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Photography by Meg Nobriga DISCOVER EDITIONS MAGAZINES SAN DIEGO COUNTY “We can’t control the wind, but we can adjust the sail” ~ Ricky Skaggs Editor/Publisher La Jolla 2021 has finally arrived, bringing with it a clean slate, a fresh Robert Kenyon North County start, and an opportunity to right the ship of 2020. As we set Rancho Santa Fe sail on the open waters of a new year, Discover Magazines Editor-at-Large America’s Finest City® will continue to focus on inspirational people, alluring Lyndsay Camins destinations, and a sea of treasures to look forward to in hopes Contributing Writers of encouraging our readers to chart the course for taking on Fashion Editor-at Large Rick Melody this new year by storm. Amy Davis Karen Storsteen In our first issue of 2021, we navigate our way out of the ever- Richard Clemens changing tide of last year by highlighting stories of resilience, Creative Director & Stylist Jonathan Livingston forward thinking, and infallibility. We feature a discerning Amy Davis Timothy Moonstone group of local helmsmen who have used their ingenuity, passion, and perseverance to succeed as leaders in business, Director of Finance Cover Photography philanthropy, and the arts. We wade into the waters of world Michelle Maurer Meg Nobriga travel, scratching the itch of cabin fever with an exploration into the exotic yet approachable enticements of Southeast Asia Production Manager Advertising Inquiries and Africa. And we shine a bright ray of light on one of the Toshi Kenyon Discover Magazines most meaningful events in one’s lifetime by sharing our guide 1155 Camino Del Mar #167 to all things wedding, covering everything from shoring up the Social Media Del Mar, CA 92014 perfect proposal to becoming a bride worth keeling over. Gilda Adler [email protected] The ebb and flow of transitioning from last year to now is most Dione Becker certainly a welcome shift from the murky abyss of 2020 into Comments clearer and calmer waters, but the opportunity to turn a corner Photography [email protected] and make leeway going forward awaits. May 2021 bring you Gilda Adler the gift of fair winds and following seas. Becki Freed Subscriptions Lyndsay Camins, Editor-at-Large Meg Nobriga discovermagazines.com DISCOVER DISCOVER America’s Finest City Edition® MAGAZINES La Jolla Edition MAGAZINES Connecting with GLITZ PLUS DOCTOR JAKI AND Tish Quirk & GLAM NADER YERMIAN ALL THAT + EHSANI With Hollywood PROM FASHION TIMELESS INTERIORS JAZZ! Clearly in Mind BY MATTI D! SO CAL’S ELITE ORTHODONTICS FASHION EMPOWERED China: CSPHOATRLIITGYHT: WOMEN 2019 SYCUAN CRUISIN’ FOR The Early Years Couture Specialist Cinderella’s Attic INSPIRING MUCH MORE THAN TOM Andre Soriano FASHION EVER BEFORE CRUISE LIMANDRI & JONNA LITIGATORS PAR EXCELLENCE JOAN WAITT LONG HELD PASSIONS JULIET MITCHELL Pure Girl in a Toxic World DISCOVERMAGAZINES.COM Discover Magazines is a bi-monthly issue published six times per year. Inquiries may be addressed to Discover Magazines, Post Box 167, 1155 Camino Del Mar, Del Mar, CA 92014. Subscriptions by direct-mail are $19,95 per year, which may be acquired online at discovermagazines.com. All content within the pages of Discover Magazines is copyright material and no part of the publication in any manner or for any purpose may be reproduced in any form whatsoever without the written consent of the publisher. Advertisers have made purchase of space and circulation only. Any and all views or opinions expressed within the contents of this publication by each of the contributing writers or advertisers are the authors’ own and do not necessarily represent the views and or opinions of the owner and publisher of Discover Magazines.

Family Law Specialist ATTORNEY SARAH SCHAFFER Leads Her Team To Ongoing Success Serving 5-years on active duty as a U.S. Marine, having graduated with honors from Stanford University, and thereafter acquiring her law degree and an LL.M. degree in taxation at the University of San Diego, Schaffer is one of the very few attorneys to hold the distinction of a Certified Family Law Specialist. Meeting with Schaffer, we discussed the many aspects of family law within the State of California. By Jonathan Livingston Photography by Meg Nobriga

Having worked for a This is a rigorous process and as you How important is a decision to select prestigious tax accounting might imagine, there are not a lot of an attorney who specializes in Family firm in the Bay area, and family law lawyers who are Certified Law? Just like you wouldn’t go to a having practiced family law here Family Law Specialists. general practice doctor for open heart locally with the firm of Higgs, Fletcher surgery, neither should you go to an & Mack, when did you begin your own Choosing an attorney attorney who doesn’t focus his/her practice? I opened my own family law who specializes in practice on family law matters. practice in 2011. Family Law is crucial What common mistake will a party Must one be an attorney to offer Is it ever wise to allow one attorney make when deciding that a divorce consultation on divorce in California? to represent both sides of a divorce? is inevitable? Even though it often is While it may be possible to negotiate a Actually, attorneys are prohibited a very emotional time, it is important divorce settlement on your own or with from representing opposing parties in to remain calm and communicate in a a mediator that is not an attorney, if you California. In a divorce, the two spouses civil manner. Another important task own a business, have significant assets are opposing parties in a legal action, at the beginning of a divorce is to gather or some other complex situation, hiring and this is true even if you remain your tax and other financial records. an attorney is the best way to ensure amicable. If the parties attend mediation For example, if one party contributed your interests are protected. however, one mediator can facilitate separate property to the purchase of a dissolution. Most experienced a community residence, he or she can How does being a Certified Family mediators recommend that each party receive a reimbursement. However, Law Specialist distinguish you from hire his or her own consulting attorney evidencing such a claim is much easier other divorce attorneys? The State Bar to help facilitate a resolution and file all with the appropriate documents. of California awards the designation of the required paperwork. Certified Specialist in Family Law, also How large has your firm grown over called a Certified Family Law Specialist the years? When I started my firm, I to attorneys who have “gone beyond the employed only one part-time assistant. standard licensing requirements.” An Today we have four attorneys and six attorney may apply for such certification staff members. after demonstrating proficiency in the area of family law through years of experience and education. In addition, the attorney must pass a written examination in the field of family law. After becoming certified, Certified Family Law Specialists must continue to demonstrate a high level of experience and skill, fulfill the ongoing legal education requirements and be evaluated by other attorneys and judges.

