FRANCIS ASIEDU AGYEMFRA (Rtd)

BRIGADIER GENERAL FRANCIS ASIEDU AGYEMFRA (RTD) 1939 -2022

CLERGY Most Rev’d Hon Dr Justice Yaw Offei Akrofi ORGANISTS Most Rev’d Professor Daniel Yinka Sarfo (Rtd) Rt Rev’d Col John Kwamena Otoo (Rtd) Emmanuel Amaniampong Rt Rev’d Felix Odei Annancy Daniel Tetteh Rev Commodore P Adjei-Djan Ven Major (Rtd) E N A Laryea IN ATTENDANCE Very Rev’d Samuel Paddy Very Rev’d Helena Opoku-Sarkodie St. George’s Garrison Rev’d Timothy Victor Obuobi Anglican Church Choir Rev’d Canon ADP Selwyn Adama Okai St. George’s Garrison Anglican Rev’d Canon Lt Col Ian Adjetey Adjei Servants of The Sanctuary Rev’d Canon George Asiamah Accra East Archdeaconry Choir Rev’d Canon Vincent Victor Nathaniel Nii Armah Attoh Armed Forces Central Band Rev’d Canon William K Obiri Rev’d Fr Major (Rtd) Earland Laryea Rev’d Fr Flt Lt E A Tackie-Yarboi Rev’d Fr K N B Eyison Rev J D Agyemfra Rev’d Frances Quist 2 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

PART I – PRE-BURIAL SeOrdrervof ice Reception of Mortal Remains Biography Absolution of the Dead One Minute Silence Bearer Party Family Rep Chaplain Chaplain Tributes Reveille Laying in State Dead March in Saul Bugler Chaplain Hymn - A&M 437 Wreaths Laying All Announcement Presentation of Insignia Filing Past Chaplain Homily Recession - A&M 499 Vote of Thanks Closing of Casket Chaplain All Family Member Family Benediction Offertory PART IV – AT THE GRAVE SIDE Chaplain PART II – BURIAL SERVICE Band / All Sprinkling of Holy Water Procession - Hymn & Departure Opening Hymn - A&M 290 Blessing of Offertory A&M 240 A&M 27 All Chaplain Sentences GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 3 Prayer PART III – THANKSGIVING SERVICE Chaplain Chaplain Nkwagye Kuruwa (Dεn Na Memfa Hymn - A&M 401 Psalm 90 Nna Yehowa Ase) All Choir All Committal Scripture Reading Prayer Chaplain Romans 8:31 – 39 Chaplain Firing of Guns Hymn - MHB 634 Hymn - A&M 436 Firing Party All All Last Post Bugler

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BiographyBRIGADIERGENERAL FRANCIS ASIEDU AGYEMFRA it doesn’t take On Monday, the 29th May 1939, Nana grandfather, Enyine Kwasi Asiedu, who was a hero to order Asiedu Agyemfra V of the Abiade Royal popularly known as Enyine Kwasi Gbagyi. men into battle. It Clan and Ohene of Larteh Kubease and Enyine Gbagyi ensured that nothing was left takes a hero to be Mrs. Edna Bessie Agyemfra, (Aunty Bea), also a to chance as far as nurturing Kwadwo in royal one of those men royal from Dade-Brong Te, Larteh- Ahenease, duties and customs were concerned. Young both of blessed memory, were blessed with the Kwadwo was made to accompany his father who goes into birth of a handsome baby boy. He was named to durbars and other royal functions at Larteh battle.” Kwadwo Asiedu, after his paternal grandfather. and beyond. Later, he became known as Kwadwo Asiedu -Anonymous- “Ayirebi” (Junior) to distinguish him from an The royal grooming covered every aspect elder cousin, who bore the same name. of the custom, culture and practices of the Chief’s palace. Thus he was tutored in speech, At a very tender age, the duties and dressing, local court procedures and processes, responsibilities associated with his family taboos and acceptable norms of Larteh, lineage were inculcated in him to enable him. Kubease as well as the safety and security of This was to prepare him to serve well his the chief. He was also made fully conversant family and the community at large. Kwadwo with the language and playing of the Atumpan, Asiedu Ayirebi, therefore grew up under the Fontomfrom, Mpintin and other drums. watchful eyes of a very strict and disciplined GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 5

EDUCATION representative of the Ghana Army will shortly give an account of Brigadier General Agyemfra’s Kwadwo was enrolled at the English Church service in the military. Mission (ECM) now Anglican Primary School at Larteh and continued at Larteh Salem, where From the experience and expertise gained he completed his basic education. Thereafter, in his career, Brig-General Agyemfra, (Rtd), he attended Larteh Secondary School, now continued to work and consulted extensively as Benkum Senior High School. After two years, an International Peace and Security Consultant Kwadwo was granted permission to join his until 2020. paternal uncle, the late Mr. William Asiedu, (Paa Akyeampong), in Accra. He was engaged as a Senior Fellow at the Institute of Economic Affairs (IEA) from 2011 Subsequently, he gained admission to where he helped to organize and played active Odorgonno Secondary School, Accra, where roles in two consecutive Presidential Debates after three years of studies he obtained his in Ghana. West African School Certificate in 1957. On completion, he had a stint at the Bureau of Between 2006 and 2012, and under the Ghana Languages and also undertook various auspices of the ECOWAS, the AFRICAN UNION training programmes to improve himself. (AU) and the COMMONWEALTH SECRETARIAT in London, Francis served as an Election CAREER Observer. He was a member of various teams that observed 26 (twenty-six) elections in 19 1961 marked a very significant year in (nineteen) African countries. Kwadwo’s life when he enlisted in the Ghana Army as part of INTAKE IV and subsequently Additionally, Francis was also a United Nations commissioned as a 2nd Lieutenant on 30th Mediation Expert, a Community Member of September, 1962. Africa Centre for Strategic Studies as well as a Resource Person at the Kofi Annan Brigadier General Agyemfra had an illustrious International Peacekeeping Training Centre and career in the Ghana Army, rising from the junior the Armed forces Command and Staff College. officer rank of 2nd Lieutenant to Brigadier General and Chief of Staff of the Ghana Armed FAMILY LIFE Forces. He, at various times and at various ranks, was stationed at Kumasi, Teshie, Burma In the early 1960’s young Francis became Camp and the United kingdom acquainted with Miss Perpetua Awuah Lartey, also of Larteh. This friendship blossomed and Brigadier General Agyemfra retired from the they were married in 1962. This union has Ghana Army after about 38 years service. A 6 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

survived for sixty years and was blessed with five His contribution to the development of Larteh Brigadier General was a raconteur and enjoyed children who are all doing well in various fields was immense. He was active in fund raising the good company of his family and friends. of life. for the construction of the Larteh Clinic, the reconstruction of roads, the provision of CONCLUSION CHRISTIAN LIFE boreholes and electricity in the town. Brigadier General we celebrate and honour Francis was baptized into the Anglican faith at He was a benefactor who opened his doors to you today as an excellent family man, a Larteh ECM Church, now St Augustine Anglican many. He welcomed both family and friends to quintessential officer and a gentleman. Church, at infancy. He had a firm believe in God his home and extended a helping hand to those and held unto his faith till he was called home. who stood in need. We salute you for the last time and say, He worshipped in various churches where he Enyinemobi, De olooooooooooo. Wo okpɛ so was stationed, guided by whatever was Godly, We cannot end this account without referring djoo djoo. positive, backed by love and truth. to his time consciousness. Many stories have been told of his punctuality at meetings and Oheneba, dayie. Wo kwan so brɛ brɛ. Finally he joined and shared fellowship with other appointments. Damirefa due. members of Tema Joint Church. SOCIAL LIFE At the social level, Brigadier General Agyemfra was a gentleman of quiet disposition born with innate leadership qualities. He skillfully and painstakingly exercised power and authority wherever he was to the admiration of all. To him, every opinion counted and he never forced his decisions and actions on anyone. He consulted extensively before taking any action. Francis was very sociable and a good mixer. He led a simple but very enjoyable life. He participated in many social activities including durbars and other festivities. We recall that every 1st January, was a family day at Larteh and that was one of the events he held dearly to. He ensured he was around for all the traditional programmes, except when he was out of town. WITH KING CHARLES WHO WAS THEN PRINCE CHARLES IN THE 70’S GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 7

TOP RIGHT- WITH FRIENDS IN MALAYSIA. MIDDLE- WITH CHILDHOOD FRIEND, LAWYER OWIREDU GYAMPOH. 8 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

