Legatus Magazine October 2021

OCTOBER 2021 RESPECT LIFE ISSUE GENDER AND ALZHEIMER’S CARE BUSINESS THROUGH CATHOLIC LENS T. FARNAN: SPECIAL-NEEDS LEGATE FAMILY’S KIDS AND INCLUSION JOURNEY WITH N. MERING: WHEN FATHERS ARE UNDERMINED DOWN SYNDROME P. JONNA: ON CHEMICAL PRAYER FOR ABORTION FR. BOQUET: OVERCOMING THE BUSY EXEC CALLOUSNESS

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10•21 INSIDE VOL 34 • NO 10 16 CATHOLIC EDGE IN ALZHEIMER’S CARE MAKES A DIFFERENCE by Trent Beattie Implementing the full core of faithful bioethics 10 20 24 C H R OMOESXOTMR AE EANNGDAGFIENMGAMLEALINE SPAWNS EXTRA JOY P R AMY EERNFTOARL ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/GEBER86 THE WORKPLACE THE BUSY EXEC by Roxanne King by Gerald Korson by Jim Graves Legate family’s walk with Down Execs face unprecedented 4 priests reveal prayer styles that challenges in gender issues today 5syndrome powered by faith optimize mentality and attention October 2021 | | legatus.org

MORE COVER 08PRESIDENT’S DESK 39 PHOTO ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/MONCHERIE Stephen M. Henley: “You shall not fear ... “ 39FEEDING THE FOODIE istockphoto.com/ Chef Fusco: Pumpkin Bowl Soup FamVeld 09EDITOR’S DESK 48FIVE MINUTES Anna Carter – 2022 Summit East speaker PAGE Christine V. Owsik: His will is for life 50 MEET THE CHAPLAIN PHOTO Fr. Will Schmid – Phoenix Chapter 26ETHICS MATTERS Chef Neil Fusco shares his warm, P. Jonna: Chemical abortion endangers mother creamy Pumpkin Bowl Soup, made 28CULTURE OF LIFE with a twist T. Farnan: Including special-needs kids of Tuscan 30GUEST VOICE pumpkin sauce N. Mering: When fathers are undermined 32 FAITH MATTERS Fr. Boquet: Overcoming callousness 34ENGAGING THE FAITH B. McGinley: Openness to life and God 37WHAT TO SEE Show Me the Father 38 HEALTH MATTERS Dr. Burke: When patients feel like hostages BOARD OF GOVERNORS Berni Neal Randall W. Hammond Diana Parent President Thomas S. Monaghan Orange County Denver Fort Wayne Stephen M. Henley Ann Arbor Secretary Advent Capital Parke Group International Chaplain Legatus Troy L. King S. Craig Henry James P. Sarni Bishop Frank Caggiano Founder, Chairman & CEO Orlando Lafayette-Acadiana Pasadena Bishop of Diocese of Bridgeport Dentistry for Children Bradford Food Group Payden & Rygel Ecclesiastical Advisor Christopher S. McMahon Treasurer Jerry R. Jones Mark R. Scalise Archbishop José H. Gomez Pittsburgh Sean J. Bellew Indianapolis Jupiter-Palm Beach Archbishop of Los Angeles MFA Wealth, LLC Philadelphia Cannon IV Scalise Industries Corporation President, United States Conference Vice Chairman Bellew, LLC of Catholic Bishops LEGATUS MISSION STATEMENT: Editor Christine Valentine-Owsik Comments, queries and address changes: Legatus magazine is published 12 times per To study, live, and spread the Design  Shawna Kunz, Lime Design Legatus Magazine year by Legatus, a membership organization Catholic faith in our business, Editorial Consultant  Gerald Korson PO Box 444 of Catholic presidents and CEOs. professional, and personal lives. Contributing Writer  Judy Roberts Ann Arbor, MI 48106-0444 © 2021 Legatus Contributing Writer  Jim Graves [email protected] All rights reserved Contributing Writer Patti Armstrong Phone: 866-534-2887 Contributing Writer Trent Beattie Copy Editor  Nancy Carabio Belanger To advertise, contact: [email protected] Advertising Sales Representative Joe Giacalone

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PRESIDENT’S STEPHEN M. HENLEY ST. TERESA DESK OF AVILA “You shall not fear … for it is (1515-1582) the Lord who fights for you” FEAST DAY: OCTOBER 15 GREETINGS! IN MID-SEPTEMBER, The middle finger, which is the tallest, represents CANONIZED: MARCH 12, 1622 230 members, clergy, discovery and reminds us to always go higher. PATRON OF SPAIN, THE SICK, speakers, and staff gathered The ring finger, which piano players know is in Scottsdale, AZ for our the weakest finger, is for intentional growth; RELIGIOUS, LACE MAKERS Summit West at the Phoenician we must target virtues to intentionally grow. Resort. This Summit, despite The smallest finger, fellowship, shows us that Founder of the Discalced having half the numbers alone we are very small, but together we are Carmelites, Teresa was born in of a usual summit due to great. A rope of three strands is stronger. Fr. Avila, Spain. A pious child, she COVID implications, was Bartunek reminded us that this is where Legatus built her own ‘hermitage’ in just as impactful. Its theme is exemplary: we give the environment for her back yard where she would permeated through all fellowship, understanding that we are meant to pretend to be a nun. She was speakers: FEARLESS. journey together. devoted to the Blessed Mother, and was just 13 when her own mother died. Teresa then asked Mary to be her mother. As a teen, Teresa’s fervor cooled, but was renewed after reading In November, there will be In his closing prayer, Fr. Chas Canoy, chaplain the lives of the a full recap on the Summit of the Ann Arbor Chapter, gave us multiple saints – and and speakers. I want to take a scriptures through which we are reminded of our she resolved moment to highlight the theme call to be FEARLESS leaders. He first recalled to become and the recap given at the end Ralph Martin’s words from the day prior, in one herself. of the Summit. which Ralph encouraged us to be rooted in the COMMUNION OF Upon entering Fr. John Bartunek wrapped scriptures, as that is the word of God Himself. SAINTS a Carmelite up our final evening. He assured each member that God • Deuteronomy 3:22 “You shall not fear them for it convent, she had granted specific graces is the Lord God who fights for you.” found their discipline lax. throughout our time together. • Psalm 27:1 “The Lord is my light and my She believed the nuns spent Father gave us five categories salvation, whom shall I fear?” too much time entertaining to identify and accept the grace • Psalm 34:4 “I sought the Lord and he answered visitors, rather than in we received in the Summit, me, and delivered me from all my fears. Look to devotion to prayer, penance, and to make commitment in Him and be radiant, so your faces shall never be and good works. Despite those areas. These five basic ashamed.” certain resistance, she began disciplines of Christian living • Isaiah 35:4 “Say to those who have an anxious reforming the Carmelite order, are: heart, ‘Be strong, fear not! Behold, your God will and expanded it with many come with vengeance and he will save you.’” new convents. 1. Prayer life, which • Matthew 14:27 “Take courage, it is I, do not includes the sacraments be afraid.” In her youth, Teresa sometimes • 1 John 4:18 “Perfect love casts out all fear.” found it difficult to pray amid 2. Mission distractions, but over time she 3. Discovery, learning more developed techniques that I pray we all respond to the call of heroic holiness fortified her prayer life. She about our faith and fearlessly share the message of salvation. wrote extensively on prayer 4. Intentional growth in and spirituality; she was also We are called to bring our faith out into the a mystic blessed with visions Christ-like virtue world. Our Summit, through the inspirational of Jesus, who taught her much 5. Fellowship words of the speakers, shaped this call further. about the Faith. She was An easy way to remember these We must be fearless in our mission to study, live, named a Doctor of the Church five commitments is to use and spread the faith in every possible arena of in 1970 for her teachings and the five fingers on your hand, our lives.  L writings on prayer. Among starting with your thumb. Teresa’s spiritual masterpieces The thumb, prayer, is closest STEPHEN M. HENLEY are The Way of Perfection and to our heart. The index finger, is Legatus’ President. The Interior Castle. L mission, pointing us forward. — Jim Graves 8October 2021 | | legatus.org

MARK YOUR EDITOR’S CHRISTINE VALENTINE-OWSIK CALENDARS DESK MEN’S ENCLAVE His will is for life OCTOBER 13-16, 2021 AS LIFE GOES ON, MOST OF US it, and if we try to override His will – we’re never THE JL BAR RANCH come to the realization that not at peace. Life is for preserving and propagating SONORA, TEXAS only are we not in control like His Kingdom, on earth and eternally. But it we thought we’d be – but that often comes at unexpected cost to expectations, SOLD OUTWOMEN’S ENCLAVE God has cast a few wild cards ambitions, and personal control. OCTOBER 24-27, 2021 and new throws of the dice we BISHOP’S LODGE didn’t anticipate. More often When we were expecting our second son almost SANTA FE, NM than is comfortable, we’re faced 30 years ago, the doctors came in during an with having to make a new ultrasound and told us they saw ‘problems’ in 2022 SUMMIT EAST (and perhaps hard-to-decipher) the pictures. There were spots on a few of his re-routing. Change, sacrifice, organs, and they suspected he’d be born with JANUARY 27-29, 2022 and bottoming out test our faith certain organ failure. We were told to get an RITZ-CARLTON AMELIA ISLAND and trust in God. amniocentesis right away. I would spend the remainder of the pregnancy gripped with worry. AMELIA ISLAND, FL I’ve always been a planner, Our preborn son sensed it, and stopped moving organizer, and initiator. The for the final four months. MEXICO PILGRIMAGE circuitous road into middle age Out in the JUNE 10-13, 2022 continues to present “… we’re each accountable medical parking MEXICO CITY, MEXICO some chin-jarring for how we live, what we lot, my husband speed bumps and said, “We’re not OBERAMMERGAU sinkholes – showing decide, and whether we getting that test. PILGRIMAGE that what we’ve first seek God’s will. Why should we AUGUST 22-30, 2022 had our heart set – so they can tell BAVARIA & AUSTRIA on is not always in us to abort him? our best interest, We’re his parents 2022 SUMMIT WEST detours often work and we’re better than the well-known keeping him, no matter what.” My husband is the SEPTEMBER 1-3, 2022 route, snap decisions based on youngest of 11 children, and has always valued his COLORADO SPRINGS, CO surging personal emotions are parents’ generosity. “Heck, what chance is there, ill-advised, and reacting isn’t typically, that I’d even be here?” he often says. 2023 SUMMIT EAST the same as prayerfully acting. I just got a phone call from that same son, FEBRUARY 9-11, 2023 Call it a genetic predisposition who was born with no problems and today is ORLANDO, FL in Italians, but we don’t do a professional trumpeter. His superiors just FOR MORE INFORMATION: [email protected] OR CALL 866-534-2887 so well in these situations. presented him with a choice – that if he persists They go against the I’ve- in abiding by his conscience, he’ll likely be got-this mindset. It’s easy to sidelined from his coveted position. But he chose blame family makeup and what he sees as God’s will over his own. the examples of relatives. But we’re each accountable for how As St. Ignatius of Loyola said in his Spiritual we live, what we decide, and Exercises, the most important thing in this life is whether we first seek God’s will. we’ve been created specifically to give glory to God, and to save our souls. Every choice we make I’ve learned this much: God must keep to that priority. L wants life – ours and that of others – to thrive at all ages in CHRISTINE VALENTINE-OWSIK all times. He’s chosen us to be is Legatus magazine’s editor. the stewards and advocates of 9October 2021 | | legatus.org