Mediation is an can be effective so just make sure the working from home and being unable effective tool if both style suits you and your spouse. to engage in many recreation activities parties can agree to has taken its toll on many marriages. participate Once committed to mediation, is there We know that external stressors have a right to appeal the ruling? There a worse effect on couples with pre- You offer mediation as part of your isn’t a “ruling” per se in a mediation. existing vulnerabilities, and COVID-19 services. Both sides must agree. How Typically, a mediator listens to the has certainly presented many stressors. is the mediator chosen? When both interests of each spouse, explains how Couples whose relationships were parties are aligned, mediation can offer the court would likely rule any disputed already rocky may have finally reached a more private, less time consuming, issue, and helps the parties draft a their breaking point. Since March, more collegial, and lower cost road to settlement agreement. A mediator does we’ve seen a surge in marital dissolution divorce. When choosing a mediator, not have the ability to decide on an cases as well as an increase in domestic you want to look for someone who issue if the parties cannot agree. If a violence. In addition, COVID-19 and will remain neutral and treat both spouse changes his or her mind after state law restrictions on traveling have parties with equal fairness and respect. a divorce decree has been entered, the caused additional custody disputes. The mediator should be trained in person who wishes to make a change divorce mediation and have experience would need to ask the judge to set aside Are most hearings now held by video- mediating divorces. Check references or modify the divorce decree. conferencing? Currently all family law and determine if the mediator’s style is court appearances are conducted via what you’re looking for. Some mediators Covid certainly must have impacted video-conferencing. are highly directive while others offer a divorce proceedings across the board. more facilitative approach. Both styles Have you seen a rise in the divorce Given the priority assigned to rate since the pandemic began early criminal cases, is it even possible to this year? There is no question that receive a court hearing at this time? the pandemic has caused a strain on Yes, family law matters are being heard; many marriages. Sick family members, however, there is a delay in processing managing virtual schooling for children, paperwork and receiving a hearing date.

Has there been any silver lining in and other assets. Not only am I able to Knowing the impact that divorce can adjusting to Covid compliance? understand and assist clients with their have on children, are you supportive COVID-19 has helped us facilitate a tax and financial planning needs, but I of certain charitable giving groups hybrid working environment, which am also able to ensure their assets are that provide support to the children? provides options for our team and protected in a divorce situation. Yes. Giving back to the community helps create positive attitudes for our is very important to me. One of the team members. In addition, for some of Having overseen a vast multitude organizations we support is Kids’ Turn our clients, co-parenting relationships of cases, what important features San Diego. Kids’ Turn is a non-profit have improved because of increased stand out that you feel distinguish organization for children and parents communication and problem solving for you from other firms? Schaffer experiencing family separations or “remote schooling,” and the cooperation Family Law Group is comprised of military transitions. They help children required has created an environment for aggressive yet empathetic advocates discover their voice to communicate success for their students. who have experience in nearly every their thoughts and feelings about their area of family law and who specialize in family situation and give parents the If it appears that it will become a handling sophisticated, highly complex daily tools they need to be able to contentious divorce, what 3 major and multi-faceted cases. And, although communicate and understand how to steps should a party take to protect we are always prepared to litigate put their child first in their relationship, their interests? First, it is critical to when it becomes necessary, we also without conflict. We also assist hire a Certified Family Law Specialist. work collaboratively towards favorable Casa Cornelia with their mission of Second, if there is an issue of domestic settlements through mediation humanitarian immigration including violence, it is critical to have a safety whenever possible. Our honesty, pro bono cases for Special Immigrant plan – this usually involves having a integrity, professional ethical standards, Juvenile Petitions. Also, Ms. Jennifer “go bag” and a plan to leave the house thorough understanding of all facets of Lee, one of the attorneys with our if necessary. Third, if you are not the family law and our sincere desire to help firm, is the Treasurer of the Pan Asian spouse that is in charge of the finances, families find a way to successfully move Lawyers of San Diego, an organization it is important to have a reserve for the forward are the cornerstones of our firm that also does pro bono volunteer work necessities of life. and the values that are embraced by every attorney in every single matter. and other community outreach. ■ Do you handle both men and women seeking representation? Absolutely. Attorney Schaffer and members of her legal team will share their expertise on We represent both men and women in Family Law in forthcoming issues of Discover Magazines. all areas of family law. We are adept at 858.509.7907 | sandiegofamilyattorneys.com working with high net-worth clients or those who own their own businesses or are involved in a family business. In addition, my military background provides an inside perspective on the particular needs of military families. Ms. Leslie Ryland, another attorney with our firm who is also a certified specialist, is known throughout the county as an expert in contentious custody litigation. Have you found your stellar background in tax law a powerful tool in deciphering complicated business resolutions? Yes. My Masters of Law degree and experience as a tax consultant are very helpful in matters involving high-value property, stock options, pensions, family businesses

DESTINED FOR PRIME TIME? Ashley Jacobs CAN LEAD YOU THERE Gby rick melody Photography by Gilda Adler rowing up in Northwest Ohio, Ashley Jacobs has spent well over a dozen years as a television news anchor Over time, with her agency thriving, albeit missing her and reporter, with early assignments in Toledo, Ohio, friends and work family, she decided to return to FOX 5, Savannah, Georgia, and Wilmington, North Carolina. She was where she can be found live once again on the local news the evening news anchor for the ABC affiliate in Savannah channel. Her new role allows her to maximize her time with and morning news anchor for the ABC affiliate in Wilmington the children while growing professionally as well. prior to transitioning to Southern California. Giving back to the community has always been an important Ashley began her news career in San Diego in 2014 with part of Ashley’s life; she and her children keep sandwich bags FOX 5, and shortly thereafter became the lifestyle and loaded with essentials, such as toothbrushes, tissues, hand entertainment reporter for CBS News 8, This Morning, for sanitizer and snacks stocked in their SUV, so they can give several years. After waking those early hours at 2:15 am to them to homeless people in need. She is also excited about a spend mornings with viewers, quietly leaving her two young new opportunity to give back to Laura’s House, a domestic children at home with their Nanny, Ashley decided that it was violence shelter, as this issue is so close to her heart and time to spend mornings at home and she exchanged the on- seeing other women rise from abuse and dire circumstances air limelight for waffles and eggs at home with her children. following some of the darkest days of their lives to reach their Having amassed a wealth of viable connections over the years, full potential brings her great joy. augmented by the many years of media experience, Ashley chose to launch The Jacobs Agency, a boutique public relations thejacobsagency.com firm offering full service public relations packages. The variety of optional packages spans the gamut from influencer partnerships to media coaching, using platforms in print, social media and television coverage. With a penchant for storytelling her whole life through, she simply believes that each of her clients has a unique story waiting to be told. With over a dozen years of experience as an award-winning TV News Anchor and Reporter, and as a Senior Publicist within an agency, she has full understanding on how to access and align the media to make her clients stand out in a crowded world full of people begging for attention. Ashley also realizes creating a buzz-worthy campaign means intricately understanding each client’s goals, and tailoring each campaign to assure maximum success. Ashley’s children, Addison and Lucas, 3rd and 5th graders are the loves of her life. Understanding that time is a precious commodity, she makes it her goal to surround herself with strong, empowering women who are their own successes.