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OURPARTNERSHIPTHATHADLASTED OVER60YEARSSTARTEDIN1960 10 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN TRIBUTE FROM HIS WIFE MRS. PERPETUA THEODORA AGYEMFRA. Begone, unbelief, My Savior is near, And for my relief Will surely appear; By prayer let me wrestle, And He will perform; With Christ in the vessel, I smile at the storm. MHB511 Dear Francis, your passing has left me devastated. I am lost in the world. You were all in all to me; my father, brother, friend and everything. Our partnership that had lasted over 60 years started in 1960 when I was at St. Monica’s training college and you were at the Bureau of Ghana Languages. It was as if we

were made for each other. During holidays, in your No 1 military uniform with your Sam family. Your names were many: Sir Francis, I remember your Scooter Motor bike (SG18) Brown and stick. People around the house Francois, “Rocoto de wawa” and many more. which you rode to Larteh on weekends just were amazed and kept admiring you for a long In the company of your friends, you will always to see me, and you made sure no young man time. You could imagine my happiness. mention my name; me yere or my wife which came near me. You admonished anyone you became a name for me when I met your friends. felt was a threat to stay away from me. I accompanied you to all your postings; Kumasi, Teshie, Burma Camp, United Kingdom, and Yes, you have played your part and we bid you When you entered the military Academy, your staff college in Malaysia. farewell, my darling. God be with you till we you made sure the least chance you had, you meet again. could visit me. We were in contact with each Thank you for being there for me and the other as often as we could till we completed children. We shall miss you very much. Your THE SOLDIER’S FAREWELL. our training and I was posted to Winneba. I sense of humour was very remarkable and How can I bear to leave thee? remember your visit to me in Winneba dressed you were a toast at gatherings of friends and One parting kiss I give thee, And then, whate’er befalls me, I go where honor calls me. Farewell, farewell, my own true love, Farewell, farewell, my own true love. Ne’er more may I behold thee, Or to this heart enfold thee; With spear and pennon glancing I see the foe advancing. Farewell, farewell, my own true love, Farewell, farewell, my own true love. I think of thee with longing; Think thou, when tears are thronging, That with my last faint sighing, I’ll whisper soft, while dying- Farewell farewell, my own true love, Farewell, farewell, my own true love. Fare thee well. De oloo GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 11

HE WAS RELENTLESS, TRIBUTE BY CHILDREN A LIFELONG LEARNER, ALWAYS TO OUR FATHER BRIGADIER GENERAL ENCOURAGED US TO STRIVE FOR FRANCIS ASIEDU AGYEMFRA GREATER HEIGHTS. Today we stand before you to say farewell to our dad. A day we hoped would not be anytime soon. Our dad was one of a kind! He was very simple yet classy, a statesman who loved his country and it is no surprise that he gave most of his life to serving his country in military service, diplomatic and civilian roles, and took any opportunity he got to serve. Our dad raised us to be independent and to fend for ourselves. He taught us to fish for ourselves instead of giving us everything on a silver platter. Although he sometimes guided us and opened doors for us, he allowed us to pursue our own dreams and respected the different choices and career paths that we chose. He never raised his voice, yet commanded a lot of respect and ensured that he instilled the right discipline in his children. He always wanted things done the right way and never compromised on quality. His selflessness was remarkable. Not only was he a father to us but also to many others including some of his siblings, cousins, nephews, nieces and others that he took care of and treated as his own. Growing up, our home was always filled with relatives, as far back as we can remember – 161 Great North Way, 22 and 20 Burma Villas, No. 1 and 3 Ridge Road, Kumasi and No. 1 Glover Road, Burma Camp. Even when he retired from active service and moved to Tema, when we had all left home, he brought other children into his home and gave them opportunities that they never would have dreamt of having, sending some of them to the most prestigious schools in Ghana. Our dad socialized with people in high places and had personal interactions with royals, presidents, kings, queens and diplomats. A royal himself, yet he was also 12 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

able to interact with others from all walks of a bunch to his friends on a monthly basis, of us in the household had different political life both young and old. A number of his friends perhaps his way of evangelizing. He would affiliations, including some of the parties that were much younger than him and our friends often ask us what we learnt from our quiet hardly stood a chance of winning elections, but will often say to us that they met our dad at time and that was a motivation for us to read, he never influenced us one way or the other. this place or that place. When he was with his in case he asked. When we asked him what party he would vote friends, he was the life of the party, especially for he said that his vote was his secret. He was when he felt comfortable with the company His statesmanship was exemplary. truly an Officer and a Gentleman! Our friends that he was in. He was dedicated to the service of his country in the military, some of who are here today, and determined to serve regardless of the describe him as one of the finest they have ever He was relentless, a lifelong learner, always government in power. He never discussed had! encouraged us to strive for greater heights. politics at home and whenever we went out We remember him sending us postcards from and others brought any discussion of a political His life was a testament of the saying that “A places like Harvard and other prestigious nature, he would indicate that it was time to go good name is better than riches”. Whenever we institutions whenever he got the opportunity to home. We remember a time when during one went on our travels, we would often encounter attend courses. We believe that was a signal to of the presidential elections he asked each of people who knew our dad, who mostly spoke us to strive for the greatest academic heights. us which party we were going to vote for. All highly of him and who would go out of their way He was also very current and technology savvy, and always had the trendiest gadgets. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 13 Although he did not get half the opportunities we got in life, he set the bar so high that we often wonder if we could ever achieve half of what he achieved in life. When he retired from active service and moved to Tema, he became a regular member at the Tema Joint Church, and believed one’s relationship with God was a personal one and always put God first. He taught us to have our quiet time when we were still young and he never started his day without reading his bible and his favourite daily devotional, the Daily Word. He made sure he bought copies for everyone in the family and also distributed

to make us feel comfortable because of their previous interactions with him. This was to the extent that some of us remember being tired of living in his shadows and being referred to as Francis’ son or Brigadier Agyemfra’s son or daughter, an opportunity that many would have wished for. You showed us love in your own way and allowed us to pursue our own dreams, never standing in our way. We are grateful to all those who were there for him these last few years, particularly the doctors, home nurses, Tema Joint Church, other clergy, family and friends. We are most grateful especially to Daniel who never left his side. We will forever be grateful to you, Onua Francis, as we called you behind your back. You always encouraged us to stay focused in difficult times and not be destructed from our goals. And that is exactly what we will do. We promise to carry on the torch and the sword, and whenever we are discouraged, we will remember your favourite hymn, Will Your Anchor Hold in The Storms of LIfe. Even though you set the bar so high, we promise to make you proud and continue with the legacy that you left behind. We thank God for giving us the best father ever! We will forever cherish our memory of you, Daddy. Rest well Daddy. Continue to watch over us and protect us from all adversities. Daddy, ‘de okosɛ’ε and may your soul rest in perfect peace in the bosom of our Lord till we meet again. Amen Daddy ‘de okosɛ’ David, Michael, Edna, Charles and Francis Jnr. 14 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

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IT IS WITH GREAT It is with great difficulty that I write Thank you for supporting me in DIFFICULTY THAT I WRITE these words. It feels even more my academic life and my ministry difficult because it forces me to work. I will always remember the THESE WORDS. acknowledge the reality that you look of pride in your eyes when are gone Daddy. you introduced me to people as DELA HARLEY your intelligent daughter who is a TO DADDY I always took it for granted that pharmacist and a pastor. It meant anytime I come home you will be and will forever mean so much to me. there. Oh and we never got the chance to take our trip to South Africa Thank you for walking me down the because at a point in time I actually aisle and giving all your blessings to thought we had so much time!! Daniel and me for our wedding, our marriage and ministry. I wish your Daddy, thank you so much for grandchildren, Kobby and Kafui, raising me up and taking care of me. would have had more time with you. My years on the mission field has But rest assured that I am instilling made me appreciate the privilege of in them all the discipline and good growing up with a father who leads character you taught me. I know you with strength and purpose. You will be proud of them too. taught us to work hard and smart and allowed us to follow mummy to As we accept your departure, we church to be raised up in the fear and know that you are resting in the knowledge of God. I never knew the hands of Almighty God. Goodbye impact it would have on my life and Daddy, until we meet again. my future. 16 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

FAREWELL TO OUR DEAR GRANDFATHER “Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us everyday, unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, still missed and very dear” GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 17

HE HAS LEFT US WITH MANY HE WAS A STRONG CHARACTER THAT WONDERFUL MEMORIES ENDURED MANY HARDSHIPS MAA AYEBEA AND ENYINE ASIEDU. It is with a heavy heart JEREMY AND JASON APEAKORANG and tearful eyes that we pay tribute to Agreat example, leader, honourable is how we will describe our beloved GrandPa, my grandpa. He was a strong character that endured many hardships but always exemplified what a man should be. Brigadier General He is someone we’ll strive to be like for the rest of our life. May he rest in eternal peace. Love you forever grandpa. Agyemfra. God has taken a shining Star from us. We were trusting God for His healing power but the unexpected happened. Grandpa Agyemfra as we affectionately called him was a disciplinarian who always straightened us when we do wrong and always asked how well and fit we were. He was so passionate with his evening walks around the neighborhood of Tema and keeping fit. On one Vacation we spent with him in Tema , Grandpa invited Leslie and I for his evening walk and by the time we were done, we were worn out and couldn’t stop asking ourselves how he could walk at such a fast pace and long distance. One thing he also taught us was that it always pays to be hardworking and diligent. He has left us with many wonderful memories which we would forever carry with us in our hearts and our minds. We love you Grandpa and we know God has you in a better place 18 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

