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["quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eadu \u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng g\u1eedi th\u01b0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1eadu ta, tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1eb7t l\u1ea1nh hay c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o c\u1eadu ta, c\u1ee9 coi nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1eady. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129 k\u0129 c\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eadu ta s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u ra t\u00e2m \u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u1ee3p l\u00ed. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u1eadu ta v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu hi\u1ec3u, v\u1eady th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i. C\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i r\u00f5 ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft cho c\u1eadu ta m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c th\u01b0, bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec1n h\u00f2a, kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o nh\u01b0ng ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f4i th\u00f4i, d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u00e0ng trai s\u1ebd v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u201c\u0111eo b\u00e1m\u201d, v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1o c\u1eadu ta, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1eadu ta t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y; khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hay th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ee9ng ra h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, m\u1eb9 khuy\u00ean con n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb Lan r\u1eb1ng: n\u00ean n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea3o m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y ch\u1edb n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1c \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft. M\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00eam v\u00e0i c\u00e2u, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m \u201ct\u00e1m ch\u1eef\u201d \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi con trai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cNhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau\u201d. Trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con trai hay con g\u00e1i th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m m\u00ecnh xem th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta; n\u1ebfu c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m b\u1ed9 l\u00e0m t\u1ecbch s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh; n\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, th\u1edd \u01a1, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa l\u00e1nh con h\u01a1n. Nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 giao l\u01b0u v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1eb7t bi\u1ec7t danh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u2026. Con ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 khi con t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng g\u1ea5p b\u1ed9i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 63 T\u1ea0I SAO \u0110\u1eb6C BI\u1ec6T TH\u00cdCH CH\u01a0I V\u1edaI CON TRAI? Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: Con n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng con ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf trong l\u1edbp con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u1eef th\u00edch ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nam, c\u00f2n th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam. M\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nam l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00eau \u0111\u00f9a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1eef, con g\u00e1i c\u00e0ng lo, c\u00e0ng t\u1ee9c, b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng th\u00edch th\u00fa, \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng! Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y nay c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, con g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u201cc\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng h\u1edf r\u0103ng\u201d ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb9, d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a; con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1t khao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 con trai; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t chung, con g\u00e1i ch\u1ee3t ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra con trai c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u01b0: d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, \u01b0a m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, d\u00e1m th\u1eed, nhi\u1ec1u s\u1edf th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1ecb, tri th\u1ee9c phong ph\u00fa, l\u1ea1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1edfi m\u1edf, \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u2026 H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, khi ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi con trai, con trai th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng so \u0111o, t\u00ednh to\u00e1n nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, xung \u0111\u1ed9t nho nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 gi\u1eefa con g\u00e1i v\u1edbi nhau. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u1eef c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, ho\u1ea1t b\u00e1t, n\u0103ng n\u1ed5 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi con trai. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u1eef v\u1ed1n d\u0129 kh\u00f4ng hay ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con trai nh\u01b0ng sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ed7ng th\u00edch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con trai m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u201cl\u1ea1 th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e1m con trai, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec3u t\u00f3c, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c, s\u1ebd \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u1edbn ti\u1ebfng ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 cho l\u00e0 uy\u00ean th\u00e2m, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat, ho\u1eb7c cao gi\u1ecdng h\u00e1t, l\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u1edbt \u0111i qua \u0111i l\u1ea1i\u2026. K\u00ec th\u1ef1c, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1m con trai ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, l\u00e0m b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat con g\u00e1i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat \u0111\u00e1m con trai, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u1eadu con trai m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y th\u00edch. V\u1eady, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con trai th\u00ec sao? Ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u00f9ng nhau \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m r\u1ed3i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quen thu\u1ed9c. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u1ed1n d\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, khi ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, hay trong c\u00e1c s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u0111am m\u00ea c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nhau. Khi con g\u00e1i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1edbm h\u01a1n con trai, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con trai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1ecf; c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng (v\u00ed d\u1ee5 h\u1ecdc th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c trong th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 kinh) con g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tham gia b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng hi\u1ebfu k\u00ec v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u cho r\u00f5 r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 v\u00ec sao. M\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed hay ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, phim \u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd\u2026 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed9i dung c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n trai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u201c\u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i\u201d c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o b\u0103ng v\u1ec7 sinh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u cho t\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadn. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd \u00e2m th\u1ea7m theo d\u00f5i s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u00fam n\u0103m t\u1ee5m ba l\u1ea1i b\u00e0n t\u00e1n, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cthu th\u1eadp ngu\u1ed3n tin\u201d b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. B\u1ecdn h\u1ecd c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh l\u00fac n\u00e0y, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh, tr\u00eau \u0111\u00f9a, c\u1ed1 \u00fd ch\u1ecdc gh\u1eb9o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1eef, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c \u201cth\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n\u201d ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y hay ho nh\u01b0 l\u00e9n xem b\u0103ng v\u1ec7 sinh c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i\u2026. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i so \u0111o v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1eddi k\u00ec \u201ckhi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0 phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o\u201d, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a, d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y c\u00e1c con n\u1eefa. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 64 G\u1eb6P PH\u1ea2I K\u1eba QU\u1ea4Y R\u1ed0I PH\u1ea2I L\u00c0M SAO? Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: M\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y con r\u1ea5t \u00edt nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n Thanh. G\u1eb7ng h\u1ecfi th\u00ec con m\u1edbi n\u00f3i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y th\u00edch \u00f4m vai b\u00e1 c\u1ed5, k\u00e9o ch\u00e2n k\u00e9o tay c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c (bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 con trai), c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u1ebf n\u00ean con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Thanh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa c\u00e1ch. C\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u201cKho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch sinh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p\u201d, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gian cho c\u00e1i t\u00f4i m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 an to\u00e0n. C\u00e1c b\u00e1o c\u00e1o nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u1eeb 0,75\u20131,5m, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u1eeba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p. Nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng gian cho c\u00e1i t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u1edf con g\u00e1i, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t coi tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nam \u0111\u1ebfn k\u00e9o tay k\u00e9o ch\u00e2n, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1eef s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng vui. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c con \u0111ang \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u201c\u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ea1m\u201d v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 trong nh\u1eefng \u201cti\u1ebfp x\u00fac\u201d \u1edf kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Con g\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0: n\u00fai \u0111\u00f4i, v\u00f9ng k\u00edn, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o. N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb ra m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. C\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cqu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c? G\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ed1 \u00fd c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng vui, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m, sinh l\u00ed. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi x\u00e2m ph\u1ea1m tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u01b0: s\u1edd so\u1ea1ng c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng khu v\u1ef1c ri\u00eang t\u01b0, nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u1ea3y c\u1ea3m tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3; c\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00e9p \u00f4m \u1ea5p, h\u00f4n h\u00edt; d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u, \u0111\u00ea ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00eau c\u1ee3t; \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3i xem phim, \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh, quay phim kh\u1ecfa th\u00e2n\u2026. H\u00e0nh vi qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng gi\u1edbi. C\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y cho th\u1ea5y, ngo\u00e0i http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen nh\u01b0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u1eadn ch\u00ed l\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e2n th\u00edch\u2026. Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh vi qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ph\u00e1i n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00ed v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n, m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00ed th\u01b0\u1eddng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con g\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft n\u00ean c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ph\u00f2ng v\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 m\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen; ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi con r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n l\u00ed tr\u00ed v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi \u0111i ri\u00eang v\u1edbi con trai, ho\u1eb7c \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac, chen ch\u00fac, d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng va ch\u1ea1m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean xe bu\u00fdt\u2026 M\u1ed9t khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ho\u1ea3ng h\u1ed1t, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean r\u1ee5t r\u00e8, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1eafc ch\u00ed, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n l\u00e2n \u0111\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea7u. Ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u xa nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng tr\u1ecb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, k\u00eau c\u1ee9u ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ra hi\u1ec7u v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn tho\u00e1ng \u0111\u00e3ng, n\u01a1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eadp trung ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i c\u00f3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, s\u1edf c\u00f4ng an\u2026 t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch k\u00eau c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng, tr\u00e1nh khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi qu\u00e1 kh\u00edch. L\u00fac n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t t\u00edn http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","hi\u1ec7u k\u00eau c\u1ee9u ho\u1eb7c tho\u00e1t th\u00e2n. Cho d\u00f9 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh vi qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u00e1o c\u00e1o v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 huynh, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ghi nh\u1edb \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i, trang ph\u1ee5c\u2026 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p th\u00f4ng tin cho c\u00f4ng an nh\u1eb1m b\u1eaft gi\u1eef v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, h\u00e0nh vi, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c suy ngh\u0129 d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tham lam, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3 tin, kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n nh\u1eadn qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 l\u1eddi m\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1ed1i \u0111a \u0111i ch\u01a1i ri\u00eang v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qua \u0111\u00eam \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng qua l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t; bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i v\u1eafng v\u1ebb, t\u1ed1i t\u0103m; kh\u00f4ng \u0103n m\u1eb7c h\u1edf hang, kh\u00f4ng trang \u0111i\u1ec3m qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1eadm; ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft b\u00e0i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o, phim \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y. Gi\u1eef g\u00ecn s\u1ef1 trong s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh! M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 65 NH\u1eeeNG NG\u01af\u1edcI B\u1ea0N K\u1ebeT GIAO QUA M\u1ea0NG \u0110\u1ec0U L\u00c0 B\u1ea0N X\u1ea4U SAO? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: H\u00f4m nay, con mang t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o V\u0103n h\u00f3a online d\u00e0nh cho thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, m\u1eb9 con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec1m l\u1ecdc trang web theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o. \u0110\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n nay ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa, c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 xi\u1ebft; m\u00e0 internet ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i, nhanh g\u1ecdn nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t; n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f4ng gian v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7n \u00edch v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, vui ch\u01a1i gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi internet. M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng chat, g\u1eedi email, ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, l\u01b0\u1edbt facebook\u2026 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. N\u00f3i th\u1ef1c l\u00f2ng, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng internet ho\u1eb7c k\u00e9m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 internet, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea1o, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o? Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u1ea5u t\u1ed1t l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nguy hi\u1ec3m. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","internet l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea3o, c\u00e1c \u201cho\u00e0ng t\u1eed\u201d tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u201cch\u00e0ng \u1ebfch\u201d ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c; nh\u1eefng \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n\u201d, \\\"chi\u1ebfn h\u1eefu\\\" v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u v\u00ec nghi\u1ec7n internet m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang ch\u1ef1c ch\u1edd con b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1edbp ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed\u2026. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc con c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p \u1edf tr\u00ean b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, ti vi\u2026 \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u; h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, b\u1ed5 \u00edch cho m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng v\u0103n h\u00f3a qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c phong ph\u00fa nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con. Trong th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: T\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o c\u00e1c trang web \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c qu\u00e1n net\u2026. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0, khi chat tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n n\u00f3i ra c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0: t\u00ean th\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp \u0111ang h\u1ecdc, s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i\u2026. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean add nick nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u0103ng \u1ea3nh ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1eeba b\u00e3i; khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, mang t\u00ednh khi\u00eau kh\u00edch, uy hi\u1ebfp\u2026. th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9; kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi m\u1eddi m\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n ra ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01a1i\u2026. Y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng cho c\u00e1c con, mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u00e1c con m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0 l\u00e0m theo. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t con th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fang sai v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang sai r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb, c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c, ch\u1ea3i chu\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n; h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o, t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed, \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh, c\u00e1c trang web l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n (bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng), gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, tr\u00e0n s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng tuy\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 66 TH\u1ee6 D\u00c2M L\u00c0 H\u00c0NH VI C\u1ee6A CON G\u00c1I H\u01af? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: Th\u1ef1c ra, d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y m\u1eb9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1eafc m\u1eafc nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb ch\u01b0a tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e1c con. B\u1edfi v\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh cho thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean ti vi, ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft, qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o\u2026 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec3u l\u01a1 m\u01a1 v\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u00f2 m\u00f2. M\u1eb9 v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 do d\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 n\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng? N\u00ean tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ra sao? N\u00ean tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn hay n\u00ean n\u00f3i qua cho xong chuy\u1ec7n? Hay l\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con? Sau nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y \u201c\u0111\u1ea5u tranh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d v\u00e0 tr\u01b0ng c\u1ea7u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u201cn\u00f3i r\u00f5\u201d v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c con t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 c\u00f3 an to\u00e0n hay kh\u00f4ng, chi b\u1eb1ng c\u1ee9 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn cho c\u00e1c con m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c th\u01b0 ti\u1ebfp sau \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p t\u1eebng \u201cc\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f3\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t: M\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con l\u00e0 ai, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y t\u1ef1 d\u00f9ng tay s\u1edd m\u00f3 v\u00f9ng k\u00edn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1ee7 d\u00e2m\u201d, l\u00e0 t\u1eeb d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng tay \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay \u0111\u1ea1t kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m. H\u00e0nh vi th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. Nh\u01b0ng sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho hay, c\u1ea3 con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u1edf con trai. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 sinh l\u00ed, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c sinh ho\u1ea1t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e0nh vi th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m v\u1edbi t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng \u201cgi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa\u201d nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u sinh l\u00ed v\u00e0 \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00ed t\u00edch t\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e2u trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9, g\u00e2y ra m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7, ch\u00f3ng m\u1eb7t, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, tinh th\u1ea7n ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7, suy gi\u1ea3m tr\u00ed nh\u1edb\u2026. Nh\u01b0ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm k\u00edch th\u00edch qua h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i t\u00e2m l\u00ed. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u00e1i n\u1eef, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi s\u1edd m\u00f3 v\u00f9ng k\u00edn, d\u00f9ng ng\u00f3n tay ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, \u00e2m v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft ni\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1eafn, ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi 4cm, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u1ea1i n\u1eb1m s\u00e1t \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o. Th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho ni\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea1o sung huy\u1ebft v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ea7m b\u1ec7nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ni\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ea1o ng\u1eafn v\u00e0 th\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng g\u00e2y vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m b\u00e0ng quang, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00e2y b\u1ec7nh vi\u00eam th\u1eadn, l\u00e0m xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111i ti\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, \u0111au bu\u1ed1t khi \u0111i ti\u1ec3u, nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111au l\u01b0ng, \u1edbn l\u1ea1nh, s\u1ed1t cao, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m m\u00e3n t\u00ednh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi\u2026 Th\u1ee9 hai, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1eeda \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3ng, c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn vi khu\u1ea9n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m cho t\u1eed cung, \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng\u2026. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1eafc, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh v\u00f4 sinh sau n\u00e0y. M\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi vi khu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng, ch\u00fang c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1t t\u00e1n ra \u1ed5 b\u1ee5ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y vi\u00eam m\u00e0ng b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 vi\u00eam ru\u1ed9t th\u1eeba. Th\u1ee9 ba, \u1edf ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 huy\u1ebft tr\u1eafng \u1edf c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, khi b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch, huy\u1ebft tr\u1eafng s\u1ebd ti\u1ebft ra nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u1edf khu v\u1ef1c ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1eeda \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng ch\u1ea5t ti\u1ebft, t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 sinh s\u00f4i c\u1ee7a vi khu\u1ea9n, d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y b\u1ec7nh vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c. Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng axit, c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 sinh s\u00f4i c\u1ee7a vi khu\u1ea9n. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, trong v\u00e0 sau http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","khi \u201c\u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u1ecf\u201d, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, n\u1ebfu th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 g\u00e2y vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp g\u00e2y ra vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c khi b\u1ecb k\u00edch th\u00edch s\u1ebd \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i sung huy\u1ebft, m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u1edf v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i sung huy\u1ebft s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e1u trong k\u00ec kinh, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i g\u00e2y b\u1ed9i nhi\u1ec5m vi\u00eam \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o. Nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n n\u1eef khi th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng th\u00eam kho\u00e1i c\u1ea3m c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a d\u1ecb v\u1eadt v\u00e0o trong \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gia t\u0103ng nguy c\u01a1 vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0a d\u1ecb v\u1eadt v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea5y d\u1ecb v\u1eadt ra b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u00f5, th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 67 CON TRAI V\u00c0 CON G\u00c1I \u00d4M H\u00d4N NHAU S\u1ebc C\u00d3 THAI SAO? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: N\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng trong l\u00f2ng c\u0169ng v\u01a1i \u0111i r\u1ed3i. Th\u1ef1c ra, sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n d\u1eady th\u00ec, b\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh t\u0103ng l\u00ean; cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con trai hay con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, do nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean hay b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u e ng\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i cho con c\u00e1i bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i qua loa v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec7 sinh sinh l\u00ed, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f2n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Khi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng \\\"c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c\\\" \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, sai l\u1ea7m, g\u00e2y ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Hi\u1ec7n nay, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n, c\u00e1c ngu\u1ed3n th\u00f4ng tin ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin khoa h\u1ecdc, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn m\u1edbi l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi th\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 hai: Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201c\u1ea5y \u1ea5y\u201d tr\u00ean ti vi. Con trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i y\u00eau nhau, \u00f4m h\u00f4n nhau, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 thai? Nh\u01b0 ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn, \u1edf m\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ee9ng ch\u00edn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f3ng ra kh\u1ecfi bu\u1ed3ng tr\u1ee9ng. C\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u1ea5y, n\u1ed9i m\u1ea1c t\u1eed cung s\u1ebd d\u00e0y l\u00ean v\u00e0 sung huy\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a hormone, l\u00fac n\u00e0y t\u1eed cung \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n m\u1ed9t sinh m\u1ec7nh m\u1edbi. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c tinh tr\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra t\u1eeb tinh ho\u00e0n tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con trai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f3ng th\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i, k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tr\u1ee9ng s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh \u201ctr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh\u201d. Tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5 \u1edf n\u1ed9i m\u1ea1c t\u1eed cung, l\u00fac n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thai. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 tr\u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ee5 tinh, ni\u00eam m\u1ea1c t\u1eed cung s\u1ebd bong ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o th\u1ea3i ra ngo\u00e0i \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi tr\u1ee9ng, t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh kinh nguy\u1ec7t. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, ch\u1ec9 khi tr\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a n\u1eef k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi tinh tr\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a nam t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5 \u1edf t\u1eed cung m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 thai. C\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c con http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","trai v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i \u00f4m h\u00f4n nhau ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t sinh h\u00e0nh vi \\\"quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 thai. V\u1eady, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c? Khi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f9ng nhau chung s\u1ed1ng, khi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, kinh t\u1ebf, t\u00e2m l\u00ed v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau \u00f4m \u1ea5p, h\u00f4n nhau, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi, hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cchim\u201d s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201cc\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9ng\u201d; c\u00f2n \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u1eef c\u0169ng ti\u1ebft ra ch\u1ea5t d\u1ecbch l\u1ecfng, khi\u1ebfn cho \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u01a1n h\u01a1n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd ph\u00f3ng th\u00edch ra c\u00e1c tinh tr\u00f9ng b\u00ean trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c \u201cph\u00f3ng tinh\u201d. C\u00f2n \u1edf n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f3ng th\u00edch kh\u1ecfi bu\u1ed3ng tr\u1ee9ng s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 ch\u1edd tinh tr\u00f9ng b\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ee5 tinh. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nam gi\u1edbi ph\u00f3ng tinh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 tinh tr\u00f9ng, tr\u00f4ng t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con n\u00f2ng n\u1ecdc, r\u1ea5t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi tr\u1ee9ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 tinh tr\u00f9ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o trong tr\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh. Trong v\u00f2ng n\u0103m ng\u00e0y, tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh s\u1ebd di chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o trong t\u1eed cung, trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5 trong t\u1eed cung, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean ph\u00f4i thai, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t sinh m\u1ec7nh m\u1edbi. Ngay sau \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ee9ng s\u1ebd l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp m\u00e0ng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n kh\u00f4ng cho c\u00e1c tinh tr\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o. C\u00e1c tinh tr\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c sau khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c \u201cchinh ph\u1ee5c\u201d tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 \u201chi sinh\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, h\u00e0nh vi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda, ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra khi c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 68 CON TRAI, CON G\u00c1I DO AI QUY\u1ebeT \u0110\u1ecaNH? Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i nh\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 (m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb r\u00f5) ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch ch\u00e1u trai, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ch\u00e1u g\u00e1i, con v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon g\u00e1i th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u00e0m sao? T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch con g\u00e1i ch\u1ee9? Con th\u1ea5y con g\u00e1i c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n con trai\u201d. Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n con s\u1ebd th\u1eafc m\u1eafc t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y? B\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 ba m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn: sinh con trai hay con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 do c\u00e1i g\u00ec quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh? C\u00f2n n\u1eefa, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng sinh \u0111\u00f4i (th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 sinh ba ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n)? Gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3. N\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0, trong t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 23 nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 do n\u00f3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 (t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi) c\u00f3 hai nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nhau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 XX; c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 (nam gi\u1edbi) l\u00e0 hai nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00e1c nhau, m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 X, m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 Y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tinh tr\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd chia th\u00e0nh hai lo\u1ea1i: m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9a nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 X, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9a s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 Y. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 tinh tr\u00f9ng mang nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 X, khi th\u1ee5 tinh v\u1edbi tr\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra h\u1ee3p t\u1eed mang nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh l\u00e0 XX, l\u00fac \u1ea5y em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i; n\u1ebfu tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 tinh mang nhi\u1ec5m s\u1eafc th\u1ec3 XY, em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 con trai. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, sinh con trai hay con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sinh \u0111\u00f4i (ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n) l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: \u0110a s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng ch\u00edn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00f3ng th\u00edch ra kh\u1ecfi bu\u1ed3ng tr\u1ee9ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tinh tr\u00f9ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi, t\u1ebf b\u00e0o tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 tinh s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh ph\u00e2n chia t\u1ebf b\u00e0o, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hai (hai ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","h\u01a1n), t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee5 tinh s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh hai (ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n) thai nhi, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mang song thai (ho\u1eb7c \u0111a thai) c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng nhau. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p do nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u00f3ng th\u00edch c\u00f9ng l\u00fac hai tr\u1ee9ng (ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n), l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1ee5 tinh v\u1edbi hai (ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n) tinh tr\u00f9ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng sinh \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00e1c tr\u1ee9ng: gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a hai em b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00ec sao m\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p song thai (ho\u1eb7c \u0111a thai) c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh v\u00e0 di\u1ec7n m\u1ea1o gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nhau; nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p song thai (ho\u1eb7c \u0111a thai) m\u00e0 gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 69 EM B\u00c9 TRONG B\u1ee4NG M\u1eb8 L\u1edaN L\u00caN NH\u01af TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: C\u00f2n nh\u1edb l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi d\u00ec Hoa mang b\u1ea7u, con th\u01b0\u1eddng lo l\u1eafng h\u1ecfi: \u201cEm b\u00e9 trong b\u1ee5ng t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecbu ra?\u201d, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 con c\u00f2n n\u00f4n n\u00f3ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y em b\u00e9 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 d\u00ec. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i t\u1edbi: Em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u1edf trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 bao l\u00e2u? Th\u1eddi gian ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mang thai g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u00ec thai ngh\u00e9n. Th\u1eddi gian thai ngh\u00e9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a k\u00ec kinh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 40, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 280 ng\u00e0y. T\u1eeb l\u00fac tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee5 tinh, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u00f4i thai, em b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201cchui v\u00e0o\u201d b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u00e0o trong t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1eddi gian ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng m\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","Thai nhi \u1edf trong b\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd l\u1ea5y ch\u1ea5t dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1eeb m\u1eb9 th\u00f4ng qua nhau thai v\u00e0 d\u00e2y r\u1ed1n, sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e0o th\u1ea3i ra ch\u1ea5t c\u1eb7n b\u00e3 c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Khi em b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, b\u00e1c s\u0129 s\u1ebd c\u1eaft d\u00e2y r\u1ed1n v\u00e0 b\u0103ng l\u1ea1i, \u0111o\u1ea1n cu\u1ed1ng r\u1ed1n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd r\u1ee5ng \u0111i v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i r\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a con. Trong ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng \u1edf trong t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, em b\u00e9 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ph\u00f4i thai b\u00e9 x\u00edu d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean tay ch\u00e2n, c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, ph\u00f4i thai b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n gan v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 ti\u00eau h\u00f3a. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 hai, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e1nh tay v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tim b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e3 r\u00f5 n\u00e9t, n\u00e3o b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 ba: thai nhi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ng\u00f3n tay, ng\u00f3n ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 tai \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 t\u01b0: T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, thai nhi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di chuy\u1ec3n trong t\u1eed cung, gi\u01a1 tay v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u01a1n ch\u00e2n\u2026. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","Th\u00e1ng th\u01b0 n\u0103m: c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe th\u1ea5y tim thai, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn thai nhi \u0111ang c\u1eed \u0111\u1ed9ng. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u: kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a thai nhi c\u00e0ng m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, l\u00e0n da \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 nh\u0103n nheo. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y: thai nhi th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng s\u1ebd m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 t\u00e1m: thai nhi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Th\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 ch\u00edn: thai nhi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, s\u1ebd t\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng v\u00f9ng b\u1ee5ng d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ra \u0111\u1eddi. Tr\u1ea3i qua 280 ng\u00e0y thai k\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, thai nhi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n ra ngo\u00e0i ng\u1eafm nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t cha m\u1eb9. Em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u cho m\u1eb9: nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n co, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 t\u1eed cung li\u00ean t\u1ee5c co th\u1eaft, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u01a1n co s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t r\u00fat ng\u1eafn l\u1ea1i, c\u1ed5 t\u1eed cung c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n m\u1edf ra \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u201cl\u1ed1i ra\u201d cho em b\u00e9. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, c\u01a1n \u0111au k\u00e9o d\u00e0i v\u00e0i ti\u1ebfng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u01a1n ch\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng l\u00fac n\u00e0y em b\u00e9 \u0111ang n\u00f4n n\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra ngo\u00e0i n\u00ean r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c y b\u00e1c s\u0129. C\u00f2n em b\u00e9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u201cl\u00e0m bi\u1ebfng\u201d nh\u00e9, c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, ph\u1ea7n vai \u00e1p s\u00e1t v\u00e0o x\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1eadu c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, men theo \u201cl\u1ed1i ra\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ee5t xu\u1ed1ng, g\u1eadp ng\u01b0\u1eddi, xoay ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u2026 khi c\u1ed5 t\u1eed cung m\u1edf ra \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ecdt ra ngo\u00e0i, m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 em b\u00e9 c\u00f9ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, em b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 co th\u1eaft d\u1eef d\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a t\u1eed cung \u0111\u1ea9y ra ngo\u00e0i \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u201csinh n\u1edf\u201d, em b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb l\u00fac mang b\u1ea7u cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi sinh n\u1edf ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00f4 v\u00e0n v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y b\u1ecf bao t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m ch\u00fat cho c\u00e1c con l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ch\u00ednh con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, con m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con m\u00ecnh, cho n\u00ean cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n ng\u1ea1i. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 70 TRINH TI\u1ebeT TH\u1eacT S\u1ef0 R\u1ea4T QUAN TR\u1eccNG? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, trong l\u00e1 th\u01b0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft: \u201cCh\u00e1u \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf trong ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu m\u00e0ng trinh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 g\u00e1i trinh n\u1eefa m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cg\u00e1i h\u01b0\u201d. L\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt sao?\u201d. H\u00f4m nay, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ee9 n\u0103m: M\u00e0ng trinh l\u00e0 g\u00ec? N\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng g\u00ec? M\u00e0ng trinh th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp m\u00e0ng m\u1ecfng, kho\u1ea3ng 1\u20132mm, n\u1eb1m g\u1ea7n c\u1eeda \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi, \u1edf gi\u1eefa t\u1ea5m m\u00e0ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng nh\u1ecf r\u1ed9ng kho\u1ea3ng 1\u20131,5cm. Hai m\u1eb7t trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u00e0ng trinh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u1edbp m\u00e0ng d\u00ednh \u1ea9m \u01b0\u1edbt, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a c\u00e1c m\u00f4 li\u00ean k\u1ebft, m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7u d\u00e2y th\u1ea7n kinh. \u0110\u1ed9 d\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng to nh\u1ecf, h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 d\u1ea1ng h\u00ecnh tr\u00f2n, h\u00ecnh b\u1ea7u d\u1ee5c, r\u0103ng c\u01b0a, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c; c\u00f3 lo\u1ea1i m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 hai l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng n\u1eb1m song song \u1edf tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 lo\u1ea1i m\u00e0ng trinh m\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e2n b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng nh\u1ecf\u2026 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","M\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sinh l\u00ed \u1edf n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. Thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef sau khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kinh nguy\u1ec7t h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3i ra ngo\u00e0i th\u00f4ng qua l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng tr\u00ean m\u00e0ng trinh. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean m\u00e0ng trinh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng th\u00ec m\u00e1u kinh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3i ra ngo\u00e0i, y h\u1ecdc g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0ng trinh b\u1ecb b\u1ecbt k\u00edn. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n, m\u00e1u kinh s\u1ebd t\u00edch t\u1ee5 trong \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o r\u1ed3i ch\u1ea3y ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00ean c\u1ed5 t\u1eed cung v\u00e0 \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng, \u0111i qua mi\u1ec7ng \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea3y xu\u1ed1ng khoang b\u1ee5ng, l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 \u1ed1ng d\u1eabn tr\u1ee9ng, g\u00e2y d\u00ednh ru\u1ed9t, vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m \u1ed5 b\u1ee5ng\u2026 Con g\u00e1i ngo\u00e0i 15 tu\u1ed5i n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 kinh nguy\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111au b\u1ee5ng th\u00ec n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n ki\u1ec3m tra xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf m\u00e0ng trinh hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa khi vi khu\u1ea9n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea9n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111i v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o s\u1ebd g\u00e2y vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, do hormone estrogen c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t \u00edt, ni\u00eam m\u1ea1c \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1ecfng, \u0111\u1ed9 axit c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ea5p, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i vi khu\u1ea9n v\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i k\u00e9m. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, m\u00e0ng trinh c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a vi khu\u1ea9n v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o. Sau tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a bu\u1ed3ng tr\u1ee9ng, hormone estrogen trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean, s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u0169ng m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, m\u00e0ng trinh c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00ec m\u00e0ng trinh m\u1edbi b\u1ecb r\u00e1ch, b\u1edfi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 x\u00e2m nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt; v\u00ec v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","m\u00e0ng trinh v\u1edbi kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m trinh ti\u1ebft, cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u00f3 m\u00e0ng trinh kh\u00f4ng nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trong tr\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \\\"g\u00e1i ngoan\\\". Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n, thi\u1ebfu c\u0103n c\u1ee9 khoa h\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u1edf ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ean, m\u00e0ng trinh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00f4 g\u00e1i l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau. \u1ede m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i, l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng tr\u00ean m\u00e0ng trinh to, t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i t\u1ed1t, c\u00e1c m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u nh\u1ecf trong n\u1ed9i m\u1ea1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u00edt, n\u00ean cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c r\u1ed3i m\u00e0ng trinh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb r\u00e1ch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 sinh con nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0ng trinh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00e0y, cho d\u00f9 m\u00e0ng trinh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 g\u00e1i \\\"trinh\\\" n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i. C\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i do khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00e9t \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb v\u1eadt nh\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, do kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1ec7 sinh, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t thu\u1ed1c \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa b\u1ec7nh\u2026 m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u00e0ng trinh, th\u00ec v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t h\u1ecd v\u1eabn l\u00e0 g\u00e1i trinh. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n nay, con g\u00e1i t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao, n\u1ebfu m\u00e0ng trinh qu\u00e1 m\u1ecfng, thi\u1ebfu t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb r\u00e1ch trong khi tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0: \u0111i xe \u0111\u1ea1p, c\u01b0\u1ee1i ng\u1ef1a, th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9\u2026 V\u00ec v\u1eady, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u00e0ng trinh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 trinh ti\u1ebft, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u00f2n trong tr\u1eafng hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ef1c k\u00ec kh\u00f4ng khoa h\u1ecdc. Nh\u01b0ng con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 trong tr\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb k\u0129, \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec tin nh\u1eefng l\u00ed l\u1ebd v\u1edb v\u1ea9n nh\u01b0 m\u00e0ng trinh b\u1ecb r\u00e1ch l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n trinh\u2026 m\u00e0 e s\u1ee3 c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3m tra \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb \u1edf \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y r\u00e1ch m\u00e0ng trinh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb khi b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh, g\u00e2y h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 71 MANG B\u1ea6U S\u1ebc G\u00c2Y \u1ea2NH H\u01af\u1edeNG KH\u00d4NG C\u00d3 L\u1ee2I CHO THI\u1ebeU N\u1eee TU\u1ed4I D\u1eacY TH\u00cc Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: M\u1ea5y h\u00f4m nay, th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef 15 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 b\u1ea7u v\u00e0 sinh con, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e9n d\u00ecm ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u01a1 sinh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111ang g\u00e2y ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng d\u1eef d\u1ed9i trong d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con, m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u cho c\u00e1c con: C\u00f3 thai s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec cho thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec? Con trai, con g\u00e1i tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111ang \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u00edch giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1edbi, d\u1ec5 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau qu\u00fd, m\u1ebfn m\u1ed9; khi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u201cr\u01a1i v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00ecnh\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ea3y sinh ham mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Hi\u1ec7n nay, trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi nh\u1eb9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trinh ti\u1ebft, ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d, \u201ct\u1ef1 do t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c\u201d cho n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng coi h\u00e0nh vi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u1edbi l\u00e0 d\u00e2ng hi\u1ebfn h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ef1 do\u201d, \u201cgi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng\u201d \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean ph\u00e1 thai \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y t\u0103ng v\u1ecdt, b\u1ec7nh l\u00e2y truy\u1ec1n qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh AIDS tr\u00e0n lan. Sau khi t\u1ec9nh ng\u1ed9, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn quan ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y. C\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, h\u00e0nh vi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con g\u00e1i mang thai. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i khi c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, n\u1ebfu kinh nguy\u1ec7t v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ed7ng nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ec7 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 thai, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m tra n\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ec3u. Sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c mang thai ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m sinh l\u00ed c\u1ee7a thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n n\u1eb1m \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a t\u1eed cung, bu\u1ed3ng tr\u1ee9ng, \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 non n\u1edbt, v\u00ec v\u1eady nh\u1eefng nguy c\u01a1 khi mang thai trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi \u1edf ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Theo s\u1ed1 li\u1ec7u th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","cao huy\u1ebft \u00e1p khi mang thai, s\u1ea3y thai, kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u00e0 b\u1ea7u t\u1eeb 12\u201315 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 16\u201319 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9ng cao g\u1ea5p 3,3 v\u00e0 2,1 l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 b\u1ea7u \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20\u201324 tu\u1ed5i; t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 t\u1eed vong do nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 mang thai cao g\u1ea5p 1,1 v\u00e0 1,4 l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20\u201324. Th\u1ee9 hai, thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean l\u00fac n\u00e0y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb to x\u00e1c\u201d, ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 chu c\u1ea5p c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00ed v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Cho d\u00f9 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p do quan ni\u1ec7m thay \u0111\u1ed5i, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn chia tay th\u00ec c\u00e1c \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a k\u1ebft h\u00f4n c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb, b\u00e0n t\u00e1n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00fa s\u1ed1c v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00ed v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 sinh l\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00e2n h\u1eadn v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng, u u\u1ea5t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1ecf ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eddi, t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m kh\u1ed5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tr\u1ecdn \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i 15 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh t\u00e2m l\u00ed su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu r\u1ea3nh, c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a thai nhi m\u00e0 xem. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mang thai \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 12, thai nhi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sinh m\u1ea1ng b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng. Mang trong m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t sinh m\u1ea1ng b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb k\u0129 c\u00e0ng; mang trong m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t sinh m\u1ea1ng b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 b\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00ean vai m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 khi c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi t\u1eeb \u201cy\u00eau\u201d, ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t sinh linh m\u1edbi, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 l\u00fac c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y. Hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 72 PH\u00c1 THAI C\u00d3 TH\u1eacT S\u1ef0 AN TO\u00c0N TR\u0102M PH\u1ea6N TR\u0102M KH\u00d4NG? Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c ra m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft. Hi\u1ec7n nay, tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o, ch\u1eafc c\u00e1c con ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u1edbi c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cph\u00e1 thai\u201d. C\u00e1c qu\u1ea3ng c\u00e1o ph\u00e1 thai \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng ph\u00e1 thai kh\u00f4ng \u0111au, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00edch, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cC\u00f3 thai c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng sao, ph\u00e1 \u0111i l\u00e0 xong!\u201d, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng n\u1ea1o, h\u00fat thai c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nguy h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. N\u1ea1o ph\u00e1 thai l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac th\u1eddi k\u00ec thai ngh\u00e9n. Hai th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i an to\u00e0n v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00e1c nguy c\u01a1 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 di ch\u1ee9ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n n\u00ean c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 ph\u00e1t sinh nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p h\u00fat thai kh\u00f4ng s\u1ea1ch, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n thai nhi c\u00f2n s\u00f3t l\u1ea1i trong t\u1eed cung, g\u00e2y ra hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ea3y m\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng; c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i l\u1ea1i thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 thai, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 thai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, ho\u1eb7c e ng\u1ea1i, x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i n\u1ea1o thai. L\u00fac n\u00e0y thai nhi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m gia t\u0103ng nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9ng r\u00e1ch t\u1eed cung; c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 s\u1edf y t\u1ebf uy t\u00edn, l\u1ea1i tin v\u00e0o l\u1eddi l\u1ebd l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb h\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 y phi ph\u00e1p, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ph\u00e1 thai trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb y t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o, th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 tai h\u1ea1i, l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh s\u1ea3n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed g\u00e2y nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng. \u0110a s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe sinh s\u1ea3n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, khi\u1ebfn cho c\u01a1 quan sinh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u1ea1o ph\u00e1 thai. Sau khi n\u1ea1o ph\u00e1 thai, c\u00e1c c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh vi\u00eam n\u1ed9i m\u1ea1c t\u1eed cung, vi\u00eam \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o\u2026 c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i n\u00e0y sau khi l\u00e0m ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt xong th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00ean t\u00e2m t\u0129nh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh v\u00ec s\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1n, ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 khi\u1ebfn cho nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ecb m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh vi\u00eam nhi\u1ec5m m\u00e3n t\u00ednh, d\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c mang thai sau n\u00e0y g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 d\u1ec5 s\u1ea3y thai, http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00f4 sinh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc, th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, bi\u1ebft n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao l\u01b0u gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p v\u00ec nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u201ch\u1eadu qu\u1ea3\u201d, c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c n\u00f3i cho cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1eafng m\u1ecf v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i \u201cb\u00e3o t\u1ed1\u201d t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 sao cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn nh\u1ea5t, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u00e1c con khi c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","NH\u1eeeNG PH\u1ea8M CH\u1ea4T C\u00c1C N\u1eee SINH \u01afU T\u00da C\u1ea6N C\u00d3 Th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ea3i c\u00e1ch m\u1edf c\u1eeda n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 c\u1ea1nh tranh kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec t\u1ef1 tin, l\u1ea1c quan, khoan dung, l\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u01b0u t\u00fa gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u1eef c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, l\u00e0 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00ean truy\u1ec1n cho con g\u00e1i. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 73 T\u1ef0 TIN, T\u1ef0 L\u1eacP Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: C\u00f2n nh\u1edb l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc con c\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t phi\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u tra m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u1ecdc sinh, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0: \u201cB\u1ea1n hi v\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n\/ con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d Trong c\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n cho s\u1eb5n, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn theo tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 sau: \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh\u201d, \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t\u201d, \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb\u201d, \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb\u201d. Con nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu l\u00e0 con, con s\u1ebd ch\u1ecdn \u201cM\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d \u0111\u1eb7t ngay sau s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7t \u201cs\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe\u201d l\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u. S\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 1, c\u00f2n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 \u201c0\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u1eb1ng sau, cho d\u00f9 con c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau s\u1ed1 \u201c0\u201d m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1eef s\u1ed1 \u201c1\u201d th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c chung c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c chung c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u1eady th\u00ec l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ph\u00eda sau l\u00e0 g\u00ec? M\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y khi con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mang l\u1ea1i cho con ni\u1ec1m vui. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 k\u00ec v\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, ti\u1ec1n t\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c b\u1ea1i ho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c \u00edch k\u1ec9, t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i, l\u00f2ng d\u1ea1 h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i\u2026 th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 anh ta c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb vang \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, gi\u00e0u sang \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh ta c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 vui v\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u1edf \u201cph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft\u201d trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n \u201cl\u1eafm chuy\u1ec7n\u201d m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111ao to b\u00faa l\u1edbn\u201d: L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi con g\u00e1i \u01b0u t\u00fa c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o? Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Keane, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00ed n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean, m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb con ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng \u0111ang ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng l\u00e3o b\u00e1n b\u00f3ng bay \u0111\u1ea9y xe qua. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb da tr\u1eafng \u00f9a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 ong v\u1ee1 t\u1ed5, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a mua m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 r\u1ed3i th\u00edch th\u00fa th\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng s\u1eb7c s\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0u s\u1eafc l\u00ean b\u1ea7u http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","tr\u1eddi. \u1ede trong g\u00f3c nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb da \u0111en \u0111ang l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb da tr\u1eafng n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb da tr\u1eafng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u1eadu l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi da \u0111en, c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 tin ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb da tr\u1eafng. \u0110\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u0169 tr\u1ebb da tr\u1eafng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i khu\u1ea5t, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 da \u0111en m\u1edbi r\u1ee5t r\u00e8 \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean chi\u1ebfc xe c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u00e3o b\u00e1n b\u00f3ng, n\u00f3i b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ea7u kh\u1ea9n: \u201c\u00d4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e1n cho ch\u00e1u m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1?\u201d \u00d4ng l\u00e3o hi\u1ec1n t\u1eeb nh\u00ecn c\u1eadu b\u00e9 r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, ch\u00e1u th\u00edch qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng m\u00e0u g\u00ec n\u00e0o?