The heART of Communication Joel, I don’t know how he does it, or how he did it exactly, because it would be hard to deconstruct all the layers that make this complex event so simple, so exciting, so engaging, so compelling, and so interactive. But I must tell you, as Joel has said, “you are never going to find a better event, a more meaningful event until you create it.” “Joel opened a door and a window, very wide, to a new world, a world not made up of illusion, but rather a world of solutions, that empower people’s lives.” Guess what? I am creating those events now and my measure of success is Joel’s event. Because it was eventful in a life of uneventful events. I hope you all will embrace the possibility of training with Joel Bauer. It will be the greatest gift you give to yourself. I know it was the greatest gift I gave to myself. And the money, better called the investment, was irrelevant. The dollars are a fraction of the cost of what you will gain. For me, it was gaining my life back and I can’t put a price on that. So, in exiting here, as I sit behind my large desk surrounded by motion picture framed movies that most of you have seen, on one of the largest lots in the world where fantasy and illusion are around every bend and every corner, where having lunch very often, there is a well-known movie star such as Clint Eastwood or Ben Affleck who will sit down near me and it’s just an every day thing. I realize one thing, that I live in the world of illusion, and that it’s a game. And it’s not one I find fulfilling. 51 | P a g e
The heART of Communication Joel opened a door and a window, very wide, with not just a breath of fresh air, but to a new world. A world not of illusion, but a world constructed of solutions that empower people’s lives, allowing them to take better care of their children, to live life by their own design. In Joel’s words, a life no longer in default. In the moment… for the moment, Deborah Newman, signing off, hoping you attend the next MasterClass to change the quality of your life. 52 | P a g e
The heART of Communication Each time you smile, you throw a little feel-good party in your brain. The act of smiling activates neural messaging that benefits your health and happiness. Joel Bauer activates your smile process. 53 | P a g e
The heART of Communication To quote Dr. Seuss: \"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.\" 54 | P a g e
The heART of Communication Reach for the Stars Reach for the Stars --- let your light shine through Make this World brighter for me and for you Reach for the Stars...limit not thy self Then turn about and Bless someone else, Reach for the Stars, goals can be obtained Overcome the snags, overcome the pains Reach for the Stars...wonders to be found And with some effort success comes around, Reach for the Stars, make it your daily Bread Never forget, these words you have read Reach for the Stars, guess what you will see? Others reaching...including me... 55 | P a g e
The heART of Communication Packing List I actually reached out to Joel and we worked together with Dr. Carney combining our thoughts into a checklist of things you wouldn’t normally think to do for this kind of event. I promise this will help you. These details can help make for a more extraordinary experience. Pre-Event • My most urgent recommendation is to take care of yourself prior to coming including getting a massage, haircut, waxing, color and manicure/pedicure for both men and women. Prepare to be in front of the camera, with no pressure, you just looking your best. There is not a need to be glamorous. Get it out of system, because you won’t have time to take care of yourself while you are in the class. The more relaxed and the more sleep you can get prior is better. • Take the time to prepare yourself for a new life, at least that is how I felt. I found a new perspective on life, one by my own design and not a life in compromise. NO matter how much money I’m paid and how much respect I receive it doesn’t mean a damn thing if I don’t jump out of bed in the morning, excited to seize the day! This event will reposition and recalibrate you, and has not only helped me in Corporate America, but has also helped me with my child and my husband. When you are excited about your life, it helps in all areas. • You need to prepare yourself to optimize every moment. • The quality of your preparation determines the quality of your experience. Mindset • Have no expectations or assumptions, as Joel will take care of you. Joel’s approach is non-linear, therefore don’t second guess him. Analysis is paralysis at an event. And take it from me, someone who second guesses and is 10 steps ahead. I was not 10 steps ahead. I’m a pretty sharp chick. • Jack says be out of the box in your thinking. Be open to new people. Oh, by the way, if you don’t know Jack, you’ll meet him during MasterClass. Appearance • Dress the way you want to be perceived with the right suits, shirts/tops/blouses that will make you camera ready. • Toiletries. • Bathing Suit that may or may not be used. • You need some casual clothing, as you will want to hang with the rest of the group such as jeans and a t-shirt. • Bring your own hair dryer, make up and other tools to create the look you want. • Like I said earlier, consider a pedicure and manicure for both men and women. Cameras pick up small details and you want to be camera ready and looking your 56 | P a g e
