Me-luon-dong-hanh-cung-con-Duong-Van

["Trong 22 n\u0103m, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con trai c\u00f3 \u201cT\u00ecnh th\u00e2n b\u00ean tr\u00e1i, t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i, \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00f4 cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y t\u1ecfa ng\u00e1t h\u01b0ong thom\u201d(T\u00f4i m\u01b0\u1ee3n c\u00e2u thcr c\u1ee7a B\u0103ng T\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 mi\u00eau t\u1ea3). V\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00ean m\u00f3i c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. Tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng ng\u00e0y s&m t\u1ed1i b\u00ean nhau Tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u0111\u00f4ng h\u00e8 c\u00f3 nhau Tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3n m\u1eb7t tr\u00f2i m\u1ecdc Tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y l\u1ebb loi. \u00d4n l\u1ea1i thu\u1edf h\u00e0n vi, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac Mong b\u1ea1n tung c\u00e1nh bay xa h\u01a1n Trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m, c\u00f3 l\u00f2i ch\u00fac ph\u00fac ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Xin t\u1eb7ng b\u00e0i h\u00e1t Tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00f3i t\u00f4i - con trai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i l\u1eadp nghi\u1ec7p, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i. Xu\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i, trong v\u01b0\u1eddn tr\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 s\u1eafc xu\u00e2n l\u00e0 b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a 20.000 sinh vi\u00ean h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111ang m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi t\u00f4i... T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f9ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u00e9 con, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y m\u00f3i l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u...\u201d.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 6 Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai p h \u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb em d\u00f9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111 \u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i cho ng\u01b0\u00f2i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy lu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y\u201d c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi giang. Th\u1eddigi\u00e3n d\u00e0nh cho con d\u00f9 \u00edt nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c & c\u00f4ng ty n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, con t\u00f4i m \u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 7 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, sau kh\u1ec9 h\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian ngh\u1ec9 sinh con, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u1eadt r\u1ed9n v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m, c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c, con ph\u1ea3i g\u1eedi cho b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u00f4ng. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean 3, con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian cho con, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, con c\u00e1i, g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng hai \u0111\u1ea7u khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3ph\u00e2n th\u00e2n. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u00f5ng m\u1ed9 ch\u1ecb v\u00ec ch\u1ecb r\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m \u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn t\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 hai vai tr\u00f2? Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con, th\u1eddi gian d\u00f9 \u00edt nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ef1ng T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n sau khi l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc 3 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 \u1edf b\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n. Vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean con l\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. D\u00f9 m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u1edf b\u00ean con, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu trong ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1eadn t\u00e2m h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng l\u1eafng nghe con, quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 t\u1ec9 t\u00ea v\u00f3 i con, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n d\u00e0nh cho con th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp cho con ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean con r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, ca th\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 con. T\u00f4i quen m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u1eadu con trai 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ch\u1ee7 ch\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i. Khi con trai ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 5 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m; b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea7y 8 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef r\u1ea5t y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i, vui t\u00ednh, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa","c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, thu\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c theo gi\u1edd, v\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0ng ng\u0103n n\u1eafp, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o ra vi\u1ec7c \u1ea5y, t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng vui v\u1ebb, y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00f3i con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u1eadu con trai 3 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1u kh\u1ec9nh, th\u00f4ng minh, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f2 i khen do \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt trong c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c. C\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0m l\u00e0: D\u00f9 b\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh ra m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean con; d\u00f9 \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c xa \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn con hi\u1ec3u hay kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn theo s\u00e1t b\u00ean con. Khi \u1edf b\u00ean con, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y t\u1eaft h\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng, qu\u00ean c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, lo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n d\u00e0nh cho con. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c \u201c\u1edf b\u00ean c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi t\u1ecf ra b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ecf ra tr\u0103n tr\u1edf v\u00ec nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng, khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c d\u00f9 m\u1ecdc th\u00eam ba \u0111\u1ea7u s\u00e1u tay c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ph\u00e2n chia c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ra th\u00e0nh hai c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9: Vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 \u00f3c, hai b\u00e0n tay, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u201csi\u00eau nh\u00e2n\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u201csi\u00eau nh\u00e2n\u201d s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, b\u1ea5t an. Khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n con \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111i h\u1ecdc ra sao; khi \u1edf b\u00ean con, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfn ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hai y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o nhau \u1edf m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m, l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu b\u1edfi lo l\u1eafng hay s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y c\u00f2n d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ed1i l\u00ean nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u1edb b\u00f2ng bong. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201cs\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, t\u0129nh t\u00e2m l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t hon, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon. N\u00f3i th\u00ec d\u1ec5 nhung l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3, nhung \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00f4i qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh l\u1eb7ng, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, kh\u00f4ng than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong kinh t\u1ebf, tinh th\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0ong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t cho con. T\u00f4i nghe th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 than th\u1edf r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng chuy\u1ec7n con c\u00e1i, th\u1eadt m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi\u201d. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u201ct\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 \u00e1m th\u1ecb\u201d, n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh ra m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n, \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n m\u00e0 n\u1ebfn s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb. B\u1eadn r\u1ed9n nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn vui v\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn hai vai tr\u00f2, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 hi sinh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f3i khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u00fd ngh\u0129a hon.","Khi m\u1eb9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cNh\u00ecn tr\u1ebb l\u00ean 3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0\u201d. T\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc coi tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 bu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111 \u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc cho r\u1eb1ng 0 - 6 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111 \u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb. Theo ch\u1ecb, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec? V\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea3o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i l\u00e0m qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd trong m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i ngh\u1ec9 & nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 \u0111 \u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c hai b\u00e9 trai sinh \u0111\u00f4i 1,5 tu\u1ed5i. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 n\u00ean ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111 \u1ec3 \u1edf nh\u00e0 ch\u0103m con hay kh\u00f4ng. Theo ch\u1ecb ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 n\u00ean & nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3 hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf em l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129. Th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a em s\u1ebd gi\u00fap em \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. Giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb o - 3 tu\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb. Trong th\u00f2i gian n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non th\u01b0\u1eddng tuy\u1ec3n sinh tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 3 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh b\u00ed \u1ea9n, t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, n\u00f3 th\u00f4i th\u00fac tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i tinh th\u1ea7n cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c th\u00f4ng qua m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3, trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u1eb5m ng\u1eeda tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn m\u1edf m\u1eaft h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i \u00ea a, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, nheo m\u1eaft, ho... Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f3i th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y. Ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ef1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, sau 3 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3ng vai \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng v\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh b\u00ed \u1ea9n trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ea1o trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u00f2d m\u1eb9 \u1ecf* nh\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ecd* \u1ede m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n cho th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1ea5y c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho con y\u00eau v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 \u1ea5m tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn l\u1edbn. X\u00e9t v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ef1 v\u1eeba l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong\u201d, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p\u201d, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d. V\u1eady ai d\u00e1m n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u1edbn lao? \u0110\u01b0ong nhi\u00ean, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean con, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0ong t\u00e1c v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o cho con tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh","phong ph\u00fa hon. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i, khi con \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 \u1edf b\u00ean s\u00e1t sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00f3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu so v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111cm thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u0129nh ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u y\u00eau con m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta trao cho con ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i con c\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 trao g\u1eedi, th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu y\u00eau con th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u con hon, khi \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con. Ch\u00e3 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3ng V\u00e3iph\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7\u00e3 con T\u00f4i m\u00f3i c\u00f3 thai n\u00ean t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Hi\u1ec7n t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef mang thai v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thai gi\u00e1o. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao, c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ecdc t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng \u201cNu\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con sao m\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady?\u201d. Ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1ea7m non hay ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb hoa m\u1eaft. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm l\u00e0 g\u00ec? N\u1ed9i dung bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng g\u1ec9? Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai ph\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 s\u01a1 sinh ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec? S\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y\u201d mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u1ed9i h\u00e0m s\u00e2u xa hon. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh tinh th\u1ea7n v\u1ed1n c\u00f3. Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p\u201d. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb nhung ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai ph\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb em d\u00f9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy lu\u1eadt x\u00e2y d\u1ee5ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y\u201d c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn v\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi giang. Ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 2 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean, d\u00f9 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng th\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef h\u01a1n ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y n\u00f3i hai th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng tin c\u1ee7a hai lo\u1ea1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi n\u00f3i hai th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Trong 3 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i, c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u","tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m trong \u0111\u1ea5t, r\u1ec5 \u0103n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc tinh th\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft do ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n sinh ra. Ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh. T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1eeb s\u1edbm c\u0169ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1c quan C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 sinh l\u00fd \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o cho bi\u1ebft, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng 16 t\u1ef7 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o n\u00e3o, con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng, con ng\u01b0\u00f2i sinh ra \u0111\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed9n hay th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn an b\u00e0i. M\u1ea5y n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u sau khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, th\u1ec3 t\u00edch c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng gia t\u0103ng v\u00f3i t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ea5t nhanh c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 gia t\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u n\u00e3o v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e1u ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00e3o. Ngo\u00e0i ra, do c\u00e1c k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u1eeb th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa, t\u1ebf b\u00e0o v\u00e0 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1ea1o ra, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n h\u00f3a ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn truy\u1ec1n th\u1ea7n kinh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hon. S\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch trong ba n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u, s\u1ef1 sinh ra v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dd, Maria Montessori, ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0ong \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm\u201d ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n gi\u00e1c quan. B\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan, b\u00e0n tay nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i c\u00e1c v\u1eadt th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n nh\u1ecf xinh \u0111\u00e1 \u0111i \u0111\u00e1 l\u1ea1i... \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u0103m x\u01b0a, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con trai c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb 5 ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, t\u00f4i cho con b\u00f3p n\u00e1t qu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ec1m m\u1ec1m, l\u1ea1nh l\u1ea1nh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh b\u00f3p, \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1t v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong ru\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ea3y ra, ng\u1eedi th\u1ea5y m\u00f9i c\u1ee7a qu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong \u0111\u1ea7u con s\u1ebd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra qu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua t\u1eeb c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0a ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e0 chua v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u con, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm. Con tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cc\u00e0 chua\u201d m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c tr\u1ef1c quan v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt n\u00e0y, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. T\u1eeb c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n ra tu\u1ea7n t\u1ef1. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u00edch th\u00edch ng\u0169 quan c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea9m, \u0111\u1ed9 \u01b0\u1edbt, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ec1m, c\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt. Do \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u1ea5n ch\u1eb7t b\u00e9 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00e2n tay b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh c\u00f3 v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c r\u1ea5t tinh, th\u00edch v\u1ecb ng\u1ecdt, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch v\u1ecb m\u1eb7n. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ecdp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho k\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i l\u00e0, trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen th\u00edch \u0103n \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ecdt, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng m\u00f9i v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c. Trong khi th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Ch\u1ec9 sau m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00fa m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f9i c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt c\u00f3 m\u00f9i s\u1eefa m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean cho tr\u1ebb ng\u1eedi m\u00f9i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i","th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t m\u00f9i v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh c\u00f2n th\u00edch nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e9t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc t\u01b0oi t\u1eafn, th\u00edch ng\u1eafm khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt m\u00f3i m\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. v\u1ec1 th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c, khi v\u1eeba m\u00f3i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2m thanh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i d\u00e2y th\u1ea7n kinh th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c. Tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nghe gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, th\u00edch ti\u1ebfng nh\u1ea1c \u00eam tai, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh \u1ed3n \u00e0o. Do \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nghe nhi\u1ec1u giai \u0111i\u1ec7u du d\u01b0ong. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ec9\u00eap nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 4,5 tu\u1ed5i, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh t\u00f4i ch\u0103m ch\u00e1u, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m. V\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, con g\u00e1i r\u1ea5t b\u00e1m cha. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo l\u1eafng s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0&ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t t\u00f3i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo l\u1eafng n\u00e0y ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng r\u00f5 n\u00e9t hem, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v\u00f4 c& khi th\u1ea5y con r\u1ea5t b\u01b0&ng b\u1ec9nh, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i m\u1eb9. C\u00f9ng l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed7i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u1eeba b\u1eadn c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c, v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i con, c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u1ebb loi, tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef khi ph\u1ea3i xa ch\u1ed3ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c d\u1ebbo dai v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf: Con v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103m, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf, t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u1eady ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2y? Lo l\u1eafng, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u... kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p hon. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn lao, khi s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn, mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3. Ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t th\u00ec s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra. Sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, trong \u0111\u00eam kh u ya, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh: \u201cCon g\u00e1i c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha hay b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng? S\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn con g\u00e1i hay b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh hon?\u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng con g\u00e1i m\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb trong s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u1ed7i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh.","M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng b\u1edfi cha, m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con. M\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y, con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t b\u00e1m cha, gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con v\u1ec1 00*b\u1ea3n c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c con g\u00e1i c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cn\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con th\u00edch, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 con qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn. Con g\u00e1i c\u00e3i m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, d\u00e1m ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i s\u1ef1 \u201cquy\u1ec1n uy\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh. Hon n\u1eefa, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i d\u0103m ba c\u00e2u r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m hon l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con \u201cb\u1ed1c h\u1ecfa\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con. M\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, nh\u0169ng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, chu k\u1ef3 sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3... \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mang nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u con tr\u1ebb. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t trong s\u00e1ng, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 6 tu\u1ed5i, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng trong t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00f3. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ngoan, thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 3 tu\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. Trong l\u00fac t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng vui, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u201cgi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt\u201d ho\u1eb7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea5u k\u00edn. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n che gi\u1ea5u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1eabn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng trong l\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fac bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u00e3y th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn n\u00f3i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh r\u1eb1ng \u201cH\u00f4m nay t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cC\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba n\u00e3y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh\u201d, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi - bao g\u1ed3m con tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n. Th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n cho ph\u00e9p m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ed3i tr\u00fat b\u00e0y t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft: T\u00ecm m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00ea kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn th\u1ecfa th\u00edch, t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 stress m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh y\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd. V\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp s\u1ef1 \u201cv\u1eafng m\u1eb7t\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00f3i vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i","\u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng lo l\u1eafng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1ea5t an v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch y\u00eau con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 gi\u00fap ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee9a con 2 tu\u1ed5i ra m\u1ed9t b\u00e3i c\u1ecf choi, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb ng\u00e3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng cu\u1ed1ng qu\u00fdt ch\u1ea1y ra \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn con, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u00e1ch: \u201cAnh tr\u00f4ng con ki\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1eady? Con ng\u00e3 m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ra \u0111\u1ee1 n\u00f3\u201d. Th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee1\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong l\u00fac n\u00e0y m\u00f3i \u201cn\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cho con l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng l\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng l\u00fd tr\u00ed. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ct\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh\u201d. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u1ea7n cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, bu\u00f4ng tay ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qu\u00e1 qu\u1ea5n qu\u00fdt tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt tr\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m. Con tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn s\u1eafc m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng xem, m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t s\u00e1ng n\u1eafng, chi\u1ec1u m\u01b0a, tr\u01b0a gi\u00f3 nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh tr\u00ean m\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u00f2i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh? Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhi\u1ec1u hon, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng ph\u01b0ong \u0110\u00f4ng, d\u00f9 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng v\u1eabn g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m hon trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u1edbn hon v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc hon. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed hon. S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec con v\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1ef1 l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an. L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u0169ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho con tr\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c vui v\u1ebb, l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh! Con tr\u1ebbl\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea5n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9l\u1ed1i cho ch\u00e3 m\u1eb9 T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u00f2i m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u00f3i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay \u0111\u00e3 4 tu\u1ed5i, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u b\u0103n kho\u0103n, mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 \u00edt \u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u00f3a b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u00f5ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n mong","m\u1ecfi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3h\u01b0&ng d\u1eabn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c quan v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u01b0cmg ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con cho c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y n\u1ea5u \u0103n, g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u00f2i m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v&i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 hcrn. L\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u201c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d Con tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng phu. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed1i cho cha m\u1eb9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh cha m\u1eb9 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb tay c\u1ea7m cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con theo ki\u1ec3u \u201cth\u1ef1c \u0111on\u201d, b\u00ea nguy\u00ean xi kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o con m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cthu\u1ed1c ch\u1eefa b\u00e1ch b\u1ec7nh\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng t\u01b0ong t\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ai d\u00f9ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o c\u00f3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n phong ph\u00fa, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, c\u00f3 m\u1eadt ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ee9ng tr\u1ed3ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3i qua \u201ckh\u00f3a b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng v\u1ed9i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00ean t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ph\u01b0ong ch\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chu \u0111\u00e1o cho s\u1ef1 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9\u201d tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sinh con, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t co*b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u00ea nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc. Trong cu\u1ed1n M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eafc v\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n Secret o\/Childhood (B\u00ed \u1ea9n tr\u1ebb tho\u2019) v\u00e0 The Absorbent M\u1ec9nd (Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u1ea9m th\u1ea5u) c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dd Maria Montessori. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm nh\u1eefng tinh t\u00fay trong \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! Ch\u00fac b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1eb9! S\u1ef1quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n\u1edf v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t ngh\u1ecb Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 3 tu\u1ed5i, th\u00f2i gian g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t hay b\u00e0i x\u00edch cha, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng","ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch theo m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng cho cha tham gia. Hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1? Cha ch\u00e1u th\u01b0cmg xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, anh c\u0169ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u201cl\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng\u201d con, nh\u01b0ng con v\u1eabn t\u1ecf ra kh\u00e1 xa c\u00e1ch. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111 \u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u201cv\u1eafng m\u1eb7t\u201d trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con? N g\u01b0\u00f2i cha n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con tr\u1ebb? Th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con d\u00f9 \u00edt nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ef1ng Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n 0 - 3 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 nhi\u1ec1u hon. M\u1eb9 cho tr\u1ebb b\u00fa m\u00f3m, s\u1ef1 d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, t\u1eadn t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng hon ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u1edf th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1 xa c\u00e1ch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfm m\u1eb9. Sau tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean 3, tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e1m theo cha v\u00ec tr\u1ebb th\u00edch th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i phong ph\u00fa hon m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn. \u0110\u1ebfn khi ngo\u00e0i 5 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp hon. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n chu \u0111\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m bu\u00f4ng con ra nhi\u1ec1u. Vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nu\u1ed1t ch\u1eedng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean m\u00e0 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cv\u1eafng m\u1eb7t\u201d th\u00ec hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng \u201cv\u1eafng m\u1eb7t\u201d trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con? Mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh tr\u00ean hai ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n: M\u1ed9t l\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh cho con qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. D\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho con ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian b\u00ean con ng\u1eafn hay d\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, m\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 tranh th\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha cho con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng xa nh\u00e0, \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c li\u00ean mi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean con h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c m\u00e1y t\u00ednh, \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha. V\u00f3i t\u1eebng l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng xa nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 choi v\u00f3i con m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m cha c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u1eeba choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i con, v\u1eeba tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, trong khi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1eafm con tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean cha. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd cu\u1ed1n cha \u0111i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean t\u00e2m. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u0169ng ng\u1ed3i choi v\u00f3i con, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch choi, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u201cng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng\u201d n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 v\u1eabn n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ho\u1eb7c v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c, gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9c... T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 g\u00ec trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau, anh ta v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho con c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 an to\u00e0n. Ng\u01b0\u00f2*i cha n\u00ean d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con tr\u1ebb V\u1eady uy quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, sau 5 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u00edch choi v\u00f3i cha hon, v\u00ec m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc: \u0102n c\u01a1m, r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n, \u0111i ng\u1ee7... M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u1ecd, th\u1ebfkia, c\u00f2n cha th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u1eaft ngang h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, m\u1ed1i","quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng choi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ebfn khi hai cha con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u1ebb ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Theo quan ni\u1ec7m truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf vi\u1ec7c con tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n nghe l\u00f2i cha m\u1eb9, cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha \u0111\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, v\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u00f2i ch\u00fang ta? Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i trong tr\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c coi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng vai ph\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3m \u0111i s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u1ebb tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng hon. Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh r\u00fat kh\u1ecfi v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ch\u1ee7 ch\u1ed1t trong \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d, cam t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f3ng vai ph\u1ee5 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hon. \u201cGi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp\u201d, \u201ccho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp\u201d, s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n cao hay th\u1ea5p, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o m\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00f4ng b\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7ngi\u1eef v\u1eefngnguy\u00ean t\u1eb3c Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 1,5 tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo \u00fd l\u00e0 \u0103n v\u1ea1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u1eeba kh\u00f3c v\u1eeba gi\u1eadm ch\u00e2n. Con \u0111\u00f2i r\u1eafc ru\u1ed1c xu\u1ed1ng n\u1ec1n nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eafc l\u00e0 kh\u1ed1c. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n con \u0111\u00f2i m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ch\u1eadm m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4i l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed1ng l\u00ean. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00f4 l\u00fd th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh, ch\u00e1u kh\u00f3c m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i l\u00e0 ch\u00e1n r\u1ed3i n\u00edn. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 nh\u00e0 ri\u00eang m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u1edf chung v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9, c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 th\u1ea5y ch\u00e1u kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00f3i c\u1ee5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con tr\u1ebb, n\u1ed1i ri\u00eang th\u00ec c\u1ee5 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nghe. Th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o? T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi con tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng lo kh\u00f4ng \u1ea1? T\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eebi gi\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef v\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc Qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n k\u1ec3, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00f4 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0. Khi ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00f3i c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng hon l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, v\u00ec tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00fac m\u1eafc. B\u1edfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang sai, ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1i. N\u1ebfu v\u00ec tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00f3i nhau th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u01b0a \u1ed5n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hon.","v\u1ea5 n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. s\u1ed1ng chung v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n \u1ea5m \u00e1p v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u00f2i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c nhau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 th\u00ec t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i c\u00e1c c\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f2i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mong c\u1ee5 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 v\u1eabn chi\u1ec1u ch\u00e1u th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean lo l\u1eafng qu\u00e1, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef v\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec v\u1eabn s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Cho ph\u00e9p con tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0110\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i, ngang ng\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1ecb k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf. Tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p c\u00e0ng \u00edt tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n kh\u00f3c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng \u00edt. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t ho\u1eb7c nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t ho\u1eb7c ngang ng\u1ea1nh hon. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00edch kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 th\u00edch c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb gi\u00e0u cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u00ec ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a sinh m\u1ec7nh c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o. Con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n 1,5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft v\u1eeba kh\u00f3c v\u1eeba gi\u1eadm ch\u00e2n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf hay m\u1eafng m\u1ecf. Khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea1m vi an to\u00e0n th\u00ec c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c tr\u00fat b\u00e0y c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f3c nh\u00e9, kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd quay l\u1ea1i\u201d, r\u1ed3i \u0111i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Trong l\u00fac con kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1ee3n m\u1eaft, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng \u201cB\u00e1c xem, em th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u00f3 tay v\u00f3i con b\u00e9 n\u00e0y, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1i \u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e2m sinh h\u01b0\u201d. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c c\u1ee7a con, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1eeba th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f3c \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1eaft \u00e9p, kh\u00f4ng \u1ed1m \u0111au b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00fat x\u00edu l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c th\u00ec h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f3c \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 do th\u00f3i quen ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn v\u00e0 ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, m\u1eb7c cho tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0m ng\u01a1. Trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m ng\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ph\u1ea3i ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 ngang ng\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf chi\u1ebfn thu\u1eadt d\u00f9ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111e d\u1ecda\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1edf \u201cchi\u00eau b\u00e0i\u201d n\u00e0y n\u1eefa. Sau khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd \u0111\u00fang sai, b\u1edfi tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 3 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u01b0a h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c l\u00fd tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, m\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201cV\u1eeba n\u00e3y b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c \u0103n v\u1ea1 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u00e2u nh\u00e9\u201d, b\u1edfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh k\u00fd \u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng vui trong tr\u1ebb. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 ra \u0111\u00e2u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t, y\u00eau c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m em b\u00e9 ngoan nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. Con tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u1ebd l\u00ean t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y n\u00e0y nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho con tr\u1ebb d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eeba n\u00e3y con l\u1ea1i r\u1eafc ru\u1ed1c xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n nh\u00e0?