, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. 6. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp thay \u0111\u1ed5i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh, kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u1eafm b\u1eaft khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 do s\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ghi nh\u1edb m\u1ed7i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebfp giao, \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. 7. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp \u0111a nghi: N\u1ed9p b\u00e1o c\u00e1o h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp lu\u00f4n nghi ng\u1edd s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, h\u00e3y n\u1ed9p b\u00e1o c\u00e1o cho s\u1ebfp sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m 133","vi\u1ec7c, cho bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd t\u1eeb s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u01a1n. 8. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t: Tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t ch\u00ednh di\u1ec7n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, m\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p, n\u00f3ng t\u00ednh ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean d\u00f9ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd? Cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi s\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eafm gi\u1eef ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00f4ng ty, c\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ch\u00fa \u00fd, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00edch, tr\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ea1m m\u1eb7t tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1eef kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. 9. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp n\u00f3ng t\u00ednh: N\u00ean gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh S\u1ebfp c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1, c\u1ea5p tr\u00ean ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh hay v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. L\u00fac n\u00e0y s\u1ebfp r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean 134","gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. \u0110\u1ee3i s\u1ebfp l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. R\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00e3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n s\u1ebfp s\u1ebd ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n. IV- \u1ee8NG X\u1eec V\u1edaI M\u1ed8T S\u1ed0 T\u00ccNH HU\u1ed0NG KHI \u0110I XIN VI\u1ec6C 1. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t trong ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e3 qua m\u1ecdi v\u00f2ng thi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y g\u1eedi e-mail cho nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng v\u1edbi l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 n\u00eau m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sau, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u1edf nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed kh\u00e1c trong c\u00f4ng ty. 2. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u00f4ng ty S\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 s\u1eafp 135","tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e2n nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng ty, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y t\u1eeb sau khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u00edch... L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, trong th\u01b0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u1ea3m \u01a1n nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e3 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o. 3. Qu\u00ean t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n B\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp xin danh thi\u1ebfp, s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 li\u00ean h\u1ec7. B\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u01b0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb ra t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng ty h\u1ecfi th\u0103m th\u00f4ng tin v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1edd h\u1ecd cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin li\u00ean l\u1ea1c cho b\u1ea1n. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb t\u00ean m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 trong bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 ra \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng nhanh v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 h\u01a1n. 4. M\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng hi\u1ebfm khi x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. \u0110\u00f4i khi, \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng 136","t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 x\u1eed khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3... to ti\u1ebfng. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 n\u00ean gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00ednh th\u1ee9c v\u00e0o n\u1ed9i dung ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng may x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 t\u1ecf r\u00f5 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. Trong th\u01b0 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n sau khi bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n k\u1ebft th\u00fac, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea1t sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho c\u00f4ng ty. V- NH\u1eeeNG L\u1edcI N\u00d3I \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C L\u00d2NG N\u01a0I C\u00d4NG S\u1ede Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ti\u1ebfp thu gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Khi truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin x\u1ea5u: \u201c- C\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ecf ra v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 x\u00f4ng v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng s\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1o tin x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 r\u1ee7i ro c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, 137","c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp nghi ng\u1edd kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1eadt b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng chi\u1ebfn tuy\u1ebfn. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Khi c\u00f4ng ty thay \u0111\u1ed5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o: \u201c- T\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m\/x\u1eed l\u00fd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c\u201d. H\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 do d\u1ef1, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 thi\u1ebfu d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho s\u1ebfp. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft: \u201c- Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n!\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb s\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nhanh nh\u1ea1y h\u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi; so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i v\u00e0 l\u1ea7m l\u00ec th\u00ec s\u1ef1 n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft kh\u00e1c khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p: \u201c- B\u00e1o c\u00e1o n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng!\u201d. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f3 \u01b0u th\u1ebf v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5. Ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh quan t\u00e2m 138","\u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eddi gian. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: T\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft r\u00f5: \u201c- H\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129, tr\u01b0\u1edbc... r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi anh (ch\u1ecb)\u201d. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy c\u01a1 m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm t\u00f2i v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 sung k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi h\u1ea1n. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: L\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng s\u1ebfp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang m\u1ee9c: \u201c- T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y!\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebfp l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp. H\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp ph\u1ea3i suy ng\u1eabm. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 thu ho\u1ea1ch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, s\u1ebfp s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn s\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n: \u201c- Do ph\u00fat nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, may m\u1eafn l\u00e0...!\u201d. Ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh, tuy nhi\u00ean th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, 139","m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh g\u00e2y ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i quan tr\u1ecdng. - T\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng: Khi b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ti\u1ebfp thu: \u201c- C\u1ea3m \u01a1n s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 k\u1ef9 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb\u201d. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 khi\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5 t\u00e2m. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i, s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ti\u1ebfp thu gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. VI- NH\u1eeeNG B\u00cd QUY\u1ebeT TH\u00c0NH C\u00d4NG TRONG C\u00d4NG VI\u1ec6C - H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac. Ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng quan s\u00e1t, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a n\u1eafm r\u00f5 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f2n do d\u1ef1. - T\u00e1c phong chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p. Phong th\u00e1i \u0111\u0129nh \u0111\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c cao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. - C\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, may m\u1eafn s\u1ebd m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng lo r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. L\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1eadn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. 140","- N\u1eafm b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi m\u1ecdi th\u00f4ng tin. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tin l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0 ch\u1ee9ng kho\u00e1n, nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea5t, qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o, kinh doanh... b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ecdc b\u00e1o, truy c\u1eadp internet, xem th\u1eddi s\u1ef1... l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft th\u00f4ng tin k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi. - D\u1ef1 tr\u00f9 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi d\u00e2n kinh doanh, chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay \u201cl\u00ean voi\u201d, ng\u00e0y mai \u201cxu\u1ed1ng ch\u00f3\u201d l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u1eady n\u00ean c\u1ea7n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p khi \u201c\u0111\u1ee5ng chuy\u1ec7n\u201d trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. - L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e1i ngh\u1ec1 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 k\u00e9m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. - Tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, t\u1ef1 tin. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi, \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t cho k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng \u201cgi\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u n\u00e0o xoay chi\u1ec1u \u1ea5y\u201d hay \u201cl\u1eefng l\u1edd n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f4i\u201d. Th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao th\u1eadt c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u201cghi \u0111i\u1ec3m\u201d r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o c\u01a1 quan. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p, ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9, h\u1ecd c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n xem th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. 141","- T\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y (hay m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng): B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec? G\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec, m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m ra sao? Kinh nghi\u1ec7m r\u00fat ra l\u00e0 g\u00ec? VII- NGH\u1ec6 THU\u1eacT \u1ee8NG X\u1eec KHI M\u1eaeC L\u1ed6I \u1ede C\u00d4NG S\u1ede T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i. Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng khi b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3: 1. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u00ecnh m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi s\u1ebfp ch\u1ec9 ra l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea1n. Tr\u1eeb khi v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p s\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n s\u1ebfp \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c), b\u1ea1n n\u00ean n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng \u1edf trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i g\u1eedi e-mail \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb s\u1ebfp nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 b\u00e1o tin cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n v\u00ec sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1edbi 142","nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. 2. Kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi bi\u1ec7n minh cho sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. \u201cT\u00f4i m\u1ec7t\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh A, ch\u1ecb B th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o mu\u1ed9n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ki\u1ec3m tra k\u1ef9\u201d, \u201cAnh A, ch\u1ecb B kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eeda nh\u1eefng con s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3\u201d. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 k\u00e9m tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00ec sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n th\u00eam nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1o tin cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. Nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i. Khi \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. 3. V\u1ea1ch k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 th\u00eam l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa T\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan 143","tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 th\u00eam l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. 4. Nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c sai l\u1ea7m N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm, v\u1ec1 mu\u1ed9n, ho\u1eb7c g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho c\u00e1c b\u00ean li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ec3 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. 5. Ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c C\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u201cAi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m\u201d lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1eebng vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01a1n xin th\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c tr\u1eeb phi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ra cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c. H\u00e3y gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 xem sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c sau n\u00e0y. VIII- NH\u1eeeNG L\u1ea6M T\u01af\u1edeNG TRONG NGH\u1ec6 THU\u1eacT \u1ee8NG X\u1eec V\u1edaI S\u1ebeP C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c \u1edf c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, quan ni\u1ec7m trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nu\u00f4i gi\u1ea5c m\u1ed9ng th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch 144","t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc m\u1edbi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u201cc\u1eadp nh\u1eadt\u201d: - L\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng 1: Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi s\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m: N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 5 ph\u00fat, s\u1ebfp s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1, ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 linh ho\u1ea1t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb xa v\u1edbi c\u00e1c thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7... b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebfp quan t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o h\u01a1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty bao nhi\u00eau l\u00e2u. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf nh\u00e0 hay tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi e-mail v\u00e0 tin nh\u1eafn nhanh ch\u00f3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp bi\u1ebft th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh th\u00eam th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. - L\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng 2: H\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m: B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n cho s\u1ebfp tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra tin t\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng vui. Ng\u00e0y nay, nh\u1edd ti\u1ec7n \u00edch e-mail v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng, vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng tin c\u0169ng nhanh h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp v\u1ec1 tin x\u1ea5u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 m\u00f9 m\u1edd ho\u1eb7c ngu ng\u1ed1c, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra tin x\u1ea5u trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh. - L\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng 3: \u0110\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ebfp g\u1ea7n g\u0169i h\u01a1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u0169 l\u00e0: 145","S\u1ebfp s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n tinh th\u1ea7n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u01b0a th\u00edch th\u00ec s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y. Khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u s\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean nh\u1eadp cu\u1ed9c. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebfp \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t. Khi m\u1ed9t \u201cc\u00e1nh h\u1ea9u\u201d n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp (lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf) b\u00e1o c\u00e1o l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u00f4ng (b\u00e0) ta, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng minh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. - L\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng 4: Ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebfp n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u0169: N\u1ebfu s\u1ebfp n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea5u s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9. Chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t lu\u1ed3ng th\u00f4ng tin b\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y nay l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00eam nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp. - L\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng 5: \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1edfi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u0169: N\u1ebfu \u0111ang n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n. N\u1ebfu \u0111ang b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i hay t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, 146","b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng n\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3a hay ph\u00e1t kh\u00f9ng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng tr\u00e1nh l\u1ed1i c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n kh\u00f3 nghe. Thay v\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. IX- NGH\u1ec6 THU\u1eacT \u1ee8NG X\u1eec \u0110\u1eb8P N\u01a0I C\u00d4NG S\u1ede L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn? B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m. 1. Ch\u00fa \u00fd trong \u0103n m\u1eb7c M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n m\u1eb7c l\u00f4i th\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i du l\u1ecbch m\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1ea1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n m\u1eb7c s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00f4i th\u00f4i, nh\u1ebfch nh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef cho \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9n chu. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n qu\u00e1 m\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0ng s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, ngay ng\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. 2. Lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang h\u1eb9n B\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quan tr\u1ecdng hay kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac. 147","\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u1ed7i h\u1eb9n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9. 3. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, c\u1edfi m\u1edf B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 nhanh tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. C\u1eed ch\u1ec9 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean k\u00e8m theo hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xu n\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p. 4. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c Khi \u0111\u00e3 tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7 v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 gh\u00e9p b\u1ecf h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u201cgi\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u n\u00e0o xoay chi\u1ec1u \u1ea5y\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eeba n\u00eau \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1eeba l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft n\u1eafm b\u1eaft ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp. 5. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh, vui nh\u1ed9n H\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 to\u00e1t l\u00ean t\u1eeb t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng 148"]