GRANDPA, ONE GRANDPA WAS YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED IN OUR ITSHTHIANTGYOUWWEILLKANLWOAWYS BE IN QUIET, KIND HEARTS FOREVER OUR HEARTS. AND LOVING. YAW ASIEDU, AMANDA JEFFREY AND MICHELLE AGYEMFRA SIENNA, MAAME ADWOA AND AUDREY AGYEMFRA AND PAPA AYEH Our Grandpa was welcoming and hospitable Your unexpected exit from this world has whenever we visited Ghana, which we’ll Grandpa was quiet, kind and loving. forever left a vacuum in our lives .No forever be grateful for. I remember he gave Our weekend visits was fun because matter what we try to do such a vacuum us books and urged us to read, so Grandpa, we Grandpa always had a smile, sweets can never be filled. will read away from now and make you proud. We and chocolates for us. We enjoyed playing You will be remembered in our hearts forever also know Grandpa a man of few words, but the and jumping on his bed. as a grandfather .Yaw Asiedu Agyemfra, Audrey words he did say were always selfless as he was Grandpa, we miss you Agyemfra and Amanda Agyemfra always checking in with us. Grandpa was always caring and passionate about others and their GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 19 wellbeing and whenever we spoke to him he was asking about our schooling and how our day has been. Grandpa, one thing we know is that you will always be in our hearts. Love you always

OUR GEM, OUR PILLAR It’s always been a very difficult task to You had been there for us in both good and AND OUR LEADER write a befitting tribute to someone bad times. You had seen us grow into adults you know very well or had shared and had assisted in molding our entire lives to TRIBUTE BY SIBLINGS almost all your life with. And how do enable us live and fend for ourselves. Daddy, we sum up these life time experiences you succeeded in making human beings out and the wealth of notable qualities of us and ensured that each had a means to a and attributes into a few meaningful sustainable life. paragraphs? You had shared our fears, our joys and our Daddy, Onua Francis, we believe that it’s pains. Yes, almost all of us started our adult those who had been privy to our lives or lives and careers in your house. And we kept close to our family that can best describe coming back to you whenever we hit life’s the bond and affection that had wielded stormy weather. Yet, you were never one to us together all these years. Let the complain or got tired of extending a lifeline community of family, relatives, friends whenever it became necessary. and associates be the ones to judge and speak for us. Our gem, our pillar and our leader, now that you’ve left us, we are simply shattered and SOME NIECES AND NEPHEWS Most of us grew up believing, albeit don’t know how we’re going to manage wrongly, that you were our father. The without you. We feel the pain and as the constant admonition of Aunty Bea, our adage goes, “nkrɛ bo odu”, Blood is thicker!!! mother, “djor ne Paa Kudjo bɛbɛ to wo” To wit, “wait till Paa Kudjo gets here” Thank you, Daddy, for all the selflessness, the was enough to scare and soften us. One sacrifices, the commitment, the dedicated stern look was all that it took to get us services offered us and above all, the unending fall back in line. You found ways and love and support. means to gently curb our excesses and youthful exuberance. We appreciate you and always made no secret of our admiration of all. We pray that You made us believe in ourselves and God gives you a deserving rest. taught us to accept that each opinion mattered, no matter one’s station or Daddy de olooooo. Mkpɛ gyi wo le. position in life. Hence you consulted extensively before taking a decision. 20 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

AMASSIVEAND UNIQUE Big Brother, was born a leader and became Government, brought huge respect to me and PILLAR HAS FALLEN, a role model and a father to all family my family, whenever I introduced you to our members. His proficiency in whatever friends in the community in UK. BUT ITS CONCRETE FABRIC he did and self-discipline were great AND BASE WILL REMAIN lessons to me. His conduct and approach to life Big Brother, you advised me, not once, but INDESTRUCTIBLE, INTACT AND were worthy of emulation. several times, not to stay in UK when I retired; PROTECTED FOREVER. you encouraged me to come back home to be Brigadier General Agyemfra, demonstrated served and to enjoy the warmth of the larger TRIBUTE BY great love and affection towards my family, as family. I listened to your good advice and BROTHER NAT BINEY JP he did to many others within the lager Agyemfra returned to Ghana after my retirement, and I royal family circle. He took advantage of the do not for once regret it. Many, many thanks times his job brought him or was on vacation Sir. to the UK to visit me and my family and to, on some occasions, spend quality holidays with us I thought my coming back home, will allow us at my residence in Bolton, Greater Manchester. to see each other more often. But God knows His presence always brought joy and animation best. to my family. I can’t thank you enough for the numerous Whenever he was with us, he will ensure that VIP treatments you gave me and my family I get engaged with him in his early morning whenever we visited Ghana. I will miss our jogging. Having done this for quite a while, it usual outings for social drinks or functions and was obvious that he had become very proficient the times you introduced me to your colleagues and a seasoned jogger. He considered it and friends as your junior brother. important and basic to good health. My dear Big Brother, you will be missed so Big Brother, I will so much miss your usual much, but I promise that I will pick up the knock at my bedroom door very early in the batton you have left behind and continue the mornings, saying “Brother get up and let us race of your good works in uniting the family go for jogging”. Even though you didn’t know and in observing certain family traditions and Bolton well, you daily led me on two miles protocols. I will pursue and ensure togetherness of strenuous jogging. You arrived back in the and love within the family. house twenty or more minutes earlier than I did feeling exhausted. You never gave me chance Big Brother, to resist further joggings but kept pushing me God be with you till we meet again. until you left Bolton. De olooooooo! Paa Kudwo, de okosɛ. Your charming physique and the top positions Rest in perfect peace. you held in the Ghana Armed Forces and in GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 21

TRIBUTE BY BROTHERS AND SISTERS-IN-LAW FROM: NANCY OFFEI, SELINA WILLIS, SETH LARTEY, KINGSLEY KWADWO ADJEI, SAM KWAME NYAMPONG, YAW ASARE ATTRAMS, SYLVIA LARTEY-KRISHNAN, STEVE LARTEY AND SAMMY LARTEY JNR. FAARBEEWLEOLVLETDO The General was a man of few words. extended to his wife’s family, as well. Brigadier BROTHER He was one who did not get involved in would say a quick hello to you and let you carry -IN- LAW matters that he was not required to be on with your business, if it did not involve him. part of. However, if it was his duty or 22 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN responsibility, he would go out of his way to He could be humorous, but you would not know make sure that the matter at hand was resolved it if you were not close to him. Intelligence to everyone’s satisfaction. reports suggest that Bro. Francis could also play hard when the setting was right, and as his Bro. Francis was a Husband, Soulmate and children have commented, they were surprised Companion to our eldest Sister for over 60 when some of their contemporaries claimed years, we thus had the pleasure of having him that Bro. Francis was their “friend”. as our big brother for all that time. Bro. Francis, the Good Lord saw that you were He was the president of the household, but he tired and called you home. knew who the prime minister was, so he left a lot of the household decisions to Sister Perp and We ask that He keeps you safe in His bosom till together, using this method of administration, we meet again. they raised 5 well-adjusted and successful children. He was a supportive, dutiful, and loyal You will be missed very dearly. husband and father. Rest well, General! Bro. Francis was a family man, and his home Adieu from: Nancy Offei, Selina Willis, Seth was open to all his close and distant family Lartey, Kingsley Kwadwo Adjei, Sam Kwame members. The same level of welcome was Nyampong, Yaw Asare Attrams, Sylvia Lartey- Krishnan, Steve Lartey and Sammy Lartey jnr.

