Me-luon-dong-hanh-cung-con-Duong-Van

["n\u1ea3n. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con. Sau khi con \u0111\u00e3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean vi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf phi\u1ebfu cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 o\u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd, tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0ong ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu, ch\u1ec9 khi th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y coi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tri k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a con, gi\u00fap con ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, gi\u00fap con nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 giao c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ti\u1ebfp theo s\u1ebd g\u1ef1i m\u1edf, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ec3 con \u201cc\u00f3 duy\u00ean\u201d trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf hon. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, con trai t\u00f4i choi v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i nghe con k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5m \u1ee9c, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u00ecnh ph\u1ea9m, kh\u00f4ng v\u1ed9i \u201cd\u0103n d\u1ea1y\u201d hay g\u1ef1i m\u1edf. Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n b\u1ea3o con ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u1ea3y sinh, t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf con m\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, s\u1ef1 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf con trai t\u00f4i c\u0169ng n\u00f3i: \u201cCon l\u00e0m th \u1ebfl\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe? \u0110\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t qu\u00e1\u201d, \u201cCon m\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u?\u201d. Khi \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh nghe con x\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 khi \u1edf b\u00ean cha m\u1eb9, con m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh quan s\u00e1t con m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng \u201cb\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i\u201d nh\u01b0 con th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1edbi con. Sau khi con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00fat h\u1ebft gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, \u0111\u1ec3 con th\u1eed ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i con \u0111\u00e3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, nh\u00e3 \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh? N\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn? S\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 a dua, n\u1ecbnh b\u1ee3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng cho m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u00e2n x\u1eed th\u1ebf h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, tuy nhi\u00ean ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn con m\u1ea5t \u0111i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 khi bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u0103n b\u1ea3n gi\u00fap con h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 S\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng qua l\u1ea1i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00f3i n\u00f3i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 y\u00eau qu\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chung s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u00f3i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chung s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0i h\u00f2a v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi g\u00f2 b\u00f3, \u00edt n\u00f3i \u00edt c\u01b0\u1eddi, cho d\u00f9 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 giao r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua s\u00e1ch v\u1edf m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u01a1i \u1ea5m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ecfa ra t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i tim con","ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, bi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u00f2i kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. Bi\u1ebft y\u00eau t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, bao g\u1ed3m ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n chung v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf anh ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00f3i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 trong th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y nh\u1edd c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, mu\u1ed1n con tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 trong th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn, tuy nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. Nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a, t\u00edch l\u0169y sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ki\u00eau c\u0103ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m! Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta gieo nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, gi\u1eef ch\u1eef t\u00edn, ph\u00f3ng kho\u00e1ng, h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim con tr\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1nh r\u1eebng che ch\u1edf cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tr\u1ebb. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nghe th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh. \/\/ L\u00e0m th\u00ea n\u00e0ogi\u00fap con c\u00f3 khi\u00eau \u0103n n\u00f3i? Con t\u00f4i m\u00f3i 8 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i. Hai v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfu \u0103n n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n sau n\u00e0y l\u1ed1n l\u00ean con c\u00f3 t\u00e0i di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ee3 con b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0&ng gene di truy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Nghe n\u00f3i, ng\u01b0\u00f2i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y cho con t\u1eeb kh\u1ec9 con c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf? Tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t \u00e2m c\u00e1c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebf th\u1eeba t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f2i n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u00f2i kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 t\u00ednh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00f4ng di truy\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 gene. H\u00e0nh vi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh, ti\u1ebfng m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng Anh, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb sinh \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng Trung th\u00ec ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng Trung. Trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf th\u1ea7n k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y gi\u00fap c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u201cgi\u00e1o vi\u00ean\u201d r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t,","b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em. C\u01a1 ch\u1ebf t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o, sau khi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o. T\u1eeb khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2 tu\u1ed5i, m\u1eaft th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u00ean trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, \u1edf m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t ra c\u00e1c \u00e2m ti\u1ebft, sau \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i; m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian n\u1eefa tr\u00f4i qua, tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t hai t\u1eeb \u0111\u01a1n, sau \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1eb9 c\u00e2u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con v\u1eb9t, ai n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u0169ng bi b\u00f4 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. L\u00ean 5, 6 tu\u1ed5i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. T\u1ea1o ra m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, d\u1ef1a theo ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y, Montessori \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 theo t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n: Kho\u1ea3ng 4 th\u00e1ng tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb thu h\u00fat b\u1edfi c\u00e1i mi\u1ec7ng ph\u00e1t ra ti\u1ebfng. Tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a mi\u1ec7ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb \u0111ang quan s\u00e1t r\u1ea5t t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc. M\u1ed9t n\u0103m sau khi tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Quan s\u00e1t tr\u1ebb \u0111ang quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e0n g\u1ea3y tai tr\u00e2u\u201d. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef cho tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1ch b\u1eadt b\u0103ng \u0111\u0129a, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdp l\u1eafm v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y. Khi tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb t\u00ean c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng \u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec7u nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u01b0, \u201ccha\u201d, \u201cm\u1eb9\u201d, \u201choa\u201d, \u201cc\u1ecf\u201d, \u201cb\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n\u201d, \u201cch\u00fa m\u00e8o\u201d... Khi d\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, s\u1edd th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u00f2i \u0111\u00f3, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i t\u1eadp trung h\u1ecdc. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, c\u00f3 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t \u00e2m kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb, k\u00edch th\u00edch h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa cho tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. Tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb o \u0111\u1ebfn 1 tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u1eabn d\u00f9ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00e2m th\u1ea7m, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft th\u01b0\u1eddng. Vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u00e2y c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf cho qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y. Sau 1 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i bi b\u00f4 h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn n\u00f3i g\u00ec, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc theo, v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh. Montessori \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ki\u1ebfn ngh\u1ecb m\u1edf m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 1,5 tu\u1ed5i. Trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u00f2i l\u1edbn, v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i; \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 ph\u00e1t \u00e2m chu\u1ea9n, n\u1ed9i dung r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Tr\u1ebb em r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i xung quanh, khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i \u201cng\u00f4n ng\u1eef tr\u1ebb em\u201d nh\u01b0 \u201cm\u0103m m\u0103m\u201d, \u201cb\u1eb7p b\u1eb7p\u201d, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc ng\u1eef ph\u00e1p. Cha m\u1eb9 thao thao b\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ecdi cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, chia s\u1ebb v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh th\u00ec giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i","h\u1ecdc. T\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1i \u0111a \u20ac\u00a9\u2022 h\u1ed9i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac hai ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef hay kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, c\u00fa ph\u00e1p, quy t\u1eafc ng\u1eef ph\u00e1p trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang ch\u00fang, cho d\u00f9 \u0111on gi\u1ea3n hay ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. N\u1ebfu trong th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 then ch\u1ed1t n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi hai ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng, th\u00ec kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i h\u1ecdc hai th\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Kho\u1ea3ng 2 tu\u1ed5i, khi th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, sau \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u \u0111\u00fang c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac ng\u1eef ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1i \u0111a c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, sau khi k\u1ec3 xong chuy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o tr\u1ebb k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba nghe cho cha m\u1eb9 nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n, v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n, vi\u1ec7c k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u01a1 quan ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i v\u1eabn d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u1eeb ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i b\u00e9 h\u01a1n, th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u00ecm h\u00e3m c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1ch l\u1ea1c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 do nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, tuy nhi\u00ean l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Hy v\u1ecdng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p khoa h\u1ecdc, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, \u0111\u1ec3 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t huy cao \u0111\u1ed9. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh u\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 non \u201dhi\u1ebfu ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 7 tu\u1ed5i, h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf r\u1ea5t th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn choi l\u00fac n\u00e0o con c\u0169ng h\u00f3n h\u1edf th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o, c\u00f2n n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u r\u1ea5t ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 tr\u01b0&c m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1ch khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp 1, nh\u00e0 c\u1ed1 kh\u00e1ch con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 \u1edf nh\u00e0 n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, con ch\u1ec9 c\u00fai \u0111\u1ea7u n\u1ea5p sau l\u01b0ng t\u00f4i, ch\u00e0o c\u00e1c c\u00f4 ch\u00fa v\u00f3i v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 k\u1ec9 hay kh\u00f4ng? Xin h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho con tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 non\u201d hi\u1ec3u ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n di\u1ec5n ra su\u00f4n s\u1ebb nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u1edf m\u1ed9t","th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 t\u1ee5t l\u00f9i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng, nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 mang t\u00ednh t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 mang t\u00ednh t\u1ea1m th\u00f2i th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u00e1m theo tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u1ebb t\u1ecf ra \u00edt n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 b\u00e9 trai. Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ee9a con n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 kh\u01b0\u00f3u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn s\u1ebd mau m\u1ed3m mau mi\u1ec7ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201cem b\u00e9 ngoan\u201d nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec3m cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ee3i \u00fd, b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, tr\u1ebb \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea7m m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 nh\u00ed nh\u1ed1 n\u1eefa. So v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu h\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n x\u00e3 giao, l\u1ec5 nghi th\u00ec tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u1eeba kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng, xa l\u1ea1. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 7 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng v\u1eabn khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y xa l\u1ea1, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u00edt n\u00f3i hon, khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 - nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ed1n quen v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea1t b\u00e1t, lanh l\u1ef1i, \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1eafc m\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec hay kh\u00f4ng. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ebft. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc l\u1ec5 nghi c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng, tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn n\u00f3i lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa th\u00ec ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. Nh\u1eafc nh\u1eed, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 x\u00e3 giao, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i th\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u201cCh\u00e1u nh\u00e0 em nh\u00e1t l\u1eafm, hay e th\u1eb9n b\u00e1c \u1ea1\u201d. D\u00f9 tr\u1ebb ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng th\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u1ea7n sau tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cL\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00e1u g\u1eb7p b\u00e1c, l\u00e1t n\u1eefa ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee7 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i b\u00e1c cho m\u00e0 coi\u201d. T\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u1edb cho tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ebb l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 x\u00e3 giao, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 x\u1eed v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u00edt n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m \u0111i. Khi nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c khi \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i tham gia c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 x\u00e3 giao, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00eau ra \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n, n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng hy v\u1ecdng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ho\u1eb7c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3i r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc l\u1ec5 nghi. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean","b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, ph\u1ea1t kh\u00e9o ho\u1eb7c kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: \u201cL\u1ea7n sau con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n b\u00e1nh ng\u1ecdt m\u00e0 c\u00f4 A mang \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi, t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i choi c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y v\u1ed7 vai tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon trai, con c\u1eeb l\u1eafm! V\u1eeba n\u00e3y con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t gi\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, r\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch l\u00e3m, phong \u0111\u1ed9\u201d. M\u1ed7i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eb9n to\u00e0n, tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u00e2n v\u00f4 th\u1eadp to\u00e0n, c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i? H\u00e3y b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, b\u1edfi nh\u1edd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. Gi\u1ea5u \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 9 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh nh\u01b0ng nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m qu\u00e1. Con l\u00e0m sai vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u00f2i \u1ec9&n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eeda c\u00e2u con \u0111\u00e3 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng k\u1ecbch li\u1ec7t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thanh minh. Ngo\u00e0i ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a con c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p ch\u00fat th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1ee7 d\u1ed9t, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho con kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v&i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n? Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 sau: M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e1 cao m \u00f3i sinh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eadu con trai. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 n\u00e2ng niu c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, r\u1ea5t ngoan, r\u1ea5t nghe l\u00f2i, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i. H\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf c\u1eadu l\u00e0m sai vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u1eb7ng l\u00f2i. L\u1edbn l\u00ean \u0111i l\u00e0m, ch\u00e0ng trai n\u00e0y c\u0169ng nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m sai b\u1ecb l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee3i l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 sau m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n sai s\u00f3t trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m do m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra \u0111\u00e3 xin ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c & nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i xin vi\u1ec7c n\u1eefa. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u1ee3 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 xin ly h\u00f4n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn nu\u00f4i con, c\u00f2n anh ta th\u00ec su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y & nh\u00e0 th\u1edf ng\u1eafn than d\u00e0i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f3c, trong kh\u1ec9 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 thanh ni\u00ean trai tr\u00e1ng 30 tu\u1ed5i. Nh\u00ecn con tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t sinh linh b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui l\u1edbn lao c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. \u0110e l\u1ee1 co* h\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb, khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a con, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c th\u1edf d\u00e0i. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p v\u00e0 tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc con bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua. Tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1u thu\u1eadn bu\u1ed3m xu\u00f4i gi\u00f3, s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i li\u1ec1n v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n gian nan, v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf. D\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai cao, gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 nh\u1ed9n nh\u1ecbp con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00ecnh an v\u00f4 s\u1ef1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sau khi g\u00e2y h\u1ecda, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0","b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho con... Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1eaft con \u0111i su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, con bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ed1n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. T\u00ecm ra c\u0103n nguy\u00ean H\u00e0nh vi, l\u00f2i n\u00f3i, c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trang gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ebd n\u00e9t m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i ph\u01b0cmg ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. H\u00e3y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t. T\u1ea1i sao khi l\u00e0m sai vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch th\u00ec tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c? T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 thanh minh? Do tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i hay l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 cao? \u0110\u00e2u l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n? Cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eb1ng sau v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. D\u1ec5 n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng, hay kh\u00f3c, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p t\u00e2m l\u00fd m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra c\u0103n nguy\u00ean. B\u1ea1n th\u1eed ngh\u0129 xem, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i do b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 khi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu ch\u0103m s\u00f3c qu\u00e1 k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00f4ng hoa trong nh\u00e0 k\u00ednh, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c phong ba b\u00e3o t\u00e1p; n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, s\u1ef1 h\u00e3i, \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, thanh minh. Do tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi? Khi \u1edf tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t suy ngh\u0129. Do g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn? S\u1ee9c \u00e9p qu\u00e1 l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. S\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i hay b\u00ean trong? Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 cao v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 (T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n m\u1ef9 th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh), \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng trong l\u00f2ng. Ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, lu\u00f4n \u201ckh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh\u201d c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n? D\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, kh\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n; d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n gi\u0169a trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i luy\u1ec7n. Gi\u1ea5u \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau Khi con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, h\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m thay m\u00e0 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u00e1m th\u1ecb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 chinh ph\u1ee5c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. D\u1ea1y cho con c\u00e1ch c\u00e2u c\u00e1 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho","con x\u00f4 c\u00e1. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Th\u1ef1c ra, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1ef1t tr\u00ean c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 n\u00ean cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, d\u00f9 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i hay th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edch cho t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u201cGi\u1ea5u \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda t\u00ecnh y\u00eau\u201d, \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf sau lung tr\u1ebb, cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, chia s\u1ebb s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, n\u00e2ng cao l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m cho tr\u1ebb, t\u1eeb g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tin, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p. Khi con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. B\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u1ed1t, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. Trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng! N\u00f3i sao cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe? Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 5 tu\u1ed5i, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng coi l\u00f2i m\u1eb9 n\u1ed1i nh\u01b0 com gi\u00f3 tho\u1ea3ng qua, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 d\u1eb7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec, con ch\u1ec9 h\u1edd h\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1p m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u1ea5u, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 n\u00f3i th\u1ebfn\u00e0o con v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1eeda, l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1edd \u01a1, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a con? T\u1ea1i sao tr\u1ebb \u201ckh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2*i\u201d \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft h\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd th\u1edd \u01a1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 \u1eadm \u1edd cho qua chuy\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u00f2i khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 trong nh\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ecb h\u1ecfng, b\u1ea1n li\u1ec1n h\u1ecfi con: \u201cCon c\u00f3 d\u00e1m kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i con l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 tay l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ed3 choi, cha m\u1eb9 li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3 pin v\u00e0o n\u01b0\u1edbc, con c\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe\u201d. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u00f4ng minh th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 d\u00f9ng tai, b\u1edbt d\u00f9ng mi\u1ec7ng! Con tr\u1ebb th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i c\u00e0m r\u00e0m, \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng tr\u1ebb. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng cha m\u1eb9 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u00f2i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 g\u1ef1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng qu\u00e1 gay g\u1eaft, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu trong l\u00f2ng. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i: \u201cVi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i","kh\u00f3c h\u1ea3?\u201d, \u201cVi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y m\u00e0 con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e0, m\u1eb9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d, th\u00ec l\u1ea7n sau tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u00fat b\u00e0y t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n hay h\u1ee9a su\u00f4ng v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb cho qua chuy\u1ec7n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u1ee9a v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i choi ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u00fd do r\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa. Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng coi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi quy\u1ec1n uy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, cho r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy cho m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i, y\u00eau m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c y\u00eau l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng nghe l\u00f2i\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa. C\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 nhi\u1ec1u ho*n v\u00f3n con T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 sau: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9: \u201cAi b\u1ecf s\u1eefa l\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y? B\u1ea9n qu\u00e1 \u0111i th\u00f4i. C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i con l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng? T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5t v\u00e0o t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh?\u201d. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 v\u1eabn m\u1ea3i choi, c\u01b0\u00f2i n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u00f2i m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i cao gi\u1ecdng hon: \u201cM\u1eb9 b\u1ef1c l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y. T\u1ea1i sao con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe m\u1eb9 d\u1eb7n g\u00ec c\u1ea3? Coi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00f2i m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? L\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e2y, \u00fap m\u1eb7t v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1eddng ngay\u201d. C\u1eadu con trai l\u1eafc l\u01b0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u201cch\u1ecdc gi\u1eadn\u201d m\u1eb9, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u201cg\u1ea7m\u201d l\u00ean v\u00f3i c\u1eadu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u00ean c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea5y l\u00e0m l\u1ea1, coi nh\u01b0 \u0111ang \u201c\u0111\u00f9a\u201d v\u00f3i m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, t\u00fam ngay c\u1eadu con trai \u201cngang ng\u1ea1nh\u201d v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i v\u00e0o m\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ea9y c\u1eadu xu\u1ed1ng gh\u1ebf sofa. C\u1eadu con trai nh\u00ecn m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u1ea5m \u1ee9c. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1eed thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i xem sao? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9: \u201cAi \u0111\u1eb7t s\u1eefa tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u1ea5y nh\u1ec9? u\u1ed1ng xong s\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5t v\u00e0o t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ea5y, con mang s\u1eefa c\u1ea5t t\u1ee7 l\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ngay, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u1eadm \u1edd \u201cv\u00e2ng\u201d cho qua chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9: \u201cM\u1eb9 \u0111ang b\u1eadn n\u1ea5u com, con mau thu d\u1ecdn h\u1ed9p s\u1eefa tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, n\u1ebfu gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 d\u1ecdn com n\u1eefa th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t qu\u00e1. Nhanh tay l\u00ean!\u201d.","L\u00fac n\u00e0y, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c th\u1ee9 hai, l\u00fac \u0103n c\u01a1m tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd y\u00ean t\u0129nh hon r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 th\u1eed xem. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3c s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. T\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng nhau h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u hay l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean th\u00f3i quen. Khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd mi\u00eau t\u1ea3, cung c\u1ea5p cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c \u0111on gi\u1ea3n ki\u1ec3u \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 \u0111ang b\u1eadn \u00e0? \u0110\u1ed3ng ch\u00ed oi, con m\u00e0 ra tay gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 thu d\u1ecdn c\u00e1i b\u00e0n th\u00ec t\u1ed1t bi\u1ebft m\u1ea5y?\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cAi b\u1eadt \u0111\u00e8n trong nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh v\u1eady? Sao ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu t\u1eaft c\u1ea3\u201d. Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i ra suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn hon, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u201cCon t\u1eaft \u0111\u00e8n nh\u00e0 v\u1ec7 sinh \u0111i nh\u00e9, m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed1i th\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed9p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cH\u00f4m nay m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t, con trai gi\u00fap m\u1eb9 r\u00fat qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o ngo\u00e0i ban c\u00f4ng v\u00e0o nh\u00e9. M\u1eb9 s\u1ebd n\u1ea5u c\u00e1c m\u00f3n ngon cho con th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c\u201d. Ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe con n\u00f3i, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng quy t\u1eafc t\u01b0cmg \u1ee9ng Khi tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i thao thao b\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1eafng nghe. N\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean v\u1eeba l\u00e0m v\u1eeba d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 \u201c\u1eeb\u201d, \u201c\u00e0\u201d, \u201cv\u1eady h\u1ea3\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nghe tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon \u0111\u1ef1i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 d\u1ecdn xong b\u1ebfp r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp nh\u00e9, \u0111\u1ec3 xem m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c con c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng\u201d. C\u00f3 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn, trong l\u00f2ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ee9c x\u00fac n\u1eefa. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec1n cha m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nghe l\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn coi l\u00f2i cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 \u201ccon gi\u00f3 tho\u1ea3ng qua\u201d, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe theo th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong \u00e1n ph\u1ea1t h\u1ecdp l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 xe \u0111\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1ch, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 xe trong ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn coi nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng nghe th\u1ea5y g\u00ec, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3a xe c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i xe, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u1ede th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ecdp, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u201c\u00e1y n\u00e1y\u201d b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f4i khi \u00e1y n\u00e1y d\u1ec5 khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m hon. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea3o tr\u1ebb qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i ch\u1ea1y \u0111i choi, c\u00f2n khi tr\u1ebb nh\u1edd cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, h\u00f4m qua m\u1eb9 nh\u1edd con qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0 con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 gi\u00fap m\u1eb9, m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n. Nh\u01b0ng khi con c\u1ea7n m\u1eb9 gi\u00fap, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129. \u0110\u00f4i khi \u1edf b\u00ean con ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u201c\u0111\u1ea5u tr\u00ed\u201d th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1! \u201cT\u00ednh to\u00e1n\u201d, \u201cm\u01b0u k\u1ebf\u201d, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111an xen trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nhung l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u201cng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d cho tr\u1ebb, t\u00edch l\u0169y cho tr\u1ebb \u201ckho b\u00e1u\u201d gi\u00fap \u00edch cho","tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i! \/ D\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u1ea7m tr\u1ea1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p 7, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1, tuy nhi\u00ean con l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u00f2ng xuy\u00ean mang chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 b\u00e0i th\u1ec9 l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, x\u00edch m\u00edch v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u th\u1ec3 thao c\u1ee7a l\u00f3p b\u1ecb thua... v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 con s\u1ebd x\u1ea3 stress, kh\u00f4ng \u0103n com, kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n la h\u00e9t v\u00f3i c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u00f2i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i con. X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u1ed5n th\u1ecfa v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? Cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb x\u1ea3 stress G\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eb1m v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u00f2i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u1ebb tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 khoan dung c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb em, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed bao g\u1ed3m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00fat b\u00e0y s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n, ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9, \u1ea5m \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 an to\u00e0n nh\u1ea5t. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u00e1i \u1ea5m m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n nh\u1ea5t, cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb tin t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t, tr\u1ebb mang nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, c\u00e1u gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 l\u1ea1. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed7i phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c ph\u1ea1t, hay b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb v\u00f4 duy\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u1edb n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u \u1edf nh\u00e0. B\u1edfi s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea3 l\u00f2ng, tr\u00fat b\u00e0y n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng, cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t tr\u1ebb th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i x\u1ea3 stress v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 t\u1ed9i xung quanh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec tr\u00ean ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f2i r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng khi g\u1eb7p s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdp l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fat b\u00e0y nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong l\u00f2ng, gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n. Th\u00f3i quen c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 r\u00e8n gi\u0169a, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho tr\u1ebb trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft suy ngh\u0129, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. D\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y gi\u1ea3 thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0 sau: Con tr\u1ebb tan h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, m\u1eb9 h\u1ecfi chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh g\u1eaft: \u201cCon \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o m\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 k\u1ec7 con c\u01a1 m\u00e0, b\u1ef1c qu\u00e1!\u201d, sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c v\u1ee9t \u0111\u00f4i d\u00e9p gi\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, n\u00e9m c\u1eb7p s\u00e1ch xu\u1ed1ng gi\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ed3i k\u00eau la ti\u1ebfp: \u201cv\u1eabn","ch\u01b0a n\u1ea5u c\u01a1m \u1ea1, con \u0111\u00f3i l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e2y n\u00e0y\u201d. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch gi\u1edd \u0103n com kh\u00e1 xa! L\u00fac n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ebd n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c m\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, con \u0111ang mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdc cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u01a1n b\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf n\u1ed7i b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ecfi: \u201cH\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 h\u00f4m nay con c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng vui cho l\u1eafm, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu con s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng, m\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con xem c\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec cho con kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n k\u1ec3 v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, th\u00ec con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ho\u1eb7c vi\u1ebft v\u00e0o nh\u1eadt k\u00fd, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf con s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n, ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn v\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a con\u201d. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 con s\u1ebd t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCon kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m con vui l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u1eb9 con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00e3i nhau. Tuy nhi\u00ean, con h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t c\u1eb7p s\u00e1ch, d\u00e9p v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, m\u1eb9 ra ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t \u0111\u00e2y\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ra si\u00eau th\u1ecb g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u00e1t, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1eabu cho con: Khi m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c th\u00ec n\u00ean x\u1ea3 stress nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi h\u1ecdp l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i m\u00ecnh. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1eed l\u00fd \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Khi tr\u1ebb xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfn tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u1edb l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201cmu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m \u201d. N\u1ebfu \u1edf nh\u00e0 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y, th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh giao ti\u1ebfp.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng 9 Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh di\u1ec5n ra trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i. Con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n tr\u01b0&ng th\u00e0nh, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n tr\u01b0&ng th\u00e0nh. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng n\u0103m nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con. \\\\\/ Ph\u1eafthi\u1ec7n V\u00e3b\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ngn\u0103ngkhi\u00eau cho con Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p 3, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n trong l&p con c\u00f3 n\u00e2ng khi\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1ebd tranh, choi \u0111\u00e0n, choi c\u1edd t\u01b0&ng, \u0111\u00e1 b\u1ed1ng... v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng. C\u00f2n con t\u00f4i tuy h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1 \u1ed5n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu g\u00ec. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111i h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh ho\u1eb7c nghe c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n con h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i n\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i kia, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng v\u00ec con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t khi th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu g\u00ec, s\u1ee3 con t\u1ef1 ti. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f3p n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu cho con, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd l\u00f3p To\u00e1n Olympic v\u00e0 con v\u1eabn \u0111ang theo kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu th\u00ec c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec? L\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb? T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn con M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 c\u1eadu con trai 13 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u01b0ong t\u1ef1. Trong su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean ch\u1ecb, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, v\u00ec ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u0129nh t\u00e2m l\u1eafng nghe l\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u00ecm \u0111\u1eafm trong d\u00f2ng suy t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ecb n\u00f3i v\u00f3i t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecb r\u1ea5t h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u00ec h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng cho con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e0n, h\u1ecdc v\u1ebd, con l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cao, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4ng r\u1eafn r\u1ecfi. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, ch\u1ecb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i quan s\u00e1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u00f2i, m\u1ed7i khi m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng to\u00e1t l\u00ean ni\u1ec1m vui r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u0103ng nh\u01b0 d\u00e2y \u0111\u00e0n, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf g\u1ea7n ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n sang ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd ch\u1ecb l\u1ea1i than th\u1edf v\u1edbi t\u00f4i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eadn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, s\u1ee9c \u00e9p l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb qu\u00e1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb v\u1eadt l\u1ed9n v\u00f3i con v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 ra l\u00e0m sao... Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb: \u201cL\u1ebd n\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ecb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m? Con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o khi\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng \u01b0?\u201d, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y li\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cCh\u00e1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i, \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh ngoan\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t hay lo l\u1eafng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 do b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y","c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 hay lo l\u1eafng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn con. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201cdi truy\u1ec1n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u1ebfh\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u201d, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u00fap con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 13 tu\u1ed5i b\u1ecb m\u1eb9 coi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh, lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 th\u00ec sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, sinh ho\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 khi th\u1ea5y con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c gi\u1ea3i, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1eabng h\u1ee5t, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n; ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c gi\u1ecfi giang; s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t v\u00ec con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t; s\u1ee3 con m\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 ti... v \u00ec ch\u01b0a g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 n\u00e0y n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00ean m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady hay do s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1? N\u1ebfu trong l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nu\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 h\u1ee5t h\u1eabng n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay h\u1eefu \u00fd trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, nh\u00ecn b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 y\u00eau con, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, mong mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng, th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi giang \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin trong l\u00f2ng. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, hy v\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u201cmong con th\u00e0nh t\u00e0i\u201d qu\u00e1 n\u00ean m\u1edbi s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft t\u00f4i v\u1eabn khuy\u00ean ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n, sau \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cn\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu\u201d. Ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch g\u00f2 \u00e9p, m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf c\u1ee7a ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, r\u1ed3i d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, trong l\u00fac cha m\u1eb9 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c lo l\u1eafng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng cho tr\u1ebb th\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111ang ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u00ednh vi th\u1ebf, khi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi t\u01b0 duy ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, coi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea, th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf n\u00e0y m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho con tr\u1ebb. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa cho con, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a con \u1edf m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Th\u00f4ng qua nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c thi\u00ean v\u0103n, \u0111\u1ecba l\u00fd, sinh h\u1ecdc, th\u1ef1c v\u1eadt, c\u1ea7m k\u1ef3 thi h\u1ecda, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u00ecm ra l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa nh\u1ea5t, sau \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap con kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea n\u00e0y. C\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu b\u1ea9m sinh c\u00f3 \u1edf con tr\u1ebb. Trong t\u00e1m lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh g\u1ed3m to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, th\u1ec3 thao, giao ti\u1ebfp... m\u1ed7i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb k\u00ecm h\u00e3m, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea5y khen, ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn hay gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec l\u1edbn, th\u00ec trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1eb1ng s\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 n\u00f3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi giang? Tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn con","Hi\u1ec7n nay, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u201cn\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu\u201d cho tr\u1ebb d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u00e1c c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9, gi\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng nh\u1eadn, b\u1eb1ng khen, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u1ed9ng \u0111i\u1ec3m trong c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi v\u00e0o c\u1ea5p hai, c\u1ea5p ba. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ee9c \u00e9p trong ng\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u1eeb l\u1ef1i \u00edch v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i, tuy nhi\u00ean x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, \u201cn\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb. \u00dd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong ni\u1ec1m vui, ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00edch nghi t\u1ed1t v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ebfu m\u1eb9 s\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 ti, ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf trong l\u00f2ng m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 ti, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u00e1m th\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean g\u1eedi g\u1eafm qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh! Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecbt k\u00edn m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f4ngngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1ed1p n\u0103m, c\u1ee9 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 con ng\u1ed3i xem t\u1ec9vi m\u00e3i, chuy\u1ec3n h\u1ebft k\u00eanh n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn k\u00eanh kh\u00e1c, ham v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. X\u1ec9n h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb n\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf th\u00f2i gian con xem tiv\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1eadp trung hcrn cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc? Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecbt k\u00edn m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin Tivi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb trong th\u00f2i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, th\u00f4ng tin b\u00e1o ch\u00ed l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d m\u00e0 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u01b0ong ti\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. S\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a tivi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. Tr\u1ebb th\u00edch tivi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ham tivi qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c th\u00ec c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecbt k\u00edn m\u1eaft tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 kh\u00e9p ch\u1eb7t c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb quan s\u00e1t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i\u201d. T\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1 cao nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ba m\u1edf: M\u1edf ra ngo\u00e0i s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, m\u1edf ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1edf ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng xem tivi hay choi game \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00f3i l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, nghe th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf c\u00e1c v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 bao la v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i... l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 v\u00e0 phong ph\u00fa. Xem tivi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb cho tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang bao g\u1ed3m tivi l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1eefa \u0103n ph\u1ee5 dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng\u201d c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 l\u1eabn t\u1ea1p ch\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 b\u1ecf \u0103n. S\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1eadp th\u1ec3, \u0111a chi\u1ec1u, cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1edf ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda cho tr\u1ebb, bao g\u1ed3m l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u0111a nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin phong ph\u00fa \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb","C\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng phi th\u01b0\u1eddng trong tivi, ti\u1ebfp thu \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1c n\u1ed5i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n k\u00e9m. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ham tivi qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00f2i gian l\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i xem tivi kh\u00f4ng nh\u00fac nh\u00edch, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng xem, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, c\u00f2n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0103n v\u1eb7t... th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. V\u00ec xem tivi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh thay \u0111\u1ed5i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, kh\u00f4ng cho tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, n\u1ebfu xem tivi trong th\u1eddi gian qu\u00e1 d\u00e0i, khi\u1ebfn th\u00f2i gian tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u00f3 \u00edch th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu ham xem tivi qu\u00e1, ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con xem m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tivi, k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i n\u1eafm b\u1eaft n\u1ed9i dung m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb xem, v\u1eeba xem v\u1eeba th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d. Ngo\u00e0i ra, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb th\u00edch xem tivi, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn tivi th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u201cCon ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea3y n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd cho con xem tivi m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng\u201d, \u201cMau l\u00e0m xong b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, con s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem tivi 30 ph\u00fat\u201d. T\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1edf mang ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 d\u00e3 ngo\u1ea1i, kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ra hi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch mua s\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, r\u00e8n th\u00f3i quen ham \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch... Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean phong ph\u00fa, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng say m\u00ea tivi n\u1eefa. Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho tr\u1ebb. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng d\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho vi\u1ec7c xem tivi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00ec e r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f2i gian xem tivi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng con th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian xem tivi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1edf th\u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, xem tivi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf. M\u1ed7i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec3u con, y\u1ebfu con \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p khoa h\u1ecdc h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L \u01b0 u \u00fd: R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi tr\u1ebb \u0111ang xem r\u1ea5t h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng li\u1ec1n t\u1eaft tivi \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t, c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf, d\u00f9 con mi\u1ec5n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch th\u00ec hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cao. Khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ecb \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. \u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00fd \u201cb\u1ea3n cam k\u1ebft\u201d v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf th\u00f2i gian xem tivi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, quy \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb xem h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb vi ph\u1ea1m \u201cb\u1ea3n cam k\u1ebft\u201d, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, t\u1ef1 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1y n\u00e1y, l\u00fac n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t huy hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 x\u1ea9u \u201d Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 5 tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t ho\u1ea1t b\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 kh\u1ec9 choi v\u00f3i c\u00e1c","b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ch\u00fat g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0o con choi v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng lo canh c\u00e1nh, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 con l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u\u201d C\u00f4 con g\u00e1i 2 tu\u1ed5i choi b\u00fap b\u00ea v\u00f3i em b\u00e9 nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m v\u00e0 b\u1ecb em b\u00e9 gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea9y em ng\u00e3 v\u00ec ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng chia s\u1ebb m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; c\u1eadu con trai 5 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cth\u1ee7 l\u0129nh tr\u1ebb con\u201d, r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 gi\u1ecfi giang, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y li\u1ec1n \u0111i b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c... V\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch, tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f9ng v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kia c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng v\u0169 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ea5t ngang ng\u1ea1nh, th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o, cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i xem \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb choi c\u00f9ng, ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, sau \u0111\u00f3 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0110\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u\u201d. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n hay \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n \u1edf m\u1ed7i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u00f3 tr\u1ebb do thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft choi v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o; c\u00f3 tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng \u201cqu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5m\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy cho m\u00ecnh; m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 do c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n... \u0110\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y CO'\u201d v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y cho con tr\u1ebb k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i nh\u1ecf, con trai t\u00f4i choi v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 va ch\u1ea1m, c\u00e3i nhau, \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ed9n, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u0169ng g\u1ef1i \u00fd cho con th\u1eed suy ngh\u0129 xem, t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe theo l\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a con, d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh con, l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn con, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3; khi gi\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u1eafm ch\u1eb7t tay th\u00e0nh n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea5m c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng \u201cT\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d, k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf con gi\u1eadn trong \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea9u \u0111\u1ea3, ch\u1eedi r\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 gi\u1eadn, b\u1edfi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn cho s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e0ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 hon. Khi n\u00f3i nh\u0169ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh sau khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft th\u00fac, r\u1ea5t t\u00f9y c\u01a1. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y con g\u00e1i n\u1ea5u c\u01a1m trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1eady. Con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 Cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con tr\u1ebb. Theo \u0111i\u1ec1u tra, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi \u201cb\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c\u201d \u0111\u1ec1u \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ecf ra n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u1edbi con ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb sau khi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5y c\u00e1i. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, b\u1ea5t h\u1ecdp l\u00fd l\u00e0 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh trung tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p\u201d gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 xung \u0111\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do kh\u00f4ng","c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng \u201cv\u0169 l\u1ef1c\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fat s\u1ef1 th\u00f4 b\u1ea1o v\u00e0 con gi\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9 l\u00ean b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1eeda th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u00edt tu\u1ed5i hon. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00e0y gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a g\u00e2y ra h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, nhung khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho con t\u00e2m th\u1ebf t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, xung \u0111\u1ed9t. Khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef hay qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o. V\u00ec khi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, c\u1ea7n coi m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed1t d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. \u0110\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, n\u00eau r\u00f5 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft xung \u0111\u1ed9t v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, ho\u1eb7c gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb li\u1ec7t k\u00ea ra c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tranh c\u00e3i. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a con, l\u1eadp th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3ng v\u00e0 treo \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed d\u1ec5 nh\u00ecn trong nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t b\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u1ed9t b\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m. C\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u1ea3 thi gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u s\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p khen th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 con th\u00edch, bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1edfng khi con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n th\u00ec c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem tivi ho\u1eb7c h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho con sang nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e1ng. Th\u00f2i ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra tranh c\u00e3i, gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t nh\u1ecf l\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ch\u1eefng ch\u1ea1c h\u01a1n, c\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef e \u1ea5p c\u0169ng s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ch\u00fang ta. H\u00e3\u1ef5cho ph\u00e9p con \u201cph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i\u201d Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1ed1p hai, r\u1ea5t hay ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, b\u1ecb th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cvua ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i\u201d. H\u00f4m th\u00ec con l\u00e0m v\u1ee1 k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n (con n\u00f3i l\u00e0 s\u1eeda h\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n, ch\u1eb3ng may l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m v\u1edb), h\u00f4m th\u00ec l\u00e0m b\u1eb9p c\u1ed1c u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0&c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n (con n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t con n\u00ean con m&i gi\u1eabm l\u00ean). C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n con c\u00f2n gi\u1ea5u c\u1ea3 s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o \u0111i (con n\u00f3i th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t hay ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con, con c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m th\u1ebf \u0111 \u1ec3 th\u1ea7y c\u00e1u). Tr\u01b0&c \u0111\u00e2y con l\u00e0 c\u1eadu b\u00e9 r\u1ea5t ngoan, d\u00f9 \u1edf nh\u00e0 hay \u1edf tr\u01b0\u00f2ng m\u1ea7m non \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 - \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u - ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i ch\u00e1u. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u1eafc m\u1eafc, con trai t\u00f4i c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eadt hay l\u00e0 do ch\u00e1u \u0111ang & \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i \u1ea9m \u01b0ong? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u00e1u kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y? Ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i\u201d,","th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sai s\u00f3t r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng b\u1ecb g\u00e1n cho nh\u1eefng \u201ct\u1ed9i danh\u201d r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh \u0111eo b\u00e1m theo tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. C\u00f2n nh\u1edb, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t b\u1ea1n trai c\u00f9ng l\u00f3p v\u00f3i t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ecf t\u00f4 l\u00ean m\u1eaft h\u00ecnh v\u1ecb l\u00e3nh t\u1ee5 v\u1ebd tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1eadu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb to\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, h\u1ee7y b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch tham gia b\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1c danh hi\u1ec7u \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu t\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc to\u00e0n tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 c\u1eadu l\u00e0 \u201ch\u1ecdc sinh h\u01b0\u201d, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m choi v\u00f3i c\u1eadu n\u1eefa. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf \u0111i, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u00f3i 8, 9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1eadp d\u1ecb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 70 c\u1ee7a th\u1ebfk\u1ef7 XX t\u1ea1i Trung Qu\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i n\u00e0y, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m. R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i th\u00ec l\u1edbn l\u00ean s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o! C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc cho r\u1eb1ng, ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201cmi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch\u201d v\u1edbi sai l\u1ea7m trong s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c con th\u00fa nh\u1ecf, th\u00f4ng qua tr\u00f2 choi r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ef1, s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n \u00e1i, t\u00f3m b\u1eaft v\u00e0 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng sinh t\u1ed3n. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ef1i, cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn hon trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Con trai b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, hai v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00f3i con. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t, b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan\u201d, s\u1ed1ng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, e r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan\u201d n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i l\u1ed7i c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea1m, l\u1edbn l\u00ean r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea1m nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u1ea5u tr\u00ec m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb em th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i. \u0110e con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201cmi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch\u201d qua nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u00e9p, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, ghen t\u1ecb, gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf... Nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf. V\u1eady th\u00ec, ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb x\u1ea3 stress, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cs\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng\u201d. Gi\u1ea5u s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o, l\u00e0m b\u1eb9p c\u1ed1c u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb \u0111ang h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. S\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quen m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f4 b\u00e9 ngoan\u201d, nghe l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, t\u1ed1t v\u00f3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi ai. Khi \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 tranh ch\u1ea5p v\u1ec1 l\u1ecdi \u00edch, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i h\u1ecdp l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Khi v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3i ng\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u00f2i quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1i, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7","gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng, n\u1ed7i b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdp l\u00fd, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i x\u1ea3 stress, trong l\u00f2ng ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a bao n\u1ed7i \u1ee9c ch\u1ebf, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng. Sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ea5y ch\u1ee5c n\u0103m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m sai \u0129\u1ea7m n\u00e0o, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn gi\u1eefa b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t, qua \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00e1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, nh\u00ecn s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 \u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng sau khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i l\u1ea1i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c x\u1eed l\u00fd v\u00e0 g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 thay tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 ham th\u00edch t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec3n h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng sang ph\u1ea1m vi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, an to\u00e0n (nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 thao, thi \u0111\u1ea5u). Nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh n\u00e0y gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ph\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp n\u1ebfu sau n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd y\u1ebfu, ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t sai s\u00f3t nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m m\u1eafc. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n \u201c\u0111\u00fang sai v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ee9i sai ph\u1ea1m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Khi tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t qu\u00e1 n\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n \u0111\u00fang sai v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. D\u00f9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1eafng, n\u1ea1t n\u1ed9 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u1edbn cho tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cs\u1ee9c mi\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch\u201d, m\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1ng c\u00f2n suy gi\u1ea3m, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai khi ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ef1 v\u00e0 sinh t\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng suy y\u1ebfu. Nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 con b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb \u00fd t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 t\u00f2 m\u00f2, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i, l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i l\u1ecdi cho m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hay, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i, ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u201cph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i\u201d th\u00e0nh nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, h\u1ecdp l\u00fd. Gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh vi: \u0110\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng do kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00ean m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u1ea7n bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0\u01a1ng, sau \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb chu\u1ed9c l\u1ed7i sau khi m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u00e0nh vi m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Con tr\u1ebbkh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u00eatph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi Con t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 11 tu\u1ed5i, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed1i \u1ed5n, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7ng t\u1ed1t, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u01b0\u1ed1ng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i. B\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e0n piano, ch\u00e1u l\u1ea1i th\u00edch h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ed1ng; b\u1ea3o ch\u00e1u choi tennis, th\u00ec ch\u00e1u l\u1ea1i m\u00ea tr\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u0103ng; m\u00f2i m\u1ed9t gia s\u01b0 d\u1ea1y v\u1ebd tranh son d\u1ea7u cho ch\u00e1u th\u00ec ch\u00e1u l\u1ea1i th\u00edch v\u1ebd tranh bi\u1ebfm h\u1ecda... T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, con nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfm\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ch\u1ecbu nghe theo s\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9,","sau n\u00e0y l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Theo ch\u1ecb v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec n\u00ean \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p g\u00ec? Con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u00f2*i T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u01b0ong t\u1ef1, h\u01a1n n\u1eefa d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf vi chuy\u1ec7n \u201ccon tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao\u201d. T\u00f4i li\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i: \u201cCon tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u00f2i\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u nay. Trong m\u1eaft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb \u201ckh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi\u201d mang h\u00e0m ngh\u0129a x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, khi nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh con tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u1eddi cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: M\u1ecdi \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn 100% kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1ea1i th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n: \u201cD\u1ea1o n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 (con b\u00e9) nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u1eddi\u201d, \u201cTh\u1eadt \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 ch\u00e1u t\u00f4i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecdn h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0nh g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d ... C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh lu\u00f4n \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u201ch\u1ea1 m\u00ecnh\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u \u201ccon c\u1ea7n c\u00e1i g\u00ec\u201d, \u201ccon th\u00edch c\u00e1i g\u00ec\u201d. Th\u1ef1c ra, k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f2i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u1ebb mang trong m\u00ecnh gene c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m dam m\u00ea c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cl\u1ef1a theo b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u00e1 t\u00ednh\u201d. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc cho th\u1ea5y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 nh\u0169 nhi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp, s\u1edf th\u00edch, \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n, s\u1ef1 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 coi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh, l\u1eafng nghe \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, sau \u0111\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 l\u00f2i g\u1ef1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 g\u1ee3i \u00fd, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u00e9p, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb x\u1ea3y ra hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9, tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp thu l\u00f2i g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 h\u01a1n. Ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd coi vi\u1ec7c con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i t\u00f4i hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con ngoan hay kh\u00f4ng, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1ecf qua y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb hay kh\u00f4ng. N\u0103m x\u01b0a, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f3p ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3a, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00f3p n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa h\u1ecdc th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u00e9p con h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa. Con th\u00edch \u0111\u00e1 b\u00f3ng, th\u00edch h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p l\u1eafp r\u00e1p m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y bay, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n th\u00edch ch\u01a1i t\u00fa l\u01a1 kh\u01a1, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa theo ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, nh\u01b0ng ta \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn th\u00edch l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n. C\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb th\u00ec tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c","\u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 hay h\u1ecda s\u0129, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. C\u00f2n sau n\u00e0y tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 g\u00ec, l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec, v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Con trai b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u00ean cho con nhi\u1ec1u quy\u1ec1n l\u1ecdi d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 hon, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u00e2y non, \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u01b0oi t\u1ed1t, sum su\u00ea, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng sao tr\u00f4ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i c\u00e1i c\u00e2y m\u00e0 t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng nh\u1ec9? V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eaft t\u1ec9a l\u00e1 c\u00e0nh, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i sinh tr\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e2y non \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdc piano th\u00ec c\u1ee9 cho tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u1ed1ng; tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ecdc v\u1ebd tranh son d\u1ea7u th\u00ec v\u1ebd tranh bi\u1ebfm h\u1ecda c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec x\u1ea5u, c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb \u201cn\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d v\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c Sau 12 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u201cth\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d, l\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng tr\u1ebb hon. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u201cth\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh hon, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y vui m\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i. Nhung v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 do h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb \u201ckh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe l\u00f2i\u201d v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u201cqu\u00e1 nghe l\u00f2i\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cqu\u00e1 ngoan ngo\u00e3n\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i, nhung kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n, suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp v\u00e0 \u00f3c t\u01b0 duy, s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1 ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p. D\u00e2n gian c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cTr\u1ebb ranh m\u00e3nh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4n\u201d, \u00fd n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0ong, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t. Ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u1ea1t n\u1ed9 con em m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00e2m m\u1ed3m ngay, \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 thanh minh n\u1eefa\u201d, \u201cCon bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u00f2i cha, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ec7nh l\u1ec7nh\u201d... T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u00e0 thanh minh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, l\u1edbn l\u00ean r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn, d\u1ec5 khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 quy\u1ec1n uy, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con trai r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con xem c\u00e1i n\u00e0o h\u1ecdp l\u00fd hon\u201d. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. Ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng cho r\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea1o ph\u1ea1m s\u1ef1 \u201cquy\u1ec1n uy\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng l\u00f2i g\u1ef1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ch\u00fac m\u1eebng con v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, n\u1ebfu con d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u00e3 sai th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec9a mai, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con, \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129, l\u1ea7n sau con s\u1ebd th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng xem x\u00e9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00f2i g\u1ef1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 hon. Cho ph\u00e9p con c\u00f3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tranh lu\u1eadn v\u00f3i con, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 tranh lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean di\u1ec5n ra trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00f3i con nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 hai b\u00ean b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m trong kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1eabu \u0111\u1ec3 con r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen. Sau n\u00e0y, khi b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, n\u1ebfu con c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, con s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch giao l\u01b0u, trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng","c\u00e3i v\u00e3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 l\u00fd. L\u00f2i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 mang t\u00ednh nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc, c\u1ea7n n\u00eau r\u00f5 l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Tr\u1ebb ch\u1ecbu nghe theo c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00ec sau khi \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, tr\u1ebb cho r\u1eb1ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd nghe theo. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00fd, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee5c t\u00f9ng, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con tr\u1ebb, trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh v\u00e0 n\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho con l\u00e0 tia n\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Ch\u00e3 m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 con lo\u1ea1n tu \u1ed5 id\u1eady Con trai t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 16 tu\u1ed5i, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng k\u00edn c\u1eeda ph\u00f2ng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00e1u l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i m\u1edf c\u1eeda th\u00ec ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi v\u00f3i gi\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady?\u201d. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t th\u00edch c\u1ef1 n\u1ef1, lu\u00f4n coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, ham choi game, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n choi l\u00e0 qu\u00ean tr\u00f2i qu\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ch\u00e1u nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u00e1u li\u1ec1n gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i \u0111\u00f3ng s\u1ea7m c\u1eeda r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng cha ch\u00e1u c\u00f2n n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y c\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng cha ch\u00e1u tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, l\u00fac vui th\u00ec r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u00f3i con, kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00ec m\u1eb7t m\u00e0y h\u1ea7m h\u1eb1m. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111 \u1ec3 l\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec7n chcri game, \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1 s\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m, r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y? Gia \u0111\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0o*ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 16 tu\u1ed5i, d\u00f9 x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t sinh l\u00fd hay t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ed1c r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t t\u1eeb t\u00e2m th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb chuy\u1ec3n sang t\u00e2m th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n\u201d. \u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00e1t khao \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, ch\u01b0a t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cho m\u00ecnh c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh... S\u1ef1 che ch\u1edf c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u00e1i \u1ea5m gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bay cao c\u1ee7a ch\u00e0ng thanh ni\u00ean 16 tu\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 n\u00e0y, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn coi tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng tay ra, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c ph\u00e1t huy t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i kh\u00e1c n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u1eady l\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, coi m\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u00e0 l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 17 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nh\u1edd t\u00f4i xem c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u1eadu b\u00e9 n\u00e0y chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do cha c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecbch thu m\u00e1y ch\u01a1i game, m\u1eb9 c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc tr\u1ed9m nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu. C\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cV\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ec9 \u1ed5i\u201d. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i","\u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ba th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9, n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1ed9 r\u00f5 v\u1ebb \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn v\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, c\u1eadu con trai th\u00ec h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c, ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu nh\u1eb1m v\u00e0o m\u1eb9, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ch\u1ec9 tay v\u00e0o m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa xem n\u00e0o, m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i linh tinh, m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng? M\u1eb9 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng? M\u1eb9 th\u00ec hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec ch\u1ee9?\u201d. L\u00fac \u1ea5y, nh\u00ecn v\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng, \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn b\u1ecb giam c\u1ea7m trong l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00e1ch con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u; ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00ec h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i chen v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee1 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng ra c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0y b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng quan h\u1ec7, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ed3 v\u00f3i nhau nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng: Gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u00e1i \u1ea5m che ch\u1edf cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 noi g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau bao la c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho con tr\u1ebb l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0ong, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0ong thi\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd v\u00ec s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n. L\u00f2*i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 \u201c\u0111i\u00eau kh\u1eafc\u201d trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb Khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u0111au \u0111\u00f3n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1t s\u1eafng \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ho\u1eb7c b\u00e1c s\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a con, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f4ng tin nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd chuy\u00ean t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, ch\u1ecb m\u1edf V\u0103n ph\u00f2ng Chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con. T\u00f4i h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1ecb ngh\u0129 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u1edbi con tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. Ch\u1ecb li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cN\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 'chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i m\u1eb9' th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ebfn? Ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i m\u00ecnh m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang\u201d. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch con r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon xem con l\u1edbn b\u1eb1ng ng\u1ea7n n\u00e0y r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 sao v\u1eabn c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh khi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u t\u1eeb mang t\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh. Khi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin trong c\u00e1c c\u00e2u t\u1eeb mang t\u00ednh kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd n\u1ed9i h\u00f3a nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u t\u1eeb n\u00e0y trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 hay ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eafc \u201c\u0110\u1eebng choi game n\u1eefa, choi su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00eam nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. C\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 h\u00e0m \u00fd b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t con trai, trong khi con trai l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh hon con g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, n\u1ebfu qu\u1ea3n gi\u00e1o qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nghi\u1ec7n choi game. D\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i lo\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt mang t\u00ednh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f4i khi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7","trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf ra m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh h\u00e0nh vi m\u00f3i gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u00e1i t\u1ea1o l\u1ea1i m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u1ef1i cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm v\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 th\u00f4ng minh s\u1ebd cho ph\u00e9p con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n hai t\u00e2m l\u00fd ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm, cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u1eabn an to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u00f3i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan, t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean can thi\u1ec7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. Th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng nhau ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, tr\u1ebb l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. Thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh quan h\u1ec7 Hi\u1ec7n nay vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1 coi tr\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 coi nh\u1eb9 c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n xung \u0111\u1ed9t gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh hon, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ngoan ngo\u00e3n nghe l\u00f2i. \u201cCon ph\u1ea3i nghe l\u00f2i nh\u00e9, ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh\u201d, \u201cNgoan nh\u00e9, \u0111\u1eebng m\u1ea3i choi\u201d, \u201cNh\u1edb nh\u00e9, tan h\u1ecdc ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd\u201d... Kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft ngoan ngo\u00e3n nghe l\u00f2i s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y th\u1eed xem, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u201cmang t\u00ednh ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t\u201d, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u t\u1eeb mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c, th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u01b0\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con trai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha ch\u1ecbu kh\u00f3 c\u00f9ng con tham gia m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, hai v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con; cha m\u1eb9 - \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha - ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh trong th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9; khi chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u00f3i con c\u1ea7n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m hai b\u00ean b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t; ngay c\u1ea3 khi con l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf con gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Gi\u1eadn d\u1eef l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng, b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra con gi\u1eadn, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, trong l\u00fac gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, bu\u1ed3n l\u00f2ng ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea7n thu\u1eadt ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u00f9y \u00fd tr\u00fat gi\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u00e0o, ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nh\u00e9\\\", m\u00e0 h\u00e3y n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con n\u00ean r\u1ea5t mong th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u1eb9 con m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft con c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9\u201d. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao, cha m\u1eb9 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf cha m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a con, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00f2i nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t tr\u1ebb, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. Sau khi \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tin r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u!","Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u00eagi\u1edbi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c Con t\u00f4i m\u00f3i 3 tu\u1ed5i, cha ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00f2 chcr\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1ed1i con v\u00e0o ipad cho con choi nh\u01b0 tr\u00f2 t\u00f4 m\u00e0u, gh\u00e9p h\u00ecnh... Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i con th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00f4m \u1ec9pad choi, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfc\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecb? T\u00f4i v\u1eabn nghe n\u00f3i \u1ec9\u00e0 tr\u1ebb d\u01b0&i 3 tu\u1ed5i n\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebfxem tivi, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u00f2rng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadt tiv\u1ec9, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u01b0cmg tr\u00ecnh th\u00f2i s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i con \u0111\u00e3 l&n hem, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem ch\u01b0a? c\u1ecf th\u1eadt l\u00e0 xem t\u1ec9vi s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1ecfmg th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a con hay kh\u00f4ng? Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1ee9i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c h\u01b0n th\u1ebf gi\u00f3*i \u1ea3o M\u00f3i \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd khi nghe n\u00f3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00f3p \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc n\u1ecd trang b\u1ecb cho m\u1ed7i h\u1ecdc sinh m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc ipad. Trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u00f2i kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi - k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c em b\u00e9 3 tu\u1ed5i. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ng\u00e0nh khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u01b0 v\u0169 b\u00e3o s\u1ebd l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong t\u01b0ong lai? M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 con em ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i t\u1eeb. C\u00e1 nh\u00e2n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i c\u00e1c s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, bao g\u1ed3m tivi. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 b\u1ee9c x\u1ea1, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed mang l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i th\u1ea7n k\u1ef3, r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 s\u1eafc m\u00e0u, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y tr\u00ed n\u00e3o tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ef1c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp choi c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 choi nh\u01b0 t\u00f4 m\u00e0u tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u k\u00edch th\u00edch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 coi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 choi b\u1ea5t ly th\u00e2n. V\u00ec m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc ipad d\u00f9 ti\u1ec7n l\u1ef1i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec n\u00f3 v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i \u1ea3o, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 n\u00f3 hi\u1ec3n th\u1ecb v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u1ea3o. Trong khi hi\u1ec7n nay t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc, t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0ong: Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c trao g\u1eedi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a n\u0103m gi\u00e1c quan \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u00e1c tri gi\u00e1c n\u00e0y trong n\u00e3o b\u1ed9. N\u1ebfu s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 nh\u01b0 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i - bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0, c\u00e2y xanh, n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c nh\u00e2n v\u0103n, trao cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tri th\u1ee9c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u00f3a, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb \u201cgi\u00e0 \u0111i\u201d, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf, b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p. Thi\u00ean thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho m\u1ecdi sinh m\u1ec7nh nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, phong ph\u00fa nh\u01b0 c\u00e1 t\u00f4m boi l\u1ed9i d\u01b0\u00f3i n\u01b0\u1edbc, chim ch\u00f3c bay l\u01b0\u1ee3n tr\u00ean b\u1ea7u tr\u00f2i, \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0ong m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng, n\u00fai non tr\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7p, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 b\u00ed \u1ea9n... Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, gi\u00fap k\u00edch th\u00edch kh\u1ee9u gi\u00e1c, th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c, v\u1ecb gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn hon nhi\u1ec1u so v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 trong tivi. Thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean h\u00f9ng v\u0129, hoang s\u01a1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb l\u01b0u gi\u1eef nh\u1eefng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat vui v\u1ebb, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong tr\u1ebb, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cho d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u00f3i thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 2 tu\u1ed5i, s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a v\u0103n h\u00f3a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean chi\u1ebfm qu\u00e1 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 25%, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 75% \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i qua trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Sau n\u0103m 2 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gia t\u0103ng t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u00e2n v\u0103n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh","v\u1ef1c. c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c, quan s\u00e1t v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a, ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 giao l\u01b0u v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a, \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00fa c\u01b0ng, c\u00f4n tr\u00f9ng... \u0110\u1ec3 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, gi\u00e1c quan, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i nh\u1ec5 nh\u1ea1i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00f9n \u0111\u1ea5t s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u00edch h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 ba gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed trong m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u1eddi gian xem tivi, ch\u01a1i ipad c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Tivi, ipad, m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb em s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu, nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc 2 tu\u1ed5i, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac c\u00e0ng \u00edt c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Sau 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb xem m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu nhi ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u1ed9i dung ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong ipad. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebft ch\u1ebf, t\u1ef1 k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i vi\u1ec7c \u201cgi\u00e1m s\u00e1t\u201d, nhung kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00e0m r\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u1ea5m \u0111o\u00e1n, b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb. Sau 3 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp kh\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh, l\u00fac n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c giao l\u01b0u hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00e0i h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed nh\u01b0 tivi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u01a1 sinh v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf. T\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i nhanh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh tr\u00ean tivi s\u1ebd l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f3 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Xem tivi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m mang t\u00ednh b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o \u201cthi\u1ebfu s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u201d, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng, d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u01b0 duy c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ch\u1eadm \u0111i. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i tivi l\u00e0 \u201cs\u00e1t th\u1ee7 g\u00e2y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Sau gi\u1edd \u0103n t\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i ng\u1ee7 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 v\u1edbi nhau, l\u00e0 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00f9ng vui ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb xem tivi c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a \u201ck\u1ebb th\u1ee9 ba\u201d v\u00e0o qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng tr\u1ebb l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh tivi m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch xem, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f9ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tr\u00f2 game, ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng tham gia v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean coi tivi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb gi\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian. Tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1edbi 6 tu\u1ed5i, th\u00f2i gian xem tivi m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, tivi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ebb em, ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn n\u1ebfu su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1n m\u1eaft v\u00e0o tivi th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng xem tivi, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh th\u00f2i s\u1ef1 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng xem, b\u1edfi trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i tivi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng tin, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i n\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea9y n\u00f3 ra kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con tr\u1ebb. Quy\u1ec1n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1eb1m trong tay ch\u00fang ta, n\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1ecdi d\u1ee5ng tivi th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00e9o ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho con","Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i m&i g\u1ea7n 2 tu\u1ed5i, & nh\u00e0 con c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 choi, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 do b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n t\u1eb7ng, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 do \u00f4ng b\u00e0 mua cho, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed3 choi l\u00e0 con l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i mua th\u00eam. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 choi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o cho con? \u0110\u1ed3 choi c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb? Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u201c \u0111\u1ed3 cho*i\u201d t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con Tr\u1ebb em th\u00f2i nay th\u1eadt h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 choi song h\u00e0nh v\u00f3 i thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng, so v\u00f3i m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 choi, m\u00f3n \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 choi\u201d khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u00edch v\u00e0 say m\u00ea nh\u1ea5t v\u1eabn l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed3 choi\u201d t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con! Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi ri\u00eang v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0o chi ph\u1ed1i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00f3 i tr\u1ebb, tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9, c\u1ea7n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9! \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i tr\u1ebb em r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1 s\u1eafc m\u00e0u, t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh ng\u1ed9 ngh\u0129nh nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf. N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i trong thu\u1edf \u1ea5u th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian \u1edf b\u00ean tr\u1ebb, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. \u0110\u1ed3 cho*i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n cho*i\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb gi\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian H\u01a1n 20 n\u0103m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi con trai t\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng phong ph\u00fa, \u0111a d\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay. Trong \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf c\u00f3 h\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u00f3i m\u1ee9c t\u1ed1i \u0111a s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu k\u1ef3 c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, ngo\u00e0i ra, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u1ecdi d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed3 choi \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u00ed n\u00e3o con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00f4ng qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1eefu \u00edch. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb em th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ecbch \u0111\u1ea5t s\u00e9t, \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ed5 ki\u1ebfn, tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y, ch\u01a1i x\u00edch \u0111u..., \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng thao t\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e3o cho tr\u1ebb. Khoa h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u0169ng \u0111a d\u1ea1ng h\u01a1n, t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh, \u00e2m thanh, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, k\u00edch th\u00edch l\u00f2ng ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb gi\u1ebft th\u00f2i gian. \u201cC\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i th\u01a1 v\u00f3i mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 t\u1eadn, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u vai tr\u00f2 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n. Tr\u1ebb \u1ecf* \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00e1c nhau c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00e1c nhau v'\u00ea \u0111\u1ed3 cho\u1ee7 Tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb o \u0111\u1ebfn 1 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan. X\u00fac gi\u00e1c, th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c, th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c... \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan kh\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i l\u00fac l\u1eafc, c\u00f3 \u00e2m thanh. Tr\u00ean xe \u0111\u1ea9y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb treo m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i quay tr\u00f2n, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, k\u00edch th\u00edch th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u00e9. M\u1eb9 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00f4ng qua \u00e2m thanh ph\u00e1t ra t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, xoay l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb l\u1eaby, l\u1eadt, b\u00f2, \u0111\u1ee9ng, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i. T\u1eeb 1 \u0111\u1ebfn 2 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eadp \u0111i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ea9y, b\u00f3ng, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e1m, leo, n\u00e9m, nh\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i. H\u00ecnh d\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i g\u1ed7 x\u1ebfp h\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ee3i m\u1edf,","ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 cho tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb choi, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u ph\u1ea3i an to\u00e0n, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0cmg cho tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfn ngh\u1ecb cho tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 choi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i, t\u1eeb ng\u1eef ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u00e1t thi\u1ebfu nhi c\u00f3 giai \u0111i\u1ec7u \u0111on gi\u1ea3n. V\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef th\u00f4ng qua m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y d\u1ea1y ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef v\u1ee1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 giao l\u01b0u gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1ea1t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef trong s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng. T\u1eeb 2 \u0111\u1ebfn 4 tu\u1ed5i l\u00e0 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00eam m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc, \u1edf th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mua cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 choi v\u1ec1 t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh \u0111on gi\u1ea3n, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc t\u01b0oi s\u00e1ng, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh l\u1edbn, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0m quen v\u00f3i m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eef vi\u1ebft. Ki\u1ec3u d\u00e1ng, t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed3 choi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1edd n\u1eafm, ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n cho n\u00e3o b\u1ed9. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 choi l\u1eafc l\u01b0 nh\u01b0 ng\u1ef1a g\u1ed7, x\u00edch \u0111u... v\u1eeba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ed1i h\u1ecdp nh\u1ecbp nh\u00e0ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan tr\u00ean c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc th\u00fa v\u1ecb, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t. T\u1eeb 4 \u0111\u1ebfn 6 tu\u1ed5i, tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd th\u1ee9c ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb \u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y th\u00edch ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed3 h\u00e0ng, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 g\u00e1i k\u00e9o c\u00e1c b\u00e9 trai v\u00e0o ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng. Th\u00fa b\u00f4ng, b\u00fap b\u00ea Barbie... th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb nh\u00e2n h\u00f3a, coi l\u00e0 \u201ccon\u201d, c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3ng vai \u201ccha\u201d, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d. Cung c\u1ea5p cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng nhu c\u1ea7u tr\u00ean ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, s\u1ebd b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 EQ c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb 6 tu\u1ed5i tr\u1edf l\u00ean, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh, tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea cho tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 choi v\u1ec1 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i ngo\u00e0i tr\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n tr\u00ed t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap m\u1edf mang t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn cho tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u01b0 c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1ee3t, leo c\u1ea7u thang, \u0111\u00f9a ngh\u1ecbch tr\u00ean c\u00e1t... \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho tr\u1ebb, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp cho tr\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb. M\u00e1i t\u00f3c m\u1ec1m m\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, b\u00e0n tay \u1ea5m \u00e1p c\u1ee7a cha, ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 b\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00e1nh di\u1ec1u bay l\u01b0\u1ee3n tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng trung, c\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1ee3t, rubic, m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba la h\u00e9t v\u1eeba c\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ed9n r\u00e3 l\u00e0 k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 kho b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. H\u00e3y gi\u1ea5u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc v\u00e0o c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng cho con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n! C\u00f3 n\u00ean theo h\u1ecdc l\u1edbp gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm hay kh\u00f4ng? Con t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 2 tu\u1ed5i, con r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng. H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y con & nh\u00e0 v\u00f3i c\u00f4 gi\u00fap vi\u1ec7c, trong khu t\u00f4i & tr\u1ebb con c\u0169ng \u00edt, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ra ngo\u00e0i choi nhi\u1ec1u, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u00e1u ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh hon. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t b\u0103n kho\u0103n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 n\u00ean \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s&m hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh tham gia c\u00e1c ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s&m. Xin h\u1ecfi n\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng theo l\u00f3p n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f3 b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng?","Con tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1c b\u00e9, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 nh\u1ecf n\u1ebfu su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t \u1edf nh\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n choi, t\u00ednh t\u00ednh c\u0169ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n hon. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i choi nhi\u1ec1u hon. N\u1ebfu m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1 kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i choi v\u00f3i c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf cho ph\u00e9p th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm. \u00edt nh\u1ea5t, trong c\u00e1c l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc n\u00e0y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nh\u1ecf, c\u00f3 c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u1ebb ch\u01a1i, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1i cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n nay l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201cph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm nh\u1eb1m v\u00e0o n\u00e3o tr\u00e1i, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung thu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 nh\u00e2n v\u0103n v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cd\u1ee5c t\u1ed1c b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea1t\u201d ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eb1m v\u00e0o n\u00e3o ph\u1ea3i. Khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng tin, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e3o ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, v\u0169 \u0111\u1ea1o, h\u1ed9i h\u1ecda, k\u1ecbch s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 h\u00ecnh th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc, ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. T\u00f9y theo \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ee7 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch, n\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu b\u1ea9m sinh \u1edf m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, s\u1ebd b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00f3a ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00ean kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb. Khi tr\u1ebb b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng sang v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c th\u00ec ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 l\u1ea1i cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa m\u1edbi. C\u00e1ch \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm\u201d n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh v\u1ee5 l\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y s\u1ee9c \u00e9p cho tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1ecf gieo xu\u1ed1ng m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t sinh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cnh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u1ebb, bi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c \u201c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 non\u201d. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 sau: M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0&i \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con nh\u1ed9ng \u0111ang qu\u1eb1n qu\u1ea1i \u0111 \u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh b\u01b0&m, th\u1ea5y th\u01b0ong con nh\u1ed9ng qu\u00e1 n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u00f2i \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y li\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e1ch t\u1ed5 k\u00e9n gi\u00fap con nh\u1ed9ng. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i \u0111au l\u1ed9t x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh b\u01b0&m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a sinh m\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a sinh m\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tu\u00e2n theo quy lu\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm c\u0169ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1ee9m Th\u1ef1c ra, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i, n\u1ebfu l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn c\u0169ng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng","nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con theo. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt c\u0169ng bao h\u00e0m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u00fd th\u1ee9c, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u00f3c th\u1ea9m m\u0129, tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ef1ng. Khi con trai c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho ch\u00e1u theo ch\u01b0oiig tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u00f3m n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n cho con nghe, \u0111\u01b0a con \u0111i du l\u1ecbch. Khi k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n t\u00f4i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc t\u01b0oi s\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh, m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng ch\u1eef, c\u00f3 b\u1ee9c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1eef, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u201cnh\u1eadn m\u1eb7t ch\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3\u201d. Du l\u1ecbch c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ecf ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 tham gia v\u00e0o c\u00e1c tour du l\u1ecbch, d\u00f9ng xe \u0111\u1ea1p ch\u1edf con, \u0111i loanh quanh trong c\u00e1c ng\u00f5 h\u1ebbm trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, ra ngo\u1ea1i \u00f4 ng\u1eafm n\u00fai ng\u1eafm s\u00f4ng, quan s\u00e1t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a, tranh th\u1ee7 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm. M\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, m\u1ed7i gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng th\u00f4ng tin, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh ngu\u1ed3n t\u00e0i nguy\u00ean nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c g\u1ef1i m\u1edf tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t trong ch\u00ednh gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i k\u1ebft h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i c\u00e1c ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm r\u1ea5t kinh t\u1ebf, r\u1ea5t th\u00edch h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i l\u00ean hai. Kh\u00f4ng theo ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu coi tr\u1ecdng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c s\u1edbm \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, trao cho tr\u1ebb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau khoa h\u1ecdc, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edch, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u1ec1 \u201ckh\u1eb3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung\u201dc\u1ee7a. tr\u1ebb Con t\u00f4i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i 3,5 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ea1y m\u1ea7m non c\u1ee7a con ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh r\u1eb1ng con \u1ec9\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, v\u00ed d\u1ee5, v\u1eeba t\u00f4 m\u00e0u v\u1eeba choi, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. Trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc con c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n con s\u1eeda th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n cho con kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c? Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd v\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c Con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u00f4i 3 tu\u1ed5i, c\u0169ng v\u1eeba \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u0169ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u00f3i ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng trong l\u00f3p ch\u00e1u ng\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng y\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y c\u0169ng lo l\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft con c\u00f3 m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng, b\u00e8n nh\u1edd t\u00f4i c\u00f9ng ch\u1ecb quan s\u00e1t ch\u00e1u. H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i mang \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u00eam phong, b\u00ean trong c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 choi l\u00e0 ch\u00fa chim c\u00e1nh c\u1ee5t ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 choi nh\u1ecf kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mua cho ch\u00e1u. Khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u00e9, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n ch\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edbc: \u201c\u0110o\u00e0n \u0110o\u00e0n \u00e0, h\u00f4m nay c\u00f4 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch b\u00ed \u1ea9n. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 trong chi\u1ebfc h\u1ed9p n\u00e0y, \u00e0 \u0111\u00fang r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y c\u0169ng mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho con m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u1ecf, l\u00e1t n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c, ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd m\u00f2i b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ra nh\u00e9?\u201d. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i li\u1ec1n th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 b\u00e9 nh\u00ecn ch\u0103m ch\u00fa chi\u1ebfc h\u1ed9p trong tay t\u00f4i b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft t\u00f2 m\u00f2, t\u00f4i v\u1eeba theo d\u00f5i nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u1edf b\u00e9, v\u1eeba len l\u00e9n l\u1ea5y tay c\u00e0o nh\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1y h\u1ed9p, \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t ra ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00ed \u1ea9n n\u00e0y v\u1eeba t\u1eeb Nam C\u1ef1c tr\u1edf v\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i \u0111i m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i n\u00ean r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 thi\u1ebfp \u0111i r\u1ed3i...\u201d. R\u1ed3i t\u00f4i k\u1ec3 cho ch\u00e1u nghe v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00fa chim c\u00e1nh c\u1ee5t ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. Su\u1ed1t n\u1eeda ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, b\u00e9 l\u1eafng nghe r\u1ea5t ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m, tay c\u00f2n m\u00e2n m\u00ea chi\u1ebfc h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb ni\u00eam phong \u0111\u00f3, ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ef1i v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch","kia t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c... T\u00f4i v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n nh\u00ecn nhau c\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u \u00fd: Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng c\u1ea3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe k\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 th \u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung hay m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c? Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u00ean l\u00f3 p c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa hay kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c chia th\u00e0nh t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. S\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh m \u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec trong m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian kh\u00e1 d\u00e0i. Tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i nh\u1ecf th\u00ec ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu t\u1eadp trung m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i m\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5y ph\u00fat th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ng\u1eafn hon. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec trong m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian d\u00e0i, cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ef1m lu\u00f4n tay lu\u00f4n ch\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i, v\u00f3i \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 th\u00f2i k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng tr\u00ed t\u00f2 m\u00f2 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung h\u1eefu \u00fd cho tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 sau \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb: (1) Ph\u01b0ong di\u1ec7n sinh l\u00fd: Do \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n n\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y ph\u00f9 h\u1ef1p, khi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4n hon, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung. (2) Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd: T\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e3o b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ea7n kinh c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra ch\u1ee9ng t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1edf vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, qu\u00e1 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, x\u1ed1c n\u1ed5i, tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0nh vi b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. c \u1ea5 u tr\u00fac ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ee3i th\u1ea7n kinh b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra ch\u1ee9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n co gi\u1eadt \u1edf tr\u1ebb, ngo\u00e0i c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u01b0 ch\u00f3p m\u1eaft li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, cau m\u00e0y, tru mi\u1ec7ng, h\u1eafng gi\u1ecdng, ngo\u00e1y c\u1ed5, nh\u00fan vai, xo\u1ea3i c\u00e1nh tay, \u0111\u00e1 ch\u00e2n, c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i k\u00e8m theo tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 th\u00ednh gi\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecb gi\u00e1c c\u0169ng b\u1ecb ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 l\u01a1 \u0111\u00e3ng, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc. Nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecb li\u1ec7u d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129 chuy\u00ean khoa m \u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n. (3) Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng: B\u00e1nh k\u1eb9o, c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3 u\u1ed1ng ch\u1ee9a ca\u00edein ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ee9a ph\u1ea9m m\u00e0u nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o, th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ee9a ch\u1ea5t b\u1ea3o qu\u1ea3n... \u0111\u1ec1u k\u00edch th\u00edch tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung. Ngo\u00e0i ra, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m g\u00e2y t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nhi\u1ec5m \u0111\u1ed9c ch\u00ec c\u0169ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y y\u00eau c\u1ea7u cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. (4) Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh: Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen sinh ho\u1ea1t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, v\u00ed d\u1ee5: Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i theo ai, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n; nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c s\u1ebd dung t\u00fang cho tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch l\u00e0m theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eabn n\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebfb\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 t\u0129nh t\u00e2m l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng; mua qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho tr\u1ebb, c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 k\u00edch th\u00edch b\u1ebfn ngo\u00e0i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, v\u1eeba ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i \u00f4 t\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, v\u1eeba t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, thay \u0111\u1ed5i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat tr\u1ebb trong m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa ph\u00e1t huy tr\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i; gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng y\u00ean t\u0129nh, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed s\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u1ed3n \u00e0o. N\u1ebfu con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n tr\u00ean th\u00ec th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung s\u1ebd","kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng lo ng\u1ea1i. R\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb Vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ea7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. M\u1ed9t em b\u00e9 1, 2 tu\u1ed5i ng\u1ed3i x\u1ed5m d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, t\u1eadp trung h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a m\u1ed9t kh\u1ed1i g\u1ed7 h\u00ecnh tr\u1ee5 v\u00e0o h\u1ed9p g\u1ed7 th\u1ea3 h\u00ecnh, ngo\u00e0i ra c\u00f2n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh kh\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c, h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u201cl\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c\u201d ch\u0103m ch\u00fa \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi c\u00f3. Sau khi ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u201cc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u201d, v\u1ebb th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea5n ch\u1ea5n \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1a nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb. Khi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra con y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u0103m ch\u00fa theo d\u00f5i ch\u00fa c\u00e1, \u0111\u00e0n ki\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 choi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb b\u1edfi tr\u00ed t\u00f2 m\u00f2 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00f4i th\u00fac tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00f2i gian t\u1eadp trung. N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n can thi\u1ec7p v\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fa \u00fd sang v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb d\u1ec5 chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u00fa \u00fd, kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean, h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m, sau n\u00e0y \u0111i h\u1ecdc nghe gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac tr\u1ebb y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn k\u1ec3 \u0111i k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i, t\u1ea1i sao v\u1eabn \u0111\u00f2i nghe? \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1eedng th\u00fa, cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng t\u00f2 m\u00f2 n\u1eefa th\u00ec th\u00f4i. Do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nghe th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y k\u1ec3 cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e2u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1eaft \u00e9p tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft t\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, k\u00edch th\u00edch nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y \u1edf tr\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb gieo m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eadu v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean b\u1eadc c\u1eeda s\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i c\u1eadu b\u00e9 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCh\u1eb3ng bao l\u00e2u n\u1eefa h\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eadu n\u00e0y s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m v\u00e0 ra l\u00e1 xanh, n\u1ebfu con nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eadu n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m th\u00ec nh\u1edb n\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 giao nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 cho con tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 m\u1eb9 giao, ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o b\u00e9 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 v\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t h\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eadu, s\u1ef1 quan s\u00e1t n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, khi r\u00e8n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m, b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed, n\u1ed9i dung ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c vui v\u1ebb trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c r\u00e8n cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t, s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb theo ki\u1ec3u nh\u1ed5 m\u1ea1 th\u00fac l\u1edbn, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i, t\u1eebng v\u00f2ng t\u1eebng v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c gieo h\u1ea1t, n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f2i c\u01a1 th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 m\u00f9a b\u1ed9i thu.","Tr\u01b0\u1eddngm\u1ea7m non trongk\u00fd \u1ee9cc\u1ee7am\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa gi\u00e0i Nobel Con t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o l&n & tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb b\u01b0&c v\u00e0o l&p m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng con ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t ch\u1eef, c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u0103m h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh. B\u1ea3o con ng\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 30 ph\u00fat l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ed3i y\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa, l\u00fac th\u00ec choi c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, l\u00fac l\u1ea1i ngh\u1ecbch c\u00e1i kia, & tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. T\u00f4i b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u00f3i t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi v\u00e0o l\u00f3p m\u1ed9t, con c\u00f3 theo k\u1ecbp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n hay kh\u00f4ng?Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb tr\u1ebb n\u00ean h\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c g\u00ec & tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non? Tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel N\u0103m 1988, 75 nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ee5 h\u1ed9i \u1edf Paris \u0111\u1ec3 tham d\u1ef1 m\u1ed9t h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng. Trong th\u00f2i gian di\u1ec5n ra h\u1ed9i ngh\u1ecb, ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean t\u1edd b\u00e1o n\u1ecd c\u1ee7a Ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc r\u1eb1ng: \u201cXin h\u1ecfi ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ph\u00f2ng th\u00ed nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o?\u201d. Nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc li\u1ec1n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p: \u201cT\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non\u201d. V\u1ecb ph\u00f3ng vi\u00ean kia li\u1ec1n s\u1eefng l\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp: \u201cNg\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non?\u201d. Nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc li\u1ec1n ch\u1eadm r\u00e3i \u0111\u00e1p: \u201c\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, chia cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng, ng\u0103n n\u1eafp; tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0103n ph\u1ea3i r\u1eeda tay; m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i; sau khi \u0103n tr\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ec9 ngoi; ch\u00fa \u00fd quan s\u00e1t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i xung quanh. T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1u v\u1ed7 tay nhi\u1ec7t li\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u00f2i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00ean h\u1ecdc g\u00ec \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non. Tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb khi b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb th\u00f3i quen, n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea. \u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd k\u00ecm ch\u1ebf s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb; vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ee5 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. D\u00f9ng ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea cho tr\u1ebb, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung cho tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd quan tr\u1ecdng hon l\u00e0 nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ch\u1eef, bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m to\u00e1n. Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp Tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea7m non l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t cho tr\u1ebb t\u00e2m th\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o l\u00f3p m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau ch\u1eef, l\u00e0m to\u00e1n nhanh hay ch\u1eadm, m\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng hon l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, th\u00edch nghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1 n\u1ebfp sinh ho\u1ea1t t\u1ed1t, d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp. Trong gi\u1edd gi\u1ea5c sinh ho\u1ea1t, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 sinh h\u1ecdc cho tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb th\u00edch nghi v\u00f3i th\u00f2i gian h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, ngh\u1ec9 ngoi c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd theo h\u1ecdc.","\u1ede tr\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp theo l\u00f3p, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f9ng t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y d\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch choi v\u00f3i b\u1ea1n, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho tr\u1ebb tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, n\u00ean t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u00f2 choi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tinh th\u1ea7n h\u1ecdp t\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho tr\u1ebb. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i tr\u1ef1c nh\u1eadt, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0, nh\u01b0 qu\u00e9t nh\u00e0, lau nh\u00e0, d\u1ecdn d\u1eb9p ph\u00f2ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd \u0103n com d\u1ecdn m\u00e2m, k\u00ea gh\u1ebf... L\u00e0m t\u1ed1t nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111i h\u1ecdc, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kinh ng\u1ea1c. S\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0y! \u0110\u1eebng d\u00f9ng quan ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00ea \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 con tr\u1ebb Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i 3 tu\u1ed5i, con th\u01b0\u00f2ng xuy\u00ean gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhung l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. K \u1ec3 cho con nghe chuy\u1ec7n \u201cKh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u00f2ng l\u00ea\u201d^1), mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, chia s\u1ebb v&i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7, nh\u01b0ng con l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i: \u201cCon th\u00edch qu\u1ea3 to c\u01a1, con mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn qu\u1ea3 to\u201d. Khi \u0111i m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o, c\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ch\u00e1u c\u00f2n \u201cl\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m\u201d \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, b\u1ea3o v\u00f3i con kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng con v\u1eabn r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m sao m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3gi\u00fap con s\u1eeda t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y? Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ea v\u00e0 B\u1ea1n John tranh t\u00e1o N\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ea, t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u Kh\u1ed5ng Dung m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kh\u1ed5ng Dung l\u00e0 ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00f2i th\u1ee9 20 c\u1ee7a Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed, nh\u01b0ng n\u0103m 43 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea3o to\u00e0n t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i b\u1ecf roi v\u1ef1. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn. Kh\u1ed5ng Dung v\u00ec trung th\u00e0nh v\u00f3i nh\u00e0 H\u00e1n m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eafc t\u1ed9i v\u00f3i Vi\u00ean Thi\u1ec7u, gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ea5t b\u1ecb qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Vi\u00ean Thi\u1ec7u truy \u0111u\u1ed5i. V\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfng t\u0103m lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1m \u0111\u1ea1m, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, Kh\u1ed5ng Dung v\u1eabn c\u00f3 g\u1eafng gi\u1ea3 b\u1ed9 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ng\u00e2m th\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a Vi\u00ean Thi\u1ec7u^2) ph\u00e1 th\u00e0nh, Kh\u1ed5ng Dung m\u00f3i tr\u1ed1n \u0111i d\u01b0\u1edbi s\u1ef1 y\u1ec3m h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n t\u00edn, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 hai con trai c\u1ee7a Kh\u1ed5ng Dung \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf m\u1ea1ng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 l\u00ea \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1eadt hay kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a kh\u1ea3o ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0: M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u01b0\u201d, sau khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5ng nam nhi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu v\u00f3i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ea. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nguy\u00ean th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb 4 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111ang \u1edf trong th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u00f4ng sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00f4 nh\u1ecb b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i - v\u1ecb k\u1ef7, hay n\u00f3i theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecbu thi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i nh\u00fan nh\u01b0\u1eddng? \u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ea c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tranh","\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i c\u00e1c anh ch\u1ecb, n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ecf d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c cha m\u1eb9 khen ng\u1ef1i? Tuy kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00e1u b\u00e9 tu\u1ed5i c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft gi\u1ea5u l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u00e9o nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u201cgi\u00e0 d\u1eb7n\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cs\u00e0nh s\u1ecfi\u201d t\u00f3i m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ef1. Ch\u00fang ta th\u00edch s\u1ef1 \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng n\u00ean cho ph\u00e9p s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh v\u1ecb k\u1ef7 n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 l\u1ef1i v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i. Ph\u01b0ong T\u00e2y c\u00f3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n B\u1ea1n John tranh t\u00e1o. Chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u00ean l\u00e0 John. Khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, m\u1eb9 John c\u1ea7m 3 qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng nhau, John v\u00e0 c\u00e1c em \u0111\u1ec1u tranh qu\u1ea3 to. M\u1eb9 li\u1ec1n gi\u01a1 qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o ch\u00edn m\u1ecdng v\u00e0 to nh\u1ea5t l\u00ean cao r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u00e1c con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o to ngon nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u1ea3, ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u00e2y? Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng thi nh\u00e9, m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd chia th\u1ea3m c\u1ecf tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e0 ra th\u00e0nh ba ph\u1ea7n, ba anh em c\u00e1c con m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1eaft m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n, ai c\u1eaft nhanh nh\u1ea5t, g\u1ecdn nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o n\u00e0y s\u1ebd thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 John l\u00e0m nhanh nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 g\u1ecdn nh\u1ea5t, c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o to. Kh\u1ed5ng Dung nh\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ea v\u00e0 B\u1ea1n John tranh t\u00e1o th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ph\u01b0ong \u0110\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u01b0ong T\u00e2y, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u00f2i \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0y. Tuy nhi\u00ean, trong th\u00f2i \u0111\u1ea1i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201cl\u1ecbch s\u1ef1\u201d, \u201cqu\u00ean m\u00ecnh\u201d v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u0103n d\u1ea1y con tr\u1ebb. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u201cl\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m Cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra tr\u1ebb l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c cho r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi \u201ctr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp\u201d, nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc tra h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 x\u1eed ph\u1ea1t n\u1eb7ng, v\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec \u0103n tr\u1ed9m m\u00e0 \u0111i l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 do trong l\u00f2ng kh\u00e1t khao c\u00f3 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00f3, \u201cC\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 con kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3\u201d, \u201cC\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 con th\u00edch\u201d, \u201cCon mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3\u201d... Ni\u1ec1m mong m\u1ecfi n\u00e0y th\u00f4i th\u00fac tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh vi \u201cl\u1ea5y\u201d. Th\u1ef1c ra, trong l\u00f2ng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n hay kh\u00f4ng, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Jean-Jacques Rousseaute) \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t mi\u1ebfng b\u00e1nh ng\u1ecdt cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, khi tr\u1ebb l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng, cho r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4n ngoan, l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111em c\u00e1i l\u1ef1i v\u1ec1 cho m\u00ecnh. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u01b0ong cho con trong l\u00f2i n\u00f3i v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m, k\u1ecbp th\u00f2i \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u00f9y c\u01a1\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con tr\u1ebb, g\u1ee3i m\u1edf cho tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft \u201cquy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a con\u201d, con c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp; \u201c\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f9y \u00fd l\u1ea5y v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d - \u201cb\u1ea1n\u201d, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ebb th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cSao con l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? Nh\u01b0 th \u1ebfl\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngoan \u0111\u00e2u\u201d. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00f2i ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00f2i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u00f3i quan ni\u1ec7m \u201cm\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 em b\u00e9 ngoan\u201d. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 choi c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, con ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n cho ph\u00e9p m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01b0\u1ee3n v\u1ec1 choi, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd th\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y\u201d.","H\u00e3y cho ph\u00e9p tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ecd*c s\u1ecf* h\u1eefu ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 choi c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb h\u1ecd v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecb h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e0, b\u00e1c g\u00e1i li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb con, ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd th\u00ec b\u00e1c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho con m\u01b0\u1ee3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y xem. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ecb v\u1eabn c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng th\u00ec b\u00e1c s\u1ebd mua c\u00e1i kh\u00e1c cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i: \u201cSao m\u1eb9 con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ef1i con \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd m\u00e0 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a con cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1ec9?\u201d. B\u00e1c g\u00e1i li\u1ec1n c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea3o v\u00f3i m\u1eb9 con l\u00e0 t\u1eeb sau ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a con\u201d. C\u1eadu b\u00e9 li\u1ec1n n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cquy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d. Sau khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ebb v\u1eeba c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 \u201cquy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u201cquy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tinh th\u1ea7n ch\u00ednh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 mang v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111on gi\u1ea3n, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i \u201cth\u1ea3o\u201d, \u201cv\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n. Mu\u1ed1n cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y th\u00ec bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu ri\u00eang m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3. \u1ede giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. \u201c\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang con\u201d, m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 thu\u1ed9c s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng th\u00f2i gian, s\u1ee9c lao \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb b\u1ecf ra v\u00ec m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ecdi \u1eaft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1i sau. N\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cN\u1ebfu em b\u00fap b\u00ea c\u1ee7a con b\u1ecb b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c l\u1ea5y \u0111i, con c\u00f3 gi\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ed3 choi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n Minh b\u1ecb con l\u1ea5y \u0111i, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. \u0110\u1ea1o l\u00fd \u201ct\u1eeb b\u1ee5ng ta suy ra b\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn, v\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra tr\u1ebb l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tr\u1ebb s\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y m\u00e0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u201cB\u1ea1n \u1ea5y cho con\u201d... Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfn d\u00f9ng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft tr\u1ebb khai th\u1eadt, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 con \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, l\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!\u201d. Sau khi tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m sai, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb t\u1ef1 \u0111i tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed3 cho b\u1ea1n, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u00f4m \u0111\u1ed3m l\u1ed7i cho tr\u1ebb, thay tr\u1ebb g\u00e1nh v\u00e1c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0a tr\u1ebb \u0111i tr\u1ea3 c\u00f9ng. L\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y d\u1ea1y tr\u1ebb c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i n\u00f3i l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1: \u201cXin l\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 t\u1edb \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 choi, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u1edb g\u1eedi l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n cho t\u1edb xin l\u1ed7i nh\u00e9\u201d. N\u1ebfu m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cSau n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu con mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 g\u00ec, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecdp l\u00fd th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd mua cho con. Nh\u01b0ng con ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng","\u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1ea5y\u201d. N\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn gi\u1ea3ng gi\u1ea3i cho tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u l\u00fd do, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb vui m\u00e0 t\u00f9y ti\u1ec7n h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef l\u00f2i. N\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cquy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u201cquy\u1ec1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta mong mu\u1ed1n g\u1eedi g\u1eafm ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u1ecb tha, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea1i quang minh trong kho b\u00e1u tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ef3. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 \u201c\u00edch k\u1ef7\u201d c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a l\u00f2ng \u201cv\u1ecb tha\u201d mang t\u00ednh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0o t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n \u0111\u00f3. S\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf l\u00f2i n\u00f3i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Ch\u1ec9 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt, tr\u1ebb m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f3i quen trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111on thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen tr\u00ean tay. \u201cCon nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o \u201dt\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 do ch\u00e2 m\u1eb9 Con t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p 7, trong \u1ec9&p c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u1ecf, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c quy\u1ec1n. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n k\u1ec9nh t\u1ebf b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u1ec9\u01b0ong c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i lo cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Con c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111ua \u0111\u00f2i g\u00ec, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp trong l\u00f3p c\u1ee7ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n h\u1ecdp ph\u1ee5 huynh ho\u1eb7c tham gia ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong l\u00f3p, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t \u00e1y n\u00e1y v&i con, c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 con v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ti. Theo ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 gi\u00fap con tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng? Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u00f3*i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ee9n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n mang l\u1ea1i cho con \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cha m\u1eb9. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi tr\u1ebb \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1ea7m non, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c giai t\u1ea7ng ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n. Qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o c\u00e1c b\u00e9 m\u1eb7c, \u0111\u1ed3 choi c\u00e1c b\u00e9 choi, xe cha m\u1eb9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf trong \u0111\u00f2i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i thu nh\u1ecf, ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 giao l\u01b0u, so s\u00e1nh, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1 gi\u1ea3 ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u201cnh\u00e0 t\u1edb ngh\u00e8o\u201d, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec \u201cnh\u00e0 t\u1edb gi\u00e0u\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y, lo ng\u1ea1i tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd v\u00ec ngh\u00e8o m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ti. Th\u1ef1c ra, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, con m\u1eaft quan s\u00e1t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u0169ng kh\u00e1c v\u00f3i ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd so s\u00e1nh v\u00f3i nhau, nh\u01b0ng khi choi \u0111\u00f9a v\u00f3i nhau, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o, m\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 chung s\u1edf th\u00edch. C\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u1ebb v\u00ec \u201cgiai t\u1ea7ng\u201d m\u00e0 n\u1ea3y sinh t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u1ef1 ki\u00eau ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 ti, th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 t\u00e2m th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u1ebb.","\u201c Con nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o\u201d t\u1ef1 ti l\u00e0 do cha m\u1eb9 B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f3i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nghe n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u00e1t minh ra \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 k\u1ef3 th\u1ecb trong nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb con nh\u00e0 gi\u00e0u v\u00e0 con nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o c\u1ed5ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd qu\u00ean \u0111i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 nhau. Tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u1eeda sau theo b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n tr\u1ebb v\u00e0o c\u1ed5ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u bi ai c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f3t \u00fd th\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y hay h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c, v\u1ebb t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd thu\u1ea7n h\u00f3a s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t do kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o \u0111em l\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti \u1edf tr\u1ebb con nh\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb, m\u00e0 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp tr\u00ean c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, n\u00f3 b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i tinh th\u1ea7n trong n\u1ed9i b\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn tr\u1ebb b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft s\u1ef1 v\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 ti. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u00e1m th\u1ecb v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd. Th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng quan t\u00e2m, c\u00e0ng lo ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 con th\u00ec tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon \u1ea1, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng s\u1ef1 ngh\u00e8o, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n con h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, sau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1ea5y c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng b\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u!\u201d, nghe th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111ang kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111ang nh\u1eafc con v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t gi\u00e0u ngh\u00e8o gi\u1eefa con v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00e1c trong l\u00f3p v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh s\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ho*n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i M\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u00ean quy m\u00f4 l\u1edbn v\u00f3i h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ea5p hai v\u00e0 ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u tra cho th\u1ea5y, tr\u1ebb gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb gia \u0111\u00ecnh kinh t\u1ebf kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn trong c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac... Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdp ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m th\u1ebf t\u1ed1t, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed1t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, so v\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 c\u1ea5p hai. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 quen m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n xu\u1ea5t th\u00e2n b\u1ea7n h\u00e0n \u1edf n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khoa h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t, tinh th\u1ea7n vui v\u1ebb, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, t\u1ef1 tin nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5. T\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1edbn, gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1eb9 anh \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f4ng th\u00f4n t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, nu\u00f4i con b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, than kh\u1ed5, trao cho con t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng. M\u1ed7i d\u1ecbp t\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn, con c\u00e1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c, \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n ngon \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n, m\u1eb9 anh th\u00ec lu\u00f4n gi\u1eb7t s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o cho c\u00e1c con, l\u00e0m s\u1ee7i c\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ecbt r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0103n th\u1ecbt nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00e8m, c\u01a1m d\u1ebbo canh ng\u1ecdt l\u00e0 ngon","nh\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i\u201d. Anh n\u00f3i: \u201cD\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 anh ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y m\u1eb9 anh n\u00f3i nh\u00e0 anh ngh\u00e8o, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 do m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh b\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu h\u1ebft c\u00e1i ngh\u00e8o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0ong d\u00e0nh cho anh em anh\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c gia c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1, cha l\u00e0 c\u00e1n b\u1ed9 ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1 cao trong qu\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9i, m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1edbn, tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i s\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i \u00f4ng b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i, sau khi \u0111i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00f3i cha m\u1eb9. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch, l\u1edbn l\u00ean kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n r\u1ea5t k\u00e9m, nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tin, g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t xa x\u1ec9 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. M\u1ed7i b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111em l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho \u0111\u1ee9a con y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, tuy nhi\u00ean, trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o v\u1ec1 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 c\u00e1c nhu y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho sinh ho\u1ea1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi xa hoa nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u00e1i m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t m\u00e3i m\u00e3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. \u1ede nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7, \u1edf gia \u0111\u00ecnh ngh\u00e8o ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebfu, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mua \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c. S\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, l\u1ea1c quan, ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c sinh ra tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y.","Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng IO H\u1eb5\u1ef5 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 t\u00e1 \u0111\u1eafc l\u1ef1c gi\u00fap con trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac \u1edf b\u00ean con, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u201c\u0111\u1ea5u tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ea5u d\u0169ng\u201d! R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u201cmun k \u1ec3 \u2019 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201ct\u00ednh to\u00e1n\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e0m h\u1ed3n tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft g\u00ec, h\u00e3y x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u201cng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng tinh th\u1ea7n\u201d cho tr\u1ebb, t\u00edch l\u0169y cho tr\u1ebb ngu\u1ed3n \u201ct\u00e0i s\u1ea3n\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1ecfng l\u1ecdi su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i. \u0110\u1eebngph\u00f3 th\u1eafc tr\u1ebb cho c\u1eafcl\u1edbp h\u1ecdc th\u00eam h\u00e8 Con t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay h\u1ecdc l\u00f3p 6, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp trong l\u00f3p c\u1ee7a con r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con m\u1ea5y l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc th\u00eam trong h\u00e8, nh\u01b0ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m d\u1ea1y th\u00eam tr\u00e0n lan, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u1ebfn\u00e0o? H\u1ecdc th\u00eam khi \u201ch\u1ed5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c\u201d Hi\u1ec7n nay, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh tranh th\u1ee7 k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con \u0111i h\u1ecdc \u1edf c\u00e1c l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc th\u00eam b\u1edfi suy ngh\u0129 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i h\u1ecdc, n\u1ebfu con m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao? C\u0169ng ch\u00ednh th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m d\u1ea1y th\u00eam kh\u00e1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, khi\u1ebfn k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 khi tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb h\u1ed5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong ch\u01b0ong tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc m\u00f3i c\u1ea7n \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam trong k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8: S\u1ef1 h\u1ed5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 \u1ed1m ph\u1ea3i ngh\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, khi\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u1edf ph\u1ea7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n sau kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u00f3i nhau, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u1edf b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u201ch\u1ecdc b\u00f9\u201d. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f2i gia s\u01b0, \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam \u1edf c\u00e1c trung t\u00e2m, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00f2i c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o d\u1ea1y m\u00f4n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1edbm \u201cv\u00e1\u201d l\u1ea1i m\u1ea3ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c \u0111ang b\u1ecb h\u1ed5ng, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb theo \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed9i dung gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ed7 h\u1ed5ng c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng lan r\u1ed9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc th\u00eam n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n nh\u1eb1m v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 l\u00f3p n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd l\u00f3p \u0111\u00f3, v\u1eeba g\u00e2y \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho tr\u1ebb, v\u1eeba t\u1ed1n ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1n \u0111\u1ed3ng vi\u1ec7c trong k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u00eam cho con m\u00ecnh m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00e1u c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p cho tr\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb","th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t hay k\u00e9m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb d\u00e0nh h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc m\u1ea5y cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa. Th\u1ef1c ra v\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u201c\u1edf l\u00f3p ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe gi\u1ea3ng, v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp\\\" th\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n s\u1ebd n\u1eafm v\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c n\u1ed9i dung trong ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ebb do kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai y\u00eau c\u1ea7u n\u00e0y n\u00ean d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ecb t\u1ee5t h\u1eadu. \u201cBa m\u1edf\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ee9i tr\u1ebb T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd cho con tham gia c\u00e1c l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc th\u00eam h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c n\u1ed9i dung trong s\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o khoa nh\u01b0 Ng\u1eef v\u0103n, To\u00e1n..., tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec3m thi c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do ngay t\u1eeb khi con c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00fa \u00fd b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc cho con, tr\u00ean l\u00f3p ch\u00fa \u00fd nghe gi\u1ea3ng, tan h\u1ecdc nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a con nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o, th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i - bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8, ngh\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f4ng, con s\u1ebd \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d. Mong r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc th\u00eam trong k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb h\u1ed5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u201cba m\u1edf\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb - m\u1edf ra ngo\u00e0i ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc, m\u1edf ra t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, m\u1edf ra x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u00ea\u2019 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch h\u01a1n, trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecdc ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1edf mang, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n sinh phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n; h\u00f2a m\u00ecnh v\u00f3i thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng giai \u0111i\u1ec7u sinh m\u1ec7nh k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u, tuy\u1ec7t v\u00f2i c\u1ee7a gi\u00f3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0m phong ph\u00fa t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft cho tr\u1ebb; m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea1m vi s\u1ed1ng cho tr\u1ebb, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng cho tr\u1ebb c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac, giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, h\u00e3y cho tr\u1ebb tham gia c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea7u tr\u00f2i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, c\u00e1ch s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp trong k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb h\u01a1n. Tr\u1ebb bi\u00eat ch\u01a1i m\u1edbi bi\u1ec3th\u1ecdc Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l\u1ed1p 3, ham choi, r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng minh, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u00f2rng. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn ngh\u1ec9 h\u00e8, cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u0103ng k\u00fd l\u00f3p h\u1ecdc th\u00eam cho con nh\u01b0ng con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu. \u1edeph\u1ea7n 1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, H\u1ea1 D\u01b0cmg c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: \u201cEm l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l&n l\u00ean qua c\u1ea5c tr\u00f2 choi, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ham h\u1ecdc hcrn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f9ng trang l\u1ee9a\u201d. Xin h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m th\u1ebfn\u00e0o m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 con tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c choi nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp? \u201cB\u1eaft con l\u00e0m\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ccon mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m\u201d C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng: C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 s\u1ed1ng \u1eed g\u00f3c qu\u1ea3ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y th\u00f9ng s\u1eaftph\u1ebfli\u1ec7u. Nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc sinh ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc n\u1ecd ng\u00e0y ng\u00e0y \u0111i h\u1ecdc, tan h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i qua qu\u1ea3ng tr\u01b0\u00f2mg, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111i qua \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o c\u1ea5c th\u00f9ng s\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m ni\u1ec1m vui. \u00d4ng c\u1ee5 m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh tim n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e2m thanh \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u1ecd, \u00f4ng li\u1ec1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i ch\u00fang: \u201c\u00d4ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch nghe ti\u1ebfng c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng, t\u1eeb nay tr\u1edf \u0111i, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u00f4ng","cho c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u 1 \u0111\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e1 th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o nh\u00e9\u201d. \u0110\u00e1m tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n kh\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00e1 c\u00e0ng h\u0103ng say hom. Trong \u1ec9\u00fac ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e1, \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 li\u1ec1n tr\u1ed1n \u0111i ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n sau, \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u00f4ng \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3cho c\u1ea5c ch\u00e1u 5 h\u00e0o th\u00f4i\u201d. \u0110\u00e1m h\u1ecdc sinh m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng vui l\u1eafm, nhumg v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng v\u00ec ngh\u0129 d\u00f9 g\u00ec c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n v\u1eabn hom l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. L\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n n\u1eefa tr\u00f4i qua, \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb: \u201cHi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng cho c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u n\u1eefa, nhumg \u00f4ng v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe c\u00e1c ch\u00e1u \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng\u201d. \u0110\u00e1m tr\u1ebb b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i lu\u00f4n. V\u1eady l\u00e0 \u00f4ng l\u00e3o l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quay v\u1ec1 v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng y\u00ean \u1ed5n. \u00d4ng c\u1ee5 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc sinh t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00e0nh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ea1o ra thu nh\u1eadp. Khi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m vui th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, sau khi \u0111\u00e1m tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e1 th\u00f9ng v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng cho ti\u1ec1n n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00e1 n\u1eefa. S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a \u201cb\u1eaft con l\u00e0m\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ccon mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m\u201d l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u0169ng v\u1eady, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1i \u201cb\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc\u201d c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i \u201ccon mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc\u201d c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01a1i, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m say m\u00ea h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. G\u00ecn gi\u1eef \u201c\u0111\u1ed9ng co* t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u201d cho tr\u1ebb trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft cho*i m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 ch\u1eebng 5 tu\u1ed5i \u0111ang x\u00e2y nh\u00e0 cho b\u00fap b\u00ea trong v\u01b0\u1eddn hoa m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i nh\u1ec5 nh\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u00f4 b\u00e9. Thi\u1ebft ngh\u0129, n\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 k\u00eau la ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft \u00e9p c\u00f4 b\u00e9 th\u00ec li\u1ec7u b\u00e9 c\u00f3 ch\u01a1i say s\u01b0a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9m sinh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng \u0111am m\u00ea h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Em b\u00e9 m\u1ea5y tu\u1ed5i h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng l\u1ee5c t\u1ee7 l\u1ee5c b\u00e0n, v\u1ebd linh tinh tr\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng... Tr\u1ebb \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1eady? Tr\u1ebb \u0111ang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u201ch\u1ecdc\u201d. \u201cCh\u01a1i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc\u201d. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u201ch\u1ecdc\u201d kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe gi\u1ea3ng tr\u00ean l\u00f3p, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp v\u00f3i nhu c\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cung c\u1ea5p cho tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ba c\u00e2u \u201c\u0110\u1ecdc ng\u00e0n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, \u0111i ng\u00e0n d\u1eb7m \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, giao l\u01b0u v\u00f3i ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d, bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp cho tr\u1ebb, khi\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng ham h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 tr\u00ed t\u00f2 m\u00f2 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb mai m\u1ed9t. Trong quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n \u201cu\u1ed1n n\u1eafn\u201d tr\u1ebb ngh\u1ecbch ng\u1ee3m v\u00e0 hi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, s\u1ef1 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u201cu\u1ed1n n\u1eafn\u201d n\u00e0y. T\u1eeb h\u1ecdc v\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9, v\u00ec th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00ec thi c\u1eed. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh mong mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh ham h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 th\u00f4ng minh trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00f3i tr\u00ean: D\u00f9ng m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch mang t\u00ednh v\u1ee5 l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u, \u00f4ng c\u1ee5 trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 \u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n, c\u00f2n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng. H\u1ee9ng th\u00fa l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd suy ki\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. T\u00ednh t\u1ed3 m\u00f2, ham hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft b\u1ea9m sinh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e0y m\u00f2 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, l\u00e0 lu\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9c","m\u1ea1nh gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u1eaft con h\u1ecdc\u201d th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, ho\u1eb7c k\u1ef3 thi \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng t\u1ee5t l\u00f9i ngay. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u00f3m h\u1ecdc sinh b\u1ecb c\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u201c\u1ee7ng h\u1ed9\u201d t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m n\u1eefa. Ham ch\u01a1i v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con v\u00e0 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u con, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u0169ng lo l\u1eafng, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a con khi con kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111i h\u1ecdc th\u00eam, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Theo t\u00f4i, khi con c\u00f2n \u0111ang h\u1ecdc ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 coi tr\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, trong nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u201ch\u1ecdc t\u1eadp\u201d b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00e1c nhau, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c ch\u01a1i h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh. L\u00ean c\u1ea5p hai, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u0111em l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i cho tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n. Theo t\u00f4i, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t v\u1eeba l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, \u0111\u1ec3 sau khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c trong ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u00f4 b\u1edd, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd t\u00edch l\u0169y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t gi\u00fap \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i: ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, bi\u1ebft kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, bi\u1ebft v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh, th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c... l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a v\u0103n h\u00f3a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau duy nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ed1t, m\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t gi\u00fap \u00edch cho tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch l\u0169y sau nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy, ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n, \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u00f2i r\u1ea1ng r\u1ee1, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u201cH\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m r\u1ed9ng\u201d, \u201ctr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft ch\u01a1i m\u00f3i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc\u201d. N\u00f4 \u0111\u00f9a c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gieo h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vui t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y m\u1ea7m, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i tr\u1ebb. Ch\u1ee9ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong thi c\u1eed Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i n\u0103m nay 15 tu\u1ed5i, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3i, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0&c k\u1ef3 th\u1ec9 l\u1ea1i t\u1ecf ra h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111\u00f4i \u1ec9\u00fac \u0111i\u1ec3m thi r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n con r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, t\u00f4i v\u1eeba th\u01b0ong con v\u1eeba lo l\u1eafng. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111\u00eam ng\u1ee7 tr\u1eb1n tr\u1ecdc, ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tinh th\u1ea7n. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1ecfng t\u1eeb m\u1eb9 hay kh\u00f4ng? Trong ph\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft \u201cbi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch th\u1ec9 c\u1eed c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t\u201d, xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebfn\u00e0o? Mu\u1ed1n con thay \u0111\u1ed5i, m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean","C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n. Con g\u00e1i lu\u00f4n g\u1ea7n g\u0169i v\u00f3i m\u1eb9, d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m s\u00e2u s\u1eafc trong suy ngh\u0129, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u01b0ong \u0111\u1ed3ng, m\u1eb9 truy\u1ec1n cho con t\u00ednh hay lo c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 6 tu\u1ed5i, r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng, n\u1ebfu khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1ea7n g\u0169i nh\u1ea5t v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, th\u00ec tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u00e2m l\u00fd g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c. Con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n 15 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 b\u00e9, thi c\u1eed l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 con quan t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t, do \u0111\u00f3, hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9ng lo l\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc thi c\u1eed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u00f4 b\u00e9 v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Mu\u1ed1n con thay \u0111\u1ed5i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i trung ni\u00ean, t\u00e2m l\u00fd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec con, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n thi c\u1eed, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng con. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u201ct\u1ef1 l\u1ed9t x\u00e1c\u201d cho m\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 18 tu\u1ed5i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin k\u00edch th\u00edch tr\u1ebb thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. V\u00ec con, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ea1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh hay lo c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y lan r\u1ed9ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00e1 coi tr\u1ecdng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thi c\u1eed, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng lu\u00f4n mi\u1ec7ng nh\u1eafc con: \u201cS\u1eafp thi r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y, con ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7 s\u00f3m \u0111i\u201d, \u201cS\u1eafp thi r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eebng m\u1ea3i choi n\u1eefa\u201d, \u201cG\u1ea7n thi r\u1ed3i, nh\u1edb \u0103n u\u1ed1ng cho c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, ch\u00fa \u00fd dinh d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con \u1ea1\u201d... S\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9. Cha m\u1eb9 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 lo l\u1eafng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb. Tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 cha m\u1eb9 \u0111ang c\u00f3, \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng lo con c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong thi c\u1eed, c\u00e0ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef3 thi c\u1ee7a con th\u00ec con c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin, con c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh lo l\u1eafng th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u00fap con theo \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 m\u1eafc t\u00ednh hay lo th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0129\u1ea7n n\u1eefa truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng lo l\u1eafng th\u00f4ng qua h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u201cgi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1\u201d con v\u00f3i \u201c\u00fd t\u1ed1t\u201d. M\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 con c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi, b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y con \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: \u201cCon \u0111\u1eebng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, sao \u0111\u00eam qua con ng\u1ee7 mu\u1ed9n th\u1ebf? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u1ea1i lo l\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. V\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u00ecn con g\u00e1i b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean con s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u00e1m th\u1ecb v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ra ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc ki\u1ebfn ngh\u1ecb, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a con: \u201cC\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, con xem tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi thi \u0111\u1ea5u, c\u00e1c v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 cu\u1ed9c thi n\u00e0o, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng m\u00f3i gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9ng ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch thi \u0111\u1ea5u cao h\u01a1n ng\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d. C\u00f9ng con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, t\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cV\u1ecb anh h\u00f9ng \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 sau khi nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c v\u1eabn y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh\u201d. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh","\u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y. S\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed xem. T\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y l\u00e2u d\u00e0i H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lo l\u1eafng, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00ec s\u1ee3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 thi kh\u00f4ng cao. L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u hon \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec3m s\u1ed1. \u201cBi\u1ebft thi c\u1eed c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t\u201d, t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 t\u00edch l\u0169y l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t thi c\u1eed c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ec1n gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u201cth\u00ed sinh\u201d m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u201ch\u1ecdc sinh\u201d, \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. H\u1ecdc t\u1eadp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u00edch l\u0169y c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c trong s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u0111a d\u1ea1ng h\u00f3a, \u0111a c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt. Cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf tr\u1ebb \u201c\u0111\u1ecdc linh tinh\u201d, t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch ngo\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cho tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u0169ng gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb li\u00ean h\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u0103m ch\u00fa nghe gi\u1ea3ng trong gi\u1edd h\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc v\u1eb9t, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ghi ch\u00e9p l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb trong v\u1edf ghi b\u00e0i c\u1ee7a H\u1ea1 D\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u0103m x\u01b0a th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0u m\u1ef1c. H\u00f4m sau con mang nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u0111i h\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y c\u00f4, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 g\u1ee3i m\u1edf v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb v\u1ee1 l\u1ebd ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng sau khi tan h\u1ecdc, con c\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f2i gian v\u00e0o b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. M\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7n nay l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb b\u1ecb giao qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i t\u1eadp, chi\u1ebfm h\u1ebft c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi gian ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thi c\u1eed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u00f4n tr\u00fang t\u1ee7, \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea1o\u201d th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. \u201c\u0110\u1ea1o\u201d \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. Hi\u1ec7n nay, \u0111\u1ec1 thi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u0169ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh, t\u1eadp trung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ecdp v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecdc sinh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i quan ni\u1ec7m t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Khi con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p 8, Ng\u1eef V\u0103n, Ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng m\u00f4n To\u00e1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1ec9cm nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, 10 c\u00e2u th\u01b0\u1eddng con ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. Trong m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 th\u1ec9 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a qu\u1eadn, m\u00f4n To\u00e1n con ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 45 \u0111 i \u1ec3 m t r \u01b0 \u1edb c m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 trong l&p, th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh con gay g\u1eaft v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 k\u00e9o th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a l\u00f3p \u0111i xu\u1ed1ng, th\u1ea7y c\u00f2n b\u1ea3o \u201cC\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u\u201d, \u201cT\u00f4i ngh\u0129 sau n\u00e0y c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi \u0111\u1ed7 tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0o\u201d. Con r\u1ea5t","bu\u1ed3n, t\u00f4i c\u1ee7ng r\u1ea5t b\u1ef1c v\u00f3i th\u1ea7y, nhung l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m g\u1eb7p th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00f3p \u00fd, s\u1ee3 sau n\u00e0y th\u1ea7y c\u00e0ng g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 d\u1ec5 cho con hon. Kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con b\u1eb1ng s\u1ecf* tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con C\u00f9ng l\u00e0 m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con t\u00e2m l\u00fd lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u201ctruy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5m\u201d, v\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m thi kh\u00f4ng cao v\u00e0 b\u1ecb th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t an v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng \u00e1y n\u00e1y, v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c \u00e9p do s\u1ef1 \u201c\u00e1y n\u00e1y\u201d n\u00e0y g\u00e2y ra s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn hon. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 th\u00eam. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u201cth\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c\u201d, d\u00f9ng \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 con t\u1ef1 tin. M\u00f4n Ng\u1eef v\u0103n, Ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef con h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 con c\u00f3 th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh trong c\u00e1c m\u00f4n ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng \u201cs\u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap con x\u00f3a \u0111i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n do \u201cs\u1edf \u0111o\u1ea3n\u201d g\u00e2y n\u00ean. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u00f3i con r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a con, tuy nhi\u00ean qua \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f9ng con th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o. Ph\u01b0ong th\u1ee9c t\u01b0 duy \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0ong m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c g\u00e2y ra cho m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u201cl\u00e0m g\u01b0ong\u201d t\u1ed1t gi\u00fap con gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 sau n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng con \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c quan, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed, truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn con t\u00e2m l\u00fd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eebng trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ee9i gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f3i th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o c\u1ee7a con, th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00f3i th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng hon c\u1ea3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00f3i th\u1ea7y r\u1eb1ng r\u1ea5t th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, th\u1ea7y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00ec lo cho con. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd gi\u00fap th\u1ea7y ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a con v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m l\u00fd, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u201cth\u1ef1c d\u1ee5ng\u201d trong c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00f3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c h\u1ecdc sinh, nh\u01b0ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, th\u1ea7y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng h\u1ecdc sinh h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi, nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh v\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh. S\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng th\u1ea7y t\u00ecm ra nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh t\u00edch m\u00f4n To\u00e1n c\u1ee7a con k\u00e9m, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 do b\u1ecb h\u1ed5ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed5 sung ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ef1p; n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 do kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0 duy logic c\u1ee7a con t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i y\u1ebfu th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edd th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a con tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t con m\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a con, gi\u00fap con tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ef1 tin hon, k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1i \u0111a \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ef1c ra, m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t huy th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu cho m\u00ecnh. Howard Gardner \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft \u0111a th\u00f4ng minh. \u00d4ng cho r\u1eb1ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e1m d\u1ea1ng th\u00f4ng minh c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef,","logic - to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh - kh\u00f4ng gian, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng, quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp, n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, quan s\u00e1t thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n th\u1eed xem c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng trong c\u00e1c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c nhau trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed nh\u01b0 Winston Churchill^2), Mozart, Picasso, A.Einstein, Michel Jordan(3)? Martin King(4) v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 Platon, ai \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d hon? L\u00fd thuy\u1ebft \u0111a th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a Howard Gardner d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u201ck\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cth\u00f4ng minh\u201d, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y khi cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi To\u00e1n, V\u1eadt l\u00fd, H\u00f3a h\u1ecdc m\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng con th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o m\u00ecnh, t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00e2m l\u00fd lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 v\u00f3i con c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m b\u00f3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1eb1ng sau tam l\u00fd hi\u00eau th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Con g\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc l&p 3, th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t nhung l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng. Thi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00ccOO \u0111i\u1ec3m, con v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 kh\u00f3c, khuy\u00ean nh\u1ee7 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nghe, m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y li\u1ec1n t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ee9a ch\u00e1u con em trai t\u00f4i th\u00ec l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u1ec9 t\u1ed1t hay thi k\u00e9m \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau, m\u1eb9 ch\u00e1u n\u00f3i: \u201cCon xem ch\u1ecb con th\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u00ccOO \u0111i\u1ec3m quy\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u00f9i b\u01b0\u1edbc, con c\u1ee9 an ph\u1eadn th\u1ebf n\u00e0y th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y l\u00e0m sao c\u1ea1nh tranh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f3i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i?\u201d, ch\u00e1u ch\u1ec9 c\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, v\u1eeba th\u1ea5y m\u1eebng v\u00ec con c\u00f3 ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee7ng r\u1ea5t lo sau n\u00e0y con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00edch v\u1ebb b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, \u0111i\u1ec1m nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u t\u00f4i. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111 \u1ec3 b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u00f5ng cho con kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf, v\u1eeba bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, v\u1eeba bi\u1ebft ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i? Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y: M\u1ed9t c\u1eadu b\u00e9 6 tu\u1ed5i choi c\u1edd v\u00f3i ba, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 thua, thua r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng \u201cqu\u00e2n t\u1eed\u201d, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u1ec1u m\u00f4i r\u1ed3i b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha li\u1ec1n n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u: \u201cCon trai g\u00ec m\u00e0 m\u00edt \u01b0\u00f3t th\u1ebf, choi ti\u1ebfp ch\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3c?\u201d, c\u1eadu b\u00e9 \u0111\u00f3 li\u1ec1n h\u1ea5t b\u00e0n c\u1edd l\u00ean. Cha c\u1eadu kh\u00f3c d\u1edf m\u1ebfu d\u1edf, c\u00f2n t\u00f4i v\u00f3i t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u suy ngh\u0129. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00f2i n\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1eafng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thua, s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb g\u1eb7p trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c thi s\u1ebd c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi sau n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea1nh tranh ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 g\u00ec th\u00ec hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Do \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng, con g\u00e1i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u00e9 c\u1ea7u ti\u1ebfn trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1c, nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00e1u trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft c\u1ea7n kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ed ti\u1ebfn th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1u, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u00f3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m l\u00fd hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9, t\u0103ng c\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ef1t qua v\u1ea5p v\u1ea5p, tr\u1eafc tr\u1edf cho c\u00f4 b\u00e9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 tr\u1ebb, kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u00e0nh v\u1ecb tr\u00ed th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf m\u00f3i c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n","c\u1ea1nh tranh, coi nh\u1eb9 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. D\u1ee5c v\u1ecdng mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng lan r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ea1nh tranh, s\u1ef1 gi\u1ecfi giang, xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c \u0111oan \u1ecf*m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng b\u1ecb cha m\u1eb9 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c trong th\u1ebf gi\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u00f2 choi v\u00e0 th\u00fa vui r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u0169ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ea1nh tranh ph\u00e2n chia c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9, b\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn. S\u1edf th\u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 choi gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n b\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, ni\u1ec1m vui h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c \u00e9p sinh t\u1ed3n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea1nh tranh. \u0110\u00e2y g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec7n nay. Tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, v \u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u0103m 3 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh. \u1ede th\u00f2i \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c th\u1ea9m th\u1ea5u, th\u1ea9m th\u1ea5u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu an to\u00e0n. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n, n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1 t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng, ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch th\u1eafng cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecbu thua c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch y\u00eau con c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o. C\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1eafng thua c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb Trong m\u1ea5y n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00f3i \u0111i h\u1ecdc, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng vui v\u1ebb ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua v\u00f3i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 qu\u00e2n t\u1eed, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n xem xem b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea1nh tranh qu\u00e2n t\u1eed hay kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn con d\u00f9 con th\u1eafng cu\u1ed9c hay thua cu\u1ed9c hay kh\u00f4ng? S\u1ef1 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eafng thua c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 vai tr\u00f2 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng cho con trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh c\u1ea1nh tranh. Khi tr\u1ebb c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi v\u1edbi con qua c\u00e1c tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Th\u00f4ng qua tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0o trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh thi \u0111\u1ea5u l\u00e0 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp. Cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eafng cu\u1ed9c, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua cu\u1ed9c. Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y v\u1ebb \u1ea5m \u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c th\u1ea5y con kh\u00f3c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u1edf tr\u00ean n\u00f3i: \u201cCon trai sao m\u00e0 k\u00e9m th\u1ebf\u201d, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cKh\u00e1 \u0111\u1ea5y, l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y cha \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng con, nh\u01b0ng cha ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng con r\u1ea5t c\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng, v\u00e1n sau con s\u1ebd c\u00f3 hy v\u1ecdng th\u1eafng cha \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. Khi \u0111\u00f3ng vai ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua cu\u1ed9c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y vui v\u1ebb b\u1eaft tay con v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cCh\u00fac m\u1eebng con, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 con r\u1ea5t xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc. Ta s\u1ebd ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t v\u00e1n n\u1eefa nh\u00e9\u201d. Th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecd s\u1ee9c giao h\u1eefu nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho tr\u1ebb trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eafng thua. N\u1ebfu trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ch\u01a1i, m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n thua con l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3c ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea5t b\u00e0n c\u1edd l\u00ean, cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ch\u01a1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh cho ri\u00eang tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, khoan dung s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, bao g\u1ed3m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u00e2m th\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb khi c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf s\u1ebd \u0111i theo tr\u1ebb su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1ea5m \u1ee9c, cay c\u00fa khi thua cu\u1ed9c, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m","tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i: \u201cTh\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c 100 \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00f4i m\u00e0? Sao ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? L\u1ea7n sau thi cho t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9 sao\u201d. Gi\u1ecdng \u0111i\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb c\u00e0ng bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c hon. Mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa t\u00e2m l\u00fd, s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i thuy\u1ebft gi\u00e1o, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00f3i suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u00f3i: \u201cM\u1eb9 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u con bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec b\u00e0i thi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c 100 \u0111i\u1ec3m, con n\u00f3i cho m\u1eb9 nghe xem con ngh\u0129 b\u00e0i n\u00e0o l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t?\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i thi, tr\u00fat b\u00e0y n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh ti\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i thi, m\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1eafng nghe tr\u1ebb n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ebfn khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u1ea5m \u1ee9c, bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i v\u00f3i tr\u1ebb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc thi \u0111\u1ea5u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi thua cu\u1ed9c trong tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ea7m m\u1eb7t gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eafng cu\u1ed9c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u01b0ong d\u01b0ong t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc, khoe khoang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n, l\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e2y tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ef1i th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f3i m\u00ecnh, t\u00ednh hi\u1ebfu th\u1eafng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n cho th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ef1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi, l\u00f2i n\u00f3i trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean bi\u1ec3u d\u01b0ong, khen ng\u1ef1i con tr\u1ebb qu\u00e1 l\u1eddi, m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00f2i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ecdp th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u00f2i c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho tr\u1ebb b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ch\u00fa \u00fd nhi\u1ec1u hon \u0111\u1ebfn \u01b0u \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i quan ni\u1ec7m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n tr\u1ebb ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c m\u01b0a d\u1ea7m th\u1ea5m l\u00e2u v\u00e0 l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t. V\u00ec sao con ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc? Con t\u00f4i \u0111ang h\u1ecdc c\u1ea5p ba, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec9 v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u01b0\u00f2ng c\u00f4ng l\u1eadp n\u00ean h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e2n l\u1eadp. Tuy nhi\u00ean trong gi\u00f2' h\u1ecdc, con nghe gi\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u00e0i, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch l\u1ea1i th\u1ea5y \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 n\u1ed9p gi\u1ea5y tr\u1eafng, kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111i h\u1ecdc, t\u00f4i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t. Xin h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, c\u1ea5p hai nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00ean c\u1ea5p ba, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u00f3i x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t th\u00f2i gian ng\u1eafn, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, e r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o k\u1ef9 x\u1ea3o l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 u\u1ed1n n\u1eafn ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Ch\u00ednh vi v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 v\u1ef1 ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u1ed5i c\u00e1u, r\u1ea7u r\u0129, c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tr\u00fat b\u1ef1c l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u con. V\u00ec c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng th\u00eam. Hi\u1ec7n nay, t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i\u1ec1u tra v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc \u1edf h\u1ecdc sinh c\u1ea5p hai l\u00ean t\u1edbi tr\u00ean 75%. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng em c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp k\u00e9m ch\u00e1n h\u1ecdc, m\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nh\u1eefng em c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch \u1edf t\u1ed1p \u0111\u1ea7u trong"]