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In the Workplace by Gerald Korson Catholic business executives face special challenges when dealing with issues of gender discrimination in employment 11October 2021 | | legatus.org

ou’ve come a long way, baby” was a 1960s the most qualified advertising tagline (for Virginia Slims candidate,” said Sheila Witous, a Legate of the “Ycigarettes) that was quickly appropriated by South Bend-Elkhart the feminist movement to celebrate the (IN) Chapter and chief progress taking place in women’s rights and administrative officer for opportunities in society and in the workplace. Radiology, Inc. “From a Although that advancement has indeed been justice standpoint, I need significant, most advocates say there is still more to thoroughly review progress still to be made. Sheila Witous the qualifications I am Even as employers continue to make strides in using to measure the affirming women’s roles in the business and candidates and be certain they are free from corporate world, members of the “transgender” bias.” community have sought and won legal protections against bias in employment based Not only do companies want to hire the best on their self-identity. person for the job, they also want to avoid potential litigation over hiring or promotion Such changes bring pressure on businesses not decisions. Witous said her firm has not only to achieve equal opportunity between men experienced such issues. “Employers can protect and women, but also to avoid legal issues in themselves by well-defined job descriptions, hiring practices and company policy. consistent interview questions, documenting discussions, and by working to eliminate bias in PROGrESS, BUt SlOW the hiring process,” she explained. “We’ve been in the workforce outside the Pope Francis has often addressed the need home for decades now,” said Helen Alvare, law for more women to assume greater leadership professor at George Mason University, during roles within the Church. “We must promote the a Vatican-sponsored workshop on “Women integration of women in the places in which and Work” a few years ago. “Why hasn’t almost important decisions are taken,” he said in an anything changed?” Angelus address in October 2020, echoing his Many things have changed, but perhaps not prayer intention for that month. fast or far enough. More women are working now, and not just in service or factory jobs but As if to underscore his meaning, he made increasingly in managerial and executive history last February by appointing a French positions. Yet concerns remain over issues Xavières nun, Sister Nathalie Becquart, as such as hiring discrimination, pay inequities, an undersecretary for the Vatican’s Synod of accommodations, and benefits for working bishops, making her the first woman to have a mothers, opportunities for advancement, and vote in the synod. sexual harassment. DUe ReSPeCt In the matter of hiring discrimination, the Sexual harassment, Witous said, “is likely the proverbial “glass ceiling” is still said to keep biggest issue in the workplace.” some women from rising into higher-level In today’s #metoo culture of heightened corporate roles. When this is due to gender bias awareness, some men — both in and outside rather than qualifications, it is rightly regarded the workplace — are having to re-learn how to as a matter of injustice. Often such bias is rooted relate to and regard women in more gentlemanly in stereotypes, says a Houston Chronicle report: terms. women as weaker, more emotional, less suited The Chronicle report defined sexual harassment for the professional world, and men as more as including “a hostile work environment where driven, aggressive, and better suited for “mental the woman must endure sexual comments, pursuits and workplace success.” touching, or materials, as well as unwanted At the same time, as with other sexual advances that put her in fear of losing underrepresented groups, there is often a subtle- her job if she does not comply.” This is another to-moderate pressure on companies to hire or area where managers and executives can promote women for the sake of correcting a find themselves held liable should they fail to historic imbalance in the workplace, particularly handle a sexual harassment report swiftly and in positions of responsibility and influence. effectively. How should companies balance the “good” of “It starts with having the right culture in the women’s advancement with the “good” of simply workplace, and leadership needs to set the right hiring the best-credentialed individual? tone,” Witous explained. “Then, there must “I have an obligation to my employer to hire be clearly defined policies, and the policies 12October 2021 | | legatus.org

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‘‘… leadership needs to set the right tone … there must be clearly defined policies, … consistently … applied in all instances ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/AFRICAIMAGES must consistently be applied in all instances. In its 2020 ruling in Bostock v. Clayton County, defined. The so-called “Equality Employee education in this regard should also the U.S. Supreme Court extended Title VII of the Act,” passed by the U.S. House be ongoing.” Civil Rights Act of 1964 to prohibit employment in February and now awaiting discrimination and harassment on the basis of Senate approval, aims to make When a sexual harassment allegation is raised, gender identity and sexual orientation. Some states federal law of these sweeping “the employer must take it seriously and should already had such laws on the books but differ changes with implications that investigate the matter objectively,” she added. in the details or in how terms like “gender” are go far beyond the workplace. “Employees need to feel safe at work, and they need to know their employer will handle matters fairly.” GeNDeR DYSPHOrIA CHAlleNGeS Another gender issue in the workplace today involves persons with gender dysphoria, commonly called “transgender” persons — biological males who “identify” as female, biological females who “identify” as males, and other persons who might consider themselves in terms such as “nonbinary.” Depending in part upon how such individuals express their chosen “gender identity,” there exists the potential for distraction in the workplace — as well as for harassment and unjust discrimination in employment opportunity. A 2019 document by the Vatican’s Congregation ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/SKYNESHER for Catholic Education, Male and Female He Created Them, spoke critically of “gender ideology” as “opposed to faith and right reason” and affirmed that a person’s male or female identity is an objective rather than subjective matter. It also reiterated that every person must be treated with respect, and without any form of “unjust discrimination.” 14October 2021 | | legatus.org

Mary Hasson, the Kate employees to use particular Exceptions and O’Beirne Fellow at the pronouns that conflict non-exceptions Ethics and Public Policy with reality,” such as using Center in Washington, female pronouns to refer to a In June 2020, in a 6-3 vote, the U.S. addressed in a biological male, nor “to do or Supreme Court handed down a recent interview how say something that violates decision ruling that Title VII of the Catholics can stand up your conscience or religious Civil Rights Act of 1964 protects for truth and remain convictions.” gay and transgender employees compassionate toward from workplace discrimination. those with gender Mary Hasson Witous said that though she Writing for the majority, Justice Neil Gorsuch said plainly that dysphoria in society has not had to deal with such “an employer who fires an and in the workplace. matters, she believes a company’s culture individual merely for being gay helps define how it plays out. or transgender defies the law.” “The right thing to do is to Just a few weeks later in early July treat the person with kindness “We should have a culture in place that treats 2020, in a 7-2 ruling, the same and dignity and respect their all employees with respect and dignity,” she court ruled that laws barring privacy. But it’s also important said. “There are many areas where I may not discrimination on the job do to have limits — to draw your agree with my employees regarding personal not apply to most lay teachers at own boundary lines, including matters, but my role is to model behavior religious elementary schools. The insisting upon respect for that is consistent with my faith, and to love decision extends the “ministerial our conscience and religious all people, regardless of whether I agree or exception” established by freedom rights and free speech disagree with them on certain issues.” earlier Supreme Court rulings rights,” Hasson told The Catholic that protects defined religious Herald, newspaper of the And with all issues of gender and institutions from employment- Arlington (VA) diocese. discrimination in employment, all should go discrimination claims by those smoothly as long as a firm focuses on hiring who carry out the religious The “trans-identifying person” the most qualified candidates available, mission of the organization. may believe that he or she Witous added: “The individual’s work should In many religious institutions, can self-define a gender identity at variance speak for itself, thereby mitigating one of the this “ministerial exception” is with their biological sex and to compel others biggest workplace distractions: poor work supported by “morals clauses” to validate it, but both would be false, she performance.”  L and similar documents in which explained. And while it’s reasonable to call a employees must agree to support co-worker by his or her chosen new name — GERALD KORSON, editorial consultant for the organization’s mission and to observe particular norms of which an adult has the right to change — “it’s Legatus magazine, is based in Indiana. morals and ethics even in their off-duty conduct. not reasonable for a company to compel other One of the cases that informed the June ruling involved a Michigan funeral home director who, citing in part religious grounds, fired a biologically male employee who identified as transgender and wished to dress on the job as a woman. The high court did not address the merits of the case, but its decision forced the matter to be reconsidered in a lower court that later ruled in favor of the plaintiff. The “ministerial exception” applies narrowly to defined religious employers but does not protect employment decisions made by executives and managers within secular or for- profit companies who happen to hold particular religious beliefs. 15October 2021 | | legatus.org