REST ON SOLDIER! REST WELL DADDY wetin man no see before”. I regretted making to as Daddy. Crisp, precise and to the point, he that statement a few hours later. communicated without a lot of words, but you could TRIBUTE FROM always sense the warmth and integrity oozing out RICHARD APEAKORANG I pull into the driveway, I enter the living room, of him. You could tell he cared a lot without saying he was sitting in his favorite armchair at his a lot. SON-IN-LAW favorite spot, at the left-hand corner of the living room, with his favorite plate of fruits, I was privileged to see another side of him when Writing a tribute about a man who was usually of the citric family, reading the daily he visited us in Canada. A bit frail at that time and an enigma, at least to me, yet such an graphic. He turns his head and stares at me for at dinner, I felt it was a great moment to dig into accomplished man, was a daunting a few seconds, felt like minutes, felt like he was the mind of such an accomplished statesman, task, made even more complicated looking into my soul and before I finish greeting, diplomat and soldier. A man so accomplished yet because I was his only son-in-law. he goes in his monotone, baritone voice, “who understated. I asked him about his views on politics, Generally, I am not easily intimidated, however are you looking for”, I respond Edna, then the the past war in Liberia, religion and geo-political on that fateful day when I first met him at 1 interrogation began. affairs. It was the longest conversation I ever had Glover Road, Burma Camp, I had to question with him. I was surprised at how he opened up myself if I was as courageous as I thought. What is your name? I mention my first name, and amazed at his commanding grasp on all these On the way to the house, I ask my good friend that was not satisfactory. topics. Eventually I ask him what the future holds – who is related to the family, “Charley how is he stares at me again, that same stare I got some he?” he responds, “you wait and see”, I tell him, Who is your father? I respond, Colonel 20 odd years ago, and in the same deep monotone, “I no dey fear, my father too be soldier man, Apeakorang then he goes, “Aaaah! Wo papa baritone voice – he responds, “the future is now”! ne Colonel Apeakorang” meaning, I see! your That statement has resonated with me till now and father is colonel Apeakorang. it echoes the scripture in Ecclesiastes 9: 10 which says, “Whatever your hands find to do, do it with all I was not sure if it was a statement or a your might, for in the realm of the dead, where you question, so I said “yes”! and as abruptly as the are going there is neither working nor planning nor questioning started, it ended – with a single knowledge nor wisdom”. word “twen” meaning wait. I was not sure if it was an invitation sit down or to keep standing, After that statement, he finishes his dinner and he just continues with his snack of sliced said “me ko soro” meaning, I am going upstairs to oranges reading the Daily Graphic. As I was rest. I truly believe you are permanently “upstairs” figuring out what to do next, still standing at resting in the bosom of the Lord. Rest on soldier! the same spot, I was rescued by one of the girls Rest well Daddy, you can now stare at your Maker in the house who came to get me and settled and not your beloved son-in-law! me in another room. Richard Apeakorang. This encounter represents Brigadier General Francis Agyemfra, whom I later began to refer GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 23

A MEMORABLE ENCOUNTER WITH DADDY WAS AT NO. 1 GLOVER ROAD IN BURMA CAMP Fading away like the stars of the morning, TRIBUTE FROM JOANA AGYEMFRA Losing their light in the glorious sun DAUGHTER-IN-LAW Thus would we pass from the earth and its toiling, Only remembered by what we have done. Ira D. Sankey Imet my father-in-law in 1982, soon after on the battle field. It turned out that they questions and answers but as the years went I had started going out with his first son had heard the sound of their father’s Pajero by and I began giving him grandchildren, the David. zooming towards home and for the fear that tables turned. I warmed myself into his heart they would be found sitting idle, which was by doing the questioning and he answering. A memorable encounter with daddy was likely going to earn them a task or two, hence He was intelligent and had such a sharp mind at No. 1 Glover Road in Burma Camp, where running for dear life. and he had a recollection of even insignificant I was comfortably seated in his sitting room incidents, which one would think at his age and with David and all his siblings, happily chatting Daddy was strict and a man of few words, with ailments he would forget. and teasing each other. In a twinkle of an eye, however, if you found him in his elements, you the laughter ceased and without a word, they would love him. He loved children and cherished Daddy, you were loved and respected by all. I started running for cover. In my confused his grandchildren; he was very jovial and also would always keep your fond memories in my state, not knowing what to do, I had to stay liked teasing people. More often than not his heart. Sleep peacefully in the bosom of your put waiting for my fate. Hmmm, it felt like I conversations with me were what I would term maker. Fare thee well Daddy. had been abandoned by my colleague soldiers as interrogations, because they were mostly Joana Agyemfra 24 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

RDEUANRADAGDO,OYODURHAACVEEAND DADDY SENT ME WEEKLY FOUGHT A GOOD FIGHT INSPIRATIONAL MESSAGES TRIBUTE FROM MAAME “THE INSPIRER”AND HIS SIGNATURE WAS ACHIAA AGYEMFRA TRIBUTE FROM DR. NAA KOWAH AGYEMFRA DDAUGHTER-IN-LAW ad, thank you for giving the best part of you DAUGHTER-IN-LAW gifts from Canada when he visited us in to the nation of Ghana and your family, a family you cherished and loved. I remember London. I was very nervous when I learnt how you always cared enough to ask of my mother each time we met or spoke by saying “how of his visit and wanted to please and is the old lady’’ in Twi, to which l gladly responded, she is doing well by the grace of God. I will always impress him only for him to arrive and remember one of your numerous attributes as a well- disciplined gentleman. A quality permeated every turn things around. He was affable, jovial, aspect of your life, cloaked in humility and nobility. Endearing qualities you have exemplified to your and made me relaxed and comfortable. children, one of whom l married, Michael, and get to see and experience his show of similar qualities. I am Daddy was a great counsellor, he thankful for the love and attention we felt each time overheard Francis and I discussing a we were around and for always caring for our safety financial malpractice at Eye Express and especially if we traveled from one place to the other. he gave me expert advice several weeks Your grandchildren, Jeffrey and Michelle will forever after the incidence. cherish their moments spent with you as you exit this world into another. Dear Dad, you have run a good Daddy, as I affectionately Daddy sent me weekly inspirational race and fought a good fight. Rest well dad, rest on called him, accepted me messages and his signature was “The now. Philippians 2:16 as a daughter as soon as I Inspirer” was introduced to him. He Fare thee well, Daddy immediately invited Charles and Daddy, you fought long and hard to be I to H.E Victor Gbeho’s birthday with us. Your love and peaceful memories Daughter-in-law Maame Achiaa Agyemfra. party where he proudly introduced are engraved on our hearts. us to all his friends present even before marriage plans were made. You are forever our Hero A very generous father in-law, God bless you Daddy. Rest in perfect he brought Maame Adwoa and I peace. Dr. (Mrs) Naa Kowah A. Agyemfra GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 25

TMOSUHUINPARIPNWSOKTORRYRTYOIKNUIGFNOR WALERMEAISDSYH. IM TRIBUTE FROM MAWUSE on Sunday afternoons they were there with their church FROM AGYEMFRA squad. You never complained but I know they were a KWAKU, KOBBY AND handful. MAAME DWAAH My first encounter with Daddy was in my teenage years when my family moved to Thank you for trusting me and sending me on errands, The angels came to visit my uncle Number 2, Glover Road next door to the one specific errand was to get a birthday gift for one of last night and now he is at peace. Agyemfra Family living in number 1 Glover your friends you did not give me any guidance, you were Road. This relationship evolved to become one of confident that I will make the right choice. When I bought With the smiles and time, we daughter-in- law and father-in-law after several the gift, you said I had exceeded your expectations. spent with him years when I was privileged to marry Francis (Kwaku We miss him already. Its a sad time for Asare). My gratitude to Daddy is on many issues Thank you for supporting our work in ministry by always all of us but I will highlight a few for a man of few words. providing sweets for the children who came to church, it But our love for him will Be safe in our was a joy to see the children trooping to come and greet hearts. Thank you for including me by asking me to go horse Grandpa after service and running down the stairs with riding when your relatives from Manchester were in sweets. We are glad he is in no more pain and Ghana, it meant so much to me as a teenager. he will Be with loved ones who have Thank you for travelling to Anyako for the burial of my gone before him Thank you for warmly accepting me into your home maternal grandmother, you made the time for this very as the choice Kwaku Asare made, it was a soft important event in my life. love you always Daddy landing for me, and I am grateful. I will miss your consistent care and love for me, even on Thank you for making Yaw, Payin and Kakra feel your sick bed you would ask about my work. You bore so at home in your house for six days a week. On the pain you were going through so gallantly, Brigadier weekdays we picked them up late after work and till the last day. 26 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN Daddy rest in peace. Mawuse Agyemfra

FYSWYAEOOERMUULVRILLLE,IYDVYOEDU TRIBUTE FROM Daddy set the bar high for us that we the women CAONUDNYTORUYR NEPHEWS AND NIECES in the family never settled for less in the choice of our husbands. To think that the man who is everyone’s hero is gone forever is a bitter pill to swallow. Daddy, indeed you are a gem and there will be none “Daddy” as he was affectionately called was ever like you. an exemplary man. He was not your regular adult who would shout and be all over the place. You lived well, you served your family and your Daddy was an extremely quiet person however, his country. God decided that it was time to come presence was always felt. home to rest, who are we to question Him. Daddy hated idleness. He didn’t understand why We might not have told you how much we loved you should sit down doing nothing. Always find and adored you, but we thank God for your life and something doing as the devil finds work for the idle we are soo proud to have had an uncle like you. hand. To the effect that Daddy can give you work to do, make sure he doesn’t see you seated, even if Rest well our HERO!!! you are done. He will say he didn’t see you working so do it again. As a result, the hearing of Daddy’s horn from far away, turn the house into a ghost town. Everybody both old and young run for cover. Growing up with Daddy, there was no difference between his children and other people. He treated everyone equally. Everyone in the family passed through the hands of Daddy and Mummy at No.1 Glover Road, Burma Camp. His exceptional qualities and character has left an indelible mark on all of us to the extent that once people know you are related to Brig. General Agyemfra, certain behaviours are expected of you. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 27

