5-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-danh-cho-tre

["8. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 9. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 10. T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O C\u1ea2M GI\u00c1C GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - N\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c- C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 11. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - N\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. TI\u00caU c\u1ef1c 12. T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O C\u1ea6M GI\u00c1C GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - \u0110\u1eadp ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed3 - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 13. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - \u0110\u1eadp ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 14. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Ch\u1eedi th\u1ec1 - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - \u0110\u1eadp ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed3 - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - D\u00f9ng tay ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng. 15. C\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y h\u1ea5n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Ngu\u1ed3n: Cu\u1ed1n \u201cHow to Really Love Your Angry Child\u201d, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Ross Campbell (Colorado Springs: Cook, 2003). B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m n\u1eb1m \u1edf n\u1ea5c th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc thang. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c. v \u00ec h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb n\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u1edf nguy\u00ean v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 sau. H\u00e3y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua t\u1eebng n\u1ea5c m\u1ed9t. N\u1ebfu mong mu\u1ed1n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y k\u1ebft th\u00fac s\u1edbm, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng b\u01b0\u1edbc sang n\u1ea5c k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan, nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ef1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u tr\u00ean Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb kinh nghi\u1ec7m ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y hay ho v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a David - con trai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, khi n\u00f3 13 tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f4i khi th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00f3i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 David th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ccm gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c n\u00f3 \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u tr\u00ean Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201cN\u00e0o Dav\u1ec9d, h\u00e3y \u0111\u00ea cho con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t ra","ngo\u00e0i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec khi \u0111\u1ed1, cha m&\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con \u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00f3i David. M\u1ed9t l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n David b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 khi th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1eef cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh th\u00ec con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd chi ph\u1ed1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf nhurng, khi b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 con gi\u1eadn ra ngo\u00e0i, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cB\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y\u201d. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u1edf v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 David n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 nhi\u1ec1u hon. Khi \u0111\u00f3, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 s\u1ebd \u00edt c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u, tham gia c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c... \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edch cho con b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u tr\u00ean Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con. Cho ph\u00e9p con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con n\u00e0y th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Vi\u1ec7c cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1eadn d\u1eef d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o, con tr\u1ebb ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn hon n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 bu\u1ed9c tr\u1ebb ng\u01b0ng ngay con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea7m ng\u1ea7m. V\u00ec v\u1eady n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n d\u1ea1y con ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho ph\u00e9p con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n con gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u00ecu d\u1eaft con b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eebng n\u1ea5c tr\u00ean Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch ra th\u00e0nh l\u00f2i ho\u1eb7c th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. Khi con b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00ea bi\u1ebft tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi sau: \u201cTh\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ed1 i nh\u1eefng m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra sao?\u201d. \u0110a s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn 90% th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con b\u1ea1n th\u00ec khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ed1t ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean xem \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra vui m\u1eebng khi con t\u00f4i th\u00ea hi\u1ec7n con gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i, c\u00f2n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bu\u1ed9c m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u00fap b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 sau. V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i, ho\u1eb7c khi ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n hay m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3? \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c v\u00f2i v\u0129nh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5n ch\u1ec9nh. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda tr\u1ebb ngay khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb quy t\u1eafc l\u00e0m cha","m\u1eb9 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ngay sau \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u00e3y ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi con tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u01a1n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecb n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i kh\u00e1c. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00fat s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft v\u00f3i con. Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1ea1\u1ef5 con H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb. v \u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y d\u1ea1y con khi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee3i qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y ra. Ngay khi m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh con v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ba \u0111i\u1ec1u sau. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a em theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. 1. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng la m\u1eafng ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ed1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n la r\u1ea7y tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con, d\u00f9 con \u0111ang vui, bu\u1ed3n hay gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. 