Sharpening the Catholic edge in Alzheimer’s care Remembering who we truly are by trent beattie ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/JOVANMANDIC 16October 2021 | | legatus.org

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It is a saddening scene indeed. When visiting Grandma at the orderlies. They make beds, serve meals, clean up, and perform Archangel, Camillus, Joseph nursing home, she is spotted other tasks that do not require medical knowledge or even one Moscati, Gianna Molla, Teresa in the corner deep asleep in a presentation on how to serve dementia patients.” of Calcutta—and the patrons of chair. It is 11 in the morning— dementia patients specifically— not the usual time for a nap, but Cannot serve two masters such as Saints Dymphna, Albert when patients have exceeded Because focus on the bottom line can lead to the patience of caregivers, crossing lines of medical ethics, Dr. Fortanasce, the Great, and Louis Martin sedation is seen as a solution. who authored The Anti-Alzheimer’s Prescription (the father of Saint Therese in 2003 and The Healthy Brain Book (with Dr. of Lisieux) – are primed Dr. Vince William Sears) in 2020, wants to raise health care to help caregivers and Fortanasce standards by recalling the core of all bioethics: patients alike. has each patient is a person to be cared for, not a Include as many family witnessed thing to be managed or manipulated. and friends as possible this For followers of Christ, this is accentuated on the caregiving team. lamentable further by realizing that when the sick (and Research has shown that scene many others suffering) are being served, Christ is being people with eight or more times. The served, as described in Matthew 25:31-40. With that breathtaking regular social contacts per world- truth in mind, Dr. Fortanasce advises family of dementia patients week have significantly renowned to care for them at home for as long as possible. He said, “Patients better memories than those Dr. Vince Fortanasce usually do better in their own homes or in the home of a family- with less than eight. More caregiver or friend-caregiver. This is because they are seen and caregivers surrounding a California treated as human beings in need of compassionate care.” person with Alzheimer’s will neurologist has been featured Dr. Fortanasce has other top tips to guide caregivers of those also lessen the workload on on Saint Joseph Radio and afflicted with memory problems: each and enhance productivity EWTN to discuss medical Be patient with the patient. Dementia has been called a second and longevity. ethics. He has also been on childhood, since cognitive functioning declines tremendously, While in-person contact is 60 Minutes and has debated sometimes to the point of a person becoming like a baby. On ideal, Dr. Fortanasce believes Jack Kevorkian, known as that declining road, patients often need to be told and shown timeliness of communication is “Doctor Death,” over the value repeatedly how to perform what are easy tasks for other people. the key. The give-and-take that of human life, especially in its Getting acquainted with the patron saints of physicians and constitutes a relationship can later stages. caregivers can be immensely helpful. Saints Luke, Gabriel the also take place effectively over the phone. Dr. Fortanasce even Dr. Fortanasce said, believes that saints and souls in “Unfortunately, nursing homes purgatory can count as contacts. are often staffed by workers who are not trained nurses, and not even trained caregivers. ‘‘They are, properly speaking, … care for them at home for as long as possible ‘‘ ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/GEBER86 18October 2021 | | legatus.org

ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/PEOPLE IMAGES Watch not just what is eaten, but the order in which it is eaten. For Seeing is beneficial, but blood sugar levels to be kept within a healthy range, fat, protein, and participating is even more Though the audible voices fiber should be eaten before complex or simple carbohydrates. This so. For example, regular of Saint Alphonsus Liguori, provides a steady supply of energy (without sudden spikes or valleys recitation of the rosary or even Saint Therese of Lisieux, or that come from improper carbohydrate consumption), helps cognitive the Liturgy of the Hours helps Saint Francis de Sales may functioning, and prevents plaques from forming on the brain. to maintain a familiar daily not descend from the sky at Alleviate Stress. Dementia patients can get easily agitated, so it framework and lessens the our behest, their thoughts and is important to avoid situations that increase stress or serve as effects of dementia. perspectives can be found in a means for impulsive behavior. Weapons (including what can their renowned books, such 12 be turned into one) should be kept away from dementia patients In Remembrance Steps to Holiness and Salvation, at the onset, because that is when they are more likely to harm of Him Story of a Soul, and Introduction themselves or others out of frustration. While the bioethical to the Devout Life. Things that encourage peace of mind should be provided. This components to dementia care Keep the patient physically and can include serene, sacred music, such as is heard on the album do not differ based on what mentally active. “Use it or lose Requiem (which means “rest” in Latin) from the Priestly Fraternity religion a patient adheres to, it” is an axiom that has been of Saint Peter; Inclina Domine from Cantores in Ecclesia; and The there does seem to be a Catholic borne out in medical research. If Chants of Angels, The Chants of Mary, and Giovanni Luigi da Palestrina advantage when it comes to bodies and minds are not used from Gloriae Dei Cantores. memory care. The sacramental for their intended purposes, Quite possibly, the ultimate stress reliever is to be unburdened of and communal nature of they will become less and sin. For a patient at the onset of dementia, it can mean going to Catholicism is conducive to less capable of fulfilling those Confession for what might be the final time. There will be a point at human flourishing. purposes. It is also noteworthy which he is incapable of understanding right from wrong, or from that a healthy body makes for a recalling whether he has done anything that needs to be confessed. Tips for a memory care healthy mind, and vice versa. A caregiver might need to inform the priest beforehand that this team can be, with certain Dr. Fortanasce, who was an penitent may require extensive listening, the asking of clarifying adjustments, very helpful when alternate to the 1964 U.S. questions, and possibly the guiding of the whole confession with a young and healthy people Olympic weightlifting team, Q and A session that runs through the Ten Commandments. apply them to themselves. has even found that “building Use sacramentals as reminders and tools. A vital aspect of any “There is a genetic component brawn builds the brain.” community is a shared memory. The Church shares the memory of to dementia, but reducing Lifting weights increases its Founder so well that He is made substantially present among her stress, eating well, exercising brain capacity, which, in turn, members. Since this presence cannot be seen with the eyes, there regularly, maintaining social prolongs memory. Obviously, are countless visual reminders which satisfy the senses. contacts, and a healthy spiritual not everyone can start a Statues, stained-glass windows, rosaries, medals, icons, crucifixes, life all go a long way toward weightlifting program, but preventing memory problems there are isometric exercises, ‘‘and holy cards colorfully remind the faithful what they believe. where they do not already found in The Anti-Alzheimer’s … each exist,” said Dr. Fortanasce. L Prescription, that can be done by patient is nearly anyone. a person to TRENT BEATTIE be cared is a Legatus magazine contributing writer. for, not a thing to be managed or manipulated ‘‘ ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/MARYNA ANDRICHENKO 19October 2021 | | legatus.org

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extrachromosome= extraordinarily blessedjourney Faith ousts fear in family’s walk with Down syndrome by Roxanne King 21October 2021 | | legatus.org

when Denver Legates Michaelann and Curtis Martin, co-founders of the Fellowship of Catholic University Students, learned their newborn son Michael had Down syndrome, the diagnosis was unexpected. Medical staff quickly prepared them for the worst, describing possible disabilities and complications. “It was really emotional,” center out of the nonprofit The Martin Family. Michaelann Martin said. “They clinic Bella Health & Wellness, “That some 67 percent of put all that on you at the where she is a patient and prenatally diagnosed Down very beginning. It took serves on the board. syndrome babies in the United some peers and a lot of States are being aborted is prayer to put it back in God’s The Jerome Lejeune Medical tragic,” Chism said. “Anyone hands and trust Him with Center opened on March 21, who knows someone with Michael’s life and health. World Down Syndrome Day. Down syndrome knows they We went from there.” The Martins are among the make our world a better place. Down syndrome is a seven families with a total We need their beauty, truth, chromosome disorder. of 10 patients that comprise and good.” The lifelong condition is the pilot program. Currently associated with intellectual Michael Martin. limited to treating children Fatherof and developmental modern problems, and distinctive with Down syndrome, over genetics’ facial characteristics. When time the center will also treat adults. Eventually, it plans to offer Catholic the Martins learned that the lifelong multidisciplinary care. influence first medical center in the United States of the famed “We were drawn to Denver, we believe, by the Holy Spirit,” said In 1958, Jerome Lejeune Jerome Lejeune Foundation Keith Mason, executive director of the Jerome Lejeune Foundation discovered that an extra in France was opening in USA. “Bella has the same ethos of Lejeune in that we focus on the chromosome causes Down spring 2021 near Denver and dignity of the human person first.” syndrome. He then spent would be offering holistic his life searching for a cure, consultations for people Dede Chism, Bella CEO and co-founder, affirmed that the two providing care and advocating with Down syndrome, they entities share a goal of offering Christ-centered health care that for the medically vulnerable. were elated at the prospect of addresses the whole person—body, mind, and soul. She also Fervently opposed to prenatal accessing research-based care wanted to help the Lejeune Foundation in their work protecting diagnosis for the purpose of that aligns with their Catholic medically vulnerable populations. abortion, Lejeune famously beliefs. said: “Hate the disease, love the “Michael will be the first Renowned French geneticist and pediatrician, Jerome Lejeune (1926-1994), devout patient—that is the practice of patient,” Michaelann Martin Catholic who discovered the cause of Down syndrome and the 47th chromosome. medicine.” recalled blurting out in Considered “the father of response to the news. Michael, modern genetics,” Lejeune now 7, is the youngest of the served as a member of the Martin’s nine children. Vatican’s Pontifical Academy of Sciences starting in 1974 ACatholic and became the founding approach president of the Pontifical Academy for Life in 1994. He An admirer of Jerome died just weeks later of lung Lejeune, the French geneticist- cancer. Lejeune was declared pediatrician and devout Catholic who discovered the cause of Down syndrome, Martin was delighted that the Lejeune Foundation would partner with and operate the October 2021 | 22 | legatus.org