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IR’ELLMAELMWBAEYRS AWHEEARDOM, WIRHEDOMAND LOOKED UP TO MAKUA AKU AGYEMFRA y fondest memories of being in Ghana as a child, were At a time as this, when our hearts are heavy with running around in Burma Camp with my cousins and sadness and pain, we comfort ourselves with the waiting for the horn to beep at the gate, signally Daddy had priceless thought that we met a hero in our lifetime. A returned from work.  hero whose name opened doors for us. A hero whose name we were proud to be associated with. A hero, whom I’ll always remember when Uncle Francis would come to London we admired and looked up to. Memories of how commanding and stay with us, go for his long walks and tell me off for texting you always looked in your uniform or the commanding voice while I was driving. Those little things are what build the best behind the few words you spoke, can never leave us. On days memories.  we had to sleep over at No. 1 Glover Road for family events, a mere 'Daddy de b3' (Daddy is coming) can straighten the I don’t remember a time when he wasn’t around, so it feels very most crooked of things in split seconds before we set eyes on strange that he has gone. He was a big blessing as an Uncle and we you. How then are we to come to terms that we will never see will miss him very much.  you again? How then are we to accept that we will never hear that voice again? Oh, we are in pain!!!! But in your honour, we promise to be to the generation after us, what you were to us...........a Hero! Our Hero!!!! Till we meet again, Daddy. Damirifa due!! GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 29

SYOORWURDOOHERWASDVCKSRENCILBOAEEWNFOTNINUUORGTS FROM YAW APEADU DONKOR, AFUA ADUBEA KORANTENG & ABENA ASIEDUA ANSAH - MENSAH 30 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN Dear Uncle Francis, he toiled with the idea of going to the army in the UK. Dad asked him to call you in Ghana Words cannot describe our sorrow and seek your approval. You told him to wait knowing you have left us. You were our because you were due in the UK in two weeks. pillar and a benchmark for doing well When you came, you told him that you would in all our endeavours. The memories not allow any of your children to go to the army are uncountable and your smile and laugh still because you had served for all of us and that rings in our ears and in our hearts. Sadness you had fought for all our liberties and beared is not our portion because you brought us so the cross for all of us. You said we should be much joy and togetherness. We treasure the creative and enjoy our lives for the army is not thought that despite our parents being there to an easy journey for any family man. Nana Afua straighten us, we were also answerable to you, and Maabena have many wonderful stories too Papa, Eyine, Daddy. In all our childhood days of our beloved Uncle Francis. You touched all of and our journey into adulthood, we had you to us and played a pivotal role in our lives. lead us. Be it into our exuberance, education, marriages and into parenthood, Eyine you were Today, we celebrate you, our gallant Father. the first to be told and to seek approval after To God be the glory for granting us a Gem, a our parents. Our parents will say have you told Jewel, a Gift and a Blessing in you. Fare thee Uncle Francis? Cecie Odeisi is distraught and well Old Man. Fare thee well our Wonderful keeps shedding tears all the time. Who will Uncle Francis. We miss you dearly and one day, answer to her calling of Bra and give her words we shall meet again and glorify the Lord with of calm, wisdom and love beyond measure? praise with you as our General, always leading, Dad is deeply sad. He has lost his Brother, His always upright, always caring and steadfast, Akonta, his Friend and Confidant. We couldn't always our Moses. Eyine. Damifa Due. Due ne bear to see you not in good health. We couldn't amanihunu. Nkpe gyi wo le. Amen bear to see you not saying much. But we could not resist the joy and conforting smile even Yaw Baba, Nana Afua & Maabena though your strength was wanning. Baba remembers when after university in London,

WCBOFREUFELATHEWNIIBMNCIRLI,OSALWUTSMEOREIHSWVMSIEMEIURLM.LYNOACMRLLUYESOCH only know of his great character and wit, good LFYAIOKTUEHWAERERE humour, warmth and generosity of spirit, that TO ME TRIBUTE FROM LINDA (rightly so) overshadowed his professional AND YVONNE role and accomplishments to us young girls. TRIBUTE FROM ALLAN DANSO When Yvonne and I visited Ghana for As we grew older, we were so happy to interact Uncle Francis as you walk the path that all men the second time, we were informed with him on a more adult level and one of our must walk, you have left me with a deep respect, that we would be staying with Uncle favourite later memories was our daily trips appreciation and an example of what it means to Francis and Auntie Perpetua. Having to a nearby Internet cafe where we would sit live a courageous and honorable life. spent some time with Uncle Francis in Bolton, side by side as he checked his emails. He once we had yet to really discover and understand asked me why I hadn’t sent him any emails and You were like a father to me and to many who who he was. We should have had an inkling embarrassingly I did not have a response. So, sought relief and refuge in the welcoming home of his importance when a driver picked us up I proceeded to send him some but comically you and Auntie Perpetua opened up for all. from the Airport, and when we settled in at his (from an Uncle who had a witty response to large compound in Burma Camp, and when we everything) I got no reply. In this day and age where principle and virtue are went to houses of ambassadors, and when he in short supply, you provided a guiding light, a invited us to a President’s parade. However, we We have been so privileged to know him and listening ear and a helping hand. to be part of the family that shaped so great a figure. Thank you uncle Francis. May our Lord keep you till we meet again. We will miss Uncle Francis so very much but in our memory of him, we will also celebrate him. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 31 May his soul rest in perfect peace. Wofa Francis Dammirifa Due Da Yie De Okosɛ Linda and Yvonne Biney

I’VE LIVED A LIFE ALWAYS TRYING ATOS AEMHUIGLHATLYE RYOESUPREVCATELDUEASRAMNYDOEFTFHICIECSR.TO WORK Brigadier Agyemfra. ‘Daddy’, as we all TRIBUTE FROM KOFI called you, not just as a sign of respect ANKRA ASARE-ATTRAMS but also because that is what you were to us. As far back as I can remember, I’ve always wanted to wear a uniform to look as smart as My fondest memories of you were in Burma you. I’ve lived a life always trying to emulate Camp when sometimes after school, I’d your values and ethics to work as a highly anxiously await your return from work. I’d help respected army officer. you take your boots off whilst you asked how I did in school, and I’d tell you all about it. It was You may be gone, but your values, generosity, usually the highlight of my day. kind heart, and lessons will forever continue to shape our lives and future. As the youngest in the house at the time, I got away with a lot. Like times when I’d bring my Looking back to when I last came to visit you friends over to pluck mangoes from the mango in May, I am now comforted knowing that we trees at the back of your bedroom window were able to exchange goodbyes. disturbing your afternoon nap. You’d shout out in Larteh from your window, “Kofi Ankra, is that Rest in peace in the Lord’s bosom. you and your friends again? What have I said about throwing stones into the trees?” We’d Thank you, Daddy. quickly run off. But I knew I was the only one Farewell Brigadier who got away with such mischiefs. Till we meet again. 32 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

EVTVHEERARYNYMKTYUHOCINHUGFODRADDY. NADIA DETIEN VODOUNNOU Glory be to the Lord Almighty through son- in-law, my husband, that you will Daddy you were a dedicated family man, who Jesus Christ who made me come always take him out with you wherever was always there when we needed you.” You across daddy Francis A. AGYEMFRA’S you go. As for your grandchildren, you had a big heart that cared for everybody family. always tolerate whatever they did, even Thank you very much for everything Daddy. making a lot of noise when you were still Da yee. May the Heavenly Father open the Daddy taking your rest. heavenly gates for you. AMEN Thank you very much for the role you played Whenever you come to Cotonou on Your daughter Nadia DETIEN VODOUNNOU in my life. I came in Ghana for my studies and mission, you always call me on phone : & Family from you took me as you daughter, You offered « Nadia, where are you ? I am in Cotonou Cotonou-BENIN me a shelter, you fed me and watched over in such hotel. And I will rush to the hotel. me until I finished my studies. Daddy, I am so grateful for all I learnt GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 33 from you and your family : humility even Even after that, whenever I come to Ghana when God puts you in a high place, love, with my family, you made sure that we are kindness, liberality. safe in your home. You loved so much your

