Hurting Ebook

LIVE THE LIFE YOU LOVE STOP HURTING WOMAN

Contents Introduction Stop Crying I'm not good enough Positive & Negative Thinking The Power of Love & Forgiveness I hate myself, I hate my life

INTRODUCTION WITHOUT A DOUBT, THE PLACES WHERE WOMEN ARE MOST HURT ARE INSIDE THEIR OWN HEADS. IT'S TRUE THAT MANY WOMEN DO NOT FEEL LOVED OR WANTED BY THE MEN IN THEIR LIVES. MANY WOMEN DO NOT HAVE JOBS THAT FULFILL THEM. MANY WOMEN HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY HARASSED, OR HAVE BEEN SUBJECT TO VICIOUS INSULTS AND BODY-SHAMING ON SOCIAL MEDIA. BUT THE MOST DANGEROUS ENEMIES OF WOMEN ARE INSIDE EACH WOMAN'S HEAD. STOP CRYING A LOT OF WOMEN ARE HURTING BECAUSE THEY CAN'T FIND A JOB, OR THEY DON'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO SUPPORT THEMSELVES. THEY FEEL LIKE THEY HAVE NO ONE TO TURN TO, AND IT SEEMS LIKE EVERYTHING IS LOST. BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE, AND YOU DO NOT DESERVE THIS TREATMENT FROM YOUR FAMILY OR SOCIETY. IT'S OKAY TO BE SAD—YOU'RE ALLOWED TO FEEL WHATEV ER IT IS THAT MAKES YOU FEEL SAD. IT MAY BE HORMONES, OR IT MAY BE SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY—BUT WHATEVER THE REASON FOR YOUR SADNESS, PLEASE KNOW THAT I'M HERE FOR YOU.

I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT I AM HERE FOR YOU. WHENTHINGSGETTOUGH.WECAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING: YOUR PROBLEMS AT WORK, HOW EXHAUSTED PLAYING SOCCER HAS LEFT YOU FEELING IN THE MORNINGS, HOW LONELY IT FEELS WHEN EVERYONE ELSE SEEMS SO HAPPY AROUND THEM BUT ALL YOU SEE IS THEIR PERFECT LIVES WHILE YOURS IS FALLING APART AROUND YOU. THE WORLD NEEDS MORE PEOPLE LIKE ME WHO WILL LISTEN AND HELP OTHERS THROUGH DIFFICULT TIMES—AND IF THERE'S ANYTHING I CAN DO FOR ANYONE WHO NEEDS IT, THEN COUNT ME IN!

I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH I'VE BEEN FEELING LIKE I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH LATELY. IT STARTED WITH A FRIEND OF MINE TELLING ME THAT SHE THOUGHT I SHOULD GO TO SCHOOL FOR SOMETHING OTHER THAN COMPUTER PROGRAMMING. SHE SAID IT WOULDN'T BE RIGHT FOR ME TO BE SO FOCUSED ON ONE THING THAT I'D NEVER GET TO DO ANYTHING ELSE. BUT THEN SHE TOLD ME THAT IF I WANTED TO DO OTHER THINGS, THERE WAS NO WAY FOR ME TO DO IT BECAUSE I WASN'T SMART ENOUGH. THE SECOND THING THAT HAPPENED WAS WHEN MY BOSS TOLD ME THAT HE DIDN'T THINK WOMEN SHOULD HAVE HIGH-PAYING JOBS BECAUSE THEY WERE TOO EMOTIONAL AND NEEDED MORE TIME OFF. HE SAID WE COULDN'T HANDLE THE PRESSURE OF HAVING THOSE KINDS OF JOBS, SO WE SHOULDN'T HAVE THEM AT ALL. THEN MY BOSS GOT MAD AT ME FOR LEAVING EARLY ONE DAY AND YELLED AT ME FOR BEING LATE AGAIN ANOTHER TIME—EVEN THOUGH IT WAS HIS FAULT FOR MAKING ME WORK LATE IN THE FIRST PLACTHEN HE GAVE EVERYONE ELSE IN THE OFFICE A RAISE BECAUSE THEY WERE LATE TWICE AS MUCH AS I WAS LATE ONCE! E ! HE ALSO SAID THAT IF HE EVER SAW ME LEAVE EARLY AGAIN, HE'D FIRE ME ON THE SPOT. AND

POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE THINKING WHEN YOU'RE FACING A CHALLENGE, THE LAST THING YOU WANT IS NEGATIVE THINKING. YOU WANT TO THINK ABOUT HOW GOOD IT WILL BE WHEN YOU SUCCEED AND HOW BAD IT WILL BE WHEN YOU FAIL. BUT IF YOU FOCUS TOO MUCH ON THE NEGATIVE, IT CAN MAKE THINGS WORSE. SOARING TO DESTINY HELPS YOU OVERCOME THIS BY ENCOURAGING POSITIVE THINKING. WHEN YOU FEEL STUCK OR FRUSTRATED, DON'T TRY TO CONVINCE YOURSELF THAT EVERYTHING IS FINE. INSTEAD, TELL YOURSELF EXACTLY WHAT'S GOING WRONG AND COME UP WITH A PLAN FOR GETTING THROUGH IT TOGETHER. THIS APPROACH HAS BEEN PROVEN EFFECTIVE IN HELPING PEOPLE OVERCOME CHALLENGES LIKE PANIC ATTACKS AND ANXIETY DISORDERS.