“Venerable” by the Vatican this the new center is also aiding their caregiving, Martin said. a family member with the year on Jan. 21, recognizing his condition is a tremendous gift heroic virtue and furthering his “It’s been amazing—the questions, insights, what they are looking and blessing. canonization cause. His work for to improve Michael’s quality of care that a regular doctor continues through the Lejeune might not check for … and that I might not even be aware to ask,” “The additional care they Foundation, which runs a she said. “When I took Michael in with multiple siblings for his need is a small price to pay world-class medical center “visit, Lejeune’s Doctor Herve Walti, who was Zooming in, was for the amount of joy and life in Paris—the Jerome Lejeune including the other children in they bring. Institute—specializing in Down the conversation to get a sense of It’s a unique syndrome. Michael as a person and what they … that some 67 percent and blessed Although Denver offers quality Down syndrome resources could do to help him with motor of prenatally diagnosed journey you’ve through secular entities, the skills and overall quality of life.” Down syndrome babies in been called to Jerome Lejeune Medical Center and chosen does the same from a Catholic Martin likened the experience, in for,” Mason worldview that upholds the which Bella’s Dr. Sarah Hodack was the United States are being said. “Jerome sanctity and dignity of human life from conception to natural conducting the in-person visit, to aborted is tragic Lejeune said death, organizers said. being part of a “master class” with that the genetic The new center also draws doctors whose work is “a mission of code is like a on decades of experience love.” sentence God and research in France to is speaking to us. People provide medical care tailored “We had the two doctors and their full attention,” Martin said. “By with Down syndrome aren’t exclusively for people with the time we left I had some homework and extra testing to do. It lacking anything, they have Down syndrome, who was very thorough.” something extra—God is trying typically have increased risk to communicate something of health problems and may The new center has also blessed the family with community. extra to us.” present signs and symptoms differently. Unfortunately, the “Finding community is huge and that’s what Lejeune has offered “Although it was scary in the average medical professional here,” Martin said. “Community for those families who are looking beginning, it’s been nothing is not trained to address their for faithful companions to walk this walk with unique challenges. but joy. God knew our family unique health needs, according It’s so great to know you’re not alone.” needed Michael,” Martin said. to the Lejeune Foundation. “The evil one wants us to be For parents who may fear the challenge of rearing a child with afraid. But when you trust Faithful Down syndrome, Martin and Chism advised seeking out the best God’s loving plan for your research medical care available. If that entity isn’t nearby, they added, be family, for your children, you andcare aware that it may be accessible via telemedicine or, if possible, by realize He’s got this.” L traveling. (The Martins travel out of state annually for health care “In Paris we have the largest for a young adult son with autism.) ROXANNE KING is a Legatus magazine biobank of DNA samples in the contributing writer from Denver. world of people with genetic Community disorders,” Mason said. “From support–and that biobank we fund and we trustinGod employ research projects all over the world. The data we They also recommend connecting with a gather from those projects is community (ideally faith-based)—in person or what we institute directly into via social media—for people who have family care for these patients.” members with Down Getting specialized medical syndrome. care that affirms the family’s moral values is a huge benefit “You may not need that the new center provides, community now,” Chism Martin said, noting that said, “but somebody else secular entities often promote may need you now. Bring sterilization and contraception the gifts you have, the for people with Down lessons you’ve learned, be syndrome, contrary to Catholic a part of sharing that.” teaching. The attention Michael and the family have received at Mason, who has seven Maria Mason. Keith Mason’s wife Jessica, children, including a with their daughter, Maria. 2-year-old daughter with Down syndrome, echoed Martin and Chism in asserting that having October 2021 | 23 | legatus.org

ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/CYANO66 Four priests on prayer for the Busy exec By Jim Graves “Lord, teach us to pray …” (Luke 11:1) St. Teresa of Avila, the The following are suggestions from four priests experienced in Father Broom also stressed 16th-century Spanish nun spiritual direction appropriate for the busy business professional the importance of keeping and Doctor of the Church, seeking to improve his interior life. the soul pure through the described mental prayer—as frequent reception of the distinct from vocal prayer, set Spiritual direction, time, reading Sacrament of Penance. The prayers spoken by the lips—as Ignatian spirituality he follows, “nothing else than an intimate Father Ed Broom, associate pastor at St. Peter Chanel Church in fact, recommends a daily friendship, a frequent heart-to- in Hawaiian Gardens, California in the examination of conscience, heart conversation with Him Archdiocese of Los Angeles and an Oblate thanking God for the good by whom we know ourselves of the Virgin Mary, recommended that He has inspired us to do and to be loved.” She added, “I am those desiring growth in their prayer apologizing for failings. certain of it that Our Lord will lives should first seek out an experienced When God speaks to us, eventually bring to the harbor spiritual director. Next, a set time for daily Father continued, He uses of salvation, he who gives prayer should be selected in a place which channels of which we may himself to prayer.” is quiet and suitable for recollection. He not be aware. These include Popes and saints throughout advised a “giving God your first fruits” Scripture, inspiration (an the centuries have stressed the philosophy, devoting one’s first hour in the interior invitation to do good, importance of daily mental Fr. Ed Broom morning to prayer and meditation. perhaps through the agency of prayer; Pope Pius XII, for an angel), conscience, and, as example, observed, “No other Selection of material “which will fill the mind with ideas on how to the Catechism notes, through means has the unique efficacy pray” is next, including the Bible, the liturgy, The Catechism of the persons, places, or things of meditation, and that as a Catholic Church, and spiritual classics such as the life of St. Teresa around us (e.g., successes or consequence its daily practice of Avila (La Vida), St. Francis de Sales’ Introduction to the Devout failures, trials and tribulations, can in no way be substituted Life or My Imitation of Christ. Once a program of prayer has begun, sickness, etc.). for.” perseverance is essential. Father noted, “St. Teresa of Avila calls this ‘a determined determination’ not to give up prayer.” October 2021 | 24 | legatus.org

He cautioned beginners not to to beginners in the spiritual life, he encourages the individual Catechism confuse success in prayer with to move beyond these techniques to seek a relationship with a direction – and feelings. Dryness in prayer Person, the real, living God. God speaks to and leads such a soul. knowing oBstacles can be due to tepidity, but it can But to perceive this prompting of the Holy Spirit, a person must also be a reminder “to seek the develop prayerful, reflective habits. Much of the progress in the Monsignor Stephen Doktorczyk, God of consolations and not the spiritual life, Fr. Moreland opined, comes in cultivating receptivity Vicar General of the Diocese of consolations of God.” A better to this Person who reveals Himself to us. Orange, California, especially measure of success is one’s The properly disposed soul “listens” to God by reading Sacred recommended Catholics improvement in the practice of Scripture, listening to sacred music, experiencing the beauty of “slowly and deliberately” read virtue and growth in holiness. nature and in relationships with others (a particularly rich source the Catechism’s instruction In his own prayer life, Fr. of experiencing God, the priest noted, is when we ask “how does on prayer, beginning with Broom has found that devotion the image and likeness of God shine through in this person?”). paragraph 2559. This way to the Blessed Mother has been Catholics “through study and tremendously helpful. He has Detachment, humility, and reflection practice, may become more and also discovered that as our more familiar and comfortable prayer lives improve, the fervor Norbertine Father Thomas Nelson of raising their minds and hearts with which we receive the St. Michael’s Abbey recommended: 1) to God.” sacraments increases, too. detachment from worldly goods, which fasting and other penances can help us The greatest attain, 2) humility, which he described as obstacle Relationship and “detachment from self,” and the recognizing to mental receptivity of our own emptiness and spiritual prayer, poverty apart from God, and 3) fraternal particularly Jesuit Father charity (“how can we love God and not our for the busy Gordon neighbor?”), which is demonstrated by such individual, Moreland Fr. Thomas Nelson practices as patience and kindness with Fr. Thomas others or assistance to the poor. stressed two concluded, is Msgr. Stephen Doktorczyk points when keeping up speaking Father advised one begin the process of mental prayer by the commitment to pray daily. of the spiritual reading, followed by reflection, and then leaving the He commented, “There are two spiritual life: reading material for direct communication with God. Two books difficulties in mental prayer and relationship, he recommended are Conversation with Christ by Peter Thomas one disaster. The difficulties Fr. Gordon Moreland and Rohrbach and Opening to God by Thomas Green. He also suggested are distractions and aridity. The that Catholics study the basics of their faith so they can know more receptivity. about God Whom they are addressing. disaster is infidelity.” L While a basic technique or methodology can be helpful JIM GRAVES is a Legatus magazine contributing writer. “[Give] God your first fruits … first hour in the morning ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/IMAGINEGOLF October 2021 | 25 | legatus.org