NEW YEAR NEW YOU This Time For Real By Sherry Price The beginning of a New Year is known to symbolize and habitual routines that have carried on for years. An all a fresh start, a new opportunity; a time to realign too familiar cycle, it is why only an estimated 8% of those our priorities and create new routines that committing to change fully accomplish their New Year’s support our goals and desires. Common of those is to focus resolutions. on improving our health, fitness and wellness. We may even take on a Dry January, aspiring to better control our drinking Simply knowing the dangers and potential consequences habit. Inspired by the thoughts of a fresh start toward a better of overdrinking alone is not enough to make lasting behavior tomorrow, in our minds, we have no reason to believe we can’t changes. Subscribing to the myth that you need to hit rock accomplish what we set out to do. bottom before you’ll change is exactly as described - a myth. Yet for most, within a matter of weeks into the New Year, The opportunity does exist to make a meaningful change, and those invigorating feelings of hope, possibility, optimism, and to alter and overcome the downside of an imprudent drinking motivation begin to wane. We succumb to the same patterns habit. One first must realize that it is not a one-size fits all approach. Most drinkers are “gray-area drinkers”, and they don’t necessarily want an alcohol-free lifestyle. Learning the methods to cut back, maintain control, and not feel like a drink is needed at the end of the day can be an achievable goal. Maintaining a Drink Less Lifestyle is about making empowering choices and putting an end to regret, shame and embarrassment. Change comes from a commitment to make choices based on your clearly defined goal and having your own back during the change process. It is about focusing on moving forward and leaving the past behind, while creating a more positive identity that is in alignment with your new lifestyle. Cheers to your wellness and creating a Drink Less Lifestyle! Sherry B. Price, PharmD, MBA, APh, BCPS is a certified life coach, podcaster, pharmacist, and creator of the Drink Less Lifestyle program. She helps women stop the overdrinking habit and create a new relationship with alcohol where they are confident and in control. Check out her website, www.sherryprice.com, where she offers a variety of free resources including her podcast called Drink Less Lifestyle. Photography by Becki Freed / legacybrandimages.com

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IF EVER THERE BE A HELMSMAN at tiller, San Diegan at birth, 1927 the year? having the utmost interest for the good of San Yes, born here on November 12, 1927 Diego at heart, surely Malin Burnham is one. Siblings? I had one brother, Peter, The enormity of Burnham’s successes in realty eighteen months older. He and I is mirrored by the magnanimous generosity of both began to sail together and later his endowments to a wide spectrum of local his interest led him to birds, horses, institutions, benefitting the residents of his nature, and the backcountry, whereas beloved city, and potentially through medical I stayed with sailing. research, the citizenry of the world. The name Burnham falls under which nationality? British. My We met together in his home at Point Loma, father’s family came from Great the section of the city were he has lived since Britain. childhood. By Timothy Moonstone Photo by Gilda Adler

Is it a fact that you trace your lineage En route by train back to Los Angeles, Remaining photos courtesy of Malin Burnham in San Diego back to the 1800’s? Yes, the train made an unscheduled stop in a my grandfather moved here to join his small Kansas town where everyone was on campus because of the war and that older brother who had arrived in the celebrating VJ Day as the war had come balance was about to shift. I had yet to 1890’s.Thereafter, at age 6, my Father to an end. Upon arrival at Union Station apply to any school. The war now over came out to join John Burnham & in Los Angeles, we were met by my and the draft soon to end, my plans for Company that specialized in real estate, family, and my Dad first congratulated military service came to an abrupt end. insurance and commercial mortgage me on the win and then announced that lending. He later married with he and I would be going to Stanford for my While at Stanford did you major in his wife having two sons. college degree. He somehow managed industrial engineering? I did. Stanford with help from a friend who was a required its third year students to As a youngster, did you witness the Stanford Alumnus to convince them choose a specialty in your chosen field, effects of the Depression Era in the based upon my high school record alone mine being industrial engineering. 30’s? Not really. We lived in a modest that I was a worthy candidate. Mind you, At the time, knowing that I had my home here in Port Loma, where I went at the time there were 7 women to a man focus set on a return to San Diego to school and upon graduation from to join my Dad’s realty firm, I chose high school planned to follow my industrial engineering, since it provided brother into the Navy. a smattering of law, accounting, and marketing, which obviously was a What inspired your interest in sailing broader base of knowledge to be learned. during those younger years? My Mother was an avid swimmer and she You have said that its teaching has led would often take us to the beach nearby you to analyze and mentally discern the San Diego Yacht Club, exactly where the inner composition of a building it sits today. On occasion, boats would with a calculation as to value. In come by and those on board would real estate, you may have cultivated a call out to join them. My brother and I customer who wants to buy a building. I would swim out and hop a ride, taking a trained myself to look at a building and great liking to the sport. determine its size by square footage and calculate its value by cost per square foot Not owning a boat, how did you for purchase or renovation, simply by manage entry into the Yacht Club? looking at the building. Engineering also My Mother noticed our love of boating teaches you about structure, how things and convinced my Dad to take a come together, and how to put things membership so that we could get into together. the junior sailing program. My interest and love of sailing continued to grow with an eye toward competition. At 17 you and your team won a World Championship Sailing Regatta. We did. A classmate of mine, Lowell North and I traveled by train to New York and over to Stamford, Connecticut where the Star International Class of Sailboat Regatta was being held that year. We were the youngest ever to win that competitive class of racing, a record that stands to this day. Lowell went on to become a 4-time World Champion in Star Class as a Skipper, and winner of a Gold Medal at the ‘68 Summer Olympics in Mexico City. He also became a highly successful sail maker, crafting sails that to this very day are sought after by the very best in the field.