EMBYXOLAECUNESWSYPETWEDIRO,AENYASLAINND NANA ABEAM DANSOAH you gave me. Two in particular resonate with TFAAONMTINHILSEYP.EINRTAITRIEON KISSIEDU (LONDON) me; firstly, you advised me never to compare myself to others and secondly, to always stop 34 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN The worst ever feeling is when someone and listen to good advice whenever possible. dear to you is unexpectedly taken away without bidding you farewell and also You were blessed, exceptional in many ways knowing that you will never set eyes on and an inspiration to the entire family. The them again. Whether the pain is caused by the various positions you held in your career, absence of their physical presence in a room both nationally and internationally brought or not hearing their voice again, the emptiness honour to the whole family and endeared still becomes unbearable and the void left that you to several people. You also touched can never be filled overshadows the entire many lives individually, locally, nationally and family. internationally. You were gallant, caring and kind as well as considerate and thoughtful. Daddy, your departure has made me realize how limited we are as mortals and also how May the Lord console and sustain the entire imperative it is to spend more time with our family especially Mummy Perpetua and the loved ones, family and friends regardless of children now and always. May the Lord keep how busy our schedules are. We must never you safe and may you rest in perfect peace hesitate to tell them how we appreciate and until we meet again. I miss you greatly. feel about them and always endeavor to leave a room on a good note. “Ofie gya adum, obrenpon, okatakyi, my pappa, uncle, confidant, counsellor, damirifa due. Nevertheless, I feel privileged and consider Pappa, da yiye!” myself fortunate to have known and spent time with you and the family. I remember all the Your niece, stories you used to tell me about your military training abroad and the various pieces of advice

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THROUGH WORDSHEISTHEMANWHOHASTAUGHTME AND ACTIONS, THE MEANING OF CARE, LOVE, KINDNESS, HARDWORK, HONESTY, HUMBLENESS AND MAKING SACRIFICES BY MATILDA GMATRUMI If tears could build a stairway and memories everything within his strength and power to give NGMEGMAH and a lane would walk right up to heaven and me a good education, good life and the person I 36 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN bring you back again. No farewell words were am today. Daddy was my teacher at home and spoken, no time to say “Goodbye””. You were cross checked my homework before I submitted gone before I knew it and only God knows why my them the next day at school. The best part I heart still aches with sadness and secret tears enjoyed doing with daddy was when I brought my still flow. What it meant to you no one will ever report card home after every term and academic know. But now I know you want me to mourn for year and daddy took a very good look at it and you no more. To remember all the happy times say congratulations to me, complement me in the life still has much in store. Since you will never be midst of my strength and encourage me in the forgotten, I pledge to you today a hallowed place midst of my weakness. Daddy provided for me within my heart is where you will always stay – from my educational needs to personal needs. unknown He was always there and was my firm foundation through all my storms of life. Daddy, my family I call him “Daddy”. He is the man who has taught and I would forever be grateful to you for all that me through words and actions., the meaning you have done for me. Daddy you were the one I of care, love, kindness, hardwork, honesty, looked up to in everything that I do because you humbleness and making sacrifices. We have were and would always be my mentor. Although been truly blessed to have such a wonderful you are far from here I will look for you among father. He taught me how to let bygone be the stars and each dawn’s pastel sky. Farewell bygone no matter who is right. Daddy took me “Daddy”. in and treated me as one of his children and did Rest in Perfect Peace daddy until we meet again. De okosɛ Daddy

I CANNOT TALK ABOUT MY LIFE GRANDPA WAS THE BEST WITHOUT YOUR IMPARTATION STORYTELLER, LISTENER AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, TRIBUTE FROM DANIEL KOFI OWIREDU BEST FRIEND O death, where is thy to share among the children. We are grateful TRIBUTE FROM SAMUEL MAKOR sting? because that gesture always pushed us O death, where is thy to go to church. On security matters you Grandpa passed away quotes. victory? really taught me a lot to the extent that our I will never erase you in mind, 1 Corinthian 15:55 neighbors even thought I was a security and I promise to hold you in my officer because of the way I handled theft heart till the day we will meet They say there issues in the area. During the challenging again in eternity. is a reason for years you were battling with your health, I everything. They took inspiration from the bible in the book Grandpa was the best storyteller, also say that of PSALM 90:10. I recall our conversation we Listener and most importantly, best time will heal. But had most times, \"Dan are you still praying? friend. He's always there to play with Can you please play me my favourite song us, laugh with us and console us when neither time nor season will change the way titled \"WILL YOUR ANCHOR HOLD\" for me? I need be. Due to his many years. He was the only source I feel in losing you. God is God, all by Himself will miss this question of yours \"Dan are you of sound advice. One thing is sure, the love of a grandpa and gives no notice to whom he calls to glory. asleep? Then I will respond no daddy. You will remain unique forever and will never be forgotten My highest tribute to your death is not grief but then ask why? I say it’s because you are not even when he's lying in the grave. You will remain in gratitude. Your life was one of kindly deeds, a sleeping too. You will continue to say Dan you our heart forever grandpa since there will never be any helping hand for other's needs, sincere and have to sleep because during the day time, I other person who can replace you in our heart and souls true in heart and mind, beautiful memories don’t see you rest, so sleep. This prompted and great love we have for you. The closest friend who left behind. You were a father that brought me that even in your weakness, your caring have become a particular part of my life are the ones unity, peace and oneness by giving advice and heart was always at it maximum. I cannot who have grown up close to loving grandpa. Grandpa my imparting wisdom to us. You supported me talk about my life without your impartation. I family and I would forever be grateful to you for all what the best you could. You were a pillar, and an appreciate you much because it was through you have done for me. Grandpa you were the one I look inspiration to me. My pain was your pain and you I got the opportunity to meet some big up to in everything that I do because you were and would my joy, your happiness. I remember those days dignitaries. This advice will forever remain in still be my mentor. Although you are far from here, I will when you close from church and ask me, Dan my heart, thus \"Be humble, honest, just and look for you among the stars and each dawn's pastel are you also ready to go to church? I together true, then no road will be too long, nor hill too sky. “Farewell Grandpa\". Rest in perfect peace grandpa with the Sunday school children of the then steep for you\". A light from the household until we meet again. Community Eleven branch of the Lighthouse is gone, a voice I loved is stilled. I cannot Chapel will always miss you because after every describe the pain I still feel in my heart, nor Grandpa Damirifa due, De okosɛ grandpa!!!. church service you will call me to bring all the words could express my grief when you left children upstairs and the first question you ask me alone at the 37 military hospital on the GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 37 us was \"Did we pray for you? And our reply was 26th day of July 2022. What a Tuesday it yes Daddy. Then the next thing you always do was!. Thank you for everything daddy. I pray was to give out chocolates and toffees for me your humble soul rest in eternal peace till the day of resurrection, Amen!!! Daddy damirifa due, De okosɛ Daddy!!!

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WHEN THE ICY HANDS OF DEATH STRIKE AND WE BID GOODBYE TO THE PHYSICAL REMAINS OF THE DEPARTED TRIBUTE BY THE GHANA ARMED FORCES TO THE MEMORY OF THE LATE BRIGADIER GENERAL FRANCIS ASIEDU AGYEMFRA (GH/420) – RETIRED 40 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

“Our dead are never dead to us, until we have The late General’s International Course at the Royal Air Force, forgotten them.” George Eliot. life out of uniform Bassingbourn in the United Kingdom from June to August 1965, Unit Fire Officers’ 1. When the icy hands of death strike and was exemplary. Course at the Ghana Armed Forces Fire we bid goodbye to the physical remains of His selflessness, Service in March 1968. General Agyemfra the departed, we retain the memories of commitment, hard also attended the Company Commanders’ their deeds. The rank and file of the Ghana work and honesty Course at the Military Academy and Training Armed Forces are again troubled that continued to inspire Schools, Teshie from October to December another comrade has fallen and never to many, especially, 1969, Junior Staff Course at the Ghana be seen again. Beloved family, friends and Officers of the Ghana Armed Forces Command and Staff College, comrades of the Ghana Armed Forces, we Teshie from July to December 1970 and have gathered here this morning united Armed Forces Foreign Officer Intelligence Course at Fort in pain and sorrow to bid final farewell to Huachuca, Arizona, in the United States of a father, grandfather, friend and mentor. 3. The late General Agyemfra had an America from April to June 1975. Between The late Brigadier General Francis Asiedu admirable career. He undertook all the December 1975 to December 1976, the late Agyemfra whose mortal remains lie before relevant career courses, both locally and General undertook the Senior Command us was one of the revered Generals of our overseas. The knowledge gained from these and Staff Course at the Malaysia Senior noble profession. courses coupled with his experience imbued Staff College in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. He him with the necessary skill set for a sterling also attended a Workshop on Negotiation 2. General Agyemfra was born on 29 May career. The Career courses he attended and Advance Negotiation, a Programme of 1939 at Larteh-Akuapim. He attended included: Platoon Commanders’ Course at Instruction for Lawyers at the Harvard Law Odorgonno Secondary School and obtained the Military Academy and Training Schools School in June 1996. the West African School Certificate in 1959. (MATS), Teshie from March to April 1964, He enlisted for Military training at the Ghana Users Communication Officers’ Course at 1 4. The illustrious career of General Agyemfra Military Academy, Teshie on October 1961 Signal Regiment, Burma Camp from March encompassed both staff and command and was commissioned on 30 September to April 1965, Joint School of Photographic appointments in Ghana and abroad. He 1962 as an Infantry Officer as part of Regular was a Platoon Commander at 4 Battalion Career Course 4 (Intake Number 4). He was of Infantry from September 1962 to May an affable Officer who diligently served the 1965, Intelligence Officer at the Ministry of Colours for Thirty-Eight (38) years and was Defence, Burma Camp from May 1965 to honourably released on 19 May 2000. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 41