ETHICS PAUL JONNA MATTERS Chemical abortion endangers the mother, too IN THE UNITED STATES, NEARLY Side effects of the half of all abortions are now chemical abortion pill chemical abortions – abortions include an incomplete that occur through “medication abortion (and the abortion pills.” For years, the need for a subsequent abortion industry has been surgical abortion), aggressively pushing for heavy and prolonged expanded use of chemical bleeding, infection, abortion. But what are these fever, and digestive killer pills and how do they system discomfort, work? among many other ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/ALEXANDER NOVIKOV things. According to the Chemical abortion consists of FDA, from 2000 to 2018, two pills taken hours apart. a total of 4,195 adverse The first pill is mifepristone, events were reported also known as RU-486, which in relation to chemical is given to deprive the baby of abortion, including: key nutrients and essentially 24 deaths, 97 ectopic starve it to death. After that, pregnancies, 1,042 the woman is then given hospitalizations, 599 blood transfusions, and 412 Despite the dangerous nature of these life- misoprostol, which induces infections (including 69 severe infections). ending pills, on April 12, 2021, the FDA labor by causing contractions, temporarily lifted restrictions on the chemical thereby expelling the baby, In fact, out of the over 20,000 drugs on the abortion pill due to COVID-19. The deadly pills usually within 6-48 hours market today, only 57 are deemed sufficiently can now be dispensed by mail. These aggressive and oftentimes in the toilet. dangerous to require REMS (“Risk Evaluation efforts to decrease safety standards put women Up to 5-10 percent of the time, and Mitigation Strategies”). REMS help control at risk of infection, infertility, serious injury, and the drugs don’t work and the the use of medications that have the potential even death. mother either needs a surgical for severe side effects. REMS also provide abortion or a procedure for safeguards for women by requiring that a Even if someone supports abortion, it should come removing the dead infant and physician see the patient, provide informed as a shock that the FDA and powerful special- placenta. consent, explain signs of adverse reactions, and interest groups are pushing to loosen safety much more. Notably, protocols for these dangerous drugs, thereby In addition “Chemical abortion pills REMS for chemical putting politics above health. The public should to literally abortion pills are also demand that their elected representatives keep killing unborn cause complications used to help rule out the REMS in place for chemical abortion pills. babies, these four times as often as ectopic pregnancies In addition, the public should know that there pills are surgical abortion – a highly dangerous is an Abortion Pill Reversal (APR) process. APR also very condition that can make dangerous use of the chemical consists of progesterone treatments that, if done to the abortion pill fatal. The soon enough, have a 64-68 percent success rate mothers who REMS also screen for of stopping the abortion. To date, APR treatment take them. the mother’s blood has saved more than 2,000 babies, according to Chemical abortion pills cause type. About 15 percent of the female population Heartbeat International. L complications four times as has an Rh-negative blood type that requires often as surgical abortion, and a preventative shot before chemical abortion. PAUL M. JONNA is a partner with LiMandri one study showed that “the risk Women with that blood type who take chemical & Jonna LLP and special counsel to the Thomas of death appears to be 10 times abortion pills can build antibodies that attack greater with medical abortion future children when blood mixes. Women need More Society. His practice focuses on complex than with surgical abortion.” to be screened by a doctor to know whether this civil litigation, including high-profile constitutional is a risk for them. litigation and religious liberty cases. He is president of the San Diego Chapter of Legatus. He is married with six children. October 2021 | 26 | legatus.org

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CULTURE OF THERESA FARNAN LIFE Special-needs kids can climb ‘hill’ to full inclusion IT IS A HOT, HUMID AUGUST almost all children with special needs were However, in the wake of the COVID pandemic, as evening in Pittsburgh. As Annie enrolled in public schools. Nevertheless, the parents witnessed the determination of Catholic starts up a long hill on the cross- St. Anthony Program dared to reimagine the schools to remain open and realized that public country course, she glances initiative, launching a pilot effort to mainstream schools have embraced progressive ideologies up with a daunted look on her children with special needs into Catholic schools. in curricula and school culture, there is fresh face and begins to walk. At that Funded by generous Pittsburgh parishioners, it momentum for vouchers and school-choice moment, an eighth-grade girl at continues this mission at multiple elementary and initiatives. It is imperative that school-choice Ave Maria Academy passes her secondary school sites throughout the diocese and initiatives include unlocking public funds for and encourages her: “Come on, even at Duquesne University. students with disabilities Annie, you can do it!” Smiling, and that Catholic schools Annie begins running again As a family with children “[In] Catholic schools, seize this opportunity as her teammates — boys and who attended one of those to develop programs for girls ranging from third grade sites, we reaped benefits inclusion of children with children with disabilities. to eighth grade — offer words of from the St. Anthony disabilities inspires a support. Program long before Annie For the Catholic schools, Annie runs at a disadvantage was born. We found that the culture of kindness that inclusion of children with — she has low muscle tone and a history of respiratory issues, inclusion of children with makes the message of disabilities inspires a culture common challenges for children special needs creates an of kindness that makes with Down syndrome – but she atmosphere where typical the Gospel come alive the message of the Gospel keeps going, buoyed by a culture of unfailing support. children internalize the come alive and strengthens Annie attends Ave Maria message that children with Catholic identity. Initiatives Academy as part of her dual disabilities are valued and like the St. Anthony Program enrollment in the Diocese loved members of the school community. Typical are important not only so students learn to of Pittsburgh’s St. Anthony students learn patience, kindness, compassion befriend the vulnerable among them today, but Program. After the IDEA – and, from their classmates with special needs, also so that as adults they will reject what Pope act was signed into law in they receive unconditional acceptance and love. Francis calls the “throwaway culture” of abortion 1975, guaranteeing children for babies diagnosed prenatally with disabilities. with disabilities a “free and Catholic schools operate on a shoestring, struggling appropriate public education,” to stay open each year. Does the Church have the The course is brutal – a long, winding trail uphill bandwidth to assume the education of children with little shade and with scant opportunity to see with special needs? So far, the generosity of donors other runners if you fell behind. Nevertheless, Annie has made it possible in some dioceses, but for many perseveres, the last person on the course as the others it seems financially impossible. setting sun casts long shadows. As she nears the final stretch, her older brother, always there to encourage her, runs out to meet her and jogs along her side. Then from all directions, spontaneously, runners from all of the Catholic schools’ teams converge to run the final stretch with Annie. As Annie crosses the finish line with her friends, she throws her hands in the air to celebrate her race. Annie is always a winner, no matter where she finishes in the race, and on this night all the other runners are winners too. L ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/DMPHOTO THERESA FARNAN, PH.D., is a co-founder of the Person and Identity Project (personandidentity.com), and has taught philosophy at Franciscan University of Steubenville, Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary, and St Paul’s Seminary in Pittsburgh PA. She and her husband, Mike, are parents of 10 children, including her exceptional daughter, Annie. October 2021 | 28 | legatus.org

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GUEST NOELLE MERING VOICE Fathers undermined, families corrupted – from loss of regard for God PHILOSOPHER ED FESER In Christ we see recently wrote that modern that leadership in society is Oedipal, seeking to any capacity, for kill the father and defile the men or women, is mother. It is a tidy summation a calling to servant of the twin targets of the woke leadership, a rebuke movement: authority and of the old trope innocence. that all authority is oppressive. Authority has long been targeted by undermining trust The revolutionaries in fatherhood both human from Marx to and divine. In speaking with a Marcuse wrote strong, loving, and politically about the need to progressive grandmother depose the father ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/PIXDELUXE about her interactions with by undermining her grandchildren, she noted his moral authority with bemusement that no through sexual matter how much she and licentiousness. Grandpa might be similar in In so doing, the their grandparenting styles, great obstacle to Even the etymology of the word authority implies he seemed to command an revolution, the family, would be destabilized. that integral connection to the Author of all. In authority over the children They were correct. Most of our societal the attack on authority, it is He who is reimagined that she did not. Maybe pathologies can be traced back to either poor as our ultimate oppressor. In reality, in losing the it was his deeper voice or fathers or absent ones. Such a society is in want fear of God, we become oppressed by the fear of his commanding height, of manliness, not in excess of it. everything else. We fear losing human respect, she mused. But it seemed or means, or our health, or our lives. These are as inevitable as it was And here we see the intimate connection natural human fears, but they are subordinate unintentional. This was not between the corruption of authority and the to the prospect of losing our greatest good: something the children were corruption of innocence. A society without true communion with our Lord. taught, but something they masculinity will not value, much less protect, intuited, and it hints to a reality innocence. As a result, women grow calloused, Whether or not a day will come when we are of fathers as icons of authority. children rebellious, and abuse and corruption dramatically called to choose God over our become the norm. The livelihoods or even our lives, we can choose to Men are not #metoo phenomenon privilege Him every day in more hidden ways. Our called to embody “ intimate connection exposed the folly struggles to follow Him in the small details of life a type of fatherly between the corruption of the modern are the very elements that fortify our future and authority because notion that a society the future of those around us. Only through such they are better of authority and the without virtue can perseverance and fidelity to Him, our highest than women, corruption of innocence be restrained by good, can we hope to have the courage to restore but because they corporate sermons on true authority and innocence in the world around are designed to consent. Most acutely, us. We respect life because we reverence the One express that aspect this loss of authority who created it.  L of God’s love in a finds no defense for particular way. True authority the child in the womb. If the sexual revolution NOELLE MERING is a fellow at the is rooted in, and subordinate taught us that our bodies have no objective Washington D.C. based think tank the Ethics and to, something beyond itself meaning, then neither do our lives, nor the lives Public Policy Center. She is the author of Awake, Not — ultimately, God Himself. In of the most vulnerable among us, bear any such Woke: A Christian response to the Cult of Progressive this way, a person’s authority meaning. is both limited and ennobled. Ideology and the co-author of the Theology of Home book series. Noelle and her husband and six children reside in southern California. October 2021 | 30 | legatus.org