At graduation in 1949, you returned year from tomorrow and ten years from to being structured or disciplined in to San Diego to join your Dad’s realty tomorrow. It is not that I want to be our efforts. We knew that we wanted to firm. I did, and it was the same year that ahead of people, rather simply ahead share our wealth, but was this the right I married and not long thereafter, my of myself. History has its value, but is time, was this the right method, was this wife presented us with twins, eventually not where I concentrate. I am looking the right cause. Once we settled into it, adding two more to the fold. toward the future. It is the same with I had little trouble with the signature. pivots. Many in life find a pivot or Furthermore, I believe that philanthropy San Diego began to draw interest from change to be a negative or a mistake, can be served in 3 different ways. There the national realty firms who made creating anxiety, where I see it simply as is the writing of the check, serving on headway into the city. How did your a change in direction, leading to a better the Board, or asking others to contribute smaller entity compete in that market? path or decision. I see those as positives. to the cause, and I am not at all hesitant Coldwell Banker being one, began to set This was a pivot likely to bring Roberta to seek a commitment from others. up branches on the West Coast and it and I into the nonprofit community. Does not always succeed, but I am quite was a real concern at the time, thinking willing to try. that their capital was far greater than Your wife Roberta and you decided ours and they would cut deeply into our to begin a Foundation in support of Over time, you and Roberta decided market share. They brought in their best various causes within the community. to narrow the focus and concentrate sales staff from other branches outside What led to that decision? We knew on education and health. We did, and of San Diego to run the operation. We that we wanted to share our wealth, felt that these two areas were primary chose to remain regional, choosing not and become a member of the nonprofit interests and would provide the best to become the biggest, but the best, yet community, but we also wanted to be return in helping to make a difference we had to compete with these firms. disciplined about it. So we choose to in the community presently and in the form our own Foundation, so that we years to follow. I spoke with business leaders older than could anticipate each year’s distribution. I that lived here locally. To a person, Of the many that you support, has the they told me to get out of the office and It has been told that the first few Sanford-Burnham-Prebys Medical get connected within the community. written checks were hard to complete Discovery Institute been closest to Learn who the players are, in business, and you hesitated with the signature. your heart? It all began with a phone nonprofits and even local political Why so? It was the case and goes back call some 40 years ago from a friend who leaders. Get to know them better than your competition, thereby receiving more phone calls than they. It is what I did, truly with a selfish motive for survival, and what actually led me into the world of nonprofits. Your career in commercial realty led to enormous success. At age 59, you chose to sell all interests to your managers. A decision long in the making or spontaneous? At age 54, I actually wrote a letter to my managers advising that it was my intent to offer them all of my interests in the firm in 5 years time. There was no agreement, no set date or a price discussed, however I wanted them to be aware of my intent. Actually, some 5 years later, in 1986 it was finalized while I was down in Perth, Australia with Dennis Conner challenging for a return of the America’s Cup. Were future plans already in the hopper prior to dissolving yourself from the firm? For the last 35 years, my focus has been on tomorrow, one

was on the Board of what was then the saved my life. The Institute has received What is the greatest challenge facing La Jolla Cancer Research Foundation, our greatest contributions and where I San Diego at this time? I think the and what is now Sanford-Burnham- have been most involved, although I and greatest challenge that we have is getting Prebys, asking if I would consider Danny Sanford are just advisory Board more political leaders, and companies, joining the Board. Not knowing a thing members now. together with nonprofits, the health about cancer research, I had to ask community, and the youth community why me? He responded that everyone Would you consider the military to work together toward the betterment associated with the Center and on the presence in San Diego or the growth of of San Diego and less so for personal Board were living in La Jolla and they the biotechnical industry its greatest interest. I recently read two books, one were seeking to expand their scope and asset? The military is the greater part titled Them and the other Alienated attract outside interest. Asked simply for the economy, however, San Diego is America, which separately spoke to the to visit the facility, I agreed, and shortly the 3rd largest innovative center in the loss of community collaboration the last thereafter made a visit. world with Biotech in the lead, which 30 years. I myself have penned a book I must say that I was shocked to find a certainly adds balance to the equation. titled, Community Before Self, which small room with about 30 employees, With the Pacific Ocean becoming more addresses some of those issues as well. almost elbow to elbow doing research. and more a contentious arena in our This clear and apparent shift in values I personally knew that most research geopolitcal interest, I expect the military has led me to begin The Burnham scientists in any field try earnestly to presence to remain and perhaps grow Center For Community Advancement, work in a vacuum as to not share or have stronger. San Diego has long had a great which we began in 2019 with the intent their research stolen from them. This relationship with the military here and I or mission to bring these various groups collaboration was unique and I found expect that to continue. together. It will not be a political entity, it stimulating, thus I did join the Board but rather a place where all walks of life and some 40 years over time, I actually You have witnessed the growth of San can come together and be welcomed to Chaired the Board. It has been close to Diego from its earliest beginning. Have share their ideas. We will readily support my heart, and in a very personal way. you a concern about its direction? Not those ideas that have merit and which It was their research that among other really. Many people are leaving the State look to benefit the community as a finds, developed the PSA test for cancer. because of high taxation and perhaps whole. When I was about 57, my test came back the direction of the political climate, with a high number and I was treated for however, I find San Diego remains Be it in a business transaction or prostate cancer, which well could have the finest place in which to live and I friendship, which traits or virtues certainly will be staying. impress you the most? First and foremost there has to be trust between the parties, and if it is a business transaction, there must be the ability from the other side to deliver, be it as a person or as a team. You have chosen “Community Before Self ” as a mantra for yourself and others to follow. I have, and I carry a business card with those very words on the back as a reminder. I must say that given these tumultuous times within our nation and the very real and apparent divide between its populace that I have chosen to elevate the message to “Country Before Self ” in the hope that we might return to a semblance of respect for each other’s ideas and beliefs, however different they may appear. Well into the future, in writing your epitaph, how would the phrase be thMeybheettaerrtmfeeltnitnotefrSeasnt hDaiseaglow. a■ys written? been for

PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD James T. Harris III President – University of San Diego Jim Harris took the helm as president of USD in 2015 and dedicates his academic career to spearheading civic and community engagements and connecting academic environments with intractable issues faced by society. Harris embodies community-engaged learning, which is how the University of San Diego describes each student’s mission to use classroom lessons to serve communities near and far. It was under his leadership that USD challenged itself to set the standard for an engaged, contemporary Catholic university where innovative Changemakers confront humanity’s urgent challenges. For Harris, this isn’t just a vision statement. It’s his true north. Since his earliest days on campus, he’s made it a habit to volunteer alongside students who were making a difference at USD’s Karen and Tom Mulvaney Center for Community, Awareness and Social Action. The Mulvaney Center makes it possible for USD to partner with and serve communities around the world. Nearly 100 courses at USD include a community engagement component. Nearly 7,000 students participate in community engagement projects annually. Recently, USD was ranked number one in the nation for its commitment to public service in Washington Monthly’s annual College Guide and Rankings, which recognizes the number of USD students who choose to serve their country as a member of the military, the voting engagement of its students, the number of alumni involved who are active in the Peace Corps, the number of students who complete a term of service with AmeriCorps and the institution’s dedication to community service. Harris, along with seven USD alumni, were among those recently recognized as “San Diego’s most influential leaders who have made a significant difference during these unprecedented times” of the COVID-19 pandemic. Harris was recognized for leading USD’s collaboration with county leaders to establish USD as a free COVID-19 testing site, supporting underserved and underrepresented populations in the local community. Today, among other urgent challenges, USD confronts human trafficking and homelessness with its legacy of community-engaged learning stronger than ever.

PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD Dan Shea CEO – Feeding San Diego Dan Shea was born and raised in the rural community of Okawville, Illinois, and is one of eight siblings. He looked up to his Dad for his honesty, humor, and sympathy for those even less privileged than they, and attributes his compassion for the less fortunate to his Dad. Presently Dan serves as the CEO of Feeding San Diego, a leading food rescue and hunger-relief organization in San Diego County, and also is a partner of Paradigm Investment Group, which owns approximately 120 restaurants across the United States. Graduating from High School, Dan joined the Army and thereafter attended Southern Illinois University where he majored in Economics. His first job after college was at Stouffers’ – a large hospitality company. Following his 2-years at Stouffers’, he landed a job as a junior executive with DeLorean Motor Company, where he remained for five years. During his time with DeLorean, Shea built up an industry network and went on to become a regional manager for Mitsubishi, which was then moving into the U.S. market. In 1991, Dan began a consulting business specializing in assisting businesses with financial and operational restructuring. Through this process, he became an equity partner of one of his clients, and three years later, the business was acquired by a Fortune 500 company, and at age 43, Shea retired for one year, which he describes as the most boring year of his life. It was then that he began his partnership with Paradigm Investment Group. An activist for many social justice issues, Dan has partnered with Peter Seidler, the majority owner of the San Diego Padres, and several business and civic leaders in the community to tackle San Diego’s homeless problem. Their efforts have resulted in the placement of four industrial tent shelters throughout the city housing unsheltered individuals as they continue to urge the city to utilize vacant buildings for homeless shelter and service. A petition drive to influence political leaders to utilize more of the city’s vacant buildings for shelter has received strong support. Dan was proud to assume the position of Feeding San Diego CEO in November 2020 and looks forward to growing the mission and impact Feeding San Diego continues to have on the community.

Photography by Blushing Cactus PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD Chris Sichel CEO & President Make-A-Wish Foundation of San Diego, Inc. Chris Sichel has been in the hope business for over two decades now, serving as a senior non-profit leader in the San Diego Region. Since taking the helm of the Make-A-Wish Foundation of San Diego in 2005, Chris has successfully led the task of providing hope and joy for families during some of their most challenging times. He has become well known as a thought leader within the national Make-A-Wish ranks, as well as in the San Diego non-profit community. Chris actively serves in a number of national advisory roles within Make-A-Wish America, including the national Strategic Planning Council and the national Reemergence Task Force. The latter is focused on assuring that all Make- A-Wish chapters across the country are able to safely and effectively operate during the COVID-19 pandemic, and reemerge as a more sustainable and mission-focused enterprise for years to come. Earlier in his career, Chris was the Executive Director for STAR/PAL (San Diego’s Police Athletic League) for seven years. During this time, his vision for a permanent facility embracing police and community collaboration in the heart of Mid-City was set in motion through the launch of a capital campaign that would change the organization’s future. A lifelong learner, Chris recently became certified in the Foundations of Racial Equity from the University of San Diego, has attended Harvard Business School’s Strategic Perspectives in Non-Profit Management program, and studied at the Center for Creative Leadership. He was sworn in as the 110th president of the San Diego Rotary Club in July of 2020 in the midst of the pandemic, providing club leadership that pivoted from in-person to online platforms. Chris was also recently selected as one of the most influential business leaders in San Diego (SD500), and the “2018 Most Admired CEO” by the San Diego Business Journal as well as in 2011. On a personal note, Chris is a native San Diegan and an outdoor enthusiast who has walked the Camino de Santiago twice for a total of 900 miles. Chris has been married to his wife Coleen for over 30 years, and together they have 3 adult children. Favorite quote to live by: “Create a life that you don’t need to escape from”.

PROMOTIONAL Photography by Greg Siller Helmsmen SD David A. Smith Founder Honor Flight San Diego David A. Smith is the Founder of Honor Flight San Diego, a non-profit that honors our veterans by flying them to Washington D. C. to visit the memorials dedicated to remembering and honoring their service and sacrifices to our country. He was inspired to start a local San Diego Hub after accompanying his Father, a WWII Marine Combat Veteran, as a Guardian on a Lone Eagle Honor Flight in May, 2010 organized by the Honor Flight National office staff located in Springfield, Ohio. While on site, Dave spoke with the National Director of Honor Flight about beginning a Hub in San Diego. He was told that Honor Flight at the time had just one Hub located in Northern California. With San Diego having one of the largest populations of veterans in the country, Dave felt the need for San Diego to have its own Hub and with approval, began the arduous task of forming the 501c3 non-profit organization here in San Diego. Dave reached out to business and community leaders he knew and invited them to his home to learn about Honor Flight and its mission to honor our veterans. Descriptions of the customary “Tours of Honor” and videos were shown displaying the positive impact the 3-day 2-night trip to Washington DC had on the veterans and guardians. The impression left on those present led to the founding of the San Diego Hub, which officially began operations on August 20, 2010. Top priority for an Honor Flight is given to the most senior veterans, currently WWII and Korean War survivors, and to veterans who are terminally ill and capable of making the trip. There are far more applicants on waiting lists than can be served and time for each of these men and women is running short, and with trips being cancelled this past year due to Covid compliance, the challenge becomes far greater. In addition to running his own nationwide leadership consulting business, Professional Workplace Interaction, Inc., specializing in Workplace and School Violence Prevention, the past 10 years Dave has made over 200 Honor Flight presentations in California, Nevada, Arizona, Oregon, and Washington State. He has helped start numerous hubs on the West Coast and with the founding of Honor Flight Philadelphia. https://www.honorflightsandiego.org/

Photography by Alexander Zahedi PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD Daryoosh Khashayar Founder of Khashayar Law Group Attorney Khashayar left Iran at age 7, traveling through France, and eventually settled within the United States to be raised and schooled in the San Francisco Bay Area. With an initial interest in architecture, his true passion came to light when having attended and graduated from John F. Kennedy University College of Law with his Juris Doctor Degree. In 2005, Khashayar settled with his family in San Diego and focused his practice on personal injury, transactional, and real estate law, with offices now located in San Diego, Del Mar, and Beverly Hills. As an advocate at trial, his successes have won multi-million dollar awards on behalf of his clients, which reputation precedes him when time for pre-trial negotiations take hold with opposing counsel, providing weighty leverage in seeking the highest settlement offer for his client. Methodical in his approach, Khashayar begins weighing the strength of his client’s case from the initial consultation, and although a litigator at heart, his years of practice before both judge and jury provides that inners sense of knowing when the best course of action in his client’s interest is to accept a just settlement rather than risk a prolonged trial with an uncertain outcome. Having written a book titled “Civil Litigation,” Khashayar explains in detail all aspects of trial preparation and the importance of not only explicitly knowing the facts of the case, and the potential theories that opposing counsel might present at trial, but also knowing the strength of the witness testimony, be it by expert or pedestrian, which weighs heavily, particularly in a trial by jury. Very much the family man, Khashayar has both son and daughter and is actively involved in all of their activities. Having had a younger brother pass away at a young age from Epilepsy, he is fully supportive of the LOKK for Epilepsy Foundation and various non-profit organizations that lend support to the homless. When considering what else might he have done with a career other than law, Khashayar is quick to answer that he could not imagine another path that would have provided a greater sense of pleasure or accomplishment than the practice of law. He feels that he is where he needs to be, and hopefully, where he can accomplish his greatest success and strongest contribution to those who seek redress from the calamities and challenges that befall them.

