5-ngon-ngu-tinh-yeu-danh-cho-tre

["N\u1ebfu m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a hon v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. Chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn c\u1ee7a. Am \u1ef5 M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng l\u1eafm v\u00f3i m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 nhung nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau, em v\u1eabn g\u00ecn gi\u1eef v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a Ted. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, Ted \u0111i du l\u1ecbch \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 mua t\u1eb7ng cho Amy - c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i 12 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a anh- m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn. Amy t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn n\u00e0y cho l\u1eafm v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 v\u00e0o h\u1ed9c t\u1ee7. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, Ted r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nhung d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, anh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa-m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn. Amy t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn n\u00e0y cho l\u1eafm v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t n\u00f3 v\u00e0o h\u1ed9c t\u1ee7. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, Ted r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nhung d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, anh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. Su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu, Amy \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng Ted lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac Ted c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng khi ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0ong lai c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ngay c\u1ea3 khi Amy \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec Ted v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf con. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha con anh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3 hai mong mu\u1ed1n. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, Ted tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y Amy \u0111eo chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn m\u00e0 ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eb7ng cho con b\u00e9. Ted nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng con g\u00e1i anh \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng con b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf em. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn c\u00f9ng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, Amy th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng em mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd em \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a Amy khi\u1ebfn Ted r\u1ea5t x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, Amy c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 em mong mu\u1ed1n. Qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 Amy \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 em lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf em v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. Nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a Amy c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi em ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. K hi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef\u1ef5\u00eau ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n \u1ec9\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00f3i gh\u00e9m c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao t\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00e1c em s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t gi\u1ea5y g\u00f3i, c\u00e1ch g\u00f3i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 chi\u1ebfc n\u01a1 d\u00e1n tr\u00ean h\u1ed9p qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00edch th\u00fa th\u1ed1t l\u00ean khi m\u1edf qu\u00e0. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do tr\u00ean, tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n trong th\u1eddi gian em m\u1edf qu\u00e0. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n chia s\u1ebb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y v\u1edbi em. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0ng b\u00e0y m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang. Tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf ni\u1ec1m y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh","v\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd chi\u1ebfm gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong tr\u00e1i tim em. M\u1ed7i khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eb7ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn em. Tr\u1ebb em n\u00f3ig\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng? H\u00e3y nghe t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 hcm v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y. Frankie - n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i - n\u00f3i v\u00f3i b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i sau ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 hai \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o: \u201cC\u1ed3 gi\u1ea3o con th\u01b0ong con l\u1eafm ngo\u1ea1i oi. Ngo\u1ea1i coi c\u00f4 cho con c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u00e8\u201d. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1ea5y ra c\u00e2y th\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0u xanh ng\u1ecdc c\u00f3 in d\u00e3y s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u00e0nh cho em. Lisa - s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i - h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u00fa c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u01b0a? \u00d4ng \u1ea5y & \u0111\u00e2y n\u00e8\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 tay v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u1ea3 k\u00ednh: \u201c\u00d4ng \u1ea5y cho ch\u00e1u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u00f4'k\u1eb9o m\u00fat n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i Lisa,ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ec7nh danh l\u00e0 \u201c\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201dch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eb7ng k\u1eb9o cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9. Michelle - m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m sao em bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0ong em. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat l\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ef1, Michelle ch\u1ec9 ngay v\u00e0o chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m, \u00e1o s\u01a1 mi v\u00e0 gi\u00e0y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00e1u ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh \u1ec9\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ed1 i ch\u00e1u. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e3 mua s\u1eafm \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng cho ch\u00e1u m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n trong l\u00f3p ch\u00e1u n\u1eefa\u201d. Chris, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 14 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00e2m s\u1ef1: _ \u201cCha m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n cho ch\u00e1u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u00e1u c\u1ea7n - t\u1eeb d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 thao cho \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0y d\u00e9p, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00e1u lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vui l\u00f2ng cha . \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 Chris, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u00e2u s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c em t\u1ecf ra v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn n\u1ebfu qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a em b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng hay \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1ea7m ch\u1ed7. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eebng t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n; l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eb7ng cho tr\u1ebb m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. \u201cKhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u, con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1eb7ng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec khi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t. M \u1ed9t S\u1ed1g\u1ee3i\u00fd D\u01b0&i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u00f4'g\u1ecdi \u00fd v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00ea \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng: \u2022 S\u01b0u t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 g\u00f3i gh\u00e9m c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. H\u00e3y t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho con khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.","\u2022 Ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con. \u2022 N\u1ea5u cho con m\u00f3n \u0103n m\u00e0 con th\u00edch ho\u1eb7c d\u1eabn con \u0111i \u0103n \u1edf m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u2022 Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb s\u1eb5n gi\u1ea5y g\u00f3i qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9p qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00f3i nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111on gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t. \u2022 Khi v\u1eafng nh\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian, h\u00e3y g\u1eedi cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u1ecf ghi r\u00f5 t\u00ean con b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. \u2022 Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t t\u00fai qu\u00e0 ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho con khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t. \u2022 T\u00ecm nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i con, ghi r\u00f5 t\u00ean con tr\u00ean m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 n\u00e0y cho con khi con g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tinh th\u1ea7n con. \u2022 D\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng con m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u00e1t b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u00e1c hay m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con. \u2022 T\u1ea1o tr\u00f2 choi s\u0103n t\u00ecm qu\u00e0 theo b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con t\u00ecm ra m\u00f3n qu\u00e0. \u2022 N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i xa v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9p nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t k\u00e8m ghi ch\u00fa n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n y\u00eau con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u2022 Thay v\u00ec mua cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong ng\u00e0y sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c cho con m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u2022 B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u00e2u, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e2y c\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0n c\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng choi. \u2022 L\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c mua cho con m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc nh\u1eabn hay m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng \u0111eo c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u2022 \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i hon, h\u00e3y t\u1eb7ng cho con nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u201cthi\u00ean nhi\u00ean\u201d nh\u01b0 hoa d\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh g\u00f3i trong gi\u1ea5y g\u00f3i th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. \u2022 \u0110\u1ebfn d\u1ecbp sinh nh\u1eadt hay Gi\u00e1ng sinh, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con \u0111i mua s\u1eafm m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t sau khi \u0111\u00e3 tham kh\u1ea3o \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con. M\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. \u2022 G\u1ee3i \u00fd cho con v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 em s\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn. D\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfm ng\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f2i gian: \u201cCh\u1ec9 c\u00f2n b\u1ed1n ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa \u1ec9\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho con th\u00eam ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng kh\u1ecfi. \u2022 L\u1eadp ra b\u1ea3n danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1eb7ng cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 sau khi em th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 6 NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee Y\u00caU TH\u01af\u01a0NG TH\u1ee8 5: S\u1ef1 T\u1eacN T\u1ee4Y eremy v\u1eeba t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c to\u00e0n th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u0103m sau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, c\u1eadu v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 th\u00f2i th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: - T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00f4i b\u1edfi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n ch\u0103m lo cho t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn nh\u1edb m\u00e3i nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa \u0103n do m\u1eb9 n\u1ea5u hay khi cha gi\u00fap t\u00f4i s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa chi\u1ebfc xe hoi c\u0169 k\u1ef9 m\u00e0 cha \u0111\u00e3 mua cho t\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i 16 tu\u1ed5i. Ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean 24 tu\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i: - Cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap t\u00f4i trong m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn. Ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Hy v\u1ecdng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 cho c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i sau n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00ec con. v \u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho con n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho ai? C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho ai?\u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u0103m lo cho v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian ch\u0103m lo cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha\/m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m lo cho con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eb1m l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t. Mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n","\u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00ea th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Cho con m\u1ed9t thanh k\u1eb9o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con vui th\u00edch nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n - mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t - ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n con l\u00e0m theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho con th\u00ec con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u00edch k\u1ef7. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo ng\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00f3i con \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch th\u00ec m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111on gi\u1ea3n hon r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Khi t\u1ecf ra t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y cho con b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 cho \u0111i. Khi \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi giang hon. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con l\u00e0m theo. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u00edch k\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f3i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cao nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn. S\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ea7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7\u00e2 con Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 hon nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean l\u00e0m cho con nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 m\u00e3i \u0111\u00fat com cho con khi con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3i ga gi\u01b0\u1eddng khi tr\u1ebb l\u00ean t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ef1i con v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i m\u00f3i d\u1ea1y cho n\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1eb7t qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian d\u1ea1y con gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o hay qu\u00e1 c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o l\u00e0m thui ch\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec v\u1eady, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc trung gian. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u0103m lo cho con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u00edn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Khi \u1ea5y, ta s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m lo cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa \u0103n ngon th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tay chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa \u0103n \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 gi\u00fap con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u1ec1 sau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng. Ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu ri\u00eang v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nhau b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong vai tr\u00f2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap con tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i dam m\u00ea ri\u00eang v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.","M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n con c\u00e1i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. Will v\u00e0 Kathy l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng Will r\u1ea5t coi tr\u1ecdng tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp n\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y hai \u0111\u1ee9a con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd tham d\u1ef1 bu\u1ed5i h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nghe v\u1ec1 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea3 hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng Will \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Will n\u00f3i: - T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c cho con c\u00e1i trong khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd h\u1ecfi v\u1eb7n t\u00f4i: - L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u00f4ng d\u1ea1y cho con m\u00ecnh t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m gi\u00fap ch\u00fang m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c? B\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 l\u00e8o l\u00e1i con thuy\u1ec1n cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i ch\u00fang. T\u00f4i b\u00e8n h\u1ecfi: - C\u00e1c con trai anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 n\u1ea5u \u0103n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? Kathy \u0111\u00e1p: - Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng hai \u0111\u1ee9a nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c. Will n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1ebb t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o: - Hai con ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea5u \u0103n khi ch\u00fang \u0111i choi xa nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. - V\u1eady sau khi nghe ph\u1ea7n tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Will l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u: - T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. - Anh c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng? - Ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 c\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf. - Anh ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? - \u00dd \u00f4ng l\u00e0 sao? - \u00dd t\u00f4i l\u00e0 anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang t\u1eebng con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi ch\u00e1u: \u201cCon trai c\u1ee7a cha! Cha mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi con m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u m\u00e0 tr\u01b0&c \u0111\u00e2y cha ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ed1 i cha. Con c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng? Con c\u1ee9 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn nh\u00e9. Cha th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\u201d. Will y\u1ebfn l\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac l\u00e2u, r\u1ed3i anh n\u00f3i:","- T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i: - C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, anh ch\u1ecb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ch\u00e1u. Will tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i: \u201cAnh ch\u1ecb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi ch\u00e1u\u201d c\u1ee9 vang l\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ea7u anh. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 anh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a con trai nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Buck. Anh h\u1ecfi con khi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai cha con \u1edf nh\u00e0. v \u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a con trai anh l\u00e0: - T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean r\u1ed3i cha \u1ea1. Con bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 cha y\u00eau con. Cha lu\u00f4n d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho con. Khi xu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ed1, cha lu\u00f4n d\u1eaft con theo. D\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cha l\u1ea1i d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con. Con lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u1eafm con m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 cha quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf. R\u1ed3i v\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng ngh\u1eb9n ng\u00e0o, Buck h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp: - C\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hay h\u1edf cha? Cha s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf con \u0111i ch\u1ee9? Will x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i: - Kh\u00f4ng, cha s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u1ea3. Cha ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng cha y\u00eau con. \u0110\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i Will. M\u00e3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n sau anh m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i Jake, c\u1eadu con trai 17 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a anh. T\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, anh \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng Jake v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi: - Jake \u00e0, cha mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi con m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00f3i cha, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi con tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Cha bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con nh\u01b0ng cha th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mong nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a con. Cha th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft con c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng cha y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng? Sau m\u1ed9t l\u00fac l\u00e2u im l\u1eb7ng, Jake n\u00f3i: - Con kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh n\u00ean di\u1ec5n t\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c cha \u1ea1. Con ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng cha y\u00eau con nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 l\u00fac con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau con n\u1eefa. - Khi n\u00e0o v\u1eady con trai? - Will h\u1ecfi. - Khi con c\u1ea7n cha nh\u01b0ng cha l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u1ed3i con l\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i, con \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1edd cha gi\u00fap con m\u00f4n to\u00e1n nh\u01b0ng cha l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m v\u00ec con r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh. Con bi\u1ebft cha mu\u1ed1n con t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u1ea5y con ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n cha gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch gi\u00fap con m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1ed3i. H\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3, con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng gh\u00ea g\u1edbm. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c, khi chi\u1ebfc xe ng\u1ef1a nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t d\u01b0\u1edbi r\u00e3nh v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1edd cha gi\u00fap con k\u00e9o n\u00f3 l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, cha","n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho chi\u1ebfc xe b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t n\u00ean con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch k\u00e9o n\u00f3 l\u00ean. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u1ea5y, con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cha ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau con. Nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a Jake khi\u1ebfn cho Will su\u00fdt kh\u00f3c. Anh n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con: - Jake oi, cha xin l\u1ed7i con. Cha kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m con bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. L\u1ebd ra cha n\u00ean h\u1ecfi con \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1edbm hon m\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i. T\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, cha lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n con s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin - v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u con \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cha r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con, nhung cha c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng cha r\u1ea5t y\u00eau con. T\u1eeb nay v\u1ec1 sau, cha s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1 con m\u1ed7i khi con c\u1ea7n. Cha mong con s\u1ebd cho cha CO\u201dh\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3. Sau \u0111\u00f3, hai cha con Will \u0111\u00e3 \u00f4m l\u1ea5y nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m y\u1ebfu th\u01b0ong. B\u1ea3y th\u00e1ng sau, Will c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i hai c\u1eadu con trai khi chi\u1ebfc xe ng\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa roi xu\u1ed1ng r\u00e3nh n\u01b0\u1edbc sau nh\u00e0. Hai c\u1eadu con trai c\u1ee7a anh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t hon hai gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 k\u00e9o chi\u1ebfc xe l\u00ean nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, Jake b\u1ea3o em trai v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ea7u c\u1ee9u. Buck h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi th\u1ea5y cha v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c ch\u1ea1y theo m\u00ecnh. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00e0ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n khi th\u1ea5y l\u00fac chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00e9o l\u00ean, cha \u00f4m h\u00f4n anh Jake v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u1ea3m 071 con trai c\u1ee7a cha, c\u1ea3m 071 v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1o tin cho cha bi\u1ebft\u201d. N\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a Will nh\u1eb1m xoa d\u1ecbu v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con trai l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. H\u00f4m \u1ea5y, Will \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. S\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5\u1ef5\u1ef5\u00ea\u01b0 th\u01b0\u01a1ng Cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m lo cho con c\u00e1i qua nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng n\u0103m v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y h\u1ecd l\u00e0m cho con \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u0103m lo cho con c\u00e1i v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y \u0111\u00f3. T\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m n\u00f4 b\u1ed9c cho con nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo ng\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t khao kh\u00e1t b\u00ean trong m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. v \u00ec v\u1eady, t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u0103m lo cho con trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ee9c b\u1ed1i hay t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4 c\u1eb1n. D\u00f9 vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m lo cho con tr\u1ebb di\u1ec5n ra h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng n\u00ean ki\u1ec3m tra th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y \u0111\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. M \u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7\u00e2 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00ec con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Qua s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd","h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau l\u1eabn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1. Kinh Th\u00e1nh c\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00f2ng Ch\u00faa. Kinh Th\u00e1nh k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c, Ch\u00faa Jesus \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i v\u1ecb ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e0: \u201cM\u1ed7i kh\u1ec9 ng\u00e0i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng m \u00f2i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, anh em, h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m gi\u00e0u c\u00f3. N\u00ea\u0129i kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch m \u00f2i l\u1ea1i ng\u00e0i. Khi ng\u00e0i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng, h\u00e3y m \u00f2i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3, t\u00e0n t\u1eadt, m\u00f9 l\u00f2a, kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00f3 m \u00f3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00fd b\u00e1u nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00fac \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3...\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh - ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. D\u00f9 sao, con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ed1ng v\u1ecb k\u1ef7. Tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 cho \u0111i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t v\u1ee5 l\u1ecdi. L\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con c\u00e1i C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong cho con c\u00e1i noi theo. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. Th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i ra l\u1ec7nh. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft on b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n ra l\u1ec7nh cho ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng. Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 hy sinh th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ai \u0111\u00e3 thay t\u00e3 hay cho ch\u00fang \u0103n. Nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con h\u1ecd, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m lo v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Khi \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng hon nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u1eeb t\u1ea5m g\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 s\u0103n s\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh, gi\u00fap d\u1eef ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tham gia c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i xa m\u00f3i nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn hon m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng con tham gia nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n. Khi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f9ng nhau ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00ec m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat \u00fd ngh\u0129a b\u00ean nhau. C\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t n\u0103m n\u1ecd, c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c c\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 theo \u0111\u1ea1o Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa \u1edf Bolivia. T\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 ba tu\u1ed5i b\u1ecb g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n. C\u00e1c con t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 em b\u00e9 \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ec5 Gi\u00e1ng sinh sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u1eadu con trai Carey t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh t\u1eb7ng cho ch\u1ecb g\u00e1i m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 Gi\u00e1ng sinh qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh - m\u1ed9t con b\u00fap b\u00ea m\u00f3i toanh. Th\u00e3\u1ef5 \u0111\u00f4i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a. con","Tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0i nghi v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t v\u1ee5 l\u1ecdi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong con b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u1edbi con khi con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u1ea3y sinh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ef1i cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y nay, l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y?\u201d \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u1ebfn ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u0103m lo cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh kh\u1ea3 thi c\u1ee7a m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ea7y toan t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap con hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng con tham gia ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00eau ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t v\u1ee5 l\u1ecdi. L\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea9ch L\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ec7c v\u00e0 m\u1eddi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ef1. Khi b\u1ea1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng c\u1eeda ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, kh\u00e1ch kh\u1ee9a, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch san s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. D\u00f9 ng\u00e0y nay xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e3i ti\u1ec7c \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111ang th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i nh\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hon trong kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Su\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 70, gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a sinh vi\u00ean c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc trong v\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Wake Forest. Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. T\u1eeb 8 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00f9ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i... Sau \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1eeda \u0111\u1ebfm. Ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i - Shelley v\u00e0 Derek - v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t b\u00e9. Ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ea1y t\u00f3i lui gi\u1eefa m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd ng\u1ee7 trong l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng sinh vi\u00ean n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n mong ch\u1edd nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1i th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00e0o s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea3y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh vi\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u201cNh\u0169ng d\u1ef1 \u00e1n c\u00f4ng \u00edch\u201d. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i kh\u1eafp v\u00f9ng, chia nhau d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh neo \u0111\u01a1n, th\u00f4ng c\u1ed1ng r\u00e3nh hay qu\u00e9t l\u00e1 c\u00e2y trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean. Shelley v\u00e0 Derek c\u0169ng tham gia v\u00f3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1ng l\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vun l\u1ea1i sau khi qu\u00e9t","xong. Khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, Shelley v\u00e0 Derek lu\u00f4n ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef7 ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb sinh vi\u00ean. C\u1ea3 Shelley v\u00e0 Derek \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00f3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Shelley - gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e1c s\u0129 s\u1ea3n khoa - cho bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Y Bowman Gray ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a con b\u00e9. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, Derek \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u00f2i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0 v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng trong c\u0103n h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh su\u1ed1t m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng. T\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u00e1c con m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng c\u1eeda ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng tham gia c\u00e1c d\u1ef1 \u00e1n c\u00f4ng \u00edch s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi gi\u00fap \u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 qua vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh hay khi c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eefu \u00edch cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u hon nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. K hi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef\u1ef5\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a. con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y S\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m lo cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e9 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi nh\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1eeda chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1ea1p, v\u00e1 chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m cho b\u00fap b\u00ea, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1eadu b\u00e9 Jake mong mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u1ed1 m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a Jake. Nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m theo m\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra nhanh nh\u1ea1y v\u00f3i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y ho\u1eb7c r\u00fat c\u1ea1n \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con. Tr\u1ebb n\u00f3ig\u00ec v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eefy\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u201cs\u1ef1 t\u1ecbn t\u1ee5y\u201d? H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y. Krystal, 7 tu\u1ed5i, g\u1eb7p tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe li\u00ean t\u1ee5c trong ba n\u0103m qua: \u201cCh\u00e1u bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 y\u00eau ch\u00e1u v\u00ec m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00e1u m\u1ed7i khi ch\u00e1u c\u1ea7n. Khi ch\u00e1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111i kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00ea \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00e1u \u0111i. Khi ch\u00e1u b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh n\u1eb7ng, m\u1eb9 t\u1ef1 tay n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n ch\u00e1o m\u00e0 ch\u00e1u th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t\u201d. Bradley, 12 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 em trai. Cha Bradley \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf m\u1eb9 con c\u00f4 b\u00e9 khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9","m\u00f3i l\u00ean s\u00e1u. \u201cCh\u00e1u bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau ch\u00e1u v\u00ec m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e2u l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00e1u nh\u0169ng chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9t c\u00fac v\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i. M\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 y t\u1ea3 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1eadt l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00ea ch\u0103m lo cho ch\u1ecb em ch\u00e1u.Ch\u00e1u ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 cha c\u0169ng th\u01b0ong ch\u00e1u nhung cha \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111 \u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 con ch\u00e1u c\u1ea3\u201d. Jodi, 14 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1eb9, cho bi\u1ebft: \u201cCh\u00e1u bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 y\u00eau ch\u00e1u l\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u gi\u1eb7t qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u00e0 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng \u1ed1c. Bu\u00f4i t\u1ed1i m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u00f4n v\u1ebd\u201d. Melanie, 14 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00e0 con c\u1ea3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ed1n anh em. \u201cCh\u00e1u bi\u1ebft b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0ong y\u00eau ch\u00e1u v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c cho ch\u00e1u. M\u1eb9 may trang ph\u1ee5c cho ch\u00e1u khi ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00f3ng k\u1ecbch \u1eed tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n may c\u1ea3 cho hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 m\u1eb9. C\u00f2n b\u00f4'th\u00ec lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap ch\u00e1u l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. N\u0103m nay b\u00f4' c\u00f2n d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian d\u1ea1y ch\u00e1u m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ed1 n\u1eefa. Ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u00ea gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u0169ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng em nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh th\u01b0ong y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. v \u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y ch\u0103m lo cho con, d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c - v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M \u1ed9t S\u1ed1g\u1ee3i\u00fd D\u01b0&i \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u00f4'g\u1ecdi \u00fd d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed ch\u1ecdn trong s\u1ed1 nh\u0169ng g \u1ecd i \u00fd n\u00e0y \u0111\u00ea \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00f3 i con c\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n: \u2022 D\u1ea1y con choi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao nh\u01b0 b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1, b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y... \u2022 H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. \u2022 N\u1ea5u cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0103n ngon khi con ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u2022 Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea3o con: \u201c\u0110i ng\u1ee7 \u0111 i\u201d, h\u00e3y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng b\u1ebf con v\u00e0o gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eafp ch\u0103n cho con. \u2022 \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap con ch\u1ecdn qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng khi con th\u1ee9c d\u1eady. \u2022 D\u1ea1y cho con bi\u1ebft t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. \u2022 H\u00e3y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 choi m\u00e0 con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 choi khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady ho\u1eb7c \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 (d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tham gia c\u00f9ng con). \u2022 Khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp tr\u1ec5 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n hay bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp, h\u00e3y gi\u00fap con ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai thu x\u1ebfp nhanh hon thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ed1i th\u00fac con. Khi con b\u1ecb \u1ed1m, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con xem b\u1ed9 phim con y\u00eau th\u00edch, \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n cho con nghe","ho\u1eb7c n\u1ea5u m\u00f3n \u0103n b\u1ed5 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u00e0 con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t. \u2022 Gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn xung quanh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 khi\u00eau v\u0169, b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c... \u2022 Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0103n con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t. \u2022 L\u00ean danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c con th\u00edch l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. \u2022 Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0103n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho con, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc b\u00e1nh c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 kh\u1eafc t\u00ean con tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. \u2022 Gi\u00fap con s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 choi ho\u1eb7c v\u1eadt d\u1ee5ng con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 7 C\u00c1CH PH \u00c1T HI\u1ec6N NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU C \u01a1 B\u1ea2N C\u1ee6A TR\u1eba C^h\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eeba gi\u00f3i thi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u1eady b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cNg\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh \u1ec9\u00e0 g\u00ec nh\u1ec9? M\u00ecnh c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00ea khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng b\u1edfi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Bi\u00eat t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a. t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra khi ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Khi \u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta - nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Khi nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp t\u1ed1t v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, do b\u1ecb t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ecb k\u1ef7 chi ph\u1ed1i n\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi chia s\u1ebb qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh. Ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u00ednh r\u1ee5t r\u00e8 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00ean tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u1eddi khen t\u1eb7ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 tin trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Khi h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 cho \u0111i. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, n\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y th\u00ec ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00e1c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n vi\u00ean mu\u1ed1n c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n th\u1eddigian","H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb7t ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00ea bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb?\u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c. V\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 em b\u00e9 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t y\u00eau m\u1ebfn gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u em l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra kh\u00e1 h\u1edd h\u1eefng v\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; c\u00f3 em b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n khi \u1edf b\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn trong khi c\u00f3 em kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho l\u1eafm. Khi con b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n hon, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Khi \u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 n\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng hon so v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong tr\u1ebb khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u1ecf ra ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00f3i con, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t khi con c\u1ed3n b\u00e9. \u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 m\u00f3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau CO' b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng sau, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00e1c. H \u00e3y xem Cam\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o C\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh Campbell \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch theo d\u00f5i b\u00e9 Cami giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 \u1edd vi\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e3o noi b\u00e0 c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a em \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ngay t\u1eeb khi m\u00f3i l\u00ean hai hay ba tu\u1ed5i, Cami \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch v\u1ebd tranh t\u1eb7ng cho t\u1eebng c\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7n. Cami lu\u00f4n t\u1eb7ng thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 qu\u00e0 cho b\u00e0 c\u1ed1 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp Gi\u00e1ng sinh hay sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u00e0, d\u00f9 b\u00e0 c\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed nh\u1edb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e9 l\u00e0 ai. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Cami l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n nh\u1ea7m v\u00ec l\u00fac n\u00e0y, Cami c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng Cami r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 qua c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb. C\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n Gia \u0111\u00ecnh Campbell quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch b\u00e9 Cami th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu trong t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a em. H\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng Cami s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng dam m\u00ea v\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a em. Nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef","kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 san s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3. H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? D\u00f9 trong ch\u01b0ong n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 xao nh\u00e3ng b\u1ed1n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch san s\u1ebb v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 n\u0103m lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a em. C\u00e0ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1i cao c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con. Ph\u1eaft hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a. tr\u1ebb Khi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb \u1edf v\u00e0o l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean. Trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y th\u1ec3 thao \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f2i b\u1ea1n mua b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ea3o v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau em, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i mua cho em \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3. V\u00f3i mong mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mua \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 cho con tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb g\u1ea1t. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ecdi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh: 1. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i. b\u1ea1n H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1edfi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi \u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb \u0111ang s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i b\u1edfi \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t, v \u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00ean n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, m\u1eb9 n\u1ea5u \u0103n th\u1eadt ngon\u201d, \u201cC\u1ea3m on b \u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0\u201d, \u201cCon y\u00eau m\u1eb9 l\u1eafm, m\u1eb9 o i\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cB \u1ed1 oi, con ch\u00fac b\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t nh\u00e9\u201d, th\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i. \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n v\u00f2i v\u0129nh cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u00f2i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb n\u0103m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i.","2. Quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n xung quanh b\u00e9 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau CO' b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi \u00fd con t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m theo s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa. Khi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ecf ra v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00edch th\u00fa khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0 v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui nh\u01b0 em khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e0. 3. L\u1eafng nghe y\u00eau c'\u00e2u th\u01b0\u00f2rig xuy\u00ean nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian choi \u0111\u00f9a c\u00f9ng con ho\u1eb7c \u1edf b\u00ean con khi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb b\u1ea1n choi chung c\u1ee7a con. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi em b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb th\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ee9c tranh b\u00e9 m\u00f3i v\u1ebd, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c tranh con v\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng?\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cCon c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9?\u201d, \u201cCon m\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfc \u1ea3o \u0111\u1ea7m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 xinh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea3 m\u1eb9?\u201d... \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i, \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u00e9: l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i. 4. L\u1eafng nghe xem tr\u1ebb thir\u00ecmg than phi\u1ec1n v\u00ea \u0111i\u00eau g\u00ec nh\u1ea5t Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ee9 ba. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n than phi\u1ec1n: \u201cB\u1ed1ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho con\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho em m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u00ec t\u1edbi con\u201d, \u201cCha con m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i choi c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean v \u00f3 i nhau\u201d... th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a em \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a em v\u1eeba ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng t\u1eeb khi c\u00f3 em, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Trong l\u1eddi than phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi em h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, khi tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n: \u201cB \u1ed1 o i, b\u00f4'l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 \u00e0 !\u201d th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Hay khi tr\u1ebb b\u1ea3o: \u201cCon \u01b0&c g\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a Ben\u201d th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Ben. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fac than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn em kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean,\u0111a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i than phi\u1ec1n n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ee9c th\u00ec c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. v \u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu","nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i than phi\u1ec1n n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i than phi\u1ec1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh. 5. Cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a gi\u1eef a hai ng\u00f4n n g\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a gi\u1eefa hai ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con trai l\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cEr\u1ec9c \u00e0, b \u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y th\u1ee9 n\u0103m. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00ea c\u00f9ng \u0111i c\u00e2u c\u00e1 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn con \u0111i mua m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y th\u00ea thao m\u00f3i. V\u1eady con th\u00edch c\u00e1i n\u00e0o hoi\u0129?\u201d. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp n\u00e0y, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 Eric \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. Ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: \u201cT\u1ed1i nay m\u1eb9 r\u1ea3nh. V\u1eady con th\u00edch ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng \u0111i b\u1ed9 v \u00f3 i nhau hay m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd & nh\u00e0 may cho con chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m m&i?\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a gi\u1eefa th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y. H\u00e3y ghi l\u1ea1i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n xoay quanh m\u1ed9t trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong hai ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y ghi l\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 g\u1ecdi \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n gia \u0111\u00ecnh ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian b\u00ean nhau th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u00ea c\u00f3 th\u00ea th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t hem. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v&i m\u1eb9. V\u1eady con ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y?\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f9y v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111on gi\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c chi ti\u1ebft v\u00f3i con. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. D \u00f9ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3ph\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb C\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho tr\u1ebb n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i Nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0y ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p m\u1ed9t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con: \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb9 n\u01b0\u1edbng cho con m\u00f3n b\u00e1nh t\u00e1o (s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y) hay ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng \u0111i d\u1ea1o trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb)?\u201d \u201cCon th\u00edch b\u1ed1 con ta c\u00f9ng ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n (c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm) hay b\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n cho con nghe n\u00e8 (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb)?\u201d \u201cB\u1ed1 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i ra th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, con mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 mua cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 (qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng) hay s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft cho con m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u01b0 v\u00ec con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i (l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i)?