2. Khen ng\u1ee3i con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \\\"Con \u0111\u00e3 cho cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con \u0111ang gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Con \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00fat con gi\u1eadn l\u00ean em con hay ch\u00fa c\u00fan nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh. Con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9m \u0111i \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c hay t\u1ef1 g\u00e2y th\u01b0ong t\u00edch cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 \u1ec9\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u00eau ra m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai l\u1ea7m. 3. Gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean t\u1eebng n\u1ea5c c\u1ee7a Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap con ti\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra cho con m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i v \u00f3 i m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i gi\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa nh\u00e9\u201d, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon trai \u00e0, t\u1eeb gi\u1edd tr\u1eed \u0111i, con \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i v&i m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i gi\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1 n\u1eefa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m n\u1eefa nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 khi \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. D\u1ea1y con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 d\u00ecu d\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf. Ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c n\u00eau g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1gi\u1eadn d\u1eef M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng","\u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u1ed1t hon \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. V\u00e0 khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00edn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i 17. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00f3i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c. v \u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn y\u00eau th\u01b0ong con trong khi l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ra g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00f2i \u201cy\u00eau th\u01b0ong\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Khi \u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c quan t\u00e2m. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3 i m\u00ecnh theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3\u201d. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fac gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1edfi ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m hay \u0111ang b\u1ecb hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea7m. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i con. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec l\u1ecdi \u00edch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m k\u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. X\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. Nhung ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eadt to l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau co- b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng II S\u1eed D\u1ee4NG NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU TRONG H\u00d4N NH\u00c2N a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111 \u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u00e3y y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh th\u00e0nh ra ch\u00fang\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p - c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i nhau t\u1eed t\u1ebf, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n - th\u00ec khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t. v \u00e0 c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n - v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m - s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d ri\u00eang, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Khi \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a ta tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y, ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y th\u1eadt t\u01b0oi \u0111\u1eb9p bi\u1ebft bao. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a ta tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5: \u201cV\u1ee3\/Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i\u201d v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadt u \u00e1m. \u0110a s\u1ed1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. \u0110\u00ea c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t hon, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau CO\u2019b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb em b\u1eb1ng ch\u01b0ong vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n hcm nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Khi v\u1ef1\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n th\u00edch t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. Hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 chung ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f3i nhau. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 cho v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cha b\u1ea1n khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n: \u201cCon trai \u00e0, h\u00e3y t\u1eb7ng hoa cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 con th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u00e9. H\u1ecd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng hoa\u201d. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 t\u1eb7ng hoa cho v\u1ee3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y trong khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng b\u00f3 hoa b\u1ea1n t\u1eb7ng nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y.","N\u1ebfu v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nhau th\u00ec \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t. Khi v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau m\u1eb7n n\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1eefa th\u00ec s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gia t\u0103ng. C\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t v\u00e0 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. \u201c\u0110angy\u00eau \u201d hay bi\u00eacy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c \u201cph\u1ea3i l\u00f2ng\u201d ai \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 su\u1ed1t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i t\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, theo th\u1eddi gian, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u201c\u0111ang y\u00eau\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u k\u1ebft th\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201c\u0111ang y\u00eau\u201d c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u201c\u0110ang y\u00eau\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00edt c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u1eb7t nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00ean tr\u00ean h\u1ebft v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u0103ng hoa. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft hy sinh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u201cr\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng\u201d c\u1ee7a th\u00f2i \u201c\u0111ang y\u00eau\u201d v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00f2n y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c vun \u0111\u1eafp cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau sau h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4 khan qu\u00e1 nh\u1ec9? Ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ea hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp th\u00f4i sao?\u201d. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn ng\u1eafm ph\u00e1o hoa. V\u1eady c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4i sao b\u0103ng hay nh\u1eefng qu\u1ea3 bong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e0u s\u1eafc th\u00ec sao? C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh, n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n n\u1ed3ng \u1ea5m hay s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u trong quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a? V\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n khi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t trong l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec sao? D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y g\u1eafn k\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u1ee9a \u0111\u00f4i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i mong mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ta. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Carla c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, c\u00f4 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ch\u1ecb g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: - Em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y anh Rick kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau em n\u1eefa. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang em th\u1eadt nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 em th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n. Em \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd em \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u1ee9 20 - sau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u00e1nh golf, b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1, c\u00e1c h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ea1o sinh, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, xe h\u01a1i v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Rick vui tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u em l\u00e0m","nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 anh \u1ea5y xem \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. Anh \u1ea5y c\u0169ng mua cho em nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 d\u1ec5 th\u01b0ong ho\u1eb7c g\u1eedi hoa t\u1eb7ng em v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 l\u1ec5 t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n, sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a em, k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m ng\u00e0y c\u01b0\u1edbi... Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng ngh\u0129a l\u00fd g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i em h\u1ebft. C\u00f4 n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp: - Anh Rick ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho em. Ch\u00fang em ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i choi c\u00f9ng nhau, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c chung v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng nhau. Ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 em \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, em y\u00eau c\u1ea7u Rick d\u00e0nh cho em th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb th\u00ec anh \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng em \u0111ang ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n anh \u1ea5y. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed Rick c\u00f2n b\u1ea3o em h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean. Anh \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng l\u1ebd ra em ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft on v\u00ec anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, kh\u00f4ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i em b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Nhung v\u00f3i em, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7. Em mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0ong y\u00eau em th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian ch\u0103m s\u00f3c em. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, Rick ch\u01b0a s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Carla. Trong khi anh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201cqu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng\u201d th\u00ec Carla l\u1ea1i khao kh\u00e1t c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cth\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb\u201d c\u1ee7a anh. Sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, Carla nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh. Nh\u01b0ng do ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee9 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Carla n\u00ean \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a anh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu Carla v\u00e0 Rick c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nhau v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang th\u00ec c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u1ed3ng \u1ea5m trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c dam m\u00ea c\u1ee7a giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201c\u0111ang y\u00eau\u201d n\u1eefa, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u - c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u00e2u l\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c khi c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f9ng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, c\u00f9ng nhau h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi t\u1eebng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u00e9. Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u1ef5\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng Mark t\u00e2m s\u1ef1: - T\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kinh doanh. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng t\u1ed1t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb v\u1ee3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. B\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ec7t nh\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o hay t\u00f4i ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u ra sao, v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. T\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u Jane mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1edf t\u00f4i n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u vui khi l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i. V\u00ec sao v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i hay ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady nh\u1ec9? R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a Mark l\u00e0: \u201cNg\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i. C\u00f3 ai","n\u1ed1i l&i y\u00eau th\u01b0ong v \u00f3 i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng Jane l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Mark. C\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a Mark c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f4 l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn: \u201cM\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang. M\u00ecnh ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u00e1c con c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, c\u00f4ng \u0103n vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ch\u0103m ch\u00fat b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111 \u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng tr\u00f4ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. V\u1eady anh M ark c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec hom n\u1eefa? \u0110a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 c\u0103n nh\u00e0 s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u1ea7m \u1ea5m b\u00ean v\u1ee3 con\u201d. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed Jane c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a Mark. C\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3a l\u00ean v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f4 ng\u1eebng ngay vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch anh. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Mark s\u1ebd th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng anh th\u00edch nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n ngon v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a anh. Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Mark l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a anh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea7y. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ef1\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i, c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i hay th\u01b0 t\u1eeb gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ecdt m\u01b0a r\u01a1i tr\u00ean khu v\u01b0\u1eddn \u0111ang kh\u00f4 c\u1ea1n. \u201cEm r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 anh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2 i c\u1ee7a anh trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi Robert.\u201d \u201cTh\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i. Em x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ecdt v\u00e0o b\u1ea3ng x\u1ebfp h\u1ea1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ebfp t\u00e0i ba nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebfgi&i!\u201d \u201cB\u00e3i c\u1ecf nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh tr\u00f4ng th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t. C\u1ea3m om anh \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 ch\u0103m ch\u00fat cho n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.\u201d \u201c\u1ed3, t\u1ed1i nay em m \u00f3i ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o l\u00e0m sao!\u201d \u201cL\u00e0u r\u1ed3i em kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nhumg em bi\u1ebft anh \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111 \u1ec3 ch\u1ea7m lo cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. Em r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m om anh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.\u201d \u201cEm y\u00eau anh bi\u1ebft bao. Anh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2 i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebfgian n\u00e0y!\u201d L\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft ra. Khi y\u00eau nhau, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m th\u01a1 t\u00ecnh t\u1eb7ng nhau. V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y sau khi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m th\u01a1 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 g\u1ea1ch d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i d\u00f2ng ng\u1eafn \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t l\u1ee3i \u00edch kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ef1 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n gi\u00fap cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, khen ng\u1ee3i. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i.","Th\u1eddigian chia, s\u1ebb Jim \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho t\u00f4i sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau: \u201cL\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong \u0111\u00f2i, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng Doris \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho nhau - h\u1ecfi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1ec9\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n k\u1ebft t\u1ed9i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u1ea5n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch lao \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00ean t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda v\u00e0 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u1eadt ng\u0103n n\u1eafp. T\u00f4i r\u1eeda xe h\u01a1i, d\u1ecdn s\u00e2n v\u01b0\u1eddn v\u00e0 c\u00f2n h\u00fat b\u1ee5i trong nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1i sao Doris l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho nhau. R\u1ed3i khi \u0111\u1ecdc xong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i cho Doris c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m l\u00e0 l\u00ean k\u1ebfho\u1ea1ch m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh ri\u00eang cho hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 c\u00f9ng nhau trong su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m li\u1ec1n. Khi Doris bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 vui m\u1eebng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ead y \u201d. Sau tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3, Jim xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd \u0111i choi v\u00f3i nhau v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. H\u1ecd c\u00f9ng \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, th\u0103m vi\u1ebfng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f9ng mi\u1ec1n kh\u00e1c nhau tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1ee9c th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a Jim ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Doris r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh 15 ph\u00fat m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i \u0111 \u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3 i nhau nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra trong ng\u00e0y. V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec7t li\u1ec7t hoan ngh\u00eanh v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. T\u1eeb sau tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 \u0111i ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Doris \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u1ee3 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb, suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng. L\u00fac n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui hi\u1ec3n hi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Doris c\u1ea3m \u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m trong nh\u00e0. V\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u00ea bai n\u1eefa. V\u00e2ng, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l&i khen ng\u1ee3i. Su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m qua, c\u1ea3 hai ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang t\u00f4i h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nhau s\u1edbm h\u01a1n\u201d. H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Doris v\u00e0 Jim \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua khi h\u1ecd ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau CO\u2019b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a nhau. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Jim , ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ed1n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ea7y. Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a, c\u1ea3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng l\u1eabn ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3i ri\u00eang v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chung. \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. Nhi\u1ec1u \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng khi v\u1ee3 khoe v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u00f3i, h\u1ecd th\u1ea7m ngh\u0129: \u201cM\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi c\u1ed1 bao gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c mua cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc","\u00e1o s\u01a1 mi, c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t hay \u0111\u00f4i \u01b0& kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9? C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh khi \u0111i mua s\u1eafm kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng th\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ang ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cXem ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 mua cho m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec k\u00eca\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1ec1 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eb7ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 ch\u1ecdn qu\u00e0 g\u00ec m\u1edbi quan tr\u1ecdng\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4i th\u00ec ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 - qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao \u0111i th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u00f3i chuy\u1ec3n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 g\u00ec cho v\u1ef1\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Khi Bob ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 anh l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng, anh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft n\u00ean mua qu\u00e0 g\u00ec cho v\u1ee3. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, anh \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 em g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Sau ba th\u00e1ng, anh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn qu\u00e0 cho v\u1ee3. Bill - ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a Marie - r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u01a1i golf v\u00e0 Marie bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u00edch m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00f3n g\u00ec? Ch\u1ecb ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao n\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i nh\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng ch\u01a1i golf v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 mua m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi Bill. V\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi bi\u1ebft v\u1ee3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111i l\u00e0m, Bart \u0111\u1ec1u \u0103n m\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1 v\u00f3i \u00e1o s\u01a1 mi th\u1eaft c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t. M\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng, Debbie - v\u1ee3 anh - \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eeda hi\u1ec7u m\u00e0 Bart th\u01b0\u1eddng gh\u00e9 mua \u00e1o s\u01a1 mi v\u00e0 nh\u1edd nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u1ef1a cho ch\u1ecb m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o s\u01a1 mi m\u00e0 Bart \u0111\u00e3 mua \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t m\u00e0 Debbie t\u1eb7ng anh lu\u00f4n t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecdp. V\u00e0 Bart t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o khoe v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang v\u00e0 h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhu\u1ea7n nhuy\u1ec5n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t cho m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i mua qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng cho nhau. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua m\u1ed9t phi\u1ebfu \u0103n nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c mua v\u00e9 xem k\u1ecbch hay h\u00f2a nh\u1ea1c. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5\u1ef5 Roger t\u1ecf ra h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u1ee9c x\u00fac khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n: \u201cT\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Marsha n\u1eefa. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m con v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111 \u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec sao c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1ec9\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea gi\u1eef nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, ng\u0103n n\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh b\u01b0&c v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u00e3i chi\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Gi\u01b0\u1eddng chi\u1ebfu b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea9n th\u00ec v\u1ea5t lung tung trong khi qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o s\u1ea1ch th\u00ec l\u1ea1i n\u1eb1m m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1ng trong m\u00e1y s\u1ea5y. \u0110\u1ed3 choi c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec l\u0103n l\u1ed1c kh\u1eafp nh\u00e0. N\u1ebfu h\u00f4m n\u00e0o c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111i si\u00eau th\u1ecb mua \u0111\u1ed3, th\u00ea n\u00e0o h\u00e0ng h\u00f3a mua v\u1ec1 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n trong gi\u1ecf x\u00e1ch. V\u00e0 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean ng\u1ed3i xem ti vi m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng \u0111o\u00e1i ho\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng g\u00ec trong b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i\u201d.","Anh b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi khi ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec c\u00e1i chu\u1ed3ng l\u1ee3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i. T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n Marsha gi\u1eef nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda t\u01b0cmg \u0111\u1ed1i g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00ea ra ngo\u00e0i \u0103n t\u1ed1i v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n\u201d. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Roger l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d trong anh \u0111ang tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Anh ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m vi\u1ec7c Marsha \u1edf nh\u00e0 lo n\u1ed9i tr\u1ef1 hay ra ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec anh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 ng\u0103n n\u1eafp hon. Roger c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn anh, c\u00f4 s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef cho nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd hon v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u00e0i b\u1eefa c\u01a1m gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n. Marsha v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u0103n n\u1eafp. Ch\u1ecb th\u00edch t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00f3i con. Ch\u1ecb \u01b0u ti\u00ean cho vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i c\u00e1c con hon vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Do \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a anh - s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y - g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u v\u00ec sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u1ea9n d\u1ee5 \u201cng\u00f4n ng\u1eef\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng g\u00e2y \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c nh\u1ea5t. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 Marsha ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 r\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4\/c\u1eadu b\u00e9 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda \u0111\u00f3n ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1. \u0110\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i, Marsha nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1y k\u00e8m m\u00f4n to\u00e1n cho em nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y. Ngo\u00e0i ra, Marsha c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ba b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n. Ch\u1ecb quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n, s\u01a1n ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7, s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c, c\u1eaft t\u1ec9a c\u00e2y, s\u1eeda m\u00e1y b\u01a1m n\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00e0 r\u1eeda nh\u00e0 t\u1eafm... B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 h\u00fat b\u1ee5i hay thay t\u00e3 cho con. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i than phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra mong mu\u1ed1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. C \u1eed ch \u1ec9\u1eaf u \u1ef5\u1ebfm Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. C\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecb gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n \u1edf \u00fd ngh\u0129a quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c. \u0110\u1eb7t tay l\u00ean vai c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, lu\u1ed3n tay v\u00e0o t\u00f3c, xoa nh\u1eb9 c\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c vai, ch\u1ea1m nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0o c\u00e1nh tay khi trao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ed1c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea... l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u1eafm tay, n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n, \u00f4m \u1ea5p v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 \u00e1i \u00e2n. Jill - m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1: \u201cKhi ch\u1ed3ng","t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh th&i gian \u0111 \u1ec3 xoa lung t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t y\u00eau t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng anh \u1ea5y \u0111ang d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m cho t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p: \u201cAnh y\u00eau em\u201d. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3 i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t khi anh \u1ea5y ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o t\u00f4i\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Jill v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0,l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i, th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb hay s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y t\u1eeb ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm v\u1eabn t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. Ph\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ea7ng C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u0103n kho\u0103n: \u201cLi\u1ec7u n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng? N\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t cho cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p cho th\u1eafc m\u1eafc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 hai h\u00e3y th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 n\u00f3. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng than phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i. Ti\u1ebfp theo, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra trong v\u00e0i tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp theo. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00fang ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n, h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y cu\u1ed1n N\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ho\u1eb7c cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng\/v\u1ee3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. Khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.","Ph\u1ea7n k\u1ebft C\u00c1C C\u01a1 H\u1ed8I K*b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh,b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i \u00edch thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y \u1edf ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 1, vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng cho con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n. v \u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi ng\u1edd ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m kh\u00e1c khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00f3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u1eabn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 hay hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 con nh\u1ecf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y khi con h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u01b0&c g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u00f3m h\u01a1n... Gi\u1edd th\u00ec tr\u1ec5 qu\u00e1 r\u1ed3i\u201d. Khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng con c\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng t\u1ed1t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con. V\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ri\u00eang. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111ang mang trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 xa nh\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u trong su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con. Hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 n\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd. Ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u hay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: \u201cChuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra r\u1ed3i, m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u00ea kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9\u201d. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c: \u201cNh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u00ea x\u1ea3y ra v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d. C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee9ng y\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Tuy vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd. H\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn con t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3","th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i con, nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u00f2i xin l\u1ed7i. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho con, n\u00f3i l\u00f2i xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n hy v\u1ecdng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p hon v\u00f3i con trong t\u01b0ong lai. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t t\u01b0ong lai s\u00e1ng s\u1ee7a hon. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m khi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 l\u00e0 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tha th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nhung b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. D\u00f9 con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i ra l\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho tr\u1ebb t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n hon. V\u00f3i th\u00f2i gian, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ecfi m\u1edf hon \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. v \u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00f2ng tay \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1eabu ph\u1ee5 huynh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u y\u00eau th\u01b0ong con c\u00e1i theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. Khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con c\u00e1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c trong \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 CO\u201dh\u1ed9i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 nhi\u1ec1u hon. V\u00f3i \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y, ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng hon v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00f3i m\u1ebb c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Khi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u01b0oi s\u00e1ng hon \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ch\u00fang. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m phong ph\u00fa, v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u00f4i ao \u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n trong v\u1ed3ng tay cha m\u1eb9. Khi \u1ea5y, ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o trong em s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n sang vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng hon l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 em thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n bi\u1ebfn gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u1ea1y con, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 l\u1edbn lao \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 sau, t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. V\u00e0 tin vui l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi b\u1eadc cha\/m\u1eb9 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y l\u1eadp ra m\u1ed9t \u201cb\u1ea3ng danh s\u00e1ch\u201d nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ed5 sung d\u1ea7n. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u trong danh s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t hon. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian sau, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1ed1t hon. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1eadc cha\/m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1ea3ng danh s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea ra cho m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: \u201cNh\u0169ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00ea tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u00f2i cha t\u1ed1t\u201d: 1. Gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y - n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.","2. D\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o. 3. \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \\\"Con m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n g \u00ec?\u201d v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdp l\u00fd. 4. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf con gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00fat l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u con tr\u1ebb. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eb9 d\u00e0ng nhung c\u01b0ong quy\u1ebft. 5. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o con ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u1eadp ra b\u1ea3ng danh s\u00e1ch y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c li\u1ec7t k\u00ea trong \u0111\u00f3. Khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 vui \u0111\u00f9a th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng con. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n hon trong v\u00f2ng tay ch\u1edf che c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.","TR\u00d2 CH\u01a0I \u201cX\u00c1C \u0110\u1ecaNH NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU C\u1ee6A TR\u1eba\u201d \u0110\u1ed1\u1ec9 v\u00f3i. cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 con t\u1eeb 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 8 tu\u1ed5i: Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 suy lu\u1eadn, v \u00ec sao? v \u00ec n\u1ebfu c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i nh\u1eefng nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 5 \u0111\u1ebfn 8 tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp sau \u0111\u00e2y. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u1ea3o con v\u1ebd ra nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tin r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u00fap con, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f9y v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u00f2i gian trong ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f3i con trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c xem ti vi v\u00f3i con, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi con: \u201cL\u00e0m sao con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ec9\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y y\u00eau th\u01b0ong?\u201d. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y - t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u00e1c b\u1ee9c v\u1ebd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u201c\u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i t\u1eebng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau - \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i vui t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi th\u00eam con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 xuy\u00ean su\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u1ed1\u1ec9 v\u00f3i. c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 con t\u1eeb 9\u0111\u1ebfn 12 tu\u1ed5i: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00ean 9 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf.Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 9 \u0111\u1ebfn 12 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i \u00edt quan t\u00e2m t\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em. v \u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n con gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i \u201cTr\u00f2 choi b\u00ed \u1ea9n v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u1ea3o con \u0111\u1ecdc danh s\u00e1ch 20 g\u1ee3i \u00fd ph\u00eda d\u01b0\u1edbi, sau \u0111\u00f3, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t trong hai c\u00e2u nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t trong \u0111\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 b\u00ed \u1ea9n.","\u0110\u00ea t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho tr\u1ed3 choi n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u00ed m\u1eadt vi\u1ebft ra lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111o\u00e1n l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n (l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng). \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ecfng \u0111o\u00e1n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n t\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 v\u00f3i con d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i b \u00ed \u1ea9n v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau M\u1ed7i g\u1ecdi \u00fd d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y bao g\u1ed3m hai nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t m\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con em m\u00ecnh. Trong hai g\u1ecdi \u00fd \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t g\u1ecdi \u00fd m\u00e0 con th\u00edch hon v\u00e0 khoanh tr\u00f2n ch\u1eef c\u00e1i \u0111i k\u00e8m. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khoanh tr\u00f2n m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef c\u00e1i trong m\u1ed7i g\u1ef1i \u00fd. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con n\u1ebfu con y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui khi t\u00ecm ra l\u00f2i gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p cho b\u00ed \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau! Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 20 g\u1ef1i \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 b\u00ed \u1ea9n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a con: 1. H\u00e3y \u00f4m ch\u1eb7t con \u0111i! A Con th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i! B 2. M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 qu\u00e0 sinh nh\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho con n\u00e8! c M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. D 3. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng \u0111i xem phim n\u00e0o. E Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n choi tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1eadp tay v\u00f3i m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o? A 4. Con c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh! B Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean danh s\u00e1ch c\u00e1c m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 Gi\u00e1ng sinh m\u00e0 con ao \u01b0\u1edbc ch\u01b0a? c 5. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9 n\u1ea5u b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng? D M\u1eb9 th\u00edch c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng noi vui v\u1ebb! E 6. H\u00f4n m\u1eb9 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o! A Con c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 1! B 7. M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho con \u0111\u00e2y. c Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t n\u00e0o. D 8. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau xem ti-vi \u0111i! E Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y choi tr\u00f2 c\u00fat b\u1eaft \u0111i! A","9. Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i! B Cha c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t d\u00e0nh cho con \u0111\u00e2y! c 10. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f2i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ta choi. D Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111i \u0103n nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng m\u00e0 con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u0111i n\u00e0o. E 11. M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m con th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0 th\u1eadt l\u00e2u! A Con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i! B 12. M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n m\u00e0 con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5y. c M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m tra b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t! D 13. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i choi v\u00f3i con th\u1eadt l\u00e0 vui! E Cha s\u1ebd ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua v\u00f3i con \u0111\u00f3! A 14. Th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i! Con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3! B H\u00e3y xem c\u00f3 ai t\u1eb7ng cho con m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o! c 15. M\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 lau d\u1ecdn ph\u00f2ng cho con. D Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau choi tr\u00f2 choi n\u00e0o. E 16. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n cha m\u00e1t-xa cho con kh\u00f4ng? A Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3! \u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c! B 17. Con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u1eb7ng g\u00ec cho sinh nh\u1eadt? c Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n b\u1ea1n con tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea1p chi\u1ebfu phim. D 18. M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n th\u00edch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00f3i con. E Th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4m ch\u1eb7t con! A 19. L\u00e0m sao con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3? Con th\u1eadt l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh! B Th\u1eadt h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p khi \u0111\u1ef1i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac trao qu\u00e0 cho con! c 20. \u0110\u1eebng lo! M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3n con \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd! D H\u00f4m nay, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec con th\u00edch nh\u00e9! E","Trong tr\u00f2 choi n\u00e0y, A = C\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, B = L\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i, c = Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng, D = S\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y, v\u00e0 E = Th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n khoanh tr\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef A nh\u1ea5t... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01b0 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm th\u00edch nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u00f4m, nh\u1eefng n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n hay nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n khoanh tr\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef B nh\u1ea5t... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01b0 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ng\u1ee3i khen r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. cN \u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n khoanh tr\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef nh\u1ea5t... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01b0 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n khoanh tr\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef D nh\u1ea5t... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01b0 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t vui khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp hay ch\u1edf \u0111i ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n khoanh tr\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef E nh\u1ea5t... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, xem ti vi, ca h\u00e1t... Ch\u00fac m\u1eebng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb!","V\u00c0I N\u00c9T V\u00ca T\u00c1C GI\u1ea2 GARY CHAPMAN J \\\\.h\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd, Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Gary Chapman c\u00f2n l\u00e0 Gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c T\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n T\u01b0 V\u1ea5n H\u00f4n Nh\u00e2n & \u0110\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng Gia \u0110\u00ecnh (Marriage and Family Lite Consultants, Inc.) c\u00f3 tr\u1ee5 s\u1edf t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9. \u00d4ng t\u1eebng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n tham gia thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o tr\u00ean to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a hon 100 \u0111\u00e0i ph\u00e1t thanh. Gary Chapman t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Kinh Th\u00e1nh Moody (Moody Bible Institute), r\u1ed3i l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed nh\u00e2n \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Wheaton v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea1c s\u0129 ng\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Wake Forest. \u00d4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea1c s\u0129 ng\u00e0nh Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o (M.R.E) v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc (Ph.D) t\u1ea1i Southvvestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Trong ng\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd, Gary","Chapman l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn gia n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 vun \u0111\u1eafp c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Trong ng\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n, \u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 best- seller v\u00f3i b\u1ed9 s\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng N \u0103m N g\u00f4n ng\u1eef T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c d\u1ecbch sang 38 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i. K\u00ea\u2019 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1979, ngo\u00e0i b\u1ed9 s\u00e1ch N \u0103m N g\u00f4n ng\u1eef T\u00ecnh y\u00eau, Gary Chapman \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft hon 20 quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3: c\u1ea9m nang h\u01b0&ng d\u1eabn d\u1ec5 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebfg\u1ec9&i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh (The World\u2019s Easiest Guide to Family Relationships), M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a T\u00ecnh y\u00eau (The Other Side of Love), N\u0103m d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng (Five Signs of a Loving Family), H\u01b0&ng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u1ea5n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng (Tovvard a Growing Marriage), v\u00e0 Hy v\u1ecdng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ly th\u00e2n (Hope for the Separated). V\u00f3i hon 45 n\u0103m kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 l\u00e0 Karolyn, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 hon 30 n\u0103m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c s\u01b0, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Gary Chapman lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1, gi\u00fap c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ef1 - ch\u1ed3ng, cha m\u1eb9 - con c\u00e1i, gi\u00fap cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p hon. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 r\u1eb1ng, \u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201c\u00f4ng t\u01a1, b\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7t\u201d th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, gi\u00fap \u0111an d\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3, kh\u00e1n th\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 khen ng\u1ee3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ecd, ch\u1ec9 ra cho h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi \u201cn\u1eeda kia\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9u v\u00e3n trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. Sau khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi con - m\u1ed9t trai, m\u1ed9t g\u00e1i, Gary v\u00e0 Karolyn hi\u1ec7n v\u1eabn s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u00ean nhau \u1edf Winston-Salem, South Carolina."]