PROMOTIONAL Photography by Gilda Adler Helmsmen SD David Marchesani, CFA Portfolio Manager, Iapetus Capital, Inc. Marchesani began his investment career 25 years ago, working for a consulting firm that counsels institutional clients such as foundations & endowments on their investment portfolios. In that role, he researched and analyzed top money managers, gaining invaluable insights into investment strategies. “When I was on the consulting side, and interviewing money managers, I had a front-row seat to some of the best minds in our profession, from which I have created my own unique investment process.” David later moved to San Diego from New Jersey, to join what was at the time the largest money manager in town, Nicholas-Applegate. In 2015, David launched Iapetus Capital, a boutique investment firm focused on U.S. Equities. His goal is to bring the quality of institutional money management to individual investors. David first achieved some recognition in San Diego when he produced & directed a documentary about entrepreneurship titled VentureTown, USA. He made the movie while obtaining his Master of Science in Entrepreneurship from San Diego State. Several of San Diego’s business leaders appeared in the movie, such as Irwin Jacobs, Ralph Rubio, Leonard Lavin, and Brian Dovey. “There’s not a day that goes by where I don’t use some insight that I gleaned from those entrepreneurs. Making that movie was one of the best educational experiences of my life.” His ability to help his clients build and sustain their wealth has made a positive impact in the lives of San Diegans. During 2020 in particular, he successfully navigated the fluctuations in the stock market during the Covid pandemic, allowing his investors to calmly focus on the long term. His passion for helping others, combined with his investment skill, enable David to shepherd his clients’ portfolios during various market environments, while also contributing to the broader San Diego community. Philanthropy is an integral component of his business philosophy and Iapetus Capital donates a portion of its revenue to a different nonprofit each quarter, helping La Jolla Playhouse, San Diego Symphony, National Multiple Sclerosis Society, and San Diego Nice Guys, among others. [email protected]

PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD Ronson J. Shamoun CEO- RJS LAW Adjunct Professor - University of San Diego School of Law & School Business Ronson Shamoun is a San Diego tax attorney and a three- time graduate of the University of San Diego. He is a native San Diegan and has over 20 years of experience in tax. He is the founder and CEO of RJS LAW, A Tax Law Firm. Mr. Shamoun’s practice involves federal and state taxation, with an emphasis on criminal tax defense, tax controversy, international tax, and estate planning. Mr. Shamoun was named a 2017 - 2021 Super Lawyer by his San Diego Peers. Recently, in 2020 he was honored to be distinguished as a San Diego Business Journal CEO of the Year Award Winner and their Leaders in Law Award. Last year, he was recognized as San Diego’s Top Attorney by SD Metro Magazine, and as a Top Lawyer by San Diego Magazine. Also, in 2020 he was selected as one of San Diego’s 50 Leaders Making a Difference by the San Diego Business Journal. Mr. Shamoun has been recognized by Martindale Hubbell as an AV Preeminent from 2013 through 2021. In 2017, Mr. Shamoun was recognized as one of the USD School of Law Distinguished Alumni in which only 85 people have received this designation. Additionally, from 2016-2020 he was named one of the Top 500 Influential Business Leaders by the San Diego Business Journal. He has generously donated an annual scholarship to the USD School of Law and School of Business and contributes to numerous charities including the Girl Scouts, HDSA, Susan G. Komen, and Rady’s Children’s Hospital to name a few. Additionally, Mr. Shamoun is an adjunct professor at the USD School of Law and the USD School of Business, where he teaches Tax Practice and Penalties and Federal Tax Procedures and Policies, respectively. Mr. Shamoun also sits on the USD School of Law Board of Visitors and the USD School of Business Board of Advisors. In 2016, Mr. Shamoun co-founded the Annual USD School of Law – RJS LAW Tax Controversy Institute, which brings together the entire tax community to discuss the latest changes in tax law.

PROMOTIONAL Photography by Crystal Wyatt Helmsmen SD David Maldonado Flamenco and Classical Guitarist David Maldonado, a native San Diegan was raised in a family where playing music came as natural as breathing. His early influences encompassed a broad range of Spanish Classical music. At 8 years old, already an accomplished violinist, he immersed himself in the world of Bach and Mozart. At age 10, he felt the guitar was more natural to his liking and by age 14, David was performing classical guitar concerts as a young virtuoso. He studied for some 4 years under the Royal Family of the Classical Guitar, the Romero family, who were knighted by the King of Spain. Touring the world from Paris to Tokyo, David has recorded parts for numerous movies in Hollywood and has composed two original Symphonies. His theater performances have sold out theaters in major cities across the United States. His music reflects the beauty and structure inherent in traditional classical composition, at the same time bringing forth the passion, upbeat rhythms and challenging gypsy scales of Flamenco. His technique and breadth of field allows him to customize his performance from traditional Spanish guitar to today’s most popular tunes, a combination, together with David’s incredible energy and stage presence invokes a passionate response from audiences of all ages. Along with his concerts, some of his favorite performances come at private parties and events. His Davicas XX album became #1 on iTunes, and his Davicas album remained on the Billboard charts for 39 weeks, with the Davicas album placing 12th best selling album worldwide in 2017. He was Best Jazz winner at the Temecula Valley Music Awards, received the Best Album of the Year nomination at the San Diego Music Awards and Best Flamenco Album of the Year at the Latin Grammys. David’s brings his passion for music to mentoring and speaking to Latino high school boys in association with a non-profit organization titled Encuentros. At each yearly conference, David speaks to between 300-600 in attendance encouraging them about how to progress in their young lives. Over the past 10 years, he has conducted small group sessions, and titles his presentation “Passion Your Profession”. David’s message is to implore the young students about the importance of doing well in school, continue on to college and as importantly to live a respectable life. davidmaldonado.com