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FAITH FATHER SHENAN BOQUET MATTERS How to overcome a ‘spirit of callousness’ RECENTLY, A CRISIS PREGNANCY I contend that there are two center director expressed factors that have shaped our her concern over an attitude modern-day culture, giving she and her staff encounter rise to a “spirit of callousness”: among many of their clients. the denial of God, and a false The director, who has served understanding of human the unborn, mothers, and dignity. families for more than three decades, admitted that she According to Pope St. John Paul has counseled thousands II, “when the sense of God is of women and confronted lost, there is also a tendency many obstinate hearts and to lose the sense of man, of his minds, but, sadly, has noticed dignity and his life” (Evangelium a troublesome attitude. “We Vitae, 21). And “this reality is are experiencing greater characterized by the emergence ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/SDI PRODUCTIONS indifference, a ‘spirit of of a culture which denies callousness,’” she said, “that solidarity and, in many cases, [we] have never encountered takes the form of a veritable on such a scale.” Adding ‘culture of death’” (EV, 12). that “no matter what is said, they are unmoved, cold, and In other words, whenever a unemotional. I fear our society human person’s dignity is is growing even more numb to overlooked, devalued, or rejected, something not have to take any responsibility at all for the sacredness of human life, essential is ignored, and the consequences the child he has brought into the world.” She which is very worrisome.” of such an act to society and culture are far- added that “any country that accepts abortion reaching. This “spirit of callousness” is enabled is not teaching its people to love, but to use any How did our society become and emboldened by the progressive weakening violence to get what they want.” (National Prayer so indifferent, so callous to the in individual consciences, and in a society that Breakfast, 1994). sanctity of human life? has lost the sense of God and the incomparable worth of the human The moral weakening of our resistance to the Culture plays a person. Hence, we culture of death has made many insensitive, significant role in “… they are unmoved, do not value each blind to the crimes and violence we see in this process and cold, and unemotional. other as much, our culture, including abortion, euthanasia, influences how we we do not value embryonic stem cell research, human behave and how … society is growing our relationships trafficking, pornography, and the exploitation we think. It affects even more numb to as deeply, and and commercialization of unborn children. how we process thus have information, make the sacredness of gradually become Transforming a “spirit of callousness” and decisions, view life, human life unsympathetic restoring a culture of life, a society where God is express ourselves, toward our respected and human life is loved and served, will govern ourselves, neighbors, born and demand sacrifices, hardships, heroic witness, and relate to other unborn. heroic action. But, as Christians and as a people human beings, of life, ours is not to count the cost but to “fight the function in society, and even This truth is expressed in the reasoning of good fight” with the tenacity God gives us. L how we view God. Culture is St. Teresa of Calcutta as she considered the that which envelops us; it is the ramifications of a culture and its people that FATHER SHENAN J. BOQUET air we breathe. Yet, its influence reject God and His command to love: “By is the president of Human Life International is often obscure. abortion, the mother does not learn to love, but kills even her own child to solve her problems. (www.hli.org), and a priest of the Diocese And, by abortion, that father is told that he does of Houma-Thibodaux, LA. Please keep Human Life International in your continued prayers and support. October 2021 | 32 | legatus.org

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ENGAGING THE BRANDON McGINLEY FAITH Openness to life, openness to God … SEEING FAMILY SIZE AS ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/GORODENKOFF “The family is CATECHISM proportional to sanctity is the community gravely unjust to those with in which, from 101 medical or other hardships that place large families – or having But to experience the gift of married love childhood, one children at all – out of reach. while respecting the laws of conception is to can learn moral values, begin The outward faithfulness of acknowledge that one is not the master of the to honor God, and make good these families … lies not in sources of life but rather the minister of the use of freedom. biological fruitfulness but in design established by the Creator. … the fruitfulness of their labor Catechism of the (for one another and for good Catholic Church, #2207 works), of the service, and above all of their friendships. Ultimately, it lies in docility to God’s will for them, in whatever form that fruitfulness takes. In fact, this framing … Our openness to life, then, is judged not by SCRIPTURE Train the completely misses the point the number of lives but by the extent of our 101 young in the of the openness to life that is openness to God’s life – that is, His grace. Not way they written into our nature and using artificial contraception is the beginning of should go; the nature of marriage. It’s this openness, not its endpoint. … not about making babies with … The family serves its God-ordained purpose even when old, they will not maximal efficiency, like an as a school of grace, therefore, by a radical swerve from it. assembly line. It’s not about openness to grace – only one aspect of which, demonstrating a tenacious though a very important one, is openness to life. Proverbs 22:6 determination to rack up virtue Joyless procreation for the sake of competition points by bringing as many or performance or demographic duty isn’t going challenging children into your to be a credible witness to children, let alone to family as possible. And it’s the wider community, of the deep goodness of certainly not about mimicking Catholic marriage. … some model of the ideal The Catholic family cannot play its part in the traditional household. All of renewal of the Church if it is merely acting out God’s these shift the emphasis from law without allowing God’s life to imbue it. It’s about God to ourselves, elevating our being the place where the life of grace is learned, own notions of family – and our and specifically where the sacramental grace of the own willpower to achieve those parish is amplified, and its fruits manifested. L goals – over meek cooperation with His will. It’s this docility, not aggressive Excerpt from The Prodigal Church: Restoring Catholic Tradition in an countercultural signaling Age of Deception, by Brandon McGinley (Sophia Institute Press, 2020), or demonstrations of moral tenacity or even the pursuit of pp. 128-131. www.SophiaInstitute.com calloused fortitude, that is at the heart of the openness to life. BRANDON McGINLEY has been Pope St. Paul VI, amid some of writing about faith and politics since college. the strongest condemnations His career has spanned politics and publishing, of contraception in Humanae from pro-life advocacy to editing EWTN books. Vitae, put it this way: His articles have appeared in National Review, The Washington Post, First Things, the Catholic Herald, among many others. He lives in Pittsburgh with his wife and four children. October 2021 | 34 | legatus.org

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WHAT TO READ Parents of the Saints: The men and women including everyone.” The philosophy weaken its Hidden Heroes Behind Our Sts. Theodore Guerin, Dominic is a melding of JFK’s “ask foundation. Favorite Saints Savio, Gemma Galgani, and not” speech, the principle of In yet Patrick O’Hearn John Paul II — revealing subsidiarity, Mother Teresa’s another TAN Books, 400 pages that personal sanctity is a “find your own Calcutta,” of Peter prerequisite for Catholic and a secular extension Kreeft’s Former parenthood. of St. Paul’s “many parts, enjoyable Notre one body” rolled into one. and Dame head Believe In People: Bottom-Up Philanthropists and CEOs accessible football Solutions for a Top-Down World Charles Koch and Brian volumes of coach Lou Charles Koch with Brian Hooks Hooks have a plan that big- essays, he eschews innovative Holtz often St. Martin’s Press, 301 pages government and bootstraps solutions to our social and jokes of his advocates alike ought to cultural maladies in favor wife, “If People aren’t problems; they consider in seeking “bottom- of those old proposals that you think are the solution. That’s the up” fixes for what ails modern have worked in the past, the trying to be a saint is tough, fundamental idea behind society. tried-and-true — beginning try being married to one!” this book about empowering with common-sense morality These are stories of several ordinary people to fulfill the How to Destroy Western and family values. “The married couples whose Civilization and Other Ideas single most necessary thing saintly lives helped form “distinct and from the Cultural Abyss we can possibly do to save their children into some of profound Peter Kreeft our civilization… is to have our greatest saints. Readers role that Ignatius Press, 182 pages children,” he writes at the will meet not only Sts. Louis each person outset. It’s also the most and Zelie Martin, the parents can play The demise of Western heroic, he quickly adds. of St. Therese of Lisieux, but in making civilization might be greatly Simplistic? Read his entire also the pious mothers and the country exaggerated, but surely it book for an eye-opening fathers of dozens of other holy a better is beset with problems that experience.  L place for October 2021 | 36 | legatus.org

WHAT TO SEE Fatherhood should imbue heavenly Father’s care THE KENDRICK BROTHERS outright abandonment. Focus on the Family Show Me the Father have made a name for Their offspring suffer this president Jim Daly recalls Sherman Smith, Deland McCullough, themselves producing quality failure most: the film notes growing up with an Stephen Kendrick, Jim Daly, Tony Evans faith-based family dramas that 90 percent of homeless alcoholic and abusive such as Facing the Giants, and runaway children and father but later being 91 minutes • Not Rated Fireproof, Overcomer, and War 85 percent of children with introduced to God the Room. In Show Me the Father, behavioral disorders come Father by his own high reflect. Show Me the Father they depart from that format from fatherless homes. school football coach. urges men to take to heart their with a documentary about the Show Me the Father reveals Stephen Kendrick tells vocation to fatherhood, so that indispensable role of fathers the true stories of several of his father’s positive they can more closely reveal — biological fathers, adoptive men who had flawed human example and his personal the Father’s perfect love.  L fathers, father figures, and our fathers but found solace in experience in adopting Father in heaven. the Heavenly Father, and a toddler from China with GERALD KORSON God the Father, naturally, thereby became loving fathers serious medical issues. And is a Legatus magazine editorial consultant is the perfect model of or father figures themselves. Deland McCullough, a mentee fatherhood, one that men Sherman Smith, a former of Smith’s whose promising and staff writer. must seek to imitate in their NFL player who coached NFL career was cut short by relationships with their own at both the collegiate and injury, relates his search for children and those who professional levels, was a biological father he never look up to them. Yet many mentored by a father figure knew. men fail to embrace this and later assumed a similar By their flaws, earthly fathers vital mission, falling instead role with players in his charge, “crack the mirror,” obscuring into patterns of addiction, including Heisman winner the image of the Heavenly self-absorption, abuse, and and NFL star Eddie George. Father they are supposed to October 2021 | 37 | legatus.org

