A GUIDE OF 26th

A GUIDE OF 26TH Written by Aldrin & Naomi

How did both of you met? - i think we both know the answer for this. i met the love of my life through the autobase and i message him through dm and that’s how we got close.

- Our story is simple just like any other love story in the novels or movies, started from a mere friends to something special. The night when, both of us were searching for a companion during the ungodly hour was the started of everything. Back then, our conversation was awkward and stiff at first but we were getting along and vibe very well since then. I met the love of my life, through autobase. If she didn’t send any menfess that day, I don’t think I will able to meet such a great loving person like her here. I’m so grateful that I finally found, the missing piece I’ve been searching for that day.

October 25, 2020 When we first met, I didn’t want to get involved with anyone. I didn’t have the time or energy and I wasn’t sure that I was ready for it. But you were so good to me, and I got swept up in that. And little by little, I found myself falling in love with you.

What makes you lay your eyes on each other? — Honestly , as cliche as it might sounds but she effortlessly makes me fall for her even just by her small actions. I couldn’t remember exactly when, but it was when her account got suspended-she texted and reached me out saying something happened to her account. The thing that makes me lay my eyes on her here was because, I’m one of those earlier people whose she followed along with her close one and that makes me feels happy-how she still remembered me even though we just met. And when she asked me for a hug, that makes my heart open up for her. We talked, shared things that worried us-our problems and understanding each other. I love to see the way she interact with her friends on timeline, the silly side of her-I knew that she is something else and can match me well. And, I’m right. - i don’t remember the exact moment but if i have to pick some then it will be our first hug because i badly need it. that time our relationship was truly platonic yet you gave me a tight hug and even comforting words. the other one is when my account got suspended and the infamous “whose ass should i kick today”.

I close my eyes as I lay next to you, and I think about how much I love you. And I knew you were special the first time I laid my eyes on you. -ALDRIN



What is your reaction when received the confession? - This might be a little secret between us, we both knew that she was the one who confessed to me about her feelings first and I truly appreciate that. That day, it shocked me, because I’ve been preparing something behind her-a confession that will makes her officially mine . But, we talked about that and I told her to give me a little time because I haven’t finish-preparing that something for her. It still funny, reminiscing this moment back then. I haven’t told her before about this, but the way she came up with the confession was so cute for me. I truly adore her for that. On 26th November 2020, I officially asked her to be my girlfriend. - it was unexpected of course. we were listening at my worst when you suddenly dipped and gone. when i opened my twitter, that’s when i realized the chaos that you cause for everyone. i was having a bad day so your confession really made my night. i couldn’t stop smiling at the thought of calling you mine officially. it was truly unforgettable. the whole night was magical for me. simple yet heartwarming

Why were you saying yes on the confession ? - we both took our time in developing our relationship. it took us one whole month to finally make everything official. we both were not ready, i was busy with my studies and my heart was not ready for a relationship. you waited for me.. for two weeks and i couldn’t be more grateful than that. — The day when she said yes was the best day of my life. It stills feels surreal how I finally get to call her mine, my one and only girlfriend since then. The strings finally attached to us, after a month of getting to know each other.

Things that you love about each other? - as if you might know, i’m not the type that like the grand gesture kinda thing or big presents. i like someone that gives me the little things in life that might look insignificant for others but meaningful to me. just take this afternoon as an example, you can just easily say no or give me a late news yet you’re there multitasking for the favor that i asked you for. i love how you always try to get into my interest even though you might not be into it (foods). every time i talked to you about my feelings, you always listen to it even though you yourself might be in a worse position, yet you never diminish how i feel. you always remember the things that i like and manage to you use them to calm me down and distract my scary thoughts. the little notes that you wrote, i love them. it’s adorable. it might be cheesy for some but it shows to me that you really appreciate my presence in your life