Photography by Marco Borggreve PROMOTIONAL Helmsmen SD Maestro Michael Francis Michael Francis has quickly established himself as one of the leading international conductors of today. Since 2014 as Music Director of the Mainly Mozart Festival in San Diego, California, he continues his ambitious multi-year exploration of Mozart’s life. Appointed Music Director of the Florida Orchestra in the fall of 2014, his role in building a wide variety of transformative community engagement initiatives has significantly grown the organization. Now in his second season, Francis continues as Chief Conductor of Deutsche Staatsphilharmonie Rheinland-Pfalz. Previously, he was Chief Conductor and Artistic Advisor of the Norrköping Symphony Orchestra from 2012-16. Previous and upcoming highlights include North American performances with several orchestras including the Cleveland Orchestra, the New York Philharmonic, and the Rochester Philharmonic. In Europe, he has conducted the Symphony Orchestra of the Bavarian Radio, the Dresden Philharmonic, and the Helsinki Philharmonic, among many others. In Asia, Maestro Francis has worked with the NHK Symphony, the National Symphony Orchestra of Taiwan as well as the philharmonic orchestras of Hong Kong, Japan, Malaysia and Seoul. Michael Francis has collaborated with notable soloists such as Lang Lang, Arcadi Volodos, Itzhak Perlman, Christian Tetzlaff, and Vadim Gluzman and many others. Francis’ discography includes the Rachmaninov piano concertos with Valentina Lisitsa and the London Symphony Orchestra, Wolfgang Rihm’s Lichtes Spiel with Anne-Sophie Mutter and the New York Philharmonic, and the Ravel & Gershwin piano concertos with Ian Parker. Maestro Francis regularly works with young musicians in Florida as part of the orchestra’s community engagement initiative. He has also enjoyed collaborations with the New World Symphony, National Youth Orchestra of Scotland and National Youth Orchestra of Canada. For the COVID-affected 2020-21 season, Francis has re- designed entirely new seasons for The Florida Orchestra, Deutsche Staatsphilharmonie and Mainly Mozart. Highly successful, these include innovative programming with smaller ensembles, split-orchestra concerts, live-streaming, drive-in concerts, educational videos and curated online experiences. Francis makes his home in Tampa, FL with his wife Cindy and his daughter Annabella.

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Jennifer recalls that I just didn’t feel like myself. I was exhausted. No matter how much I rested, I couldn’t regain my strength. Finally, I listened to my husband who got tired of hearing me complain and went to see my doctor. Nobody expects the diagnosis of cancer. I didn’t have time to feel sorry for myself. First, there was the surgery, and then the post-operative chemotherapy. A year later I was “cured”. I was so thankful for my support, and I knew I was one of the “lucky ones”. But when I looked at myself in the mirror, I didn’t recognize myself. I felt guilty even considering doing something for my “looks”, but I just wanted to be me again. Feeling insecure about her appearance, a friend recommended that she see Dr. Brian Reagan, a Board-Certified Plastic Surgeon in La Jolla. Jennifer comments, I immediately knew I was in the right office. His credentials, his post-op results, and his calming demeanor - all were spot on. He told me he could safely and predictably help me look like myself. Dr. Reagan mentions that Jen definitely went through a tough period in her life, and it showed. Reagan describes aging as a combination of three factors: changes to the quality of the skin, loss of volume, and laxity to the lower face and neck. He addressed all three with Jen by performing perioral dermabrasion, pan facial fat grafting, and a deep plane lower face/neck lift. Jen recalls the process and recovery as having looked a little scary at first, but after one week I could see the results. It was never painful, and after 2 weeks I started going outside to do my normal activities. I couldn’t believe it, it was me again! At is core, plastic surgery is very empowering says Dr. Reagan. Jen just wanted to feel and look like herself. I appreciated her trust in me to get her there. It’s been a great journey. EXHILARATINGTRIUMPHANT FROM A CANCEROUS RETREAT TO AN RECOVERYBy Catriona Rutherford Board-certified plastic surgeon Doctor Brian Reagan, together with his renowned team of laser specialists and aestheticians offer their services in a unique setting where the science and art of skin rejuvenation can be performed in a supervised, private environment. Contact: www.truebeautysd.com Photography by Gilda Adler

ACAREER THAT BEGAN IN JOURNALISM, Bahá,í, Mona Mahmudnizhad. Together with a team, she also she has held about every job a newsroom could is creating an animation series to help educate young children offer and eventually worked for affiliates of on social injustices by encouraging healthy questioning about CBS and FOX news with her personal news coverage airing the part we each play in supporting injustices as well as how we nationally and became one of the youngest news anchors in might well eliminate them. American history. “Pay it Forward” - a human-interest story, which Ghalili created, produced and hosted, was nominated for Ghalili currently is awaiting the publication of her globally an Emmy Award in 2012. As a social impact producer, voice- pre-tested educational curriculum, “Purify My Heart”, which over artist, and actress, she consults for filmmakers whose aims to address behavioral aspects of drugs, alcohol, and projects highlight under-represented voices and advises them sexuality through the perspective of the Bahá,í Writings, while on how to reach Millennials’ and Generation Z’s. empowering youth to recognize the significance of their actions as protagonists of their society.  Her formal education began in Australia with a degree in Commerce (Curtin University) followed by a degree in She presently sits on the Board of Advisors for the Mona Journalism (Harvard University), and thereafter a Master of Foundation, which supports both the academic education Science degree in Comparative Politics (Middle East Conflict) and moral empowerment of under-represented girls around from the London School of Economics and Political Science. the world. Ghalili credits her international upbringing as Ghalili has been sought out for senior-level advisory positions well as the Bahá,í Faith that has led her to active involvement in the government based on her groundbreaking research in efforts pertaining to social transformation. She has been regarding youth extremism and youth empowerment activism. an international motivational speaker and activist on these topics since 13 years of age, and has spoken at more than a She currently has three major projects in the works. One dozen international conferences and social and economic has her producing and hosting a social justice-driven Broadway development forums.  bound musical series Hash Tag Amer!ca with award-winning (creators, Anthony Fedorov and Jennifer Paz) producers, Among her many passions, that for her family is strongest directors and stars from American Idol, Hamilton, Miss and takes priority as she relishes time spent with her son, Saigon, Lion King and other Broadway musicals. Ghalili is also Solace, and husband, Blake, enjoying the countless golden co-producing (with award-winning composer Jack Lenz) a opportunities that San Diego has to offer. film on the life of slain teenage education activist and Iranian navaghalili.com Nava Ghalili-Wuorenma Iranian by heritage, American by birth, Ghalili began her illustrious career as news anchor at age 19 in Perth, Australia. By Richard Rhinestone Photography: Kremer Johnson Photography