HEALTH DR. GREG BURKE MATTERS When patients feel like hostages WHEN THE MAYO CLINIC only confused, but you Proceedings published an also have an unsettling editorial titled “When Patients sense of vulnerability. and their Families Feel Like What are some Hostages to Healthcare” in practical ways to make August 2017, the title was not this transparent care only provocative but also true. occur? Those admitted to the hospital with serious illness are in a • Come to every vulnerable state and will often meeting with the care suppress their normal and team with questions reasonable wishes to “be liked” in writing and in by their caregivers and avoid descending order of ISTOCKPHOTO.COM/UISMMOLINA the “difficult-patient” label. importance. If unable After all, the medical team to communicate freely, holds the key to restoration of make sure someone health and life as it once was. you trust can speak for However, patients and families you. never lose the right to have • Ask that every their voices and preferences member of the team heard and have their dignity identifies themselves and their role in your care. father more than a pediatric hospitalization. The affirmed in every clinical • Establish who is the team leader—the “captain advice above is just as valid. A parent’s desire to interaction. of the ship” — often the attending physician. protect his or her child will no doubt drive every • Inquire to discover the areas of uncertainty in conversation. It is also critical to remember to To avoid the “hostage” scenario, your illness. involve the child in these discussions and never patients and families need • Share any suggestions on how to improve your forget that their questions will often represent to be empowered to express care — need for quiet, communication issues, their deepest fears. their concerns, ask all their hospitality concerns, etc. questions, and anticipate • Inform the team of any family concerns or Finally, make every effort to learn about your compassion without any fear of questions, and do not hesitate to include family illness or the illness of the one you love. Try to altering the members in the find reliable sources of medical information, and outcome of meeting. do not hesitate to ask your clinician to share their their illness. “Those … with serious illness • Share gratitude recommended internet sources. Venturing into Imagine for the things that the web without a guide can sometimes lead to you are are in a vulnerable state have gone well. misinformation and unnecessary fear regarding admitted to and … often suppress their medical and health matters. L the hospital Perhaps the with a case … reasonable wishes to “be most difficult GREG BURKE, M.D., internist, is the of severe liked” by … caregivers and experience is to be chief patient experience officer for the Geisinger pneumonia. the parent of an Health System, focusing efforts on the delivery What next? avoid … “difficult-patient” label ill child. Nothing of compassionate and quality medical care. He co-chairs the Catholic Medical Association’s ethics Of course, can emotionally you are not drain a mother or committee. Listen to engaging CMA doctors discuss important health  The Catholic Medical Association – comprised of over 2500 topics on Doctor, Doctor  each Saturday at 11 a.m. Eastern/ health care professionals from 109 local guilds – inspires 8 a.m. Pacific on the EWTN Radio Network or Sirius XM  Channel 130.  All episodes can also be accessed on your  physicians to imitate Jesus Christ by forming and supporting favorite podcast app. current and future physicians to live and promote the principles of the Catholic faith in the science and practice of medicine. October 2021 | 38 | legatus.org

FEEDING THE NEIL FUSCO FOODIE Living virtuously helps in making the toughest decisions AT SOME POINT IN TIME, WE For example, is abortion always wrong? Is getting It takes dedication and determination to develop have all heard the expression the COVID vaccine morally acceptable? Just to a faithful and persistent prayer life. Quoting the that an individual “has a clarify, the Catholic Church states that getting the Catechism of the Catholic Church, “In the formation conscience.” Morally speaking, COVID vaccine is morally licit. Each person and/ of conscience the word of God is the light for our what do we mean when we or family must make a prudential decision with path; we must assimilate it in faith and in prayer use the word conscience? More an informed precisely, what is the meaning conscience and and put into practice.” As the motto of the of a well-formed conscience, do what’s best “It is the living of a Benedictine rule states, “Ora et Labora” – and how does one cultivate pray and work! We must undertake a daily this? for themselves, sacrificial and virtuous serious effort in praying and working on We are living in a precarious their families, our moral virtues, especially the virtue of age in which, at one time and the life that defines our prudence. or another, Christians and people of all faith have had community at character. It is specifically the virtue of prudence that their consciences pricked. large. disposes a person in all circumstances We are always looking for the to form right judgements about what we right answer, especially when How does one must do or not do. If we are to train our the question is related to the cultivate a well- will and shape our character, we need a well- respect and dignity of every formed conscience so that he or she can tackle formed conscience. It is precisely the practice of human life! these ever-prevailing questions? The answer is the moral virtues that will leave an indelible sign quite simple: practice good habits, better known on our conscience and allow for an unwavering as virtues. We are speaking specifically about the of our just and right decision-making process. chief moral virtues: prudence, justice, fortitude, and temperance. These virtues are called moral It is the living of a sacrificial and virtuous life that virtues because by practicing them they dispose defines our character. A well-formed conscience us to lead moral and good lives, thus allowing helps us choose rightly and prepares us for those us to treat persons and things in a righteous moments in our lives when we must make those and just manner — that is, according to God’s arduous, conscience-pricking decisions. L will. Though it sounds very accomplishable, living a virtuous life does take a resolute will. CHEF NEIL FUSCO is founder of Cucina Antica Foods, Corp., Blessed Duns Scotus wrote extensively about a a specialty Italian food-products company. Raised on a farm in person’s “will” being the dominant factor. Living a virtuous life is a prerequisite if we are going San Marzano in southern Italy, he learned his family’s farm production to mimic the saints. Therefore, the practice of and cooking. His 2017 cookbook, May Love Be the Main Ingredient at Your moral virtues is indispensable to a well-lived life. Table, presents amusing and heartfelt stories about faith, family, and recipes from his Old World childhood. PUMPKIN BOWL SOUP • SERVES 2-4 Ingredients: Directions: five minutes over 2 to 4 small baking pumpkins Preheat the oven to 350 medium heat, stirring (sugar, peanut, Jack Be degrees. Slice off the top of frequently to prevent Little, New England are good the pumpkin, then scoop out clumping. options) the seeds and pulp. Bake 25 oz jar of Cucina Antica pumpkins until the outside Add red bell pepper, Tuscany Pumpkin sauce begins to soften and brown salt, and pepper, and ½ cup heavy cream (about 40 minutes). Remove cook for another three 1 large red bell pepper, from oven and set aside. minutes. Remove from chopped heat and ladle into Salt and pepper, to taste In a large saucepan, combine warm pumpkin bowls. Fresh chives, to garnish Tuscany Pumpkin sauce and Garnish with fresh Fresh parsley, to garnish heavy cream. Simmer for chives and parsley. October 2021 | 39 | legatus.org

NEWS BRIEFS BISHOPS CHARGE ‘DERELICTION’ “[A] Catholic may, after spiritual abuse, including abuse OF DUTY AS JUSTICE DEPT. DROPS consideration of relevant of conscience. Such abuse, the CONSCIENCE CASE information and moral principles, archbishop said, “is usually more WASHINGTON — Two leading discern it to be right or wrong to common than you might think,” bishops criticized the U.S. receive one of the available Covid-19 involving spiritual harassment, Department of Justice for vaccines,” Bishops Donald DeGrood manipulation of consciences, and “dereliction of its duty to enforce of Sioux Falls and Peter Muhich brainwashing. the plain meaning of federal law” of Rapid City said in an August This type of abuse, which usually by voluntarily dismissing a civil statement. occurs in spiritual direction or lawsuit against a hospital that They called the decision to accept within a community, is rooted in forced nurses to assist in elective or reject a vaccine “intimate and “clericalism” on the part of a person abortions against their religious personal.” in authority. beliefs. “It is hard to imagine a more horrific WEEKLY MASS BROADCAST civil rights violation than being BECOMES AUSTRALIA’S LONGEST- forced to take an innocent human RUNNING TELEVISION PROGRAM life,” said Cardinal Timothy M. SYDNEY — A weekly 30-minute Dolan of New York, chairman of Mass broadcast into people’s living the U.S. bishops’ Committee for rooms has become the longest- Religious Liberty, and Archbishop running program on Australian Joseph F. Naumann of Kansas City, television. Kansas, who chairs the Committee on Pro-Life Activities. VATICAN OFFICIAL: INVESTIGATION Celebrating its 50th year in early REVEALS SPIRITUAL ABUSE August, Mass for You at Home was They called upon the WITHIN RELIGIOUS LIFE originally aimed at those unable administration to reopen the case VATICAN CITY — Spanish to attend their local parish due to and urged Congress to pass the Archbishop José Rodríguez illness, infirmity, being homebound Conscience Protection Act “so that Carballo, secretary of the or in prison, but today has attracted doctors and nurses can defend their Congregation for Institutes of a new audience due to COVID-19, own rights in court.” Consecrated Life and Societies of and its small but loyal following is S.D. BISHOPS BACK COVID VACCINE Apostolic Life, said the Vatican flourishing since churches were EXEMPTIONS ON GROUNDS OF presently is investigating about a forced to close. RELIGIOUS BELIEF, CONSCIENCE dozen founders of congregations of SIOUX FALLS, SD — The bishops consecrated or religious life. of South Dakota have said that He said one of the most Catholics who, with “sure conviction common motives for opening an in conscience,” believe they should investigation is abuse of power or not receive a vaccine should be free to seek a religious exemption from The liturgy, filmed at Fairy any vaccine mandate. Meadow’s St. John Vianney Co-Cathedral in the Diocese of Wollongong, features state-of-the- art technology as well as signers for the deaf community.  L SOURCES: Catholic News Agency, Catholic News Service, CruxNow, CatholicVote October 2021 | 40 | legatus.org

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CHAPTER NEWS GENESIS. The Genesis Chapter members, seminarians, and priests at the July 28 meeting. GENESIS GENESIS. At the Chapter’s July 28 “Evening with the Seminarians,” shown are Father Phil Smith (l.); Monsignor Michael Billian, The Genesis Chapter met July 28 for Genesis chaplain (r.); with 12 seminarians. an “Evening with the Seminarians.” FORT WORTH. Military Captain Guy Gruters giving a well-received presentation on the “Importance of Being a Leader Who Loves Father Phil Smith, director of His People” at the Fort Worth Chapter’s August 12 event. vocations, Diocese of Toledo, was special guest along with 12 seminarians of the diocese. After dinner, Father Smith introduced each seminarian and gave a brief background on him, followed by an overview of the seminarian program. Two seminarians spoke about their individual experiences and how they heard the call of God in their lives. FORT WORTH On August 12, the Fort Worth Chapter spent a spiritually fulfilling evening with Captain Guy Gruters, who flew more than 400 combat missions in the Vietnam War and spent over five years as a POW in six different North Vietnamese prison camps. He endured torture and appalling living conditions. The recipient of over 30 combat medals, including two Silver Stars, two Purple Hearts, and two Bronze Stars for valor, he spoke on the “Importance of Being a Leader Who Loves His People.” He inspiringly related his wartime experiences in detail — and shared how faith, hope, teamwork, conversion, and forgiveness of his tormentors sustained him through his horrific years-long ordeal. PASADENA. (Left) At their September 8 meeting, the Pasadena Chapter officially installed Fr. Albert Bahhuth as Chapter chaplain. (Right) The September 8 event’s guest speaker, via Zoom, was Fr. Greg Goethals, president of Loyola High School in Los Angeles. October 2021 | 42 | legatus.org