- I do believe when people said, we don’t need reason to love someone. I always thought that it’s cliche and doesn’t fit well for me. It wasn’t until, I decided not to get into relationship with someone anymore. And I promise that to myself, never attached to people. But, from our ordinary friendship to something more. I do realized something. You just change me. You show me something that someone haven’t show it before. If you asked me what’s that one thing I love about you, it will be your sincerity and honesty. I don’t know why, but I am able to get along with you very well since started. At first, I thought you will be just another friend of mine. But, as the time goes by. I am able to treasure your personality and everything inside you. And that makes me love you even more. You always appears as someone who is happy go lucky to people around you, but there’s this one side that people never see. The side of you that need to be protected and care with lots of love. And that makes me want to love you even more. Because, at some point I can relate with that. And, I love how you are always one more step ahead me. I love how you guide me to be more comfortable, with things and myself. I love how you change me to be a better me. Everything that you did was an inspiration to me. About your studies and everything, I always look up on you. I do believe there’s this side of you that I haven’t treasure yet but I will sooner or later. If you asked me, why? It’s simply because you are different. You makes me comfortable just like my own blanket. I never open up like this to people before but you did. And I wonder if you ever have special magic in yours. I hope you know that I love you just the way you are. You are completing me. And losing you before feels like, losing another part of me. Pardon, that cheesy part but that’s what I feel whenever I’m with you. Whenever I treat you bad, I feels like I don’t deserve you.



How does it feels like to date each other? — I could make a whole essay on how it feels like to date her. From the little things to the biggest thing that she ever did to me in my life. She could be my lover, mom, best friend, sister and everything you asked for. She always help me, at my worst. She gives me the best laugh, the best words of affirmation, the best medicine, and the best herself. Of course, just like in any other relationship there will always be ups and downs. We’ve been there, for times. And yet, we are together again, after times of heartbreak. I don’t know how, but even if I say no or push her away-deep inside my heart there’s something whispering to me that I shouldn’t let her go. The thing that I treasure the most when dating her was, how we handled things at the end of the day. It may took times, but we will directly says our honest feelings or what we currently feels about our relationship to each other. Communication is the key, and that’s what makes us stay where we are now. I treasure every moments together with her, either the good or bad one. It’s still have our memories in it. — just like any other relationship, we’ve been through a lot of ups and downs. especially at the few months before our breakups. we would constantly and it was usually the same stuff again and again. is there any side that i hate from you? of course. but the loves that you gave me surpassed all of those bad memories i had. others might see it as bad, but i treasure every minutes of it. even the bad.

If I date you I want to know you. I don’t mean your favorite color, food, and your middle name. I want to know those, too, but I mean, tell me about the time you broke your arm learning to ride a bike. Tell me the nightmares you have, the struggles you've dealt with, if you ever feel alone. Tell me if there's a voice in your head that tells you \"you're not good enough\". Tell me your secrets, your thoughts, about your childhood and everything about yourself.

Something you would like to say to each other? - please be happy. it truly pains my heart whenever you’re feeling down. not only it’s because of your words and you pushing me down, but my heart hurts that you feel like you have to handle everything by yourself while there are many others in your surrounding who truly care for you and would help you out of your own pain and misery. everything might not be okay but i’m here for you, even when we’re not together anymore.

— I’m sorry that I said those hurtful and means things to you, and I’m sorry that I push you away when you offered to help me. It’s there, inside me. It’s the personality that I’ve been keep inside me. But, when I said I promises you that I’m gonna change for you-for both of us, I still hold the promises. I may-not fully changed but just like what you said before, slowly but surely. I’m getting better than before, and I can confidently says-I’m not the person who you used to know before. The person who used to throw everything to you here and there. I treasure you just like how you treasure me. You are part of me and I shouldn’t treat you bad. I want to see you smiles way more than the time you shedding your tears. Your happiness are mine too, and we can get through this together once again. Please have a faith in me, I won’t take you for granted. And I love you so much.

I love watching the sun set, I love moon and star gazing too. But if I’m being honest, my favorite view is you.

The few hours I have spent with you are worth as much as the thousands of hours I have spent without you.

Do you still remember the time where you told me that, it will be cute if we start again on 26-which is our monthsary date? Nyom, a relationship ends because we’ve outgrown it.And no relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. But, the love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. And that’s the key. It’s like a big pie chart, and the love in a relationship has to be the biggest piece. Love can make up for a lot. It can begin again because us, as two, can fill the new shape. Well, I’m not a genie but I can grant your wish. Even though it may have ended, it doesn’t mean that there is still not hope for it starting again.You can tell that two persons are meant for each other when they fight all the time, leave then just keep coming back to forgive each other and look forward for the best.With this book that I wrote and make for you, I just want you to know that I’m ready and want to start everything again with you. I choose you. And I’ll choose you, over and over and over. Without pause, without a doubt, in a heartbeat. I’ll keep choosing you. Only if you want to continue the journey together with me. And celebrate our 8th monthsary together today.

The end WRITTEN BY ALDRIN AND NAOMI