The heART of Communication best. It would cost you a fortune to simulate this experience with men and women with like mind who will support you. • Bring additional razor blades. • You need to be camera ready. Good time to get waxed - including eyebrows. Men should consider cutting their nose hair. The unibrow terrorist look isn’t good. Also, consider taming down the forest in the ear. Bring to the Room • Bring an open mind and open heart. • Don’t expect to have a lot free time as you will be busy. • When you aren’t in the actual event, there are many opportunities to be dressed well such as photo ops that can be very useful for you well beyond the class. • Bring your assets such as flyers and your book. If you don’t have a book, create a book cover of your “dream book” with your picture and come up with a name for the book. This is not mandatory, but we recommend it. • Even though Joel provides resources and tools, you’ll be doing a lot of writing. Bring lots of quality paper to take notes. You’ll be doing a lot of that. • If you have an iPhone or Android, and you can’t replace the battery, be certain that you have a battery charger with power, so you can charge you phone. Don’t expect there to be ample outlets. • Remember Joel doesn’t allow computers in the room including iPads, no electronic equipment and no recording devices. • Your cell phone must be on silent, otherwise the vibration or ring distracts people which is rude. • Bring a brief case, high quality backpack or something else to carry your things in, but something of ample size. You don’t want to run around with all the things Joel provides. • Joel provides lunch, so you won’t need to deal with your credit cards or get a waitress’s attention during the day. • Don’t think about going elsewhere for lunch. He is not buying lunch because he cares about you, it’s to maximize your experience and stay with your new family. • Also, consider bringing the right kind of pads for the seats to support your lumbar which will make all the difference in your circulation. You may be able to prevent back issues and fatigue this way. • Consider bringing sneakers in addition to your heels to class. Ladies, I guarantee by day 3, spike heels are going to feel like a torture device. They generally won’t see your feet. You may be infinitely more comfortable. You will wear your dress shoes for the times that you will be seen. Snacks, Water and Meals 57 | P a g e
The heART of Communication • We highly urge you to bring snacks such as raw nuts and berries, but not necessarily sugar based as this will spike your energy up and down and should be regulated. o Almonds are the #1 nut in terms of health, according to what we’ve heard, and secondary, are walnuts. • Water is provided by hotel, but it is not the highest quality. We recommend buying high quality bottles of water to help sustain you. • If you are studying with Joel in California, he generally has you in a location where a supermarket is not far. I was 20 minutes walking distance from a Wholefoods market. Managing Outside Expectations • Notify your family that you won’t be in touch very much at all. • Prepare them for this. If you spend your time trying to explain what you are learning, it will be a pattern interruption. You are taking 4 days out of your life to change the conditions of your life. That investment is worth the block out time. In Addition • Expect that Joel will announce a bonus session that he may or may not attend. Anything Joel has set up and suggests will help you monetize. • I would urge you to see if Joel has added a bonus day, as he sometimes does that. Do whatever you have to do to attend that bonus day. If I had to do it all again, and I am attending the MasterClass, I would just sit there in the moment, open and ready for anything that is presented to me. There are so many levels of teaching. Understand what you are learning isn’t just for business; it’s for all areas of your life. You will be rewired in all the right ways. 58 | P a g e
The heART of Communication About Doctor Gale Carney Author, speaker, visionary, and father, Dr. Ivan Carney has helped medical professionals, chiropractors, and business entrepreneurs increase their bottom-line without adding an overload on overhead in a simple, concise manner so anyone can duplicate and replicate his processes. Dr. Carney is now opening a new office which is an integrated practice which is called the Health Intervention and Pain Relief Center in Murrieta, CA. As soon as he's at a profitable level, Dr. Carney will be licensing his proven processes to other entrepreneurial doctors throughout the United States. His processes are unique because he helps one business person at a time. He believes in something called the Gift Shift. You can learn more about his systems, processes and coaching via his website at: SaveMeDrCarney.com. 59 | P a g e
The heART of Communication Mrs. Deborah Newman I, Deborah, am a Corporate Executive and Coach who has successfully navigated the corporate world in numerous roles including Partner of a large accounting firm and Vice President of Finance in a large media & entertainment company. Based on my life and corporate experiences, I developed The Ring of Life, an 8-element ALL-IN-ONE complete system that can help a family man, a stay at home mom, or an entrepreneur design a life that they truly want. A life that is unique and brilliantly tailored for them so that they live their life by design, not default. Life is all about balance, and as your coach/mentor/consultant, I’m here to help you reach the highest levels of your creative potential and tap into your deepest wisdom - so you make more money, serve more people, and have more quality time for your family. To learn more, visit my website at: www.theringoflife.com. 60 | P a g e
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