\u201d C\u1eadu b\u00e9 da \u0111en l\u1ea5y h\u1ebft d\u0169ng kh\u00ed ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng m\u00e0u \u0111en r\u1ed3i vui v\u1ebb c\u1ea7m qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng l\u00ean, th\u1ea3 tay ra. Qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng m\u00e0u \u0111en t\u1eeb t\u1eeb bay l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng trung. D\u01b0\u1edbi b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi xanh m\u00e2y tr\u1eafng, qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng m\u00e0u \u0111en th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt. \u00d4ng l\u00e3o nheo m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng \u0111ang bay l\u00ean, v\u1eeba xoa \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eeba n\u00f3i: \u201cNh\u1edb nh\u00e9, qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bay l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u00e0u s\u1eafc hay h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 do trong qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00ed kh\u00ed hidro. S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do ch\u1ee7ng t\u1ed9c, xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 trong l\u00f2ng ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 tin hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d C\u1eadu b\u00e9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi da \u0111en \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Keane c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u1ef1 tin\u201d ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201ch\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1c quan, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, d\u00e1m th\u1eed s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 thi\u1ebfu \u0111i ni\u1ec1m tin, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, e ng\u1ea1i, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, thi\u1ebfu ni\u1ec1m tin trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 t\u1ef1 ti, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 v\u00f9i d\u1eadp b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3\u2026. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1eebng n\u00f3i, tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n. B\u00e1o c\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u tra thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean cho th\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 30\u201340% thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tin v\u1edbi ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0: ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh, c\u00e2n n\u1eb7ng, chi\u1ec1u cao\u2026 ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi quan v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n nh\u01b0: kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n b\u00e1o c\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u tra kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd n\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thua k\u00e9m c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i thi\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u00e0 b\u00e0n l\u00f9i, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111au l\u00f2ng r\u01a1i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u2026. Th\u1ef1c ra, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, v\u1ebd tranh con l\u1ea1i gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng \u00edt th\u00e0nh t\u00edch; con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4 b\u00e9 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng con l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, c\u1edfi m\u1edf, nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh. M\u00e0 \u1edf trong l\u1edbp c\u00e1c con, trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt h\u1eb3n, xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t trong con, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh con s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c: \u201cCh\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3!\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t m\u00f4n to\u00e1n, c\u0169ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfng Anh!\\\". Khi trong l\u00f2ng con tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, trong \u0111\u1ea7u con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan: \u201cT\u00f4i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ok!\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngu ng\u1ed1c h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c!\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau!\u201d, \u201cCh\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d. Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00ed n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a v\u00e0o th\u1eddi gian r\u1ea3nh, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1c s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh; tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f4ng \u00edch, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n; g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 xung quanh con. Khi con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb k\u0129, t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00ean c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 74 KH\u00d4NG NG\u1eeaNG PH\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ea4U Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00ean Helen Keller v\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u00e0: Helen Keller l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ebfc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9. L\u00fac l\u00ean hai tu\u1ed5i, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh qu\u00e1i \u00e1c c\u01b0\u1edbp m\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn, nghe v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y, l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c tr\u1ea7n gian ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng nh\u01b0 Helen. Helen b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00ec qu\u00e1i, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ea3nh ng\u1ed9 m\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec lo l\u1eafng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a Helen. V\u1ec1 sau, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia s\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 Helen, d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho Helen bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n n\u1ed7i hoang mang, s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, t\u1ed1i t\u0103m trong l\u00f2ng Helen, d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a hi v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. D\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, Helen \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111i h\u1ecdc, l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, Helen c\u00f2n \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, vi\u1ebft v\u0103n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfm th\u00ednh, khi\u1ebfm th\u1ecb, vi\u1ebft n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a Helen Keller, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00fat ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0: nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u0103n b\u1ea3n gi\u00fap Helen gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u. L\u1ecbch s\u1eed lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong s\u1ef1 \u0111an xen gi\u1eefa v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec9nh cao, gi\u1eefa h\u01b0ng th\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 suy t\u00e0n, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m, c\u00f3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2y m\u00f9 v\u1ea7n v\u0169, c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, c\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. M\u1eb9 c\u00f2n nh\u1edb, tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tham gia cu\u1ed9c thi ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c do \u0110\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. Trong v\u00f2ng lo\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp hai v\u00f2ng http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ed9i \u0110\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i m\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c l\u1ef1c k\u00e9m nh\u1ea5t. Sau cu\u1ed9c thi, c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed9c thi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ec3 xem l\u00e9n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi; khi c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed1 c\u00e1o chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u00ec l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho hay: k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 thi \u0111\u1ea5u ph\u00e1t s\u00f3ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Do v\u1eady, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1eafng thua \u1edf tr\u1eadn ti\u1ebfp theo s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng trong hay kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i v\u1ed1n \u0111ang gi\u00e0nh \u01b0u th\u1ebf nay ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u1ebf \\\"m\u1ed9t m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00f2n\\\". C\u00f3 b\u1ea1n o\u00e1n th\u00e1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7t m\u00e0y \u1ee7 r\u0169, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Thanh l\u00e0 ki\u00ean quy\u1ebft n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1eafm v\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xem l\u00e9n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng!\u201d. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng d\u1ed1c s\u1ee9c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u n\u00e0y. \u1ede trong tr\u1eadn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a v\u00f2ng lo\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ed9i c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbch th\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y nay, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o b\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, c\u00e1c con l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n l\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00ed m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i sau n\u00e0y khi \u0111i l\u00e0m, c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u2026. Trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n hi v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u0169ng tin r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, c\u00f3 hoa t\u01b0\u01a1i, c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","vui v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c con s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi v\u00f4 v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5m \u1ee9c, ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111en t\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Th\u00f4i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \\\"\u0111ao to b\u00faa l\u1edbn\\\" n\u1eefa, m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 hi v\u1ecdng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o, cho d\u00f9 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng sau c\u01a1n m\u01b0a tr\u1eddi l\u1ea1i s\u00e1ng, tin r\u1eb1ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t th\u1ee9 hai m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 75 C\u1edeI M\u1ede, L\u1ea0C QUAN Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: H\u00f4m nay, m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 cho con nghe th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n: C\u00f3 hai anh em nh\u00e0 n\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u00ec l\u1ea1c quan, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng bi quan. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd ch\u1ee3t n\u1ea3y ra \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m cho t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a hai anh em thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ed1t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a v\u00e0 nh\u1ed1t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 bi quan v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng sau, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9 bi quan th\u00ec ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i thu lu trong g\u00f3c, n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u0169i t\u00e8m lem. H\u00f3a ra, do b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111ang r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng. Khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan, h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111ang h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng d\u00f9ng x\u1ebbng h\u00f3t ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a, d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c r\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan vui v\u1ebb n\u00f3i: \u201cB\u1ed1, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y nhi\u1ec1u ph\u00e2n ng\u1ef1a th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, quanh \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con ng\u1ef1a r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb9p, con ph\u1ea3i d\u1ecdn cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u1edf th\u1eadt s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","C\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea1c quan n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ef1u t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9 Reagan. Ch\u00ednh \u00f4ng t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e1o cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t minh tinh Hollywood, \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1c ti\u1ec3u bang v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng M\u1ef9, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. L\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c xu h\u01b0\u1edbng, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, k\u00ec v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 bi quan ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u00ed gi\u1ea3i nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i: Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1c quan cho r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o theo nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i x\u1ea3y ra c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi; c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a bi quan l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng, chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u0129nh c\u1eedu, khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn, b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1eeb kh\u00e1ch quan m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc, l\u1ea1c quan kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng s\u1ea3n sinh \u201cch\u1ea5t mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch\u201d t\u00e2m l\u00ed tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, hi v\u1ecdng, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 v\u0169 kh\u00ed \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 bi \u0111\u00e1t, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi quan. Trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf b\u1ea9m sinh. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00ed trong tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec khi\u1ebfn cho c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n v\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, u u\u1ea5t, tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00e2u, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ea3y sinh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i bi quan. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c con c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c g\u00ecn gi\u1eef t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1edfi m\u1edf, l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ed1n c\u00f3, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o, phim \u1ea3nh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, th\u00fa v\u1ecb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u1ea1c quan, l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, gi\u00fap t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u0103ng hoa. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 bi quan, t\u1ed1i t\u0103m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ee9 hai, c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m quen v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, giao l\u01b0u r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, cha m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft (\u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t), khi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 hay kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf, l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t l\u00ean. C\u00f2n n\u1eefa, ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan. Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, bi quan, t\u1ef1 v\u00f9i d\u1eadp b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an: \u201cKh\u00f4ng sao, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","\u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 qua r\u1ed3i!\u201d, \u201cCh\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec to t\u00e1t c\u1ea3, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u1ed5n th\u00f4i!\u201d Sau khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Ti\u1ebfp n\u1eefa, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o con c\u00f3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1c quan trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i hay kh\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft l\u00ed tr\u00ed ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh, n\u1eafm v\u1eefng v\u1eadn m\u1ec7nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t th\u1ee9 ba m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 76 C\u00d3 S\u1ede TH\u00cdCH, \u0110AM M\u00ca Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, con n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ecdn h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, s\u1edf th\u00edch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. M\u00e0 \u1edf trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau m\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7, v\u1eeba c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ec3 thao\u2026. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc cho th\u1ea5y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng, h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 khoa h\u1ecdc. L\u1ecbch s\u1eed trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 ph\u00e1t minh gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t n\u1ea3y sinh do h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ee9ng th\u00fa m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn Darwin d\u00e1m b\u1ecf con b\u1ecd c\u00e1nh c\u1ee9ng v\u00e0o trong mi\u1ec7ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 sinh v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. H\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn Wegener (nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u1edbi thuy\u1ebft Tr\u00f4i d\u1ea1t l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ecba) trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed1n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea3o Greenland \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u00ec di\u1ec7u trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. H\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn cho Leonardo da Vinci b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o h\u1ed9i, li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp gi\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu nhi\u1ec1u thi th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u k\u1ebft c\u1ea5u c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m b\u1ea5t h\u1ee7. Einstein l\u00fac b\u1ed1n, n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi la b\u00e0n, su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e0y m\u00f2 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 n\u00f3, trong l\u00f2ng th\u1ea7m ngh\u0129 t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i kim n\u00e0y to\u00e0n ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng, \u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c x\u1ebfp g\u1ed7 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi x\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cth\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3\u201d v\u1eeba cao v\u1eeba nh\u1ecdn m\u1edbi th\u00f4i. Ch\u00ednh h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u00ecm t\u00f2i, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 v\u1eadt l\u00ed h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi k\u00ec c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft: \u201cNo matter what one love in the world, but love something one must\u201d, c\u00e2u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0: Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n th\u00edch c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1edf th\u00edch g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi c\u00f3 s\u1edf th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eedi g\u1eafm t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. X\u00e9t tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, \u201ch\u1ee9ng th\u00fa l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quen thu\u1ed9c. Cho d\u00f9 con l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 khi con c\u1ea3m http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","th\u1ea5y y\u00eau th\u00edch n\u00f3, c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi n\u00f3, con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, con \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh minh ch\u1ee9ng cho l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft \u201ch\u1ee9ng th\u00fa l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t\u201d. Trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, con th\u00edch m\u00f4n ti\u1ebfng Anh, m\u00f4n To\u00e1n, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, v\u00ec v\u1eady th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hai m\u00f4n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i th\u00eam l\u00e0, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u0111am m\u00ea kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 su\u1ed1i ngu\u1ed3n gi\u00fap cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con th\u00eam sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb. Hai m\u1eb9 con m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 d\u00ec H\u00e2n, d\u00ec \u1ea5y m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh, ph\u1ea3i n\u1eb1m nh\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng trong nh\u00e0 d\u00ec \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a d\u00ec, khi\u1ebfn cho c\u0103n nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a d\u00ec tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ea5m c\u00fang v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o; l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a d\u00ec \u1ea5y. Hay nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng l\u00e3o b\u00e1n b\u00e1o \u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00f5 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ca v\u00e0i c\u00e2u c\u1ea3i l\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi\u1ebfn cho \u00f4ng l\u00e3o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec1u ti\u00eau tan nh\u01b0 m\u00e2y kh\u00f3i. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00ed do v\u00ec sao chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 con ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc h\u00e1t, h\u1ecdc v\u1ebd\u2026 X\u00e9t t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 77 KHOAN DUNG, \u0110\u1ed8 L\u01af\u1ee2NG Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft Edison l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ebfc. M\u00e0 tai \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ebfc l\u00e0 do l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e1i t\u00e0u g\u00e2y ra khi \u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. V\u1ec1 sau, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi Edison c\u00f3 h\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i t\u00e0u \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ebfc hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd l\u00e0 Edison kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c hay s\u1ec9 nh\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i t\u00e0u n\u1ecd, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mang danh ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho \u00f4ng ta. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang, c\u1ea3m \u01a1n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n \u00e0o, khi\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, ph\u00e1t minh!\u201d. Edison kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khoan dung \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e1i t\u00e0u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ph\u00e1t minh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 khoan dung: khoan dung v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khoan dung l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i m\u00e2u http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","thu\u1eabn, x\u00f3a b\u1ecf h\u1eadn th\u00f9, khi\u1ebfn cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau h\u01a1n. H\u1eb3n con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ca ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t n\u00e0y, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0: \u201cL\u00f9i m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tr\u1eddi cao \u0111\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng\u201d; \u201cNh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh thu\u1eadn h\u00f2a, \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta t\u00f4n s\u00f9ng\u201d; \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh k\u1ebb ch\u1ea1y \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea1y l\u1ea1i\u201d; \u201cCh\u00edn b\u1ecf l\u00e0m m\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. Trong m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u tra m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c em h\u1ecdc sinh ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, trung h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKhi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 em gh\u00e9t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a em, m\u00e0 em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y, em s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ch\u1ee9?\u201d. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u1edf h\u1ecdc sinh ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00e0 59,8%, 41,7% v\u00e0 37%. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cc\u1ea7u c\u1ee9u\u201d nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc cho \u0111\u1ebfn trung h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c: \u201cB\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc?\u201d. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 29,9% ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn tha th\u1ee9, g\u1ea7n 24% cho bi\u1ebft kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9, s\u1ed1 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i cho hay s\u1ebd tha th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean. T\u1eeb b\u1ea3n \u0111i\u1ec1u tra n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y, do hi\u1ec7n nay, c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u sinh r\u1ea5t \u00edt con v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con c\u00e1i n\u00ean th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u00e1c con th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m, cho d\u00f9 x\u1ea3y ra chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean; khi th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 khoan dung, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu bu\u00f4ng tha nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Dung c\u00e3i nhau kh\u00f4ng? Trong su\u1ed1t hai ng\u00e0y, hai \u0111\u1ee9a con ch\u1eb3ng ai ch\u1ecbu n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai c\u00e2u n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ch\u1eb3ng ai vui v\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c con nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n thay cho c\u00e1c con. Khi b\u1ea1n Thanh d\u00f9ng \\\"m\u01b0u\\\" \u0111\u1ec3 hai con n\u00f3i r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f9ng nhau c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ti\u1ebft m\u1ee5c bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n v\u0103n ngh\u1ec7 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, nh\u01b0ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 cho b\u1ea1n Dung v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n Dung c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua cho con t\u00ednh ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng, l\u1ea1i c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n Thanh, s\u1ef1 khoan dung gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c con \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c con th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean. V\u00ec v\u1eady, mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n xung quanh, mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n qu\u00fd b\u00e1u, mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, m\u1edf l\u00f2ng khoan dung, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu. Cho n\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, khoan dung l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u00ed http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","tu\u1ec7 \u1edf tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 cao, n\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u0169ng gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t th\u1ee9 n\u0103m m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n c\u00f3. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 78 L\u1ecaCH S\u1ef0, L\u1ec4 PH\u00c9P Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u01b0 \u201cCon g\u00e1i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u00eam \u0111\u1ec1m tr\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ee7 m\u00e0n che\u201d, \u201cC\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1edf r\u0103ng\u201d, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ebft sau, xinh x\u1eafn, th\u00f4ng minh v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00fd, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3: L\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p. L\u00e2m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00f4ng minh, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 thi \u0111\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea5p ba h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a th\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f4 m\u00e0 sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, th\u00f4ng qua k\u00ec thi ti\u1ebfng Anh, c\u00f2n gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t su\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng danh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u00e0y \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u1ee7 t\u1ee5c visa, L\u00e2m d\u00f9ng v\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfng Anh l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. \u0110\u00fang l\u00fac \u1ea5y, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, kh\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u00e0i c\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m kh\u1ea3o ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. V\u1ecb gi\u00e1m kh\u1ea3o v\u1ed1n \u0111ang t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed7ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1eafc m\u1eb7t, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 ta b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i nh\u00e9, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1edbi c\u00f4 r\u1eb1ng, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 h\u01a1i thi\u1ebfu, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea5p visa cho c\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d. L\u00e2m kh\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i, th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba nghe th\u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t l\u00e1t sau, c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u1ec1n l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng h\u1ecfi v\u1ecb gi\u00e1m kh\u1ea3o t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4, sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn c\u00f4 ta \u0111\u1ea7y h\u00e0m \u00fd, n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i trong l\u00fac ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec?\\\" L\u00fac n\u00e0y, L\u00e2m m\u1edbi nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i l\u00fac ng\u1ed3i ch\u1edd ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, c\u00f4 \u0111ang r\u00f3t m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1c n\u01b0\u1edbc, khi nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ecdi t\u00ean m\u00ecnh, L\u00e2m ti\u1ec7n tay \u0111\u1eb7t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y lau tay v\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1ed1c gi\u1ea5y u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7 m\u00ecnh ng\u1ed3i r\u1ed3i v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3, L\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ecbp nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i c\u1ed1c gi\u1ea5y v\u00ec b\u1ecb nghi\u00eang n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 xu\u1ed1ng, n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u01b0a u\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft trong c\u1ed1c ch\u1ea3y l\u00eanh l\u00e1ng ra gh\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 ta v\u1eabn m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn, L\u00e2m v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Nh\u00ecn v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1eb7c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c giao ti\u1ebfp, nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy ph\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00ed c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. S\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec1u xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u1ec5 ngh\u0129a. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 nho nh\u00e3, l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ed9 l\u00e0m t\u1ecbch, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng khoa tr\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 khoe khoang kho\u00e1c l\u00e1c m\u00e0 s\u1ebd th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n, y\u00eau m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng nh\u1eefng ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, bao g\u1ed3m: 1. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i: Gi\u1eef cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n lu\u00f4n g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng, s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec7 sinh s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd m\u1eb7t, c\u1ed5, tay; c\u1eaft m\u00f3ng tay v\u00e0 r\u1eeda tay; \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng s\u1edbm t\u1ed1i, \u0103n xong ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1ng mi\u1ec7ng, ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u1ec7 sinh khoang mi\u1ec7ng; t\u1eafm r\u1eeda th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, gi\u1eef cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00f9i; \u0103n m\u1eb7c s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. 2. H\u00e0nh vi, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9: Gi\u1eef t\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9ng, ng\u1ed3i, \u0111i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng. T\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u01b0\u1ee1n ng\u1ef1c, h\u00f3p b\u1ee5ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh cao l\u1edbn, tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng; kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u1ee7 r\u0169, so vai r\u1ee5t c\u1ed5, c\u00f2ng l\u01b0ng, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ed3i ng\u1ea3 ng\u1ed1n; khi \u0111i l\u1ea1i c\u1ea7n ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u, \u01b0\u1ee1n ng\u1ef1c, hai vai chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1eeba \u0111i v\u1eeba l\u1eafc l\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c u\u1ed1n \u00e9o\u2026 3. Th\u1ea7n th\u00e1i, bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m: Khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u00ean m\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0: x\u1ec9a r\u0103ng, ngo\u00e1y m\u0169i, ngo\u00e1y tai, g\u00e3i ng\u1ee9a.... Lu\u00f4n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. 4. L\u1eddi l\u1ebd: Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng vai ph\u1ea3i l\u1ee9a, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen hay kh\u00f4ng quen \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, trung th\u1ef1c, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. 5. C\u00e1ch x\u1eed s\u1ef1: Khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef g\u00ecn m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 lu\u1eadt l\u1ec7 giao th\u00f4ng; h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed khi c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0; khi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m kh\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 cho http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","ph\u00e9p c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 \u00fd \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Ngo\u00e0i ra, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, c\u00f3 l\u00ed tr\u00ed th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Maxim Gorky t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u00e3y y\u00eau s\u00e1ch \u0111i, s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, s\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd c\u1ed5 v\u0169 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau con ng\u01b0\u1eddi\\\". Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7n nay, s\u1ef1 ph\u1ed5 c\u1eadp c\u1ee7a truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 internet m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 mang l\u1ea1i ngu\u1ed3n th\u00f4ng tin \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt th\u00f4ng tin nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ph\u1ea1m vi, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 xem l\u01b0\u1edbt qua, hi\u1ec3u l\u01a1 m\u01a1, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u00edt suy ngh\u0129, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, thi\u1ebfu \u0111i nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i con xem ti vi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i con l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t hi v\u1ecdng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf ra ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 79 TR\u00c0N \u0110\u1ea6Y L\u00d2NG NH\u00c2N \u00c1I Minh Anh th\u00e2n m\u1ebfn: C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00ed tr\u1ebb em cho bi\u1ebft: L\u01b0\u01a1ng thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 \u0111ang kh\u00f3c, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c theo. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t, hai tu\u1ed5i, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f3c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch ra an \u1ee7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y, b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng mu\u1ed1n xoa d\u1ecbu n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ebfn khi b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m, s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i, b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. B\u00e9 bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean an \u1ee7i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f3c, khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u1ea1i thi\u1ebfu \u0111i l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i? Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhanh, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt \u0111i, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u00e0ng l\u00fac c\u00e0ng nh\u1ea1t nh\u00f2a. Nh\u00e0 sinh v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng Wilson c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: Khi m\u1ed9t con b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u r\u1eebng tr\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t con s\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt s\u0103n m\u1ed3i kh\u00e1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn con c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3 b\u1ed9 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \\\"c\u00e0 nh\u1eafc\\\" tr\u1ed1n ra kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed5, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb g\u00e3y v\u1eady. L\u00fac n\u00e0y k\u1ebb s\u0103n m\u1ed3i s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng l\u0169 chim non m\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng v\u00e0o con chim tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, hi v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u1ed3i \u201cb\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d n\u00e0y. Khi \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebb s\u0103n m\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i c\u00e1ch xa c\u00e1i t\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, chim b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u s\u1ebd v\u1ed7 c\u00e1nh bay l\u00ean. \\\"M\u01b0u m\u1eb9o\\\" n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Chim b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u r\u1eebng \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con non c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, gi\u1eef cho ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c duy tr\u00ec n\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng. Khi chim b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u non \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a chim b\u1ed3 c\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng h\u00e0nh vi \u1ea5y. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eafp d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft v\u00e0i bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i: \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u1eb3ng th\u1eebng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean, trong m\u1eaft ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1edd \u01a1, l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00ed th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft cho \u0111i, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft coi tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m b\u1eb5m, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","m\u00ecnh; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t; \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, t\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0 linh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u hi v\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u1eady th\u00ec n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. M\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung \u1edf tr\u00ean, t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t nh\u00e9, m\u1eb9 hi v\u1ecdng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i \u1edf trong tim con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9! M\u1eb9 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 th\u1ee9 80 Y\u00caU B\u1ea2N TH\u00c2N Minh Anh th\u00e2n y\u00eau: \u1ede ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn. C\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ec9. Th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp nhau, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \\\"anh em song sinh\\\" t\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ee3 l\u1eabn nhau. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n s\u1ee9t \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ebb tr\u00e1n, qu\u00fdnh qu\u00e1ng ch\u00e2n tay th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 (v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc), m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed5 v\u0169 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ed1t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh (trong khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u1edf c\u00e1c l\u00e1 th\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i). Khi con c\u00f3 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ed1ng vui t\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o? Li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m: Con h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1eda, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 khoan dung m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y con tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea5y sao?\u201d. Ha ha, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d n\u00e0o c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i \\\"Kh\u00f4ng\\\" n\u00e0o nh\u00e9! Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, lo l\u1eafng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 l\u00ed, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn cho con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00ed v\u1ec1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00ed, kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng; t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org","th\u00e0nh xa l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p tr\u1edf n\u00ean xa c\u00e1ch nhau; trong khi \u0111o,\u00f9 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129, kh\u00f4ng cam t\u00e2m n\u00e0y m\u00e0 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. X\u00e9t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u00fd mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft nghe theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng hay. Do \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc. Khi con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y \u0111i tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, con n\u00ean h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. 1. Trong nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u1ee3i \u00edch ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m. 2. Khi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u1ea7n d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u00f5 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eeba ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 http:\/\/tieulun.hopto.org"]