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February 1966. He served again as a Platoon then One Infantry Brigade, Teshie from Ghana Armed Forces even in his retirement. August 1988 to October 1989 and was The sad news of his demise was therefore a Commander at the Armed Forces Training later appointed in substantive capacity from big shock to the Leadership and the entire October 1989 to June 1992. From June 1992 personnel of the Ghana Armed Forces. Once Centre from February to November 1966 to August 1996, he served as the Chief of Staff again, death has laid its icy hands on one of at the General Headquarters of the Ghana our beloved Generals. As we unite in grief and subsequently, as Company Second- Armed Forces, Burma Camp. After his tenure to mourn the passing of this respectable In-Command at the Armed Forces Training as the Chief of Staff, General Agyemfra was General, we cannot only mourn, but celebrate Centre from November 1966 to April 1967. seconded to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs his praiseworthy accomplishments and Between December 1969 and July 1970, he as Special Assistant from February to August service. was a Company Commander at 4 Battalion of 1997 and was later appointed as Ghana’s Infantry. From January 1971 to March 1974, Ambassador to Liberia from August 1997 to 8. Brigadier General Francis Asiedu General Agyemfra was appointed the Deputy May 2000. Agyemfra, the Chief of the Defence Staff and Defence Adviser, at the Defence Adviser’s the entire rank and file of the Ghana Armed Office, London. On his return home, he was 6. In recognition of Brigadier General Francis Forces are certain that you have fought a appointed the General Staff Officer Grade Asiedu Agyemfra’s remarkable contributions, good and successful fight. What lies ahead Two at the then Military Intelligence from he was awarded the Long Service and of you, is the crown of righteousness, which March 1974 to December 1975, Brigade Efficiency Medal on 30 June 1978. His the merciful Lord and Judge, shall give you on Major at the Headquarters of the then 2 distinguished and unblemished active service that appointed day. You are gone but never Infantry Brigade Group from December came to an end when he was honourably to be forgotten. We take solace in the fact 1976 to March 1978. The late General was released from the Ghana Armed Forces on that “Generals do not die, they fade away.” appointed the Commanding Officer of Ghana 19 May 2000. The wisdom, knowledge and To the bereaved family, please accept our Military Academy, Teshie from March 1978 to military competence exhibited by the late deepest condolences and wipe your tears for December 1980, General Staff Officer Grade General in the various appointments he held your dear husband, father and grandfather One Operations at the Army Headquarters were commendable and highly appreciated has paid his earthly dues in fulfilment of his from December 1980 to February 1982. He by all. Maker’s call. later served as the Colonel General Staff at the Army Headquarters from February 1982 7. The late General’s life out of uniform was Our Dear General and Comrade, march on to August 1983. From August to December exemplary. His selflessness, commitment, strong to God’s glory. May your gentle soul 1983, he was the Director General (Logistics) hard work and honesty continued to inspire rest in absolute and perpetual peace. Amen! at the Ministry of Defence, Burma Camp. The many, especially, Officers of the Ghana late General was seconded to the Ministry Armed Forces. He availed himself to share GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 43 of Agriculture, Accra from December 1983 his experiences with the rank and file of the to August 1988. He was appointed Acting Commander at the Headquarters of the

WITH MAJOR FRED AFFOH (RTD) INTAKE MATE AND FRIEND. OATHFHAEUTMMIUSILLWIATTOYIROTNHY 44 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN BY GHANA MILITARY ACADEMY INTAKE IV ASSOCIATION Today, GMA intake IV mourns once again one of its most illustrious members, Brig-Gen Francis Kwadwo Asiedu Agyemfra. Though born into a royal family, the son of a great chief of Larteh Kubease, Nana Asiedu Agyemfra V of Larteh Kubease, Francis as he was affectionately called by all his colleagues, and Kwadwo, by his very intimate friends and family members was not to be confined to traditional roles. He rose beyond tradition and like his peers who had just completed their secondary education responded to the clarion call by the first

President of Ghana, Osagyefo Dr. Kwame of all GMA Intake Associations. Francis was a 40TH ANNIVERSARY - INTAKE IV Nkrumah to be enlisted into the military to very active member and participated in all our serve their country. Undaunted by the risks meetings and anniversary celebrations, except the He rose beyond tradition involved, Francis like all his colleagues stepped 60th Anniversary due to is failing health. He never and like his peer members forward raised his hands and swore the oath reneged in his obligations towards the Association who had just completed to serve his country “on land, in air, and on the and when he could no longer attend our monthly their secondary education sea even to the peril of my life” and that was meetings, he would delegate the wife, madam responded to the clarion the beginning of his great service to the Nation Perpetual to represent him and settle his dues. call by the first President of Ghana. On his graduation from the Ghana We, the members of GMA IV Association mourn Ghana, Osagyefo Dr. Kwame Military Academy, Francis served in various Francis for this irreplaceable loss, and wish him a Nkrumah to be enlisted into capacities in the Ghana Armed Forces, rising to blissful journey into the bosom of his maker. May the military to serve their become the chief of staff of the Ghana Armed our Lord grant Brig. Gen. Francis Kwadwo Asiedu Forces. He also served in civilian establishment Agyemfra eternal rest in His bosom. Amen.Tribute country. with much dedication and humility. When to the Memory of Brigadier General Francis Asiedu GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 45 he was appointed special Assistant to their Agyemfra Secretary of Agriculture, though being his intake mate and of equal rank, Brigadier General Francis Agyemfra, humbled himself to work under Commodore Steve Obimpeh to ensure that much was achieved in the ministry. A humility that is worthy of emulation. GMA intake IV also prides itself as having once again one of its members in the person of Francis being appointed Ambassador to the Republic of Liberia. All this will be captured in other tributes but suffice to say that GMA IV is proud to have had such a personality as a member of our intake. After several years of dedicated service to his country, Francis eventually retired. He became a staunch member of GMA intake 4 association, the Premier Association

TAHNEDFHRIISENADDOTHPTOIUONHATSRTIED Those immortal words summed up the close relationship between the two of us. Indeed, GRAPPLE HIM TO THY SOUL WITH HOOPS OF STEEL we accepted and respected the bond and friendship that was legendary in its scope and H. E. JAMES VICTOR GBEHO intensity. FORMER MINISTER OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS AND FORMER PRESIDENT OF THE ECOWAS COMMISSION. I first met Francis, as he preferred to be called by his close friends, soon after I arrived in Within hours of the passing away of London in 1976 to serve in the Ghana High my friend, colleague and confidant, Commission. He was a young Major in the Brigadier General Francis Asiedu office of the Defence Advisor. We became Agyemfra (RTD), the terrible news instant friends because of his God-given nature was broken to me by his family who knew of of quickly endearing himself to new colleagues our close friendship that had lasted almost half and friends. He was young, handsome and a century. I was confused and my inner self well mannered, qualities that are assets in sadly wounded as I contemplated the sudden diplomacy. We also shared the passion for transition of this trustworthy son of Ghana and pursuing excellence in the respective careers Africa. we had recently embarked upon in enhancing Ghana’s international relations. Little did we My mind turned inexorably to the words of know then that the bond would last for the rest William Shakespeare in his play, Hamlet. of our lives. “The friend thou hast and his adoption tried Francis lost no time in formally introducing Grapple him to thy soul with hoops of steel…” me to his family especially his loving and industrious wife, Mrs. Perpetua Agyemfra in 46 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN London and the others at home in Ghana. In a short time, his family accepted me and I reciprocated their love and trust. He also became Uncle Francis to my children and their friends. I will always remember the remarkable conversations that we had covering politics, economics, social and defence interests of our

