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Transcending The Eternal Divide By Karen Storsteen Afew months ago, I wrote an article for Discover Magazines entitled, “Psychic – Science – Spirit Messages – How Do We Pick Up the Call?” In that article, I answered common questions about the afterlife that I have received over many years in working as an intuitive, therapist, and psychic medium. I shared how quantum physics and neuroscience supports psychic ability and our ability to connect nonlocally with the other side. In this article, we continue to explore questions frequently asked about the afterlife and how we can connect to consciousness that transcends space and time.
I am not sure I believe in psychic mediumship. How do I How Can I Call the Other Side? know someone is not just faking it? Believe – have faith that you will connect with your loved ones Just as in any field, we need to do our research and listen and Spirit. Have a childlike curiosity and sense of wonder. to our intuition. The word “psychic” means “of the soul.” Trust what you receive and do not write it off as simply your You have a soul, so being psychic is your birthright. We imagination. I often ask my students to share what they are are immortal and far more than what we can see in our 3D imagining when they are doing an intuitive exercise, and the reality. One of the best ways to know if mediumship is real is information is typically a “psychic hit” that I or others can to have your own personal and direct experiences with the validate for them. afterlife. Many have felt, seen or heard from their loved ones Raise your vibration. Remember everything is energy and on the other side. In addition, if you seek the assistance of you want to fine-tune the extraordinary instrument you are to a credible medium, you will be able to validate information tune in to the other side and pick up subtle (and sometimes that they provide and sense your loved one through their not-so-subtle) messages. We have discussed how to raise your conveying personality characteristics, common phrases or energy in earlier articles. Meditate regularly to expand your even mannerisms. brain and gain greater heart-gut-brain coherence. Find a quiet place where you will not be disturbed. Relax to slow down Most people have the ability your brain waves. Say a prayer first. I ask for Divine guidance to connect with the other side to be present and set clear intentions with love and gratitude. Some people prefer to light a candle, dim the lights or wear Talented psychics and mediums seem gifted. Can just their favorite crystal. Some may listen to soft music with anyone connect with spirits on the other side? binaural beats. You will soon develop a habit and ritual with Most people can connect with the other side. It is true that your practice that works for you. just like some people are born with an amazing singing voice, As stated above, have a clear intention of whom you would some people are born with more highly adept intuitive ability like to connect with on the other side and why. If not a loved through DNA, but we can all develop it. Some environments one, perhaps it is an angel, scholar, philosopher or artist augment intuition while others dampen it. Just as with any important to you. I had a client who was a rocket scientist muscle, our intuitive intelligence, which is our highest level have me tune in to Albert Einstein and ask specific questions, of intelligence, can be heightened through practice and focus. for example. I do not recommend using an Ouija board or I have had very left-brained, analytical thinkers attend my going through a gravesite just to see who shows up. You would intuitive/psychic-development classes who were astonished not just open yourself up to any and all strangers on planet by what they knew intuitively without any way of knowing it Earth, would you? Then why would you try to invoke just through previous experience. any spirit, perhaps Earthbound, who happens to be hanging It seems like my toddler is connecting to my mom/dad on around? This is not a game. Be thoughtful about your purpose. the other side. Is this possible? Yes. Young children are more open and curious. They are not Connecting with a loved one who yet exposed to preconceived ideas and belief systems that has passed can effectively take place could thwart their natural intuitive and psychic skills. They do not have egos that worry about the judgments of others. I immediately upon their passing had an older friend tell me that when I was 3 years old, I was often talking to her deceased brother who had died when How long after a person dies do we need to wait to connect he was 3. Apparently, no one in her family ever spoke of his with them? death, so she did not share this with me until I was an adult. It You can connect with them immediately. They will often visit is important to teach children to trust themselves, what they you when they pass or wake you up in a dream. Interestingly, are sensing and what their body is telling them. What you may a woman (and her adult son) called me on the phone when think is their imagination may be their intuition.
her husband was getting ready to pass on. She asked if I could with an alienated parent after they pass. They do not care if tune in psychically to her husband to see how he was doing. I you have carried on the family name or finished the project did so, and telepathically he said, “It suddenly became dark.” I you had intended to do with them. They empathize with you relayed the message to his wife, and she said her son had just and support your growth and development. They want you to turned off the lights in the room. I then heard her husband say choose your own unique path and follow your bliss. psychically that his diaper was uncomfortable, and his wife checked to find that it was twisted. I continued to follow her My parents died recently and I wonder if they were pleased husband psychically as if seeing his transcendence through with the service they held and how we distributed their his eyes. In my mind’s ear, I heard him laughing playfully. He possessions? was so light, free and joyful! Jesus I embraced him (he was They do not have an ego, so they are not concerned about Catholic). He was elated with tears of joy as he was greeted whether and how they are recognized or end-of-life by four children. He took his last breath and passed. The next arrangements. Instead, they are focused on their loved ones. day, the gentleman’s wife called to thank me, and with cries of They attend these gatherings in Spirit and want their loved appreciation, she shared that she had had four miscarriages ones to find peace and happiness. It is about the love and joy during their marriage. that is shared. Spirits do not care if you sell their house. They do not live I do not feel like I have lived up to the expectations of there! They want you to do what is best for you and will guide my parent(s). Are they happy with me about what I have you as such. Spirits empathize with the pain we experience accomplished in my life? in discordant and difficult relationships. Loved ones on the other side will provide insight to help us empathize with They want you to be peaceful and happy with yourself. one another and see other perspectives. They understand us Because \"everything is illuminated\" after death, spirits are fully without judgment and often will use humor to help us see our conscious. They do not have an ego or judgment, only love limitations, blind sports and opportunities. for you. Some of my clients have even found reconciliation When is my loved one going to pass on? Although this question is beyond the scope of this article, due to the pandemic I am hearing this question a lot lately. My answer is that it is up to your loved one and their God when they will pass. It is their process. There is often a tendency of family members to tell their loved one near the end of their life, “It’s OK, you can go now. You do not have to wait. We will all be OK.” The same message is repeated every day, wondering why their loved one is hanging on. None of us wants to be pushed or pulled to stay or go! Although such thoughts are typically well-intentioned, sometimes the anxiety of those grieving and the need for control blurs patience, faith and the ability to trust their loved ones’ sacred process. And know that when their soul sheds its tired skin, they will be with you once again to whisper a sweet goodnight. Copyright © 2020, Karen Storsteen. All Rights Reserved. Websites: karensinsight.com / karenstorsteen.com Karen Storsteen, M.S., M.A., is an intuitive therapist, psychic- medium, executive coach and public speaker. She has been featured on ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been a regular on FM radio. Photography by Gilda Adler
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