CHAPTER NEWS VENTURA-LA NORTH. At the August 19 gathering at Westlake Yacht Club, (l. to r.) Ryan and Jamie Luithly, Brian and Susan VENTURA-LA NORTH Brown, Tom Ellis, Justin and Kelly Alvarez. The Ventura / LA North Chapter met August 19 at the Westlake Yacht Club, with 29 members and guests in attendance. All were welcomed by Chapter vice-president Tom Ellis, then led in praying the rosary by Tom Wallace, after which Fr. Jim Stehly offered Mass. A wonderful patio dinner was graced with a beautiful sunset over the lake. The evening concluded with a dynamic talk by Legatus member Brian Brown from Philadelphia —a great soldier for Christ, the family, marriage, and the sanctity of life from conception until natural death. He described the noble and vital work of the organization he heads, the International Organization of the Family, worldwide to promote and defend the Culture of Life. Mike Van Hecke closed the meeting leading members in praying the St. Michael the Archangel prayer. MIAMI. On July 20, the Miami Chapter celebrated its first Summer Social at the beautiful home of Roberto Alvarez Vela and Claudia Batlle Alvarez, Chapter treasurers. Member Raoul Cantero shared a moving testimony of his faith journey with the group. Everyone enjoyed more time socializing and deepening their friendships. MIAMI. On August 17, the Miami Chapter gathered at the Club of Knights. Rosary and Confession were followed by Mass celebrated by Miami chaplain, Fr. Richard Vigoa. The Chapter’s newest members, Arsenio and Elena Milian, were initiated. Following a cocktail reception, members listened to a powerful testimony from Ismael Hernandez on his conversion from communist to practicing Catholic. Pictured are: (l. to r.) Angel Gallinal, Chapter president; Elena and Arsenio Milian; Fr. Richard Vigoa, chaplain. October 2021 | 43 | legatus.org

CHAPTER NEWS DETROIT AND DETROIT NORTHEAST A very successful joint event of the Detroit and Detroit Northeast Chapters was held on August 19 with Fr. John Riccardo as guest speaker, on “The Mission of the Disciple.” Five priests concelebrated the evening’s Mass – Fr. Jeffrey Day (chaplain, Detroit Northeast), Fr. Pierre Konja, Fr. Craig Marion, Fr. John Riccardo, DETROIT AND DETROIT NORTHEAST. At the joint-chapter event and Fr. John Shi. L of the Detroit and Detroit Northeast Chapters on August 19, shown are (l. to r.): Bob Pliska, Fr. John Riccardo, and Dan Weingartz. JUPITER-PALM BEACH. At the Jupiter-Palm Beach Chapter’s August 19 event, Chapter president David Thompson welcomed new chaplain Fr. Frank D’Amato. The evening’s featured speaker was Ismael Hernandez, who spoke on “Socialism to Freedom, His Journey to America” – a very interesting talk for members. SOUTH BAY OF LOS ANGELES. The South Bay of Los Angeles Chapter was thrilled to gather together once JUPITER-PALM BEACH. Also at the Chapter’s August 19 event, Brian again at the beach on a beautiful midsummer evening to celebrate the Eucharist and share a delicious taco table. and Tiffany Rooney and Anita Menarde received their Summit pins. INDIANAPOLIS. The Indianapolis Chapter held its annual summer social on August 19, beginning with Mass celebrated by Monsignor Joseph Schaedel at St. Luke Catholic Church. Members then relaxed at The Willows Lodge in a casual atmosphere with island music on the water. October 2021 | 44 | legatus.org

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2022 SUMMIT EAST SPEAKER 5 MINUTES JIM GRAVES WITH All are invited to faithful witness in Christ ANNA CARTER, FOUNDER OF EDEN INVITATION, FEATURED AT 2022 SUMMIT EAST ON HELPING CATHOLICS WITH SAME-SEX ATTRACTION ANNA CARTER WILL BE A What led you to co-found Whom do you serve? presenter at the 2022 Legatus Eden Invitation? Summit East, Jan. 27-29 in Most of our membership is in the 20-to-40-year- Amelia Island, FL. She is I have been in ministry since I graduated college. old age range, about 50-50 men and women. co-founder and president of I saw my peers leaving the Church over issues Most are single, but we do have a few who are Eden Invitation, a support relating to sexual morality; when I taught high married or engaged. group for people experiencing school, I’d see students come to class wearing “same-sex desires” or “gender rainbow bracelets and asking questions You have 700 annual “story calls” a discordance” but who also regarding same-sex desires. There were year. What are these? accept the teachings of the social groups outside the Church that offered Catholic Church on These are people from all walks of life who faith and morals. participants fun social contact us to share their stories. It might be a Anna grew up in activities, so I wanted to missionary, a person with a master’s degree in a Catholic family offer an alternative for theology, a lawyer, or an accountant. It might be in the Twin Cities people who followed Christ someone who left his same-sex fiancé two weeks area where she and were obedient to the before or who is considering ‘transitioning.’ They was involved in her Church. reach out to us to talk. We receive their story parish youth group and get to know them. Some go on to join Eden and “developed At the same time, while in Invitation. a deep love of school, I began wrestling Christ” in high with my own same-sex What successes have you enjoyed? school. She earned desires, wondering what to a theology and do about them. It has not I believe our participants come to better catechetics degree been easy, but I do know I understand that they are loved by God and from the Franciscan University want to be in the Church. the Church. They discover that they have the of Steubenville and went on to opportunity for friendship and mutual prayer work for NET Ministries and as Why do you call yourselves Eden with us and can connect with one another. They a high school religion teacher. Invitation? see that they can stay active in the Church and Her own experience with same- still live lives of hope and joy. sex desires, tempered by her It’s a name inspired by Pope St. John Paul II’s resolve to live in accordance Theology of the Body. The idea is that to answer We can accompany our loved ones who with the teachings of the the complex sexual questions of our time, experience same-sex desires or gender Catholic Church, led her to we should do what Jesus did: go back to the discordance, engaging them in charity and truth. co-found Eden Invitation in beginning in the Garden of Eden, to the meaning 2017. The group has 250 active of what it means to be human. The Catholic A video of Anna’s story and those of other Eden members who enjoy community teachings on sex and gender flow from this Invitation members can be viewed on the group’s online, participate in book clubs, beginning. website, www.edeninvitation.com.  L and take part in an annual retreat in the Atlanta area. We’re offering you an invitation. We stand firmly for what we believe, and we’re inviting you to join us. You can either accept or reject that invitation. October 2021 | 48 | legatus.org

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MEET THE JIM GRAVES CHAPLAIN Out of tragedy, he discovered the Church and his vocation PHOENIX CHAPLAIN FR. WILL SCHMID SHARED HIS JOURNEY TO PRIESTHOOD WITH COLLEGE ROOMMATE FATHER WILL SCHMID IS important questions in life. I promised Him I’d What are the greatest rewards chaplain of Legatus’ Phoenix search for Him, but He had to help me out. I didn’t and the greatest challenges you’ve Chapter. He was ordained know what I was doing. experienced as a priest? a priest for the Diocese of Phoenix in 2009 Another Catholic friend The most rewarding is celebrating the and has since invited me to a Sunday night sacraments, providing people with God’s served as a high Mass followed by a youth mercy in the Sacrament of Reconciliation and school chaplain, group meeting. The first feeding people with His Body and Blood in police chaplain, meeting featured a talk on the the Sacrament of the Holy Eucharist. The most and professor last things: death, judgment, challenging is trying to serve all of God’s people at Benedictine heaven, and hell (and in this time when there is so much division in the University at Mesa, purgatory). I remember how Church and in America. AZ. Today, he beautiful it was, and how clear serves as pastor the message was. I wanted to How did you become a Legatus of San Francisco keep coming. After a year, I chaplain? de Asis Parish in realized I believed what the Flagstaff, AZ., the Catholic Church taught and One of my parishioners, Scott Fleckenstein, city’s only Catholic parish. that it was the Church established by our Lord, so volunteered to offer advice on how to handle I joined it in 2001. the business aspects of running the parish. You grew up attending a In college, I had a Catholic roommate, Matt He joined the parish council and was a great Lutheran church. What Lowry, who was a youth minister. We would resource to me. He was the Legatus Phoenix led you to convert to share our experiences together with prayer and Chapter president, and I could see what a Catholicism and into the our faith, and we both felt called to be priests. positive influence it had been on his life. seminary? We entered the seminary together and were both ordained to the priesthood. He serves today He invited me to give a talk to the group on My conversion begins with as chaplain of the Newman Center at Northern connecting faith and business. It went so well a tragic story. I had a high Arizona University and lives in residence in my that I was invited to give the same presentation school friend who, at age 17, parish. So, once again we’re roommates! to other chapters around the country. I was was struck and killed by a asked to become the Phoenix chaplain in 2020. drunk driver. She was a devout What advice would you offer a young Catholic, and I attended her man considering the seminary? We were in lockdown at the time, and I had to funeral at a Catholic church. do my first meetings via Zoom. In recent months I recall as a teenager sitting Keep your eyes on the Lord, and let Him guide we’ve returned to in-person events, and I’ve in front of the gold box—the you. If we let Him, He will do amazing things gotten to know the membership. It’s been a tabernacle—talking to the Lord. through us. wonderful experience getting to know people It was a wake-up moment; who love their Catholic faith, want the Lord to be I was not asking the most part of every aspect of their lives, and desire to bring a positive change to our culture. They are true disciples of Jesus. L October 2021 | 50 | legatus.org