country with the United Kingdom. We often and discipline of a professional soldier. Soon, by the sound of heavy gunfire. Francis’ mere reminded each other of the obligation to factor the results were there for all to see. He left presence boosted my moral tremendously, the interests of the Ghanaian Community in behind a legacy of high yields of produce and He gave a running commentary on what was the U.K in most of our representational duties. greater interest in Agriculture by young farmers happening. We both stayed with the war until It was a serious challenge which we accepted in all parts of the country. it was brought under control and elections and did our best to confront. held which Charles Taylor won. All these Another feather in the then young Colonel’s developments had been interestingly enough On the return of both of us to Ghana after our cap was the display of voluntary social predicted by the Brig-General in our private respective postings to the High Commission responsibility at the Polo Club in Accra. He conversations. Little wonder therefore that in London, our friendship grew even stronger, decided to do something about the facilities he was the natural choice as Ambassador to especially because Francis ensured that I was available to the members and guests there. Liberia when relative peace returned to that introduced to Larteh, his hometown. Francis He had a grocery shop opened also at the club war-torn country. took me to Larteh Kubease where his father where fresh sausages, eggs, chicken etc. were was then the Chief. My recollection of the first sold to members. The produce were from the I have recounted these episodes in my close meeting with his father is that he was regal farm of a Canadian Cypriot member – a friend friend and colleague’s life to honour an and friendly. Very handsome, even though who had earlier looked after the horses of iconic soldier who contributed so much to he was then in his eighties. I enjoyed the President Rawlings. Patronage of the Accra the visions of our motherland. Francis was a fulfilling hospitality that his parents and family Polo Club shot up unexpectedly as members knowledgeable, disciplined and peace-loving extended to me. Of course, Colonel Francis did not only drink beverages, but had them person who gave of his best to advance the Asiedu Agyemfra as he had then become, with nutritious food. interest of his country and people. He was on return from London, was the brain child indeed a soldier and a gentleman. Memories behind the uncommon union between our two It is no exaggeration that Brigadier General of this unique friend and colleague will remain families. Francis Agyemfra rendered outstanding with my family until we join him again in services in the area of the pursuit of peace eternity. Without doubt, the young colonel was a and security in Liberia. I personally benefitted true professional soldier. He approached all a lot from his experiences when I worked Farewell Francis. challenges with battle-ready thoroughness of closely with him because I was the then special a military officer. He was at one stage during representative of the Chairman of Ecowas in Farewell my trusted and honoured brother. the military governance period of our country that hapless country. May the Almighty receive and place you by his appointed to the leadership of the Ministry side until we meet again on the morning of the of Agriculture. Francis approached the new We were both woken up at my residence in day of resurrection. Amen. civilian challenge with the precision planning Monrovia on the morning of April 6th 1996 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 47

WMATTHHNOAERDMSOT,TEURHHNUGEETHERSTOSEUOMURLTABDTIUINHELEREEDNAHSTTETTOAICCK TRIBUTE BY MOHAMED IBN CHAMBAS, FORMER PRESIDENT OF ECOWAS COMMISSION. It was with a heavy heart that I learned of military person representing the Ghana Armed the sad passing away of Brigadier General Forces on these mediation and peacemaking Francis Agyemfra, (Brigadier), my dear missions. brother and friend. I became quite close with the late Brigadier On one such visit on September 14, 1990, I Without doubt, the young colonel through several layers of relationships. shared a cabin with Brigadier on GNS Yogaga. was a true professional soldier. Just as we were about to depart the Freeport He approached all challenges The first was an official one, our countless of Monrovia that fateful day, the vessel was missions to Liberia in the 1990s, in the quest bombed by Liberian rebel forces. The attack with battle-ready thoroughness of for an end to the civil war put us together killed four Naval personnel and injured several a military officer professionally. I often led the Ghana delegations persons on board, including Brigadier. when I was at the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and Brigadier was usually the most senior The true soldier he was, he remained stoic throughout the attack and the turbulent 48 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

moments following, never exhibiting the extent Brigadier. My close friends Sammy Bossman, To me personally, he was a source of inspiration of his injury. It was not until we returned to Yaw Attrams, Lord Doudu-Kumi, Richie and motivation over the years. A fountain of Accra and he was admitted into the 37 Military Agyemfra-Kumi, all turned out to be cousins wise advice to whom I often turned for both Hospital that I realized the serious nature of it. and an in-law of Brigadier. personal and professional counsel. I recall seeking his guidance when I was about to leave We literally stared death in the face together Eleanor Akrofi of Atlanta, USA, another niece of Ghana to head the ECOWAS. He said something in Monrovia on that occasion. This harrowing General, is the God Mother and Mentor of my to the effect that I had already demonstrated experience was to strengthen the bonds of daughter Shakira. Indeed, it was Eleanor who my competence in handling subregional camaraderie and friendship between Brigadier informed me about Brigadier’s ailment from matters even from Ghana so I would fit the and I over the years. which he never really recovered. I used to be new role effortlessly/naturally, and wished me in regular whatsup contact with Brigadier. And God’s speed. That was most encouraging. From of the official trips, another layer of we regularly met over a meal whenever I came personal friendship developed with the on home leave or an official mission. When I I have lost a bosom friend. We have lost persons we had come to know and build lasting noticed that he had not replied to a number of an affectionate, compassionate person in relationships with through the protracted my messages, I asked Eleanor if Brigadier had Brigadier. Liberian peace process: former Nigerian Head changed his number as it was most unusual of of State, Gen. Alhaji Abdulsalami Abubakar, him not to respond to his messages. My deepest condolences go out to his beloved former Liberian Presidents, late Amos Sawyer wife, Mrs Agyemfra, his children, grandchildren and Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, Liberian Women Brigadier cherished his family and friends. He and the entire Agyemfra family of Larteh, the activists Miatta Fahnbulleh, her mother Mary would reach out to enquire about you if he Ghana Armed Forces, his countless friends and Brownell, Teresa Lee Sherman, Grace Minor had not seen or heard from one in a while. He loved ones. Our thoughts and prayers are with and Senator Commany Wisseh and his wife was loyal to his friends. If Brigadier was close you during this period of grief and mourning. Mano River Union Secretary General Medina to one, high or low, he remained so over the Wisseh, to mention but a few. They, and years, in good times and in bad times. That was May God grant you the grace and tenacity to several others, became mutual friends. They Brigadier. Always full of smiles and laughter. bare the painful and irreparable loss and to considered Brigadier as family often visiting move on. him at his Tema home over the years, and never It is now cliché to say an Officer and a Gentleman. failing to ask about him anytime I saw them. But Brigadier was truly a Gentleman Officer and Fare thee well Brigadier. They expressed their profound sadness when a born Diplomat; affable, polite, humble, caring, I informed them about the demise of Brigadier. considerate and generous. Yet he could trusted Damirifa Due, Due. and relied upon to deliver on challenging tasks Yet another layer of relationships were assigned to him. GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN 49 friendships with close family members of

BY HIS DEATH, I HAVE NOT LOST A GREAT BOSS FROM WHOM I BY BRIG GEN JS NKRUMAH (RTD) AND BRIG GEN K OPONG KYEKYEKU (RTD) LEARNT MANY THINGS “Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another.” We have decided to write a joint (Ernest Hemingway). tribute in honour of the late Brig Gen Agyemfra because of the nature of Even though it was a pride to be identified as a Even in retirement, Gen Agyemfra continued good staff material worthy to be entrusted with to rely on me to do some research and write such tasks, I did not feel comfortable having to papers for him. His speech delivery was superb our relationship with him. We both bypass his personal staff officers to deal with and one felt proud to hear him deliver a paper served as his Staff Officers at various stages him on what should be purely the assignment for in which one had input in drafting. of our career. In that joint capacity we served a the staff officers. When I complained about it, he common purpose, even though from different arranged for me to be posted to his office as one It is unfortunate that at the latter stages of his perspectives, as stated below: of his Staff Officers. This brought us into direct life, failing health did not allow him to be active. IBRIG GEN JS NKRUMAH (RTD) daily contact. I continued to visit him and the family at Tema came into contact with the late General until it got to a stage when he did not recognize Agyemfra (Rtd) in the course of my career as For the period that I worked under him, I found one’s presence and there was no need to visit a serving officer of the Ghana Armed Forces. General Agyemfra to be a very approachable him again. Our relationship was that of a senior and officer who respected one’s views so far as the junior officer rendering service in arms to our views could be defended. By his death, I have not only lost a great boss dear country. The relationship however became from whom I learnt many things but have lost closer in the late 90s when I came to work directly General Agyemfra was deeply involved in a mentor and inspirer. My condolences go to under him as one of his Staff Officers. negotiating peace in the Liberian conflict in the Auntie Perpetua, the children and family at 90s. I worked closely with him in that regard and Larteh. undertook trips with him to some West African I was a Legal Officer at the Legal Directorate countries in pursuit of peace in war-torn Liberia. Dear General, may the good Lord rest your of the Ghana Armed Forces in the late 80s at a I also undertook a trip with him to Zimbabwe gentle soul in perfect peace until the trumpet time the late General Agyemfra was the Chief of where I had the opportunity to see the Victoria sounds on the resurrection day. Staff at the General Headquarters. He used to Falls for the first time. send work for me to do from his office. On one He recognized my assistance to him and arranged occasion, he commissioned me and Brig Gen Dan for me to attend a number of interviews towards Frimpong to draft a Defense Policy for Ghana. placing me on secondment to civil institutions. 50 GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN