Me-luon-dong-hanh-cung-con-Duong-Van

["Albert Einstein \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cKhi suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0 duy, khi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i d\u00e0nh th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef\u201d. Tr\u00f2 choi b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 m\u1edf mang tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, hon n\u1eefa, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi s\u1ef1 li\u00ean t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nhanh ch\u00f3ng, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y cho con tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i tay t\u1ef1 do, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c v\u1ebd ra th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i mu\u00f4n h\u00ecnh mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb trong tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng v\u00f4 b\u1edd... Ch\u01a1i l\u00e0h\u1ecdc T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f2i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tr\u00f2 choi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u00edch, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n, s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh ti\u1ebft, ph\u00e2n vai, nh\u1eb1m ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a tr\u00ed t\u01b0&ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u00f4ng qua ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, d\u00e0n d\u1ef1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n tr\u00f2 choi, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u01b0 nh\u01b0 sau: Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 4 tu\u1ed5i r\u01b0\u1eefi, ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non th\u01b0cmg xuy\u00ean ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu t\u1eadp trung, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u00edch ngh\u1ecbch tr\u00f2 n\u1ecd tr\u00f2 kia. v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u00f4 giao. T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef n\u00f3i \u201cNh\u00ecn tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ba l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0\u201d, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t lo sau n\u00e0y khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc con c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi, l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng ham choi v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc hem? \u201cL\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng ham choi m\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc hom?\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi chung c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng con s\u1edbm th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i n\u00e0y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng mong m\u1ecfi con kh\u00f4ng ham choi v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u00f9i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc! H\u00e0ng x\u00f3m nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 6 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 nh\u1ed1t \u1edf trong nh\u00e0 hai ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e0n piano, h\u1ecdc th\u01b0 ph\u00e1p. \u1ede c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t khu nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u1eadu choi \u0111\u00f9a \u1edf ngo\u00e0i v\u00f3i c\u1ea5c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 hi\u1ec7n nay, c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc, cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch sang ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ba th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng, Tottochan - C\u00f4 b\u00e9 b\u00ean c\u1eeda s\u1ed5, c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Tetsuko Kuroyanagi, vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh h\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc. S\u1ef1 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, tinh ngh\u1ecbch trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 Tottochan \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng Kobayashi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. Quan ch\u1ee9c Li\u00ean h\u1ecdp qu\u1ed1c sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc xong cu\u1ed1n Tottochan - C\u00f4 b\u00e9 b\u00ean c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n ti\u1ebfng Anh \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t r\u1eb1ng: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u con tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n Tetsuko","Kuroyanagi\u201d, v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec7m ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed cho Qu\u1ef9 nhi \u0111\u1ed3ng Li\u00ean h\u1ecdp qu\u1ed1c (UNICEF), \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 thi\u1ec7n ch\u00ed th\u1ee9 7 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i sau ng\u00f4i sao \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf Audray Hepburn, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1i s\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed ch\u00e2u \u00c1. Th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 trong s\u00e1ng, t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb bi\u1ebft bao! Ch\u1ec9 ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng, hi\u1ec7n nay nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i b\u1edfi g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. \u201cSao su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea3i choi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp ch\u01b0a?\u201d. \u201cChoi, choi, choi c\u00f3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng? Choi c\u00f3 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ra h\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. \u201cKh\u00f4ng choi n\u1eefa, s\u1eafp thi r\u1ed3i, mau \u0111i \u00f4n b\u00e0i ngay!\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb th\u00f2i nay \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nghe nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 choi tinh ngh\u1ecbch v\u1eabn b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn t\u00f9y \u00fd th\u1ee7 ti\u00eau d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u00ec hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ni\u1ec1m vui. Ham ch\u01a1i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea9m sinh tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian \u1ea5u th\u01a1 n\u00ean tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ni\u1ec1m vui, r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 s\u1eafc m\u00e0u, \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t, tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thao t\u00e1c. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n ng\u1ed3i theo d\u00f5i \u0111\u00e0n ki\u1ebfn hay ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi con giun \u0111\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eafc con quan s\u00e1t t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho con h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quan s\u00e1t. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1t, ngh\u1ecbch n\u01b0\u1edbc, ngh\u1ecbch nam ch\u00e2m, ngh\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, gh\u00e9p m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb c\u00e1c mi\u1ebfng gh\u00e9p... Khi con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con ch\u01a1i tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh tr\u1ef1c quan sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, gi\u00fap c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean song song v\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n hay m\u00f2i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 con hay ch\u01a1i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u00edch, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n, s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh ti\u1ebft, ph\u00e2n vai, ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u00f4ng qua ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, d\u00e0n d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o di\u1ec5n tr\u00f2 choi, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf, l\u00fac vui, l\u00fac gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i, tr\u1ebb em lu\u00f4n c\u00f3","c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang ch\u00fang. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ef1i \u00edch cho con tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ea1o n\u00e0y n\u1ecd, m\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n an to\u00e0n, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean \u201cl\u00f9i v\u1ec1 h\u1eadu ph\u01b0ong\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f3i \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n, \u0111\u00f4i tay, \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft v\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t huy tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o trong tr\u00f2 choi. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u201cchoi\u201d c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n trong tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f4 v\u00e0n ni\u1ec1m vui. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 n\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t trong chu\u1ed3ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 do v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng, choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 kh\u00e1c th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n c\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f2n tr\u1ebb em n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. V\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean lo l\u1eafng r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb em ham ch\u01a1i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, h\u00f4m n\u00e0o tr\u00f2i m\u01b0a, ph\u1ea3i \u1edf nh\u00e0 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y th\u00ec con s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh. Tr\u00f2i quang m\u01b0a t\u1ea1nh, ch\u01a1i xong v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, tinh th\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1ee9ng kh\u1ecfi. Khi \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u1ebfn n\u00f3i v\u1edbi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i th\u00eam kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m cho xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp \u0111i\u201d. Con c\u00e0ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp h\u1ecdp l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian cho m\u00ecnh. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u00f2i gian c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cho con quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac c\u0169ng c\u00f3 chu\u1ec7ch cho\u1ea1c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ra l\u1ec7nh hay m\u1eafng m\u1ecf con m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho con, v\u00ec d\u00f9 sao con c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb! C\u00e0ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ch\u01a1i th\u00ec c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u01a1i c\u0169ng vui m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u1ed9i dung v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u201cch\u01a1i\u201d c\u0169ng kh\u00e1c nhau. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1c th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec1. V\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i con tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd con tr\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng mu\u1ed1n \u201cch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n\u201d ch\u00fang, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u00e9t ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u201cch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed1n\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. C\u00f3 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh lo ng\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb ham ch\u01a1i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, v\u00f4 t\u00e2m. \u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen t\u1eadp trung, c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh trong s\u1ef1 \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 trong khi n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 h\u00ecnh dung m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 4 \u0111\u1ebfn 5 tu\u1ed5i, trong l\u00f3p ng\u1ed3i khoanh tay tr\u00ean b\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng nh\u00fac nh\u00edch v\u00e0 \u201cnghi\u00eam t\u00fac\u201d nghe gi\u1ea3ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o! B\u01a1i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc","t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng g\u00f2 b\u00f3. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o suy ngh\u0129 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ch\u00fang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u1ed5 ra tr\u00ean ph\u1ea1m vi to\u00e0n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. T\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u00f3p 1 b\u1edfi v\u00ec qu\u00e1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ea7m non tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang v\u1ecb tr\u00ed ban \u0111\u1ea7u. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9 cho th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n k\u00e9m khi \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p 3 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi b\u00f3ng \u0111en s\u1ee9c \u00e9p. C\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 5 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non v\u1eeba l\u00e0 noi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ee1 l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng n\u00ean l\u00e0 thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb choi \u0111\u00f9a\u201d. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean y\u00eau c\u1ea7u con tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm. M\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp ni\u1ec1m vui l\u00e0 kho b\u00e1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 cho tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ri\u00eang tr\u1ebb. Ni\u1ec1m vui m\u00e0 kho b\u00e1u n\u00e0y \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ecdi su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00f3i nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau n\u00ean c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 c\u0103n c\u1eed v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u1ecdp l\u00fd. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb em hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt th\u00f2i gian t\u1ef1 do ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a nh\u01b0: M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00ec lo v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n cho con tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1ea1i s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u00f2i gian bi\u1ec3u cho con d\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a c\u00f3 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. B\u1edfi th\u1ebf, xem tivi v\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed tr\u00ean m\u00e1y t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em. Hi\u1ec7p h\u1ed9i qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf B\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ecdi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em (IPA) \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 b\u00e1o c\u00e1o nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, hi\u1ec7n nay tr\u1ebb em \u0111ang b\u1ecf d\u1ea7n c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y, x\u00e2y l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i c\u00e1t..., trong khi \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb em th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i \u1ea5u th\u01a1, m\u1ed9t \u1ee7y ban g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c chuy\u1ebfn gia v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eed 32 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 10 tu\u1ed5i. \u0110i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eebng l\u00e0, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f9ng H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01a1i 2\/3 s\u1ed1 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0y khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n gi\u00f3i thi\u1ec7u v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n danh s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, mong r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u1ea5y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con em ch\u00fang ta l\u01b0u gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ec9 ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb nh\u1ea5t trong thu\u1edf thi\u1ebfu th\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. Danh s\u00e1ch 32 tr\u00f2 chod tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ch\u01a1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 10 tu\u1ed5i: \u2666 L\u0103n l\u1ed9n tr\u00ean b\u00e3i c\u1ecf b\u00ean b\u1edd s\u00f4ng","\u2666 N\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ea5t s\u00e9t \u2666 N\u1eb7n t\u00f2 he b\u1eb1ng b\u1ed9t g\u1ea1o \u2666 Nh\u1eb7t tr\u1ee9ng \u1ebfch \u2666 L\u00e0m n\u01b0\u1edbc hoa b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1nh hoa \u2666 Tr\u1ed3ng rau b\u00ean th\u1ec1m c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 \u2666 L\u00e0m m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 b\u1eb1ng b\u00eca c\u1ee9ng \u2666 X\u00e2y l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i c\u00e1t \u2666 Tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y \u2666 \u0110\u00e0o h\u1ea7m trong s\u00e2n \u2666 V\u1ebd b\u1eb1ng ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 tay \u2666 D\u00f9ng b\u00fat m\u00e0u v\u1ebd m\u1eb7t h\u1ec1 \u2666 V\u00f9i m\u00ecnh trong c\u00e1t \u2666 L\u00e0m b\u00e1nh m\u1ef3 \u2666 \u0110\u1eafp ng\u01b0\u00f2i tuy\u1ebft \u2666 N\u1eb7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u2666 Tham gia m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u201cth\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m\u201d \u2666 C\u1eafm tr\u1ea1i trong s\u00e2n \u2666 N\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00e1nh \u2666 Nu\u00f4i v\u1eadt nu\u00f4i trong nh\u00e0 \u2666 \u0110i h\u00e1i d\u00e2u t\u00e2y \u2666 Choi kh\u0103ng \u2666 Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m lo\u00e0i chim \u2666 B\u1eaft c\u00e0o c\u00e0o \u2666 \u0110\u1ea1p xe qua v\u0169ng n\u01b0\u1edbc","\u2666 L\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1nh di\u1ec1u v\u00e0 mang \u0111i th\u1ea3 \u2666 L\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u201ct\u1ed5\u201d t\u1eeb c\u1ecf v\u00e0 c\u00e0nh c\u00e2y \u2666 T\u00ecm m\u01b0\u1eddi lo\u1ea1i l\u00e1 kh\u00e1c nhau trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean \u2666 Tr\u1ed3ng rau \u2666 N\u1ea5u \u0103n s\u00e1ng cho cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u2666 \u0110\u00e1nh nhau m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn v\u1eeba v\u1eeba v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen Th\u1ef1c ra H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 choi, choi tr\u00f2 choi v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u1ed1i quen t\u1ed1t. M\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng n\u0103m 2002, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 ph\u00e1t minh h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge, m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu h\u1ecdc sinh trung h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 qu\u00e1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u1eb1ng v\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfng Anh r\u1ea5t l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t: Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a sinh v\u1eadt, t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a ra b\u00e1nh xe? Khi soi g\u01b0ong, t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng b\u00ean ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 b\u00ean tr\u00e1i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, trong khi b\u00ean tr\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ecb tr\u00ed? N\u1ebfu sinh v\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 h\u1ecdp b\u1edfi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu c\u01a1 do cacbon l\u00e0m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5 h\u1ecdp b\u1edfi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t h\u1eefu c\u01a1 do silic l\u00e0m n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng th\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Em s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o? G\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u00f3i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy nhanh nh\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi h\u00f3c b\u00faa n\u00e0y. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u201ccon m\u1ecdt s\u00e1ch\u201d. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, gi\u00e1 s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i s\u00e1ch nh\u01b0: S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, B\u00ed \u1ea9n v\u1ec1 khoa h\u1ecdc nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, Truy\u1ec7n danh nh\u00e2n, Quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed, \u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c kinh, B\u00e0n v\u1ec1 chi\u1ebfn tranh, T\u00f4n t\u1eed binh ph\u00e1p, Tam qu\u1ed1c di\u1ec5n ngh\u0129a, 30 n\u0103m s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3, The Economist... Khi nh\u1ecf t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u00f9ng con, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng truy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi con m\u00e0y m\u00f2 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc. Khi con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi con. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft trong tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a con.","\u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i \u201ccon ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch\u201d th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui trong khi \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, b\u1edfi kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf n\u00ean ham \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean r\u1ea7u r\u0129 than th\u1edf c\u1eadu con trai ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 ra kh\u00f4ng \u00edt c\u00e1ch, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, con trai \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch th\u00ec m\u1eb9 cho 20 t\u1ec7, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 ch\u1ecb choi, ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n th\u1ea5y ngo\u00e0i s\u1ed1 s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb mua cho c\u1eadu con trai, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i c\u00e1, s\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y n\u1ea5u \u0103n v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c l\u1edbn v\u00e0o th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac, ph\u1ee5 huynh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con: \u201cMau v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111i!\u201d c\u00f2n m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i ng\u1ed3i choi t\u00fa l\u01a1 kh\u01a1 ho\u1eb7c xem tivi, v\u1eady th\u00ec k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m. T\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u1edf m\u1eaft ra, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Khi c\u00f2n \u0111ang \u1edf c\u1eef, t\u00f4i v\u1eeba b\u1ebf con v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 siru t\u1ea7m. Khi con m\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i gi\u1edf cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ebd tranh m\u00e0u cho con, con c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1edf. \u0110\u1ebfn khi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc, ch\u1ec9 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang s\u1ed1 s\u00e1ch con \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 cao b\u1eb1ng con r\u1ed3i. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng 3 \u0111\u1ebfn 4 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 nh\u00f3m tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc, bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o, c\u00f2n H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ed3i v\u1eaft v\u1ebbo tr\u00ean c\u1ed5 cha nh\u00ecn cha th\u1ea9m \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o. Con trai n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a r\u1eb1ng, n\u0103m x\u01b0a cha bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n 20 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 nh\u1edd c\u00f3 con c\u01b0\u1ee1i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u1ed5 \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n\u201d cha. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u1eadu con trai m\u1edbi m\u1ea5y tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc cha, l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u00edt gi\u1ea5y ra, v\u1ebd l\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c tranh, r\u1ed3i ghi l\u00ean trang ngo\u00e0i c\u00f9ng t\u00ean t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 bi\u00ean, b\u1eaft ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ghi th\u00eam \u201cquy\u1ec1n t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3\u201d r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3ng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh con h\u1ecdc ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh con r\u00e8n th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. H\u00f4m nay con h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef, ng\u00e0y mai nh\u1edb hai ch\u1eef, sau 5 n\u0103m, trong \u0111\u1ea7u con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ngh\u00ecn ch\u1eef c\u0169ng l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1ef1c ra H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho con nghe, b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u201cS\u1eafp bi\u1ebft ch\u1eef r\u1ed3i, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eef th\u00ec con tha h\u1ed3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hay trong s\u00e1ch. Trong s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u1eafm, \u0111\u1ebfn khi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc r\u1ed3i, con nh\u1edb k\u1ec3 cho b\u00e0 nghe nh\u00e9\u201d. D\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat con, l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u201cng\u1ea7m\u201d \u0111\u00f3.","L\u00fac nh\u1ecf, con th\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u00e1ch khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 truy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch... C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian con nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1t s\u00e1ch, su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, sau \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n con choi th\u1ec3 thao v\u00e0 vui \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i k\u00e9o con ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0. \u1ede nh\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0 con l\u1ea1i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111i choi xa hay \u0111i \u0103n c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u1edf ngo\u00e0i, con \u0111\u1ec1u mang theo m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0 mang ra \u0111\u1ecdc. T\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t nhanh, c\u00f3 h\u00f4m mua m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch m\u00f3i v\u1ec1, trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc xong. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 \u201cm\u1ed9t li\u1ebfc m\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng\u201d. \u0110\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m vui, m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con. Th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y gi\u00fap v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con t\u0103ng l\u00ean nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ph\u1ea1m vi \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng r\u1ed9ng. Khi c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p hai, con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c cu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 Chu\u1ed7i xo\u1eafn k\u00e9p c\u1ee7a Jam es Watson, Gene \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a Clinton Richard Dawkins, Khang Hy \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111 \u1ebf c\u1ee7a Nh\u1ecb Nguy\u1ec7t H\u00e0, T\u01b0 tr\u1ecb th\u00f4ng gi\u00e1m c\u1ee7a T\u01b0 M\u00e3 Quang, L\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a Stephen William Hawking... L\u00ean c\u1ea5p ba, khi h\u1ecdc m\u00f4n Kinh t\u1ebf ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1eb7ng d\u01b0, quy lu\u1eadt gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, sau \u0111\u00f3, con li\u1ec1n nh\u1edd cha m\u01b0\u1ee3n cu\u1ed1n T\u01b0 b\u1ea3n lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1. L\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 con ch\u1ec9 xem qua cho bi\u1ebft, n\u00ean l\u00e9n nh\u00ecn qua khe c\u1eeda xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y con \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u00fa. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, con \u201cnh\u1edd\u201d t\u00f4i: \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, m\u1eb9 ch\u00e9p h\u1ed9 con b\u00e0i v\u00f3i, con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m h\u1ebft r\u1ed3i. Con c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft kh\u00e1c\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 con \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1eb7ng d\u01b0 v\u00e0 \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Th\u00f2i s\u1ef1 d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng trung h\u1ecdc. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh v\u1ed1n, m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd v\u00e0 marketing c\u1ee7a doanh nghi\u1ec7p. Con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 xem nhi\u1ec1u phim t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mua b\u1ed9 \u0111\u0129a M\u00f4 h\u00ecnh qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd A g\u1ed3m 40 t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd ngo\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 xem h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 b\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u00f2n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u01b0u \u00fd nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec trong c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 trong qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd. Ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1ea1i xem h\u1ebft b\u1ed9 \u0111\u0129a VCD Th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eebng t\u01b0 b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mua. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i mua s\u00e1ch cho con, m\u00e0 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn s\u00e1ch cho m\u00ecnh, con s\u1ebd gi\u00f3i thi\u1ec7u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 \u0111\u0129a hay cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eabn d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n quan tr\u1ecdng cho vi\u1ec7c mua s\u00e1ch. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i \u1ea5y t\u00f4i m\u1edbi m\u1edf l\u00f3p d\u1ea1y ti\u1ebfng Anh, thu nh\u1eadp l\u00e0 240 t\u1ec7, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng h\u1ebft s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 mua s\u00e1ch. H\u1ed3i \u1ea5y l\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c t\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. N\u0103m \u1ea5y, khi chuy\u1ec3n nh\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ee9c Ch\u00e2u v\u1ec1 T \u1ebf Nam, gia s\u1ea3n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 h\u01a1n 3.0 00 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111i mua s\u00e1ch, m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u mua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng s\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec1u, c\u0169ng v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p. Mua r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecdc nhanh, \u0111\u1ecdc l\u01b0\u1edbt ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecdc k\u1ef9. \u0110\u1ecdc xong r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i t\u1eb7ng cho th\u01b0 vi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eb7ng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn. Hi\u1ec7n nay, ngay c\u1ea3 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng coi s\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eb7ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. So v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau d\u00f9ng kh\u00e1c, mua s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3n chi ph\u00ed \u201cxa x\u1ec9\u201d nh\u1ea5t","trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea cho tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, s\u1ef1 r\u00e8n gi\u0169a c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng khi c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch cho con. Ngo\u00e0i ra, mua s\u00e1ch cho con c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, khi \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 kho\u1ea3ng 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ec7 s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi m\u00e0u s\u1eafc l\u1eadt xem, v\u1eeba xem v\u1eeba g\u1ecdi: \u201cM\u1eb9 oi, con th\u00edch cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y! M\u1eb9, con th\u00edch c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y n\u1eefa!\u201d. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u1ea7m \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c con v\u1eadt, nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh, ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac \u1ea5y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i gi\u1eb1ng l\u1ea5y ch\u00fang r\u1ed3i c\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n th\u01a1 \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ean v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon \u00e0, con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00edch!\u201d. C\u00f4 b\u00e9 n\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 m\u1ebfu: \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u, con th\u00edch c\u00e1c con v\u1eadt c\u01a1...\u201d. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u n\u00f3i: Ch\u1ec9 khi ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, m\u00f3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, t\u00edch l\u0169y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. Cha m\u1eb9 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb th\u1eddi c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y. Th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng trong th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa th\u00ec \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i t\u1eeb ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch! \u0110\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ee5n v\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c v\u1eaby v\u00f9ng trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 tinh th\u1ea7n bao la c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i... Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp tr\u01b0ng H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u00edch choi gh\u00e9p h\u00ecnh, l\u1eafp r\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed3 choi... N\u1ebfu con \u0111ang m\u1ea3i m\u00ea choi, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i con. V\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l&n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i tr\u00f2 choi ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m d\u1edf, hu\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb v\u1ed1n ham choi v\u00e0 th\u00edch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1! M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ea5y k\u1eb9p g\u1eafp l\u00ean t\u1eebng chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gh\u00e9p th\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfc t\u00e0u chi\u1ebfn. C\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf h\u01a1n ba ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng n\u1ee1 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u1eadu c\u1ea7m t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m n\u00e0y mang \u0111\u1ebfn khoe v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 v\u1edbi v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00edch ch\u01a1i gh\u00e9p h\u00ecnh, l\u1eafp r\u00e1p \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i... N\u1ebfu con \u0111ang m\u1ea3i m\u00ea ch\u01a1i, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i con. V\u00ec t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa v\u1ecb m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m d\u1edf, hu\u1ed1ng chi","l\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb v\u1ed1n ham choi v\u00e0 th\u00edch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1! Choi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc, khi m\u00ecnh h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa choi m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t ra l\u1ec7nh b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 choi ho\u1eb7c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang choi r\u1ea5t h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecf d\u1edf gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 choi th\u00e2n v\u00f3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do n\u00ean v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian cho con. Khi con v\u00e0o ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i sang Anh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i th\u00ec \u0111i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng \u0110\u1ee9c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc \u0110\u1ed3ng T\u1ebf. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong s\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft m\u00e0 b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con. B\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t l\u00e0: Sau khi tan h\u1ecdc l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n cho con kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c em \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p hay kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea cho th\u1ea5y, t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 thi\u00ean t\u00e0i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ec3u n\u0103ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 chi\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y 1% trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i 99% l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ t\u01b0ong \u0111\u01b0ong nhau. Ch\u00ednh vi v\u1eady, trong 100 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u, s\u1ef1 ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0 do trong l\u00f3p tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng hay kh\u00f4ng. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea9m sinh, m\u00e0 do r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y. T\u1eeb khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 con r\u00e8n th\u00f3i quen t\u1eadp trung trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh choi tr\u00f2 choi hay nghe k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con y\u00eau th\u00edch. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong r\u1ea5t th\u00edch choi tr\u00f2 gh\u00e9p h\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n s\u01b0u t\u1ea7m cho con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 con y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u01b0 t\u00e0u chi\u1ebfn, xe hoi, m\u00e1y bay, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1eafp gh\u00e9p. Con s\u1ebd t\u1eadp trung gh\u00e9p nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u00f2i gian d\u00e0i nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i con, m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00ean t\u0129nh, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh xong \u201ct\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m\u201d, con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n th\u00edch choi nam ch\u00e2m, \u0111inh \u1ed1c, ngh\u1ecbch n\u01b0\u1edbc, ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1t, n\u1eb7n \u0111\u1ea5t, gh\u00e9p h\u00ecnh... T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con choi tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i b\u1edfi choi c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n m\u00e0y m\u00f2 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u. C\u00f3 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c cho tr\u1ebb theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau th\u00edch, th\u00ec l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng choi n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd t\u1eadp \u0111\u00e0n r\u1ed3i\u201d, ho\u1eb7c \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y \u00e0? Mau ra \u0103n c\u01a1m \u0111i\u201d. Trong khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang r\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang l\u00e0m, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, th\u00ec s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung.","Khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9, c\u00f3 l\u00fac H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong r\u1ea5t th\u00edch nghe m\u1eb9 k\u1ec3 \u0111i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n cho tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung \u1edf tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng nghe truy\u1ec7n Ch\u00fa th\u1ecf ngoan ngo\u00e3n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n con y\u00eau c\u1ea7u k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i k\u1ec3. V\u00ec l\u00fac \u1ea5y, con m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u1ebfn khi con n\u00f3i: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2u, con nghe bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i\u201d th\u00ec th\u00f2i c\u01a1 v\u00e0ng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, trong khi k\u1ec3 \u0111i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n cho con, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u00fa t\u00e2m r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t cho con. Vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y hai l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea7n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t l\u1ea7n. Khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y bu\u00f4ng tay \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang th\u00edch, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea c\u1ee7a con trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0o l\u00f3p m\u1ed9t, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng cho con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, khi l\u00ean l\u00f3p, g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n dam m\u00ea h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi n\u1eefa, khi\u1ebfn con m\u1ea5t \u0111i h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng. Tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng nh\u1ecf th\u00ec th\u1eddi gian t\u1eadp trung c\u00e0ng ng\u1eafn, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady khi r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t hay r\u1eb1ng: Gieo h\u00e0nh vi, g\u1eb7t th\u00f3i quen; gieo th\u00f3i quen, g\u1eb7t t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch; gieo t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, g\u1eb7t s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u danh ng\u00f4n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cS\u1ef1 kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00f3i quen, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t th\u00ec s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. H\u1eab\u1ef5 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddigian bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u201cth\u1eddigian v\u00e0ng\u201d Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n n\u00ean h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn th\u00f2i gian \u1edd b\u00ean con th\u00e0nh \u201cqu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0ng\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tranh th\u1ee7 th\u00f2i gian \u1eed b\u00ean con khi x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng, kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i h\u1ecdc, \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, \u0103n com, tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7... ch\u00fa \u00fd quan s\u00e1t qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hay kh\u00f4ng. M\u1ed9t ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTrong v\u00f2ng 10 n\u0103m ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn, c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con trai tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge. Ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ph\u00e9p t\u00ednh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean n\u00e0y xem: M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 24 ti\u1ebfng","\u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, d\u00e0nh 8 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, 8 ti\u1ebfng cho gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, 8 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 do, bao g\u1ed3m \u0103n u\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian 8 ti\u1ebfng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, bao g\u1ed3m d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i n\u0103m t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u00eam hon 2.000 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, 10 n\u0103m l\u00e0 20.000 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, 20 n\u0103m l\u00e0 40.000 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. 40.000 gi\u1edd n\u00e0y cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hay ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u t\u00f4i t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Trong c\u1ea3 7 ti\u1ebfng ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean t\u00e0u v\u00f3i nhau, \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t \u00edt. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00f2i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u1edf b\u00ean con nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0y. Khi \u0111i du l\u1ecbch c\u00f9ng con, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc con ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi con m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 cho con nghe m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi g\u1ef1i \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 con quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong toa, choi tr\u00f2 n\u1ed1i ch\u1eef ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh cho con nghe. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 du l\u1ecbch, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, con h\u00e3y t\u00ecm ra n\u0103m \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y v\u00f3i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ta \u0111ang \u1edf\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quan s\u00e1t, quy n\u1ea1p v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng tham gia. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c n\u00e2ng cao m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u1edf b\u00ean nhau. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, v\u1eady h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u1edf b\u00ean con th\u00e0nh qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 24 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. V\u1eady sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, gi\u00e0u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t h\u01a1n? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 do hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb cao. T\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i r\u1ea5t g\u1eafn b\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean con th\u00e0nh qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb9p hay kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean con tr\u00f4i qua th\u1eadt nhanh. V\u00ec b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tranh th\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean con, bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u201cqu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0ng\u201d. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea1p xe \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i kh\u1eafp ph\u1ed1 l\u1edbn ng\u00f5 nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho con nghe nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 thi\u00ean v\u0103n, \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, v\u0103n h\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung quan \u0111i\u1ec3m: Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh thu n\u1ea1p ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00edch l\u0169y. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, sau n\u00e0y H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. \u201cGi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d l\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f2i th\u01b0\u1eddng, g\u1eb7p ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd","m\u01b0\u1ef1n ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea1i th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 n\u00e9t, nh\u01b0ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng qua ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 n\u00e0y. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh, th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng, ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp gi\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng; trong b\u1eefa \u0103n t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef v\u1ec7 sinh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0103n ph\u1ea3i r\u1eeda tay, nhai kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ph\u00e1t ra ti\u1ebfng, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m r\u01a1i v\u00e3i... C\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cKh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ng\u1ed3i trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 m\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb nghe chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 con kh\u1ec9\u201d. Ng\u1ed3i trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 m\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb nghe chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 kh\u1ec9 trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee9ng trong v\u01b0\u1eddn b\u00e1ch th\u00fa k\u1ec3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9ng trong v\u01b0\u1eddn b\u00e1ch th\u00fa m\u00e0 gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n n\u1eafp trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7, nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh khi \u0103n c\u01a1m th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con b\u1eb1ng gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, hay gi\u1ecdng k\u1ebb c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean, m\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt. Ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u00ec s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n n\u00ean h\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean con th\u00e0nh \u201cqu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0ng\u201d. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tranh th\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean con khi x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng, kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i h\u1ecdc, \u0111i du l\u1ecbch, \u0103n c\u01a1m, tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7... ch\u00fa \u00fd quan s\u00e1t qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n hay kh\u00f4ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, trong khi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ee3i xe bus, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o con c\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch con th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc cho con nghe. L\u1edbn l\u00ean con h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, n\u1ebfu ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u0111i du l\u1ecbch xa hay \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u n\u1eeda ng\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 con lu\u00f4n mang theo m\u1ed9t quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch. T\u00edch ti\u1ec3u th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1i, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch v\u1edbi t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 nhanh. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng cho con c\u00f9ng \u0111i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tham gia v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 \u00edt tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 con trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec3 con nghe cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn tham gia b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c... S\u1ef1 s\u1eafp \u0111\u1eb7t n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c, l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o, trong \u0111\u00f3, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t, c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00e1ch giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f4i qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c mang \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u0129 m\u00f4, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp tr\u00ean m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ, EQ, AQ... cho con. Khi con g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn cho con. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e3i nhau v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafng con, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c con m\u00e0 g\u1ecdi m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng: \u201cCon v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00e3i nhau v\u00ec quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh, v \u1ec1 sau n\u1ebfu l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, con n\u00ean n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u00f3i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, con c\u1ea7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d.","Trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb n\u00ean quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9... R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gieo v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim con tr\u1ebb. Sau khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, s\u1edf d\u0129 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f3i l\u00e0 do t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t m\u1ea5y ph\u00fat l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t cho con m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o m\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin m\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129 m\u00f3i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. Trong \u201cqu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i g\u1ee3i m\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed m\u1ed9t gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu \u1edf nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111i gi\u00e0y, thay qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, \u0103n c\u01a1m, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadt tivi \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin. \u0110\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, khi l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c v\u1eb7t trong nh\u00e0, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn tranh th\u1ee7 l\u00e0m th\u00eam m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian t\u0103ng g\u1ea5p \u0111\u00f4i, g\u1ea5p ba, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea5n kh\u1edfi. Khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd d\u1ea1y m\u00f4n nghe \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc b\u1edfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf t\u00f4i v\u1eeba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u0103m lo cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u1ee7, t\u00f4i v\u1eeba l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 v\u1eeba nghe b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng, \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc, ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng nh\u00e2n, trong l\u00fac \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p l\u00e0m l\u00f3t gi\u00e0y, n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch; khi l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, trong khi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c l\u00ean l\u00f3p xong l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 th\u00ec t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y, bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n gi\u00e1o tr\u00ecnh, m\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00eau t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTh\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng khi nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 do m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt th\u00f2i gian t\u1eeb tay \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 th\u00f2i gian\u201d. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4i gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho con trai m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, th\u00f3i quen s\u1ebd l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i con\u201d. Trong l\u00fac t\u1eafm r\u1eeda, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 cho con nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u00f3i cho con bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec7 sinh, choi thuy\u1ec1n gi\u1ea5y v\u1edbi con; tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0111i ng\u1ee7, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 cho con nghe truy\u1ec7n c\u1ed5 t\u00edch, b\u1ea3o con nh\u1eafm m\u1eaft l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00f3i con trong ng\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n con \u0111ang ngh\u0129; tr\u00ean t\u00e0u, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn toa t\u00e0u th\u00e0nh \u201cl\u00f3p h\u1ecdc\u201d c\u1ee7a con ... Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean con, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng con, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00f2i gian \u1edf b\u00ean con th\u00e0nh \u201cqu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb\u201d. C\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00f3i quen theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. T\u00f4i ch\u00e9p b\u00e0i t\u1eadp h\u1ed9 con T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u00f2i b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb khi con h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc cho \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ebft trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng k\u00e8m con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng mua tivi, t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn","c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, trong kh\u1ec9 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd. T\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i v\u00f3i \u201cnguy\u00ean t\u1eafc\u201d. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng con v\u1eeba h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c n\u00f3i \u201cCh\u00e1n ng\u1eaft\u201d v\u1eeba m\u1ea7n m\u00f2 \u0111\u1ed1ng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. Khi h\u1ecfi r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft do c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, n\u00ean h\u00f4m nay c\u00f4 ph\u1ea1t c\u1ea3 l\u00f3p ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea7n b\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua. T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u01b0a, con n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u1ebft. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi con m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u trong b\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m tra, th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian r\u1ed7i, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 vi\u1ebft gi\u00fap con\u201d. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n ch\u00e9p h\u1ebft s\u1ed1 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i h\u1ed9 con. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n, sau chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u0169ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb - kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb d\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian cho vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. H\u1ecdc ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa hay h\u1ecdc th\u00eam \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con trai m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan\u201d ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. Ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hon \u0111\u1ecdc m\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, b\u1edfi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c qua s\u00e1ch v\u1edf. Ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc, cha m\u1eb9 n\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c n\u1ed9i dung trong b\u00e0i. Khi con tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u00fap con l\u00e0m quen v\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00ec t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ng\u1ed3i k\u00e8m con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb khi con h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ebft trung h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 s\u1edf, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng k\u00e8 k\u00e8 k\u00e8m con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. Nh\u1eefng n\u0103m qua, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng mua tivi, t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ri\u00eang, trong khi th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd. Ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u1ebfn v\u1eeba k\u00e8m con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1eeba c\u1eb1n nh\u1eb1n, khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t may m\u1eafn v\u00ec t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf hay m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi b\u1edfi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e2m huy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con trong \u201cgiai \u0111o\u1ea1n then ch\u1ed1t\u201d ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb chu \u0111\u00e1o trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9 quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u1eefa m\u1ea7m non v\u00e0 ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc. Sau khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n hai th\u00f3i quen v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con. Th\u00f3i quen th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong l\u00f3p t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng hay kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb t\u1eeb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh","c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t hai ng\u00e0y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, khi v\u00e0o l\u00f3p 1, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, v\u00ec gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u1eafm r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp trong l\u00f3p c\u1ee7a con. Th\u00f2i gian H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong v\u00e0o l\u00f3p 1 tr\u00f9ng v\u1edbi giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u00f4i sang Anh h\u1ecdc, b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh nghe gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a con, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00e0 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ch\u00ednh trong ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe gi\u1ea3ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y th\u00ec s\u1ebd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0103n com, ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n v\u1eb7t sau b\u1eefa ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng \u201csuy dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u1eadu nh\u00f3c n\u00e0y c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 sao c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1ebf nh\u1ec9?\u201d. C\u00f4 H\u00e0 - gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean m\u00f4n H\u00f3a h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ed3i c\u1ea5p hai r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd con. \u0110\u1ebfn t\u1eadn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f4 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb nh\u01b0 in r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng sau gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, m\u00e0 sau khi l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng con l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi c\u00f4. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp ho\u1eb7c khi theo d\u00f5i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung trong s\u00e1ch, con c\u0169ng nh\u1edd c\u00f4 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p. S\u00e1ch h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, sinh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebd nh\u1eb1ng nh\u1ecbt, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a con. C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc sinh m\u00e0 c\u00f4 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00f3p ph\u00f3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f4n n\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e0 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng hay th\u1eafc m\u1eafc. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft n\u1ed9i dung trong s\u00e1ch, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 khi l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00ean khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i h\u1ecfi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c ngay sau bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb mang c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p th\u1eafc m\u1eafc t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi do nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh ham h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0a ra. Th\u00f3i quen th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 sau khi tan h\u1ecdc c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i, nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Sau khi tr\u1ebb tan h\u1ecdc, nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1c con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng b\u00e0i v\u1edf c\u1ee7a con, nh\u01b0ng lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u00f3i quen ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp chi\u1ebfm qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a con. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng gi\u00fap con \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp cho con. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean giao m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng hon \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c, th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c choi nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 choi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c ngo\u00e0i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian sau khi tan h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ba b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, trong khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t ba gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m xong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u su\u1ea5t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian cao hon tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp sau n\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian sau \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u1edf mang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn hon. Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i h\u1ecdc, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u01b0\u00f2ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o giao trong th\u00f2i gian","r\u1ea5t nhanh. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf con c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, nh\u01b0 \u0111i choi, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, m\u00e0y m\u00f2 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m m\u00e1y t\u00ednh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem tivi, tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00f3i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i... \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m r\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m r\u1ed9ng, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i k\u1ef3 thi c\u1ea5p ba, thi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu trong 12 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc, n\u1ed9i dung m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa th\u00ec l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 ti\u1ebfp thu ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7. Trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 tri th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa m\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u201ctri th\u1ee9c\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa! Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ecdc, v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed1i bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n con t\u1eadp trung nghe gi\u1ea3ng trong l\u00f3p v\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t kh\u00e1c trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ean ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t, ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng cao th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i. Ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c. \u201cM\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y\u201d. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u201cbu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n r\u00e8n cho con th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u00f2i gian, s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng qu\u00fd. N\u1ebfu t\u1ed1i n\u00e0o c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh h\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i b\u1ea5t an. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n th\u00f3i quen ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian n\u00e2ng cao ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0ong s\u00e1ng cho tr\u1ebb. \u201cKh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh gi\u00f3i. Truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111on gi\u1ea3n hon nhi\u1ec1u so v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u00ea gi\u1edbi ngo\u00e0i k\u1ec9\u00e3 r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi Khi ra ngo\u00e0i \u0103n com, t\u00f4i th\u01b0&ng h\u1ea3o H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong n\u00f3i v&i nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u01b0: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, con ra n\u00f3i v\u00f3i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y cho th\u00eam \u00edt mu\u1ed1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d... T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n con c\u00f3 th\u00ea trao \u0111\u1ed5i, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111 \u1ec3 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh. ... \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra gi\u1eefa b\u1edd v\u00e0 l\u00f3p b\u0103ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y. T\u00f4i l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c","hi\u1ec3u ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th&i gian cho t\u00f4i suy ngh\u0129, t\u1ea3ng b\u0103ng d\u01b0&i ch\u00e2n li\u1ec1n n\u1ee9t to\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbt nh\u01b0 chu\u1ed9t l\u1ed9t. May m\u00e0 n\u01b0&c kh\u00f4ng s\u1ea5u, ch\u1ec9 ng\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng. L\u1ea1nh bu\u1ed1t. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu ch\u00fat n\u00e0o! B\u0103ng trong h\u1ed3 c\u1ee7ng kh\u00e1 d\u00e0y, cha t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng ph\u00eda sau n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u00e3. T\u00f4i l\u1ed3m c\u1ed3m b\u00f2 l\u00ean b\u1edd, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1ng cho\u1ea1ng ng\u00e3 th\u00eam l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u00f2i v\u1eeba d\u00ednh b\u0103ng v\u1eeba d\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea5t, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ed9n th\u00e0nh b\u00f9n... \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n trong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp l\u00e0m v\u0103n c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ed3i ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m h\u1ed3 b\u0103ng v\u00f3i cha trong ng\u00e0y 30 T\u1ebft. \u0110\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u201cth\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i\u201d c\u1ee7a hai cha con khi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0. Trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, xe \u0111\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n du l\u1ecbch nhi\u1ec1u noi c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb c\u00e1i ao tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e0, c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed3i n\u00fai \u1edf ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4, \u0111\u1ed3ng ru\u1ed9ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c con ng\u00f5 nh\u1ecf tr\u00ean ph\u1ed1... Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch x\u00ea d\u1ecbch, sau khi con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ed3i sau g\u00e1c ba ga, anh li\u1ec1n tha con \u0111i kh\u1eafp noi. v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch y\u00ean t\u0129nh, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb khi c\u00f3 con, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean t\u0129nh nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ecd h\u00e0ng, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00eau t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u201cl\u1eef kh\u00e1ch\u201d kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng noi g\u1ea7n v\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00f3 hoa c\u1ecf c\u00e2y c\u1ed1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, xe c\u1ed9... \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o c\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cu\u1ed9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con. \u0110\u1ebfn khi con l\u1edbn th\u00eam ch\u00fat n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng noi xa hon, \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00f3i trong kh\u00f4ng gian, th\u00f2i gian r\u1ed9ng r\u00e3i h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i chi ti\u00eau r\u1ea5t ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, nh\u01b0ng trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 du l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a con, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, n\u0103m 1992 khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u1edf Chu H\u1ea3i, ti\u1ec1n l\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng l\u00e0 5.000 t\u1ec7. \u1ede th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1ea5y, m\u1ee9c thu nh\u1eadp \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1 cao, nh\u01b0ng sau m\u1ed9t n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u. Ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i h\u1ed3i \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec1u chi cho c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n \u0111i ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a con. Khi \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i kh\u1eafp c\u00e1c n\u00fai non, s\u00f4ng ng\u00f2i n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u1edf mi\u1ec1n Nam, \u0111i xem c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tri\u1ec3n l\u00e3m c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 cao v\u00e0 c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u00e2n v\u0103n, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, l\u1ecbch s\u1eed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf \u1edf c\u00e1c m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 con c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i ch\u01a1i trong khi con chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb thi cu\u1ed1i k\u1ef3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u1ed5 sung, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con b\u1edbt \u0111i m\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec3m trong b\u00e0i thi, ch\u1ee9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i. Th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i, khi con l\u1edbn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con \u0111i v\u1edbi \u0111o\u00e0n du l\u1ecbch, tr\u1ea1i h\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. Sau khi \u0111i Thanh \u0110\u1ea3o tham gia tr\u1eadn chung k\u1ebft tr\u1ea1i h\u00e8 ti\u1ebfng Anh to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c, con \u0111\u00e3 \u201ck\u1ebft th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb\u201d. N\u0103m 15 tu\u1ed5i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng \u0111o\u00e0n du l\u1ecbch ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111i T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, sau khi \u0111i Thi\u1ec3m B\u1eafc v\u1ec1, con c\u00f2n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfng Thi\u1ec3m B\u1eafc, r\u1ed3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u00e1t d\u00e2n ca Thi\u1ec3m","B\u1eafc cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe. Phong t\u1ee5c t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng mi\u1ec1n kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng. So v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a, v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong phong ph\u00fa hon nhi\u1ec1u. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong t\u1eebng c\u00f3 hai t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 Trung Qu\u1ed1c v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i. Tr\u00ean hai t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0y, con \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00f9ng m\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ecf n\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua v\u00f3i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 T\u1ebf Nam noi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u1edf. Tr\u00ean t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed1i m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf, tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 d\u1ea5u ch\u00e2n con \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00f3i tr\u00ean 20 t\u1ec9nh th\u00e0nh. D\u1ed1c T\u00e2y B\u00e1ch, c\u1ea7u Tri\u1ec7u Ch\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ed9ng Di\u00eam An, B\u1eafc Kinh, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ea3i, T\u00e2n C\u01b0ong, T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng. Hi\u1ec7n nay, tr\u00ean t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0cmg xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ecf. T\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, con s\u1ebd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3nh quan thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a, nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u1ecbch s\u1eed. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i c\u1ee7a con v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 du l\u1ecbch, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang sai, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh. Con \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i d\u1eb7m tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t n\u1eef ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: M\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 t\u1ee5 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, duy ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con c\u00e1i l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n ly l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 con s\u1edbm tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, t\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi sinh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n ly \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa h\u1ed5 con s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, h\u1ed5 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111u\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa h\u1ed5 con \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c; n\u1ebfu g\u00e0 con ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft n\u1ea5p d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed3i; v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fa chim \u01b0ng con ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ea3i c\u00e1nh bay li\u1ec7ng tr\u00ean b\u1ea7u tr\u00f2i. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u01b0\u01a1n xa \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng gian r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecfi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1edb th\u1ea5y c\u1eadu \u0111i ngao du kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng gi\u1ecfi, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do c\u1eadu \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf hay l\u00e0 do cha m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu d\u1ea1y c\u1eadu?\u201d. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i vui r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u1ec9?\u201d. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o cho con c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi ra ngo\u00e0i \u0103n c\u01a1m, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u01b0: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, con ra n\u00f3i v\u00f3i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y cho th\u00eam \u00edt mu\u1ed1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh\u201d... T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb l\u00fac nh\u1ecf, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n cho con x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng, l\u1ea5y","s\u1ed1, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ee3i. Sau khi con ki\u1ec5ng ch\u00e2n l\u1ea5y s\u1ed1 xong, con li\u1ec1n c\u1ea7m s\u1ed5 kh\u00e1m b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00f2ng b\u00e1c s\u0129, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o con t\u1ef1 tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y b\u1ec7nh t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i b\u00e1c s\u0129. Con t\u1ef1 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con. \u0110\u1ec3 con d\u00f9ng l\u00f2 i l\u1ebd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u0103ng l\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n ra t\u1eeb t\u1eeb. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i b\u1ebf con, sau \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eaft con, ti\u1ebfp n\u1eefa l\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1eb1ng sau con, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn con b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111i choi, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 con x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng mua v\u00e9, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ef1i. M\u1ea5y l\u1ea7n \u0111i B\u1eafc Kinh, l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i choi kh\u1eafp noi, l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai con \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn hom, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdp n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 cho con choi \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eeda ng\u00e0y r\u1ed3i quay v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 c\u0169. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con n\u00f3i mu\u1ed1n \u0111i B\u1eafc Kinh mua s\u00e1ch, t\u00f4i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u0111i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd. Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u0103ng l\u00ean sau m\u1ed7i chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 con ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, qua \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch m\u00f3i, gi\u00fap con \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i hom. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed1ng, kh\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 khi g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. Ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00f3i r\u1ed9ng. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau, \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn. M\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Trong ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u00f3 t\u1eeb \u201csocial\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 x\u00e3 giao, mang t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u201csocial\u201d. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201csocial\u201d mang v\u1ebb gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u201cth\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng: Quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i, nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i, b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, ngo\u1ea1i giao, kinh t\u1ebf, v\u0103n h\u00f3a... Khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 trong l\u00f2ng tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00f4i v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tin, thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con trai m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu an to\u00e0n \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201csocial\u201d t\u1ed1t b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u b\u1ebbm m\u00e9p m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vui v\u1ebb, t\u00e2m ph\u1ee5c kh\u1ea9u ph\u1ee5c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf h\u00f3a nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfng Anh, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c phong t\u1ee5c t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n kh\u00e1c nhau, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111a nguy\u00ean, nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t.","Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i c\u00f9ng, m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng th\u00f2i gian, v\u1eeba kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf b\u00ean con; hai l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng cho con tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. H\u1ed3i \u1ea5y c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean tham gia t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Trong d\u1ecbp Noel, con \u0111\u00f3ng vai \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 Noel, g\u1eedi l\u00f2i ch\u00fac t\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh; \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y Valentine, con l\u00e0m MC cho ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh bi\u1ec3u di\u1ec5n. Con l\u00e0 h\u1ed9i vi\u00ean nh\u1ecf tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ch\u1ea1y ch\u1ed7 n\u1ecd, ng\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 kia nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u0103m 1997, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng k\u00fd t\u00ean \u201cCh\u00fac m\u1eebng ng\u00e0y qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf thi\u1ebfu nhi \u0111\u00f3n H\u1ed3ng K\u00f4ng tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 t\u1ed5 qu\u1ed1c\u201d thu h\u00fat \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3o c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf tham gia. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 giao cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c: Con l\u00e0m MC song ng\u1eef; con l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean k\u00fd t\u00ean l\u00ean t\u1ea5m b\u0103ng r\u00f4n \u0111\u00f3. Hi\u1ec7n nay, t\u1ea5m b\u0103ng r\u00f4n d\u00e0i 8 m\u00e9t g\u1ed3m h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u00e9t ch\u1eef non n\u1edbt \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u gi\u1eef \u1edf H\u1ed9i qu\u00e1n H\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u01b0\u01a1ng H\u00e0 B\u1eafc - S\u01a1n \u0110\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a H\u1ed3ng K\u00f4ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0110\u1ecdc ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam v\u1ebf: Giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tranh th\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong kh\u00f4ng gian ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i, c\u1eadu, c\u00f4... \u0110\u00ea\u2019 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nhi\u1ec1u, g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 thu\u1ea7n th\u1ee5c v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ed1i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i cao. *\\\\ Gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 nhi\u00eau ni\u00eam \u0111\u00e2m m\u00ea T\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u00ed t\u01b0&ng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay b\u1ed5ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thao t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ed3 choi, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p 7, trong s\u00e1ng, ho\u1ea1t b\u00e1t, nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 \u201cngang ng\u1ea1nh\u201d, vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft v\u00f5 hi\u1ec7p, h\u00e1t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t m\u00f3i n\u1ed5i, xem tivi, ch\u01a1i game, th\u00edch leo n\u00fai, th\u00edch t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt, c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm cao nguy\u00ean tuy\u1ebft trong gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1... M\u1eb9 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 r\u1ea7u r\u0129 than th\u1edf v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon g\u00e1i em ham th\u00edch m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1 l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Em th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t lo!\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi: \u201cTrong l\u00f3p con \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1ee9 m\u1ea5y?\u201d. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cL\u00f3p c\u00f3 50 h\u1ecdc sinh, con trong top 10, nhung ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ecbu ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean g\u00ec c\u1ea3, c\u1ee9 gi\u1eadm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7. Ki\u1ec3u g\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i trong top 5 ch\u1ee9?\u201d.","T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n th\u1edf ph\u00e0o r\u1ed3i m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ham ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch gi\u1eef \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3 sao m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n r\u1ea7u r\u00ed? C\u00f2n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ea5n kh\u1ecfi hon l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng, y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y y\u00eau th\u01b0ong? D\u0129 nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u, trong cu\u1ed9c c\u1ea1nh tranh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh t\u00edch thi c\u1eed l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng \u201cs\u1ef1 x\u1ebfp th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1ng\u201d. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ee9c \u00e9p thi c\u1eed, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ho\u1eb7c d\u00f9 hi\u1ec3u th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eebng theo d\u00f5i s\u00e1t sao \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea phong ph\u00fa cho tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u 1.000 h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed1i. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy linh ho\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy linh ho\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea, t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 \u1ed5n. Tuy nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y ngo\u00e0i th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1edf th\u00edch g\u00ec n\u1eefa, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u00ec th\u1ea5y gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1 kh\u00e9p k\u00edn. Y\u00eau c\u1ea7u duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t, ngo\u00e0i ra kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p c\u1eadu c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu cao nh\u01b0ng t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u00e1 \u0111on \u0111i\u1ec7u. Gi\u1eefa con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea cho tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng, khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt... \u0111\u1ec3 ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng \u201ccu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng\u201d, h\u1ecdc ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c sinh t\u1ed3n m\u00f3i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111on thu\u1ea7n trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n. v \u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i v\u00f3i \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 an to\u00e0n. Tr\u1ebb th\u00edch v\u1ebd th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t huy; tr\u1ebb th\u00edch h\u00e1t th\u00ec c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea5t cao gi\u1ecdng h\u00e1t; tr\u1ebb th\u00edch xem phim ho\u1ea1t h\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c xem \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp... T\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay b\u1ed5ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thao t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ed3 choi, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u00e0 t\u1eeb ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea. N\u0103m 8 tu\u1ed5i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i m\u00e1y t\u00ednh. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t l\u00f3p tin h\u1ecdc theo l\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb thi\u1ebft tha c\u1ee7a con, con l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb duy nh\u1ea5t trong l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. H\u1ed3i \u1ea5y, v\u1eabn l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh DOS, con \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ra ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh \u0111on gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh m\u00e1y. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, con ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc theo s\u1edf th\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng sau khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, con ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i","con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f9a l\u00e0 \u201ccao th\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u00e1y tay tr\u00e1i\u201d, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ng\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e1y t\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u0169ng n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u201ctuy\u1ec7t chi\u00eau\u201d khi s\u1eeda m\u00e1y t\u00ednh gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. L\u00ean c\u1ea5p ba H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tham gia tr\u1ea1i h\u00e8 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c \u1edf Australia, khi tham quan m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng trung h\u1ecdc th\u00ec \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3 gi\u1edd tin h\u1ecdc. 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Sau khi s\u1eeda xong, nghe \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i t\u1eeb Canada g\u1ecdi v\u1ec1, con c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNh\u00e0 c\u1eadu c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda g\u00ec n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh, m\u00e1y gi\u1eb7t, t\u1edb mu\u1ed1n th\u00e1o ra s\u1eeda h\u1ebft\u201d. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 m\u00e0y m\u00f2 c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ki\u00ean tr\u00ec nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cba m\u1edf\u201d : M\u1edf ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1edf ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1edf ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc. T\u1eeb khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00fa \u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con, xem phim, nghe nh\u1ea1c, t\u1eadp v\u00f5, l\u1eafp r\u00e1p m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y bay, l\u00e0m ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean nh\u00ed, l\u00e0m MC, du l\u1ecbch, nu\u00f4i n\u00f2ng n\u1ecdc... Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng con th\u00edch, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tham gia l\u00f3p ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean nh\u00ed, l\u00e0m MC nghi\u1ec7p d\u01b0 cho nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu nhi c\u1ee7a k\u00eanh Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0110\u00e0i Ph\u00e1t thanh nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n Qu\u1ea3ng \u0110\u00f4ng; l\u1ed3ng ti\u1ebfng cho c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 phim ti\u1ebfng Anh tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh; khi h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p hai con c\u00f2n l\u00e0m MC kh\u00e1ch m\u00f2i cho","ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfng Anh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0i ph\u00e1t thanh, gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ngay t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng quay, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 c\u00f2n cao h\u1ee9ng hon c\u1ea3 MC c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 do con c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bao b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f3p n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu, nhung c\u00e1c l\u00f3p m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cth\u01b0 ph\u00e1p\u201d, \u201ch\u1ed9i h\u1ecda\u201d, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u00f3p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201cba m\u1edf\u201d cho con, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 l\u00f3p r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 l\u00f3p vi t\u00ednh, l\u00f3p ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean nh\u00ed, l\u00f3p m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng, tr\u1ea1i h\u00e8, l\u00f3p v\u00f5 thu\u1eadt, l\u00f3p b\u01a1i... T\u00f4i mong con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i \u201c\u0111a n\u0103ng\u201d hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 m\u00e0y m\u00f2 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi cao v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 thi \u1edf trong v\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i Olympic h\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, sinh h\u1ecdc, v\u1eadt l\u00fd, tin h\u1ecdc, vi\u1ebft v\u0103n... to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ea1t nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3i trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c thi ti\u1ebfng Anh to\u00e0n qu\u1ed1c. Th\u00fa th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 coi tr\u1ecdng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u1ebfp h\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a con trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c thi n\u00e0y, m\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ea1nh tranh m\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh tr\u00ean nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a con, v\u00ec th\u1ebf con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea, gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n trong s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cHi\u1ec7n nay c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a con. Tivi nh\u00e0 em g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y khi b\u1eadt, \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e2y Internet c\u0169ng b\u1ecb em b\u1ecf \u0111i...\u201d. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i \u201clao t\u00e2m kh\u1ed5 t\u1ee9\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, th\u00f4ng tin tr\u00ean c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u00f2i, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u r\u1ed9ng t\u00f3i l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, t\u01b0 duy, quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 thanh ni\u00ean. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecbt ch\u1eb7t m\u1eaft con, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1eb7t c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda nh\u00ecn ra th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i kinh t\u1ebf ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 v\u0169 b\u00e3o, hi\u1ec7n nay, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang c\u0169ng \u1edf trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ea7n t\u1ed1c. Theo th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, ph\u00e1t thanh ra \u0111\u00f2i 38 n\u0103m, c\u00f3 50 tri\u1ec7u th\u00ednh gi\u1ea3; \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y, truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t 13 n\u0103m, c\u00f2n internet ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5t 4 n\u0103m. Trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i cho tr\u1ebb; l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea v\u00e0 \u00f3c th\u1ea9m m\u1ef9 cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng h\u01a1n.","Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng ch\u01b0a ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed nh\u01b0 M \u0169 \u0111\u1ed3ng, Em b\u00e9 ngoan cho con, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con xem c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a con tr\u00ean truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh. Sau khi l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, con mu\u1ed1n xem tivi, nghe radio hay ch\u01a1i game \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi con l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 con ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng qua s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u. M\u00e1y t\u00ednh, VCD, DVD, b\u0103ng, h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh, xem phim, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng k\u00eanh quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 con m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi con h\u1ecdc \u1edf Anh, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mua cho con c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u0129a b\u00e0y b\u00e1n, bao g\u1ed3m ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec1m game, m\u00e0 l\u00fac \u1ea5y trong n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u01a1i game, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n con ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch con ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ea1nh tranh, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung cao \u0111\u1ed9 trong game c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng \u00fd ch\u00ed, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung, tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ea1nh tranh... cho tr\u1ebb. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng vi\u1ec7c con tr\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n intenet. C\u00f3 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con tr\u1ebb l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u1ea1i l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng h\u1ea3? Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chat chit g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea5y!\u201d, \u201cCh\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t l\u00fac th\u00f4i nghe ch\u01b0a?\u201d. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. Theo t\u00f4i, n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng h\u01a1n, phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea g\u1ea7n g\u0169i, sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham gia nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, k\u1ebft giao nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1ea3o tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng. Hi\u1ec7n nay, c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc coi vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p h\u1ecdc sinh xem tivi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n, c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea9y tr\u1ebb l\u00ean m\u1ed9t h\u00f2n \u0111\u1ea3o hoang. C\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u201cb\u1eefa \u0103n ph\u1ee5 c\u00f3 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u1eabn t\u1ea1p ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9, c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u0111a nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu xa c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec b\u1ecbt m\u1eaft, b\u1ecbt tai, kh\u00e9p c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao trong thi c\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u00e1c s\u1edf th\u00edch ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ed7, b\u1ed5 sung cho nhau. S\u1edf d\u0129 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m cao trong c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 do thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c k\u00eanh th\u00f4ng tin l\u00e0 do con \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen nhanh ch\u00f3ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1edd ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang m\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin phong ph\u00fa, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng gian t\u01b0 duy, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 c\u1ee7a con, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n n\u00e2ng cao th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n, s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc, l\u1ef1a","ch\u1ecdn cho con; khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, con s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 s\u00e0ng l\u1ecdc, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn b\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1eeb ph\u00eda cha m\u1eb9. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con nh\u1eefng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang sai, th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i quan, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u1edf m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n, m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau. Trong s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, con \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u00f3 l\u1ecdi cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c sinh h\u1ecdc, ngo\u00e0i ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn s\u0129, con c\u00f2n l\u00e0m tr\u1ee3 gi\u1ea3ng m\u1ea5y m\u00f4n sinh h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh cho sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a Trinity College, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n tham gia v\u00e0o \u1ee7 y ban h\u1ecdc thu\u1eadt v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c \u0111o\u00e0n th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, con kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00f3i l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd doanh nghi\u1ec7p, h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y lu\u00f4n t\u1ea5t b\u1eadt v\u00f3i ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. V\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf con ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 th\u00f2i gian, nh\u01b0ng con n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng phong ph\u00fa, \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ng\u00e0n n\u0103m c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1eb9 \u1ea1\u201d. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, khoa h\u1ecdc qu\u1ef9 th\u00f2i gian, trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea l\u00e0 do th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf. Con \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u coi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng sinh t\u1ed3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cr\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t\u201d? \/\/ \/\/ Bi\u00eat c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi thi c\u1eedc\u0169ngl\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00f4 ch\u1ea5t D\u1ea1y h\u1ecdc v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u00f4'ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i thi c\u1eed; h\u1ecdc v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0&ng. T\u00f4i mong qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 thi c\u1eed, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3gi\u00fap con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00e1ch quan th\u00ec h\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n 8 ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa l\u00e0 thi cu\u1ed1i k\u1ef3, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i xin c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0cmg ngh\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i Qu\u1ea3ng \u0110\u00f4ng choi. C\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v\u00f3i t\u00f4i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! s\u1eafp \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y thi r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i choi?\u201d. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a c\u00f4. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t ph\u01b0oTig Nam m\u00e0 con ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u00f3i m\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n sau, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong thi cu\u1ed1i k\u1ef3, hai m\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea1t \u00ccOO \u0111i\u1ec3m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y khi khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p 2. C\u1ea5p hai, c\u1ea5p ba, trong khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c b\u1ecb h\u1ebft k\u1ef3 thi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef3 thi kh\u00e1c d\u1ed3n \u00e9p, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y thi, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ee7ng \u0111\u1ec9nh nghe nh\u1ea1c, l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ho\u1eb7c ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ef1m nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a con... Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con qu\u00e1 th\u00f4ng minh, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi c\u1eed \u201cc\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1eady!\u201d.","Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng thi c\u1eed m\u00e0 theo con: \u201cBi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thi c\u1eed c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t!\u201d. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c thi c\u1eed trong h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t chung \u1edf tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t hon \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u00e2n t\u00e0i th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c v\u1eeba l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, v\u1eeba l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, t\u00e2m l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd thi c\u1eed. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a qu\u1ed1c gia n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi. Hon n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng trong nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u00e0m, khi tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c kh\u00f3a \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i thi c\u1eed nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 trong thi c\u1eed m\u00e0 hy sinh c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 vui choi gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea, giao l\u01b0u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c th\u1ec3 thao c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i b\u00e1o c\u00e1o v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cB\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn khi thi th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng cao. C\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con t\u0103ng l\u00ean hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a con, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u hon \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ebfn khi thi th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00e0nh t\u00edch t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do t\u00e2m l\u00fd thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 quan t\u00e2m qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c t\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 h\u1ea1ng, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1ecb ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd m\u00f2i gia s\u01b0 v\u1ec1 cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng cho con \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam v\u0103n h\u00f3a bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o, t\u1ea1i sao th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u l\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d. C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i l\u00e0 v\u00ec H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f3i quen h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t, con h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean l\u00f3p v\u00f3i ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1 cao, ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ed1t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i th\u00f4ng qua ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00f3i ngh\u0129a r\u1ed9ng hon th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0ong nhi\u00ean. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi - ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n t\u00edch l\u0169y v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang th\u00e0nh nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u cho s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o. Ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201ccho con c\u1ea7n c\u00e2u\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u201ccho con x\u00f4 c\u00e1\u201d. M\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd th\u00edch suy ngh\u0129, th\u00edch \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, v\u1eeba nghe v\u1eeba t\u00edch l\u0169y, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i, t\u01b0 duy, ti\u00eau h\u00f3a c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp t\u1ed1t th\u00ec th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i thi c\u1eed c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t.","C\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ed3i c\u1ea5p ba \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m sau: Trong l\u00f3p, bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe n\u1ed9i dung tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ef1 ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129, l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i. T\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u00fat ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy lu\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng. Ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng bi\u1ebfn t\u1ed1t. Bi\u1ebft li\u00ean h\u1ec7, so s\u00e1nh, quy n\u1ea1p, t\u1ed5ng k\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u01b0\u1eddng mang theo b\u00fat b\u00ean m\u00ecnh, k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i t\u1ed1c k\u00fd nh\u1eefng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u1eeba xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00f3 l\u00fac ghi kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp, c\u00f2n v\u1ebd v\u1ed9i v\u00e0o tay, sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tra c\u1ee9u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u00f3t. Sau khi tan h\u1ecdc ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian cho vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, ham h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, d\u00e1m \u0111\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00f3i c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd \u201cH\u1ecdc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ea5t s\u1ebd sai l\u1ea7m, suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc t\u1ea5t s\u1ebd b\u1ebf t\u1eafc\u201d, ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00ecm ra l\u00f2i gi\u1ea3i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u00f9 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng d\u00e1m ngh\u0129, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf qua. Trong khi tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, song song v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a. Trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u201cb\u1ee9c tranh\u201d b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i b\u00fat m\u00e0u, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 con ghi l\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nghe gi\u1ea3ng, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, bao g\u1ed3m \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f2n th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m, ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f3. Trong cu\u1ed1n v\u1edf b\u00e0i t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng b\u00fat m\u00e0u kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u1eed b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau. Nghi\u00eam t\u00fac xem x\u00e9t m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ch\u00e2m s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u201cr\u00f3t\u201d v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u con t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf t\u00f3i l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadn m\u1eaft ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh cha s\u1eeda b\u1ea3n th\u1ea3o, m\u1eb9 so\u1ea1n b\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m, d\u1ea5u ph\u1ea9y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ecf qua. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 gi\u00e0u t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u1edf con. D\u1ea1y v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i thi c\u1eed; h\u1ecdc ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1, khi\u1ebfn t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u00f4i mong qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 thi c\u1eed, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kh\u00e1ch quan th\u00ec h\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1eeb khi l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, ngo\u00e0i ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n tham gia r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 thi. Nh\u01b0 bao b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00e1c, thi c\u1eed c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed9i dung quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 thi ki\u1ec3m tra","ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa hay c\u00e1c b\u00e0i thi tr\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7m n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c chung \u1edf ph\u1ea1m vi r\u1ed9ng hon, con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Con \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t huy kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1eeb c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi cam go, trong \u0111\u00f3, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c thi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n \u1edf \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i \u00e1p l\u1ef1c ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 do \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u trong c\u00e1c \u201cth\u00ed tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. T\u1ed0 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n thi c\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec7n nay v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c qua c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m \u1edf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. Khi thi, tinh th\u1ea7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t m\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u00e1p l\u1ef1c trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p l\u1edbn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng, khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u00f2i gian h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y t\u1eeb k\u1ef3 thi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef3 thi kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. H\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 thi c\u1eed c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, t\u1eeb khi con h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea5p ba, tuy t\u00f4i \u201ckh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n\u201d nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n chia s\u1ebb v\u00f3i con th\u00e0nh t\u00edch m\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi, c\u00f2n H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh qua m\u1ed7i k\u1ef3 thi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 4 X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u00e2n cho con tr\u1ebb D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n con l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, con c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ri\u00eang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng gi\u00fap \u00edch cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5t gi\u1eef v\u00e0o ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. \u1edfm\u1ed9t th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n n\u1ecd c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eebi cha \u0111\u1ec1u vui m\u1eebng v\u00ec sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00fd t\u1eed, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u00f2i l\u00e0 th\u01b0ong nh\u00e2n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00f3n ngh\u1ec1, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, th\u1eadt th\u00e0. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia, h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p nhau trong m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n r\u01b0\u1ee3u, v\u1ecb th\u01b0omg nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1eafc \u00fd n\u1ed1i v\u00f3 i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c: \u201cN g\u01b0 \u00f2i anh em, \u0111o\u1ea3n xem t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111 \u1ec3 d\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho con trai t\u00f4i bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n?\u201d. N g\u01b0\u00f2i th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c c\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu, \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cThu nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee7 nu\u00f4i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd d\u1ea1y con trai t\u00f4i c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m ti\u1ec1n\u201d. V\u1ecb th\u01b0ong nh\u00e2n li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u1eddi ha ha: \u201c\u0110\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi con trai \u00f4ng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n th\u00ec con trai t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ebft vinh hoa ph\u00fa qu\u00fd r\u1ed3i\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau, t\u1ea1i th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ed1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n hai thanh ni\u00ean thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u00f2i: M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 th\u1ee3 \u0111i\u00eau kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed3 g\u1ed7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kinh doanh ph\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea1t, m\u1ed9t l\u00e0 k\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y l\u00eau l\u1ed5ng choi b&i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 \u0111i\u00eau kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c, c\u00f2n k\u1ebb nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u kia l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb th\u01b0ong nh\u00e2n. N\u0103m x\u01b0a, v\u1ecb th\u01b0ong nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111 \u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n l\u1edbn. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, con trai \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong nhung l\u1ee5a, th\u01b0&ng th\u1ee9c son h\u00e0o h\u1ea3i v\u1ecb, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh ngang ng\u1ea1nh kh\u1ec9nh ng\u01b0\u00f2i, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec; c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 m\u1ed9c m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 gia c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb khi con trai c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 cho con h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 m\u1ed9c, theo \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eebng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u1eadu con trai nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt th\u00e0, ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1c, t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, c\u1eadu c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u00f2i th\u1ee3 th\u1ee7 c\u00f4ng g\u1ea7n xa bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfng, v\u00f3 i tay ngh\u1ec1 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o hom cha, c\u00e1i duy\u00ean v\u00f3 i ngh\u1ec1 c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t hom cha, c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng x\u01b0\u1ecfmg m\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u1ed3 gia d\u1ee5ng r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c. \u201cMu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, c\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1ng, hay c\u00f3 h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n cao, uy\u00ean b\u00e1c, th\u00ec y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan","tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y anh ta kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh ta. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con trai hay d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 20.000 h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ee7a H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn ki\u00ean tr\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u\u201d. Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e0i truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon trai ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 \u0111ang h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1ea1i ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge, 20.000 h\u1ecdc sinh trong H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb l\u00e0 sinh vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Ch\u1ecb th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i \u201ct\u1eeb y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn y\u00eau v\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d, trong l\u00f2ng ch\u1ecb, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o n\u00e0y c\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nhau hay kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u00e1nh n\u1ed5i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee9a con ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; v\u00f3i t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc 20.000 sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 g\u1eedi g\u1eafm c\u1ee7a 20.000 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 t\u01b0ong lai c\u1ee7a 20.000 thanh ni\u00ean. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 n\u1eb7ng hon so v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tinh th\u1ea7n c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng hon, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb hon b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 sao B\u1eafc \u0110\u1ea9u ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed1i d\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u1eeb khi con ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ee5ng cho con m\u1ed9t ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng ng\u00f9ng g\u1eedi c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n \u201cti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m\u201d tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0o trong \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00f9ng h\u1ebft. T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ngay khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00f2i \u0103n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong nh\u00e0, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1t ng\u00f4n b\u1eeba b\u00e3i m\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, g\u1ef1i m\u1edf cho con tr\u1ebb c\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u00fang sai, quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a con, s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y mang t\u00ednh th\u00e2m c\u0103n c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ebf. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u0169ng h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i khi xem xong tivi hay xem xong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim, ba th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn. D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt l\u1ecbch s\u1eed \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a con. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, con c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn, c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ri\u00eang. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng gi\u00fap \u00edch cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang t\u00f4i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ef1 tr\u1eef v\u00e0o ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.","\u201cL\u00f2i n\u00f3i \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m\u201d. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u1ef1i d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh th\u00edch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau cha m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa theo d\u00f5i h\u1ecd. M\u1ed7i c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ngh\u1ec9 ngoi hay n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ra sao, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfe, l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u1ed1m, khi b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed3n, l\u00fac b\u1ea1n vui, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ecb con tr\u1ebb theo d\u00f5i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, l\u1ea1c quan. Con n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 do \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng gene di truy\u1ec1n t\u1eeb cha\u201d. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i, anh lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c vui v\u1ebb, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a anh c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c \u00e9p, anh v\u1eabn h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i. Anh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCho d\u00f9 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 g\u00ec th\u00ec v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Th\u00f2i gian c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho con t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t. Trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t coi tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i con tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ef1 tr\u1eef trong ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con. T\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 con tham gia nhi\u1ec1u, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c: t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i... Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 coi tr\u1ecdng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i, s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m, b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi l\u1ea1i cho con kho\u1ea3n \u201cti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d d\u1ed3i d\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. Kho\u1ea3n \u201cti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u201cs\u00e9c ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n\u201d, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u201cs\u00e9c d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, khoan dung, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, l\u1ea1c quan, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb, c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 \u00e1nh sao l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3\u1ef5g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u1edbi con Trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 v\u00e0ng vun \u0111\u1eafp t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v&i con, s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n \u1edf tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xa cha m\u1eb9\u201d v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u00f2i gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea5c tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa to\u00e0n th\u00f2i gian, th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 b\u1ecf b\u00ea tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt \u1ec9\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen, ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 ch\u1eef l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ecdc. V\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1edd m\u1ed9t trang gi\u1ea5y","v\u1edbi n\u00e9t ch\u1eef m\u00e0u n\u00e2u trong m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n nhanh \u0111\u00e3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1. Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m, con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y cha m\u1ec9m c\u01b0cr\u00ec, con n\u00f3i \u201cCon y\u00eau cha\u201d v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee3i cha \u0111\u00e1p l\u00f2i, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p; Con l\u00e0m m\u1eb7t h\u1ec1 v\u00e0 g\u1ecdi t\u00ean cha, con t\u01b0\u1ecfng cha \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con, con t\u01b0\u1ecfng cha s\u1ebd nghe th\u1ea5y, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng nghe; Con g\u1ecdi cha ra ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng c\u00f9ng con, con ngh\u0129 cha s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf; Con \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ebd m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh cho cha xem, con t\u01b0\u1ecfng cha s\u1ebd gi\u1eef n\u00f3, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef; Con x\u00e2y m\u1ed9t l\u00f4 c\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e1nh r\u1eebng, con t\u01b0\u1ecfng cha s\u1ebd c\u1eafm tr\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng con & \u0111\u00f3, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng th\u1ebf; Con ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1ea5y con giun, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111i c\u00e2u c\u00e1, con ngh\u0129 cha s\u1ebd \u0111i c\u00f9ng, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng \u0111i; Con mu\u1ed1n cha c\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb nh\u0169ng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1edb c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb, con t\u01b0\u1ecfng cha s\u1ebd tham gia, Nhung cha kh\u00f4ng tham gia; T\u1ed5 qu\u1ed1c g\u1ecdi con l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u00f2ng nh\u1eadp ng\u0169, cha mu\u1ed1n con b\u00ecnh y\u00ean tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 qu\u00ea h\u01b0ong, Nhung con \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edb v\u1ec1... \u0110\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, tr\u00e1i tim t\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb b\u00f3p ngh\u1eb9t! \u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft \u01b0\u1edbt nh\u00f2e... T\u00f4i g\u1ea5p t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea5t v\u00e0o t\u00fai x\u00e1ch. Ngay t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00e9p b\u00e0i th\u01a1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 g\u1eedi t\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. V\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u1ecb chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb g\u1eedi \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i s\u00e1u th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i \u1edf t\u1eadn Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ea3i. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean trong b\u00e0i th\u01a1","n\u00e0y, kh\u00e1t khao cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh b\u00ean m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi con tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, n\u1ed7i nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong l\u00f2ng. N\u0103m H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng 6 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng sang Anh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, v\u00e0 trong n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng tham gia kh\u00f3a \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u1edf Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ea3i. Th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u00f3, con trai s\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i b\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m lo h\u1ebft l\u00f2ng cho con, nh\u01b0ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u1eabn khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i \u00e1y n\u00e1y trong l\u00f2ng, d\u00f9 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 v\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc d\u0129. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra s\u00e2n bay, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Khi \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf c\u1ed5ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00ecn con b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o trong, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n con ngo\u00e1i l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng con kh\u00f4ng quay l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 \u0111i th\u1eb3ng. Hai n\u0103m \u1edf Anh t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi: T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng ngo\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i? M\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5y n\u0103m sau, trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i v\u0103n vi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng Anh \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a con, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng th\u00ec ra con \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng quay \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i. Con vi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 sau: M\u1eb9 s\u1eafp \u0111i r\u1ed3\u1ec9, m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i xu\u1ed1ng xe r\u1ed3i b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1ed5ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngo\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c. M\u1ed9t l\u00e1t sau, t\u00f4i b\u01b0&c ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 ng\u1ed1 xung quanh, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y xe m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e2u, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y b\u00f3ng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e2u n\u1eefa... \u0110\u1ecdc b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd, m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd, vi\u1ec7c \u0111i ra n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi b\u00e1m m\u1eb9 (cha) v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u1edf tr\u1ebb em. B\u00e1m m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn c\u1ea5u th\u00e0nh quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1edf m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1eadn t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u201cb\u00e1m theo\u201d an to\u00e0n. Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u201cb\u00e1m theo\u201d n\u00e0y, con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c t\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i, b\u1ecb coi nh\u1eb9, th\u1edd \u01a1 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e3i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u201cb\u00e1m theo\u201d kh\u00f4ng an to\u00e0n, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t t\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb sau n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1, s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u t\u00f3i n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o trong quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 k\u00e9m... Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 an to\u00e0n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt c\u1ea7n g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c! Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 con ru\u1ed9t, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng trao cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt th\u00ec sau khi tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t xa c\u00e1ch.","M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb o \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb qu\u1ea5n qu\u00fdt v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t, lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1m ri\u1ebft l\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, m\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u00e0 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy l\u1ea5y \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y h\u1ecfi kia, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u00eau c\u1ea7u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i hy sinh cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u00e2m th\u1ea7m x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i, d\u1ed3n th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c cho con tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5y n\u0103m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c! Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a con, ngo\u00e0i th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 d\u1ed3n h\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian cho con. Ch\u1ee7 nh\u1eadt, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea1p xe \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khu v\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u00f3i m\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, trong ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhau, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n ba th\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp theo t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec. S\u1ef1 \u0103n \u00fd n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cho \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i con \u0111\u00e3 h\u01a1n 20 tu\u1ed5i. L\u1ea5y con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3, vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ki\u00ean tr\u00ec trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt v\u00f3i con. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i con t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng, nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eaft con, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec, c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i g\u00ec. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cung c\u1ea5p m\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u cho con trai, g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1i th\u00e1c. C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, c\u1ea5p ba, d\u00f9 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i c\u0169ng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean con kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau gi\u1eefa t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ra nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tranh th\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n tin r\u1eb1ng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, v\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi con tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, t\u1eeb khi con trai ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu con trai, \u00f4ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 c\u00f9ng con, v\u00ec \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ph\u00f3 t\u1ed5ng gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p l\u1edbn, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c lu\u00f4n chi\u1ebfm g\u1ea7n h\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. \u00d4ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, gi\u1eefa \u00f4ng v\u00e0 con trai lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh. Sau khi v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u, \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3i. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u00f4ng m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u01b0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf nh\u00e0 ra \u0111i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1eeb Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 k\u1ec3 cho t\u00f4i nghe. B\u00e1o ch\u00ed Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn ri\u00eang v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y, k\u00eau g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha","b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i, quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5 t\u1eed trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng sau n\u00e0y. Th\u1ef1c ra, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129, m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi con c\u00e1i cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa to\u00e0n th\u00f2i gian. Ch\u00fang ta n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u00e0ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp t\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5 t\u1eed v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c g\u1eedi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa to\u00e0n th\u00f2i gian, b\u1edfi t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u00e0 t\u00f9 v\u0103n minh\u201d. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1, t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t phong ph\u00fa, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01a1n nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Trong khi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n, bao g\u1ed3m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau, g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi con \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o. Trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 v\u00e0ng vun \u0111\u1eafp t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi con, s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n \u1edf tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xa cha m\u1eb9\u201d v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ed9i tr\u00fa to\u00e0n th\u1eddi gian, th\u1ef1c ra l\u00e0 b\u1ecf b\u00ea tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, v\u00ec t\u00ecnh ru\u1ed9t th\u1ecbt l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean con ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 v\u00f3i con, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh vun \u0111\u1eafp t\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1eed, t\u00ecnh ph\u1ee5 t\u1eed, n\u1ebfu b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 th\u00ec th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u1edf c\u1ea3 n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i xa cha m\u1eb9, cha m\u1eb9 ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec k\u1ebf sinh nhai, ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 \u0111i l\u00e0m xa, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i con cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c. T\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 t\u1edbi tr\u00ean 80% s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb em ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u v\u1edbi \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb7ng ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. H\u00e3y d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong l\u00fac tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. Cho con bi\u00eatm\u1ed9t th\u00eagi\u1edbi ch\u1ea7n th\u1ef1c Con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n r\u1ea5t l&n. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ebfgi\u00f3i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, trao cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0&ng, b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 l\u1eadp trong \u201cm\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb em\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha am hi\u1ec3u \u0110\u00f4ng T\u00e2y, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i chu du kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 v\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt.","Khi \u1edf Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng H\u1ea3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i m\u00f3i 9 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1n l\u1ea7u xanh. Nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i phong tr\u1ea7n loanh quanh v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 con g\u00e1i l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 v\u1ebb th\u1eafc m\u1eafc. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00f3i v\u00f3i c\u00f4 r\u1eb1ng, n\u00ean th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00f3i c\u00e1ch sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1eb1ng nh\u0169ng suy ngh\u0129 nh\u00e2n v\u0103n. Khi \u1edf M\u1ef9, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n m\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng n\u1eefa l\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0a con sang ch\u00e2u \u00c2u kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 mi\u1ec7ng n\u00fai l\u1eeda, tham quan nh\u00e0 th\u1edd, xem m\u00faa tho\u00e1t y... Khi c\u00f4 b\u00e9 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ea5p ba, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng cho c\u00f4 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f4 b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 17. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng L\u00e2m Ng\u1eef \u0110\u01b0\u00f2ng^1), c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 L\u00e2m Th\u00e1i \u1ea4t - con g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 L\u00e2m Th\u00e1i \u00c2t vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch Con g\u00e1i th\u1ee9 hai nh\u00e0 h\u1ecd L\u00e2m. L\u00e2m Ng\u1eef \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbn, nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc trong nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1eaft th\u1ea5y tai nghe ngo\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc. Trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 con g\u00e1i m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u1ea3i qua trong th\u00f2i ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec3 L\u00e2m Th\u00e1i \u1ea4t tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. C\u00f4 g\u00e1i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y c\u00f3 kh\u00ed ch\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m, thanh cao. N\u0103m 18 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1ea1y ti\u1ebfng Trung \u1edf \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Yale c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9, sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Trung v\u0103n c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ecb tr\u00ed t\u1ed5ng bi\u00ean t\u1eadp t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed \u0110\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 v\u0103n tr\u00edch phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n ti\u1ebfng Trung c\u1ee7a M\u1ef9, vi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m nh\u01b0 L\u00e2m Ng\u1eef \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng truy\u1ec7n... R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau n\u00e0y, nh\u00e0 v\u0103n L\u01b0u Dung n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft trong cu\u1ed1n D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng r\u1eb1ng: \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh hcrn l\u00e0, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u00f2mg c\u1ea7n v\u01b0om ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0&c ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ng\u01b0\u00f2i kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, \u0111i ng\u1ee7 m\u00e0 t\u1eaft tiv\u1ec9, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec anh ta c\u00f3 bu\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, anh ta c\u1ea7n s&m h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u00f2mg \u1ed3n \u00e0o, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong l\u00fac ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1ch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eebi r\u1ea5t chi\u1ec1u con, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec chi\u1ec1u n\u00ean t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec con \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch m\u00e0 t\u1eaft tivi, kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 con g\u1eb7p nguy hi\u1ec3m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho con \u0111i leo n\u00fai, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 con ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng cho con tham gia v\u00e0o\u201dtr\u1ea1i h\u00e8 ma qu\u1ef7\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con l&n kh\u00f4n r\u1ed3i, s\u1ebd r\u00f2i xa t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u01b0omg nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n lo l\u1eafng, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u1ebfgi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i cho con t\u1eeb l\u00e2u, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u. Ghi l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha s\u1ed1ng \u1edf hai th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ea5t xa ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i","l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. D\u00f9 hai \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c nhau, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c nhau, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 v\u0103n h\u00f3a kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau - t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u01b0\u01a1n xa. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa c\u00e1o nh\u1ecf v\u1eeba m\u1edbi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, l\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a kh\u00f4, \u0111i c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a v\u1eefng, c\u00e1o m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tuy\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh \u0111u\u1ed5i con m\u00ecnh ra ngo\u00e0i. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u01b0a to hay gi\u00f3 l\u1edbn, c\u00e1o con v\u1eabn b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 v\u1ee9t ra th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y v\u00e0 bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Khi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a hai nh\u00e0 v\u0103n l\u1edbn n\u00e0y, nhung t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 \u201cv\u00f4 t\u00ecnh\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u00e1o m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a gi\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i sinh m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, c\u00e0ng t\u00e1ch r\u00f2i s\u1edbm th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u0169ng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m tra trong b\u00e0i thi th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd ki\u1ec3m tra. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ngo\u00e0i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u01b0\u01a1n xa. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham gia, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t tay\u201d. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn, c\u00e2u m\u00e0 con hay h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u00e0, m\u1eb9 sao v\u1eady?\u201d. Cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i vui, t\u00f4i bu\u1ed3n, hay l\u00e0 con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, con \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m h\u1ecfi han. L\u00fac v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i b\u00e0n vi\u1ec7c, con s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi: \u201cC\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec v\u1eady cha?\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u00f3i con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eafm b\u1eaft th\u00f4ng tin, hon n\u1eefa c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c cho tr\u1ebb tham gia t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho tr\u1ebb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tham gia. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng hon l\u00e0, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 s\u00e2n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7, m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1edbm m\u1edf c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i cho con, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u\u201d, t\u00f9ng b\u01b0\u1edbc r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cho con tr\u1ebb. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft con n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con l\u00e0: \u201cH\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, con l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y\u201d. Khi n\u00f3i ra c\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111ang b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con nghe s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edch cho con. Ban ng\u00e0y v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, nghe th\u1ea5y chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u1ee7a ai, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ef1a c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00f3i cho con, r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh g\u00ec c\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe. Con s\u1ebd l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, r\u1ed3i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a con. D\u00f9 \u0111\u00fang hay sai, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch con m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1eaft th\u1ea5y tai nghe \u0111\u00f3, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f2i th\u01b0\u1eddng, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u00e0m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u0129nh h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u201cquy t\u1eafc ng\u1ea7m\u201d trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i","ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Th\u1ef1c ra, con tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n th\u00ec c\u00e0ng r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t hon. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a con, con \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 h\u1ecfi linh tinh. Lo h\u1ecdc cho t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1ed3i\u201d, \u201cVi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, tr\u1ebb con bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Th\u00f4i mau m\u00e0 lo h\u1ecdc \u0111i!\u201d, \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 noi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i, con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ph\u00e9p \u0111i...\u201d. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c nghi\u00eam c\u1ea5m l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u0110\u1ebfn khi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb mang theo s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng noi m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n con \u0111i nh\u01b0 qu\u00e1n game, s\u00e0n nh\u1ea3y... Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u00e0n nh\u1ea3y, qu\u00e1n game, kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n n\u0103m sao, qu\u00e1n nh\u1ecf ven \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, qu\u00e1n tr\u00e0, qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea.... N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i theo. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 cho con tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m; ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o con suy ngh\u0129. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ec3 con bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch sinh t\u1ed3n; \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3i cho con bi\u1ebft ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf\u201d v\u1edbi con. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTr\u1ebb con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00eam, l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n l\u1eafm\u201d, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00fac n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng g\u00ec. C\u00f3 ch\u0103ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00f2i c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1o nh\u1ea5t th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng t\u00f2 m\u00f2 h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng cho con tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng khi con tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn t\u00f9y c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ed1t tr\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cdung t\u00fang\u201d th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng trong l\u1ed3ng k\u00ednh. N\u0103m 17 tu\u1ed5i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh sang Anh h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba, xung quanh con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1m d\u1ed7. T\u00f4i d\u1eb7n con c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, con n\u00f3i: \u201cVi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o n\u00ean l\u00e0m, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m, con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft t\u1eeb l\u00e2u, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. Th\u1ef1c ra, h\u1ed3i m\u1edbi sang Anh, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ebb loi. Ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 con h\u1ecdc k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 \u1ed3n \u00e0o con v\u1eabn t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac l\u1ebb loi, con ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean v\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u1eeba \u0103n b\u00e1nh m\u1ef3 v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn d\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qua l\u1ea1i, t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm ni\u1ec1m vui cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01a1i b\u1edbt n\u1ed7i nh\u1edb nh\u00e0 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. Con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc sinh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng thi \u0111\u1ed7 \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge. Con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ch\u00e2n","th\u1ef1c, trao cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4 l\u1eadp trong \u201cm\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ebb em\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed1t l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: \u201cD\u1ea1y con th\u1eadt kh\u00f3! N\u00f3i v\u00f3i n\u00f3, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 nghe\u201d. Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt ch\u1ee9a, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00f3t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. Vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong \u0111\u00f3, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh vi l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ec3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d, tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n. T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh D\u00f9ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh v\u1ec9, l\u00f2i n\u00f3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u00f2n g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa? Hem n\u1eefa, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v&i con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1edb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i \u201cn\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d. Trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, t\u1eeb khi con trai ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u00ec con. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cNhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac th\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u con qu\u00e1\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u00f2i. T\u00f4i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn, trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u201cchi\u1ec1u chu\u1ed9ng\u201d con, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf con b\u00f3p n\u00e1t qu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua, con ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng chi\u1ebfc radio trong nh\u00e0, con c\u1ea7m \u00f4 t\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed3 choi \u0111\u1eadp kh\u1eafp noi, con l\u0103n l\u00ea b\u00f2 to\u00e0i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u00f3i d\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea5t, con v\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea7y l\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u00e0, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed tr\u00ean t\u1ea5m ga tr\u1ea3i gi\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1eafng tinh, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u201ct\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda\u201d c\u1ee7a con, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e9p, t\u00f4i ch\u00e9p gi\u00fap con, khi l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai con l\u00e9n l\u00fat vi\u1ebft \u0111i vi\u1ebft l\u1ea1i t\u00ean m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i tr\u00ean m\u1ea9u gi\u1ea5y... C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201cCon tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ef1m kh\u00f3 b\u1ea3o nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ea1i sao ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh?\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cTh\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh? C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i sao con l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d. T\u00f4i d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, th\u1eed quan s\u00e1t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u1ea3y sinh ra nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vui v\u1ebb d\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u va ch\u1ea1m, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eb7t v\u00e3nh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n ra c\u1ea3nh \u201ccon kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, v\u1ef1 c\u00e0u nh\u00e0u...\u201d th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7.","M\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00eam \u1ea5m, h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. M\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, \u0111e d\u1ecda, b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111e n\u1eb9t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng minh. C\u00e1ch \u201cqu\u1ea3n l\u00fd\u201d th\u00f4ng minh trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1ed1ng ch\u1ebf m\u1ecdi chi ti\u1ebft trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd d\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, v\u1eady n\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i vui v\u1ebb. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u1ed1ng s\u1eady nh\u1ecf, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0a d\u00f2ng n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1eafng ch\u00e1t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00e0y th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00ean kia s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea3y ra m\u1eadt ng\u1ecdt. B\u00ean m\u00e2m com gia \u0111\u00ecnh, trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, gi\u1eefa c\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng \u1edf l\u00e0ng qu\u00ea, b\u00ean v\u01b0\u1eddn c\u00e2y trong c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean, tr\u00ean chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u \u0111i du l\u1ecbch... T\u1eebng c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con v\u1eabn h\u1eb1n s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i. T\u1eeb khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ecf cho t\u1edbi l\u1edbn, b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3 hay kh\u00f4ng, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111on gi\u1ea3n hay \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u qu\u00e2y qu\u1ea7n b\u00ean nhau, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan, h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng vui v\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong m\u00f3i 3 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, hai v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0103n com ngo\u00e0i ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: \u201cEm coi, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i k\u00eca\u201d. T\u00f4i gi\u1eadt n\u1ea3y m\u00ecnh, v\u1ed9i ngo\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i nh\u00ecn theo ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i th\u00ec c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa. Nghe th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eb1m trong ph\u00f2ng trong c\u0169ng k\u00eau \u201ca a\u201d. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t hay \u0111\u00f9a, xem h\u00e0i k\u1ecbch, k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n vui cho nhau nghe. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng vui, m\u1ed9t trong ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u00f9a c\u00e2u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1o m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng vui s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u00f4i qua. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con h\u00e1t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t ti\u1ebfng Anh, l\u00f2i ca ti\u1ebfng h\u00e1t s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n, khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n h\u01a1n, ph\u1ed5i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u00f4i mong mu\u1ed1n con c\u00f3 th\u00eam l\u00f2ng tin v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00fac vui l\u00fac \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh mang l\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khi tr\u1ebb vui v\u1ebb, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd kh\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng khi tinh th\u1ea7n \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i sa s\u00fat, bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m s\u00fat, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00e0i ba \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui v\u1ebb, t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1eadp trung tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u00f3 \u00edch. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n b\u00e9, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hay l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi \u00fd c\u1ee7a con. D\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1 t\u00ednh, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ecdp trong th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc","m\u00e0 t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7. D\u00f9ng t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi, l\u00f2 i n\u00f3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u00f2n g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa? Hcm n\u1eefa, n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi \u201cn\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn hay tr\u1ebb con th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng cam t\u00e2m khi \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 vui v\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng trong khi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean b\u1ecb m\u1eafng m\u1ecf, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch? Say m\u00ea v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea lu\u00f4n \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ni\u1ec1m vui. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, c\u1ea7n g\u1ee3i ra kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng cho tr\u1ebb, k\u00edch th\u00edch ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea \u1edf tr\u1ebb. Khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. Khi truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ra ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea cho con, sau \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i v\u00e0 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng khi \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf \u0111i xe kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i, t\u00f4i h\u00e1t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t ti\u1ebfng Anh cho con nghe: \u201cM\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1i chai m\u00e0u xanh treo \u1edf tr\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n ch\u00edn c\u00e1i...\u201d. H\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u00fac th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3i bi\u00ean \u201cbottle\u201d (c\u00e1i chai) th\u00e0nh \u201cbottom\u201d (m\u00f4ng \u0111\u00edt), b\u00e0i h\u00e1t bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh: \u201cM\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1i m\u00f4ng xanh treo tr\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n ch\u00edn c\u00e1i...\u201d. Nghe \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3, con li\u1ec1n s\u1eefng l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi. Con th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i coi tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 sau khi g\u1ee3i cho con ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi l\u00f2i b\u00e0i h\u00e1t, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap con t\u0103ng th\u00eam v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb ti\u1ebfng Anh. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb may m\u1eafn khi c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf, nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1edbi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. v \u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng lu\u00f4n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vui v\u1ebb. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u00fa \u00fd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m sau: C\u1ed0 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi kh\u00f4ng vui. Kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con trong l\u00fac \u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fac r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u201cgi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt\u201d. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i ho\u1eb7c v\u1eeba kh\u00f3c xong. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u00e9p con l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n khi con \u0111ang say s\u01b0a v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh vui v\u1ebb, tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh t\u00edch trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u1ed0 g\u1eafng l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i, ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, khi nh\u00ecn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng vui s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m. Nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi Li\u00ean X\u00f4, Vasyl Olexandrovych Sukhomlynsky, cho r\u1eb1ng, s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa, gi\u00e1o \u00e1n \u0111\u00e3 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i cho con tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t - h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u201cc\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1!\u201d - c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.","Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 khi gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, hay l\u00e0 khi gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u tu\u00e2n theo nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vui v\u1ebb\u201d. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai d\u00f9 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7, c\u00f3 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c cao, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng kh\u00e9o \u201cm\u01b0u k\u00ea\u201dv\u00e0ph\u01b0\u01a1ngph\u00e1p \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u00c1m th\u1ecb lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v&i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cao c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0, ta m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u00e1ch \u00e1m th\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng & m\u1ed9tph\u01b0cmg di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0&ng cho l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. Trong m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 trao th\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u00e0i Truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh trung \u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eabn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh Tr\u01b0\u01a1ng Vi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: \u201cT\u00f4i nghe n\u00f3i, sau khi nghe ch\u1ecb chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m d\u1ea1y con v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf con v\u1ed1n t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 tr\u00fang m\u01b0u k\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf cho con. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 con mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 che gi\u1ea5u \u00fd \u0111\u1ed3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi con m\u00f3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, tan h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 th\u00edch ra ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u2018H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, con l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp nhanh l\u00ean, l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a con ra ch\u1ed7 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i\u2019. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf con s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, hai l\u1ea7n, ba l\u1ea7n, vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cao c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t. Con b\u1ecb \u2018m\u1eafc b\u1eaby\u2019 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft\u201d. \u201cH\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ham mu\u1ed1n c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta\u201d. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00f3i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y. \u201cTr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00f3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9 Dale Carnegie^2). Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ea5t mong \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon \u0103n ngoan th\u00ec m\u1eb9 cho con \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n\u201d; \u201cNg\u1ee7 ngoan nh\u00e9, c\u00e1c c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ee7 tr\u01b0a th\u00f4i\u201d. T\u00f4i coi \u201ctr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non\u201d l\u00e0 \u201cph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng\u201d kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a con, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ki\u1ec3u \u201ckh\u00f4ng ngoan l\u00e0 cho \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb\u201d. Sau khi con ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau n\u00f3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i n\u1eefa. Con th\u1ea5y \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do nh\u01b0 \u1edf nh\u00e0. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ed7 d\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, ngo\u00e0i ra kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb th\u00edch tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n c\u00f9ng ch\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n con th\u00edch l\u00e0m, th\u1ea5y con th\u00edch v\u1ebd tranh, th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n... T\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n ng\u1ed3i v\u1edbi nhau, l\u1ea5y tay ch\u1ea5m v\u00e0o n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i v\u1ebd l\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n. Qu\u1ea3","nhi\u00ean, con c\u0169ng h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng s\u00e0 v\u00e0o xem. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 do h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non, con kh\u00f4ng \u0111i nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m sao bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch v\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c?\u201d. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa hon v\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf v\u1ebd c\u00f9ng, vui c\u1ef1c nh\u00e9\u201d. L\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. S\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong d\u1eady r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm v\u00e0 gi\u1ee5c t\u00f4i: \u201cM\u1eb9 mau l\u00ean, con mu\u1ed1n \u0111i h\u1ecdc\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 trong c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb. \u0110i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u201cl\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111e d\u1ecda v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u00e9p. \u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u201ct\u00ednh ng\u1ea5m d\u1ea7n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ednh t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n ra trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, m\u1ecdi th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m. C\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng \u201cm\u01b0u k\u1ebf\u201d v\u00e0 \u00e1m th\u1ecb l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u201ct\u00ednh ng\u1ea5m d\u1ea7n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ct\u00ednh t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng \u00e1m th\u1ecb r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u01b0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c, n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t... \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, l\u1ea5y v\u00ed d\u1ee5, so s\u00e1nh... \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o b\u00e0y t\u1ecf quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m tay b\u1ea9n lem nhem, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con m\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u00e1m th\u1ecb k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 v\u00e0 r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho con nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n Ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m \u0111i t\u00ecm b\u1ea1n: B\u1ea1n ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00f3i m\u00e8o tr\u1eafng, li\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0a tay ra tr\u01b0&c b\u1ea1n m\u00e8o, nh\u01b0ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u00e0n tay l\u1ea5m lem c\u1ee7a ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m, m\u00e8o tr\u1eafng li\u1ec1n cau m\u00e0y b\u1ecf \u0111i. Ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v&i th\u1ecf tr\u1eafng, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ecf th\u1eafng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y tay ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m b\u1ea9n, c\u1ee7ng cau m\u00e0y b\u1ecf \u0111i. Ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 li\u1ec1n nh\u1eeb m\u1eb9 r\u1eeda tay h\u1ed9. Th\u1ea5y b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m r\u1ea5t s\u1ea1ch, b\u1ea1n m\u00e8o tr\u1eafng, th\u1ecf tr\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0n tay tr\u1eafng tinh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra tr\u01b0&c b\u1ea1n ch\u00f3, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m th\u00edch s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u00f2i b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, khi t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 xong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u00e0n tay l\u1ea5m lem ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u01a1i, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 tay b\u1ea9n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ch\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1m \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0a con ra v\u00f2i n\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eeda tay, con r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb v\u00ec con t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb t\u00f4i m\u1eafng m\u1ecf hay b\u1eaft \u00e9p. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u00e1m th\u1ecb, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u00f9ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ho\u1eb7c l\u00f2i n\u00f3i \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u1ea7n l\u01b0u \u00fd l\u00e0 n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t trong m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i l\u00f2ng tin c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u00e1m th\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng trong t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau. Khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf th\u00ec \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn h\u01a1n, con c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean th\u00ec ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u00e1m th\u1ecb c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con m\u1ea5t \u0111i l\u00f2ng tin \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. \u00c1m th\u1ecb lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cao c\u1ea3. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00f4 t\u01b0, ta m\u00f3i c\u00f3","th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra c\u00e1ch \u00e1m th\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u201cng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m\u201d. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n trong s\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 con tr\u1ebb, c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb v\u1ebd n\u00ean m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 s\u1eafc m\u00e0u. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. Khi v\u1ea5p ng\u1eab con h\u0103\u1ef5 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady Ch\u00fang ta ai ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u1ee7ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong thi c\u1eed, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u1ea5n th\u00e0nh b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong... Cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 y\u00eau con \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay con tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 choi, t\u00f4i v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh nghe th\u1ea5y H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf \u0111ang ng\u00e3: \u201cV\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady ch\u1ee9! T\u1ea1i c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn m\u00e0! \u0110\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o?\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e2u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con n\u0103m x\u01b0a. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i H\u1ea1 D\u01b0cmg v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nh\u1edb, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong khi \u0111\u00f3 hon 4 tu\u1ed5i \u0111i choi, con ch\u1ef1t v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3, \u00f4ng v\u1ed9i b\u1ebf con l\u00ean v\u00e0 ph\u1ee7i \u0111\u1ea5t b\u1ea9n d\u00ednh tr\u00ean qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong l\u1ea1i n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh b\u00f2 d\u1eady, ch\u1eefng ch\u1ea1c n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u b\u1ea3o, m\u00ecnh ng\u00e3 th\u00ec m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady\u201d. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t trong s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 ng\u00e2y ng\u00f4, nh\u01b0ng cho th\u1ea5y \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e2m ch\u1ed3i n\u1ea3y l\u1ed9c trong l\u00f2ng con tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1u v\u1ed9i b\u1ebf con d\u1eady, con tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a kh\u00f3c, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 v\u1ebb x\u00f3t xa, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ecb ng\u00e3, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 con v\u1eabn an to\u00e0n, th\u00ec v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cT\u1ea1i con kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, l\u1ea7n sau con nh\u1edb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd nh\u00e9\u201d. N\u1ebfu con t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ra \u0111\u1ee1 con. Sau \u0111\u00f3, con v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u00ecn, con t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c m\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m. Qua nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u00e8n cho H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tinh th\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa bao kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ea5y \u0111i, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. Tr\u00ean b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, lu\u00f4n dinh d\u1eadp nh\u1eefng c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby \u201cm\u1ec1m\u201d do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 bao b\u1ecdc, che ch\u1edf con qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c t\u1ea1o ra. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u1ea1m b\u1eaby n\u00e0y, b\u1edfi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t","b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 m\u1ec1m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00f2i v\u0129nh, nh\u01b0 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u201cCon th\u00edch mua...\u201d, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mua s\u1ebd n\u1eb1m l\u0103n ra \u0111\u1ea5t \u0103n v\u1ea1; ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i \u201cCon m\u1ec7t r\u1ed3i, m\u1eb9 b\u1ebf con \u0111i\u201d, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ebf s\u1ebd ng\u1ed3i ph\u1ecbch xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c... N\u1ebfu khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1ng m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ec1m l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ed9, th\u00ec ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 dung t\u00fang cho con, sau nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen d\u00f9ng \u201cth\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n\u201d kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0103n v\u1ea1 b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4i, con c\u1ee9 kh\u00f3c \u0111i, kh\u00f3c xong cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch m\u00e0 con mu\u1ed1n. C\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u0103m \u1ea5y, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng kho\u1ea3ng 8 - 9 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n em h\u1ecd con b\u1ecb ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00f3c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cEm c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, em m\u00e0 c\u00f2n kh\u00f3c th\u00ec anh kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi em n\u1eefa. Em kh\u00f3c xong, anh m\u1edbi ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi em\u201d. Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong thi c\u1eed, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c nhung kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh... Cha m\u1eb9 d\u00f9 y\u00eau con \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay con tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u1ed7i \u0111au th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ea1nh tranh gay g\u1eaft n\u00e0y, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. D\u00f9 l\u00fac nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m g\u1eb7t h\u00e1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng, m\u1ea5y ai su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ebfm m\u00f9i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong \u0111\u00f2i, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, khi b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9. B\u1edfi, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i tinh th\u1ea7n khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p, l\u00fac n\u00e0y, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec cho ch\u00fang. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quen m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9, khi h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, th\u00ec th\u00e0nh t\u00edch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba n\u1eefa, kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc b\u1ed5ng m\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 mong mu\u1ed1n, th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111em l\u00f2ng y\u00eau m\u1ed9t nam sinh nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb nam sinh \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ch\u1eedng t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n li\u1ec7t, ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc, hai n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua m\u00e0 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u kh\u00e1 l\u00ean. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb \u201cth\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i\u201d. S\u1ef1 v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ebfu v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady gi\u1eefa mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201ckho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 trong ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t tr\u1eafc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i sau n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t","v\u00f3i th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n trong th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh thua cu\u1ed9c, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111u\u00f4i m\u00e0 m\u1eafng tr\u1ebb t\u00e9 t\u00e1t, c\u1ee9 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb th\u1eafng cu\u1ed9c. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng tham gia r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c thi, c\u00f3 th\u1eafng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 thua, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u1eefng khi con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con, chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho l\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng sau. V\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ee9c \u00e9p v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 d\u1ebbo dai v\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. H\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 l\u00f3p tr\u01b0\u1edfng, l\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n tranh c\u1eed ch\u1ee9c l\u00f3p tr\u01b0\u1edfng, con \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u201cthua\u201d, con c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t. Con h\u1ecdc \u1edf kh\u1ed1i ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng trung h\u1ecdc thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p S\u01a1n \u0110\u00f4ng, l\u00fac \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3ng vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a con. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i n\u00f3i nh\u1ecf v\u1edbi c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u1ee1 \u201cm\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t\u201d, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap con, t\u00f4i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u201ckhoanh tay \u0111\u1ee9ng nh\u00ecn\u201d v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con g\u1eb7p ch\u00fat \u201cv\u1ea5p v\u00e1p\u201d. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n con \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m l\u00f3p tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00edn nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3\u201d. Trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng d\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u00ean c\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n qu\u1eadt ng\u00e3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng cho con, th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ebfn khi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u00e1ch r\u00f2i kh\u1ecfi cha m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t may m\u1eafn v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ckh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, gi\u00fap con t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kinh nghi\u1ec7m chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd g\u00e0o l\u00ean \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, trong khi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 h\u1ecdp l\u00fd hay kh\u00f4ng, li\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng lu\u00f4n. Th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i sinh ra v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u201cnh\u1eabn t\u00e2m\u201d m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, gi\u1ea5u \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean che m\u01b0a ch\u1eafn gi\u00f3 thay cho con, \u0111\u1ec3 con kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 \u1ea5m \u1ee9c n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf c\u1ee7a con m\u00f3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xem x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng hay kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb trong ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t m\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u00f4n c\u1eed t\u1ea1, l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb n\u00e2ng qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea1 nh\u1eb9, sau \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u0103ng d\u1ea7n tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u201cv\u1ea5p v\u00e1p\u201d nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201ckh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd\u201d n\u00e0y, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y con ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed7i \u1ea5m \u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng th\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 can","thi\u1ec7p, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i th\u01b0ong con v\u00ec nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u1ea5m \u1ee9c nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y, sau n\u00e0y khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i n\u1ed7i \u1ea5m \u1ee9c l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u1ed5i. T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n d\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n ti\u1ec1n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 mua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 choi, s\u00e1ch v\u1edf cho con, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong 5 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i v\u00e0 con \u0111i mua \u0111\u1ed3. \u1ede qu\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ed3 choi, con ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e1y r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc qu\u1ea7y thu ng\u00e2n nh\u00ecn t\u00f4i c\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee7m t\u1ec9m, \u0111\u1ef1i t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n, v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u vui v\u1ebb khen con, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a con. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o con mang \u0111\u1ed3 choi tr\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ed7 c\u0169, b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mang \u0111\u1ee7 ti\u1ec1n. Con r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, trong l\u00f2ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng n\u1ee1 l\u00f2ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec3 con l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Con ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, sau khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng c\u00fa va \u0111\u1eadp nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u00f3ng c\u1ea3, gi\u00f3 to c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i trong t\u01b0ong lai. S\u1ef1 l\u0129nh ng\u1ed9 th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ef1t t\u1eadp d\u01b0\u1ef1t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m \u00e1o ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1n cho con trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh sinh t\u1ed3n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i n\u00e0y. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft thua m\u00f3i gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p cho con tr\u1ebb hay \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng chi ti\u1ebft nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea3n ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t h\u00e0nh trang b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i sau n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: \u201cD\u1ebbo dai\u201d. N\u0103m x\u01b0a, khi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 38. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. Hon 3.000 ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. H\u00f4m nay, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201ctr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc d\u00e2n l\u1eadp c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t \u1edf t\u1ec9nh Son \u0110\u00f4ng\u201d, \u201cm\u1ed9t trong m\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc d\u00e2n l\u1eadp c\u00f3 th\u01b0ong hi\u1ec7u l\u1edbn \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong hon 3.000 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3, nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Anh T\u00e0i ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ra nh\u0169ng g\u00ec! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n d\u1ebbo dai, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u00e3 xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea7m l\u1ea7y t\u1eeb l\u00e2u. Qua ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y tinh th\u1ea7n d\u1ebbo dai, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ea5p thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tinh th\u1ea7n n\u00e0y trong s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf c\u1ee7a con kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ee9c \u00e9p trong ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i tinh th\u1ea7n. N\u0103m l\u00f3p 12, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cambridge ho\u1eb7c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Ox\u00edord, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4ng tin m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 sang Anh h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng trung h\u1ecdc, tham gia k\u1ef3 thi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i Anh, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch cao m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u0103m l\u00f3p 12, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a con sang Anh. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd, ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 con h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ecdc sinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1 k\u00e9m, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh con l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc sinh n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i h\u1ecdc khoa h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u00fd t\u00fac x\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e0 \u0103n. Con ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 thu\u00ea nh\u00e0, \u0111i","ch\u1ee3, n\u1ea5u c\u01a1m, gi\u1eb7t gi\u0169, ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 con g\u1ea7y \u0111i 20 kg. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb sau khi sang Anh th\u0103m con, tr\u00ean m\u00e1y bay t\u1eeb Anh v\u1ec1 n\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u00f4i kh\u00f3c su\u1ed1t trong h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh bay 11 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. N\u1ed7i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t thanh ni\u00ean 17 tu\u1ed5i, trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng s\u1ee5t m\u1ea5t 20 kg. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 x\u00f3t xa, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eebng v\u00ec con \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, trong ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, trong s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 v\u0103n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1ebb loi trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, khi\u1ebfn qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian con \u1edf n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00e1ch qu\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kho b\u00e1u tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 con \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cD\u00f9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1n \u0111i nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong qu\u00e3ng th\u00f2i gian \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu cho con bao nhi\u00eau ti\u1ec1n, con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa\u201d. Sau n\u00e0y, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f2n k\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n, c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t m\u1eebng. Trong th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf Anh, con \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean cho ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel, t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1eddi da tr\u1eafng coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o con. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng cao v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i \u1ea5m \u1ee9c th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? Tuy nhi\u00ean, con \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t tay th\u00e0nh n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea5m, ng\u00e2n ng\u1ea5n n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng, l\u00f2ng th\u1ea7m th\u1ec1 r\u1eb1ng: Nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ecdc cho t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Qu\u1ed1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1edf m\u00e0y n\u1edf m\u1eb7t. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, sau \u0111\u00f3, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a \u0111i s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con. R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e3y bu\u00f4ng tay \u0111\u1ec3 con ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay cao tr\u00ean b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a xu\u00e2n h\u1ea1 thu \u0111\u00f4ng v\u00e0 gi\u1eefa bao phong ba b\u00e3o t\u00e1p c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi! Ch\u1ec9m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t tai R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh con, n\u1ebfu con ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cTao sinh ra m\u00e0y, l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u0111\u00e1nh m\u00e0y \u01b0?\u201d. \u0110\u1ebfn kh\u1ec9 tr\u00fat h\u1ebft gi\u1eadn, l\u1ea1i x\u00f3t con, mua \u0111\u1ed3 choi, mua qu\u00e0, an \u1ee7i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp. L\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 s\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1, khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1 h\u1ecfng, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha tr\u1ebb ch\u1edf c\u1eadu con trai 5 tu\u1ed5i b\u1eb1ng xe \u0111\u1ea1p quanh c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean. \u201cXin ch\u00e0o, \u00f4ng ch\u00e1u^)\u201d. \u00d4ng c\u1ee5 qu\u00e9t d\u1ecdn c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean v\u1eaby tay v\u1edbi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 ng\u1ed3i sau g\u00e1c ba ga. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 \u00f4ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u1eadp m\u1ea1p \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 ch\u01b0a d\u1ee9t l\u00f2i, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 mau mi\u1ec7ng \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cTh\u1ebf ch\u00e1u l\u00e0m \u00f4ng nh\u00e9\u201d, r\u1ed3i c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc \u00fd... \u201cB\u1ed1p\u201d, c\u1eadu nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t tai khi v\u1eeba d\u1ee9t l\u1eddi. Sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng qu\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha: \u201cC\u00e1i th\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y, sao m\u00e0 v\u00f4 l\u1ec5 th\u1ebf!\u201d.","N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi ranh m\u00e3nh tr\u00ean m\u00f4i c\u1eadu b\u00e9 t\u1eaft ng\u1ea5m, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c kh\u00f3c hu hu. C\u1eadu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, g\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ed1ng y\u00ean xe... \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra 18 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0ong, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha tr\u1ebb kia l\u00e0 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n duy nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh. C\u00e1i t\u00e1t n\u00e0y, n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 l\u00f2i con l\u00e0 \u201cl\u00e0m con v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3\u201d, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean. Trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i v\u00e0 H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nhau, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh con l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con tr\u1ebb\u201d. Khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 cha l\u1ea1i t\u00e1t con?\u201d. Ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: \u201cQu\u00e1 gi\u1eadn m\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n th\u00f4i\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i sau l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201cCh\u1ecb d\u1ea1y con th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 v\u1eeba hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1eeba l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p?\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y nghe chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t tai. Ch\u1ecb li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t tai m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn con hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 \u01b0? Con trai t\u00f4i t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u00e1t bao nhi\u00eau c\u00e1i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn tr\u01a1 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1, su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y c\u00e3i m\u1eb9 leo l\u1ebbo, g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi g\u00ec c\u1ea3\u201d. T\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u01b0\u1eddi: \u201cTh\u1ebf ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh nhi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1\u201d. Th\u1ef1c ra, c\u00e1i b\u1ea1t tay n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u ph\u00e9p t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, bi\u1ebft gi\u1eef l\u00f2i h\u1ee9a trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tuy nhi\u00ean, con c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ea1nh. C\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng vai tr\u00f2 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho con m\u1ed9t tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 vui v\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i t\u00e1t, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch thi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con v\u00e0 v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 tr\u1ebb, v\u1eeba \u0111i v\u1eeba k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ee9a con trai ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea7m 5 - 6 tu\u1ed5i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1eeba ph\u00e1t li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f3c to, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u00ec g\u1ea7m l\u00ean: \u201cL\u1ea7n sau, c\u00f2n d\u00e1m l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00f4i can ng\u0103n th\u00ec ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u1eedng s\u1ed1t: \u201cEm ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00f3 m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!\u201d. C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c\u201d m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn quan \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c sai l\u1ea7m \u201cy\u00eau cho roi cho v\u1ecdt\u201d ."]