\u201d","\u201cCon c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng choi tr\u00f2 choi n\u00e0y v\u00f3i b\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng? Tr\u00f2 choi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201cB\u1ed1y\u00eau con v\u00ec...\u201d (l&i khen ng\u1ee3i) hay con mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 s\u1eeda cho con m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 choi b\u1ecb h\u1ecfng (s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y)?\u201d Tr\u00f2 choi \u201cB\u1ed1y\u00eau con l\u00f9....\u201d l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 choi m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay phi\u00ean nhau ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con: \u201cB\u1ed1y\u00eau con v\u00ec con c\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p tuy\u1ec7t v \u00f2 i\u201d. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00ea n\u00f3i: \u201cCon y\u00eau b\u00f4'v\u00ec b\u1ed1 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n cho con nghe\u201d. B\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp \u201cB\u1ed1y\u00eau con v\u00ec con r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg em g\u00e1i con\u201d... \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 choi th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f3i con v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh. Tr\u00f2 choi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng m\u1eabu t\u1ef1 ABC sau c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201cv\u00ec...\u201d, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0: \u201cB \u1ed1 y\u00eau con v\u00ec con \u0103n n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p v\u1ed1 i ng\u01b0\u00f2i l&n\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00f3i: \u201cCon y\u00eau b\u1ed1 v\u00ec b\u1ed1 lu\u00f4n b \u00ea n h v\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i\u201d... L\u1ef1 a ch\u1ecdn d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb m \u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n g\u1ea7n m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00ea h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0: \u201cSinh nh\u1eadt s\u1eafp t\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con, con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1ea1p m\u00f3i (qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng) hay du l\u1ecbch c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb)?\u201d \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n cha s\u1eeda m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh cho con t\u1ed1i nay (s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y) hay ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng choi b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5 (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm)?\u201d \u201cKhi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn th\u0103m b\u00e0 v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, con mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 k\u1ec3 v\u00f3i b\u00e0 v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a con trong h\u1ecdc k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y (l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i) hay con mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 mua cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 (qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng)?\u201d \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebfn xem con bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb) hay mua cho con b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ec3 thao m\u00f3i (qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng)?\u201d L\u1ef1 a ch\u1ecdn d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb m \u01b0 \u1eddi l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra cho con m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn sau: \u201cCon c\u00f3 th\u00edch m\u1eb9 mua cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00e1o kho\u00e1c m\u00f3i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0y (qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng) hay hai m\u1eb9 con ta s\u1ebd \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u00f3i nhau trong th\u00f2i gian b\u1ed1 \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c (th&i gian chia s\u1ebb)?\u201d \u201cT\u1ed1i nay ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai m\u1eb9 con ta \u1edf nh\u00e0, v\u1eady con mu\u1ed1n hai m\u1eb9 con ta \u0103n ngo\u00e0i (th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb) hay m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho con m\u00f3n pizza con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t (s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y)? \u201cKhi con n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n v\u1ef1c d\u1eady tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con, con th\u00edch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 h\u01a1n - m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean con, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 y\u00eau con v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho con nghe nh\u1eefng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con (l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ea1i), hay con ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ed1 \u00f4m con th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u1ed1lu\u00f4n \u1edf b\u00ean con, con trai \u00e0 \u201d (c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm)?\u201d.","Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ch\u1ec9 h\u1eefu \u00edch khi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n t\u1eeb 20 \u0111\u1ebfn 30 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y m\u00f3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a r\u1ea3i r\u00e1c s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 ra kho\u1ea3ng 30 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn trong m\u1ed7i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n danh s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb con l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00edch h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 trong nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y n\u00ean nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con. Th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m 1 5 tu\u00e2n N\u1ebfu c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m tr\u00ean v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c trong v\u00f2ng 15 tu\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t trong n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 trong v\u00f2ng hai tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb th\u00ec h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh cho con \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u00fat tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i \u0103n s\u00e1ng. Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau, b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch cho con nghe. Trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu sau hai tu\u1ea7n, con b\u1ea1n xin ph\u00e9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e1u mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u00ea hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e1ng kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Sau hai tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ea1m d\u1eebng trong tu\u1ea7n k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ng\u1eebng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho con m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba th\u00f2i gian tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y trong su\u1ed1t hai tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp theo. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f3i con \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ed1n l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u00f4m h\u00f4n con th\u1eadt \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1, h\u00e3y ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n con b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t. Khi con ng\u1ed3i \u0103n c\u01a1m t\u1ed1i, h\u00e3y xoa nh\u1eb9 l\u00ean l\u01b0ng con trong kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat. V\u00e0 khi con xem ti-vi, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y v\u1ed7 nh\u1eb9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm l\u00ean l\u01b0ng con. H\u00e3y l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00e2u y\u1ebfm kh\u00e1c nhau. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu sau hai tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5, tr\u1ebb thu ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCha\/M\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn con n\u1eefa\u201d th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1ecf ra h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng khi \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ed3i. Tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp theo b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3m c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 theo d\u00f5i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a con. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo c\u00e1ch tr\u00ean. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c quan s\u00e1t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con khi chuy\u1ec3n qua ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i mong ch\u1edd c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3","ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t g\u1ecdi \u00fd v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m hai tu\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t g\u1ecdi \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCha\/M\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con theo m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00ea con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng cha\/ m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg con\u201d. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00f3i con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau - l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i, th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. N\u00eau con b\u1ea1n bir&c v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean Vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong c\u00e1ch cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110a s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f2i k\u1ef3 c\u1ed9c c\u1ea7n\u201d. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 sau: M\u1eb9: \u201cCh\u00e0o con y\u00eau. Con c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Tim: \u201cC\u1ee7ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0crng\u201d. M\u1eb9: \u201cS\u00e1ng nay \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1 vui l\u1eafm ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng con?\u201d. Tim: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g \u00ec\u201d. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eadn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac, tr\u1ebb v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho b\u1ea1n trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m tra li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng em hay kh\u00f4ng. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ed1i l\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ecf ra l\u1ea7m l\u00ec v\u00f3i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u00eau kh\u00edch. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCha\/M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg con kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu (c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn nh\u01b0ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu), b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eed th\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Khi \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i v\u1ecb th\u00e0nh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 s\u1edbm tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. N\u0103m l\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi ba tu\u1ed5i, Dan b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u201cth\u1eed th\u00e1ch\u201d b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, Jim - b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a Dan - c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con trai. Nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3, Jim nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con trai c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t, v \u00ec bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Dan l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb n\u00ean Jim quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u00e0nh ra c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh b\u1edfi nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con trai anh r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua ng\u00e0y ngh\u1ec9 cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n b\u00ean nhau, Jim \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 ra. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 sau, anh kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a Dan c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t n\u1eefa.","Bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, Jim c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 Dan c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Khi Jim s\u1eafp ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0, Dan \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi: - B\u1ed0 oi! B\u1ed0 d\u00e0nh cho con m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 v\u1edbi gi\u1ecdng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, Dan h\u1ecfi: - B\u1ed0 oi! B\u1ed0 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng? R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y b\u1edfi n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd. May thay, Jim hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Dan l\u00fac n\u00e0y n\u00ean anh n\u00f3i: - B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ed1 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdp ngay, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con ngay sau khi b\u1ed1 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, kho\u1ea3ng 9 gi\u1edd 30 ph\u00fat nh\u00e9. N\u1ebfu l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 Jim m\u1ea5t ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00f3i Dan v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB \u1ed1v\u1eeb a d\u00e0nh cho con c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00f4i! Con c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi g\u00ec n\u1eefa?\u201d th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd anh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdc th\u1ee7ng \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con trai m\u00e0 anh v\u1eeba m\u00f3i d\u00e0nh 24 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y. Tr& th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean g\u1ec9a \u0111a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef D\u00f9 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra v\u00f3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd do vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y \u00edt t\u1ed1n th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 roi v\u00e0o c\u00e1i b\u1eaby c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u1eb7ng qu\u00e0. Khi t\u1eb7ng cho con qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u1edf tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh th\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1eefu \u00edch trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f2n gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian l\u1eabn t\u00e2m s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i, ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00f3i v\u00f4 v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch cho \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0ong cho con c\u00e1i noi theo, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, con c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc!","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 8 K\u1ef6 LU\u1eacT V\u00c0 C\u00c1C NG\u00d4N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU T h e o b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb n\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c t\u1eeb sau \u0111\u00e2y mang ngh\u0129a ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c: t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, s\u1ef1 n\u1ed3ng th\u1eafm, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u00f2i, k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Tr\u00e1i v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Trong ti\u1ebfng Anh, t\u1eeb \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Hy L\u1ea1p, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u201chu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n\u201d. \u201cK\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d l\u00e0. m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1eeb \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng, d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o, u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y. K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh cho r\u1eb1ng \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u2019 v\u00e0 \u201ch\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t\u201d \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u00f3i nhau. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n cho r\u1eb1ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. \u0110\u00fang ra, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 huynh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ng\u00e0y b\u00e9, c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng xem nh\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. H\u1ecd th\u00edch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t v\u1edbi con thay v\u00ec s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi con c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y kh\u00f4ng b\u00f4i d\u1ea7u v\u1eady. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1ed3i ch\u1ebft m\u00e1y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i. V\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00ean trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u1eeb n\u00e0y. Trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfp theo, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Hy v\u1ecdng hai ch\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con em m\u00ecnh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.","D\u1ea1y con h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo t\u1eebng n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. Ng\u00e0y nay, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cloi l\u1ecfng\u201d cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00f3i gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1 cao \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed7i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p ri\u00eang. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u1edf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u1edf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c,ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i cho c\u1ea3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb b\u1edfi h\u1ecd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea3o d\u00ecu d\u1eaft c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Khi con c\u00f2n b\u00e9, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 ra nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p con l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eb1m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3m nguy c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd con nghi\u00eam ng\u1eb7t, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. Sau giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua. M\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 t\u01b0cmg \u1ee9ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u0111\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong con. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong. Khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd hon. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u01b0&c khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd xem \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ea7y phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n c\u0103m gh\u00e9t n\u00f3. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u00ec nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 mong \u0111\u1ef1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y nay. Cha c\u1ee7a Jason - m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i - l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0cmg nh\u00e2n, v \u00ec t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean cha Jason th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1eafng nh\u00e0. v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, \u00f4ng c\u1eaft c\u1ecf v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7t v\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y, Jason l\u1ea1i ra ngo\u00e0i","choi \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a Jason l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb n\u00ean c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha. \u00d4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ec7t l\u1ea3 khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 n\u00ean hi\u1ebfm khi d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian cho Jason v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m c\u1ee7a con. H\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho Jason lu\u00f4n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. \u00d4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap Jason tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, Jason v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u0103m gh\u00e9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tu\u00e2n l\u1eddi cha. v \u00ec r\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 cha n\u00ean c\u1eadu b\u00e9 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch l\u1ea9n tr\u00e1nh \u00f4ng. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha con Jason. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, Jason thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha n\u00ean em c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng cha. Ch\u1ec9 khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha, Jason m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Do \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a Jason tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng n\u00ean h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a cha ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u1edf c\u1eadu b\u00e9 hon l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho c\u1eadu \u00fd th\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a cha v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. Ch\u1ec9 khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00f3i con. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ea7n th\u00ec l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u00e3y mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con. Tr\u1ebby\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh \u01b0 th\u00ea n\u00e0o \u0110\u00ea \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00f3i con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh hai c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi sau: 1. Tr\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? 2 . Con t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n g\u00ec khi ch\u00e1u h\u00e0nh x\u1eed sai l\u1ec7ch? V\u00f3i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: \u201cTr\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d th\u00ec c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i l\u00e0: Tr\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u00e0y v\u00e0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, John c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi Marcia. V\u00ec mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00ean anh lu\u00f4n h\u00e0nh x\u1eed h\u00f2a nh\u00e3, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh Marcia. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng theo ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nhu c\u1ea7u gi\u1eef \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y. Khi \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1eafp c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd lo s\u1ee3 h\u1ecfi: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 c\u1ed1 y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. C\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1edfi nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em b\u1ecb tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m tra t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng","h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi con tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 c\u00f3 y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng?\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0: \u201cC\u1ed1 ch\u1ee9, b \u1ed1 m\u1eb9 y\u00eau con\u201d \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t an trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb. Khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con hon. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0ong con b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c khi con m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cB\u1ed1\/M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng?\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Th\u1eadt b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ee9 hai m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra khi d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0: \u201cCon t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n g\u00ec khi ch\u00e1u h\u00e0nh x\u1eed sai l\u1ec7ch?\u201d. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, khi con tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00ea l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00ea \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con?\u201d. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn ngay sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201c\u00c1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e0y nay, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. N\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, ta \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t th\u00ec v\u1ec1 sau, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a con. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ta n\u1ebfu ta x\u1eed l\u00fd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cTr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n g\u00ec?\u201d \\\\k c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdp l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i con em m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. S\u1edf d\u0129 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 do m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nhu c\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u1ea9n sau h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111 \u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con?\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y thay c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ea7n g \u00ec?\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Nguy\u00ean nh\u0103n c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh v\u1ec9 sai tr\u00e1i & tr\u1ebb: \u201cKhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng Khi tr\u1ebb h\u00e0nh x\u1eed sai tr\u00e1i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n: \u201cCon m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u1ea7n g\u00ec?\u201d v\u00e0. \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu c\u1ea7u y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt h\u01a1n. Khi \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y cho tr\u1ebb. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta x\u1eed l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch - ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u - ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 sau trong vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. \u1ede l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a tinh t\u1ebf trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. C\u00e1c em th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ecf ra \u1ed3n \u00e0o v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha","m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb, \u00f4m \u1ea5p y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 sao con b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con r\u1ed3i m\u00f3i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u1ea5n kh\u1eafc: c\u1eafc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u0111\u00fang. V\u1eady ta n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng? Sau khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec?\u201d v\u00e0. bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp: \u201c\u0110\u1eaby c\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ea ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00e0ng b\u00e9, h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, v \u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon m\u00ecnh c\u1ed1 b\u1ecb \u0111au \u0111&n g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 kh\u00e1t, \u0111\u00f3i, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi hay b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. H\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed5i h\u1eadn c\u1ee7\u00e2 tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tha. th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 N\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng li\u1ebfn quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo? Theo t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cLi\u1ec7u con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra h\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn xa hon n\u1eefa. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m n\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y vui m\u1eebng n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ecf ra \u0103n n\u0103n, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u01b0ong t\u00e2m tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn \u0111ang v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb (v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi) khi em c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi sai l\u1ec7ch? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i l\u01b0ong t\u00e2m? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. S\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn s\u1ebd ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u01b0ong t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp \u0111\u00f3, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. H\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. V\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng khoan dung v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1ecb tha. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 tha th\u1ee9 cho nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f3 qu\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. Khi \u1ea5y, tr\u00e1i tim tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch xin l\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00f3i con. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110 \u00ea giao d\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u00e0nh v\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a con Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean,","ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 n\u0103m ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecdn \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. Trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, hai ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p trung t\u00ednh. N\u1ebfu \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed5 sung \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. 1. \u0110\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea5u \u0110\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p quan tr\u1ecdng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb: \u201cNh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng nhung c\u01b0cmg quy\u1ebft\u201d. Khi \u0111\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u1edbi con, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ebfn con ba th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y\u201d. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a con: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3\u201d. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u1ee9 ba c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 mong con c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00f3 i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m khi b\u1ea1n trao cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y d\u00ecu d\u1eaft v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecdp l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ed7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a em. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i uy quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh hay s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng cha m\u1eb9 h\u01a1n khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea1y t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eb7t ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u cho con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con. L\u00f2i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u00f3i m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cao nh\u1ea5t. 2. \u0110\u01b0a ra m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh \u0110\u01b0a ra m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, l\u1eddi y\u1ebfu c\u1ea7u bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, n\u1ebfu y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh. M\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n gi\u1ecdng \u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00e2u. M\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfu c\u1ef1c b\u1edfi n\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i \u1edf tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Theo \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a ho\u1eb7c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i, tranh lu\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n: \u201cB \u1ed1m \u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c hay \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. B\u00f4'm\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mong \u0111\u1ee3i con g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con. B \u1ed1m \u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u201d.","B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n nh\u01b0 ra l\u1ec7nh, r\u1ea7y la hay \u0111ay nghi\u1ebfn th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng k\u00e9m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u00f2i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y con hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hcm. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh lu\u00f4n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 uy quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hoang ph\u00ed quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb: Vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng c\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gia t\u0103ng quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean & con l\u00f2ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft on s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. Tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ecdi cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong c\u00e1ch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. v \u00ec v\u1eady, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng c\u01b0ong quy\u1ebft v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft on b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00f3! 3. Khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n Vi\u1ec7c khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m theo h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t t\u1ecf ra h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf khi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng sai nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u00f3i mong \u0111\u1ef1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1edf tr\u1ebb l\u00ean hai tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd l\u00e0m theo y\u1ebfu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac tr\u1ebb ng\u1eebng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ecf v\u1ebb \u201cc\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00f2i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1edf tr\u1ebb l\u00ean hai tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea1t con v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp chen ngang v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. v \u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1edf tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh cha m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00f3i nhau. Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con ba tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u: \u201cT\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y n\u00e0o, con y\u00eau\u201d. Con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u ra l\u1ec7nh: \u201cT\u00f3i v\u00f3 i m\u1eb9 ngay n\u00e0o!\u201d. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa con b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d. \u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea1t con, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y k\u00ecm l\u1ea1i. Thay v\u00ec chu\u1ed1c l\u1ea5y r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng con, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 con th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u01b0\u01a1ng b\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con. Nh\u01b0ng trong ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u00e9 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1edf tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb l\u00fac tr\u1ebb l\u00ean hai tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c. Khi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng v\u1edbi con. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng khi tr\u1ebb \u201ctr\u00e1i t\u00ednh tr\u00e1i n\u1ebft\u201d \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5","d\u00e0ng x\u1eed l\u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 tr\u1ebb. 4. H\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t H\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 t\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t khi d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn, tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng n\u00ean h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00fang v\u00f3i t\u1ed9i danh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb em c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ee9 hai, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb em kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 l\u1eadp tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 khi l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ee9 ba, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00fac \u1ea5y. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u1eb9 tay hon. C\u00f2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng vui, h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t s\u1ebd n\u1eb7ng hon. v \u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i t\u00f9ng sai ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u201cc\u00e1i b\u1eaby h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t\u201d. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00f3i v\u1ef1\/ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0a h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp cho nhi\u1ec1u \u201ct\u1ed9i danh\u201d kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi th\u00eam c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y: \u201cCon m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. C\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ebb c\u00f4ng khai ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac. Nhung vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a \u201cc\u00e1i b\u1eaby h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t\u201d. N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngoan ngo\u00e3n hon (v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady) th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng khuy\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng hay m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh t\u1ecf ra ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp ph\u1ea3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eadt c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng d\u00f9ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Khi ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf ccm gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ti\u1ebfu c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. 