\\\". \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gi\u00e0u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb ra ngo\u00e0i tham","gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u00e0i tr\u00f2i. Sau 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 m\u00faa h\u00e1t, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 x\u1ea3 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y th\u1eed xem, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u00ednh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean thu\u1ea7n hon.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 7 N h\u1eef n g r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u201cGi\u00e3i\u0111o\u1ea1nnh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 2 tu\u1ed5i, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng con r\u1ea5t ngoan, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1ed3i r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn. C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh con thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u00fac vui l\u00fac bu\u1ed3n. Ph\u00fat tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f2n c\u01b0\u1eebi n\u00f3i kh\u00fac kh\u00edch, ph\u00fat sau \u0111\u00e3 quay sang gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7\u1ec9, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 l\u1ea7n. Sau khi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00ec m \u00f3i bi\u1ebft v\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u201cgi\u00f2 i cri\u201d nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 choi b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5, ga tr\u1ea3i gi\u01b0\u00f2ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eb3ng phiu. C\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u1ecfi b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea9n con \u0111ang m\u1eb7c tr\u00ean ng\u01b0\u00f2i v\u00e0 thay sang b\u1ed9 s\u1ea1ch th\u00ec con c\u0169ng kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7 m \u00f3i th\u00f4i... Tr\u01b0&c \u0111\u00e2y con r\u1ea5t ngoan, t\u1ea1i sao b\u00e2y gi\u00f2' l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ra nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Do con qu\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m hay tr\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? B\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a \u201c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3*i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1\u201d Nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do \u201cgiai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, \u1edf m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. Nh\u00e0 th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 di truy\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi H\u00e0 Lan, Hugo de Friz (1848 - 1935), \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra t\u00ednh nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f2n n\u1eef ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u00dd - nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 XX, Maria Montessori, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quan s\u00e1t tr\u1ebb em c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 \u1edf tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em. \u1ede m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u201cc\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00f3 i m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e1n, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 do s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u00f4i\u201d. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb m \u00f3i ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tri gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, sau \u0111\u00f3 m \u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0y s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u00edch t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf ho\u1eb7c t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghi. Trong cu\u1ed1n The Absorbent M ind (Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u1ea9m th\u1ea5m), Maria Montessori \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 \u1edf tr\u1ebb em. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 1,5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecdc m\u00faa v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a","tr\u1ebb 3 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb d\u1ea1y th\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa. Hon n\u1eefa, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i hai t\u1eeb \u201cph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cm\u00f3c treo\u201d. Maria Montessori ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ea1y m\u00faa \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi gh\u1ebf sofa, trong khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 cho r\u1eb1ng m\u0169 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c treo l\u00ean m\u00f3c. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean nhu c\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc m\u00faa m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ebfn khi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ea1y m\u00faa treo chi\u1ebfc m\u0169 l\u00ean m\u00f3c treo, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc. Qua v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u1edf c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c. Tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t coi tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t ngoan nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 ho\u1eb7c ga tr\u1ea3i gi\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1eb3ng phiu m\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y, tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ebb em nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh th\u00f4ng qua tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Trong cu\u1ed1n Secret o\/Childhood (B\u00ed \u1ea9n tr\u1ebb th\u01a1), Montessori vi\u1ebft: \u201cM\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1edf tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t coi tr\u1ecdng t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 1,5 tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 r\u00f5 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd. Tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1\u201d. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng h\u00e9t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch l\u0103n ra \u1ed1m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 b\u00ed \u1ea9n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n n\u1eafp, l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang th\u00edch s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n n\u1eafp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng do ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00f3i nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, \u0103n v\u1ea1 v\u00f4 c\u1edb. Ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh b\u00ed \u1ea9n trong tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u00ednh nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u. Montessori c\u00f2n l\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh. Do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean c\u00f4 b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111i xa m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f4 gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ho\u1ea1t b\u00e1t thay th\u1ebf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi t\u1eafm cho tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c m\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00edn kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 xa c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Khi c\u00f4 b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu kia quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i ngoan ngo\u00e3n tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. C\u00f4 b\u1ea3o m\u1eabu n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, h\u00f3a ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c m\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch t\u1eafm cho tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u0110\u1ec3 tay tr\u00e1i g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb, tay ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea7n ch\u00e2n tr\u1ebb, trong khi c\u00f4 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Qua \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, con tr\u1ebb trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1eafc s\u1ea3o bi\u1ebft bao! N\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u tinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ebb trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay kh\u00f3c, hay gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed xem c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng m\u00f3i 2 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh kh\u00ed","th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed9 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cho con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c g\u1eedi g\u1eafm t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy chu\u1ea9n chung \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd, b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tinh th\u1ea7n cho tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, con tr\u1ebb n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c \u0111\u00f2i m\u1eb7c b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea9n \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00f3i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con r\u1ea5t th\u00edch b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o b\u1ea9n n\u00e0y, m\u1eb9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eb7t n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1eb7c\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf kia, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a ra \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng quan tr\u1ecdng trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e2y lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ch\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 - ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong\u201d. L \u01b0 u \u00fd : Th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m & tr\u1ebb em g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n sau: T\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 4 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v&i t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1; t\u1eeb l\u00fac ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 6 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c; t\u1eeb l\u00fac 2 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn khi 8 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1ed1i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Montessori cho r\u1eb1ng, giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, khi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00f9ng kh&p v\u00f3i nhu c\u1ea7u b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng gay g\u1eaft nh\u01b0 ngang b\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 \u0103n v\u1ea1 \u0111 \u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0103n v\u1ea1 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf nhu c\u1ea7u n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb do kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t sau n\u00e0y. Hai y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t. T\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n xa con c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 Con g\u00f3i t\u00f4i m&i \u00ccO th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t b\u00e1m m\u1eb9. C\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn 8 gi&s\u00e1ng, t\u00f4i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb \u0111i l\u00e0m, con l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c, t\u00f4i d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t th\u00ec n\u00edn, \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n con cho b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c. L\u00fac \u0111i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng \u0111 \u1ec3 con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9, con l\u1ea1i kh\u1ed1c. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00f2' \u0111i l\u00e0m t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, ng\u1ed3i & c\u01a1 quan m\u00e0 l\u00f2ng n\u00f3ng nh\u01b0 l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u00e2y? T\u1ef1 t\u00ecm bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m \u00ecnh Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i lo l\u1eafng, s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u00e9p trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9","tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, lo l\u1eafng, h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, lo l\u1eafng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c \u0111i l\u00e0m tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i sau k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 thai s\u1ea3n v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c hai tr\u1ecdng tr\u00e1ch tr\u00ean vai, hai l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ph\u01b0ong \u00e1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n. Khi con ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 1 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn bao nhi\u00eau c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba, kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 chi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb sinh h\u01b0. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian, m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u1edf b\u00ean tr\u1ebb, d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ee5 h\u00f4n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ebf b\u1ed3ng, \u00f4m \u1ea5p. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn \u0111ang trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u00f3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng trao nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho tr\u1ebb khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp t\u1eeb s\u1edbm. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, l\u1edbn l\u00ean kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u201c\u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d. M\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n g\u1eedi g\u1eafm tr\u1ebb cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 y\u00eau qu\u00fd tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c hay \u00f4ng b\u00e0 tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft th\u00f3i quen, gi\u1edd gi\u1ea5c \u0103n ng\u1ee7, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. V\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u1edf trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Khi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c choi v\u00f3i nhau, m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng n\u1ebfn tr\u00e1nh \u0111i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb quen v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh b\u00ean b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen khi m\u1eb9 v\u1eafng nh\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con, tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1eb3ng l\u1eb7ng b\u1ecf \u0111i. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1ee3 con kh\u00f3c n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed1n \u0111i, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t an. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u, bao gi\u1edd m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 th\u00f2i gian, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau khi m\u1eb9 ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i an \u1ee7i n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m. Khi r\u1eddi xa tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n chia tay m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean do d\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an, \u00e1y n\u00e1y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb9 \u0111i v\u1eafng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh \u00f2a kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1edf l\u1ea1i. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 khi t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t tr\u1ebb trong l\u00fac tr\u1ebb \u0111ang n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 l\u01b0u luy\u1ebfn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u00f4m \u1ea5p, n\u00e2ng niu m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u201cc\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d l\u00e2y. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i \u201ct\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t\u201d v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01a1m tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u1ea5n n\u00e1 m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n r\u00f2i kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, vui v\u1ebb, th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. \u201cTr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i b\u00e1m m\u1eb9\u201dc\u1ee7a. tr\u1ebb Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i hon 2 tu\u1ed5i nhung vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ee7ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \/l\u1ed9, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng x\u1eed \u1ec9\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi \u201cm\u1eb9 o i\u201d, ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 con ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u00f5ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecb? Theo ch\u1ecb, n\u00ean b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u00f5ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfn\u00e0o th\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp?","\u201cTr\u00f2 cho\u1ee7 b\u00e1m m\u1eb9\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Hai tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u1edf tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111i. \u1ede th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, b\u00e9 nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u201cvi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft gi\u00fap, g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng x\u1eed l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 g\u1ecdi \u2018m\u1eb9 oi\u2019, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 con ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con k\u00e9m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00f2 choi\u201d c\u1ee7a con! Con v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a h\u1ebft giai \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u00e1m m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n m\u1eb9 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa. N\u1ebfu ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u1ecf ra s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i hay b\u1ea5t an m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u00f9y \u00fd, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u00ec theo t\u00f4i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3 ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y coi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con nghe th\u1ea5y l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00f2 choi b\u00e1m m\u1eb9\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp cho con th\u00ec t\u00f4i v\u1eabn cho r\u1eb1ng, khi con g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 con nghe th\u1ea5y l\u00f2i \u0111\u00e1p, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh n\u00e0y c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng hon c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb em, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u201cc\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf m\u1ecdi noi m\u1ecdi l\u00fac\u201d, b\u1ea1n m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t trong l\u00f2i g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec \u201cb\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cCon t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111i\u201d khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb \u00f2a kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 tham gia v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed9ng tay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Con tr\u1ebb ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y do ai gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ef1c ra ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua c\u00e1c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 nhau, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 2 tu\u1ed5i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00ec m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi con tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111em l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u1ea5t, n\u1ebfu trong l\u00fac con c\u1ea7n m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i, k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 th\u00ec con s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201cTr\u1ebb con th\u00ec bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec\u201d, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cVi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb con c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng\u201d, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201c\u0110i ra ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 \u0111ang b\u1eadn sao\u201d. Trong tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u201cph\u00f4i thai tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft, c\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u201cch\u01a1i\u201d v\u1edbi con tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0y!","\/^ \\\\9 9 ,\\\\ N\u00f3i d\u00f4i \u1edfm\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u00f4i ti\u00eam \u00e2n nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u00ea kh\u1eafcnhau Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 3,5 tu\u1ed5i, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u1ec9\u00e0 con \u0103n k\u1eb9o, tay c\u00f2n \u0111ang d\u00ednh b\u00ea b\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00f4i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u1ecfi: \u201cC\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con l\u1ea1i \u0103n k\u1eb9o kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, con l\u1ea1i m\u00edm m\u00f4i ch\u1ed1i: \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con \u0103n \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea1n Ti\u1ec3u Phi \u0103n \u0111\u1ea5y (Ti\u1ec3u Phi l\u00e0 b\u00e9 nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m)\u201d. Ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra l\u1ecd hoa c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 b\u1ecb v\u1edb, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i v\u1edb, b\u1ea5c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i con l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 trong l\u00fac n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a, nh\u01b0ng con l\u1ea1i v\u1eeba kh\u00f3c v\u1eeba \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00e1c gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con, b\u00e1c l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 ch\u1ee9\u201d. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u01b0&c t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. D\u1ea1y cho con ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1ecf*ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nghe b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i: M\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, trong ng\u00e0y L\u1ec5 Ph\u1ee5c sinh, m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fa r\u1ed1i l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng socola cho ng\u00e0y l\u1ec5 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1nh m\u00e0 bay, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y mi\u1ec7ng c\u1eadu con trai 3 tu\u1ed5i d\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea7y socola, hai tay c\u1eadu gi\u1ea5u ra sau l\u01b0ng, v\u1eeba nu\u1ed1t v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con \u0103n socola \u0111\u00e2u nh\u00e9. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0, v\u1eeba m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng con l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 b\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng con l\u1ea1i c\u00e3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 b\u00e1t \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 l\u00e0 con \u0111ang n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 con \u0111ang n\u00f3i n\u00ean \u201cnguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng\u201d trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh, con ngh\u0129: \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eadt mong m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 b\u00e1t!\u201d. Nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi Th\u1ee5y S\u0129, Jean Piaget, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u00f3i 4 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u coi vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vui hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang sai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 vui l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng vui t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 sai. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 b\u00ecnh hoa hay \u0103n k\u1eb9o, tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng vui, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb \u201ch\u1ed1i h\u1eadn\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec, tr\u1ebb t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0103n sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i con kh\u00f4ng \u0103n. Vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 4 tu\u1ed5i, khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c hay tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u1ea3 b\u1ed9\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng qua tr\u00f2 choi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd l\u00e0m y\u00eau qu\u00e1i, b\u00e9 s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ea3m, sau \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3; ho\u1eb7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh tr\u00ean tivi, ho\u1eb7c trong l\u00fac k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb nghe, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong, con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn. N\u1ebfu \u0111i choi c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mua v\u00e9 v\u00e0o c\u1ed5ng ho\u1eb7c khai man chi\u1ec1u cao, s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong x\u1ea5u cho tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u1ed1 \u00fd, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i x\u00e3 giao c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u1ea3y sinh \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y. Ngo\u00e0i ra, kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfn d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb: \u201cB\u00e9 ngoan, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i h\u00f4m nay b\u00e9 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng h\u1ed9p trang \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con \u0111\u00e2u \u1ea1\u201d. V\u00e0 th\u1ebfl\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ed3 trang \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1eeba n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u00e9 ngoan, con l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ed3 trang \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i. L\u1ea7n sau, con \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u1ecbch n\u1eefa nh\u00e9, l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n mua \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i sau c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac, th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen, th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c","h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong s\u1ef1 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, 21 l\u1ea7n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f2i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u t\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi l\u1edbn d\u1ea7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i bao h\u00e0m c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c nhau. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea1t con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdTp l\u00fd Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u phi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i t\u1ea1i sao con ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 b\u00e0i thi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c 76 \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i 96 \u0111i\u1ec3m. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3: \u201cCh\u1ecb c\u00f3 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh con ph\u1ea3i thi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng?\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 li\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i: \u201cM\u00f4n To\u00e1n ch\u00e1u h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec3m thi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u01b0\u1edbi 95\u201d. Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb m\u1eafng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn h\u00e0nh vi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn, tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 n\u1ed5i tr\u1eadn l\u00f4i \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1edfi c\u00f3 khi tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t hon l\u00e0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. C\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1ed9t l\u00f2i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m l\u00f2i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 che gi\u1ea5u\u201d, d\u00f9ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, n\u00f3i th\u1eadt s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 g\u00ec x\u1ea5u, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c hon \u1edf ph\u00eda sau. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 do vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111em l\u1ea1i trong th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i n\u1eefa. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p tr\u00f9ng ph\u1ea1t th\u00edch h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i, nhung kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb cam t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao con tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i che gi\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu v\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh: C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u00f4ng tin x\u1ea5u n\u00e0o t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng gay g\u1eaft n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i cho tr\u1ebb, gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u00f2ng tin. N\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp h\u00e0nh vi l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. Khen ng\u1ef1i t\u00ednh th\u1eadt th\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng hon tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong kh\u00e1c nhau. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng \u201cCon l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t th\u1eadt th\u00e0\u201d m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00e0ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 th\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn con \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 l\u1ecd hoa n\u00e0y, con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t th\u1eadt th\u00e0. T\u1ed1i nay m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u00f3n b\u00ed ng\u00f4 ng\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 con th\u00edch \u0103n nh\u1ea5t cho con\u201d, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u00e0nh vi th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 nghe, nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1eeda, th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00e0n d\u1ef1ng ra c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh","ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9, tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ngay t\u1eeb khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t th\u1eadt th\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u00f3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. D\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edbi nhu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u00e1nh n\u1eafng, l\u00e0n m\u01b0a v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a phong ba b\u00e3o t\u00e1p, m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y non m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh c\u00e2y \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ee5 v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i. L\u01b0 u \u00fd: M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra v\u00f3i c\u1ea5c nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb & \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 6 \u0111\u1ebfn 9 v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb 6 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 20% tr\u1ebb ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0&ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng; trong nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb 7 tu\u1ed5i, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 che gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i th\u00ec tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb 9 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1eed l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebfn\u00e0o l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5n th\u1ef1c, th\u1ebfn\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebfn\u00e0o l\u00e0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn khi 12 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt. T\u00ednh t\u00ecnh \u00f4n h\u00f2\u00e2 c\u0169ngl\u00e0 th\u00ea m\u1ea1nh T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh \u00f4n h\u00f2a, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch tranh gi\u00e0nh v\u00f3i ai trong m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n. T\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, so v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00e1c, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u0169ng qu\u00e1 \u00f4n h\u00f2a th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n hoi m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u1ecb c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n gh\u00ea g&m b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u00f2i d\u1ecbu d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gay g\u1eaft trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo v\u00f3i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 n\u00ean b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1eefng cho con t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng hay kh\u00f4ng? \u00d4n h\u00f2a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u00f4n h\u00f2a l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c c\u1ea1nh tranh, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. C\u00e2y m\u00e2y d\u1ebbo dai v\u00e0 gang th\u00e9p c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh ri\u00eang. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u00f4n h\u00f2a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf hay kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng theo t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn th\u00edch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u00f4n h\u00f2a, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n th\u1eed xem tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00f4n h\u00f2a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u00f4n h\u00f2a c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u00f4n h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o. Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, so v\u00f3i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 8X, \u1ecdX m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng bao dung, \u00f4n h\u00f2a. V\u00ec so v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng th\u1ebfh\u1ec7 sinh tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 1980, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau sinh ra v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1edf c\u1eeda, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa, l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 con m\u1ed9t, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c","c\u01b0\u00f3p \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i v\u1eaft \u00f3c ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng ghen t\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ecdng trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng sau khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec s\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu m\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e0 ni\u1ec7m. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i m\u00e0 con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a 20 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 sau. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed so s\u00e1nh th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a 20 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn bi\u1ebft bao! Kh\u00f4ng ai d\u00e1m kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdp th\u00e0nh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh gay g\u1eaft theo ki\u1ec3u hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng c\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u00e0o l\u01b0u ch\u00ednh hay kh\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0, trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa, tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 v\u0103n minh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng cao, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi tr\u1ecdng. Ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c - nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i coi l\u00e0 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 \u201cth\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d, \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau theo \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ai d\u00e1m kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ch\u01b0a nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai m\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con g\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u00f4n h\u00f2a c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfm \u01b0u th\u1ebf trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai! Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c, mong r\u1eb1ng con tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh t\u1ed3n tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i. T\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00edch l\u0169y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho con D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1 m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p sau: T\u00ecm ra \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf, gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n. N\u0103m x\u01b0a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y v\u00f3i H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. Cho con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng choi v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. V\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1 r\u00f5 n\u00e9t trong tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt, con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n, con s\u1ebd d\u1ea1n d\u0129 theo, l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng con kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cha m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch tr\u1ebb khi tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng cho tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i to, m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi tr\u1ebb nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t g\u00e2y s\u1ee9c \u00e9p m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con m\u00f2i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ed9ng, c\u00f9ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, t\u1ea1o cho con tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ef1 do, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, sau khi kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec tr\u00e1nh \u0111i, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ed9 tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 tay l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c thu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u01a1i d\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh \u1edf tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c","nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin. Ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, t\u1ef1 tin, l\u1ea1c quan, d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00e2y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u1eaft ph\u1ea3i kinh qua c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin. H\u00e3y tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! ? \/\\\\ H\u00e3y \u0111\u00ea khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 bao dung th\u00e2y th\u00ea s\u1ef1 quy\u00ean uy v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc Con trai t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 tr\u00f2n 3 tu\u1ed5i, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u1ec9 n\u1ed1i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng cho th\u00eam t\u1eeb \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d, r\u1ea5t ngang ng\u1ea1nh, c\u00f2n n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t b\u00e0n tay th\u00e0nh n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea5m, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 t\u00ednh b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 l\u00fac n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c n\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 khi cu c\u1eadu c\u00f2n x\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1ea3 cha m\u1eb9. Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? Nghe n\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, v\u1eady m\u00e0 con m\u00f3i 3 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00edch ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh an? Nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1ee9i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u00f2i l\u00f3*n \u0110\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u00f2i. Ch\u1eafn ch\u1eafn c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u201chung h\u0103ng\u201d n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m r\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o! N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eadn con n\u1eefa. V\u00ec th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ebd y\u00eau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n then ch\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. \u201cCh\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i\u201d l\u00e0 t\u1eeb d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb sau khi n\u1ea3y sinh xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con tr\u1ebb sai, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u00ec ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, khi\u1ebfn hai b\u00ean kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau. D\u00f9 sao con tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb h\u1ea5p thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed quy\u1ec1n uy, cho r\u1eb1ng con tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0, khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u201cquy t\u1eafc\u201d \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3i \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ba l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i, t\u1ef1 nh\u1ea3y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edd m\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i tr\u1ebb th\u00edch, th\u00edch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0, gi\u1eb7t qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, r\u00f3t n\u01b0\u1edbc... Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf, s\u1ef1 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng, s\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c an to\u00e0n, v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn d\u00f9ng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u1ea5y l\u00fd do y\u00eau con \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, \u00e9p con th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0, nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con li\u1ec1n xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb \u201ckh\u00f4ng nghe l\u00f2 i\u201d, \u201cn\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i t\u1ea7m quan","tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t' tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1, ngang ng\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ecb ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i l\u00fd l\u1ebd cho tr\u1ebb, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb xa c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i. Theo s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia th\u1ea7n kinh, \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 3, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9, bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch, x\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn... b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 k\u00ecm h\u00e3m qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c, l\u1edbn l\u00ean, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu y\u00eau con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00ec c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng khoa h\u1ecdc, th\u00edch g\u00ec l\u00e0m n\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 bao dung thay th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1ea9n sau h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, h\u1ee3p l\u00fd D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 qu\u00e1 kh\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 ch\u1eedi b\u1eady, \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n, v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u1ecdp l\u00fd. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n, qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb nh\u1edb l\u00e2u hon, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, b\u1eaft \u00e9p h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean x\u1eed l\u00fd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, khi tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i b\u1eady kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i n\u1eefa th\u00ec th\u00f4i; m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 3 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i l\u00fd l\u1ebd kh\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ch\u01b0a h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c l\u00fd tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfn n\u00f3i \u201cB\u00e9 ngoan kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i b\u1eady, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u\u201d, l\u00e0m v\u1eady s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb nh\u1edb l\u00e2u hon. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0o l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon. Ch\u00e2 m\u1eb9 xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi con v\u00ec c\u00e2u \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea5t cho con \u201d Con trai t\u00f4i 5,5 tu\u1ed5i, t\u1eeb kh\u1ec9 ch\u00e1u l\u00ean 2 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i m\u1eb9. Con lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u00edch t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng to\u00e0n l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, hai m\u1eb9 con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. \u0110\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u1ecb vi\u1ebft t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 con ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft trong l\u00fac \u1edf b\u00ean con, ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00f3i con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfn\u00e0o? Nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cL\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u00f3i con?\u201d. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n t\u1ecf \u00fd nghi ng\u1edd khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con trai t\u00f4i\u201d. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh trung \u01b0ong t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i k\u1ec3 ra chi ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3","n\u00e0o nh\u1edb ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t th\u00ec ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, hon n\u1eefa, hi\u1ec7n nay nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng thu h\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebf to\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty qu\u1ed1c doanh l\u1edbn ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon g\u00e1i t\u1edb \u1edf nh\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con m\u00e8o gi\u1ecdng ng\u1ecdt nh\u01b0 m\u00eda l\u00f9i, th\u1ea5y t\u1edb \u0111i l\u00e0m v\u1ec1 li\u1ec1n quay sang n\u00f3i: \u2018K\u1ebb th\u00f9, con \u0111i choi \u0111\u1ea5y\u2019. Tr\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea5t oi, m\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y ph\u1ee5c d\u1ecbch n\u00f3, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 gi\u1edd l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3?