THE POWER OF LOVE AND FORGIVENESS IN THE WORLD, MANY WOMEN SUFFER FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. AS A SOCIETY, WE TEND TO LOOK AWAY WHEN WE SEE THIS HAPPENING. WE WANT TO SAY THAT IT IS NOT OUR PROBLEM, BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT IT DIRECTLY AFFECTS US ALL. THE REALITY IS THAT WHEN YOU LOVE SOMEONE, YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR WELL-BEING. YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF ENVIRONMENT THEY ARE LIVING IN SO THAT YOU CAN HELP THEM GET OUT OF IT. THIS ARTICLE WILL DISCUSS HOW WOMEN CAN USE THEIR POWER AS MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS TO STAND UP AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. THE FIRST STEP IS RECOGNIZING WHAT KIND OF ENVIRONMENT YOUR DAUGHTER IS LIVING IN, THEN TAKING ACTION UPON LEARNING ABOUT IT. MANY PEOPLE THINK THAT IF THEY DON'T KNOW ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THEN IT DOESN'T EXIST AT ALL; HOWEVER, THIS IS NOT TRUE AT ALL! DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE: IN HOMES, SCHOOLS, OR WORKPLACES; EVEN ONLINE! STUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT. WE KNOW THAT YOU’RE HURTING RIGHT NOW. YOU MAY BE WONDERING HOW TO MOVE FORWARD WITH YOUR LIFE, OR YOU MIGHT FEEL LIKE THE ENTIRE WORLD HAS TURNED AGAINST YOU. BUT THE TRUTH IS THAT THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THIS TUNNEL. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN YOUR PAIN AND SUFFERING. YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN YOUR QUEST TO HEAL AND REBUILD YOUR LIFE. THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE AROUND THE WORLD WHO HAVE GONE THROUGH SIMILAR EXPERIENCES AND ARE NOW LIVING HAPPY HEALTHY LIVES—AND THEY WANT TO SHARE THEIR STORIES WITH YOU. THEY WANT TO SHOW YOU THAT IT IS POSSIBLE TO RISE ABOVE WHAT HAS HAPPENED AND THRIVE AGAIN. THEY WANT TO TELL YOU ABOUT THEIR JOURNEY, SO THAT MAYBE SOMEDAY SOON, YOU WILL BE WALKING ALONG WITH THEM INSTEAD OF JUST SITTING HERE IN SILENCE THINKING ABOUT HOW AWFUL EVERYTHING IS GOING ON AROUND YOU RIGHT NOW. WE KNOW IT’S HARD DOING ANYTHING WHEN EVERYTHING SEEMS HOPELESS, BUT WE HOPE BY SHARING OUR STORY WITH OTHERS WHO HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOMETHING SIMILAR—AND LEARNING FROM THEM—WE CAN HELP MAKE THINGS EASIER FOR OURSELVES IN THE FUTURE BY REMEMBERING THAT EVERYTHING HAS ITS TIME FRAME.

I HATEMYSELF,IHATEMYLIFE I HATE MYSELF AND MY LIFE. I'M TIRED OF BEING HURT BY THE MEN WHO CLAIM TO LOV E ME BUT NEVER SHOW IT. I'M TIRED OF BEING TREATED LIKE A PRINCESS AND THEN HAVING MY HEART RIPPED OUT WHEN THEY FIND OUT HOW HORRIBLE I AM. I'M TIRED OF BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF BY MEN WHO DON'T CARE HOW MUCH THEY HURT ME, OR HOW MUCH THEY RUIN MY LIFE. THEY ONLY SEE DOLLAR SIGNS AND DON'T THINK TWICE ABOUT THE DAMAGE THEY DO TO THEIR PARTNERS AND THOSE AROUND THEM. I'M TIRED OF MEN WHO TREAT WOMEN LIKE OBJECTS INSTEAD OF HUMAN BEINGS, WHO ARE ONLY THERE FOR THEIR PLEASURE, NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE'S. MEN WHO ARE SELFISH AND DON'T CARE ABOUT ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES. IT'S TIME FOR US TO CHANGE THIS SYSTEM SO THAT NO ONE ELSE HAS TO GO THROUGH WHAT WE HAVE! IT'S TIME FOR WOMEN EVERYWHERE TO STAND TOGETHER AGAINST THESE MONSTERS! THIS BOOK IS FOR HURTING WOMEN WHO NEED MOTIVATION THAT ONLY GOD CAN GIVE BECAUSE HE LOVES THEM UNCONDITIONALLY. THIS BOOK IS A CALL TO ACTION FOR HURTING WOMEN TO RISE AND EMBRACE THEIR DESTINY BY USING THE STRENGTH OF GOD'S LOVE TO GUIDE THEM THROUGH THE VALLEY OF PAIN. IT WILL BE AN ENCOURAGEMENT AND GUIDEBOOK TO HELP YOU FIND YOUR WAY BACK TO YOUR DESTINY.

AUTHOR'S NAME: WAYNETT HENDRICKS-BOBBS, LIFE COACH CONTACT INFO. PH. 860-4515-8555 EMAIL [email protected] WEBSITE: [email protected]