5. T\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c C\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u00f3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c (ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a th\u00eam m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb), t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c (r\u00fat b\u1edbt m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c t\u1eeb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb) v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t (\u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb). M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t thanh k\u1eb9o khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 r\u00fat \u0111i quy\u1ec1n xem ti-vi khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t l\u00e0 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb \u1edf","trong ph\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i t\u1eadt c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ecf ra h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u1ebfu th\u01b0cmg. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 do n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n - tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ee9 hai, vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ed1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ee5 l\u1ee3i r\u1eb1ng em l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ec9?\u201d. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do tr\u00ean, h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 h\u1eefu \u00edch trong t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i. Ph\u1ed1i h\u1ee3p k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u1edbi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef r\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a. tr\u1ebb v \u00ec k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt t\u1ecf ra hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f3i con c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. v \u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 trong c\u1ea3 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda hay k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt tr\u1ebb. Larry - m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec7n - t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn. Anh r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con khi th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i. Sau khi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, anh nh\u1eadn ra ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con anh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Anh \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef n\u00e0y trong vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt con trai m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKevin \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m khi ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y \u1edf s\u00e2n sau. Th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y \u1edf s\u00e2n nh\u00e0 b\u1edfi c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u00e2n ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t d\u00e3y ph\u1ed1. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nguy c\u01a1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ch\u01a1i b\u00f3ng trong s\u00e2n sau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y Kevin \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng bay th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi cho v\u1ee3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. Sau khi tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a Kevin. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i game tr\u00ean m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh. T\u00f4i t\u00f3i b\u00ean Kevin, xoa nh\u1eb9 tay l\u00ean vai th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9. Kevin ng\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i, ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u201cKevin, b\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n \u00f4m con m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat,\u201d - t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o v\u00f3i th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9. T\u00f4i \u00f4m tr\u1ecdn Kevin trong tay v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c: \u201cTr\u01b0&c h\u1ebft, b\u00f4'mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ed1 y\u00eau con hom m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111 \u00f2 i\u201d. T\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u00f4m th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00fat, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi n\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i bu\u00f4ng Kevin ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u00fac n\u00e3y, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 k \u1ec3 v\u00f3 i b \u1ed1 v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n con l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng Scott. B \u1ed1 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00f4'nhumg ch\u1eafc con bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chcr\u00ec b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y trong s\u00e2n nh\u00e0, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00ec v\u1eady, d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng b\u00f4'v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea1t con v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 vi ph\u1ea1m quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3. Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chcr\u00ec b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y trong v\u00f2ng","hai tu\u1ea7n \u1ec9\u1ec5 t\u00f3i. V\u00e0 con ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111 \u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng Scott\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u00f4m ch\u1eb7t Kevin m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. V\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng ngh\u1eb9n ng\u00e0o, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cB \u1ed1y\u00eau con, con trai \u1ea1 !\u201d. Kevin \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u0169ng y\u00eau b\u00f4'l\u1eafm, b \u1ed1 o i\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng Kevin v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi Kevin tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9. Nh\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Kevin n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00e0 gi\u00fap th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 trong c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0m sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1eadt may l\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con trai m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.\u201d N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a Kevin l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 gi\u1eefa Larry v\u00e0 con trai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0: \u201cKevin, b\u1ed1 c\u1ea7n n\u1ed1i chuy\u1ec7n v \u00f3 i con trong v\u00e0i ph\u00fat. Tr\u01b0&c h\u1ebft, b\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n con bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u00f4'r\u1ea5t y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg con v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a con. B \u1ed1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1, con r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ngoi v\u00e0 vui choi gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed. Con th\u01b0\u1eddng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u00f4'm\u1eb9 khi choi b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1eafp s\u1eeda ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra h\u00f4m nay v\u00e0 b \u1ed1 mong \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. H\u1eb3n con bi\u1ebft \u00f4ng Scott \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi cho m\u1eb9 con chi\u1ec1u nay \u0111 \u1ec3 b\u00e1o tin con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng. B\u00f4'bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u00f4'nh\u01b0ng con c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft quy \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chcr\u00ec b\u00f3ng trong s\u00e2n sau c\u1ee7a b \u1ed1 m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? B \u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea1t con, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng v\u00e3ng l\u00f2i b\u00ean b \u1ed1 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi b\u00f3ng ch\u00e0y trong hai tu\u1ea7n l\u1ec5 n\u1eefa. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, con ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00ea s\u1eeda l\u1ea1i c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng Scott. B \u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn con, Kevin \u1ea1. B \u1ed1 bi\u1ebft con kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u1eeda s\u00f4 nh\u00e0 \u00f4ng Scott. Kevin, b \u1ed1 r\u1ea5t y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 con. B \u1ed1 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5 \u00edch t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y\u201d. Cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1eefa hai b\u1ed1 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i \u00f4m th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 Larry th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt con. S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf qua c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f3i con theo c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0o l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 sau khi \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Khi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn h\u01a1n khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t con. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh \u1ef5\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7\u00e2 con Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Trong \u0111a s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 cho vi\u1ec7c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt con. H\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng to l\u1edbn trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb.","Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0cmg c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xa l\u00e1nh \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ef1i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i l\u1ebd n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft t\u1ed9i con th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00ec m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau th\u01b0ong em. Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111au l\u00f2ng m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i th\u00ec n\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a Ben, m\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 cho r\u1eb1ng cha ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau em khi \u00f4ng la m\u1eafng em b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb cay nghi\u1ec7t: - N\u1ebfu ch\u00e1u l\u1ee1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 cha cho l\u00e0 sai tr\u00e1i, cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 la m\u1eafng ch\u00e1u h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd li\u1ec1n. Ch\u00e1u c\u00f2n nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, cha b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng v\u00ec \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin r\u1eb1ng con trai \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u kinh kh\u1ee7ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u00f4ng hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 cha ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau ch\u00e1u. Khi nghe Ben k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a em l\u00e0 l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i l\u1ebd n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Ben, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ngh\u0129 cha kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt con. N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian chia s\u1ebb th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea1t con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u00e1ch ly con m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh trong ph\u00f2ng. N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eefng v\u00f2ng \u00f4m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a Eric - c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Eric th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f2ng tay \u00f4m l\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 em c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, cha c\u1ee7a Eric l\u1ea1i l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2n roi l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p ph\u1ea1t n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i khi Eric kh\u00f4ng v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi. Tuy \u0111\u00f2n roi c\u1ee7a cha kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb7ng tay nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn Eric c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng gh\u00ea g\u1edbm. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, Eric \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c su\u1ed1t ba gi\u1edd li\u1ec1n sau khi b\u1ecb cha \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha Eric kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Eric - c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm - theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 Eric kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Cha Eric ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u00f4m con v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng sau khi \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u00f2n con b\u1edfi \u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, cha Eric \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 \u00f4ng cho l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa hai cha con. Trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ghi nh\u1edb m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ta s\u1ebd h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ta \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7","lu\u1eadt hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 9 VI\u1ec6C H\u1eccC C\u1eecA TR\u1eba V\u00c0 C\u00c1C N G\u00d4 N NG\u1eee T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU Ch, m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Ng\u00e0y nay c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u1edf tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i. Ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Burton white - nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp ki\u1ebfm gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c D\u1ef1 \u00e1n M\u1ea7u gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cNhi\u1ec1u d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y, \u0111 \u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1i \u0111a ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp thu n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u trong ba n\u0103m h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi\u201d. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u00fap n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1. Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu h\u1ee5t v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng cho c\u00e1c em. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt tr\u1ebb khi c\u1ea7n. H\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, c\u1ed9ng v\u00f3i c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Trong ch\u01b0ong 8, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 xem k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng song h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u1ede ch\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd xem x\u00e9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt: vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7. K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \u00edch trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i t\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i \u1ea5u th\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi em v\u00e0o l\u00f3p m\u1ed9t. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n th\u00edch h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi.Tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00f3i ni\u1ec1m khao kh\u00e1t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, tr\u1eeb phi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0m tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec b\u1ecb tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f2n roi khi\u1ebfn em s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. Quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a em kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c vui choi. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i xung quanh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0 b\u00f2, tr\u01b0\u1eddn, \u0111i","\u0111\u1ee9ng, \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m, n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a... Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Khi l\u00ean ba ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang hi\u1ebfm khi b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1ch choi \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n, l\u00e1i xe, l\u00e0m b\u00e1c s\u0129, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c em b\u00e9, n\u1ea5u \u0103n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quan s\u00e1t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn b\u00e9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t?\u201d v\u1ea7 \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 l\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t?\u201d, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. H \u1ecdc \u1edf nh\u00e0 Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh \u1edf tr\u1ebb n\u00ean di\u1ec5n ra trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb em kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qua n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh ho\u1ea1t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 k\u00edch th\u00edch s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c, th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c, x\u00fac gi\u00e1c, v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u1ee9u gi\u00e1c \u1edf tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng dam m\u00ea kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u1edf tr\u1ebb ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i. v \u00ec v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u ch\u1eef s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 em h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 sau. Khen ng\u1ef1i khi tr\u1ebb t\u1eadp n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb s\u1eeda sai c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. S\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef giao ti\u1ebfp phong ph\u00fa s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e2u t\u1eeb. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u1edf tr\u1ebb di\u1ec5n ra t\u01b0ong t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n n\u00e0y, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb thui ch\u1ed9t trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 sau. C\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp ph\u1ea7n nh\u1ecf cho m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng k\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf nh\u00e0. M\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng tu\u00e2n theo x\u00fac c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1edb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1edb c\u00e1c chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1edb ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00fac \u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u00fat ra qua c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u1ea5y.\u1ea0 f _ _ Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a em. v \u00ec v\u1eady, khi d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u1ecf ra t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, \u00e2n c\u1ea7n v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn em. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n thay v\u00ec ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n v\u00e0 ch\u00ea bai tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa ti\u1ebfp thu n\u1eefa. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a then ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 chi ph\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9.","Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebbph\u1eaft tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1eddi s\u1eafng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00fang theo \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy s\u1ebd t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1, trong \u0111\u00f3 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. C\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t hon. V\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1edf tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u1edf c\u00e1c em. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cti\u1ebfp l\u1eeda\u201d h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang c\u1ea3m x\u00fac\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau - c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm, l\u00f2i khen ng\u1ee3i, th\u00f2i gian chia s\u1ebb, qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y - c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i, khi ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfn d\u00e0nh cho con c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i con b\u1eb1ng n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u1ebfu m\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u \u0103n - m\u1eb7c - \u1edf v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb thui ch\u1ed9t. Vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea3 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u1eabn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u1ed3ng \u1ea5m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra nguy c\u01a1 t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con em. S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. M\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t \u1edf nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 ly th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c ly h\u00f4n. Khi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1, tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 theo \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf em c\u0169ng c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t. Tr\u1ebb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c hoang mang, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi em t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con c\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nu\u00f4i con m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4i ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n cho con (Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n). Cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb","c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 v\u01b0on xa hon n\u1eefa tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i B\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Hoa K\u1ef3 Richard Riley t\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1eaft x\u00edch trong s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c M \u1ef9\u201d. M\u1ed9t nghi\u1ebfn c\u1ee9u th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u0103m 1996 nh\u1eb1m ki\u1ec3m tra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao hon nh\u1eefng em kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nghi\u1ebfn c\u1ee9u t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t tr\u00ean to\u00e0n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng kh\u1ea3 quan ch\u00fat n\u00e0o: \u201cN\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p trung h\u1ecdc \u1edeM\u1ef9 th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t trong s\u1ed1 c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p\u201d. Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o Laurence Steinberg c\u1ee7a t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Beyond the Classroom \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i t\u1ed5 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0cmg \u1edf M \u1ef9 l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g \u00ec?\u201d. Steinberg, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Tem- ple, tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn gi\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng l\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc. S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u00edt \u1ecfi Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Steinberg th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean 20.000 h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 kinh ng\u1ea1c. Hai ph\u1ea7n ba h\u1ecdc sinh trung h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e1c em m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Ph\u00e2n n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 c\u00e1c em b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba h\u1ecdc sinh cho bi\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 c\u00e1c em thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ma t\u00fay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tr\u00ean to\u00e0n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1996 \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111au l\u00f2ng. Hai ph\u1ea7n ba c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1eebng th\u1eed qua ch\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n sa c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh d\u00ednh l\u00edu \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t g\u00e2y nghi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n n\u00e0y, \u01a1oseph Cali\u00edano - \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n Trung t\u00e2m Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Columbia v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp - n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u01b0cmg quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch. \u0110\u00e1ng l\u00fd h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i b\u00e0ng quan n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g \u00ec\u201d. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 to l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb hai nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n: \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng v\u00e0 em kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. v \u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a em ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea7m. Trong vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y con ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. Khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf tr\u1ebb th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. Nhi\u1ec1u nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb.","S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u00ecri cha Ng\u00e0y nay, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i. M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 11 n\u0103m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc North Carolina cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 do cha em \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00f3i em. Cu\u1ed9c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean 584 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi tr\u1ebb l\u00ean 7 - 1 1 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 18 - 22 tu\u1ed5i. Kathleen M. Harris - m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u - nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i cha bao nhi\u00eau, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng cao b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau. Ngo\u00e0i ra, vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft v\u00f3i cha s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng l\u1ecdi th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n - bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con em m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadn l\u1ef1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a con. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a then ch\u1ed1t gi\u00fap con tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c. Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb h\u00e3\u1ef5lo \u00e2u Nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, khi b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong em ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t. Khi \u1ea5y, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n ra li\u1ebfn t\u1ee5c th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u1edf em nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. S\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 n\u1ed9i dung v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh sang tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Khi kh\u00f4ng theo k\u1ecbp b\u01b0\u1edbc chuy\u1ec3n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh kh\u00e1c. Em kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n n\u1ed9i dung b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ed3ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00ec em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh thua k\u00e9m b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a. N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c nhanh ch\u00f3ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd khi con tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con b\u1ea1n trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a em. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf \u00e2u lo, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y.","M\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u00f3t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n c\u00f9ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin s\u1ebd gia t\u0103ng. Khi \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t hon. \u0110 \u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con c\u00e1i M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u0103n kho\u0103n l\u00e0: \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00ea \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con c\u00e1i?\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con tr\u1ebb sau khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ccm gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hai nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con tr\u1ebb. (B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 hon v\u1ec1 con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong ch\u01b0ong ti\u1ebfp theo). Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, tr\u1eeb phi tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0ong th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. N\u1ebfu \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u1ed9t b\u00ed quy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch sfr th\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap cho con s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m (v\u00e0 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft) b\u1eb1ng hai c\u00e1ch. C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con \u0111i theo h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y con th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00f3i \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean con \u0111i theo s\u1edf th\u00edch \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u then ch\u1ed1t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. \u0110e con ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00ea s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p con \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3, con b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra g\u1ecdi \u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c con l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. V\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 13 \u0111\u1ebfn 15 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c xem l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.","H\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u1edf tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eb1m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. \u1ede \u0111a s\u1ed1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1. V\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00ea hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 gi\u00f9m con v\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00f3 i ch\u00ednh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng \u00edt c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n n\u00e2ng cao tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a con, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp gi\u00f9m con m\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ebf t\u1eafc tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i to\u00e1n kh\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m h\u1ed9 con m\u00e0 h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd d\u1ea1ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp n\u00e0y. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0i to\u00e1n \u0111\u00f3. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c cho con th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, mi\u1ec5n sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh tham gia qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a con, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch chuy\u1ec3n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y sang cho con. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i b\u1ecb s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 em \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u xa l\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn lu\u00f4n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a em. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00ec ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con em m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u hon. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai l\u1ea7m. \u00c1 p d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a. tr\u1ebb Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao nh\u1ea5t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u khi con tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch trong ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng xem x\u00e9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 Leigh Ann - 9 tu\u1ed5i. Sau khi bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u0103m ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a hai m\u1eb9 con. Ch\u1ecb t\u00e2m s\u1ef1: - Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 tin l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Leigh \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady. M\u1ed9t","ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho bi\u1ebft hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 sau khi con tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. T\u00f4i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng theo b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ngay t\u1ee9c th\u00ec. Ch\u1ecb k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i: - Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 l\u00fac 7 gi\u1edd, xe bu\u00fdt \u0111\u00f3n Leigh \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o l\u00fac 7 gi\u1edd 30 ph\u00fat, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111i l\u00e0m kho\u1ea3ng 7 gi\u1edd 50 ph\u00fat. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ph\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp \u00fd ngh\u0129a duy nh\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u00f2i kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 ch\u00e0o t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t nhau. Bi\u1ebft b\u00e9 Leigh Ann \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi con g\u00e1i: - N\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb hon th\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec n\u00e0o? - M\u1eb9 oi, con mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con b\u1eefa s\u00e1ng m\u00e0 con th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho con. D\u00f9 r\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ngay. Bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau, ch\u1ecb chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho con b\u1eefa \u0103n s\u00e1ng th\u1eadt ngon l\u00e0nh. Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ch\u1ecb nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a Leigh. Con b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m on m\u1eb9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111i h\u1ecdc trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb. \u201cBa ng\u00e0y sau, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadn t\u1ee5y \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00e1u \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1. Ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u00edt b\u00e1nh quy. Khi Leigh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i ch\u00e1u: \u201cLeigh \u00e0, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho con m\u1ed9t \u00edt b\u00e1nh quy. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 ngcr\u00ec v\u00e0 \u0103n m\u1ed9t \u00edt b\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00e1u m\u1ed9t ly s\u1eefa v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f9ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra trong ng\u00e0y. Bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u h\u00f4m sau, t\u00f4i s\u1eeda chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m m\u00f3i cho Leigh. Khi con b\u00e9 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cCon y\u00eau, h\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eeda l\u1ea1i cho con chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o \u0111\u1ea7m. Con h\u00e3y m\u1eb7c th\u1eed v\u00e0o xem c\u00f3 v\u1eeba v\u00f3 i con kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e9\u201d. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, con b\u00e9 \u00f4m h\u00f4n t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u1ea3m 071 m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Leigh, ghi v\u00e0o trong m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u1ed5 v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ed1n th\u00e1ng. Kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 Leigh h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hon. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y con b\u00e9 vui v\u1ebb hon v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai m\u1eb9 con c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean g\u1ea7n g\u0169i hon.\u201d N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Leigh Ann l\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u00e2u y\u1ebfm y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m h\u00f4n \u00e2u y\u1ebfm khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 v\u00f2ng tay y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf nh\u00e0 khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u00ec h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con ngay khi b\u1ea1n b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u00e0. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi con","v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c cho con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u1eabn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng IO S\u1ef1 GI\u1eacN D \u1eef V\u00c0 T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU S \u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i nhau h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddnG d\u1ec5 t\u1ecf ra t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ta y\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn th\u01b0\u1eddng song h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng nhau. Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f4i khi s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u01a1i b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n mang l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho ai \u0111\u00f3 (bao g\u1ed3m con b\u1ea1n). M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ed1i cao v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sai tr\u00e1i. \u1ede M\u1ef9, c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i MADD (H\u1ed9i c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i x\u1ebf say r\u01b0\u1ee3u) sau khi m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i x\u1ebf say r\u01b0\u1ee3u g\u00e2y ra c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t em nh\u1ecf. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c b\u1edfi c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y s\u1ee9c \u00e9p \u0111\u00ea ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 lu\u1eadt nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i xe say r\u01b0\u1ee3u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00e1c, s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u00e0 n\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta. Khi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, ho\u1eb7c ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa sai l\u1ea7m b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u00edch k\u1ef7. M \u1ed1i ngu\u1ef5 h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a. s\u1ef1gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt am hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u1ea1i sao ta l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ra sao hay l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i hi\u1ec3m nguy l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u1ed1t c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc","r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb - t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 xung quanh, v \u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea3 trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u1eabn t\u01b0ong lai. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tin m\u00f9ng l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra thu\u1eadn l\u1ecdi hon. Khi \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n v\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hon. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd t\u1ed1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do ph\u1ea7n l\u00f3n c\u00e1c con gi\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec3n c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn t\u1eeb b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t sang ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00f3i v\u1ef1\/ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, Je ff \u01a1ackson ng\u1ed3i xem ti-vi trong ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch. V\u1ef1 anh - Ellen, c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n trong b\u1ebfp. Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. M\u1ed9t l\u00fac sau, c\u1eadu con trai c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u01b0\u1edbc xu\u1ed1ng h\u1ecfi xin m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t \u00edt b\u00e1nh quy. v \u00ec \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng vui n\u00ean Ellen \u0111\u00e1p: - T\u1ed1i nay con kh\u00f4ng \u0103n h\u1ebft ph\u1ea7n \u0103n c\u1ee7a con. v \u00ec th\u1ebf con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec n\u1eefa. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t thanh k\u1eb9o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Cha em h\u1ecfi: - Con l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3? Con kh\u00f4ng nghe m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n g\u00ec c\u1ea3 sao? Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0103n k\u1eb9o! C\u1eadu b\u00e9 r\u00f2i kh\u1ecfi ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 n\u0103m ph\u00fat sau th\u00ec quay l\u1ea1i v\u00f3i qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng r\u1ed5 tr\u00ean tay. C\u1eadu h\u1ecfi: - Con \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Bobby choi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1? - Kh\u00f4ng, con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Bobby. - Je ff tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i con, gi\u1ecdng gay g\u1eaft. - Con ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. M\u00e0 con ng\u01b0ng ngay vi\u1ec7c t\u00e2ng b\u00f3ng \u0111i! C\u1eadu con trai \u00f4m qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp: - M\u1eb9 oi, con qu\u00ean mang s\u00e1ch b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 r\u1ed3i. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n Bobby m\u01b0\u1ee3n s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1? V\u1eeba n\u00f3i, c\u1eadu v\u1eeba t\u00e2ng b\u00f3ng. Ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, qu\u1ea3 b\u00f3ng roi xu\u1ed1ng b\u00e0n \u0103n l\u00e0m chi\u1ebfc c\u1ed1c roi","xu\u1ed1ng n\u1ec1n nh\u00e0, v\u1ee1 tan t\u00e0nh. Je ff nghe th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng v\u1ee1 v\u1ed9i b\u01b0\u1edbc ngay v\u00e0o b\u1ebfp: - Cha \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o con \u0111\u1eebng t\u00e2ng b\u00f3ng co- m\u00e0! Ngay sau \u0111\u00f3, anh n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y c\u00e1nh tay con trai, l\u00f4i x\u1ec1nh x\u1ec7ch v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y con ng\u1ed3i v\u1eadt xu\u1ed1ng n\u1ec1n nh\u00e0, h\u00e9t l\u00ean: - Cha \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i h\u1ea3? Con c\u00f3 nghe l\u00f2i cha n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng? Ellen ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4m con, b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c: - Anh th\u00f4i ngay \u0111i. Anh l\u00e0m con ch\u1ebft m\u1ea5t! Je ff t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn ng\u1ea3 l\u01b0ng xu\u1ed1ng gh\u1ebf, ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c xem ti-vi. C\u1eadu con trai ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3c to l\u00ean c\u00f2n Ellen c\u0169ng b\u1ecf v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng. Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 hon tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac bao tr\u00f9m trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh Je ff l\u00fac n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. Ellen t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn v\u00f3i Je ff v\u00ec anh kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap ch\u1ecb r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n b\u00e1t. Je ff gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00f3i con trai v\u00ec c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi anh. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, c\u1eadu con trai l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn d\u1eef nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec cha \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng. V\u00e0 Ellen ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c gi\u1eadn ch\u1ed3ng v\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o v\u00f3i con. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a Je ff ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i hon. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft c\u1eadu con trai s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00f3i con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sau \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i cha v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a em v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 sau. V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh Je ff trong m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c. Sau b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, Ellen d\u1ecdn ch\u00e9n v\u00e0o b\u1ed3n r\u1ed3i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ed3ng. Sau m\u1ed9t l\u00fac tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a anh, ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i: - Em c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i anh. Nh\u01b0ng em mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft l\u00fac n\u00e0y anh c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay kh\u00f4ng, hay l\u00e0 em s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tivi k\u1ebft th\u00fac. Sau \u0111\u00f3, Ellen quay tr\u1edf v\u00e0o b\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c \u0111i qua m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1c ng\u1ed3i ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Khi ch\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, Ellen c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng khi anh kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap ch\u1ecb d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p v\u00e0 r\u1eeda ch\u00e9n b\u00e1t sau b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i, trong khi ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i n\u1eefa. Ellen n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecb mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf anh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa trong th\u00f2i gian s\u1eafp t\u1edbi. N\u1ebfu Ellen v\u00e0 Je ff trao \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0103n b\u00e1nh quy c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu con trai c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. V\u00e0 khi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 t\u00e2ng b\u00f3ng trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai, Je ff c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o, thu tr\u00e1i banh c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9. Sau khi \u0111\u01b0a ra h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t, anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a con trai th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu Je ff l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c","hon r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u00f4ng tin h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 \u00edch. D\u1ea1y con r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh trung th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb - v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu trung th\u1ef1c \u1edd tr\u1ebb khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean. C\u00e0ng x\u1eed l\u00fd k\u00e9m con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, em c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u00ea n\u00f3i l\u00e0 n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u1eed l\u00fd s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn v\u00e0 nguy h\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. Ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m x\u1ea3y ra khi ta th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp, \u201cth\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u01b0ong quy\u1ebft l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9. Chuck - m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 15 tu\u1ed5i - kh\u00e1 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, em \u0111\u1ec1u chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f3p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed7i khi gi\u1eadn cha m\u1eb9, Chuck \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m. H\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a Chuck l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. C\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn, khi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u1eb3ng","h\u1ea1n, v\u00f3i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a Chuck, vi\u1ec7c c\u1eadu b\u00e9 b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 th\u1ea5p l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 l\u00fd. Th\u1ee9 hai, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00ea nghi ng\u1edd con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, d\u00f9 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu thay \u0111\u1ed5i. M\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap Chuck c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a em. H\u1ecd gi\u00fap Chuck l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, h\u1ee9a th\u01b0\u1edfng cho c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u1ebfu c\u1eadu \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed h\u1ecd c\u00f2n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u1eadu b\u00e9. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, m\u1ed7i bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng trong m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c, Chuck mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng m\u1ecdi bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 b\u1edfi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a em ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. Th\u1ee9 ba, d\u00f9 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m khi\u1ebfn cho cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a em s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. S\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u00e2m trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng 13 \u0111\u1ebfn 15 tu\u1ed5i. \u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u1edf tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i cho ai. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef theo c\u00e1ch ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a em. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i s\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng, con c\u00e1i. Khi \u1edf tu\u1ed5i con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. \u1ede n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n, m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 gi\u1eadn cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eaft con b\u00f2 c\u00e1i nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e1n tr\u1ea1i. \u1ede th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ef1m \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y bugi xe c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i len l\u00e9n tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 xe k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn \u1ea5y. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0y nay, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hon. \u0110\u00f4i khi, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c nguy hi\u1ec3m: h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh sa s\u00fat, h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, ma t\u00fay, b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i... V\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c em \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y th\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f2i em c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Trong vai tr\u00f2 cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i v\u00f3i h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea5n gi\u1ea5y v\u1ec7 sinh l\u00ean tr\u00ean c\u00e0nh c\u00e2y hay kh\u00f4ng d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng \u1ed1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 h\u1ea1i. T\u01b0ong t\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 leo n\u00fai, \u0111\u1ea1p xe \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i... c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n khao kh\u00e1t m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch su\u00f4n s\u1ebb. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap con v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc qua tu\u1ed5i 17. Tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng khi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef","c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0a v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y n\u00ean h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m. \u0110a s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m khi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i \u1edf con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 sai tr\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri\u1ec7t ti\u00eau b\u1eb1ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. Ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mang l\u1ea1i t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng b\u1edfi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. V\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 em \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. H\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, trong c\u00f4ng s\u1edf v\u00e0 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 sau. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. S\u1edbm d\u1ea1y con c\u1ea5ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean m\u00f3i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef. D\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mong \u0111\u1ef1i con c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u1edf th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u00e1u hay b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i nhung b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1ea1y con ngay t\u1eeb giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y. D\u1ea1y con ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. Tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qua l\u00f2i n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 x\u1eed l\u00fd. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf ch\u00fang. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i con gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u hon h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi con n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. Khi con l\u00ean s\u00e1u ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3y tu\u1ed5i, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n v\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0103n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y gi\u1eef cho \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d c\u1ee7a em tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Khi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m \u0111ang \u0111\u00e2m ch\u1ed3i b\u00e9n r\u1ec5 trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201cCha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 y\u00eau con kh\u00f4ng?\u201d n\u1eefa. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u201ckhoang t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m\u201d tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n duy nh\u1ea5t g\u00e2y ra h\u00e0nh vi sai tr\u00e1i hay s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u1edf tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t. Ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Khi b\u1ea1n tr\u00fat s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean con, c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u1ea5m v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m, v \u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i b\u1ed9c b\u1ea1ch t\u00e2m s\u1ef1. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0 khi nghe con tr\u1ebb t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5","huynh l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00f3i con: \u201cSao con d\u00e1m \u0103n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00f3 i cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eady h\u1ea3? Con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v \u00f3 i cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, hi\u1ec3u ch\u01b0a?\u201d. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 hai s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn: ho\u1eb7c v\u00e2ng l\u00f2i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ra s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tu\u00e2n l\u00f2i cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mong \u0111\u1ef1i, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua. c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con gi\u1eadn d\u1eef c\u1ee7a con em m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap cho con v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua t\u1eebng n\u1ea5c m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a Chi\u1ebfc thang Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb chuy\u1ec3n t\u1eeb h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 sang c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7, l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Do qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n bi\u1ebfn \u1edf tr\u1ebb di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00e1 ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p n\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1edf tr\u1ebb \/ Chi\u00eac thanggi\u1eadn d\u1eef T\u00cdCH c\u1ef1c 1. D\u1ec4 CH\u1ecaU - T\u00ccM GI\u1ea2I PH\u00c1P - T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O s \u1ef1 GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - K\u00ccM N\u00c9N \u0110\u1ec2 KH\u00d4NG THAN PHI\u1ec0N - SUY NGH\u0128 L\u00d4-GIC. 2. D\u1ec4 CH\u1ecaU - T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O s \u1ef1 GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - K\u00ccM N\u00c9N \u0110\u1ec2 KH\u00d4NG THAN PHI\u1ec0N - SUY NGH\u0128 L\u00d4-GIC. N\u1eecA T\u00cdCH c\u1ef1c N\u1eecA TI\u00caU c\u1ef1c 3. T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O S \u1ef1 GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - K\u00ccM N\u00c9N \u0110\u1ec2 KH\u00d4NG THAN PHI\u1ec0N - SUY NGH\u0128 L\u00d4-GIC - B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng. 4. K\u00ccM N\u00c9N \u0110\u1ec2 KH\u00d4NG THAN PHI\u1ec0N - SUY NGH\u0128 L\u00d4-GIC - Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c. 5. T\u1eacP TRUNG V\u00c0O S \u1ef1 GI\u1eacN D\u1eee - K\u00ccM N\u00c9N \u0110\u1ec2 KH\u00d4NG THAN PHI\u1ec0N - SUY NGH\u0128 L\u00d4-GIC - Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - D\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3. 6. SUY NGH\u0128 C\u00d3 L\u00d4-GIC - Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch. B\u1ea4 T\u0110\u1ea6 u TI\u00caU c \u1ef1 c 7. Kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, to ti\u1ebfng - Thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c - B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch - C\u01b0 x\u1eed l\u1ed7 m\u00e3ng."]