\u201d. T\u1ef1 do v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m cho ngh\u1eb9t th\u1edf, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u00ean T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 li\u1ec7t k\u00ea ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc gi\u00e1o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu. Khi con tr\u1ebb c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, khi ch\u00fang khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0ong, kh\u00f4ng \u00edch k\u1ef7, bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u201cem b\u00e9 ngoan\u201d. Trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u201cc\u00f3 tai m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mi\u1ec7ng\u201d, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p c\u00f3 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u00fang sai trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t c\u1ee7a \u201cquan t\u00f2a\u201d l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, nhung nh\u1eefng sai ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9. S\u1ef1 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u00e1 t\u00ednh, h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 tr\u1edbn, nh\u1ea5n ch\u00ecm n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb; ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 h\u00e0 kh\u1eafc, l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khi\u1ebfn con b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong. C\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau, c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u1ea5m \u00e1p. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con r\u1ea5t mong manh, c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 do cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u00e0 ra. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh: K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 h\u1eadn? Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang y\u00eau con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 t\u01b0, con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t y\u00eau cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, tuy nhi\u00ean, gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau nhau th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? B\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0: C\u00f3 y\u1ebfu s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1eadn, c\u00f3 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh, c\u00f3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1 k\u1ef5... \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1eeba y\u00eau l\u1ea1i v\u1eeba h\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00f3i tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u\u201d, th\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng, con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. C\u1ed0 g\u1eafng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t ho*n c\u00f4\\\" g\u1eafng x\u00f3a b\u1ecf m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1ede ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n M\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cm\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8...\u201d. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i qu\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 l\u00e2y lan c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, d\u00f9ng thu\u1ed1c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. v \u1ea5 n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong c\u00e1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c nhau, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn hai b\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u0169ng kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 t\u1eebng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u201cB\u00e1c s\u0129\u201d t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cha","m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh xung \u0111\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i xung \u0111\u1ed9t. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 hai b\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i nhau m\u1ecdi kh\u00fac m\u1eafc. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u201cl\u1eadp d\u1ecb\u201d xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00f4i l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con, v\u00ec th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u00ean m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 c\u1ecfi m\u1edf. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00f3a th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a quy\u1ec1n uy v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00ec s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, hai b\u00ean b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb v\u00f3i nhau. Ph\u01b0ong ch\u00e2m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 8 N h\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh V\u00ea c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \/ Quan tr\u1ecdngh\u01a1n s\u1ef1 ti\u00eat ki\u1ec7m l\u00e0 t\u00ednh s\u1eafng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7\u00e3 tr\u1ebb Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 4 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mong r\u00e8n cho ch\u00e1u th\u1ed1i quen bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i ch\u00e1u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m g\u00ec. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1ec9\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea5u xong com, nh\u01b0ng con v\u1eabn \u0111\u00f2i n\u1eb1ng n\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a ra ngo\u00e0i \u0103n ti\u1ec7m. Theo ch\u1ecb, l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o m\u1edbi r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho con th\u00f3i quen ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m? Th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o r\u00e1ch r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i v\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c l\u00e0 g\u00ec, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n \u00edt \u1ecfi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i anh ch\u1ecb em l\u00e0 g\u00ec, hon n\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ra ti\u1ec7m \u0103n com. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf. N\u0103m x\u01b0a, ch\u00fang ta h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m\u201d l\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta chi ti\u00eau t\u1eb1n ti\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n ngon th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0103n d\u00e8, qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eb7c l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb, ng\u1eafn r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c em, n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n ra nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0103n u\u1ed1ng. \u201cTi\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Con trai t\u00f4i sinh sau th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 80, khi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng l\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cao, kho\u1ea3n thu nh\u1eadp c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng chi ti\u00eau c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho con, mua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, \u0111i du l\u1ecbch... Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m trong chuy\u1ec7n mua s\u1eafm qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, v\u00f3i con, \u201cti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u00e0 con tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, th\u00f3i quen ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp thu tri th\u1ee9c, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng cho tr\u1ebb, bao g\u1ed3m h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. L\u00e0m g\u01b0ong l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng cao b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho ph\u00e9p, ra nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0103n c\u01a1m kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n nhanh, s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd, v\u1ec7 sinh (d\u0129 nhi\u00ean hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u1ec7 sinh \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n y\u00ean t\u00e2m, n\u00ean c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng khi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn). Con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng trong nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f4ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ed9n nh\u1ecbp, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f3i m\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.","N\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ra nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u201c\u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3\u201d v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0103n c\u01a1m r\u1ed3i m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n\u201d. N\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, sau n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tin n\u1eefa. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng tin trong tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u0103ng kh\u00edt, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Quan tr\u1ecdng hon s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m l\u00e0 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i t\u1eadp trung \u1edf \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cho tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i coi nh\u1eb9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. H\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, tuy nhi\u00ean s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng do lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb chi ph\u1ed1i. Khi r\u00e8n gi\u0169a m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen ho\u1eb7c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta khi\u1ebfn t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. Hi\u1ec7n nay, \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thanh ni\u00ean \u201cNEET\u201d^1), b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh \u00e1p l\u1ef1c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u00e0 \u201ctr\u1edf v\u1ec1 thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1\u201d, quay v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng chung v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. Th\u1ef1c ra, trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c ra nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng d\u00f9ng com hay kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c con tr\u1ebb th\u00f2i nay kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u00e1 m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0o ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng do \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t kinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ecf ra ch\u1ee5c t\u1ec7 \u0111i \u0103n b\u1eefa com \u1edf nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 xa x\u1ec9 r\u1ed3i, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c t\u1ec7 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eefa \u0103n nhanh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ecdi quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i theo s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. G\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang com h\u1ed9p \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u thanh ni\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cn\u1ea5u \u0103n \u1edf nh\u00e0 r\u1ebb bi\u1ebft bao\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t trong l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng gi\u1eefa hai th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1c nhau, trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1c c\u00e1nh sinh. Th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sung t\u00fac th\u1eadm ch\u00ed xa hoa, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 r\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng xa x\u1ec9, l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed, th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cao l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft con tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebf th\u1eeba c\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. V\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb, \u201cth\u00fa v\u201cc\u00f3\u00fd ngh\u0129a\u201d Con t\u00f4i 5 tu\u1ed5i, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean & nh\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 con th\u00edch m\u00e1y x\u00fac, li\u1ec1n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh m\u00e1y x\u00fac, c\u00f2n l\u00f4i c\u1ea3 s\u00e1ch v\u1edf xu\u1ed1ng, x\u1ebfp th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u00e0ng d\u00e0i d\u01b0&i \u0111\u1ea5t, choi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, gi\u00fap \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 nghe nh\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch... X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i n\u00ean g\u1ecdi m\u1edf cho con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfn\u00e0o?","v\u00f3*i con tr\u1ebb, \u201cth\u00fa v\u1ecb\u201d m\u1ee9i \u201cc\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a\u201d \u1ede nh\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e0nh m\u00e1y x\u00fac, c\u00f2n l\u00f4i c\u1ea3 s\u00e1ch v\u1edf xu\u1ed1ng, x\u1ebfp th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u00e0ng d\u00e0i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, \u201cs\u1eeda \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u00edch th\u00fa, \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i vui m\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang. V\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 gi\u00e0u tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, th\u00edch \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d, ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n trong tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c. M\u1ed7i sinh m\u1ec7nh khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec1u mang theo to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u00f4ng tin t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp thu tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c l\u00f2ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, ham h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 trong tr\u1ebb. \u201cL\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, tr\u1ebb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tri gi\u00e1c quen thu\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u00ec th\u1ea5y nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo, v\u00f4 v\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea7y t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i choi r\u1ea5t h\u0103ng say, mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u00e0 c\u1eeda b\u1eeba b\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb thu d\u1ecdn h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c. C\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf d\u00f9ng gi\u00e1c quan v\u00e0 tri gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed7 tr\u1ecd* tr\u1ebb \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d Cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch hay nghe nh\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t, tuy nhi\u00ean c\u1ea7n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 quy lu\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea3n n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, tr\u1ebb th\u00edch t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n, b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y, ngay t\u1eeb khi m\u00f3i ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 trong suy ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng mi\u1ec7t m\u00e0i. Mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, nghe nh\u1ea1c hay r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng cho tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ea5y ra m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc cho tr\u1ebb nghe b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho con b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ham \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sinh \u1edf th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 50 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 80 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 XX \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong n\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m, th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a m\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa ho\u1eb7c \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa quy lu\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng thi\u00ean v\u1ecb b\u00ean n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n h\u00e0i h\u00f2a, bi\u1ebft t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m","h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng s\u1ee9c lao \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ni\u1ec1m vui. V\u1eady h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch. B\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con... ^\\\\ ? M\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00eau c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea7m sinh v\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu con trai n\u0103m nay 10 tu\u1ed5i, do th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con m\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con trai t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1eed tr\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, & l\u00f3p c\u1ee7ng b\u1ecb c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn con r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 ti, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i h\u1ecdc. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? M\u1ed7i ngir\u00f2d \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 c\u00e1 tinh ri\u00eang Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t\u201d n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, v \u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ra g\u00ec, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn xem, ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 y\u00eau m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d. Hon n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 10 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ecb c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean th\u00ec sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sai l\u1ea7m \u201d? R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang d\u00f9ng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 con tr\u1ebb? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean suy ngh\u0129. S\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u00f4ng ty t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n The Gallup Organization n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t b\u1ea3n b\u00e1o c\u00e1o cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh. Kh\u00f4ng gian tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eb1m \u1edf vi\u1ec7c anh ta ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t huy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1i \u0111a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 trong ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh hay gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1 t\u00ednh v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f9y t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi m\u1edf, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7, d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u00e1 t\u00ednh h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111a nguy\u00ean h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00f4ng tin. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, v\u00f3i t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng con trai b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 bao \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. V\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, nh\u1edd gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean c\u00f9ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn con, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con. T\u00ecm ra \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a con, th\u00ec \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a, gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin hcm. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. T\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con tr\u1ebb trong s\u00e1ng, d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1 nh\u01b0 pha l\u00ea r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh, tinh th\u1ea7n n\u00e0y t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 r\u1ec5 c\u00e2y, \u0103n c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u c\u00e0ng r\u1ed9ng, tr\u00e1i s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng c\u0103ng m\u1ecdng hon. B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin cho tr\u1ebb","Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con trai, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin cho con. C\u00f3 m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, mong r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin cho con. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201cTh\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt, em s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng\u201d... m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n x\u00f3a m\u1edd nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Th\u1ee9 hai, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, l\u00fac c\u1ea7n ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong ba l\u1ea7n, theo t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 1:3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng vui v\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u0169ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u0103ng l\u00ean. Th\u1ee9 ba, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u00e2m bi\u1ebfm, m\u1ec9a mai m\u00e0 h\u00e3y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f9a ch\u00e2n t\u00ecnh, h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh. Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0, khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng vui, cha m\u1eb9 cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, x\u1ea3 stress, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u00f3t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo l\u1eafng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng cho tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i, s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i chi\u1ebfm v\u1ecb tr\u00ed quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong tr\u00e1i tim tr\u1ebb. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 ho\u1eb7c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t tri th\u1ee9c hay k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m, \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 sinh m\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti d\u00f9 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ai, \u0111\u1ec3 trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tin v\u00f3i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u0103n b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb sinh t\u1ed3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp trong t\u01b0ong lai, m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y. Kh\u1eafcph\u1ee5c t\u1eadtl\u00ea m\u00ea c\u1ee7a con Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 8 tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ee7ng l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7ng v\u1eady. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u00f2rng t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho con hi\u1ec3u th\u00f2i gian qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng \u0103n thua. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho con, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh nh\u1eb9n hom? Ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1eed tr\u1ebb em Th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng di\u1ec5n ra v\u00f3i nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u nhanh v\u00e0 s\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed9ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00f3i n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t cao, m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea1t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cao, bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u00f2i gian. Nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng nhanh chi ph\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u201cch\u1eadm\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n. Th\u1ef1c ra, n\u1ebfu th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00f3i nh\u00e2n","lo\u1ea1i. N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, khi s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ed9ng hon quan s\u00e1t, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 t\u00ecnh t\u00ednh l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhanh nh\u1eb9n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n quan s\u00e1t nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nhanh, m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ra \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 nhanh ch\u1eadm trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf ch\u00e1u. v \u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu, tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 nhanh, m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng nhanh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u1ea7n v\u00f3i ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t vui; khi bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u00f3i nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 s\u00e2u, \u201ck\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u00ednh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i\u201d trong tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ed1c n\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c bi\u1ebfng nh\u00e1c, u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i. Th\u1ef1c ra, ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, l\u00e0 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i, c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c chi ph\u1ed1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb nh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng nhanh c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1 cao \u201chi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t t\u1ed1i \u0111a\u201d, th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i trong h\u00e0nh vi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t. Do \u0111\u00f3, khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 ho\u1eb7c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u1ea5u tr\u0129, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ed9 tr\u1ebb cho xong ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 th\u1eadt tr\u01a1n tru, tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb ng\u1ed3i bu\u1ed9c d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y, b\u00e0n tay l\u00f3ng ng\u00f3ng l\u1ea7n t\u1eebng ch\u00fat m\u1ed9t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t: \u201cSao m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a bu\u1ed9c xong v\u1eady? \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u1eafm c\u01a1 m \u00e0!\u201d, th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 li\u1ec1n ng\u1ed3i ngay xu\u1ed1ng tho\u0103t tho\u1eaft m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c l\u00e0 th\u1eaft xong cho con. Kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u01b0\u00f3p \u0111i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh theo d\u00f5i con \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i t\u1ecf \u00fd t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, khen ng\u1ee3i con: \u201cBu\u1ed9c d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u00f4i tay \u0111\u00f3 con nh\u00e9\u201d, th\u00ec c\u00f3 \u00edch bi\u1ebft bao cho tr\u1ebb! Trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u00ecn c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, l\u00f3ng ng\u00f3ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u1ee5n v\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a.Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng sau: Tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i m\u1eb7c qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, r\u1eeda tay","ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nhanh l\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u201cnghe l\u00f2i\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn li\u1ec1n b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i l\u00e0m \u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i l\u00e0 xong cho tr\u1ebb. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba la kh\u00f3c v\u1eeba gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng v\u00ec b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d theo nh\u1ecbp \u0111i\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ngoan ngo\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cnh\u1ecbp s\u1ed1ng nhanh\u201d c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 len l\u1ecfi v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd k\u00ecm ch\u1ebfl\u00f2ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201cu\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i\u201d. Khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p, cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch can thi\u1ec7p, d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh vi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay tr\u1ebb. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf s\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u201d n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u00f3p \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u201cch\u1eadm\u201d \u0111i, ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u201d nhanh g\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Do \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nhanh ch\u1eadm trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Gi\u00fap con s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 M\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u00f2i gian, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh gi\u1ecfi giang, xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng do \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t, n\u00ean n\u1ebfu x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh con c\u00f3 t\u1eadt l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00ec sau khi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p sau: Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, khi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00f2i gian ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi bao nhi\u00eau th\u00f2i gian m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, sau \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh l\u00f9i th\u00f2i gian, \u0111\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1c tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 th\u00f2i gian khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Th\u1ee9 hai, r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft l\u00e0 do l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 sau khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con trai t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ra qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1c con h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho ch\u00e1u t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ch\u0103m ch\u00fa x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh, ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1t th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u201cqu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i\u201d tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y, sau n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p, tan h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. Th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1eadp trung n\u00e0y c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Th\u1ee9 ba, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ec1 m\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng cao, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u. T\u1ef1 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, sau khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang say s\u01b0a xem b\u1ed9 phim ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch, ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i t\u1eaft tivi v\u00e0 ra l\u1ec7nh: \u201c\u0110i l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp mau!\u201d, tr\u1ebb mi\u1ec5n","c\u01b0\u1ee1ng ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng vui, hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u, khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i xem tivi, cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t hon. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1eadp th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u thay con m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cao. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang, m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u con m\u00ecnh nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con y\u00eau, song song v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u201cth\u00f2i gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3\u201d trong cu\u1ed9c ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua v\u00f3i th\u00f2i gian. Th\u00e2y \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th \u1ee9 c v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i\u201ch\u1ecdc t\u1eadp\u201d Con trai t\u00f4i tr\u01b0&c \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t ham h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m l&p 8, con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ecf ra h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u00f3i v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1eb1ng: \u201cH\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0m g\u00ec, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111 \u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1ed1i th\u1ec9 c\u1eed m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u201d, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con sa s\u00fat. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, n\u1eb7ng nh\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0103n thua. V\u1eady t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111 \u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y? T\u1ea1o m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp Th\u1ef1c ra, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u201cch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d n\u00f3i tr\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c g\u00ec. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, sau \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, k\u00edch th\u00edch l\u00f2ng ham h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc. Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 l\u00ean, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u00f9n b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00fac n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, sinh l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u00f5 n\u00e9t, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con, c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y. T\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 ham h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1edf th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn. V\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc? Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u00e9p con tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn hay nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ebb, sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc quan tr\u1ecdng khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 con tr\u1ebb \u201cham h\u1ecdc\u201d th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ngoan ngo\u00e3n do b\u1ecb b\u1eaft \u00e9p ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 suy y\u1ebfu. Ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb coi","h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ebfu \u1edf ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang theo h\u1ecdc, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u0169ng n\u1ea3y sinh. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch vui v\u1ebb \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n trung h\u1ecdc, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 15 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch phong ph\u00fa, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 14 ,15 tu\u1ed5i, khi s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh t\u0103ng l\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc. Hi\u1ec7n nay, tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu s\u1ee9c \u00e9p h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch thi c\u1eed. Th\u1ef1c ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, c\u00f2n ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u1edf b\u1eadc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 trung h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9, c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh ham ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, g\u1ee3i m\u1edf, ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc, h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 choi, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201ch\u1ecdc t\u1eadp\u201d, t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb. L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eafp cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t \u201c\u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1\u201d ham h\u1ecdc. \/\\\\ M\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi ngu\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa m\u1edbi Th\u1ebfk\u1ef7 XIX & \u0110\u1ee9c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ean l\u00e0 Karl W\u1ec9tte, n\u0103m 8 tu\u1ed5i c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 tinh th\u00f4ng 6 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef: \u0110\u1ee9c, Ph\u00e1p, \u00dd, La tinh, Anh v\u00e0 Hy L\u1ea1p; \u0111\u1ed3ng th&i am hi\u1ec3u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt h\u1ecdc, v\u1eadt l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc. N\u0103m 10 tu\u1ed5i, Karl W\u1ec9tte v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, 14 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, 16 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 lu\u1eadt h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 lu\u1eadt h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Berlin. N\u0103m 23 tu\u1ed5i cho ra \u0111\u00f2i cu\u1ed1n Sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a Dante, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 Dante. Sau \u0111\u1ed1, Karl Witte \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y trong c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c, truy\u1ec1n b\u00e1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. Ch\u00ednh nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u00f3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi Karl W\u1ec9tte l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t cho ch\u00fang ta. M\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian, cha Karl Witte ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ed3i th\u1eabn th\u1edd c\u1ea7m s\u00e1ch. Cha c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao c\u1eadu l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung. Karl Witte n\u00f3i: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y con r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y trong \u0111\u1ea7u lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u00e1m \u1ea3nh con, m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? H\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 m\u1ed9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ed7, h\u1ecdc r\u00e8n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n n\u00f4ng c\u1ee5, nhung con h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 th\u01a1 ca nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d. Th\u1ea5y con trai h\u1ecfi v\u1eady, cha c\u1ee7a Karl Witte r\u1ea5t m\u1eebng v\u00ec con trai \u00f4ng \u0111ang","suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con trai r\u1ed3i tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i r\u1ea5t h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y l\u00e0m sao con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 h\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau v\u1eadt li\u1ec7u? Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u1ecdc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9, l\u00e0m sao con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p? Con trai, con h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, th\u01a1 ca, v\u0103n h\u1ecdc, h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tinh hoa tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i giao, d\u1ecbch gi\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu con n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ef1 m\u1ed9c, th\u00ec ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 con l\u00e0m s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb9p bi\u1ebft bao!\u201d. Nghe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft s\u00e1ng ng\u00f2i c\u1ee7a Karl Witte l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 v\u1ebb vui m\u1eebng, nh\u1eefng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc trong l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1o g\u1ee1. Cha Karl Witte \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf cho nhu c\u1ea7u n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i cho con tr\u1ebb, ngu\u1ed3n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft, gi\u1ea3 d\u1ee5 khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con trai kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, cha Karl Witte li\u1ec1n ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con ngay: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao \u0111ang y\u00ean \u0111ang l\u00e0nh l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa? Th\u1eadt \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ra sao c\u1ea3, su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7 g\u00ec c\u1ea3? Cho con h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u1ef1 m\u1ed9c, th\u1ef1 r\u00e8n \u01b0? T\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111i, c\u00f2n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ea9n v\u01a1 cha s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3\u201d. L\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con, ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng dam m\u00ea hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng b\u1ecb b\u00f3p ch\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1edbi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 8 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, \u1edf nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eebng l\u00e0m v\u1edb \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c, choi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed1c, nh\u01b0ng v\u00e2y quanh con v\u1eabn c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m tr\u1ebb, c\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u00f4ng t\u01b0&ng v\u1eady. C\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, t\u00f4i th\u00ec thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i th\u00ec r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng \u201cv\u0169 l\u1ef1c\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5p, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebfch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng hay x\u1ea3y ra tranh c\u00e3i. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1ec9nh ngh\u1ecbch? L\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i m\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con? Quan s\u00e1t t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng cha m\u1eb9 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng, l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, t\u00f2 m\u00f2, th\u00edch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00ednh \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 nh\u01b0 \u201cqu\u1ef7 s\u1ee9\u201d, \u201cr\u1eafc r\u1ed1i\u201d hay d\u00f9ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Th\u1ef1c ra, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u201cquy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. \u1ede m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb khi tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 coi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 r\u1ee7 r\u1ec9 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1nh ch\u1eedi, qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u00edt mang khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 x\u1ed1c n\u1ed5i.","N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 quan s\u00e1t t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1ch quan hon. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd xem ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u0169ng ch\u00e1u trai kh\u00e1c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n khi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y th\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong gia t\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u00f9ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m hon con trai b\u1ea1n, xem xem hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i anh \u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u1ed1t hay kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t. N\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u1ed5n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u0169ng g\u00ec, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tinh ngh\u1ecbch tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u00f3i qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea1o b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 huy\u1ebft th\u1ed1ng. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01b0 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01b0n C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a cha v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 gi\u1ed1ng nhau hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1i. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00e1c nhau, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung cho nhau. N\u1ebfu quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao c\u1ea3, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 nhau, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau th\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1edf con tr\u1ebb. M\u1eb9 nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, cha nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ef1 cho nhau. Ch\u1ec9 s\u1ef1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec cha\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00ec n\u00f3i: \u201cCha th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1eb9 chi\u1ec1u n\u00ean sinh h\u01b0, cha ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n l\u1ea1i\u201d. T\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t, con tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb k\u1eb9p gi\u1eefa hai lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn trong l\u00f2ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, th\u1eafc m\u1eafc. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng xung \u0111\u1ed9t, n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n, \u201cph\u00f4i thai tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u201cph\u00f4i thai th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c\u201d. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd. S\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t trong ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd g\u00e2y ra c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 do \u201cb\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn\u201d, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng x\u1ea3y ra tranh c\u00e3i v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y t\u1ed1t hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i theo ai. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ed5 sung cho nhau, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c mang t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Khi con tr\u1ebb nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cha kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p, cha d\u1ea1y con theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh\u201d (Ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i khoa h\u1ecdc). N\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cCha l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, cha d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh, con ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp thu, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, l\u1edbn l\u00ean con s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh\u201d. L\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdp l\u1ef1c. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i xem hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi nhau th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ef3 v\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb, \u1edf m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. H\u00e3y cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eadu \u201cqu\u1ef7 s\u1ee9\u201d khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng, bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai t\u1ed1t khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. H\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u x\u1ea3y ra!","Con tr\u1ebbl\u00e0 v\u1ecbkh\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1ea5n v\u00e0kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o C\u1eadu con trai l\u00ean 3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00f3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ee7ng h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao, t\u1ea1i sao\u201d, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i. Kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n l\u1eafm m\u00f3i t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho con th\u00ec con lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u201cT\u1ea1i sao\u201d, khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft con \u0111ang & trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 th\u1ebfgi\u00f3i, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebft\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi con \u0111\u01b0a ra, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y con h\u1ecfi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c h\u1ebft c\u00e2u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed1 ch\u1ecbu. X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00f3i con \u1ea1? Con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o Tr\u1ebb v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i th\u1eafc m\u1eafc k\u1ef3 qu\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. V\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd gi\u00e1. C\u00f9ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a con trai h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ea5n trong t\u00f4i. \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, t\u1ea1i sao con m\u00e8o kh\u00f4ng \u0111i gi\u00e0y h\u1ea3 m\u1eb9?