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Magic Like Never Before Ben Silver has performed internationally for well over a decade and has been in hospitality for more than 20 years. When not jet setting and entertaining corporate and private clients, find him as the Wine Director/Sommelier/and Close-Up Magician at Meze Greek Fusion, an upscale, trendy restaurant in the heart of San Diego’s Historic Gaslamp District. Offering an arrangement of packages to best suit his clients’ needs, Silver comments, “most of the business I do is purely on the magic side, however, when you have a group that chooses to indulge the senses with libations, I am able to unleash my full arsenal before them, which has proven to be a hedonistic experience that creates lifelong memories”. Having performed at hundreds of weddings and rehearsal dinners, Silver makes certain to amplify the evening’s entertainment while shining the spotlight on the Bride & Groom, the feature stars of the night. His personal favorite is to do a Wine & Magic Dinner Experience at the rehearsal dinner for immediate family and friends, for thereafter, the excitement of that experience carries over as those at the rehearsal dinner now relish showing him off to all the guests on wedding day. When considering something “new” or “different” when entertaining your clients, some colleagues, or family and friends, surely this “one of a kind” luxury entertainer delivers in spades! • #1 Most Unique Business in the America (Yelp, 2019) • Academy of Magical Arts Magician Member (Magic Castle, Hollywood) • Certified (Level 2) Sommelier (Court of Master Sommeliers Americas) Performances: • Corporate Events, Company Retreats, Trade Shows • Private Magic and Wine Dinners • Weddings & Rehearsal Dinners • Magic for Birthdays and Anniversaries • Magic Classes and Wine Tastings www.BenSilverMagic.com 619 788-3660 | [email protected]

Photograph by Bauman Photography THE RANCH AT BANDY CANYON The narrow roadway approaching The Ranch is lined with the magnificence of old Eucalyptus trees, leading to beautifully manicured lawns, stone pathways, rising palms and lush hedging, making it an idyllic natural setting for a wedding ceremony and celebration. The historic lodge is the centerpiece of The Ranch with its original tiling, authentic wood beams and its classic, rustic ambiance, providing the perfect setting for the wedding party to gather and embrace the moment while dining in a celebratory mood. The outside pavilion features a newly designed tile fountain and permanently installed lighting, allowing guests to dance the night away under a blanket of stars, while all together making The Ranch one of the most sought after rustic wedding venues. 16251 Bandy Canyon Road Escondido, CA 92025 BandyCanyon.com (760) 654.6725

with First Cabin Since 1989 Since 1989, First Cabin Travel has sent travelers on custom luxury safaris to Africa with the mainstay of bookings from repeat clientele and their enthusiastic referrals. Allow yourself to feel the excitement of the hunt, the thrill of the pursuit, and the shooting by photograph or memory of animals in the wild. It is here on safari that you will forever capture the feeling and spirit of this exciting continent. These luxurious tented camps astound visitors with the amenities made available for one’s comfort. At sunset, indulge in the camp’s sybaritic atmosphere ~ ice cold cocktails, piping hot showers, haute cuisine and fine wines. Finally, after a congenial campfire yarn about the day’s safari, enjoy a well-earned rest in your comfortable luxury-styled accommodation. firstcabin.com / [email protected] / 858.395.1076 / CA Reg: 2016168-40

Elena Uvarova’s passion for photography is evidenced by her proficiency at capturing a moment of splendor in the life of her subject, be they a bride and groom, a family, or an individual portrait. Rated as a Top Pro photographer, and recipient of innumerable highly positive testimonials, Elena relishes the opportunity of working with her client to provide each of them an everlasting memory to be treasured over a lifetime. Photography by Elena Uvarova www.elenauphotography.com (858) 888.0958 @elena.u.photography Expert Makeup and Hair www.meleah.com first Dance Lessons [email protected] 619 822-8424 “ Meleah is amazingly positive BeyEonxdpeYctoautrions… and fun to work with. She also taught me new hair and make-up skills as she went along. My whole look stayed in place all night. I looked better than I could ever imagine. My husband was speechless at our first look! - Ali R. “ My hair and make-up was so gorgeous. We also took a dance lesson with her to prep for our 1st dance, which gave us the confidence we needed. - M. and J. Photos: Shelly Anderson (left) True Photography (right)

GRAND DEL MAR 5300 GRAND DEL MAR COURT, SAN DIEGO, CA 92130 (858) 314-2000 | Fairmont.com | [email protected] Embark on a sensory journey as you enter the picturesque Fairmont Grand Del Mar, San Diego’s oasis of calm and beauty—with a touch of classic 1920s Hollywood glamour. Nestled within 400 acres of coastal canyon, this storybook proposal and wedding destination offers wide-open spaces, lush grounds, dramatic vistas, romantic venues, elegant accommodations and award-winning dining. Romance emanates from each Mediterranean archway, stained-glass window and rich tapestry, serving as the perfect backdrop to your declaration of forever. Celebrate with the one’s you love in a place of serene beauty and escape the outside world at San Diego’s premier wedding venue.  Bride: Photography by Cavin Elizabeth Reception Venue: Tanya Menoni

Tranquil, Rustic Hideaway W ith its own brand of friendly and relaxed hospitality, Forgotten Barrel offers its visitors a classic homestead venue with congenial wine tastings, classic weddings, and corporate events. Its in-house winemaker hails from Northern California, having worked for Robert Mondavi, Rosenblum Cellars, and his own brand, John Robert Eppier Wines. With certainty your first visit clearly will not be your last given the genuine friendliness of the staff and the environs.   1120 W. 15th Avenue, Escondido, CA 92025  [email protected]   forgottenbarrel.com   (858) 620-8466 (VINO) E.Noelle Merrihew Photography

BUILDING DEEPER CONNECTIONS 5CMREINADTESEBT AHALACNKSCTOE T Photography by Gerry Rosario PhQoutoagnrNapghuyyebny here do exist innovative ways to build deeper connections with your partner or to garner greater success in business by subconscious reprogramming and the use of mindset techniques to improve your wellbeing and that of your partner. It is imperative to release what no longer serves you and replace that newfound space with passionate beliefs and live a most fulfilling life with sustainable happiness. Crystal Privett’s proven techniques create a sacred space within you to attain congruence of the soul, unlocking the infinite power and potential within you to soar limitlessly in personal relationships and onto a successful career path. It takes a new perspective to create a new life. Let us begin the journey within ourselves and end it united in togetherness! Crystal offers VIP retreats, in person meetings, Zoom and phone calls, customized to meet your unique needs as an individual and as partners. 5 STEPS: 1. Begin each day with a positive goal statement 2. Identify our triggers and what they are trying to tell us on a subconscious level 3. Heal past trauma by integrating that energy with compassion 4. Cultivate a supportive self-narrative and embrace love daily 5. Be bold enough to unapologetically love yourself CRYSTAL LYNN PRIVETT Mindset Service 858-335-7677 | mindsetservice.com

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