\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, t\u1ea1i sao con ch\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o \u1ea1?\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, t\u1ea1i sao hoa l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n tay?\u201d \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, t\u1ea1i sao xe h\u01a1i l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 b\u00e1nh \u1ea1?\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, ai \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0o hai c\u00e1i l\u1ed7 tr\u00ean m\u0169i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea1?\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t?\u201d, \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, t\u1ea1i sao cha l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 r\u00e2u \u1ea1?\u201d. Ng\u00e0y \u1ea5y t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con! Con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb con, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c d\u1ed3ng th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec1u do ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi c\u00f2n \u0111ang \u1edf trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Nhung nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nghe th\u1ea5y, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t xa l\u1ea1, t\u00ednh t\u00f2 m\u00f2 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f2i k\u1ef3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc\u201d. \u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a ra, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee5ng \u00fd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00ec tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb, truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cho tr\u1ebb. v \u00ec khi h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?\u201d, trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ham hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi b\u00ean trong d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o, vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 3 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt xung quanh v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi t\u00ean ch\u00fang, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec\u201d, \u201cKia l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec\u201d, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1eddi k\u1ef3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean\u201d. C\u00f2n tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 4 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cTh\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d, \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1eddi k\u1ef3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc th\u1ee9 hai\u201d. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2*i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c k\u1ef3 qu\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00f2i th\u1eafc m\u1eafc ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu g\u1ed3m s\u00e1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 sau: M\u1ed9t l\u00e0, xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u00f3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3; hai l\u00e0, mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn; ba l\u00e0, xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; b\u1ed1n l\u00e0,","xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef; n\u0103m l\u00e0, mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn; s\u00e1u l\u00e0, do trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1ea5m \u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. C\u00e1c c\u1ea5u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a ra th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt sau: C\u00e1c lo\u00e0i sinh v\u1eadt, c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5 CO\u201d kh\u00ed, s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, thi\u00ean th\u1ec3 kh\u00ed t\u01b0\u1ee3ng... Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb non n\u00f3t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i con tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef quy ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ean g\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. Cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u00ec tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng qua m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t \u1ea5u tr\u0129 n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2 i \u0111\u1ea1i kh\u00e1i cho xong, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 cho tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u00f9 h\u1ef1p v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i ngay nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay, c\u1ea7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cV\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u\u201d, sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, tra c\u1ee9u. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c gi\u1edf s\u00e1ch, nh\u00ecn v\u1ebb ch\u0103m ch\u00fa c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tra c\u1ee9u, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y. Tranh th\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 ham hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ecdi th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecba ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 cho xong chuy\u1ec7n. Th\u1eed th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ngay \u0111\u00e1p \u00e1n, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i cho th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea1m vi quan t\u00e2m cho tr\u1ebb. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdc t\u1ee9c cha m\u1eb9, mu\u1ed1n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng r\u1eb1ng \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con ph\u1ea3i \u0111i ng\u1ee7 gi\u1edd n\u00e0y \u1ea1?\u201d, \u201cT\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3?\u201d l\u00f2i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111on gi\u1ea3n, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ng\u1ee7 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7\u201d . N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb li\u00ean t\u1ee5c d\u00f9ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec5u, thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd m\u1eb9 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 l\u1eb3ng l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m \u0111\u1ebfm x\u1ec9a \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ban \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00f3i h\u1ea1n th\u00f2i gian tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u00f2n n\u0103m ph\u00fat n\u1eefa. Trong n\u0103m ph\u00fat n\u00e0y h\u1ecfi g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c, n\u0103m ph\u00fat sau m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ngoi. Chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb nh\u00e9, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u...\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?\u201d ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd theo s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i m\u00f3i. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng","tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9... Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5pph\u00ea b\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7\u00e3 con tr\u01b0\u1edbcm\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 9 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u01b0&c \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nghe l\u00f2i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea1y \u0111i choi xa, ch\u1ec9 choi loanh quanh g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0, h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. K \u1ec3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m ngo\u00e1i, sau khi nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9a con tr\u1ea1c tu\u1ed5i ch\u00e1u chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o ch\u00e1u c\u0169ng th\u00edch choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed9n, c\u00f3 l\u00fac v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm kh\u1eafp noi. Sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng v\u1eabn quay v\u1ec1 khu nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7 t\u00ecm \u0111\u00e1m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 choi. T\u1ed1i n\u00e0o ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm con v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ng\u1ee7, v\u00e0 con c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u00f2rng xuy\u00ean l\u00e9n \u0111i choi, qu\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng nghe, \u0111\u00e1nh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1eddi hom. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng con c\u00f2n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft con n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo con s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec, d\u00f9 sao th\u00ec c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ed1t con \u1edf nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho \u0111i choi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng khi 8, 9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb th\u00edch t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp, th\u00edch choi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u1ee9 sau gi\u1edd \u0103n t\u1ed1i c\u00e1c ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, s\u00e2n khu nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u1edf t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u trai \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, trong khi 3, 4 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch b\u00e1m theo cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, g\u1eb7p nhau c\u00f3 khi c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi! M\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf \u0111i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng cao, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa r\u00f2i v\u00f2ng tay cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u00fang ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i cho ph\u00e9p v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb \u0111i k\u1ebft giao v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00f3i, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n h\u1ecdp l\u00fd. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, sau \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. N\u1ebfu r\u0103n d\u1ea1y hay gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp thu. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c nhau \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0110\u00f4ng y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb (quan s\u00e1t, ng\u1eedi, h\u1ecfi han, b\u1eaft m\u1ea1ch), ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p T\u00e2y y (\u0111au \u0111\u00e2u tr\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3). Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i ai, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui g\u00ec... Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i tra kh\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con. Qua l\u00f2i mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng con trai b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1 ngoan, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o ra cho con c\u00f3 phong ph\u00fa hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 9 tu\u1ed5i sau khi g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho c\u1eadu nh\u1eefng","\u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u1eadu s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 \u0111i ch\u01a1i qu\u00ean c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1. C\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb choi v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, bao g\u1ed3m ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch choi \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan hay kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u qua ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee7a b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 choi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n m\u00f3i n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc c\u1ea7n tu\u00e2n theo Quy t\u1eafc h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n luy\u1ec7n khi tr\u1ebb kho\u1ea3ng 2 tu\u1ed5i, trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, v\u1ec7 sinh, ng\u1ee7... S\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee1 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh quy t\u1eafc th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u201cqu\u1ea3n gi\u00e1o\u201d sau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, quy t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 h\u00e0 kh\u1eafc, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 ngoan, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc b\u00ean trong. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m 9 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng ngang ng\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i quy\u1ebft li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 M\u1ea1nh T\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 s\u00e2u. Con tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m s\u1ebd b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng hay nh\u1ed1t tr\u1ebb \u1edf nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7. Tham gia nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1edf mang th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi cho tr\u1ebb D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c con tr\u1ebb, cho tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan c\u00f9ng choi v\u1edbi nhau c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, hu\u1ed1ng chi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u? Trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, Karl Witte \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01b0, trong khi th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u01b0 l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec5m sang \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan r\u1ea5t nhanh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 do th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f2n th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec5m\u201d. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng cho con trai m\u00ecnh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn hai c\u00f4 b\u00e9 l\u00e0 con nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i, con trai \u00f4ng v\u00e0 hai c\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00e0y ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a r\u1ea5t vui, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e2u sau \u00f4ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng con trai m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n m\u1eafc th\u00eam t\u1eadt ki\u00eau c\u0103ng. Sau khi quan s\u00e1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb, Karl Witte \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, h\u00f3a ra chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec hai c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kia c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn con trai \u00f4ng, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng Karl Witte li\u1ec1n b\u1ecf th\u1eddi gian ra ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i con, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i tuy\u1ec7t h\u01a1n v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 m\u00e0 con trai th\u00edch ch\u01a1i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00f3i ch\u1ed3ng, t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng l\u00e0m v\u00f3i con, c\u00f9ng con tham gia v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kia; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0","nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i kh\u00e1c nhau, ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cho tr\u1ebb tham gia nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng hon, m\u1edf mang ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m b\u1ea1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p \u201cb\u00e0y m\u01b0u\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 con g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i d\u1eady th\u00ec, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n l\u1eb3ng l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0a con tham gia nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 giao hon, l\u00e0m quen v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i hon. N\u1ebfu ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 con choi g\u00e2y ra nh\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i l\u00e0m quen v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hon, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n m\u00f3i hon. \u201cB\u00e0y m\u01b0u\u201d lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ef1i m\u1edf ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng hay u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201c\u00e2m th\u1ea7m b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t cho tr\u1ebb\u201d. Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7\u00e3 tr\u1ebb Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh, nhung kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, sinh ho\u1ea1t trong nh\u00e0, ngay c\u1ea3 c\u1eb7p s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eeb \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1eb9 thu d\u1ecdn gi\u00fap. X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Gi\u00fap \u0111\u00f5* kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1eedng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0110\u1ecdc c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t nhanh nh\u1eb9n, hay l\u00e0m, c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i th\u00f4ng minh m\u00f3i ngh\u0129 \u201cA, m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh l\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fat c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao\u201d. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, con tr\u1ebb v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t tinh ranh! Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u do b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm, ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ho\u1eb7c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1eafc b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ed3 ly m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng? H\u1ed3 ly m\u1eb9 v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t y\u00eau con, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng cho h\u1ed3 ly con v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 v\u1eeba c\u1eafn v\u1eeba \u0111u\u1ed5i h\u1ed3 ly con nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean, \u0111u\u1ed5i h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n con ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed3 ly con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra v\u00f3i con c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i, c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 12 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1ed9t h\u00f4m ch\u1ecb th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u00f2i gian v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 n\u1ea5u com cho con, li\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o con \u1edf nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec, n\u1ea5u n\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng vui, lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng tho\u00e1i th\u00e1c: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1ea5u, con kh\u00f4ng \u0103n n\u1eefa\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1ebf th\u00ec con c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u00f3i\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ecb t\u00ednh to\u00e1n th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u00e3 \u201c\u0111\u00f3i m\u1ec1m\u201d r\u1ed3i m\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ngo\u00e0i m\u00f3n s\u01b0\u1eddn chua ng\u1ecdt m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ea5u t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ebf bi\u1ebfn th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f3n tr\u1ee9ng s\u1ed1t c\u00e0 chua, m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1c sinh t\u1ed1, m\u1ed9t b\u00e1t com (mua \u1edf c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng v\u1ec1) v\u00e0 \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i v\u1eeba \u0103n","ngon l\u00e0nh, v\u1eeba nghe nh\u1ea1c. B\u1ea1n xem, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1edd \u201cb\u1eaft \u00e9p\u201d. \u201cT\u1ef1 l\u1eadp\u201d l\u00e0 t\u1eeb d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n n\u00ean suy ngh\u0129: T\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m thay m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m hay kh\u00f4ng? T\u1eeb \u0103n com, ng\u1ee7, choi \u0111\u00f9a... c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh theo s\u1ef1 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn? N\u1ebfu con l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 10 tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. H\u00e3y r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0 tay bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ed3, ch\u00e2n bi\u1ebft b\u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00edch \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d. Kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean 2 tu\u1ed5i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n lau nh\u00e0, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ea7m c\u00e2y lau nh\u00e0; b\u1ea1n r\u1eeda b\u00e1t, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7m \u0111\u0169a; b\u1ea1n nh\u1eb7t rau, tr\u1ebb ng\u1ed3i c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eb7t h\u1ed9... Trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt, ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y khi m\u1ed9t con th\u00fa nh\u1ecf g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, m\u1eb9 con th\u00fa nh\u1ecf s\u1ebd gi\u00fap n\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00fap r\u1ed3i. Th\u1ef1c ra, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u n\u1ed9i t\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u201d c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1ef1 l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f9ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u00e9\u201d, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ch\u0103m ch\u00fa theo d\u00f5i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec \u201cb\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng \u201cCon t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u201d, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Do c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf n\u00ean tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y do ai gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb t\u00e1ch d\u1ea7n kh\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp h\u01a1n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, \u0111ang c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d. Khi tr\u1ebb ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i v\u00e0 v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nguy hi\u1ec3m th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady; khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n b\u1eb1ng tay, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ea9n qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u00e0 c\u1ea7m thay cho tr\u1ebb; khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 \u0111i d\u00e9p nh\u01b0ng \u0111i d\u00e9p tr\u00e1i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u1ed9i u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn ngay... Sau khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng tay ra \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, t\u00ecm t\u00f2i bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian d\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng vi\u1ec7c. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u hay ph\u00e1 ph\u00e1ch. Vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, l\u00e0m m\u1eabu th\u00f4ng qua h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n su\u00f4ng.","\u0110e tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ni\u00eam vui t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o khi \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1ea3y sinh qu\u00e1n t\u00ednh. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf con \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u00f3 i vi\u1ec7c m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, v\u1eady m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed thay \u0111\u1ed5i vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00e2m th\u1ea7m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u1ebf t\u1ea1i sao vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec con c\u0169ng nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap?\u201d. Khi \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ef1 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129, \u0111\u1ebfn khi nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sai, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi thu d\u1ecdn s\u00e1ch v\u1edf cho con, b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00ean v\u1edf b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f3p v\u00e0 \u201cm\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t\u201d m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9. Cho d\u00f9 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb vui hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea9n \u201cnh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i\u201d. M\u1eb9 m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i m\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u00f4i, con kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edd m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m v\u1eady\u201d. V\u1eady l\u00e0, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1ed3i. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1eddn n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ef1ng, ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng. C\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ni\u1ec1m vui t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c \u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef v\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111on gi\u1ea3n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c do m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf ra, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd coi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0ong nhi\u00ean, t\u00ednh \u1ef7 l\u1ea1i v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui do b\u1ecf s\u1ee9c lao \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m \u00f3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t c\u1eadp, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n r\u00e8n t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0m, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean giao qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec song song v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0ong lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb \u1edf m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3h\u00e3\u1ec9 ri\u00eang Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 6 tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, tr\u00f2i t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ra ngo\u00e0i, \u0111i v\u00f3i m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00fam ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y m\u1eb9; t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m & nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t; n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ra t\u1eaft b\u1ebfp gas, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ee7ng r\u1ee5t r\u00e8. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m hon? Tr\u1ebb \u1ecf* m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, 6 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i. S\u1ee3 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, s\u1ee3 ma, s\u1ef1 s\u1ea5m ch\u00f3p, s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh... Nh\u01b0ng khi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n hon, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1eabn \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho con trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.","Tr\u1ebb \u1edf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb 2 tu\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh l\u1edbn, c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn hem, tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i m\u00f3i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o d\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 8 tu\u1ed5i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do c\u00f4 lu\u00f4n nghe th\u1ea5y trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u00e2m thanh b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng sau l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 n\u1eefa. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb 8, 9 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd \u00edt n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i hon, tr\u1ebb 10 tu\u1ed5i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin hon. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1 v\u1eabn \u00e1m \u1ea3nh tr\u1ebb d\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m theo tr\u1ebb trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng sau n\u00e0y. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ecd* h\u00e3i Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 xem m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c d\u1ecda tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2 i hay kh\u00f4ng? Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ecda d\u1eabm tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb ng\u1eef nh\u01b0 \u201cch\u00fa c\u00f4ng an\u201d, \u201ccon ma\u201d, \u201c\u00f4ng ba m\u01b0\u01a1i\u201d... \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn. C\u00e1ch d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb b\u1edbt ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c \u201c\u0111\u1ea1o c\u1ee5\u201d m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111em ra \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ecda n\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n t\u1ecf ra s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 s\u1ea5m ch\u00f3p, l\u1eeda, b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, c\u00e1c con v\u1eadt nh\u1ecf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u00f4ng, c\u1ecf... M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh qu\u00e1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con, s\u1ef1 con b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u1edbi, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m thay tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m. v \u00ed d\u1ee5, con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u00ea c\u1ed1c u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u1edb nh\u01b0 \u201cKh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ch\u1eb3ng may l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 c\u1ed1c s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9t tay ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m \u01b0\u1edbt qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o\u201d r\u1ed3i b\u00ea c\u1ed1c h\u1ed9 tr\u1ebb; tr\u1ebb gi\u1eabm l\u00ean gh\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb7t \u1edf tr\u00ean cao, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 con ng\u00e3 r\u1ed3i l\u00e0m thay... D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, e d\u00e8, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00e0m, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eed. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin, v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung l\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u00ednh \u201cnh\u00fat nh\u00e1t\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m sai b\u1ecb tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eed s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u00f3i, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng r\u00f3n r\u00e9n th\u00ec sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ngo\u00e0i ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con tr\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 s\u00e2u r\u00f3m, nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y s\u00e2u r\u00f3m l\u00e0 h\u00e9t l\u00ean th\u1ea5t thanh, co r\u00fam ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y s\u00e2u r\u00f3m c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t m\u1eb9. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 r\u1ea5t s\u1ee3 s\u00e2u r\u00f3m, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1, ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o con s\u00e2u r\u00f3m v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon nh\u00ecn xem, n\u00f3 hi\u1ec1n l\u1eafm \u201d. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean, con g\u00e1i ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u00e2u r\u00f3m. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i","C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, c\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed7i n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi nh\u1eb9 n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u1eebng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 3 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00eam kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ng\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m r\u00f2i m\u1eb9 n\u1eeda b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan t\u00e2m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ecf ra qu\u00e1 s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t hay qu\u00e1 th\u1edd \u01a1. Cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con s\u1ef1\u201d, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201cSao m\u00e0 nh\u01b0 con n\u00edt v\u1eady?\u201d, \u201cKh\u00f4ng b\u1ecfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u, sao con nh\u00e1t gan th\u1ebf?\u201d. B\u1ea1n b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u1ea5u \u0111i v\u1ebb c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, an \u1ee7i, quan t\u00e2m. Khi tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00f4m ngay tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh li\u00ean h\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i nguy hi\u1ec3m th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1m nhi\u00ean l\u00e0m m\u1eabu cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m t\u1eaft b\u1ebfp, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eaft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 con s\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng con xem m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m c\u00f3 sao \u0111\u00e2u?\u201d. \u0110\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, nhung th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u201cs\u1ef1 h\u00e3i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u201cT\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con t\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, m\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf cho qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 y\u1ebfu, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i vui v\u1ebb v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i khi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eaft \u0111i\u1ec7n. B\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i khi\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec s\u1ef1 l\u00fd tr\u00ed, ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n, tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i n\u00e0y. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o l\u00fd tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf, m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n l\u00fd tr\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng. Khi ch\u01a1i c\u1ea7n vui v\u1ebb, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 ch\u01a1i tr\u1ed1n t\u00ecm, t\u1eaft h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e8n trong nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tr\u1ed1n \u0111i. Trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb nghe th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00ean t\u00e2m khi tr\u1ed1n trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 vui v\u1ebb ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. Khi tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 \u201cL\u00e0m m\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n x\u00f3a \u0111i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean can \u0111\u1ea3m h\u01a1n. S\u1ecd* do kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, l\u00e0 do kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh. B\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u1ef1 ly, d\u1ec5 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n nh\u1ea7m k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u00f2n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i nguy hi\u1ec3m. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu an to\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt xung quanh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c, n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00f3i m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho ch\u00fang","ta, do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u noi c\u00f3 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean c\u00e1c t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 cao t\u1ea7ng n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed9 cao; ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i. M\u1ecdi n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i \u0111\u1ec1u do kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 ra. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft hon v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c \u201cs\u1ee3 h\u00e3i\u201d, tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c di\u1ec5n ra trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nh\u1eefng nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, qu\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m, ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh. R\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 6 tu\u1ed5i, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ee7 v\u00f3i m\u1eb9. V\u00ec cha ch\u00e1u \u0111i c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u n\u00ean t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t b\u00e1m m\u1eb9. Cha v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1eaft cha ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang. T\u00f4i cho ch\u00e1u ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang nhung ch\u00e1u lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do \u0111 \u1ec3 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i g\u1ec9\u01b0\u00f2ng cha m\u1eb9. T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng trong kh\u1ec9 con trai t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Xin h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u201ct\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd\u201d gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ean 5 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1eb9. Tr\u1ebb y\u00eau m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u00e1m ri\u1ebft, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb v\u00f2ng tay c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n sang x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00edch choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i cha. V\u00ec m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7t ra qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u quy t\u1eafc, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, c\u00e0u nh\u00e0u, trong khi s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, \u00edt n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian t\u1ef1 do r\u1ed9ng hon. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do khi t\u1ea7m 2 tu\u1ed5i, con trai b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a ph\u00e2n t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i do cha ch\u00e1u th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1eafng nh\u00e0, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00f3i cha c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi tr\u1ebb 2 tu\u1ed5i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 2 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n. T\u1ea7m 2 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf \u0111i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 quy\u1ebfn luy\u1ebfn, b\u00e1m ri\u1ebft m\u1eb9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1eeb l\u00fac ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i con trai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ee7 v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t an, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i khi ph\u1ea3i xa m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac n\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f3i gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. \u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00f3i cha, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1eadu con trai 9 tu\u1ed5i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1ecb xem con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a vui v\u1ebb, con em c\u1ee9 b\u00e1m ri\u1ebft l\u1ea5y m\u1eb9\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng \u201cb\u00e1m ri\u1ebft\u201d m\u1eb9 hon; hon n\u1eefa t\u1eeb v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, t\u00f4i","c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 \u201cb\u00e1m ri\u1ebft\u201d m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a con trai ch\u1ecb li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3 quan t\u00e2m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn con, cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i ai, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 con \u1edf b\u00ean, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft ch\u1ecb lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, coi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 em b\u00e9 1 tu\u1ed5i, mi\u1ec7ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o... Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y b\u1ecb \u201ct\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, nh\u00ecn th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i con. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bu\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n tay ra, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi, nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, ng\u00e3 trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u00e3, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 choi m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng choi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i cha... T\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn con, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i v\u00f3i con th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 bu\u00f4ng tay \u1edf th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m con c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n s\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 t\u00ecm nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u1edf tr\u1ebb, r\u1ed3i t\u00ecm ra m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb. Th\u1ef1c ra cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u201cm\u1ed9t b\u00e0n tay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1ed7 th\u00e0nh ti\u1ebfng\u201d, cha m\u1eb9 t\u00e1ch d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb ra, kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f2n cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb. Th\u1eed m\u1ea5y bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p nh\u1ecf C\u00f2n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 6 tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf n\u1ecd th\u1ebf kia, n\u1ebfu t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f3i quen trong s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn\u201d s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hon so v\u00f3i \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf\u201d, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e3o nhi\u1ec1u hon. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang t\u1eeb khi 2 tu\u1ed5i. Vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111on thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 t\u1eadp ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang m\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng hon v\u1eabn l\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu ban ng\u00e0y tr\u1ebb kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c n\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp th\u00ec t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 s\u1ef1 d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 t\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang hon. Khi \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c g\u1ecdi m\u1eb9, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb ngay \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u1edf ngay b\u00ean tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 xa. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u0169ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n ma hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh ti\u1ebft \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ef1, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea7n kinh tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd roi v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hung ph\u1ea5n, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, kh\u00f3 ng\u1ee7. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00ean g\u1ed1i tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t (g\u1ed1i \u00f4m, g\u1ea5u b\u00f4ng...), \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u1ebb loi. N\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n cho ph\u00e9p, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafp m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e8n ng\u1ee7 c\u00f3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng d\u1ecbu m\u1eaft trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i khi n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt","xung quanh. Hai ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb \u0111i ng\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb u\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen \u0111i ti\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7, tr\u00e1nh n\u1eeda \u0111\u00eam s\u1ee3 \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n khen ng\u1ee3i, bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ng\u1ee7 ri\u00eang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u00e3y tr\u00fat b\u1ecf c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo l\u1eafng, h\u00e3y bu\u00f4ng tay ra, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 b\u00e9, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1ed1n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i tr\u0103n tr\u1edf m\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng bi\u1ebft \u0111i kia \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Tr\u1ebb s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o ra th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i m\u00f3i, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee9ng sau l\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00e0 ch\u00fac ph\u00fac cho h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111i xa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb... Gi\u00e3 \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u00e2n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u00ea tr\u1ebbh\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1cm\u00f4i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1ed1p ba, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ed1i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 l\u1eafm. Con \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1ee3t trong c\u1ea5c cu\u1ed9c b\u1ecf phi\u1ebfu b\u00ecnh b\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc sinh ba t\u1ed1t, c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 l\u00f3p. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t l\u00e2y. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp n\u00e0y? Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u00e2n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con trai v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng l\u00f3p ch\u00e1u. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb khi\u1ebfn b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1ebb. K\u00ea\u2019 t\u1eeb khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 mang theo nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m do m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u00e2n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao. Khi t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb trong ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o xem x\u00e9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 xem x\u00e9t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c hon v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tin y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. S\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. G\u1ecd*i \u00fd con nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn trong l\u00f2ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c, ch\u00e1n"]